Walead Mosaad – AlFath alRabbani of Shaykh Abd alQadir alJilani Class 42

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The Tabi Aynara is used to connect with the beggar and avoid loss of love. The Prophet's actions are not based on whim or reason, but rather on the fruit of his love for his people. He emphasizes the importance of treating people well, respecting natural rhythm, and learning from the Prophet's teachings. The use of the Jibadet is designed to preserve natural phenomena and natural phenomena, and the importance of trusting and distributing resources is emphasized. The use of the symbolism of the Lord of truth is a reminder of rem Remembering the Lord, and the use of the symbolism of the Lord of truth is a way to control and control the situation.

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			So, went to the 15th light
		
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			of Ramadan and we're reading from
		
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			the work of Sirimu Hiding Abd al Khadul
		
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			Jilani, Afat Harro Bani, wal Faylu al Rahmani,
		
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			Sublime revelation and
		
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			the divine merciful outpourings
		
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			in the set of discourses
		
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			that were recorded for
		
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			Sheikh Abdul Khader Jilani,
		
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			545
		
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			to 546.
		
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			So we have reached the
		
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			49th
		
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			majlis, the 49th discourse.
		
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			And the sheikh begins by
		
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			recounting the story, one of the kibar
		
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			of the Tabi'in, Abdullah Ibn Mubarak. Thank you
		
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			from the Tabi'in, if I'm not mistaken,
		
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			where he says,
		
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			We saw that phrase a lot.
		
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			So whoever is broken by, whoever is fixed
		
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			by, this is the haqq saying.
		
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			So he says it is related concerning our
		
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			beloved Mubarak
		
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			that a beggar came to him one day,
		
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			Qasaykh,
		
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			asking him for some food. He had nothing
		
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			in store except for 10 eggs. So he
		
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			ordered his maidservant to give them to the
		
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			beggar, but she gave him 9 and hid
		
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			1 away.
		
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			At the moment of the sun setting, a
		
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			man came
		
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			and knocked at the door saying take this
		
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			basket from me. So Abdullah
		
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			Radillahu Anhu
		
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			went out to meet
		
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			him and took the basket from him. Then
		
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			he saw that it contained eggs, so he
		
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			counted them and lo and behold there were
		
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			90 of them. He asked his maid servant,
		
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			where is the other egg? How many did
		
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			you give to the person who came before,
		
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			the beggar?
		
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			She replied, I gave him 9 and left
		
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			1 for us to eat for breakfast.
		
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			You're like,
		
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			Mahribi, I get to break his fast because
		
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			he was probably fasting that day. So he
		
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			told her, you have made us
		
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			lose 10.
		
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			So
		
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			he was used to getting a 100 or
		
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			he expected to get a 100 x. And
		
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			so when the,
		
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			based upon the all of this is not
		
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			said here, but you can infer it.
		
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			So
		
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			the hasana
		
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			is like,
		
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			one hasanah, one good deed counts as 10
		
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			with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And so when he counted, he gave 10
		
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			eggs,
		
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			or what he thought were 10 eggs to
		
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			the person who came asking for them,
		
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			then that's
		
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			the Ashriam tell you 10 times 10 is
		
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			100.
		
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			So there's an expectation or he would have
		
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			thought that it would come back to him,
		
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			as times 10.
		
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			But then when it came back as times
		
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			9,
		
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			as times 10, in other words, only 9
		
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			eggs went out, that's when he asked his
		
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			maid,
		
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			where is the other egg? So it looks
		
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			like you didn't give all of them away.
		
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			You must have
		
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			done something with the 10th one because we
		
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			only got 90 back instead of a 100.
		
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			So
		
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			then the sheikh says, such was their way
		
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			of relating to their Lord.
		
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			They always had faith and believed what is
		
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			found in the book and in the sunnah,
		
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			as we just said.
		
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			Hasanatubi ashramthariha the hasanat, the one good deed,
		
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			counts as 10 with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			So he took that,
		
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			to
		
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			from a literal degree because of his yaqeen,
		
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			because of his certainty.
		
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			So that's why the shaykh said that. Such
		
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			was their way of relating to their Lord.
		
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			They always had faith and believed
		
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			in what is found in the book and
		
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			the sunnah.
		
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			They were servants of the Quran
		
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			and they would never go against
		
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			it in anything they did, whether in action
		
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			or at rest, whether taking or giving.
		
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			They dealt with their Lord and found it
		
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			profitable to deal with him,
		
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			so they made it their regular practice.
		
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			This is what
		
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			this first story here is an example of,
		
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			Muamila tul Khaliq.
		
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			So that you make your Muamila
		
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			like your your main relationship and your hem
		
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			and your aspiration. We've
		
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			touched on this thing before but to make
		
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			it solely
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to the degree that
		
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			he didn't really see,
		
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			you know,
		
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			the person coming asking the beggar or then
		
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			the generous person who brought him 90 x
		
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			instead of a
		
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			100. He's not dealing with those people per
		
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			se, he's dealing with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			That's how he's looking at it.
		
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			So So they dealt with their lord and
		
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			found it profitable to deal with him, yarbaahu,
		
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			yarba'hunyah,
		
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			the rebah.
		
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			The Prophet then comes back to them both
		
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			in this life
		
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			and in the next.
		
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			So they made it their regular
		
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			practice. They saw that his door was open,
		
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			so they entered it, And they saw that
		
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			everyone else's door was closed,
		
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			so they avoided it.
		
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			They complied with his wishes, Allah's wishes regarding
		
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			others, and did not comply with the wishes
		
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			of others concerning him,
		
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			concerning Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			They concurred with him in his dislike of
		
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			those he dislikes.
		
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			Here he says hatred, but I I wouldn't
		
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			translate as hatred.
		
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			And his love of those he loves. This
		
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			is why a certain wise man said, agree
		
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			with Allah wafaaqullah
		
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			where creatures are concerned but do not agree.
		
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			I would say comply with Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala where creatures are concerned and would once
		
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			follow the command of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Not your whim, not your caprice, and not
		
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			what they, or what you think they expect
		
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			of you or what they would like from
		
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			you.
		
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			And do not comply
		
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			with Khalq, with the creatures, with everyone else
		
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			where Allah is concerned.
		
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			He who gets broken gets broken, and he
		
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			who gets mended gets mended, yani.
		
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			With what he has said. So,
		
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			this Muhammeda,
		
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			this dealing with,
		
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			Al Khaleq,
		
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			It's a higher level of
		
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			looking at the world and looking at life
		
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			and,
		
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			seeing people for what they truly are and
		
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			they're merely
		
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			instruments of the divine will.
		
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			And so that's why the kibar like Abu
		
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			Luvara, Sayyidina Abu Sayyid and others we've talked
		
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			about, and certainly Abhishek, Abu Khadar Jilani.
		
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			They dealt with people,
		
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			not as
		
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			having
		
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			expectations from them
		
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			and seeking to gain something from them.
		
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			They took to heart,
		
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			the hadith of the prophet,
		
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			is that fidunya, your hibukkala, always have fima
		
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			adines or hibukkanas.
		
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			Renounce,
		
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			forsake
		
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			the dunya and Allah will love you. In
		
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			other words, he will give you this Muwaffatha
		
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			and this agreement and this these meanings in
		
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			your heart. That's kind of some of the
		
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			fruits of Allah's love for us.
		
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			And
		
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			is Hafima Adines or Haibukhanines.
		
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			And renounce or forsake
		
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			that which people possess
		
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			and then the people will love you.
		
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			Or Jubilatin Nafusala,
		
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			akhobiman asana ilaha is another one. That people
		
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			have been
		
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			accustomed to
		
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			loving those who treat them well. And so
		
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			we don't treat people well per se just
		
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			to get their love, but we treat people
		
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			well because
		
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			when we treat people well, we are doing
		
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			the mawafaka, we are doing
		
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			the
		
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			compliance with Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala. So Allah
		
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			asks us to comply in certain things, to
		
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			do certain things. So we treat his creatures
		
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			well. We treat his, his servants well.
		
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			And all of his creatures whether they're Muslim
		
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			or non Muslim, believer or non believer,
		
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			they even extended this to
		
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			Al Jamadat,
		
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			Al Haywanat, wal Jamadat, wal Nabadat.
		
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			They extended this Muhammedah,
		
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			this way of dealing with things to
		
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			animals
		
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			and plants,
		
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			and even inanimate things, or things that you
		
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			think don't have life in them.
		
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			But Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has made
		
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			sanctity.
		
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			He sanctified
		
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			everything, because his mark,
		
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			is on it. Allah put it there. Allah
		
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			created it.
		
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			So, you know, we we don't disturb anthills
		
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			for no reason or beehives
		
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			or,
		
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			depopulate fish populations in the ocean
		
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			or cut off,
		
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			you know,
		
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			branches of a tree without
		
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			some sort of higher purpose,
		
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			involved.
		
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			We preserve the things that Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala has you know, put on upon this
		
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			earth and even the Jibadet. And so, you
		
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			know,
		
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			rock formations
		
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			and
		
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			you know, natural phenomena as they occur,
		
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			by and large, we should leave them undisturbed.
		
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			We should not, you know, do anything to
		
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			them unless there is a higher purpose.
		
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			But
		
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			out of Abbath, just out of
		
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			pure frivolity and vanity and boredom to do
		
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			these things. And and you hear about these
		
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			things today. You hear about young kids who
		
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			go on highway overpasses and it's happened enough
		
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			that it's like a thing.
		
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			They take a rock
		
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			or something and they throw it on cars
		
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			coming below and and several people have already
		
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			been killed by just poor teenagers or poor
		
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			kids who
		
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			don't know what to do with themselves,
		
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			don't have a purpose in life. Just,
		
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			you know,
		
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			just,
		
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			going around without any sort of,
		
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			methodology or anything.
		
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			So
		
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			we have a great great blessing, a big
		
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			nama that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has given
		
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			us. The way is there.
		
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			We just have to walk it and practice
		
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			it
		
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			and seek it and, give it its tune.
		
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			And then Allah Subhana Wa Ta'ala, inshaAllah He
		
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			will ennoble us beyond
		
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			just the mere the ennoblement that human beings
		
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			receive for being human beings but even a
		
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			higher ennoblement.
		
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			So,
		
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			this is a little bit of a long
		
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			measure. So I'm gonna be skipping around a
		
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			little bit
		
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			just to pick on some points. Some things
		
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			I have been kind of said already, so
		
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			I'm not gonna repeat them.
		
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			The sites,
		
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			one of the
		
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			it says in one of the books, and
		
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			this is on page 292 for those who
		
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			are following.
		
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			Allah said in one of his books. Here
		
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			in one of his books, it could be
		
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			something like something related from the Psalms of
		
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			David or maybe the Injil,
		
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			but or perhaps, you know, a meaning
		
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			extrapolate from that. If someone does not gladly
		
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			accept my judgment and is not patient in
		
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			bearing my tribulation,
		
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			let him choose a god apart from me.
		
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			Be satisfied with him to the exclusion of
		
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			all others, whether what has been decreed
		
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			is to your advantage or to your
		
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			disadvantage.
		
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			Right and this is
		
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			a seminal fundamental element of creed.
		
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			And to believe in the qadr that Allah
		
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			has decreed this for you. Qairi, whether you
		
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			consider it to be good or consider it
		
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			to be bad or shar.
		
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			We say in general, all of the muqadr
		
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			is good. And as much as that Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has,
		
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			designated as such.
		
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			But we then stipulate or have a perspective
		
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			of saying as good or bad depending on
		
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			our personal perspective. As he says here, whether
		
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			it's to your advantage or to your disadvantage.
		
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			Make Islam a reality
		
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			so that you may attain to faith, Iman.
		
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			Then make faith a reality
		
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			so that you may attain to conviction. So
		
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			we've seen this before from the Sheikh Al
		
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			Iman,
		
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			and acknowledge things as they are. Thumal Iqan,
		
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			right? Make it tahakbuq, make actualize the Iman,
		
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			then go to Iqan conviction.
		
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			And every one of us has to do
		
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			some work to arrive at stronger certainty and
		
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			conviction.
		
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			This is where they say is the ishtihad,
		
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			Ifil Usul, Dun Al Furwa.
		
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			So in terms of figuring how to pray
		
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			and fast and all and finding those rules,
		
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			that's not a individual obligation. That's a communal
		
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			obligation. And though there are those who have
		
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			already done that on our behalf.
		
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			But in terms of
		
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			arriving at a greater,
		
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			certainty or yateen
		
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			of all that there is and all that
		
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			Allah Subhana Wa Ta'la has told us about,
		
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			this is an individual
		
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			obligation. You know, those hobbies to say, inshaAllah
		
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			taala, Nuqminsaa'ah.
		
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			Let's go,
		
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			you know, do iman for a little bit.
		
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			In other words, let's think about our blessings
		
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			and think about the signs
		
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			all around us.
		
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			Let us engage in the dhikr of Allah,
		
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			remembrance of Allah. These are all things that
		
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			will strengthen one's certainty.
		
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			So
		
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			make faith a reality so that you may
		
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			attain to conviction, iqan,
		
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			for at that point you'll experience what you
		
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			have never experienced before.
		
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			Certitude will let you see things in their
		
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			true form
		
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			as knowing My report gives way to witnessing
		
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			directly.
		
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			May I say Khabuluq al Muayana, very popular
		
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			refrain.
		
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			Khabab you've been told about something. 'amal Wayana'
		
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			you've seen it.
		
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			You know the veil has been lifted.
		
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			Rufe Al Hijab. You see something
		
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			more clearly and real.
		
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			Like, you can believe in Allah's mercy,
		
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			on an intellectual basis but then to actually
		
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			taste it and feel it and see it
		
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			manifested
		
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			in you, is different. This is called then
		
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			Mohayana.
		
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			You have to actually see it or witness
		
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			it.
		
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			So certitude will let you see these things
		
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			in their true form. As learned by report
		
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			gives you way to witnessing directly,
		
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			for it focuses the heart upon the Lord
		
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			of Truth and Haqq and shows it things
		
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			as they come from Him. And that's one
		
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			of the things. To see things as really
		
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			coming from Allah,
		
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			is kind of I would say the the,
		
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			you know, the entry point
		
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			which we call Tuhhid al Afaal. And Tuhhid
		
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			al Afaal, they call it wilayah suhra.
		
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			So the the first stages of laya is
		
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			to see everything,
		
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			you're to shahid,
		
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			not just tumin,
		
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			not just to believe, but
		
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			to witness that everything comes from Allah Subhana
		
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			Wa Ta'la. That all the acts around us
		
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			are from Allah Subhana Wa Ta'la. That's why
		
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			Abu Luv Mubarak had that Muhammeda.
		
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			Right? He said, oh we were 10 eggs
		
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			short because we must have been 1 egg
		
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			short somewhere else. So he sees it as
		
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			going back to himself, to Allah. He didn't
		
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			ask the guy, why didn't you bring a
		
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			100 this time? What happened?
		
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			Why only 90?
		
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			What's going on? He didn't get mad with
		
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			him or angry or anything like that, but
		
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			he is
		
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			processing the,
		
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			you know, the circumstances
		
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			as they come to bear upon him and
		
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			as they reveal themselves to him,
		
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			looking at,
		
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			Allah Subhana Wa Ta'la as through the khalib,
		
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			through the prism of the Khaled.
		
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			And that's Iqan, that's certainty when you when
		
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			you live life like that.
		
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			So then he says, when the heart
		
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			stands at the door of the Lord of
		
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			truth,
		
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			the hand of noble generosity comes out to
		
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			meet it and treats it
		
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			generously.
		
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			Thus it becomes noble and altruistic,
		
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			behaving generously towards creatures and not begrudging them
		
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			anything.
		
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			Right? So if you're Bahil,
		
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			it's because you have something you feel like
		
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			you need to hold on to, it belongs
		
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			to you,
		
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			and,
		
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			you're afraid if you give it up, you
		
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			lose something of yourself.
		
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			Whereas
		
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			the one who is
		
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			doing the Muhammedah with Allah,
		
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			number 1, what they received,
		
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			it's not theirs, it's from Allah.
		
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			And then it's an Amanah, it's a trust
		
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			and so that they may distribute it in
		
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			a manner that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala wants
		
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			to distribute it. So they don't even see
		
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			themselves as a giver.
		
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			Right? They don't see, oh, I you know,
		
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			I donated x amount and I did this
		
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			and I built that thing. They see themselves
		
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			as
		
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			Allah put this trust in me and I
		
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			just have to sign a check for him.
		
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			But he is the one who built the
		
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			mosque and he is the one who funded
		
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			the orphanage, and he is the one who
		
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			built the school, and he is the one
		
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			who built the wells.
		
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			Not not this affiliation going back to,
		
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			I did this and I did that and
		
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			so forth.
		
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			Because they see the hand of God in
		
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			it. Right? They see that Allah Subhana Wa
		
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			Ta'ala
		
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			Bish bin Musha hada. They witness that Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			is the Muati, is the true giver.
		
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			And if one of the names of Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,
		
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			that means no one can really
		
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			participate with him. Filatfilatah.
		
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			Right? Because he is the one who gives.
		
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			And Allah's names and attributes are unique to
		
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			Allah
		
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			Ta'ala. So we see him as
		
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			the true giver. And all we are are
		
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			the distributors as the prophet said about himself.
		
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			And then I'm a '* qasim Allahu almati.
		
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			I am a qasim, I know you could
		
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			distribute
		
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			in terms of 'unum, in terms of knowledge,
		
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			in terms of resources.
		
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			Wallahu Hawan Watimab, but Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			is the one who is the true
		
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			giver.
		
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			So the hand of noble generosity comes out
		
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			to meet and meets it and treats it
		
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			generously.
		
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			Thus
		
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			it becomes noble and altruistic,
		
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			behaving generously toward creatures and not begrudging them
		
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			anything. The sound heart, one that is worthy
		
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			of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is nobly
		
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			generous, kareem.
		
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			And that's one of the attributes
		
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			of
		
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			the sound believer with a sound heart that
		
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			they're generous.
		
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			The I believe the hadith says there are
		
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			2 attributes that cannot be found in in
		
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			a true believer which is
		
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			bad character and stinginess.
		
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			Because these are
		
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			you know anathema to
		
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			what a believer should be and they should
		
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			be generous. So generous of soul, which is
		
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			the good character.
		
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			Right? So you're pardoning, you're forgiving, you're, you
		
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			know, kind of roll with the flow and
		
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			the punches and learn to take one on
		
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			the chin as they say.
		
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			That's part of,
		
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			good character and
		
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			they are
		
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			generous with
		
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			that which has been
		
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			given to them, so that they may be
		
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			generous with it.
		
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			So we don't find stinginess and bad character
		
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			in someone who has reached Kemal and iman.
		
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			Someone who has reached the highest levels of
		
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			Iman and certainly not in the Awliya. Awliya.
		
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			And we know the hadith of the prophet,
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wasallam, concerning this particular month that
		
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			Jibril,
		
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			said about the prophet,
		
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			that he was the most generous of people.
		
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			He was most generous in the month of
		
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			Ramadan,
		
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			kariha al musayah, like
		
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			the gentle breeze. So he had generosity of
		
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			soul and generosity also of of hand, of
		
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			resources.
		
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			Then he says the innermost being, the seer,
		
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			one that has been purified of murky confusion
		
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			is nobly generous.
		
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			So the Sir also can be generous. So
		
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			what is the Sir? The innermost being.
		
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			And that is what
		
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			it receives
		
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			the Mahani,
		
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			the nafaha, the illhamat,
		
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			from Allah Subhaqqai'ala directly.
		
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			Right? Comes to your Sir, comes to your
		
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			innermost being. The same Sir that,
		
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			applied in the affirmative when it was asked,
		
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			'Allastuqurabbika
		
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			Mawinat your Lord.' And it said, 'Bala shahidna.'
		
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			Truly we have
		
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			witnessed. And so the generosity of your Sir,
		
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			of your innermost being,
		
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			means that it's going to be
		
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			freely
		
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			giving.
		
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			Freely giving means, as I said,
		
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			able to absorb people
		
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			and also
		
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			able to embody the state
		
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			that will bring people
		
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			to Babullah, that will bring people to the
		
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			door of Allah
		
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			And that's why when we're around people who
		
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			we know to have some
		
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			some type of secret that Allah has given
		
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			them, there's this raha.
		
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			There's this ease and there's this,
		
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			like all your hunum,
		
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			all of the things that you were worried
		
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			about and and your your trepidations and your
		
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			worries and your anxieties
		
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			go away.
		
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			And many of us have remarked like, we
		
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			would have all these questions and then we're
		
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			in the presence of this person and then
		
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			no more questions.
		
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			There's nothing that's really, pressing now anymore. Everything
		
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			just feels
		
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			like the way it's supposed to be. Right?
		
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			And that iyakim
		
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			that we find in the uliyat,
		
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			it's like,
		
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			you know, it's contagious
		
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			for lack of a better word. Maybe not
		
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			the best word to say in these particular
		
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			times but, you know, you just be in
		
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			the proximity,
		
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			of these people. And proximity doesn't mean it
		
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			have to mean physical closeness.
		
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			It could also mean spiritual closeness. You know,
		
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			you could be separated by
		
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			1,000 of miles
		
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			or you can be even separated by 100
		
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			of years and centuries. But if you have
		
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			the connection,
		
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			if you have the silah to them, even
		
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			if they've gone and passed to the next
		
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			world,
		
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			but your love for them
		
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			will, will connect you to them. So our
		
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			love for the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			connects us to him, salallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			And then that utmost yaqeen that no one
		
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			had more than him or I will have
		
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			more than our prophet, salallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			then can find its way into our heart.
		
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			And that Silah
		
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			is strengthened
		
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			by Mahabra,
		
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			by love. So Mahabra is the only thing,
		
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			it's the only force that can traverse
		
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			miles and distances and kilometers and deserts and
		
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			rivers and mountain passes.
		
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			And it's the only thing also that can
		
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			time travel, for lack of a better word.
		
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			So
		
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			you don't have to be connected even.
		
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			You don't have to be contemporaneous. You don't
		
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			have to be living in the same time.
		
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			But the love of someone, even if they
		
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			were 100 of years ago or even 1000
		
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			years ago,
		
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			need that be a barrier
		
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			to having a connection,
		
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			a spiritual one to
		
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			to that person.
		
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			So,
		
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			one paragraph down, I think I'll just read
		
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			the English also. It's kind of connected to
		
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			discussion. He said the self, the nafs, is
		
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			what keeps you screened from him.
		
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			So when it fades from the scene,
		
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			the obstacle disappears. This is why Abu Yazid
		
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			Al Bustami,
		
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			Rahimahullah once said, I saw my Lord in
		
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			a dream so I said to him, how
		
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			is the way to you, O creator
		
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			God?'
		
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			He
		
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			replied, leave your own self and come hither.
		
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			So I sloughed it off as a snake
		
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			sloughs off its skin.
		
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			The eye of the Lord of Truth was
		
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			only on the self, not on anything else.
		
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			And he ordered him to leave it behind
		
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			because this world is what it contains,
		
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			as well as everything whatsoever apart from the
		
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			word of truth, al Haqq is subordinate to
		
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			the self.
		
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			This world belongs to it and
		
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			it's Mahuba, it's beloved, and the hereafter belongs
		
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			to it too, for all Islam has said.
		
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			And therein is that also is enfos,
		
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			desire and eyes.
		
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			Quite sweet talking about the next life.
		
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			So these these Mahany, we might read about
		
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			them or these meanings and say, wow, that
		
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			really sounds far off, so it sounds really
		
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			nice.
		
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			But I am so far away from that.
		
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			I'm so distracted
		
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			with dunya and not even dunya but just,
		
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			you know,
		
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			children
		
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			and job and bank account and, you know,
		
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			getting through the next day and
		
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			in laws,
		
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			and, you know, all sorts of things that
		
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			people that keep them distracted. And,
		
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			Allah is not asking us to eliminate all
		
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			those things. Everyone's gonna have their circumstances.
		
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			Don't think that Abdul Laban Lou Bawak or
		
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			Abu Yazidid Dostami,
		
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			or,
		
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			any of the others. Many of them that
		
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			we've talked about were all hermits and lived
		
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			alone
		
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			and just did practice Siyaha,
		
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			right, in in the classic sense of the
		
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			meaning of the word. So Siyaha today, we
		
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			think tourism.
		
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			But Siyaha back then, siyahu phal gya. I
		
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			mean, they, you know, they traveled, and they
		
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			saw things, and they looked for the signs
		
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			of God in different places and they weren't
		
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			known anywhere and so they were able to
		
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			move freely.
		
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			Some of them did that for a while
		
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			and some did that for a long while.
		
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			But many many of them, in fact the
		
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			vast majority of them were not like that.
		
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			They all had lives and they have families
		
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			and they had
		
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			even some of them had,
		
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			businesses and some of them were merchants. And
		
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			Abu Hanifa was a silk merchant and
		
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			some of them had,
		
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			you know,
		
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			jobs as judges and
		
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			muftis. And they had to administer over
		
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			supervised al Qaf endowments
		
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			that, you know, looked over a series or
		
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			multiple,
		
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			institutions. So
		
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			they had that. And they had families and
		
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			they had in laws and they had,
		
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			you know, children and and some of them
		
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			and and their wife or wives. Some of
		
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			them were married to more than 1.
		
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			And some of them dealt with difficulty and,
		
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			you know, one story that we retell all
		
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			the time that
		
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			I'm risking
		
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			my own health a little bit for for
		
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			recounting it. But
		
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			this actually
		
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			in the tafsir or the other class,
		
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			we're reading or taking some points from Ibn
		
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			Hajiba,
		
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			Muhammad ibn Najeeba. And Ibn Najeeba, he had
		
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			a wife that he talks about.
		
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			And
		
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			she said that she was very cruel to
		
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			me.
		
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			She would,
		
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			lock me out of the house
		
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			and
		
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			one time she pushed him down the stairs
		
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			and things like that. And so he,
		
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			he actually had other wives and he said,
		
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			I'm not gonna divorce her, I'm gonna leave
		
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			her because,
		
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			it's better that I have to contend with
		
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			her, I have to deal with her and
		
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			I know how to deal with her and
		
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			I can absorb
		
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			the abuse,
		
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			rather than someone else have to endure that.
		
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			So
		
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			he said I could do it for you,
		
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			wajila, and I do that as
		
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			for, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			So obviously not to make light of
		
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			domestic abuse or anything like that, because it
		
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			does go both ways. But for in Ibn
		
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			Hajiba, he's
		
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			he's kind of making the point,
		
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			that he had difficulties in life too. And
		
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			he had, you know, some of them had
		
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			children that or didn't grow up to be
		
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			like the the sheikh Imam Malik had said
		
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			that his son
		
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			was not at all interested in anything of
		
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			any man. It was his daughter who would
		
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			put her her ear by the door and
		
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			hear the the classes that were going on
		
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			and the hadith being narrated. And she became
		
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			a a Alima
		
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			and yet, the one of the sons was
		
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			not interested.
		
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			So, you know, they all had their issues.
		
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			They all had things in life. And
		
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			just because someone considered them to be a
		
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			wedi or a mihael kebab or one of
		
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			the saints or, you know,
		
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			full package Muslim, whatever you wanna call it,
		
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			didn't mean they didn't have, you know, their
		
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			circumstances and difficulties in life. And doesn't mean
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is gonna kind of
		
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			brush that all aside
		
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			So you can kind of camp out and,
		
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			and live a hermit like lifestyle somewhere and
		
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			be this ascetic who just, you know, worships
		
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			Allah and
		
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			prays to him and
		
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			you know, has no concerns about the dunya.
		
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			So all of this is saying that you're
		
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			gonna have all those things,
		
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			but
		
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			live your deen
		
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			and live it properly
		
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			even with dunya around you.
		
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			And if you look at all of
		
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			the Akhem, all of the rulings,
		
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			specifically that deal with
		
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			dealing with other people. Marriage, divorce, commercial law,
		
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			transaction law,
		
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			inheritance,
		
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			the whole adeb and etiquette,
		
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			you know. How to deal with one's teacher
		
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			and one's neighbor and you know, all of
		
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			those
		
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			different rulings that apply and etiquettes and adab.
		
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			Obviously Islam was meant to
		
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			be lived
		
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			in a civil society. In other words
		
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			you're surrounded by people not to be, you
		
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			know, not not to be practiced necessarily in
		
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			some frontier land where everyone's kinda by themselves.
		
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			And if you looked where Islam actually thrived,
		
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			it was in places that were Muqaddadin,
		
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			places that were urban.
		
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			And
		
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			that were, you know, people lived in close
		
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			proximity
		
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			with one another. And people generally saw one
		
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			another quite frequently throughout the day.
		
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			You know, the 5 daily prayers that are
		
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			are preferably done in congregation means you're interacting
		
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			with people perhaps
		
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			5 times a day. You know. And in
		
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			light of the situation we're in now that
		
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			sounds like
		
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			something very traditional and old and like a
		
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			of a time
		
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			a bygone time. But
		
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			for many that's that's how Islam thrived. The
		
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			interaction and the cross cultural
		
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			exchange and exchange of ideas and
		
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			kind of this communal living,
		
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			as it were. And so there was a
		
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			need to,
		
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			you know, to to be able to deal
		
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			with people and deal with your circumstances
		
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			and, be able to also worship your Lord
		
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			at the same time.
		
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			And even, you know, this idea that the
		
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			sheikh kind of alludes to. Al khalwa frilljawa.
		
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			Right? They say you're khalwa,
		
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			your detachment
		
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			from dunya.
		
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			So we're saying in Hispreet
		
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			that then dissipate and you don't find
		
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			when you're in the janwa, when you're amongst
		
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			people. So if it only comes to you,
		
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			if you only feel like that when you're
		
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			all by yourself and then when you're amongst
		
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			people, it all goes away, then your khalwa
		
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			wasn't sahihah. Right? It was not completely
		
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			effective
		
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			or a 100% valid
		
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			because those meanings are supposed to charge you
		
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			and
		
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			you're supposed to store them, right, in your
		
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			in your storage
		
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			banks. And then when you go out to
		
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			society, you go out to life, you still
		
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			have them with you. So then you have
		
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			al khalwa, al janwa.
		
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			But if your khalwa
		
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			is only operative
		
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			when
		
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			you physically remove everything and everyone is far
		
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			away from you and then it only works,
		
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			then it has something to do more with
		
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			your nafs.
		
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			Right? It's it's supposed to penetrate the nafs
		
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			and get to the, you know, the you
		
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			know, the the outer rim, as it were,
		
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			of of the soul and of the seer,
		
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			and penetrate there.
		
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			But if it only gets to the level
		
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			of the nafs, of the ego, and the
		
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			ego has some sort of like,
		
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			nazda or pleasure or, you know, allotment and
		
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			say, oh, look. I did a khalwa.
		
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			I spent 2 hours at night over myself
		
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			and I read Quran.
		
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			Okay. And then we go and commemorate, check
		
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			out the world and then
		
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			you don't have that, Kallua. You still
		
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			have the the Ma'ani of, you know,
		
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			of longing and
		
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			and seeking the dunya, then
		
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			khalwa
		
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			well, there was khalal in your khalwa. There
		
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			were holes in in the way that you
		
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			did the khalwa,
		
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			So, the palm is quickly,
		
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			slipping away.
		
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			I'm gonna read one more
		
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			excerpt.
		
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			And I think that will be
		
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			kind of the last
		
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			paragraph,
		
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			so to speak, of this this
		
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			this this course. That's on page
		
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			306,
		
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			for those who are following.
		
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			So he says you must remember
		
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			the Lord of the truth, first with your
		
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			heart, your qal, then secondly with your outer
		
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			form.
		
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			So
		
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			start with the inner. And we see this
		
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			is what sheikh has been saying over and
		
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			over. Remember him a 1000 times with your
		
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			heart and once with your tongue.
		
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			So
		
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			the remembrance of the tongue is supposed to
		
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			be a means to get the remembrance of
		
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			the heart. And that's why Ibn Ghazali said
		
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			that the krukal is higher than the krukal
		
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			is To the remembrance of heart is higher
		
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			than the remembrance of the tongue. So the
		
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			remembrance of the tongue is supposed to be
		
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			a reminder. But then
		
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			what is the dhikr of the heart? It's
		
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			the haloor. It's the remembrance. It's being in
		
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			the hadar. It's your awareness that Allah is
		
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			aware of you. It's you seeing Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala
		
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			manifested His name and attributes and all things
		
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			around you.
		
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			So on the advent of misfortunes, remember Him
		
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			with patience.
		
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			Right? Something happens, go back to Allah Subhana
		
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			Wa Ta'la. If it's a misfortune, go back
		
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			to Him with
		
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			patience. On the advent of this world something
		
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			of dunya comes, go back to Him with
		
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			zuhud, with renunciation.
		
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			On the advent of the Hereafter, then go
		
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			back to Him with acceptance, tsukul of the
		
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			world of the Hereafter that's coming. On the
		
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			advent of the Lord of truth, hakitajalalak,
		
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			then
		
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			go back to him with tawhid.
		
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			See him as 1 and only, as a
		
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			sovereign.
		
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			And on the advent of anything else whatsoever,
		
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			with rejection. So anything that is not gonna
		
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			bring you to his door, or that's gonna
		
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			move you away from the door of God,
		
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			reject it.
		
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			If you slacken the reins of your own
		
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			self, it will bolt with you and throw
		
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			you. You must control it with the bridle
		
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			of pious restraint and warah, to be scrupulous,
		
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			and give up tittle tattle, what he's
		
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			I'll call it waltli, what people say back
		
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			and forth and gossip and rumor mill and,
		
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			innuendo
		
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			and what this person do and, you know,
		
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			you know, what what
		
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			what's Kim Kardashian's dog's name and whatever people
		
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			talk about.
		
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			Tilo Adkhan. Remembering death will purify your heart
		
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			and make you hate this world and Alkhan.
		
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			Right? In as much as it keeps you
		
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			away from God.
		
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			The veil will be lifted from your heart,
		
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			so you will see that creatures are transitory,
		
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			lifeless, perishable, feeble, containing neither harm or benefit
		
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			and the true harm or benefit coming from
		
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			Allah
		
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			subha'ala alone.