The loss of family members and negative behavior led to a series of negative behavior, including the loss of acceptance and embracing one's own worth in relationships. The myth of the eighteens ago is discussed, where the woman of the library returned to her father's library after years of provision. acceptance and embracing one's own worth is emphasized as crucial in relationships.
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Laura haven hamdulillah herbal alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Sayidina Muhammad in wider rd he was
savage mine My bad. So last week we have we're doing the family of Zaida benhadad and we're going to
continue in sha Allah who tada to do the rest of the family members. We mentioned Zaid as being z
they've been had it of course he had been adopted by the prophet system. We had talked about the
Arabic term for adoption, what is the Arabic term for adoption that was made, how long? Who can
remind me 27 need to consider somebody and Eben Devaney and we said that that is what is made. How
long by the Shetty are not raising a child, or taking care of a child. These are things that are
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encouraged, and we had finished the life of zayde. And we now move on to the wife of zayde and the
child of z, who are also famous. They throw you love to either and we know that he married at least
three, if not five wives throughout the course of his life. But his first wife, and the one that is
the most prominent in this era is none other than a man none other than on me a man who is Amen,
amen. Amen. Amen. was a slave who actually belonged to Abdullah the father of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wasallam. And she was from some land in Africa, we do not know which land they did not have
the countries that we do now. And they were simply called Jani. However, she at that time didn't
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just mean from Ethiopia, it simply meant from that region. However, most of the slaves in that
timeframe in Arabia were from what we call ABC, Nia or Habesha. So they were called habit Shu, so
most likely she was from that region, but we do not know for sure, and only a man Her name was
Baraka. Her name was Baraka ami Ayman is the cornea that she has. And oma Ayman was one of the very,
very few items that belong to Abdullah, the father of the process of them, and that one of the
Luddites, the prophet system inherited from his father Abdullah, what else did his father leave? His
father did not even have a house that he left, he was most likely living with up their mortality. It
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is said that he left only some animals, some camels and some sheep, and he left only a man. And
these were then inherited by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Now obviously, when Abdullah
died, Amina is still alive. And so Amina takes charge of only a man and she was the one who, when
Amina passed away in the place called who remembers where I'm in a diet. Where did I'm in the diet?
This is a quiz going back seven years. Yeah, Where?
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Where? No, there is no COVID this time, Cooper's day. That's our local pub. There is no coffee at
this time.
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No,
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no, coming back from Medina. Coming back from well at the time was what yesterday but there was no
Medina. It's called a blah, blah, blah. And to this day, there is a power of Amina In fact, if you
go on to YouTube, and you type the grave of Amina the mother of the Islam, somebody has actually
done a video on the cell phone somebody has visited that I have not personally been to that place.
And it is still known to this day. It is outside a small village and you find the caliber of Amina
the mother of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And we know from the Sierra that he visited
this place where we know this he visited this particular place now.
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Amina was returning from yesterday. And as we know she fell sick. And therefore, literally in the
middle of the desert, just two stops away from the process and was left a full orphan who brought
him back. It was only a man. It was only a man who then brought him back from Abuja to Makkah, and
of course, then abdon will put up took charge of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so Amen.
Amen. Then became a second mother figure. Now let's be very clear. She was not a foster mother, ie,
she did not give up her milk to the Profit System. Okay, that we have a number of people through Ava
and Halima and others. Only a man was not one of those foster mothers, however, she was a mother
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figure. She was a mother figure to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and of course
technically she is a slave. Technically, she has been inherited by the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, but we know
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How the process of dealt and treated his slaves. None of them felt like slaves. And in fact, from
what we know, he freed her when he became of age when he became a young man, he freed on me a man,
and only a man then stayed with him voluntarily. Only a man stayed with him voluntarily, not as a
slave but simply as a servant and in the family household, and only a man first married somebody by
the name of obeyed Eben Zaid obeyed Eben Zaid. And from this marriage A man was born hence her Konya
only a man Okay, so her first marriage is to somebody we don't know much about him pre Islamic. This
has nothing to do with this is way before the coming of Islam. She married somebody by the name of
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obeyed Eben Zaid. And from this Amen, Eben obeyed, is born. And Ayman is of the companions who have
a very, very minor role and so meaning a man embraced Islam. And Ayman participated in some of the
battles. And we know that he was of those who was with the group of the Prophet system in the Battle
of her name. So remember, in the Battle of her name, when the arrows began flying in pretty much
everybody fled because of the arrows, except for a small group immediately surrounding the profits
or set of probably less than two dozen people. And they have a special status, those who stayed
around the process of the Battle of grenade, they have a special status. So anytime is one of those
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companions and you read a biography of them, it will be said, this is one of those who stayed
behind. So one of those around 15 or around or less than that. One of those who stayed behind Is
this a man, the son of a man, okay. Now obviously, there's no biological relation between a man and
and the processor, but is simply the son of a mother figure to the process of them. However, as he
stayed behind, he then became a Shaheed in that battle. So he died in the Battle of her name, as a
result of trying to defend the Prophet salallahu idea he was send them this Amen. That's mother,
woman, a man that's Baraka. That's the one that we are talking about right now. So at some point,
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obey them and say, divorces on me, amen. We do not know when this occurred. And the Prophet
sallallahu sallallahu. I you send them then said, and this is now the beginning of Islam now. So now
this is in Islam. The process of them then said, Whoever wants to marry a lady from Jana? let him
marry or meet a man. Okay, so he's encouraging the Sahaba whoever wants to marry a Gen a lady from
gender, then let him marry. Amen. Amen. So this is now the beginning of Islam. This is the Moroccan
phase. And the process of encourages any illegible bachelor who wants to marry a righteous and pious
lady, then this person should marry or meet a man. Now, only a man she was not an Arab was she, and
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she had the stigma of being a molar. And a molar is somebody who used to be a slave, and then has
been, and then has been set free. And we know that the Arabs at that time were also a racist
society. And the skin color is also a factor. So her nessa and her lineage, and her looks all of it,
or not in her favor. And that's why the process of missing whoever wants to marry a lady from Jenna,
her character, her eemaan or o'clock are the best, whoever wants to marry a lady from gender, let
him choose omit a man. And this was when zayde proposed for me, I'm in San Jose, they've been had
ether. And obviously, we can assume that they knows on mainland very well because they're in the
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same household. So when the processor made this announcement, then they even had it up, then
proposed and it is possible, Allah knows best It is possible that perhaps the processor was hinting
at this to date as well. And it's not something that is strange or whatnot, because they're in the
household. And so he proposed to her hand and the Prophet sallallahu I set him then married them in
his house. So these are both freed servants of the Prophet, so sedum, Zaid is of course, the at this
point in time, the son remember at this point in time, he is the quote unquote, son, right, the
Tibetan nice son, and only a man is a figure that has been also in the household from the beginning.
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And
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when you look at the age gap between the two, there must have been a significant age gap. Because do
the math. Okay. Zaid entered the household of the process and when he was how old this is last
week's discussion, guys,
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when you know when he entered
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13, maybe even younger than this, but
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Basically a young boy Yeah. 13? Not somebody said 20. No, not not true. Definitely not. Definitely
not. Maybe 1112 maybe 1112. So he's basically not yet barliz but almost value, right?
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And how old was the processor at this point in time?
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When did he get married? remembers aid was a wedding gift, remember? 2525? Right. So the age
difference between the process seven and eight is
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1312 1314 years. Okay, everybody following 1230 years now, the Profit System, whereas only a man in
terms of age,
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at least 20 older than him.
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Where'd you get 20?
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He inherited.
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Okay, so he was he was he was six years old, when only a man brings brings him back from what?
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Now, remember, don't back project our ages of maturity onto those people. You said 18. Because
there's the assumption that you must be at least 18 years old to drive a car or drive a camel or
something that's not in that time, is it? Right. And that time, in fact, not even that time talk to
your parents and my grandparents age, people mature very quickly back then, they didn't have the
luxury of being children till they were 18. Okay. And at a young age, you could give many
responsibilities to the children. So we don't know how old omit A man was. But at the very, very
least, omit a man
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would have to be realistically at least, at least 910 years old.
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When she's bringing the processor back, if not more than this. And he cannot really even at that
age, even 10 is relatively young for such a 10 year old. But still, it wasn't as if only a man
intended to alone take the process of him, she was under ominous guardianship. And it passes away
circumstances kind of push her to now take charge. And it's not it The road is there's like the
highway. Remember, we think of it as the desert and it is a desert. But even in the desert, there is
a road just like now there is a road. And there are people and there are caravans and there are
stops and there are water places so people know. And the route between Makkah and Medina is well
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traveled, it's well traveled. That's why the hegira was a very different route, that's where they
had to hire a guy to go away from the road. So in the very least we can say is only a man is at
least five years older than the process and if not 10 years older. Okay. Now, what this means,
therefore, is that when Zaid is marrying only a man, there is a gap of at least 15 to 25 years
between them. The very minimum,
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but only a man is still in her fertile years, because after all, she has a child by the name of
Osama. Okay, so putting all of this together, Realistically speaking, the max we can say I mean,
biologically can be more, but realistically, she'll be in her maybe early 40s. When she has some I
mean, technically she can have a child even when she's 50 or late 40s. But still, Realistically
speaking, I'm just thinking, maybe, or my aim is in her early 40s. Right. And Zane is in his early
20s. Okay, so there is a big age gap between omegamon and between zayde. But that is not an
impediment at all. And again, this shows that things were very different back then, in terms of this
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issue of age and whatnot. It's not something that like in our times we have these big issues back
then even we know the age gap between our processes and our DJ. As we had mentioned, there's two
opinions, but one opinion is that it was 15 years. So from this blessed marriage, of course, the
companion the famous companion, the one who is given the title hibou rasulillah. That's his title.
Hey, Bora, Sula, and HEB means maboob. habe means the one who is Beloved. So Hebrew rasulillah, the
Beloved of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is born, and that is Oussama Ibn Zayd. And we'll
get to summer right now let's finish up on my name and then we're moving on to some inshallah
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huhtala. Now only Amen. As is the case with all of the female Sahaba we have very, very little
information about her when we get to the female Sahaba. When we get to the wives of the process of
in our mothers, you will see just snippets here and there because
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That is the way they would just not mention much information about women. So we only know a few
things here and there. What are the things that we know of inside the reports that
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omit a man on the way to Medina on her way to performing the hijra while she was performing the
hegira, that only a man ran out of water, and she was fasting. So she's fasting on the journey to
hit Europe, and she runs out of water and the situation becomes very dire, she comes close to
fainting or death or whatnot, and oh, my aim, and then narrates that I saw a bucket come from the
same art from the heavens, on a bright and shiny rope. And the bucket came right in front of me. And
I lifted the bucket and I drank to my fill from that bucket. And only a man said that, from that
point in time, up until now, I have never felt thirsty, even if it is a hot day and I'm fasting. I'm
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not feeling thirsty after that. Okay, so this is one of the cutomer one of the miracles that are
given to the righteous so I'm a man was blessed with this miracle, and oh my amen as well. The
profit system would regularly visit her, she had a special house, it is said between MK between
Medina and and Oba she had a special house that she would be living in, and the process would visit
her once in a while. And he is the only lady that we know that the Prophet system would say to her,
yeah, all my mother, so he would call me a man or ma or my mother. And as the only lady that as an
adult, obviously, he must have called Amina that. But other than that the only person that we know
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that he would say, yeah, oma is a man. And one time only a man visited the prophets of Salaam. And
he said, she is the only one left of my family. She's the only one left of my family, everybody else
has gone from those times only, only a man is left. And we also know that only a men participated in
offroad and high bar as the women participated, how do the women participate by taking care of the
wounded and running with the water and whatnot. So only a man participated in the two battles that
women were allowed to go in as helpers and that is offroad and high bar. And we can tell the love
that the process have had for only a man through one famous incident that I gave, we gave I gave
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two years ago about humor in Islam, and I mentioned this incident there. And it shows the love that
the process have had for a man that once the process was going on an expedition and so on a man
volunteered and said I want to go as well. But I need a camel, I need a camel. So the the point was
that whoever wanted to go, they would go and basically sign up. And once they signed up, then they
will be supplied what is necessary to go. So if they didn't have a Campbell they will be sharing a
camel and go together. So I'm Aiman said, I'm volunteering, sign my name up, and I need a camel. And
so the Prophet says that I've said
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I don't have a camel. I have what I do now. What I do now,
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in Arabic what I do NACA linguistically means the child of a camel, and it is used to talk about a
baby camel. It's meant to describe a baby camel, so there is no term for baby camel. There's no term
for a child camel, a young camel other than what I do NACA. Right. So in English we say a calf is a
baby cow. There's a term for a calf. Okay, a chiclet. So we have terms a piglet, we have terms for
baby animals. In Arabic, the term for a baby camel is what I do NACA clear. Now a baby camel
obviously is not capable of going on a journey or carrying somebody or being of any help. So the
process of said I can give you a word or do knock and on May aim and said Yasuda law, what's the
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purpose of a baby camel, what are the NACA? Neither can it benefit me, nor can I sit on it. So the
President said no, I insist. I will give you a what I don't know. Right now, all of the jokes of the
Profit System all over them. As far as I have done research, they involve these types of innocent
puns because the process of never lied. He never uttered a falsehood. Whatever he said it was the
crystal truth. But how the person interpreted it is sometimes other than with the process that have
meant so Oh man, I did not understand I can't ride a baby camel. And the process insisted. I'm going
to give you a baby Campbell. Well, he didn't say baby camel. He's
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What are the NACA? What are the NACA until finally He then said, an omen, amen. What else is a camel
except the child of another camel? Okay, in other words, I'm going to give you a full camel. But
wasn't this camel, also a child of a camel? What are the Napa? So it's a linguistic play on words,
and all of the jokes of the process of linguistic plays and words, as far as I can tell. And the
point being that somehow the process of only joked with very, very few close people that we know of
very few close people that we know of, and only a man is one of them. So he's essentially teasing
her, essentially. And that's what you do with the loved ones, right? That's what you do with the
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ones that you have those soft feelings for, you just kind of tease them in a positive manner. And
that is what he's doing with me. Amen. And Amen. It is also reported that she had some difficulty
with
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some Arabic words, because again, Arabic is not her mother tongue, right. She is have a she issues
and Abyssinian or whatever place she's from, and she had a, I mean, some have said, It's a type of
dyslexia or something. But you know, some people they have a problem with not just pronunciation,
but when they see something, they'll say something slightly different. And maman had that problem.
And a number of times she would address something that would change the meaning and the processing
within joke with her to basically not say that anymore. So we have a number of reports like this,
that sometimes she would try to say, a Salam or Aleikum, and it would come out last Salam aleykum
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Selam Aleykum. And of course, that means the exact opposite of a Santa Monica right? Last salam, no
peace on you. Right. So one day, a man came and visited the process, which is that less Salam
aleikum because he's trying to say, and the person said, Yeah, amen. Just say Salaam forget was
before and after just say send him the said, Don't try to say As salam or Aleikum, just say the the
Salam and On another occasion. So again, she said something that she was trying to make up for the
Muslims and it came out against them. So once again, again accidentally, right? So instead of saying
the buttock ermelo, she said subak omala. Like, literally made God's curse beyond you rather than
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make God make you firm, literally the opposite. But again, because of the tongue things, and the
processing of smiled and said, yo, my name and just be quiet, it is better for us, like just again,
these are jokes. There's nothing serious here, just like the process of his love for a man and his
teasing with her. And she had an issue with the pronunciation. Now, again, we don't have much
knowledge about her. All that we know is that with a process and have passed away, and only a man is
still alive, and so panula think about that amendment is still alive and the process and passes away
very few of the Sahaba they go back to the very beginning, and they remain till the very end. We
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mentioned one last hurrah. hekima been his I'm the one who purchased Zaid, I gave him in his arm
lived another 60 years after Islam. These are very few people, they go back to the beginning of
Islam, and they lived after Islam. Amen. Amen is one of those you can count on the fingers of one
hand. And what we do know the most authentic narration which is in the six books of Hadith and
multiple books of Hadith of the six books that in the life of a worker is so deep in the Hello
fellow workers so dear. One day abubaker said to Roma rhodiola one so this is a year after the death
of the processor some year less than a year, or maybe a year at max one day abubaker said to the
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top Hello, Maya Omar calm Omar, let us visit. Amen. Amen. Like we used to visit her with the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam. In other words, a bucket of the law one out of a love and a loyalty to
the Profit System wants to do what the processor would do with the three of them. Right? And this is
what good friends and this is what offspring are supposed to do. Remember, one of the things a child
is supposed to do is to do what is to maintain the friendship of the parents, right. Now, of course
the processes end even more so will Bocconi should maintain those relationships. So he says to Omar,
Come, let us go visit only a man as we used to visit her in the days of the Prophet system. So a
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worker and they stand and they walk to the place outside of before pulled up, and they visit or meet
a man and she was obviously you can imagine the three of them now you know and they don't have the
process and there's definitely that sadness and that grief comes and only a man began to cry on me
began to cry. And I will Dakota Cydia said Don't cry only Amen. You know, the processing is now in
genda in a better place and only a man said
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I am not crying. Just because I missed the prophet SAW Selim. I'm not crying, because he's not here.
I know that his place now is better than with us. But I am crying, because with his death, Allah
zois he has stopped coming to this earth. So the connection we had with Allah subhana wa Tada, would
you believe coming down, it is now stopped. And when she said this will Buchan Omar began sobbing as
well. That is not just the death of the process of but it's all gone now. Right? So all the memories
came back over those days. And all of you could just imagine, you know how traumatic it was. So my
aim and then she said, it's not just the loss of the Profit System. It's the cutting off in a way
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that allows revelation has stopped coming, Djibouti is not coming around is not being revealed. It's
all a past phase now. And that has made me very sad. So they all three began crying rather than
trying to consoler she made the both of them cry. And so all three of them are now crying because of
the the sadness that they all felt with the loss of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. That's
the last tidbit we have about her. And she passed away in the head off of Rosemont a bit I found the
very beginning of the pillar of growth might have been our fan. And she's buried in of course, but
the analytical so on a man's grave isn't clear a lot of code to this day. And we now move on to the
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final of the family that we are interested in. Obviously the family is larger than this zayde had
other children who may have had other children, we are interested in the three zayde Baraka ami Iman
and Kusama, these are the three that is the immediate family if you like that we are interested in
and so from this blessed union from the servant of the process, and him and his son adopted son
Zaid, as we said Devin nee and from ami a man the the mother again when I say son and mother I mean
metaphorically obviously not linguistically comes this blessed child and that is with sama
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bin Zayed now Osama was born in Islam. So he's never seen Jamelia because the marriage of zayde and
oma Amman took place after Islam as we said, so it was sama is born in Islam, and he has never seen
the days of jaha Leah and his status was well known all of the Sahaba knew how much our Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam loved Osama once and this hadith in Bukhari and Muslim It is one of the
most famous Hadith that all of you have heard, once a lady of great status was caught stealing from
the chorus she was from the nobility of origin of the elite of the polish. And she was caught all
the evidences was established, and the penalty was about to be enacted of stealing. So the courage
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said, Who can we go to? To make shefa to the prophets of Salaam to allow this lady to be scot free?
Who can we go to, to find a way out to not have Shabbat? So one of them said, who has that status?
Other than hibou Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and who I mean there's only one person who
else and another version that says woman yet steady, who has the audacity to walk in and mention
this other than headboard Rasulullah saw salamanders Osama bin Zayed so the nobility of flourish
they go to this young child who sama evens imagine he must have been 15 years old. Can you imagine
the nobility and the elite? They go to summer? And they beg him? Can you go to the prophets I said
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him and then speak to him about the matter of this oroshi this high status lady and just see if we
can kind of let the penalty go away. And so Oussama the young child, I mean he's not gonna he's not
he doesn't understand now what is going to happen or the the the the rebuke he's going to get. So he
goes through the process and he tries to make shefa for the auto Shia and the Prophet system became
angry at him and he said, yeah, it was sama Attash Pharaoh he had the men who do dilla Osama Are you
calling to me to avert a punishment ahead of Allah subhanho wa Taala for a law he low under Fatima
taburiente Mohammed in sobre la Qatar to Yoda
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for LA he is Fatima the daughter of Muhammad Sallallahu either you send them had committed this
crime I would have caught off her hand. So the shefa was rejected. And of course this shift is how
wrong once the all the has given the verdict. Okay
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before this point in time, we try our best to
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avert the hood. As we said it all Hilda who had any shuba anything that's doubtful we just get rid
of the case. But once the case has been affirmed, once the judgment has been established once the
court has ruled helaas that is it. And nobody should not go around and try to find a way out. And
this is one of the main points from what we get from this Hadeeth. We also learn so Osama was born
in Mecca. And when the process of him died, he was we know he was 18 years old, or maybe the end of
17 years old. So this means that he was born seven years before the hijra. Okay, he was born seven
years before there so we can roughly date pretty much the exact year that he was born because we
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know that he died. Sorry, we know that the process of died and Osama was either late 17 or early 18
years old, because as we're going to come to in a while we know this for a fact. So therefore, Osama
was born literally in the house of the process in the house of Khadija. He was born in the house
from a servant that was known to him since his birth from another servant that he had, at that point
in time adopted and considered to be a son. So can you imagine the love showered on Oussama Hebrew
Rasulullah sallallahu. It was seldom and this love continued, even after the migration to Medina, It
is reported that once Osama entered the house of the Prophet solo cinema as a child, he ran in and
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he slipped on the door or he tripped on the door, and he fell down and it started to bleed. And so
the processor picked up Osama himself and he cleaned the blood away and he wiped the blood and took
care of Oussama and he would carry it with some a very often. And one time. He and he was a very
physical Father, you know, some fathers, they're very aloof, they don't touch. The process of was a
very physical father. We know this from Hassan and Hussein, and we know it from Osama as well. He
would carry the children, he would play with them. And so he is carrying Osama, and missionaries
that one day, he said carrying Osama. So Sam was at this stage, probably five years old, six years
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old. So he says that if Osama were a Giardia, were a little girl, I would have dressed her up and
spent money on her. Now the point being boys and girls are treated differently. And girls you spoil
right hamdulillah we can say this is okay to spoil a little girls, okay, we spend extra, and boys
you're supposed to be a little bit like you know, especially back then you're supposed to teach
them, you know, harshness and whatnot do. So the process of using it for sama were a girl, then I
would have spent so much money and I would have done this and that, but it's a boy. So I cannot do
what I would want to do. And this demonstrates as well. You know the natural difference on these
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days all of this is being changed as we know. But Subhanallah the fedora says boys and girls are
different and we treat them differently and there's nothing wrong with that. And inside the reports
that it was common for the processing to carry Hasson in one hand and Osama in the other. Okay,
Hasson is the oldest grandson, he would carry hesson in one and Osama in the other. And he would
say, Oh Allah, I love these two, so you love them as well. Allow me boohooman Well, I love these
two, so you love them as well. And Osama himself narrates much later on, obviously, that sometimes I
would sit in one lap of the process, and has said would be in the other lap. So Sam and Hudson are
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roughly the same age even though Oussama is older, who Sam is older, but still they're in the same
age frame as that and so Sam would be in one lap and Heston would be in the other lap and the
process will make to offer them and he would say Oh Allah have mercy on the both of them have mercy
on the both of them now
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with sama radi Allahu Allah and he went after his mother in terms of looks and complexion. And Zaid
was essentially of the Buddhist tribe, which is basically a lightish. Brown. Okay, so Osama skin
color was exactly like that of his mother. So some of the people of Makkah, the courage, the jahai.
Well, it's Islam now, but still the non under the, you know, the non Muslims of the harsh, as is
typical and to irritate the process, and they began to spread these bad rumors that Osama is not the
son of Zaid, okay, because remember, when Osama is born, technically he is considered to be
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the grandson, the grandson of the processor, right, you understand this like, I should have
mentioned this actually explicitly because he was the son
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So Osama then becomes essentially the grandson any that is the considered notion that he is the
grandson. And again this only changed officially five years into Medina. Right? So Osama is like 12
years old. So like for literally a decade or longer, Osama is considered to be a grandson of the
Prophet system by everybody. So when Osama is born, how can the kurush irritate the Prophet system?
By spreading a vicious and vile and evil slander? A staford Allah about Amen, amen. Okay, you
understand what I'm talking about? That is not the fault you understand. Okay? Because the the the
skin and the whatnot is different. They there's this and omegamon is that and so who sama is not?
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The the son of Zaid and a hadith in Sahih. Muslim illustrates how much this hurt the process of and
also how much love he had for Osama and Zaid. This is an authentic hadith in Sahih, Muslim and other
books of Hadith.
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That one date in Medina one day in Medina.
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he narrates that one day the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came into my house rushed into my
house, and I could see the happiness on his face. I could see something that happened. He's so
happy. And he said,
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Oh, Arusha. Do you know that Elmo just zero l moodily g came over. And Oussama and zayde were lying
in my room with a blanket and their heads were covered and only their feet were outside. And Elmo
just said her the hill, aka Damn, Baldo, Harmon bout, these feet are from one another.
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Now, there's a Muslim Now, what is going on here? We have to pause and explain and clarify pre
Islamic culture and post Islamic culture and whatnot. So Elmo Jazeera. Al moodily g was somebody who
was one of the most famous people who practiced something called lt alpha,
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the alpha and LP alpha, is to extract lineages based on similarities and facial features. This is a
Is it a science? Is it an art? It's something the Arabs did. Okay. Before there was DNA tests, they
had the F. And the G alpha was used by pre Islamic Arabs to resolve disputes of paternity. Okay, so
as you know, they didn't have the laws of Islam. And it was possible for a woman to have married
multiple men in a short period of time, or even not even been married, let's say, there were women
that were again known for these things like and they are in our times. And if the woman had a child,
and she had multiple partners in a short timeframe, one of the things the Arabs would do, they would
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call the call if they are further or if, or if, is the person they after is the concept, they would
call the car if, and they would say, okay, who does this baby belong to? And they would bring the
men home, she said that she had been with, and they bring the baby. And that was his art, that he
would essentially extract who is the father based on the based on the the characteristics of the
child. And the the an issue here, footnote here,
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based on this Hadeeth, some of them as I have said, that when there is a legitimate dispute of
paternity, and there are some really bizarre exceptional scenarios where this might happen in Islam,
bizarre, exceptional, otherwise, the norm is that this is impossible to happen. But there are some
beyond the scope of this class, we're not going to get into that. So very advanced 50 stuff. But the
point is that some of them as I think today, don't quote me on that. I think two of the four said
that, in those cases, that they are for the car if can be used based on this Hadith, because the
process is happy at what the Court has said. And they say, the curar of the process that indicates
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that the alpha is a valid science and and and so they go and they extrapolate. For us, that's a 50
issue beyond the scope of our class. We're not we're not really interested in that. But what I would
say based on that is that if the effort was given a small tick or nod of approval, then even more so
a priori ipso facto, we should use DNA and others and this can be used as an Islamic evidence when
the shediac allows us to do so. And again, that's a separate issue beyond the scope of this class.
Nonetheless, back to our heightened science.
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Muslim, beautiful Hadith because it shows so many things. First and foremost, it shows Osama and
Zaid are literally family they are sleeping in the house of the Prophet selama. Who does that other
than family. They're in the living room wherever it is, and they're sleeping right there. So when we
think of Zaid and Osama unfortunately, we kind of think of them as strangers or outsiders, but they
are insiders. And remember, for two decades aid, and for a decade and something was sama, were
considered to be family. Remember this, right? So
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emotionally, psychologically, they are family of the prophecy center, and they're sleeping their
father and son must have been siesta would not, you know, in the heat type, they would sleep in the
afternoon, and they've covered themselves with a blanket and their two feet are protruding. This
also shows the poverty of the time because the fact of the matter is, they did not have the luxury
durveys that we all have. They do not have the What is it? 5000 count? Cotton? Huh? How much you
have? You don't have that? Okay. The 4001? The fancy ones, though, what? Do you have the 201? Okay,
moving down, okay. So we the fancy ones that are so massive, somehow to law in the house of the
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process of them, the Father, Son have to share a blanket. And even that it's not covering.
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It's not covering the whole body, right. And we know this from head to toe Musab as well, that is
our would not cover if they covered up his feet would have covered. So they're very, very poor. of
the things we benefit from this as well, is the close relationship of our issue and the process. And
because what is the process of do? He rushes to Arusha? And that's exactly what you do you rush to
your loved ones, when something good happens, right? What do you do? You rush to your loved ones?
You tell them? Oh, guess what happened? So I just think the processing came in upon me, and I could
see the happiness on his face. Right? This also shows that what the when I feel own, or I showed him
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in Africa, and these are the pagans of Makkah. So you know that this is not this is the old times,
but still, what they had said had hurt him. Obviously, when somebody says something bad about your
loved ones, is it gonna hurt you? Right? So when this thought if and he is an engineer, be an
outsider, he has no idea what the what I have been saying. He has no idea who the two people are.
Because they're covered. He has no idea. He's simply visiting. And he sees the two feet. And he's an
expert. Right? So he says, these two feet, the one of them is the father of the other. He says this.
So this made the process I'm so happy that you know what he said. He said, meaning that and of
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course the whole not that he's doubting. But you know, the point is, again, that this is something
that can be used against those evil people that are saying what they are saying. So the point is
that because of his complexion, you know, there were these these these false rumors. And
unfortunately, we also have, some of them will not akun made snide remarks about Tim as well,
because of his complexion. And this is the way that it goes that racism and ethnic differences, they
are a part of our own. As our process we said for things from Java helliya shall remain with my own
mind, no matter how much we'll try to get rid of them. There'll be tidbits whatnot remaining. And
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now number one, he said that being proud of your ancestry, which is racism, Okay, number one out of
the four things is that alpha kuruvilla, and sap. So back to our story of Osama bin Zayed. So Osama
we know from about him as well, that of his honors. Now, obviously, sama did not participate in most
of the battles, why?
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It's too young. He's too young to participate in either in or the simply too young. But what we do
know is that he had a number of honors that are very, very clearly demonstrative of how close the
process is to sama. And of them is that the process of chose Oussama to be the one who's riding on
his camel in two of the most important instances in the history of Islam. Now, in those days, nobody
had the luxury of riding on one camel by himself. It just didn't happen. Even if you are rich enough
to own your camel, you had to share with people who didn't own a camel, it was just the concept of
having your own mount did not happen. Sometimes even three people would be too accountable. And this
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is common we read in the Sierra and sometimes two would be on the Campbell and one would walk and
then they would alternate. But nobody ever had a camel to himself everybody had to have a partner
sharing partner and this is called rodef are these are the raw alpha on a defender This means the
writing companion. So the Prophet says Adam chose to sound
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I'm on two extremely important occasions to be his rodef. The first of them, perhaps the highlight
of the entire Sierra, in terms of in terms of his and victory, and that is the conquest of Makkah,
who is the rodef of the processor, who Sam Evans eight.
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Osama is the one writing on the camel on the process of enters MK as the conqueror. And that's when
he lowers his head, the process and he lowers his head until it is touching the back or almost
touching the back of the camel. So the fact that it is none other than Osama again, this
demonstrates how close he is to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. And the second time that we
have at least 15 a hadith narrated by Osama on this occasion, at least 15 a hadith that Osama
narrated on this one occasion, and that is that the Prophet system put him on his camel during the
last film pilgrimage hedge. Now he wasn't the only one at times job, but he was writing at times a
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bit. My boss at times have followed him and my boss. And at times Oussama Oussama was and one of the
most important segments of the hedge was Oussama was the rodef, the one on the camel from out of fat
to moose Delica and then to maca. So the profitsystem rode with Oussama from out of fat to was
Delica. And in fact, the rewired mentioned that Oussama
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for some reason, we don't know why was delayed and out of fat. However long 20 minutes, 30 minutes,
like however long he was delayed. So because he was delayed, the processing was delayed, because the
processing was delayed.
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Everybody's delayed. So Osama held up the entire who judge for whatever reason. And then remember I
said some of them would have made snide remarks. This is when we have one of those remarks that when
it turned out that this is why they are delayed. So some of them will not feel alone made some crude
remarks that so and so and they describe some things about them. This is the one that delayed us and
whatnot. And this demonstrates again, this issue of looking down at others because of your ethnicity
or tribe. So Osama was one of the as we said, the chosen ones to ride with the camel on the camel of
the Prophet sallallahu sallam. And Osama was one of the only two people who entered the cat but with
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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam only two people entered with the professor seldom One of them
was
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the law. And the other was who Sam? Okay, so Osama and Bella entered with the Prophet system. And
people like Abdullah bin Ahmed and others are outside they don't know. And as soon as the process of
them walked out, that's when a little bit more rushed in. And he said to Osama Where did the problem
say Where did the process and pray. So Osama told him he prayed in between the two pillars. And so
over and over prayed over there. So the honor given to Osama to be with that elite Elite entourage
to enter the cab with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam it is given to sama. We also have a
hadith in Timothy and others that again, we have to extract from these Hadith benefits about the
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life of Salman what not. So we also have a hadith where
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somebody gifted the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a very, very fine fabric to use as a
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reader, the cloak and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in turn, gifted it to Oussama
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and the next day, he asked Oussama where is the readout that I gave you because they were very poor.
And if you have given given this gift, you're gonna wear it the next time you see you like they
don't have, you don't mean Subhanallah we have what 50 shirts and 40 pants over. They don't have
that. So the fact that the person is giving the money that he expects it to be used right then and
there like okay, you're gonna see you next time. So next time, where is it? Right? So Osama being
the loving husband that he was he said I have gifted it to my wife, Mashallah to watercolor. Okay,
so notice the process is gifted it he gives it to Osama, that Osama gives her to his wife. Why is
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this in the books of Hadith are the books are filled? Sorry. No, the books have had the story and
then in the books are filled, because the processor then said to, to Osama that. Okay, make sure
that your wife wears something underneath before she puts that on, because I fear that it's fabric
is too thin. And of course this is common sense. We know this but this Heidi proves it that when a
lady dresses in the proper hijab and she walks outside then the hijab not
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Only must be loose, it must also be non transparent. Okay, so from this, we derive the 50 benefit
that we all know. That's why this hadith is found in the books of fic that a woman should not wear
clothing that is extremely see through or translucent, translucent, or tight or whatnot. So the
because the process of said to Kusama that make sure you tell her that she was wearing something
underneath, then she uses this on top of that, on top of that. So again, the point those who did the
process of choose to give the gift to it was none other than Oussama. And one of the incidents as
well, that is mentioned in the books of Hadith demonstrates no matter how beloved somebody is when
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they make a mistake the process and will correct them. Okay, that happened in the shefa Hadith. And
there's a hadith that is even more awkward or even more clear cut if you like rebuke to sama from
the Prophet system because someone made a mistake. And when you make a mistake of this nature, you
need to be corrected. And this hadith is modificata Bukhari Muslim and it is narrated so many times
only, this is one of those very deep narrations that the scholars used to derive so many points in
chapters of fifth, and that is that once the process of them sent Osama on a small expedition, and
he was put in charge, so this is in the ninth year of the hedgerow is in the ninth year of the
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hedgerow and he's put in charge and he's commanded to attack such and such a tribe that had done
whatever they had done. So the point is, your job is to basically attack that tribe. So a small
group is sent Osama is placed as a leader. So Osama was always chosen as a leader, even as a young
teenager. And the narration goes that we surprise them we caught them, they had no idea we were
under his tail, and we surprise attack to them. And we began, you know, battling them and me and an
unsavoury cornered one of them. Me and an unsavoury on Saturday night recorded one of them and I
managed to overpower him and he fell back. So he's now on the ground. The both of us raised our
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swords. Then the mushrik cried out a shadow Allah in a in law law.
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This is on the battlefield, and the guy sees the two swords and he says, a shadow Allah Allah in the
law, so Osama says, so the Ansari put his sword down.
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As for me,
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keep on going.
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The news reached the prophecy seller that the guy had said the Kadima and I still went ahead and
finished him off. So he called me and he said, Yeah, Osama Osama, k for a Delta who How could you
have killed him? When he said La ilaha illAllah.
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Osama said Dr. rasulillah. He only said it
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to save himself. Then that powerful phrase that has become now common in the Arabic language is it
is now an expression that is used by the Arabs and by Muslims across the globe. For hella Shaka
Allah kalbi or FLR Shaka Allah kalbi. Why didn't you open up his chest then if you're that certain?
Like this was anger. Did you see why he said the Kadima Do you know the reason why he said the
Karima Do you know what was in his heart? For hella Shaka, Allah called me. And he said to sama,
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what are you going to do with La ilaha illa Allah on judgment day?
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And he continued to repeat, mother to file What are you going to do with la isla de la on judgment
day? And it was Allah says, masala Yura? Did. We kept on repeating this, until I wished that I had
only accepted Islam that morning. What does this mean? I'd accepted Islam that morning.
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This is one interpretation that I wish that my sin had been forgiven. Another interpretation
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that I wouldn't have known any better.
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I'm a brand new Muslim, meaning I should have known better I've been a Muslim and living in the
house of the president since I was born. And I don't have an excuse. So I wish that I had been a
brand new Muslim so that at least I could say Well, I didn't know any better right. So basically,
Osama is like feeling so guilty, but and it is a mistake and from this we derived the mistake and we
all now of course, this is the basic point to fix. Now we all know this, that the Kadima even on the
battlefield, I mean, imagine this, even at this point in time when the guy has fought and he tried
to kill you. You overpowered him. And at that point, he says
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Allah, Allah, Allah Allah call us, that gives him a man or gives him security. And at least he is
taken, he can still be taken prisoner, whatever, but he has now a type of safety. This is now all
that I have saved this. So the point is that, no matter how beloved you are, if you make a mistake,
you need to be corrupted. And we see this from the Prophet system and Osama multiple times just to
ship it, and the Hadith, this one over here as well. When the Prophet system fell ill in the 11th
year of the hedgerow, as we know, he would he was sending out what was to become the very final
expedition that was against the sun is up north. And he appointed Osama bin Zayed who was at this
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time, either late 17 or early 18 years old. And in this army were senior Sahaba, including Abu Bakar
and Roma. This is amazing, truly amazing. You have a group. Amongst them are Abu Bakar and Omar, and
an age and an experience and in wisdom, there is no question they are who they are. And yet Osama is
placed in charge of them. Now, some Rhoda might have said, one of the reasons that Osama has been
placed and this is a very valid point is that it is as if he is now going also to revenge to avenge
the death of his father because it's the same people up there. Okay. And that's a valid point.
Nonetheless, even if that is the point, you still have to have the maturity and the wisdom and the
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bravery. And he had all of these things. Okay. So Osama is placed as the chieftain or the commander
of that, and people began to mumble, how could he have placed this person who has no experience? How
could he have placed a young child and they are a bucket and Omar, and he has no credentials like
they do. And our Prophet says he's sick. He's lying on his deathbed. They don't know. It's his
deathbed. But he's lying on his deathbed. And these rumors reach him back. And so and this Hadeeth
isn't the sorry Hainan is and others that one of the last times the Prophet system exited his house
and stood on the member. This is literally
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the second to last, or maybe the third to last time they see him
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is to defend Osama bin Zayed and he managed to pour water or they poured water on him he scattered
gathered his strength. And he was brought out and he stood on the on the pulpit. And he gave a an
advice and a sermon in America. And he mentioned the issue of Osama in that. And he said if you are
grumbling about Osama, then we'll love you also grumbled about his father's aid. And his father was
of the most beloved people to me, and his son is of the most beloved people to me. This is of the
last phrases are processing them uttered in public, the defense of Zaid and his son Osama. And we
know from the many many a hadith that on his deathbed, the prophet system would you know fall into a
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fainter or whatever, you know, unconscious, then he would wake up and he would say have you sent the
JJ Oussama have you sent the Joshua was sama so it's on his mind he wants to sama to go until
finally because he keeps on insisting even though they didn't want to summer to go. But what are you
going to do? So the the message was given Okay, go ahead and leave the city and to paddle Osama left
the city and Oussama his wife, Fatima been to place the the sister of fabric of the place of the
famous lobby with his wife father of interface sent a messenger that when they are only half a day
outside the city, she sent a messenger stop, do not proceed. The process of situation has worsened
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even more. And so Osama rushed back, the army was outside who summer rushed back. And he managed to
see the Profit System on his deathbed, literally a few hours or the day before again, we don't know
exactly when. And the process was too weak to speak. But he saw it was sama, he recognized Osama and
he raised his hands up to Allah and he pointed to with some indicating that Allah is with you and
I'm making do out for you. So raising his hand up to Allah and pointing to some of you could not say
anything at this point in time and of course are processed and passed away either that day or the
next day. And then then the whole issue of Samurai army came up and what to do with Samurai one. So
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Baccarat obviously has to now remain behind. I will book herself so much remain behind Osama den
Sisto Booker, I cannot leave you. I'm going to cancel the whole expedition. We're going to come
back. We're going to stay in Medina. We're going to protect you. I fear for the Arabs leaving the
becoming motel and whatnot. We're going to stay here and Omar said yes, stay here.
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All the seniors. So whoever said yesterday here, but what did the worker say? How can I cancel the
last order of the profits of the law? While he was saying I can do that? How can I abrogate what he
commanded to do? And eventually a compromise was reached, what was the compromise? That Osama's
force would the the the mission would be downgraded, and the people would be downgraded, but still,
there would be a mission. So the spirit of sending Osama out would still happen, they would meet
people, but it's not going to be the big expedition that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
wanted. And in fact, Oussama and his forces did meet a Roman Battalion, and they were victorious,
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small skirmish. It was this minor thing in the grand scheme of things, but it was a skirmish
nonetheless, and they were victorious, and they came back victorious. And it is reported in the
books of history, that the Caesar of Rome heraclius received, the news of the death of the prophet
SAW Selim, and of the attack of Osama at the same time by the same person.
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In other words, the news of the death and the news of the attack was simultaneous for the Cesar
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the same guy, and he said, what type of people are these, that their prophet has just died? And
they're still attacking our lands? And Subhanallah that was perhaps one of the main wisdoms, right?
Like how he cannot understand who are these people that their prophet has just died, and they're
still attacking our lands. And
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Osama, of course, lived a long life, we're going to finish off with a little bit
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we'll have to delete ratio for a few minutes because we don't have time to come back to summer. Just
finish it off now. That in the life of lumber mill hottub, whenever some would enter to visit Omar
and the people will be sitting there are almost no hot Bob would say a Santa Monica. Yeah. I mean,
this is Omar, he is in Santa Monica. Yeah. I mean, so somebody said, Yeah, I mean, why do you call
him? I mean, who are the I mean? So he said, How can I not call him immediately? When when the
process of died? He was the Amir. They might you understand how you understand how the battle,
right? He was out of the army. He was the Amiga. So when the process would have died, he was the
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enemy of the army, not of the Muslims, and he was the man. So for as long as Omar was alive, he
would say, yeah, me and me, it also means leader and Prince and what not. So he's calling Oussama
Amir. Every time he met him, and Bob gave Osama you know the pay scale. He gave Osama Grade A right
level whatever highest level
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4000 dinars they would get that is what the elite the people of butter would get on. Osama was not a
buddy, who sama was not a buddy. He would get what the people of butter got. One day, somebody
teased Abdullah bin Omar we didn't even know more three weeks ago. One day somebody teased Abdullah
bin Omar and said to Abdullah Omar that
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your father gives a man who is younger than you more than you. Even though you are senior to him in
rank, and senior in reservoir and senior in hedger. You've done more. And your own father give
somebody younger with a smaller CV. He gives them more than you. So Abdullah said Who? So the man
said Osama bin Zayed. So Abdullah Ahmed went to his father.
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And he said, Yeah, avatar, why do you give Osama more than me, even though he has less less words
than me. And his hijra is after mine. And so he listed all that he had.
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So, Omar Abdul hottub, said, yamane Oh, my son, he was more beloved to the prophet or something you
and his father was more beloved to the process of the newer father.
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If that is not ideal than what is he gives Oussama more than he gives his own son and himself
because he was more beloved than you were. And his father is more beloved than meaning himself. So
why should I not give him more than you? And Osama remained very low key throughout the whole of
Russia. He never took any major political position. And he lived with his mother. Amen. Baraka for
as long as his mother was alive, and he was very loving and caring towards me. I am
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And a very beautiful report is reported inside the club odds that at one point in time, during the
time of Omar, there was a drought and whatnot. And so the prices of date palms skyrocketed,
inflation and they were selling live date palms agricultural there was selling for 1000 coins each
date palm fresh date palm 1000 coins. One day they saw Oussama chopping his date tree down
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and taking the inner SAP you know,
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what is going to be the the terminal like the cane juice, you know, what do you call that? You know,
there's that SAP you know, that thing inside of it. The the date pump also has something similar to
that. And it's just sweet and nice at one season. At one season, you get something not as sweet as
the sugarcane. Not as sweet as that, but it's something similar to that. Right? So he was cutting it
down to get that one thing. So the people said to him, Osama, what are you doing? This tree is worth
1000 dinars. I mean, you're cutting it down. You can sell it and buy whatever you want. Like it's a
fortune, why would you be cutting it? And he said, My mother was craving that SAP. Right? My mother
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was craving that juice or whatever. And so I'm cutting it down for her. They said you could have
sold it and gotten anything for her. Like why that one thing, buy something else. You have 1000
dinars. And he said that whatever my mother asks for, if I have the courage to do it, I will do it.
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Like if she wants to call us it's going to be her doesn't matter what the cost is. So this is how it
was summer was with his mother, and what a beloved mother and person that was. His mother, of course
passed away the time of earth model the law one he lived after this a very simple life, as we said
away from politics, and he would take care of his fields. He had some fields outside of Medina, and
he would avoid any controversy. It is reported to Muslim Ahmed that once when he was much older, his
servants said to him that why do you fast every Monday and Thursday, especially when you're
traveling to your fields and you're coming back? You're an old man, you're on wasafi Why do you have
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to fast? And so he said, I saw the profits of the law. Why'd you send them fast on Mondays and
Thursdays. And he told me that on Mondays and Thursdays our actions are presented to Allah subhana
wa tada the famous thing that we all know so Osama would fast Mondays and Thursdays, then he was
alive when the controversies began between the Sahaba and Ali rhodiola, who I sent him a message
that please join me in the battles are going to take place he needed Oussama for support moral
support. And a servant came and gave the message he sent the message back with the servant as
follows that O'Meara meaning
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if you were trapped in a lion's den, and the Cave of a lion, I would have loved to enter it with
you.
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But this matter, I cannot agree to it
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was said
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meaning if I had to defend you, or if there's a problem or something, count me in, but now you're
talking about fighting between Muslims, I cannot get involved.
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And so he refuse to get involved completely in the Civil War. And he lived right outside of Medina,
probably to avoid the controversies and whatnot in small villages until he passed away in the year
54, after the hedgerow in the beginning of the heylife of muawiya rhodiola Juan so he lived
throughout all of this time, but nothing is narrated about him because he remained away from
politics, just kept to himself worshipped Allah subhanho wa Taala lived a simple life. And in fact,
he passed away outside of Medina in this village of jorf. And his body was then carried back to
Medina janaza was prayed to him over in Medina, and he was buried in bullier. A lot of cod where his
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grave is to this day, and as we said with sama bin Zayed, what we know about him was that he was
extremely dark skinned and he had a flat nose as well. We know this, again, from the reports that
were set a softball against him
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towards the end of his life as well. He gained some weight, so he actually had a bit of a belly. We
know this because his izhar would fall lower beneath the belly. Because you know, in those days, the
izhar would be taught would be tied at the belly. Right? But obviously if you have a belly like how
do I wear my pants, huh? How do all of us except the very fit amongst us where our pants it goes
slightly under the belly. Correct? Right?
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That is where the izhar would fall for for Oussama. And so we know this from that we know as well
that he had a bit of a belly towards the end of his life. Osama married at least two, if not more
women in his lifetime, and he had a number of children. His most famous wife, with this we conclude
was Fatima had been to ice. Her claim to fame is not just because she's the sister of habits being
placed was a famous hobby. But because the profitsystem himself told Fatima to marry Oussama and
this was his first wife Fatima deface. Fatima came to the process of editing SIBO hydrosol Muslim, a
Muslim for sure. Maybe Sai Bukhari And Fatima said Yasuda I've gotten two proposals, two proposals,
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one from why we are
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Limor are we at the famous malware and one from some Sahaba by the name of Abu jam, right? Which one
should I choose? So the profitsystem said a Ma Ma, we're for Soylu koulamallah.
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As for ma we're, is penniless, he doesn't have anything? How are you going to marry him?
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Pause your footnote.
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While we would eventually become one of the richest Arabs and the halifa. And and and but all of
this is unless other up and down finances go. And you do not know the future. And looking at a
person's finances is common sense. Nothing and Islamic about that. So where are we at the time was
jobless and penniless?
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And the Prophet system said to Fatima? How can you marry while we How is he going to support you so
look penniless llamada? Well, I'm a boojum. And as for Abuja, him, he never allows his stick to even
reach the floor. It's always at his arm's length. Most likely the meaning here is that he is
physically abusive. Most likely, another interpretation is that he's always traveling. But this is
the weaker interpretation because being a traveler in and of itself is not a problem. So here we
have a hadith where the process of is saying that he's bad mannered about his wife is abusive, don't
marry him. So we have here a hadith that mentions that if you are penniless, then you don't have to
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choose this person. And also, if you're a bad luck, you're abusive. You don't have to choose this
person. So where am I heading with all this with this, we conclude the process of said don't choose
him don't choose him. Choose Oussama Urban's eight. So Fatima Pinto case chose Osama and they lived
and they had many children together, and they had a long marriage together and because she obeyed
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And with that, we conclude the story of Zaid and Baraka
slash omit Amen, and Osama bin Zayed and in sha Allah with that we conclude our series on the Sahaba
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