Waleed Basyouni – The Double Sin Lecture
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The segment discusses the dangerous concept of committing sins during the day and night and the importance of avoiding it. It emphasizes the need for everyone to avoid distraction and give people a provision. The conversation also touches on the dangers of addiction and the need for privacy in society. The segment provides insight into the use of negative emotions and the importance of avoiding negative behavior. The speakers also provide advice on protecting oneself from negative consequences and staying ahead and balancing oneself.
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We talked today about in the drama about how the thinness of our southern told us that every human being make mistakes and commit sins. And I must part Allah says that he stretched his hands in the morning to welcome the repentance of the center of the night.
And he will stretch his hand again in the night to welcome the repentance
of the person who committed sin during the daytime.
And he said, in the company who will never leave you, and now you commit sins day and night.
And I forgive all sins. So ask for my forgiveness, I forgive you.
My talk today or tonight to you is not about committing sins. It's about a sin that is more dangerous than the sin itself, which is
that you don't care about your sin, that you committing it, and you're careless, you're not worried about it, you're not afraid of it.
When you became what we call an sp, Hana, you became so careless about it means nothing to you, that doesn't bother you.
That you making it doesn't bother you that this is how you still doing it.
Move anything inside your heart. As a matter of fact, people can go even beyond that, that they became feeling that this is something okay.
And something that they can do it again and again and again, you stimulate a muscle, it became part of my habit, it's became a habit. I become so attached to it that I don't feel any wrong of doing that.
And that's what we call this Amelie little Nazi, that the person will feel it is okay. Because if you believe that the sin is okay, let's go for that take you out of the fold of Islam.
If somebody believes that drinking alcohol is okay, that's not a Muslim.
If somebody believes that usury or lying or backbiting is
wrong with that, that's cool, because that person denying what's on incident.
But sometimes you don't believe it, but you act as if you believe it. Because it never bother you. You just keep lying and lying and lying and lying. And like it never really crossed your mind to say, you know what, I should watch my tongue.
You know, I should stop backbiting.
It just never bothered me, you know what, maybe I should start, you know, covering my hour doesn't bother me, my legs showing my you know, my our showing like this. Like it's just became so normalizing the sin.
watching what is haram listening to what is haram, aligning along the night to websites that you notice how
it became as the same. But if this is combined by you trying to believe or you start believing it is okay. It just head on.
I remember once I was traveling
from Paris, to a Muslim country,
and next to me,
a woman in her mid 40s.
So the guy came, we had a conversation earlier. So
So basically, the guy came serving wine, whatever.
I said, No, I don't drink.
Then she said to me, she's a Muslim. She's from a Muslim families and a Muslim.
So she said to him,
No, thank you. Then for No, I don't know what the reason for no other like, nobody asked me to make any comment or make anything. She said nothing. Then she looked at me. She said, by the way, not because I believe it's hot.
I believe it's a personal choice.
I just don't drink because it's not that good for my health.
I said, Well, I musky. There you are.
I said Miskin and
I said, if you said no, because I said no because harm I feel alive. Don't do something wrong. Allah would have reward you for not drinking.
But now saying that you committed a sin.
So
it is a disease when you became
Have no feeling
you know, there is kind of Oracle like censorship like you don't feel anything wrong with doing something wrong
as a very dangerous status
and why it's dangerous because every time you make a sin What happened? There is like a stain in the heart
then another stain in the heart then another stain about Have you seen how we paint the wall you put primary when you put the primary you cover the old color then you put a new color the old one is gone. This wall didn't used to look like that.
That pure heart that thought of Eman and tankwa already covered
analyst palitana described this and sorted with a few beautifully said can neuron either be in
Cebu
can that bend the rod Appleby, Ron is the filth
Okay, like asphalt or something like not pleasant. So you put one layer than another layer then a third layer than a four layer can you imagine this is your salts are one layer unless I said Ron I know their hearts completely sealed and covered Why? Just because a lot doesn't know what he does he doesn't like the way you look because he doesn't like the way your name or like your skin color. Or your name No. Be Matt can we actually vote as a result of what they used to do?
It's your deeds what led to your heart to be sealed so who wants that
to be today somebody called me and said
I'm calling you because I need almost like holding his tear he's a chair. I feel so down I feel like he man is so low
today after tomorrow
and he talked to me about 20 minutes or so.
I don't do what I used to do. I said that's just a sign that your heart still have live in it because you feel the pain
but if you fart completely sealed
nothing
you know when you have someone like you the straight face
you know someone lie and lie and lie and lie and lie I'm terrible like liars and like I guess we all familiar with people like that. In our political world today they just lie lie lie lie as if it's true. They don't even think about it twice came naturally cuz that's the heart completely sealed a border on the allow and set that to who saw themselves
in the movement either
when you can
only make a sin, Nikita if he called me he looked at him so that there will be a dark spot and his or her heart. If the person repent to Allah, that spot will be removed
and his heart will be polished by his still father and his repentance will certainly the elbow what enzyme that if that person increase the sense the darkness will increase.
And this is a run that Allah mentioned in the on
the honor lady the camera Hello.
And this is the cover
that will cover the heart that is mentioned in sort of the mcguffey
muscley
kettlebell runner and I pulled up him he comment in this verse he said who had them both of them had
a sin after another until you completely blind you don't see anything anymore
and Mohammed was a great amount among the successful set them by them you meet will
ascend followed by another sin, it will kill your heart. destroy your soul. Can you imagine? If this is how it is? You watch what just how long? Okay, then you listen to what is how long, then you do what just how long.
Then you miss the salaat
then you sleep and you miss a lot
Well, how can you wake up? What was this heart how much your heart can handle?
I'm saying this because so important for you to think about every single thing that you do. And since either doing the harm or leaving with this watch, every time you do one of these, there is a dark spot. Tell me how much your heart can take.
That it's dangerous because this attitude,
because it doesn't make the sin just a sin that you do with your limbs is not a sin of the eyes, or the ears are the hands of the mouth.
That became the center of the heart.
And I can tell you,
the greatest good deeds you can ever do. The one thing that you do with your heart, the love for Allah, the fear of Allah, the honoring of Allah, that believe in God, the trust in God.
That's the most valuable thing.
You know,
when your father, your mother, your spouse, when you know that they love you.
That means a lot because it's come from the heart.
And vice versa, the worst of all sins that that comes from the heart. That's why envy, hatred, jealous.
Wishing bad for people.
Hey, these are something so dangerous at destroying you from within.
It's so dangerous. Because if you keep doing sins and you don't care about them, you doesn't really bother you. You know what happened? You never think about Toba?
I mean, if you so Curtis about your sin, how would you remember even just to make a Toba from it? Oh, to repent from? If so used to watching haraam every night, if you're so used to listen to her arm every day? If so used to say what is not allowed every day. How would you ever use so used to consume what is a lot? Not a lot? How would you ever think about Toba? Or repentance or love from it? And listen to our most popular set
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the repentance accepted by Allah is only for those who do wrong in ignorance.
What ignorance means there is debate. They said, every sin is a form of ignorance because when you commit a sin You're so ignorant about it's so ignorant to do a sin because you are committing a sin against the most powerful the most on the most capable of punishing you and and the one who give you everything it's so ignorant to do you know what it's so ignorant to rob a bank, in front of the police station.
so ignorant is to do you know, a drug deal in front of the police officer
xeno the combustion almost cannot escape is so ignorant is to challenge him the Almighty.
So that's why it's called Johanna also a designer because you're so ignorant about the consequences of the sin.
Some scholar said no ignorance it means Yeah, and you do it. While you are in a state of ignorance what that means you're not paying much attention. You're so consumed by you're lost. You're not thinking but if you make the sin while you are fully aware of it.
fully aware of if
somebody was about you know, to watch with his hat on and all of a sudden his cell phone comes in it a lot
more reminder.
And then comes
somebody told me once
he went to one of these * sites,
bad sites.
And he saw like a very attractive key the name when you click on it, it pops up for him. A verses from the heart
and the reminder of death, some
Did that to Trump?
The person who looking for how long pull her legs, you know? Oh, you're gonna see a picture of songs all naked and like, click on it. Oh, oops, graveyard
was it was a trick for someone. So he was telling me I was asking about how did you make Toba from a sin. So he told me Actually, that's the reason
I'm not promoting this method. But But imagine if this person saw that. And then he said out, close it. Let me look for another one.
That's not doing a sin with ignorance. That's purposely doing it. Purposely ignoring the reminders of a lot.
Somebody going to Vegas.
And
the airplane showed me about like, you know, dangerous land and emergency landing.
Then after the land and everything hamdulillah when is the next flight.
And you want to go there for gambling, nothing to be reminded, but didn't work. He saw insisting versus someone caught by surprise.
Someone because of their weakness.
unintentionally.
As big difference between the two.
through May of two boredom and Kareem, they repent soon after that.
As long as the pin before to die, it's acceptable. But it's more acceptable of varioprint right after
when levena either five of his shirt and our banner more emphasis on the karuma after they commit the sin, you know, the wakeups? How did he do that? That's wrong.
And I will tell you, it doesn't. It doesn't matter how many times you did it. And it doesn't matter how many times you say I should have not done that. As long as you keep saying that sincerely. You're there's a great chance for you to survive.
Because sometimes a shipment comes to you until you come on. How many times you promise, am I going to do that?
20 times
did you say this at the beginning of the year you still doing it? You're still doing it?
What does Siobhan want, wanting to quit this in?
Tell me
that she's not wanting to quit Listen, what he wants you to quit
estavela
He wants you to stop saying a stop for Allah. So you stay with your sin without stuff Allah
and you fall for it.
And we fall for it. So sometimes
you What's so dangerous, this attitude of careless
because if you became so careless about your sin and you so consumed by them,
Allah subhanaw taala
leave you for yourself, consumed by your sins and you will not find this interest, zeal, power,
excitement for the good deeds.
So voila Hill ah Tammy and I swear by Allah they would never be together in the heart of a movement. The love for the Koran and the love for music.
They will never be in the heart of a moment of episode set. One of them will kick the other one out.
I never seen someone love his wife and his adult daughter
I've never seen anyone like that someone go around sleep around Dino never has no love in his heart. Never enjoy his wife
Carrie Hello home be at home for
Allison in the Quran. Allah hated to see them with the army of Mohammed so some of them so they made them distracted and not to join the army.
He didn't
get distracted. He said oh, we're not gonna go and one of the battle who I love talking about the hypocrites. It's the sense mikelis Allah that's interested in them.
That's the dangers of these sins that you keep doing keep consumed by them. Also pelota Anna, he will
prevent you from his risk. In the lab data you have a risk within the neighborhood upon the resource on them. The person will not be giving his provision as a result of his or her sins and provision
Don't ever think provision means in Arabic or even in English or in the Sharia essence, it means that money or the food, no provision is much bigger than that.
Your spouse is a provision your children is a provision. Your Deen is a provision. Your top boy is a provision. Your wealth is a provision.
Java that hasn't been
told him yet. Hmm. Yeah, that's right. I go to sleep early.
And I'm healthy. And I love to stand up in the middle of the night and pray I even make my will boo ready? This is the old days you don't have any water in the house. You know, extra water. So he said I'm in water ready?
I couldn't stand up. I don't wake up.
I don't wake up.
What do you think the reason?
Part of
the sin that you do in the daytime prevented you from standing up in the night before
sun see what you do in the daytime.
purify yourself during the daytime. And you will see how the result in the night
as well as Sulaiman. Don used to say there is no one Misato gemera
except
the only reason I he believe he's people miss salt and Gemma because of their sense. Do you see how he sees he see, missing the good deeds is one of the consequences of sin.
consumed with how wealth is not allowed for you stealing from people's money, taking money that doesn't belong to you using usury.
That will make you not interested in giving Suburbans a garden.
It could be not necessarily 100% but it could be that's the dangers of it. You know this attitude. Make the person when you don't get about to sin. You don't get to conceal them, you actually expose them. You stop being proud of them.
She puts in her Facebook, he puts in his Facebook. While we are I saw one a person unfortunately I know a friend.
I saw him putting his picture in his wife in a striptease club.
Um, no shaming and either Oh, we're going to the strip club you know and whatever in Vegas and you know me and my wife exploring new things in life
what a sick
What a shame bomb play with his head.
You know why? Because he doesn't feel the pain. He doesn't feel that this is something wrong.
It's like going to eat and in and out.
of you know, that is
our burger place, whatever.
So
an obese or sometimes on a coup
in Iran,
every one of my own
have a good chance to be forgiven, to be protected.
To be accepted to be guided. except the one who openly boast about his sin or her sins.
Just look at Instagrams
dawn, just
Yeah. Oh God, like ya know, people profiles.
They post theoretically or harm things and they don't care.
Not taking sin seriously. And having no problem with that. You know what it does
it make you start with the smaller one than bigger than bigger than bigger until you fall on the most serious, serious sense. Until you fall into the queue for unsure and you don't care and listen to how the process of them said in the module in a
way the heroin carry. A person will lie, then will not only lie you have to how do I get it the person will lie and care to lie and we'll make up things for no reason.
You have no reason just to make it up. Just a lie.
Lying
Came natural
take for him or her
had to be in the law he could.
That person will be written in front of his name, a liar.
Hot sauce, the point coming in kidney Bay DLL footer
lying lead to future what's for sure. And for June it means
the word literally mean exposure. Yeah, I need the person will be exposed
to the sin
he will be as not only lie anymore, it's all type of evils. So that's the point. The point is that one send me to another and one another to another, until the person basically will feel and see himself very far away.
This attitude,
this art of you, being curious about your sense, you don't mind them, doesn't hurt you doesn't bother you that you're doing wrong.
is the reason for a lot of anger.
For all of us curse through you
to fall from his eyes.
And somebody said something that I asked you to memorize it
posted in your
social media, share it to your friends, but more important than this, you keep this in your ear.
Remember them worded the way you like he said the algorithm is all of them were in that yet in the law.
It depends.
The more you see your sin, small and little. The more it is greater in Allah's eyes.
If it is nothing in your eyes, it is so big and unless eyes
will be ugly Maya will more in depth. Yes. All right in the law.
At the moment you see us in something big and serious. And you take it so serious. You see it as something big.
It will be an alumni something very little in the small.
It's the opposite.
See, if you see yourself big things alone, see them small. If you see them nothing in small Allah seat as big.
So remember that that's how well the thing that keeps you aware. So that's why if you don't care about them, Allah does. And Allah will see there's a big thing.
What are the reason for such attitude?
I start thinking to ask myself, why this has become so common nowadays today.
You know, just one night.
That is the wedding night, the wedding night getting the what if you die doing this and
just traveling
which is one time
it just is not a big deal.
So what's this attitude came from? What are the reasons behind it?
I have several reasons. Number one, and general Billa. People really don't know who Allah is.
Don't Understand, didn't know his qualities.
Allah. Allah warning you have himself. Well, you had zero common law when
Allah said, Well,
he will do Jamie and Papa who Yama Yama, they did not honor and respect Allah, the proper respect, the proper honoring.
That's why he did what he did. And the last thing the whole entire heavens and earth will be in his first in the Day of Judgment inside his fest and the Day of Judgment.
Allah said nip a baddie, tell my servants us yeah Mohamed tell the people
and the animal a photo Rahim that I'm the most forgiving, the Most Merciful that's it know what that be Who am I that would have been and my punishment is the most severe punishment.
People don't realize that the one who let a prostitute intergender
Because she give food to a dog is the same one who took a woman to Hellfire because she killed the cat
when I mama Corolla in the Oval cafe room
The only kuffar The only ignorant and the one who feel so protected no big deal
that's why
and I saw the amount of unset
Don't ever look at the size of your sins
rather look at the size of the one you have disobeyed
don't look at the size of your disobedience Look at the size of the one you disobeyed
that's because if ignorant people don't think this way people don't know that people don't realize the last panel to Ana's favor upon you writes upon you
write for spec
for God's sake you can do inappropriate things in front of your parents
in front of older
but you do it
carelessly in front of him that second reason so the first reason my opinion why people have this attitude of being so you know, sins became so normalized and became no pain nothing is a person feels like they're not doing anything wrong and and keep going and going and going. The second reason is my opinion is
that you start to justify your sense you find ways to justify it you know, the people the book this before it gets to human nature.
You know, they tried to justify it for themselves to find you know what exists for it. And people justified by as we Some people say like as if the ends justify the means, you know, my heart is good, it's okay. And it's amazing. Like for example Give me an example if a woman for example, believe in hijab and she must wear hijab Okay, they okay but she doesn't want to write what her job
so what she does she wears stretch and stretch close and tight clothes what's the job is
or just you know any playing around
you can deceive a lot of
those who go they are the one to fulfill their sexual laws
so what they do they go and be married and divorced and some of them even in the same night marriage and divorce as decision making game with a lot
there's no merit
Xena but you just you know try to make it looks
Islam
those like some guy was telling me about you know cheating and and taxes and doing this and lying and all those and after all this Tell me oh you know because in Islam there is no taxes. Yes and the reason for Islam no taxes. That's the only thing you know from Islam.
But Islam also that is lying.
You know, one of the deceiving and be careful some people people do these sins and why people have a problem with it. Then fee healer chiffonier smile command to save
that shame on convince you that you're perfect
for Burma even Masia.
There is no basically your Eman will not be affected by your sins.
even feel in theology. If you studied theology. We have a great not a great I mean great numbers,
sects and groups known in historical as a Mutya today, the most presentation of it that I shot on so and so. And even some of the
naff took that position. They said that Eman is one thing if you have it your image perfect and liable. So your Eman and debris and
Mohammed are solemn equal.
It doesn't matter if you're a drunk fornicator as long as you're Muslim, you and everybody else is the same.
But even those who said that, theoretically, they still recognize that sins are haram and should be
avoided, I would I did my dive, even with saying this as a theoretical opinion, they still consider sin as something so dangerous.
When you just convince yourself, you know what doesn't matter, I'm perfect. I'm gonna imagine my heart. My heart is so strong, somebody was telling me, you're actually in a man who Binya, I was advising him about something on what he's doing. He said in them and I might have been the the deeds are based on the intention, is it exactly.
You get it.
Your deed shows what your intention is. If you're it's corrupt, that shows that this heart is corrupt.
He wasn't he making it the other way around is it doesn't matter as if there is a separation between the heart and the action. I said, No, you're misunderstanding that. Actually, if your action corrupt, that's a big clear sign that there is your heart is corrupt.
And your intention is not good.
Three, one thing that I found, made a lot of people to have this attitude toward since the issue of free trade off.
There's different two opinions.
There is a difference of opinions. Shooting, we have an AMA there is a big fitna in our modern days.
And the sin and the harm instead of it is only done for the need of for necessities or for exceptional case became the default
became the default.
You know if and and I think the reason for this goes back to some of the students of knowledge and Muftis of our time today, especially in the Western world. And in general, unfortunately, today
that it became that the exception became the default.
Yes, I'm a doctor. I'm a physician, I'm a professional work I do. I have to shake hands with the opposite gender I have to do yes.
But not for me to go to MSA and to see girls and boys giving hugs to each other.
Not to give them five to each other.
Yes, in the workplace, we have to work and interact in office and college we sit together but not to hang out and to take you in a car and to go to have dinner and I have you and your girlfriend.
We turned to justify that because the exception became like the default is very dangerous.
Any logic I want. Going back to my other point, which is the issue of enough Kira Kira is not allowed. Is it over this difference of opinions?
are you really doing it because you are convinced with the other opinion? Are you just doing it because there is a difference of opinions? I'll say this again. There's a difference between I'm doing it because I'm convinced by the other opinion but most of people do it just because there is a difference of opinions
brief
and the law or Anna was sooner. Leah Kuma
what is Hera for Lydia?
The textual evidence from the Quran and Sunnah are the one that solve the dispute. Today we are using the opinions of the scholars
to judge the Quran and Sunnah to judge the rules of Sharia
interessato cliche when you have a difference of four do it'll let you go back to Allah His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will answer kita
Leah kamaaina NASS, female Tara foofy or arm is the one who solved the dispute. Not the dispute with people will be taken as a judge over what's in the Planning Center.
And a sharpie has a beautiful talk about this refuting one of the scholars time who used to make this as a point if there is a difference of opinion. It means how to know if a difference of opinion doesn't mean a lot.
But it means if you convince with that opinion that's cause
and effect one except for intimate element after if you truly believe that this is a fetch was correct. The person will give you a factor will carry the responsibility of it.
Number four, I think this attitude developed in our society today. Because we don't have people yet mobile mobile phone and
we don't have people say to people that's wrong.
We don't have parents telling their children. That's not correct. This is how long
we don't have many people today, brothers and sisters and friends telling their friends. No backbiting, I'm not going to tolerate that. That's not right.
I think this attitude develop when we don't even more being
leaders, people, mentors, they don't speak out.
Sometimes my kids get so frustrated with me because they keep saying the same thing again and again and again. I never get angry, but I'm not going to give up.
Because the moment I give up, when they see my son or my daughter or something on the moon will die. And they will just so used to it.
In our in our amygdala nutso Allah very sorry. Have you ever gotten the suit the way the children have changed? That's to learn, you know, they said history repeats itself.
Even I like what?
Another way to put it says
history doesn't repeat itself, but it rhymes.
That's very true.
Mark Twain. History doesn't repeat itself but it rhymes. Okay, so
Benny is right he kind of
had a tequila what that matters now.
When you see his friend is a tequila fear a lot of them don't do that. The next day, you say the same thing.
But after that, they give up this sort equal to Akilah who was Elisa who was sharing the either the cause they don't talk about it anymore. It died.
Shannon danika Bella Bella hakuba Baba him about Allah made their hearts the same.
That's dangerous when the society don't speak up
in a Latina car for only
then it can be more. So what can we do? Can I attend mukarram Fido Allah curse them, because they did not speak out against the evil that they see.
In the NASA either I will warn him phenom yo la de la and you're among the other.
How can a similar sort of LaHood
if you see boom, and just to say don't speak up, I want to stray everybody.
So if you ever thought about killing the jameela Jeeva. So if you only 37 years you will either a heavy cruise and you don't care about the home out about
he said it is must watch upon the people who are hanging out drinking together to say to one another this is haram. Otherwise, they have the sin of drinking and the sin of not speaking out.
You might see that silly, but never was silly. The point is that you don't lose that inner voice inside you that telling you wrong.
Because if you lose it, you don't have place to go back to.
In the liberal society today. That's not acceptable.
Even though we talk about freedom of speech, but in America, the speaker says that's wrong is culturally not acceptable. advising is not culturally acceptable.
And unfortunately, we have a lot of people in our religion.
I'm not against
being a modern and I don't know if that's the right word or not modernizing Islam, but what I mean by that is to making sure that we tackle modern issues.
I've been seen by many people as a very liberal person, many of my positions, and I do consider I think being liberal is not a it's not a negative things. But the problem comes with some liberal Muslims who do not have any limits. You know what's so dangerous with this approach to Islam.
You know why I'm so appreciative of those conservative, old stories.
Because I call them the anchor of the Muslim community
This is the anchor because you go very far far far away this when you reach 60 years old, when you're done with all this ups and downs and excitement and if Allah give your life and you reach 70 at least there is something you can go back to it.
But if we take that anchor
if there is no if this is not preserved, there is nothing go to back to it.
What happened to you what happened to other people? What is the religion done next?
Number five, you know what make people also continue doing this sense when people start giving names and titles and descriptions are not true to the sins as salam said in the end of the days about hammer solibri matter Khadija Muna Habib is Mia they give her a different names
By the way, before I pass the previous ones is not I'm talking I'm not it's not only that we don't speak out when we see our friends doing something wrong.
And he just I can pass without mentioning this. I so the opposite the cheer the one who does something wrong
once a sister took off her job look at the Facebook Mashallah, I'm proud of you. I still love you. You know that's your freedom. That's your choice. You know? I'm glad that you have a personality. Excuse me.
You cheering for I'm not saying cursor stuff for a lot now. She's my sister. My daughter might but that's so wrong.
Somebody do something wrong. I do believe men are allowed to shave their beard he shows Mashallah you look better you look nice.
Your party was wonderful. No, it wasn't it was
it's filled with her.
It's really irritating. That's what killed that feeling inside you that there is something wrong
as the problem
to call things up to give it name other than its reality, also make people justify sins and making good so acceptable in society. You know, don't say usury Riba its interest. Its spirits.
It's you know, drugs. What do you call?
What's the cool name for drugs?
Huh?
Which drugs? marijuana? Huh?
What is it?
Candy?
Candy. That's right. Candy. You see,
you know what? The indecency and the exposure of our personal choice.
She's a free eager. He's a free man.
You know, indecency and * and always got it's called modern art.
It's art. It's fun. Yes.
Killing and transgression. So you can see this in a wider
angle, killing and transgression and and abusing Jihad sebelah.
You give it another name
backbiting and making fun of people.
Oh, we we basically giving us a
and worse than all of us, when you put the word Islam in front of everything, even if it's completely on Islamic.
I understand we are so weak that we can so happy with many things that we believe it's hard but just because of the weak the level of weakness that we have. Just they put the magazine, you know, in a * magazine, a woman with hijab was so happy and so proud of
shame.
But this is temporary and how long became something painless, something normal.
One reason also people saw
into the heart. They don't feel any problem with it. Because and how long is so easy
it's soft, so easy access to it. As in adultery so easy. Dating is so easy. Drugs are so easy.
Lying in hypocrisy is so common.
I couldn't see if anything that make sense so accessible, like Internet.
That's why tomorrow's event is so essential and important.
All kinds of sense from the indecency to stealing people's identity to testing to
bad ideology.
It's sad when you see parents cheering for the children with the use of the current
marshmallow smart we just took somebody's money was smart about that.
He still technically
among making her arm so easy and accessible on all these fatawa that give people you know
Hello, hello hello hello. And people try to justify for them
number seven
I think a lot of people do this because they think minor seven is not a big deal
just as long as they avoid they should go for a main reasons and it's not a big deal
remember what I lost a lot a typical auto attache upon don't follow the shape and footsteps. He stopped with the small
and he didn't know where you end. at him I brought him along Allah reported that sad, sad sad but the process of them said Yakumo happier to the new endeavor method. Mahabharata kamisato Minister Obi Wan don't ever underestimate the dangers of the minor sins. The sins that you
are happier is nothing not a big deal.
It's like when people go traveling and they come to a valley And every get the tweak here and there to put it together and start the big fire.
And in the visa salon tada yakko Mahaprabhu for inner homina la he thought about he and his party, but yeah, and the Malik tuba we call him can be high over piano.
Yeah, I should be careful from the small sense that you don't care for it. There is someone will ask about it in the Day of Judgment. Tonight, this early in, it's often Juma. We read surah
that if you think about it, it will shake your heart.
One of my dearest friends
like a Shere Khan a mentor I take him as
a friend as well. Chow has happened to me. Once somebody told him what's the most scariest verse in the Quran for you the one that you are afraid of the most the one that when you read it you just too scared he said well my yeah
if you make as much as the roar of evil, you will meet it in the Day of Judgment you will see them though you know what's the head of the small end
you know it's
a small things like a seat
that will sit in the Day of Judgment that's scary
That's why shippon is
heavier than that kinda horrible you've been mocked a lot but he's happy to convince you to do the main the minor since
number eight I think people became so like sent be so normalized in society because as we see catarratto disaster people access
because so used to it day and night everybody doing it everybody doing it, you can la model house doesn't mean you don't have any more resistance to it.
Trying to wrap it up.
So these are
the main reasons. I'm going to put two quick points in the next five minutes. We're gonna delay the panel for about 10 minutes.
quick points as pure.
Number one.
Always when you commit a sin, just make sure that you fall out to the stone far
Stop, stop when you mean Yama helped me not to do this again.
Oh Jaya kita Bella, the either one verse in the Quran that lm acid is the one that gives you hope the most boulia eva the alladhina Asana for HANA fusi. him locked up and up O'Meara Mattila.
Oh my servant those who have committed a lot of sin
shift will be dying.
Man no Asafa Lucien Pallavi Hamada a baddie, Vanessa bumili.
Even though they've done a lot of sin, Allah said, My servants,
he still call them mine.
He didn't distance them.
Don't ever give hope
and love forgive all sins, and he's the most forgiving, the Most Merciful.
Number two, and also remember, Allah subhanaw taala said,
mama yam and so on
to Mr. Fairey LA.
semana
de la hora Rahim. Whoever commit sins or do an act of transgression, then ask forgiveness, he will find a lot of most forgiving, the Most Merciful.
When Mr. Fairey Neville Azhar
once told his students, do you know what that disease and what is the cure? The worst disease and what's the worst cure? And how person can be healed?
He was talking to doctors.
He said that that was what she found.
Then they said what kind of a modality?
The disease is the sense
the medicine is a stark federal law or law Forgive me. Well, I'm mushy, fat healing because even when you take medicine
to be healed, that's right.
The healing and the tuba tones that you repent and you never come back to it.
Number two, don't ever look at the minor sin. As minor always look to the size of the one you disobeyed not the size of your disobedience. Remember what anybody remember what the frontline said, I told you memorize this.
The Atari ma yovel them were in the US or in the LA
will be three miles in the cowboy in the LA
the way you look at your sun will determine a lot how we will look at the sun. If you see something big and dangerous, Allah will see something small. Until
you see something not a big deal Allah see it is a big deal.
And big and huge.
Remember that.
Three, being the company of good people,
you will have the same lifestyle of your friends.
Number four, when you ask for fair to
ask for people to have what I have
not only knowledge, but also Religious Studies. Number five.
Learn this rule. If you don't occupy yourself with good
you will occupy yourself with that. So make sure that you busy studying doing that's why I said exercise study those things which is head on and better than just doing halaal acceptable occupies over time and sports. But what about this permissible, but what about occupies over something better than that?
Besides the permissible playing studying and sport, you'll see read, participate in dow volunteer your time at work. Number six, is stay away from the things that lead you to the sense some people especially among like young and old, I found that one of the main gates for sins is staying late in the night.
sermon above and mercy
and being alone.
Those who always go to the room lock the room stay alone
szczepan loves to hunt the person like that.
So be careful.
Also some people certain things like they listen to certain music or
Like to hyper
watch your eyes,
stomach, your eyes everywhere. controller.
Number seven, make all the art for yourself to be guided
for yourself to be forgiven.
Surely unforeseen Omen say yada, yada protect me from the evils and the consequences of my evil deeds from our evils and the consequences of our evil deeds. Number eight. revival that concept of holding yourself accountable.
Enough Scylla womma
ask yourself who your actions number nine. Let's revive also the concept of let's give advice to one another in the nice way.
Especially to people close to you. Nine let's make halaal easy.
Why have Amazon easy? Why we make marriages so difficult? One guy want to get married. They asked him for $1 is $70,000
either expensive in New Jersey
and to somebody template in Houston. A young man named Brian wood when I married you know how much is I said to the father of the $300,000 I did the contract
system $300,000 more?
He said yes he's Hyderabadi
congratulations.
I love Hyderabad, Chicago Sharif next week.
We destroy their number 12 remember death visit graveyard you know I noticed something even I am guilty of that and I should work on that a little bit.
I looked at myself the only time I visited I visited graveyard in the visit visit the graveyard but I asked myself when was the last time when he did you visit the graveyard not following a funeral
just by itself
just to go because it's a completely different experience. You go just to reflect.
Number 13 make sure that you pray on time missing Salah is a sign of desires and taking over your heart
about salata Tovar showered. 14. Think always about the consequences of your sense.
Don't it's maybe moments of joy and happiness. But there is there is tax for that.
You know, when we're young, we used to eat everything.
We don't care, but we pay for now.
I was last week in a place they have a deserted called the sin the sin the big sin or something that the big sin Yeah, the big sin and ice cream.
I'm not selling today.
Thank you. I spend enough in my life
is like that you eat the dessert. You don't feel it, but you pay for it later.
eat the pizza, you don't feel it, but you pay for it later.
Just remember that the the sweetness, if there is a sweetness of the sin is a very short period of time. But after that it turned to be a very better
number 16
or 16. Stay away from being alone. Don't stay late, hang out with people, good people. Number 17. Use some of these years. One of the thing I will advise is completely cut off any connection with the sentence. So if you have a phone number saved if you have an account, save if you have a B no pictures, images, anything in your cell phone, your phone, just get rid of it completely. Cut it off
and re ship harangue, cut it off.
Also, one of the things that use some of these tools to help you to remind you constantly
is somebody he told me. I have a problem with internet I go to things that I'm not supposed to do. I said okay, tell me what can you What can you do? So one thing that is is to have a sticker on the side of the corner of his laptop. It says what
I was watching you.
You can delete your history with Allah
unless you make Toba.
So that's just the way you can do too.
Help yourself. You know, don't have a computer in your bedroom
don't have
just just I'm going to use the computer in the living room.
My advice in general do not end your day with a sin. Don't watch movies until you fall asleep.
Will because you want to go sleep the last thing you did something worth I'm not saying hello, I mean certainly maybe you're not watching something. But I think worth sleeping upon.
Strengthen your Eman. The more your Eman and tap on a better, stronger The more you can fight back. Make sure that you balance yourself. Balanced yourself. This is my last advice. Balanced yourself balanced between oil and spirituality. Balanced yourself between taking care of others and taking care of yourself. This notion that enamel is a hammer. I'm fat. I'm a middle middle a vida hacer la salette locka this notion that you know what serving people on doing is more important than a bad day that unbeli only impact you that's not correct.
What's the point of doing all the service and going out and you are so empty from inside?
That's one of the Chapin trick in these days. Most of these many of these you they see they go out and volunteer and they do social work political work, that's nice. But what about you from inside?
Nothing.
So we
anything can shake, you
know, take care of yourself,
strengthen your Eman and do other things as well to people.
So the more you you balance this, you connect your heart to the author. And also you don't forget about your share in this journey. The more you balance yourself in this area, the more you are more the more balanced you are, the more it is so difficult for the Chapin to get you
ask and seek advice from people.
This is
a reminder that a lot of like points that ensure you can reflect upon them and and
and think more deeply about a bit. It doesn't matter how many points you remember you do. But would it matter really, the things has changed.
If this only inspire you to make one small change in your life, I'm happy.
But yakata may be very careful.
From not taking science seriously.
Tell us how to protect us. And it went Oh yeah, come on here. Oh, no. Yeah, come on.