Yasir Qadhi – Qur’anic Duas – Ramadan Khatirahs 2019 – Episode 20

Yasir Qadhi

 Shaykh Yasir Qadhi talks about multiple duas one can make for their children and benefit them.

Surah Al Furqan , Verse 74 – “And those who say, “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”

This dua asks for comfort in a religious and worldly sense for children.

Surah As Saffat ,Verse 100 – “My Lord, grant me [a child] from among the righteous.”

Surah Ibrahim, Verse 40 – “My Lord, make me an establisher of prayer, and [many] from my descendants. Our Lord, and accept my supplication.”

Surah Maryam , Verse 5 – “And indeed, I fear the successors after me, and my wife has been barren, so give me from Yourself an heir.”

Surah Ahqaf , Verse 15 – “My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to work righteousness of which You will approve and make righteous for me my offspring. Indeed, I have repented to You, and indeed, I am of the Muslims.”

 

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The speaker discusses the title of the Quran and gives a brief recap of the main points of the title, highlighting the importance of making healthy and valued contributions, being a good role model for their children, and protecting their children from the "anted-door effect of Islam." They also discuss the importance of making a proper decision to avoid disappointment and loss of life for children, and emphasize the need for a door to be made for their children to make them even better. The speaker also encourages parents to make the decision to make good deeds and give children opportunities for education and health.

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			solak hamdu Lillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah. Allah He was so happy woman. Voila.
		
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			We're moving on with our topic of the draws of the Quran. And we now move to sort of four on verse
74. And this door is a door that occurs at the end of a very long description of those who will
enter agenda. Allah describes the people of gender in a very long passage at the end of sort of upon
and please read it after tonight's halaqa you understand where this draw is coming the context. And
the last characteristic of the righteous is that they make this up. So Allah describes the righteous
as those who are humble worry about the right man, a lady named Pune will be hohner and they are
righteous and they give Zakat and they pray and they give charity and they don't attend evil
		
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			gatherings etc, etc. And then the very last point, when levena Jaco loon and those who make this
drop, so this door that we're going to teach you today is a dua that Allah is instructing all of the
righteous to make if they want to get to gender. What is this do i robina habel Anna Minh as wodgina
was Maria, Tina kurata Yun
		
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			mucha, Tina Mama, this is that famous drop robina habla Anna, our Lord bless us, through our wives
and our children, grant us a progeny and a family. That will be a coolness of our eyes, a comfort to
our sole corporate means we will find happiness, they're going to make us proud, we will feel happy
to that this is our family, make my spouse and make my children, those that will make my heart
comfortable. They will make me proud that this is my family, they will bring me comfort in a
religious sense and comfort in a worldly sense. Both of them are combined with john added mattina
mama and make us role models for the believers. So a few days ago, I think two days ago, we talked
		
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			about drought for the parents, we're going to flip it around now today is to our for the children.
		
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			And if you look at the Quran, you find without exaggeration, more than half a dozen to us about
children. In fact, it is one of the most common themes when it comes to chronic diseases. And a
disclaimer, our lecture series does not cover every single chronic drug obviously, dare I say we've
covered most of them and dare I say we've covered inshallah, the ones that are very pertinent and
practical. Most of them have been done. But today's talk throughout the course of the next 10
minutes, I will quote you at least seven or eight verses of the Quran, all of them do as from the
prophets and righteous about children. One of the primary themes of Quranic draws is that parents
		
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			should make dua for their children. And I want to ask myself and all of you a blunt question
internally answer it. Dear parents, when was the last time you raised your hands to Allah and made a
draft for your children? Simple question. When was the last time you raised your hands up to Allah
and from the depths of your heart, you made a dua for your children. This is what Allah subhana wa
tada is asking us to do. Why? Because when you make draft for your children, not only is it a drug
that is necessary for yourself and your family, but you are reminding yourself of one of your most
precious obligations by making dua to yourself by making dua for your children, you are motivating
		
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			yourself, I had better take care of my children in a religious manner as well. I had better be a
role model for them. Making draft for your children actually reminds you of what is really the most
precious of this world. And it is not our money. We know this. It is not our belongings of what to
use is all the money in the world if our children don't bring us comfort, well, law II we know this
those of us that have children we know this is the prize of our eyes. This is why we get money is
for the sake of our children, why we go to work why we sacrifice so that they can live a better
life. But Allah subhanho wa Taala reminds us that along with the physical comfort, you had better
		
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			have the religious and the emotional support as well. So the two are for the children that they are
righteous. And when we make dua for the children that they are righteous, well then we have also
better live up to that as well because we recognize that children learn from their ambience and
their environment if we are not worthy to be role models of what use is empty. So in reality do our
for righteous children.
		
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			A reminder for us to be righteous as well. When we make dua for them, our own bar is raised and we
remind ourselves that we need to be role models for them. And our Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said, three are the two hours that are always answered by Allah subhanho wa Taala the draw of
the one who has been wronged the drought the one who's traveling far away from the from the you
know, family and everything. And number three, the death of the parent for the child, do our
allotted for the wallet for the unwanted here means mother and father, do our for the parents for
their children. A lot accepts the draw of the parents for their children. And that is why there are
		
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			so many chronic diseases as I said, I'm going to quote you some of them and there are even more
beyond our lecture today. Ibrahim alayhis salam sort of soft fat verse 100, or be heavily meaner
salia hain Oh my Lord, grant me children that are righteous Ibrahim is making this I want sadeh
children children that are righteous and good. In surah Ibrahim, verse 14, one of the most famous do
I recited often when I'm leading Salah in Asia what not I love these series of verses one of my
favorite doors that I recite Robbie Gianni Maki masala tea woman's reality. This is Ibrahim making
this Oh Allah make me of those who pray and make my children of those who pray as well. This is his
		
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			job. He's not praying that Oh Allah admit them to Harvard and yell, Oh Allah make them
multimillionaires. That's not his job, his job, make them solid, righteous, make them religious and
upright, make them of those who establish the salah in Surah Baqarah verse 28. As he's building the
Kaaba, him and his smile, the Kaaba is being built brick by brick. What is the drop on their
tongues? robina jan Jana Muslim aney laka woman Ria Tina Mata Muslim at Allah, Oh Allah, the father
and son they're making up Oh Allah make us both good Muslims, and from our progeny come forth an
entire oma that is Muslim for you. We don't just want children, we want a nation that will be
		
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			obedient and religious to you. And Ibrahim two hours answered, every Omer that came after him was
from his progeny, they yahood when they were upon the correct theology, were from the progeny of
Abraham the Christians as they follow the ISA righteously from the progeny of Abraham and the
Muslims and the followers of the process of from the progeny of Abraham and Abraham is saying, Oh
Allah from my children, I want Obama's to come that are Muslim or to you submitting to you, and his
draft was answered. And he also made up by the way for their physical well being. I'm not saying
don't make the other decade to Harvard and Yale go ahead and make that Dora Ibrahim made not Harvard
		
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			and Yale he made what as he is in Makkah in the land of emptiness, what did he say? But I'll be in a
second to miseria Tb was in a lady disorder and intubating and more album robina up masala fudge,
either tamanna necesita, who la him was Oklahoma thammarat. Give them fruits as well over la give
them food to eat in this barren Valley. Don't let them starve. So he makes dawn for their well being
but the drought of solid came first the drought of righteousness came first and yes, you make
drought make them good. make them successful. Give them good careers, no problem. But the drought
needs to be there. the grandmother of Isa you heard me right the grandmother of Isa who is the
		
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			grandmother of Risa. Do you know what I'm talking about? This is the wife of Milan, in Morocco in
Milan, right because Milan is the grandfather of the millennium. We're talking about modems,
parents, right, the grandmother of Isa, so do I begins progenies before it, it carries down when one
generation next door if it is amplified, the next generation it is then amplified, then you get a 70
million from the grandmother she's making do out and she is saying when she is pregnant, that this
is the grandmother of Risa, the mother of millennium. She is saying oh I love this child, I will
dedicate to your service. Oh Allah makes sure shavon does not affect my child and the progeny of my
		
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			child. She's making dua for the infant that hasn't even been born and the infant's infant, and she
doesn't know what's going to end up being Lisa. But when you have that doula and you're thinking
that long term, then that is what is going to happen. Don't just make do out for your children, make
do out for your grandchildren, your great grandchildren like Ibrahim alayhis salam, O Allah from our
progeny, especially in this land, where our beloved people are leaving Islam we have to make dua
that Allah protect our progeny. Allah make our progeny from those who established or set up Zachary
Allah His Salam He also made to our super early embryo and verse 38, kohlrabi hubballi melden
		
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			khazaria tanto Jeeva in the casimiro da Oh my Rob gives me a pure progeny you listen to Dr.
Subramanian verse five to six for hubballi mill De Luca Walia give me a successor and a good man
which I'll hora bureau D, and you Oh Allah be pleased with him. I want my son to be somebody whom
you are
		
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			Pleased with again zecharia his wife is not even expecting he has already 100 years old. And he's
not just saying give me child give me child give me a child. He says give me a child who will be a
righteous child, give me a child that will be pleasing to you or Allah subhanahu wa tada in the
Quran surah of verse 15, Allah subhana wa tada reminds us of another da, which I wanted to give a
separate lecture about. But time is limited. There's only three or four lockers left anywhere. So I
have to combine them. I wanted to give a whole lecture about this one ayah Surah four verse 15, from
hatay, who should the who when the person reaches maturity, whereby the other by ina center, and he
		
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			reaches the age of 4040 is the middle age where you have you're still a life ahead of you and you
have accomplished much it is the middle age life at a developer
		
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			in a center when he reaches 40 by 40, you have your career, you have your children, and you still
have a life ahead of you. That's the should you make this drop, order a b, o z, and a score on
arithmetic Allah allow me to help allow me to thank you for the blessings you have given me and my
children. Why now Why did a year when I saw the hunter die, and allow me to do good deeds that
pleases you, while asleep, the physical reality and I will law make my progeny of the righteous make
my progeny of the righteous make them even better than me. So this is the door that the parents are
making our law make my children even better than me, make them even more righteous than me. So this
		
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			is the door that comes from the love and will conclude again, so much can be said. But this is a
very important topic. And my dear brothers and sisters in law he in this land, I cannot think of a
more important door that we should be making than for the Islam of our children. I asked you what is
more important than this drop that we make dua that Allah protect our children and grandchildren. To
summarize from the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he taught us to make dua for
our children, even before they are born. When the couple is intimate, what is the other is made at
the beginning of intimacy, we're supposed to think of our children that Allah bless us if anything
		
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			comes from this night of ours bless us and that we're supposed to make a dua even before there is a
pregnancy even before there is a birth we are thinking about that. And when the child is born, there
is the door that is made. And then the hadith of Sahih Muslim, whenever a child was born, the
unsalted would come after fudger with the baby, it was a daily routine, the baby newborn babies
would come to the rescue that the Prophet says so that he would make dua for them and he would make
special to offer them and so with the medic, his mother came and he said Yasuda love my son unas,
can you make dua for him? And he said yes, Oh Allah, increase his money and give him plenty of
		
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			children and as narrated this hadith when he was 110 years old, and he said, I have more children
than I can count. And when had judge attacked Medina, we talked about that incident, more than 100
of my own descendants were of those massacred just 100 of his own children were killed by a judge
children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, he established an empire by the way to this day, the
children of an asymptomatic they are in Medina, I myself used to eat if thought in Medina, at one of
the descendants of unassuming nomadic direct descendant, he would have an IF thought in the harem in
Medina, still well known, this is the bulk of the draft of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			and also my dear brothers and sisters. Be careful that you do not make drama against your children.
Mothers, especially mothers, especially control your tongue when you are angry for others as well.
But mothers because they interact more with the children, so their love is more and then also they
have a health when their anger gets more as well. So control the tongue. Our Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam warned and he said, Be careful, do not make dua against yourself or against your
children. Perhaps you will make up at a time when all doors are being accepted. So the door will be
accepted, lateral and physical, logical, don't make against your children. If you're angry, control
		
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			your tongue until you calm down, if you need to rebuke rebuke, but do not do what we call good or
evil do against your children. I conclude by quoting you a famous incident of football live in a
yard one of the famous stab your own one of the greatest of the scholars and he was raising his son
and his son was not acting in a manner that they felt was appropriate. So he said, oh well law, you
know that I tried my best to raise my son in a good manner. And I wasn't able to do what I felt was
the best over law. I entrust his tarbiyah to you now over law you do now that what needs to be done
to raise my son, meaning I've done the best I can have a law I'm going to leave the rest to you.
		
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			This is the philosophy we all should have as well we do the best that we can. And then we make dua
to Allah that Allah now you are the one that that is in charge. You are the Mola and you will take
care of them as well. So to conclude, brothers and sisters, this is important.
		
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			topic and I know I've got a little bit more than I should but there's very important details here.
Make to offer your children regularly make dua for their eemaan for their Islam for their Salah,
make dua for the righteousness and yes make the offer their education and their wealth no problem
make dua for their health, but make sure the emphasis is given on the DA for the righteousness of
bene habla Nam and as wodgina with reality in a quadrilateral union which is done with Lena Emma, I
will continue tomorrow and shall listen. I'm watching