Yaser Birjas – Siblings Without Rivalry?

Yaser Birjas

Is it possible to have siblings without rivalry?

What’s the Islamic ruling on it? Is it even halal or haram? Is it right or wrong?

How should we treat this?

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The speaker discusses the importance of parenting and sharing compassion among siblings in order to build a healthy society. They provide examples of successful parenting, including the actions of their parents and their siblings, and emphasize the need for parents to be mindful of their children. The speaker also mentions the importance of sharing good things and avoiding danger in order to build a healthy society.

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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. So is it possible to live a peaceful life without having
any siblings rivalry? Is it even halal haram wrong right to have you know bickering between brothers
and sisters and brothers among themselves among themselves and so on so many Muslims Mashallah
because again, they value the meaning of upbringing and, and parenting and so on. We always want our
houses to be perfect. And we think that if there's any problem in the household, that means there's
something wrong with our therapy or something wrong with our values. And then eventually, the
parents are fighting each other and cause a big damage to the entire fabric of the family and the
		
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			entire society afterwards. So what how should we treat that? So if you look in the Quran, Allah
subhana wa tarboro some examples about siblings, some of the siblings were handler of the most
righteous, others not necessarily Some even though they grew up in a household of righteousness, but
still did not go up in the way that it should be. Look at the two examples from the Quran, the
example of Musa alayhis salaam and his brother Harun, when Musa alayhis salaam received that
guidance from Allah subhanho wa Taala. What was the first thing that came to his mind? Allah His
salat wa salam. He said, what he Harun my job, my Lord, please send to my brother Harun like no,
		
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			like Musa alayhis salam, he knew that this is so much higher in it. And he wanted this higher to
also be shared by his brother and with his brother. So he asked Allah subhanho wa Taala, to send to
her own analyzer responded to Musa alayhis salam, and he sent send a message to her own as well. So
Han Allah, I'm sure all parents would fantasize that their children will have this kind of
compassion to one another. Like Musa alayhis salam had to his brother Harun Ali Salah, but we'll see
the other example that was mentioned or an example of the household of Yahuwah Salim Yusuf and his
brothers. So how the shaytan was clever and that's what Musa Valley Sam said to his father says min
		
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			daddy and NASA shaytaan Albanian Vayner equity my father remember when the shaitan he calls the
fitna between me and my brothers. So use the valet Sam was responsible when he became older and he
threw all the blame on the ship and none of his brothers. That's such a wonderful forgiving nature
when one brother is also a sibling and his brothers as well. But the point is in this household of
jacobellis, Sarah, it wasn't a perfect, perfect siblings relationship. There were some bickering
there was some problems there were some dangerous even encounters among themselves. But at the end
of the day, look how Yousuf prevailed in the way that he forgave his brothers and he forgave his
		
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			siblings. This is how it should be more about the subject inshallah. Baraka Ouattara, I'm going to
discuss in my new class in sha Allah azza wa jal protect this house is coming your way. Check it out
to shala we'll see you there. Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.