Yasir Qadhi – Quranic Duas – Ramadan Khatirahs 2019 – Episode 18

Yasir Qadhi

Shaykh Yasir discusses the Du’a we must make for our parents.

And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, “My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small.”
[Surah al-Isra, Verse 24]

The mother and the father is the widest door to Jannah as said by the Prophet ﷺ. There are numerous Hadith that reassert the supreme status of the parents which is next only to Allah and the Prophet ﷺ.

 

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The Prophet Muhammad's teachings are discussed, including the importance of his teachings for a woman’s status and the use of "verbal" when giving children the right to live. The speaker emphasizes the need to pray for five people and make offers constantly to benefit their parents, as well as the use of "meditation" and "verbal" when making offers to parents. The importance of thanking parents for their lives is also emphasized.

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			smilla Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala rasulillah vida de he was a woman was murdered. We are
continuing today with the two hours of the Quran and today we are going to do to add that to the all
of you should be familiar with. It is suited at is SRA verse 24. So that is verse 23. Excuse me, and
it is with regards.
		
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			It is with regards to the rights of the parents and it is a do either we have all memorized Allah
subhana wa tada says in the Quran, wakad autoboca Allah Tabu Illa your Lord has decreed that none
should be worshipped except him. What meanwhile the daily Asana and that you practice your son with
your parents. If the one or the both of them become elderly or old age then not do not even say off
to them and say to them the best of speech and lower unto them the wings of mercy will call Rob
Burnham, Houma, camara Bayani sala de la and say Allah have mercy on them, just as they took care of
me just as they raised me as I was a child while called Rob Durham, Houma come out of biani, Sameera
		
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			some of the commentators commented that this is part of the icing on every Muslim because Allah is
speaking to the whole oma and he says well, cool, Rob Durham, Houma and you all have you should pray
for your parents and say, Rob Burnham, Houma, Kamara, biani saphira. And of course, the rights of
the parents are that which is well known, I must have given talks every one of us has heard these
talks, we all know the ayah tena Hadith, yet it is always beneficial to remind ourselves of their
rights. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam told us that the parent is the widest door to
Jenna, the parent, the mother, and the father is the widest door to agenda. So you look at the
		
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			status of that door in your life and either take advantage of it or turn away from it. This is what
the prophet system said. And while it and the wild humans father or mother, unguided your parent is
osato awaba agenda is the largest door to gender. So you see what your status and your relationship
is with that door. And we all know the famous Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that when
demand came and said, who deserves my most compassion and love? He said, your mother, your mother,
your mother than your father. These are all a happy that we have memorized, as well. The famous
incident of Abdullah bin Ibis, the famous Companion of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used
		
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			to live in Makkah as we know, he used to live in Mecca. And one day he was doing pull off, and an
elderly lady was on the back of a man. And the man said, Oh, even abus I have traveled with my
mother from Iraq, and she wanted to do Hajj, we couldn't afford an animal. So I'm carrying her on my
back. This is a famous incident in the books of history. I'm carrying her on my back and I came for
edge. Have I repaid the obligation of my mother to me, now is my father done. And even my boss said,
not even a bit of it, but you have done good and Allah will reward good. You haven't even done a
fraction. The Arabic word not even one Pang, one squeeze a verse, meaning that when she gave birth
		
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			to you, from the beginning of that birth, the pangs of birth, you have even repaid that, but you
have done good and Allah will reward good when he was asked how did he not do your son to his
mother? or Why didn't you do with the help of his mother in a bus replied that because the
psychology of the two is different. The mother sacrificed out of love wanting the child to flourish.
But now that the child is an adult, the child does as duty waiting for the mother to die. The tour
is totally different. The mother does what she does, wanting the child to live and flourish, giving
everything up for the child. Now that the child is an adult, now the child feels like the parent is
		
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			a burden. I just have to do my homework, I have to do my wajib waiting for the parent to die. The
two are not the same. You cannot compare the two that the one wants you to live and the other one is
paying off a debt and considering it to be a burden in another famous incident have it been a bust
and remember, it'd been a bust lived in Makkah. So a person fled from whatever city he was in, and
he was a murderer and he fled to Makkah and you know in our shitty I when you flee to Macau, you're
protected. And he said to him in a bus, oh, even a bus. I became angry at so and so and I stabbed
him I killed him. Now I have come to repent. What should I do? I want to repent from the murder I
		
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			have done so if an Ibis said Alex is your mother's still alive for law he nothing forgives sins,
like being good to one's mother. So the murder is coming. And it's been a blessing. I cannot think
of anything better for you to do than to be good to your mother. And we all know the famous Hadith
of the Prophet Allah
		
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			Allahu alayhi wa sallam, that when somebody passes away, all of the doors of good are cut off, all
of the deeds are cut off, except for three things of them is sort of a God of perpetual charity of
them is the knowledge that the person has left behind. And of them is the righteous child, son or
daughter, that makes dua for the parents that have gone on. So of the obligations of the parents is
that even after the parents have left, we continue to make to offer them the health of the parent
does not stop with death, the health of the parent does not stop with death. Rather, the health of
the parent is always on the child as long as the child is alive. As long as the soldier daughter is
		
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			alive, they should make up for their mother and their father. And inside the man came to the Prophet
sallallahu I sent him he said, O Messenger of Allah, my mother just passed away. What can I do to
help her? Is there anything I can do to help her and the Prophet sallallahu I sent him said, Yes,
you can. And he listed six or seven things. The number one thing that he said, Do Allah make dua for
her out of the whole list he said, go for Hajj, do not give sadaqa but the first thing that he said
make dua for her. So this is the most important mechanism to benefit your mother or your father and
also to your brothers and sisters making the offer the parents doesn't have to wait until they have
		
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			gone you can make dua when they're alive. You should make dua when they're alive. The phrase or
Burnham Houma, Kamara, biani salia you can say it when they're alive. In fact, you should stay at
their at during their life and you continue to say after their death as well. So the phrase is a
perpetual phrase that should always be on your lips or better. I'm Houma, Kamara, biani, Sameera and
to make dua for one's parents was the practice of the righteous predecessors and the prophets even
before us we learn in the Quran that should a man at his Salaam said called or below zero need an
escort an emetic allottee and amateur Allah Yahweh Allah wa de de O Allah allow me to thank the
		
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			blessings you've given me and the blessings you gave my parents the prophet SAW a man as well we
have is the Prophet Ibrahim making up that Robin officially worthy worthy they are well meaning
Allah forgive me Forgive my parents and forgive all the believers the Prophet nor in the Quran mix
the two up Robin officially what he what he did what he meant and what it means moving at our love
Forgive me Forgive my parents and forgive every believer who ever entered my house. So we have here
in the Quran, multiple two hours of the prophets themselves, asking Allah to forgive their parents
and that is the the role model that has been set for us when the famous Sahabi and the cousin and
		
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			the Hawaii of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, Abdullah Abu Zubaydah died. His son Ahmed
said later on in his life, his son Ahmed said that after my father Abdullah Abu Zubaydah died for an
entire year, every time I raised my hands up to Allah subhanho wa Taala. I could only make dua for
him. No other do. I came out of my mouth. The only thing that came was to art for my father for an
entire year. The son of Abdullah who was obeyed, could not make any except for the for his father
and Sophia who the famous teacher, mumble Buhari and others. He mentioned when he quoted the verse
that undisputedly what he what he do when Allah says in the Quran, be thankful to me and be thankful
		
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			to your parents, Sophia aprns said whoever prays the five Salawat he has been thankful to Allah
subhana wa Tada. And whoever makes dua for his parents after every single Salah he has been thankful
to his parents. So Allah says in the Quran initially, while he was reading, be thankful to me and be
thankful to your parents. And this great scholar, the greatest scholar of his era, he was the
teacher of Mr. Bahati, the great scholars of the past of Hades, he said, This means you better pray
your five son a lot and after every Salah you raise your hand up and you make dua for your parents.
So this is a law that we should put into our daily lives regardless of whether our parents are with
		
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			us or they have moved on and we should make dua for them constantly because this is what Allah
subhana wa tada himself commanded us. And and of course, this is what we learned from the the the
lies of the previous companions and the previous prophets as well. And this is the famous do that
work for Rob Durham, Houma come, Rob Bernie salera Our Lord have mercy on them as they raised me
when I was a child, may Allah subhana wa tada Have mercy on all of our parents. May Allah azza wa
jal grant them agenda to for those May Allah exalt their ranks, if they have passed on. May Allah
make their graves a vast place of light. May Allah subhana wa tada allow them to be with the Shabbat
		
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			of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that we will continue tomorrow with cinema De La Habra
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