Wahaj Tarin – Seerah Episode 4 – Hashim and Salma

			So Hashem used to travel, you know, he used to go to the theater, it was safe, he used to go towards
Sham and Yemen. And as he was going towards Sham, he used to cross over Medina.
		

			Medina and in Medina, there was a lady of renounce status by the name of Selma.
		

			But very independent lady, you know, so Hashem being the basic Prince of Makkah, proposed to her,
but she said, I'll marry you on one condition.
		

			You don't interfere in my business.
		

			And obviously, I'm you know, cause some sisters are smiling. This is not an encouragement.
		

			Because next week, there's not going to be a single brother here. I'm not attending this does
anymore, you know.
		

			But it was an arrangement made and
		

			so he used to travel and when he ever crossed over, Medina, his wife in his house was there.
		

			So from this marriage, I young child was born.
		

			A young child was born and when he was born, there was white hair on his head.
		

			Have you seen those? I have. I have seen you know, some of my students.
		

			I have seen they had white hair in a couple that there is, is a line of white hair and a section of
the head.
		

			And white hair traditionally admits Arabs was a matter of honor. Like in the sense you've reached
old age, you've survived difficulties you deserve honor. So this one was born with it.
		

			So they called him shaybah from old age.
		

			And
		

			he doesn't you know, praiseworthy old he knows he's a baby but he's got he's got the
		

			mark of of age.
		

			So Shiva grew up in, in Medina and Hashem died pretty pretty young and saw the affairs of the judge
was left to his brothers. And the brothers were busy and tried and now they were worried that if we
die, who will we give the leadership to?
		

			And their own children and maca didn't seem up to the task and and I commend their wisdom in this
		

			you know, sometimes you have an organization and institution or business or country and you're very
keen for your son to take over the reins from you
		

			but the poor person is not made for it
		

			you know, he's just not made for this job. He's good probably in other things he's just not good in
this anyone pushing in insisting that you know this should go to this person.
		

			So I want you to remember this lesson giving the Amana of leadership is an Amana thrice
		

			number one it is a responsibility of who you give it to because you got to give it to us
		

			Do you understand so say for example
		

			a soccer team is based on a boat captain Mike him Captain not your son or your daughter cuz you're
my son or my daughter Do you understand me you got to give it to its a * and whether it is you
know a school and you're allocating the teacher or you parliament and you're allocating members give
the Amana towards the Arabs have a good saying they say give your bread to the biker because the
blacksmith will not give you bread bank you know give the dough to the biker so he can give you
bread
		

			so give that a man a
		

			second if you're not that's a * don't accept it.
		

			You know you realize I there's no way in God's earth that I can do this job so say you know kiss the
get the person's hand and head and say listen Habibi.
		

			I'm not that I held for this job. I can't do it. Nothing wrong with that. Because if you take it, it
is it's a calamity. You know, if you're not if you're not able for it. And when in the Quran when
someone took it when they want to * for it, a lot of Buddha says
		

			in the Hakuna alumina, hula vollem. jar Hill, this is the signs of those that take on what they
shouldn't take on.
		

			And then lastly, if you're given the job or you're given the Amana and you are ready ahead and you
have accepted it, because then make sure that when you conduct it you conduct the Amana will
		

			So Amanda thrice
		

			So these ones knew that our sons are not up to it.
		

			But they were hearing stories of the son of Hashem from Makkah from,
		

			from yathrib, which is called Medina these days.
		

			So Martha live, who is one of the brothers of Hashem
		

			What's the name?
		

			We're not going to go till you get this.
		

			Molly is a brother of Hashem. So Hashem had a few brothers one of his brothers is more polyp
		

			is what
		

			metallic metallic went to yesterday
		

			to see his his nephew.
		

			And when spoke to Salma says listen urine honorable people, but the real honor is in Makkah, and his
lineage is in the house of Allah. And his father was Hashem the leader of all these tribes. Let him
go with me so he can, you know, be where he's supposed to be. So she resisted and eventually,
because she realized this is where the prestige of my son lies, sent the son to come with multiple
limbs to way
		

			to Makkah, so at this time, he's about 1516.
		

			Who
		

			now shava shava, the young son of Hashem is 1516, the brother of Hashem the uncle of shaver has gone
to pick him up. You know, so imagine your dad has a brother, your brother, your dad, the uncle came
to pick you up from your mom and say, listen, let him live with us.
		

			So after riding on the camel for 450 kilometres, when they reach the precincts of Mecca, the boy
looked old, dusty.
		

			And Mutallab is leading his camel with his camel to come into Makkah. So when they entered Mecca,
		

			the young lad looks like a slave,
		

			the slave of hoo
		

			ha,
		

			come on, or you who speak Arabic,
		

			the slave of mortality. So what did they call him? Abdulmutallab, this is the slave of mortality.
But what was his actual name?
		

			shava. Do you see? So this is how shava became Abdulmutallab and who is
		

			the father of
		

			the father of Abdullah Abdullah is the father of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So we have
reached remember Mohamed ibn Abdullah ibn Abu Talib,
		

			who is shava
		

			right, Edna Hashem, who died already