Waleed Basyouni – The DuA Of The Chinese Revert

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A woman describes a cemetery where she lost her mom while traveling to Oklahoma. She describes the story of her mother, who is a new-ugsher American woman and her sister's (an old-ugsher Muslim woman) mother. The two women discuss the cost of burying the mother in the cemetery and express their desire to reserve the grave for their children.

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			I was at the city in Oklahoma.
		
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			They have a cemetery, mashallah, a nice good
		
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			Muslim cemetery.
		
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			Five years fighting with the government to get
		
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			a permit to to bury people according to
		
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			the way of the sharia.
		
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			They win the case on Monday, Tuesday or
		
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			Wednesday.
		
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			He got a phone call.
		
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			Sounds like a white lady calling him saying,
		
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			hey, my mom passed away and we need
		
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			to bury her in your cemetery.
		
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			So it's not ready yet.
		
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			Sorry to ask, are you Muslim?
		
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			Because from the conversation he can he said
		
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			either she's very, very new Muslim or she's
		
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			not a Muslim.
		
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			He said, I'm not.
		
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			OK, what about your mom?
		
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			She said, yes, she is.
		
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			OK, you can come to my to the
		
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			mess and I will meet you.
		
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			So the imam met her and he found
		
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			out that her mom is Chinese American.
		
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			And basically her mom came from China and
		
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			she arrived last week.
		
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			And she's an old woman.
		
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			She left her husband because her husband left
		
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			Islam.
		
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			So she now stays a Muslim.
		
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			And her husband stayed in America and he
		
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			kept the kids.
		
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			So they raised Christian or whatever religion that
		
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			they have.
		
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			And the mom returned back to China.
		
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			But, you know, she wants her mom to
		
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			visit.
		
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			So she brought her for a visit.
		
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			And when she arrived, she said, my mom
		
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			went to the yellow book in the airport
		
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			and she took the yellow book.
		
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			And she looked in the Islamic Center.
		
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			She even ripped the paper out of the
		
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			yellow book.
		
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			Oh, and she told her daughter, if anything
		
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			happened to me here, these are my brothers.
		
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			I said, Mom, what do you mean?
		
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			So just that, you know, said I took
		
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			it like I didn't care for her.
		
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			Maybe she's tired from the long trip.
		
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			She'd spend the first night.
		
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			Second night, she died while she is in
		
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			her bed.
		
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			So the sheikh said, I will bury her
		
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			in the cemetery.
		
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			Even if it's not really, I will make
		
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			it happen.
		
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			The first grave in that cemetery, Khutbah al
		
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			-Jum'ah.
		
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			He mentioned the story to the people.
		
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			Everybody prayed Jum'ah that day, almost followed
		
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			her janazah.
		
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			Then the family were shocked.
		
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			And they said to him, why?
		
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			Who are all those people?
		
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			They said, those are her brothers.
		
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			She said, my brothers, those were brothers.
		
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			They were in tears.
		
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			Then after she was buried, he handed him
		
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			a piece of paper.
		
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			She said, that's my mom's favorite prayer.
		
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			Can you make it?
		
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			She said, Dr. Ahmed, he told me.
		
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			And I looked at it and I started
		
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			crying.
		
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			Daughter and the son and like her husband,
		
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			ex-husband came.
		
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			He said to him, what is in it?
		
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			And she said, Subhanallah, she wrote in a
		
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			broken Arabic letter.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			And it says, Ya Allah, guide my kids.
		
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			Guide my children.
		
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			That's her favorite prayer.
		
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			And I told her that.
		
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			Her son accepted Islam in that moment.
		
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			Before we left the grave, he became Muslim.
		
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			Her husband said, I want to reserve, her
		
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			ex-husband said, I want to reserve the
		
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			grave next to her.
		
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			How much did it cost?
		
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			So the imam said, the cost of that
		
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			grave is la ilaha illallah.
		
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			And he said, ash hadu an la ilaha
		
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			illallah wa anna Muhammadan rasulallah.
		
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			Both became Muslim on the spot.