Waleed Basyouni – Bulugh Al Maram – Which Sin Is the Greatest

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The transcript discusses various speakers on the meaning of words and phrases used in Arabic language, including Shia Tanya Cara Monique's call for Shia Tanya Cara Monique. The speakers also discuss the meaning behind "ham ham" and "bringing up" in Arabic language, citing examples such as "ham ham" and "bringing up" in English. The conversation also touches on the negative consequences of killing children and the importance of protecting people's privacy, including harms caused by behavior. The transcript ends with a call to stop violence and a statement of caution.

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			smilla rahmanir rahim al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa sallahu wa salam ala nabina Muhammad wa ala
alihi wa sahbihi ultramarine or an eponymous rodino the Allahu taala and who call Sal to Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I use them we are them call call antigen allele.
		
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			I use them the album will enter Jada Linda Hina de wahala Takada color antigen antigen, Linda Hey
Nathan wahala going to some you call some some and just to la vida de casa Shia Tanya Cara Monique
called to some I call some and there's Annie and, and to zanni and to Johnny Holly Letty jeric, moto
Hakuna la narrating even Masuda de la Allahu taala on who I asked about messenger sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam which sin is the most serious. He said to attribute a partner to Allah, though he alone
has created you. I asked what next? you reply to kill your child fearing that it will share her
replied. Then he replied then to kill your child fearing that it will share with you your food. I
		
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			asked what next? He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to commit adultery with your neighbor's wife
agreed upon.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Similar 100 laughs salatu salam ala alihi wa sahbihi wa Manuela
		
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			and in enslaved Muslim there is an addition. Then Allah Subhana Allah to Allah revealed in the
Koran, the verse and salted for Python. After the person mentioned these three, the pile and Tatiana
Lila hinted then a heart attack. Curio and Ted Lila hinted at heart attack, you worship other than
Allah. And he although Allah is the alone his own who created you? Then he mentioned how film and
duck to the villa deca harshita in LA Riva and duck to la vida de casa de yakushima. Can
		
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			you kill your son because of fear of poverty? Then Then what are into zania Holly lithogenic you and
Disney? I want to zania heterogenic that you will commit adultery with your wives with your
		
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			neighbor's wife.
		
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			This Hadith are also Buhari Muslim, then Muslim Allah revealed after that after the third question,
Allah, Allah said
		
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			regime, one lady in Allah de la isla Han Han Alana yopu tolonen, Neff, sanity wanna to know, Neff
selati, how Rama long Illa bill How old is new
		
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			or my file danika.
		
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			Those who do not pray to Allah Allah do not worship other than Allah, those who do not kill the
innocent soul. Those who do not commit adultery
		
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			and teta Allah Allah He needed the niddah
		
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			What's the word nid means
		
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			free Lovato
		
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			the word net is a unique word it can carry the opposite meanings. In Arabic language, one word could
mean the opposites
		
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			sometimes we do that and slang in English as well.
		
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			So it means the opposite the opponent a loss
		
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			okay, but also a need it means the one who is similar to you, same to you. So here obviously, is not
to make an opponent a lot no and to make someone similar to Allah. So integer Allah Lila hinda and
he makes someone similar to Allah subhanaw taala. So you pray to that one, you seek help from that
one, you worship that one you attribute to that one, similar attributes that you believe that
belongs to Allah
		
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			clear
		
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			method and
		
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			I give you another example. What I
		
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			What's what it means
		
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			what are
		
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			behind you sir?
		
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			So behind but also it can be in front of you
		
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			I said
		
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			her left our aka our lead you left behind you
		
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			children under responsibility
		
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			or aka suffering bullied
		
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			me a mamuka forum
		
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			and now we can say what I
		
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			had in front of you a long journey and it's the same exact word
		
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			and rvfv the word
		
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			it means hate ministry but the man says the period either means the end of the menses purity
		
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			So, the words can use the opposite meanings. How can you tell by what
		
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			set the context you will understand what is exactly meant by us as
		
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			well lately either us us It could mean SS Gianni approached or ended at the bar
		
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			so the SS have the opposite meanings that's why they didn't move a city in the world debate it means
when the night start or the night and
		
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			they
		
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			also bear took
		
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			bear took I sold you a bit it took I purchase
		
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			a tag to shake
		
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			or bury to share any I give it so the word bit bad okay could have the opposite meaning
		
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			I mean
		
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			the water is heavy Meaning what?
		
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			boiling and it also could mean extremely cold.
		
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			So the word hammam have by
		
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			I will hurry in. It means the one who lends You are the one who is in debt dying out Almudena your
car and Kareem.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Anyway, so just just as for those who loves Arabic language, how do you get a malapa? If
		
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			there's something we call a snarl a bud, a smile about them the words that carry the same the
opposite meanings. Can you think can be used for anything or use in English? can have the opposite
meanings. And it's the same word.
		
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			We What do you guys think?
		
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			I know some slangs.
		
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			Yeah,
		
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			that's sick. It's wicked.
		
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			I mean, it's something like strong and good is like you said Ghana is wicked.
		
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			Or cool. could mean hot. No, it doesn't mean hot.
		
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			No, it doesn't mean warm.
		
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			But like,
		
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			I don't know in Egypt, for example. Now these days they say about the thing that they think it's so
beautiful to sit this is trash.
		
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			And the mean it's like beautiful.
		
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			This valla and in like it's really good. So sometimes we will use stuff like that in English. Can
you think of anything other than sick?
		
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			I know.
		
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			You know, okay, it means what?
		
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			I'm good. But when your wife says yeah, it's okay.
		
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			That Okay, that's right. So,
		
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			meaning. So it depends on how the context was shot here. That's a good one. buy a car, and the only
law he need then wattpad hollaback
		
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			tell you to pray to Allah
		
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			leash to do, because it
		
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			is the clearest form of worship act of worship.
		
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			But it applies to any other act of worship. It's to feel someone is to love someone like Allah is to
sacrifice to offer something for other law. So anything that is an act of worship,
		
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			But then they'll be so solemn give me Sal give an example of dread the supplication but the point is
a bad any act of worship or you believe in any creator of an Allah that you create with the law or
you believe in anyone who have the same power as God anyone if you believe that anyone has the power
to legislate other than a lot out to a raise or two can't legislate a mean religiously or someone
who for example can abrogate the Sharia other than a lot
		
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			that's not right. They can anybody tell me why the processor um said and he's the one who created
you
		
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			because if He created you have the ultimate favor has the ultimate power. Because he is horrible and
I mean, he deserved to be the only one worship How can you worship someone who didn't create to do
anything for you?
		
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			Can you imagine I go to atoms house, okay, and Mashallah, I can cook the food and do everything.
		
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			And in the end, they said, I'm so grateful for your Brahim, Brian. For all the good thing I'm really
appreciate it. What's this? He's the one who made everything for me and I used to go to someone
else. Allah made you created you could read this whole word for you, then you worship someone else,
you submit to someone else.
		
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			Wrong, it can be called Coca Cola to remind you of this simple fact which is He created you
		
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			by then he said Salalah is a lamb. But by the derry o n. Duck to the wala deca hush yet a cola mark,
you kill your son, or your daughter because of the fear that he will eat with you.
		
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			However, the way the President put it, it makes that person look so it's already so bad that he's
killing his children. But it even making worse because he doesn't want him to eat with him.
		
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			Yeah, and you but he made the book, you know who it makes? It's so disgusting.
		
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			Because what you worry about what? I don't have money to spend on him. You think he'd like these
people who said I don't want to have any he will get rid of his aboard the child. Why? Because I
don't have money. Because I worry about like, you know, I don't know how I'm gonna spend on him. And
Yep, I'm a Mac. That's why I was fine. I said, What I talked to Lola, the Kim harshita in LA, do not
kill your children because of fear of poverty. And by the way,
		
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			I'm not against good planning
		
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			for children. But what I'm against is this concept of thinking that
		
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			children and having children and having, you know, population in the country is a problem in many
Muslim country in many Muslim country. Always our biggest problem is what we're overpopulated. You
know why? Because we don't know how to manage our resources.
		
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			That's why there is a problem in the popular population. I remember Mahathir Mohamad, in the 80s,
		
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			in the 80s, said something he said, In Malaysia, he did something very powerful. He said, Saudis
have oil and Gulf country have oil, Africa they have gold medals. And he said what do we have
rubber?
		
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			In Oregon, what do we have, but we have something more powerful than gold and oil and all these
things. I have what people
		
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			need committed to invest in people.
		
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			Same thing Philippine invested in people. Singapore invested in people in education
		
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			in Japan invested in people
		
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			and that's why these countries are growing economically. It's not like our country every every den,
Hey, guys, you need to stop having children, our children suffer as of the problem is, again, I'm
also against that somebody does not have any plan for you know, their, their children, you should
plan properly. But what I'm what I am going to think of to end the live that also that have blessed
you just because your fear of poverty, this is this has been applied to the level of individual
countries society at large and and you see now
		
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			There is a whole entire race not expect to survive.
		
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			If you go to countries like Sweden, for example, the original Sweden people, they produce just 1%
		
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			of a child less than one a child, the family there, how this nation will survive? The only way
surviving is because Mashallah the importance of this, you know, refugees and that's what raising
that the percentage It's crazy how this can be very dangerous that we start just ending the life of
new children just because we are worried about you know, feeding them. I remember reading about him
that Adham somebody came to him and he said to him, You sticker he complained to me said my wife
keep getting children call in Marathi. Any taxi bit Ola, as if she got pregnant by herself. And he
is he has nothing to do with it. He said, Why keep getting pregnant? What can I do to her? He said
		
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			over the look at which one of your children to whom anila halen yo mo Absolutely.
		
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			see which one of your kids that you think will not take care of him resent him to me, I'll take care
of him.
		
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			Again, I'm saying this is required for me to plan adequately to be up to the job of Allah give you
Mashallah for five kids, six kids, 10 kids, 12 kids, whatever kids your app, you need to to be up to
that responsibility to work hard to provide for your children and so forth.
		
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			The mokka by the dyadic by why you choose. So the second worst sin after shark is what killing Why
did he choose killing your own son as an example? Because that's the worst form of killing the worst
form of shark a shark or a bad and there are the hardest one and the worst like it's the most evil
one is to kill your own son. So giving an example of the worst of each one
		
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			they now look at the third one so the third sin is what Xena adultery and what is the worst form of
Xena
		
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			and what happened between the neighbors
		
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			the ish man and to zanni Mr. Chesney and to zanier be Holly Lottie Jerry to zanni philological Arab
and Arabic language comes from tough out it different it means from both sides so it's not a *.
It's both sides agree on it. Both side cheating both side pretraining Okay, so that's why he said
zanni yocto litteraly Bina human and Allah
		
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			Allah Lila Halle Let the word helina Yanni wipe Zoda they anybody can can imagine where this word
come from haleema comes from the word why we call xojo helina
		
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			from Heron mineral Hill
		
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			okay, because she's hella she's lawful for him his lawful for
		
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			her.
		
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			Hello, Yeah, hello. Oh, yeah, hello. Yeah, hello, Anita Headley aha
		
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			also could means Yeah, hello. Yeah, hello, it means became halaal
		
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			it is lawful but if the route Yeah, hello.
		
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			Hello.
		
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			Alex, engage. How are they have we had any had Sophia? For the call? shalida Lana? Yeah, hello, it
means something that you are in.
		
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			So it could be the intimate, the physical, or I will be nice as it because you are in her heart. And
she is in your heart. You know, that's much better way to put it. So you became one body has an
awesome manner. Listen, mate. Hey, Lila. Yeah. Hello. Caller Hello.
		
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			Are you looking for me?
		
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			hubba hubba Halina Moscow Russia
		
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			What do we learn from this hadith number one, cada au them be album fadeaway au them be a kebab,
which one of the worst sins. So that means something important sins are not one levels.
		
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			And this is not when we say sin or not one level, it's important not because we want to pick the
lowest one. But also to avoid the most the bigger one, to even the big sins are levels. And even in
Xena, there is levels you see, ensure there is levels in killing there is levels. So you need to
know this. So if an in you always try to avoid the worst of the sentence, and the sin in general, we
divide them into three category shirk, associating other with Allah, then sins which is major and
minor.
		
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			And in the major among them, the greatest major send you someone a bottle kaback the worst of all
major sins.
		
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			I forgot for the sisters, by the way, I always keep that side here inside the mustard open. Because
I know it's dark there if anybody want to come you guys always more than welcome. So the worst of
all sins.
		
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			And he mentioned three commit associate with Allah, to
		
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			kill and to
		
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			any
		
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			commit adultery. So these are the greatest three sins. And Subhanallah if you think about it, they
are
		
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			entitled today are the greatest sin in earth and the most common sin in earth.
		
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			Don't you agree? fulfilling the sexual desire or the anger and the killing and abuse and which is
unfortunately, in this regard, what's happening in Delhi, these days, something should not be going
unchecked.
		
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			Any reports of 10s of people burned died in a attacked because they are protesting some of the laws
that are going on in India.
		
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			That seems to be discriminating against Muslim or could potentially be very discriminating against
Muslim and other minorities in India as well other than Muslims. And it's the reporting is really
scary. And it's very devastating, of how many people dying male or swatara make it easy for them.
Look at that.
		
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			Muslim in China. Okay, and what happening to them and now are forgotten. And even there is reports
that I've been keep receiving for some friends and people and university students who have family in
that part of the world, telling that the virus is just going into their camps, government not giving
medical attention to them. And it is getting bad. You know, when you look at the killing over the
world today became something common.
		
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			You know, in China, they had for the longest time, the law of the one child that's killing children.
You know, today, when when you hear that there is people promoting abortion, while woman in her
ninth months and eight months of pregnancy, and there is no dangerous on the woman's life.
		
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			And they want to make that a choice. And in my opinion that just contradicts what we just learned
here about saving life. I do believe that women have rights over her body. I do believe in cases of
abortion and limited terms and in with guidelines. I do believe in that. And I do believe there is a
space for this to be debated. There is a lot of opinions among the folks that talk about things of
that nature, but to
		
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			to make the the value of the humans live especially a child something that it is so easy just to get
rid of it like that.
		
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			I don't think that this is the right course of action. And this is this country. This is one of the
greatest
		
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			Since and in Islam, killing someone, especially your own children, they
		
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			and the Zina the adultery that had happened between neighbors, okay. And this is also
		
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			among the greatest sins that the person should avoid. What do we learn also from this, that the
worst of all sin at all as a shidduch Allah subhanaw taala said in the law hedaya obey, Allah will
never forgive Schick unless you go back to Islam.
		
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			This is one thing that will never be forgiven in the Day of Judgment. Unless ain't no matter how
good deeds, no matter how good you are, no matter how nicest you are, if you don't believe in God,
if you associate the law, that's alone, never forgive that. Well, ferromagnetic and he's willing to
forgive anything.
		
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			You have to add them Lola Kitani before Robin, or the coppia, son of Adam, if you come to me with
sins, as much as the weight of the earth,
		
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			as much as what is between heavens and earth,
		
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			My Venus symbol of hope I can imagine.
		
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			But you meet me last month I said, you don't commit shirk with me, I would forgive it. I'm willing
to forgive it.
		
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			But a shark is is a is a volume and
		
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			Allah says in a shorrock de la vaca namak if you commit should you lose the reward of all your deeds
in the day of judgment?
		
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			Fela Tatiana de la jolla and dadon will antem Tyler moon do not take partners with Allah while you
are aware of columnar bass will enter the moon and who you are who you are. So Coco, do not take
need to the law do not take part of the law. While you know you know what, that Allah created you
and I have a question for you. frown when he asked to be worshipped Do you think for our believes
that he created Egypt?
		
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			Do you think he knows that he made the river the Nile he knows he didn't
		
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			you think those people who ask to be prayed to to be mixed due to those who think that they have the
power to forgive your sin? They know that they did not create anything
		
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			that's
		
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			what unintelligent while you know that they did also when you go and you pray to these shrines and
dead peoples and and you you seek help from them
		
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			that would have unfortunately all over the world you know that they didn't create anything? You we
know that so why we take them out above them and do nilla
		
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			Why is the worst form of Shrek?
		
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			Can anybody think why praying to other than LA is the worst form of shark?
		
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			Because it shows what is your heart
		
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			attached to
		
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			us right? That's why it is like one of the worst form ship.
		
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			Sins has almost two sides one side related to Allah only and the worst of all the censorship, but
then the other sense has to do with violations towards human means. And the worst of all this is to
kill someone.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala said
		
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			Mankato and FMLA neffs Oh facade and fill out fucka Anima atella NASA Jamia as if you kill all
human, kind or mankind, one soul like all mankind, one innocent soul equal to all mankind. Mankind
or all humanity? Allah Subhana Allah said, and I don't know any verse in the Quran talks about sin
like this one, or America in any meaning a minute. It was not ever for a believer to kill another
believer in hapa except by mistake, car accident, Doctor give the wrong shot, you know, diagnose
wrong nurse.
		
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			Something like that. I'm a minimum.
		
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			Those who kill a movement a believer
		
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			intentionally fetches
		
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			Mohawk Needham v.
		
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			The reward of sort of the punishment such person will be in Hellfire forever. Forever here the NEH
for a very very, very very very very long time while I'll leave a low E while Anna, or work on data
who either been
		
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			analyzed, angry at that person and Allah curse that person on a law prepared for that person, an
unbelievable
		
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			unbelievable unimaginable great punishment
		
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			Can you imagine all this for killing, I just I want to understand those who fighting each other and
Yemen,
		
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			those who are killing each other and Iraq, those who are killing each other in Somalia, those who
kill each other in Libya. Those Muslim who are killing one another, and so proud of that.
		
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			They don't read this.
		
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			They don't understand this.
		
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			You're calling the de Sala salon. We're living in fcba de la carte Luqman Alamo in the lemons Valley
dounia. I swear by the one my soul in his hand that killing an innocent person is worse than
destroying the earth or destroying the world.
		
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			The value of the human saint
		
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			killing is a serious serious crime. in Ibiza Salaam said latarjet robotic afara don't back to call
for killing one another. Because that's the ignorant days, when people just fight one another kill
another.
		
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			Killing became something like, oh, the lead has no value.
		
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			There is a story in Egypt. If you saw it muscle free in the south of Egypt, there is a bad habit.
And unfortunately it is even in many countries. It's called revenge. And
		
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			so if I kill someone, I have to revenge go kill your cousin go kill this. There's no government. But
to show you the value, the human being has no value. So they said this woman have no family nothing.
And her husband was killed. And she wanted to take revenge for her husband. So she went to a killer.
		
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			And she told him and he really
		
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			wanted to kill the one who killed my husband.
		
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			Then he said how much you're going to pay me.
		
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			She said how much he said, at least to me at least you have to pay me any 15 or 25,000 pounds. That
shouldn't mean any money from if you squeeze me I will not get you like 5000 pounds.
		
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			And I have kids and I have the son I was killed and he loved this. He felt that he said
		
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			I will kill him for the sake of Allah.
		
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			I'm gonna kill him for the sake of
		
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			D want a really, really sad story.
		
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			A brother called me. He from United States.
		
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			Yemeni brother,
		
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			Tommy shefali. I have a question and serious question. He said my wife
		
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			called me. My daughter died. She was buried. And my daughter killed my cousin.
		
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			mice. My wife killed my cousin.
		
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			I said okay, because she suspected that his cousin raped her daughter. And that * caused the
death of her daughter was a young teenager, the village she was worried about the shame that she
raped. So the hospital covered it up. She barrier and she went and she killed What?
		
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			His cousin.
		
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			Now my uncle called me This is real question I got my uncle called me and he said his uncle his
brother's like, immediately uncle, Amma lesson. He said to him, You have two options.
		
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			You divorce your wife.
		
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			Okay. And when you divorce her, we go on to kill her father, or her brother. or her and her sister
or her and her mother. And they said like Why her? Is it because man for a woman if the if she
killed a man, they have to kill a woman so this is not an inheritance.
		
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			But that's that's the earth. That's the custom.
		
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			If you don't divorce her, if you don't divorce and we killed her
		
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			Brother, the killed her father. It became obligatory upon him to take the revenge and to clean to
clear the name of his wife. So he has to kill one of his cousins. And that means that the cousins
will start killing one another.
		
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			I said, Be smart and don't kill anyone. He said even if me and my wife now runaway come to America,
and we leave all this behind, and I said, I leave this for a law to the judgment. My father will
never accept the shame my father will go kill one of either his brother or his or his cousin, or his
nephew.
		
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			Shia What can I do?
		
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			I couldn't think of any will lie. This is real questions came to me a few years back and I said, I
have a hook manager helliya tm one
		
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			woman Assalamu alaikum.
		
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			They want the ruling of the J Hillier the ruling of the ignorant days
		
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			who have better ruling than a lot
		
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			of you we cannot give you a fact on this as your own Messiah in Yemen, or wherever you live.
		
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			Killing became something so easy today. No salon. No care.
		
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			In Debbie Sala la vida Salima code, laser movement for first Hatton mendini. You have exit in the
Day of Judgment, you have a good chance to survive and Dave judgment.
		
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			A learn to see but the man haraam and Billy rehab
		
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			unless you cause the death of someone or you any cause someone to be even injured, but it means
killing that killing someone.
		
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			You don't have a chance on
		
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			this one episode a while back, the first thing alone will judge between people is a demand killing
your job. Ask this Why did he kill me? What are the two superior to be even been quoted? Let's start
with this child who was born.
		
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			Have a question for you.
		
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			Allah said when
		
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			the girl who buried alive asked
		
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			for what sin you been killed, why you been killed?
		
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			And I
		
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			asked myself the question. I don't know.
		
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			If you ever asked the question this question or bullied?
		
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			Why Allah will ask the girl
		
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			Why the question goes to the girl. Why you think the Formosa Allah said to the girl for what sin
you've been killed? You'd assume that the question will go to the
		
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			killer
		
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			the father, but the question is going to what to the to the girl?
		
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			Isn't that isn't that interesting?
		
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			economist said why the father buried his daughter
		
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			because he was ashamed of having a daughter.
		
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			He was ashamed to do. So Allah Subhana Allah want to humiliate that man, that you don't even deserve
to talk. This one that you're ashamed of. She's the Honored One. She's the one who speak and you
shut up.
		
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			That's number one. Number two, it is more powerful. When the victim starts speaking in the court,
about the crime. It's more powerful in the court. It makes the the criminal remember and see and it
is so powerful. And it's very it's a punishment in itself when he see the victim speaking,
		
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			because he might forget after all these years, maybe he didn't when he was drunk. Maybe he didn't
when he was not like thinking but now after things settle down, it became even psychologically It is
very hard for him. And it's so beautiful, but I'm put it
		
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			and also this is a last start with this to tell you in Islam, Allah will defend the right of
everyone starting from the weakest in the society was this little girl going up? So that's serious
crime.
		
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			And in the LA harbor manickam Dima Acoma, Moroccan Allah forbade you to injure, to kill to cause you
know, any form of
		
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			disability to any human being
		
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			purposely, or to transgress, I'm going to somebodies wealth.
		
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			And
		
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			any salon.
		
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			And this applies also Muslim or non Muslim as well, pardon me. So Salim whoever killed, some was the
mean from the people who are non Muslim, I will be his opponent and the dictator, I will stand
against that person.
		
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			That's why killing is not an easy thing
		
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			is not something that we should take it lightly at all.
		
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			And unfortunately, today became numbers, we became numb with the oldest news that we hear.
		
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			And I'm going to mention those drugs, those who sell drugs, though, who facilitate drugs, helping
people to die.
		
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			That's not correct.
		
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			Those who, you know,
		
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			recruit and inspire our youth to go die or to kill. This is a great sin. And it has to be stopped.
Those who contribute in any way, those who give fatwah to dictators to kill their own people,
		
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			our partner in this crime
		
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			who goes vote, and promote and elect and support politicians who just hungry for war, just to make
money, or our partner to this sin.
		
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			Not a pacifist, I do believe that just war is exist. I do believe that worse, sometimes it's a
solution. But this is a very, very, very, very, very lost even in war. We care about saving humans
life. Because in war, it's about winning, not about killing.
		
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			And I always say war usually don't determine who's right. Only determine who left
		
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			Okay, get out of war who died and left.
		
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			Then the third son, which is a zener, adultery and the worst any
		
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			scenario is when there is a betraying your own neighbor who trusted you with his we talked about the
right neighbor last week. And now neighbors asylum This is why the bring the Hadith.
		
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			Rahim Allah, we could talk about the rights of the neighbors. And one of the worst way of violation.
The right if your neighbor is to further negate with his daughter with his wife, okay. With her
husband. We've been asked to protect them. We've been asked to be good to them, but not that any
		
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			law This is VAT violation for all these meaning. Carlat in abyssal Allah something like that.
		
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			Sir also salam, and Xena in Lebanon was asked about adultery. Carla How long have Rama hola hola
rasuluh it's forbidden Allah and His Messenger forbidden for car and innovation. Among the things
that he mentioned. Carla and Yesenia Rajan will be Ashley nisswa a solo le human and Yesenia urban
righty Jerry 10. For indications a person will do 10 woman is easier than fornicating with your
		
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			neighbors neighbor's wife. And he was asked about stealing his hat on her arm for babies
		
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			and to steal from 10 people easier than stealing from your own neighbor masala laughter ceram or mo
loud
		
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			and by the way that apply to the wife or the daughter or the sister any any member of your family
also applied to the people
		
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			who trusted you
		
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			need to be treated them like that.
		
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			He's somebody who work with you. And you end up like you know, your best friend.
		
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			And you end up like cutting out the villa
		
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			making dinner with his wife or with between them.
		
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			In abyssal Allahu Allahu alayhi wa sallam, order us to be good to our neighbor and not to harm them
in any way. And this
		
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			is one of the way to harm them because that's basically a violation
		
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			will lie or lie is not a believer who are sort of law, the one whose neighbor cannot trust him
		
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			and lay the lab manager over while your neighbor can trust you. Like
		
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			this is applied to the young boys and young girls. You need to know you can peek at your you know
neighbors while they're tanning in the end even if she doesn't follow the Islamic ruling she's
standing in the backyard and you just you know looking or between the you know, the from the second
floor or the fence or anything like that and you're looking at her without a job even if it doesn't
reach to the level of Xena any kind of violation or taking pictures or anything of that form is how
long today people have the telescope you know, they look at from the window picker they call them
that is a name for them.
		
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			stalker stalker is different but those guys don't start
		
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			peeping tom
		
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			keep in touch I never I don't know that. They
		
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			listen to this hadith Khalid Nabi salatu salam
		
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			ala Nabi solemn cachaca la Jara, he says Allah in the SDK la caja de I complained to you about my
neighbor for Karla hanabusa salam Be patient, be patient Be patient. Carla for the third third or
fourth time
		
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			my neighbor is like really harming me it's bothering me
		
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			then we'll call hollows take your furniture and put it in the street to get out of your house and
put it in the street
		
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			then the men did so people pass on the see can you imagine you take your like your furniture your
couch and you sitting outside of the couch in the street or in the front yard? So people said Malik
What's wrong with you? Then he tells them and then he Jerry my neighbor is harming me
		
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			fair pollun Lana, Hola, may Allah curse him
		
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			Okay, and everybody coming stop cursing the neighbor. So the neighbor came is a please go back and I
would never harm you again. And the heavy incident veto and in some of the ration that also got a
curse the neighbor who harm the neighbor and this is something serious. So these are just points to
end up with our session today with it practical points or maybe you can add some points if you have
		
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			other ways where maybe adultery This is the worst case scenario. But what other ways that you think
it consider harming your neighbor yellow number one
		
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			sisters brothers, give me points. That's considered a form of harming your neighbor you should avoid
that is common in modern days, and our society.
		
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			Now nice, you when you blow your leaves and you put all your leaves like I come and have all my
neighbor leaves, for example, Brian's all affair, he blow her leaves and he put it in my front yard.
You know, it's never happened just like can you imagine? You know, to put it in my like or on the
patio, sometimes the patio, you blow it and it goes all the way to your neighbor. So that's that's,
that's harm. Very good. What else?
		
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			To be too loud. Party. Music, piano
		
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			stuff like that. What else?
		
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			parking, you know, blocking them taking their parking spot without their permission. Very good. What
else?
		
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			What can you think
		
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			of harming
		
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			like something that's harmful.
		
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			I tell you about something. One neighbor of mine drove me crazy once in my lifetime.
		
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			He had his floodlight straight to my bedroom.
		
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			So any car passed by the floodlight in
		
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			My, in my, in my in my room Habibi, lower it so it goes down is like, you know you don't shoot to
the sky. So that's for example,
		
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			sometimes in Christmas, and we don't have that but this is also he that some of them like they have
all this like flashing lights and colors and stuff. So my house from inside is like a disco is like
a nightclub. That's not right you can do they can harm your neighbor. Also another one which is
making noise, you know any type of noise like fixing things in the night and making like, you know,
without taking any consider the time also looking at their our art
		
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			you know, peeking at them seeing what is also exposing the secret. Oh, you know what happened? They
were fighting last night. You know, I heard him saying this. I heard you don't if you see something
you don't say something?
		
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			You know, and this is dangerous society but if it's something private, you just don't expose them to
shut up expose. They're also listening spying on them.
		
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			That's not correct.
		
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			Also, one of the thing is, you know, I found like, one of the one I know, this is one of the people
that we know, they found that they have their cameras actually are pointed to the neighbor backyard.
		
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			As not corrected spying, that's not that's either. You know, I will tell you another thing that
sometimes we don't pay attention to is, you know, one day I came out of my house, it was windy, and
it's a trash day or the recycle. Sometimes the recycle is an urban basket. That's right. So you put
it out, the wind comes and I found all my bottles my bottles and like you know, and my neighbor I
can't do that I have to go collect it you know if you have you know those who have walking the dog
and Mashallah they photograph me Give me a free you know, for rising the the art I don't ask for
that, you know, this is also harming That's right. That's not correct, you know,
		
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			driving your car, in the driveway over my grass and blowing my grass and breaking the tip of my
sprinkler. That's not correct. You know, that's a that's a form of
		
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			harming your neighbor. So these are some practical like examples I
		
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			I see happening and monitors enough anybody else can think of another example.
		
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			Maybe the smell
		
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			like if there's bad smell comes to your house, especially those who live in an apartment and stuff
like that. It can be like really harmful. And I want to say something those will also apply to what
		
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			to hotel neighbors. So even if you are in the hotel, you watch for a neighbor not jumping up and
down and you have a neighbor downstairs your kids have to be you teach your children about that. You
were blessed in Texas Mashallah. We have houses I sometimes I forget. But you know most of the
viewers around the world are like not like that
		
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			they have apartment and Mashallah like I stayed with one brother in a hotel in as I call it, the
police
		
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			it's a chain in England, Mashallah his knees in the other room I say are hamaca la
		
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			Hackney
		
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			we can hear each other. And so like Krugman So, this is can be also somebody taking surveys. I want
to end with this habit, because
		
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			it really make us think a lot about this concept
		
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			called NIMBYs or salami
		
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			and Abiraterone de la palabra de niro Salama
		
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			in a Filipina youth caronian Kathy salata was the Mia was sada party her. This woman, people speaks.
So listen carefully. This woman people speak about her Salah night prayers, fasting soda donations,
via the G Ron Hubbard reset.
		
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			But she harm her neighbors with her tongue. She speaks she gossip she backed by Oh my god, what did
they got on like so like, as if she's Mashallah IRS agent counting everything coming in and make an
she speaks about people
		
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			color here for now
		
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			she's among the people of
		
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			color Rasul Allah well enough Alana and there is another woman you've come to see me
		
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			wasa pata was Satya and this other woman not known of praying or Salah or extra somehow extra Sonic
or extra anything others were under the sun a three minute episode when a teacher what she has a
very bad quality type of bread and biscuits very bad quality. Yeah, and he very cheap sometimes she
donated and she gave it to the neighbors. But she never seen anything harmful to her neighbor. She
She never speak ill about her neighbors are here for dinner. She's among the people of Jenna and
Harris.
		
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			I hope this will help us
		
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			to understand what is our religion is about because sometimes I feel religion transfer to be just a
bunch of ritual witches are important. But they're not enough. They're not combined by how we deal
and how we treat and how we act and how we interact with each other. You know, it's enough enough to
be just a Muslim. But it is also important to be a human being because you human first, then Muslim
second after me a human being know how to be nice to people. Then Islam comes to complete you and
Eman come to perfect you may Allah subhanaw taala and in your Filipino yaku Mirada and next week,
inshallah we'll have all another interesting hobby to speak about. Thank you very much. And if there
		
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			is no questions, we'll end it here.