Wael Ibrahim – LifeStyle #26 – Gentleness

			Salam alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu is bIllahi min Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala
Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam probably surely somebody or silly me often a lot but that
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respected Brothers and Sisters in Islam everywhere. May Allah Subhana Allah bless you accept your
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			finished Ramadan this year, may he write our names among those people who are completely saved from
the punishment of hellfire. I mean, I mean, I mean, there's that law final for being consistent to
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			Today in sha Allah Allah, we will talk about gentleness or risk gentleness as our way of life or as
part of our lifestyle. The prophets Allah Allah Salam once mentioned, Men ought to have a home in
		

			order to have the Amina hire, whoever is being granted his share of gentleness or if, indeed he has
been granted goodness, and who's whoever was prevented from giving being, you know, a gentle person,
woman. Woman Halima have a whole mineral, whosoever is not being granted, or was denied his share of
gentleness. Indeed, He is being denied all goodness Subhan Allah so gentleness, being kind, being
compassionate, being patient is one of the aspects of this beautiful religion of ours. It's a
trademark, another lifestyle, another trademark of our faith, to be gentle. The Prophet in fact,
made it very very clear that whosoever is being granted gentleness in his heart, in his attitude has
		

			been actually prohibited from touching the hellfire, the prophets Allah Allah Allah Salah mentioned
Allah Eurocom women Yahama Allah nor will be men to haram or women to whom Allah He know Allah who
actually call even hanging in Sal the Prophet SAW Selim said, shall inform you for whom the fire has
become unlawful haram. So Hellfire becomes haram for you or unlawful for the fire so he is not we
will not be ever touch the Hellfire or Hezbollah upon every person who is gentle, kind and easy to
deal with. Allahu Akbar. Easy to deal with how many times we have come across people that will say
you know what, it's better I never even deal with him. Even if whatever you know, that I need from
		

			him is so important. I'd rather just by my freedom by my peace of mind than dealing with such person
because he's difficulty is complicated, right? So Allah so the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam is
telling us that when we become easygoing, when we become gentle and merciful to others, Hellfire
becomes haram for us. Look at this. Look at such a quality, that Subhanallah RZ s Pahlavi.
		

			Sometimes we neglect or overlook, or our ego sometimes overtake or take over our attitude and as a
result, we are denied such a blessing, such a reward. That's why the prophets Allah, Allah subhanaw
taala in the Quran mentioned about the gentleness of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam and the
mercy and he's lenient towards dealing with people he said, Allah subhanaw taala Furby Morocco Matin
min Allah He limped along, while canta for one Ali they'll call Milan sub dome and Holly faff on
Western for level by Sharonville am Allah Subhana Allah said that it is because of the Mercy of
Allah subhanaw taala you became a Muhammad you became so lenient to them to do the companions to the
		

			best of all generations. And as you been so harsh and rude, in your speech, in your action towards
them, we would have fled from around you do that left you we will have not listened to you or follow
your commands. He's talking about the companions that had the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam had
he displayed any rudeness or any harsh treatment towards them build up, never follow them.
		

			Then Allah subhanaw taala continues by saying so pardon them forgiveness, the episode that we
mentioned, I think yesterday give back to the episodes, the previous ones if you have missed any of
the sessions, so So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them. Ask Allah to forgive them and shower
is mercy upon them and consult them in all affairs in any matter, that perhaps there is a dispute
about look at how important gentleness is in Islam. Subhanallah Omar Suleiman it was narrated that
almost line was with the wives of the Prophet of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam, and E camel
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			and the Jash are under Joshua was driving the camels on which they were writing and the Messenger of
Allah See, he talked to the driver of the camera serial riff on Bill courier or on the dash riff
comm Bill courier meaning you be gentle that you because you are carrying a glass vessels, he
referred to his wives as glass vessels, so be gentle while riding. Don't try to go so fast. Be
gentle even in riding your animal or driving your car. So those people are driving. Hey, be careful
don't cut off people and scare them to death. Sometimes people fear those those sudden movements
Subhanallah those of you who doesn't like flying sometimes when we experience turbulence what
		

			happened in our hearts physically, we feel like our heart sank into our feet into our toes into our
ankles and we feel our heart start racing physically, we start feeling that fear. So sometimes when
we are driving and people cut us off and become all of a sudden in front of us sometimes these you
know physical feelings overtake us and sometimes make us feel anxious and worried and scared. Pamela
even in our speech, Allah's pathosans operand Walco Loli nurse he was persona and when you speak to
people speak gently and nicely with goodness, while Tucson, Declan Ness, the prophets, Allah Subhana
Allah says in surah Look man, don't ever turn your cheek away from people when you when you speak to
		

			them. Or when perhaps sometimes we have disagreement, and all of a sudden you say and don't talk to
me right we turn our cheek away. We turn our face or body entirely away from the people that we talk
to arrogance well as a biller. Well, Adam Schiff will are the moron and don't walk through the
earth. You know,
		

			exultantly, meaning, hopefully you feel like you are better than everyone else. Indeed this Allah
does not love those who are deluded or self deluded and boastful. Those who are arrogant or
Lyudmila. Yeah. And Allah subhanaw taala said, and be moderate in your pace when you walk and lower
your voice when you speak. Don't scream Don't shout at people don't scare them. Don't arrogantly
scream at people feed. You know. They said in Egypt, your lagoon was sawed, which means like, you
want to win a debate raise up your voice, you know, it's not like this. So be moderate in your
speech. Talk to people softly and nicely.
		

			Indeed, the most disagreeable of all sounds the most hateful all sounds are the voice of the donkey
Allah subhanaw taala gave an example of those who shout and scream unnecessarily. Their voices are
like what I had to be let anyone's May Allah Subhana Allah Allah protect us all. Not only that when
you become gentle towards others, Allah loves you and if Allah loves you, we already made it me
		

			Yanni said it many many times. Congratulations, Millbrook. If Allah loves you That's it. You are
guaranteed Jana insha Allah the Prophet SAW Selim once was talking to his beloved wife, Aisha or the
Allah Allah and he told the Isha in Allah of Yukon your headboard of Allah subhanaw taala is gentle,
and he loves gentleness, loyalty Allah Maratea lawns and he reward for gentleness. What he does not
give or does not grant for harshness
		

			and he does not reward anything else like this so he does not reward anything else. In the same way
how you reward people for their gentleness. Look how now, we can understand the importance and the
essential aspect of gentleness in our lives when it is of course applied. When it is applied. The
Prophet sallallahu Sallam mentioned I keep talking to our HR the Alana law they keep your finger if
Kalia Kuru fishy lezana What are you in Xiamen, China in English Anna? B. You must be gentle and
this this is a general advice not just for our issue of the law or law, but rather for all the
Muslims you must be gentle very gentleness is not added into anything except that it beautifies it
		

			and it is not removed from anything except that it is a disgrace is it? Yeah, it makes it ugly.
		

			Yeah, so when when you add gentleness in your speech, your speech becomes beautiful. When you take
that gentleness element from your speech, your speech becomes ugly people start hating you. May
Allah protect us all. Blarney. We spoke yesterday, if you remember, or the day before I don't
remember when about Musa and when when Allah commanded them to go and speak to frown, and how for
Musa and Harun were told by Allah subhanaw taala, to speak to frown for all allow colon lay Yinon
and speak to him my words level whether that kind of reaction, so we said even you are not better
than Musa as a prophet. Of course you're not better and you're not worse than frown. So if you are
		

			even in the wrong side, you don't deserve to be treated harshly like for our either biller who Allah
subhanaw taala himself commanded these prophets to speak to him mildly. So how about us dealing
amongst each other? May Allah subhanho wa Taala
		

			protect us all and grant us the right understanding. Allah subhanho wa Taala commended us as
believers that when we invite people to Islam, to speak to them with gentleness to speak with them
with wisdom and beautiful preaching Allah subhanaw taala says in the Quran, although Elissa de la
obika Bill Hekmati while more I thought it has an invite people to the way your LORD with Wisdom and
with beautiful preaching and we're just Illuminati acid and if you happen to argue with them argue
with them in ways that are most beautiful most gracious in not have Baca Hua island will be one
bollocks I mean it is only Allah Who knows who is misguided. So there is no point for you to act as
		

			if you are the righteous because Allah is the One who know who is misguided and who is well well
Allah will be looked at him and he's aware most aware of those who are rightly guided So may Allah
grant us humbleness me now.
		

			When you become gentle my brothers and sisters in STEM, you will be among the categories of people
who inshallah Allah will be granted the DA of the prophets are seldom will be granted the acceptance
of the dua of the prophets Allah Allah Salam what was this god Allahumma Rafa aka Bill Mati forfeit,
forfeit, be on and shut Carla Mati for showcar like all Allah, whosoever is kind to my own man, is
kind to my people come to the Muslims be kind to them. And the word here mentioned is roof Karaca
roof gentleness and whoever makes things difficult or whoever is harsh upon my OMA make things
difficult for him. So it's up to you now you want to you want to receive kindness and compassion and
		

			mercy and forgiveness from Allah subhanaw taala be kind and be gentle to the people today. The
Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mentioned that either or Allah will become an Hi urine
color Allah human, whosoever if Allah subhanaw taala wants goodness for people, he puts gentleness
in them. Goodness higher here my brothers and sisters in Siam is a very comprehensive word, if
goodness
		

			in this dunya and in the next name it what what what good thing do you want to achieve in this dunya
and what goodness do you want to have in this in the hereafter? So goodness is a very general term
that encompasses everything beautiful that you could even that you can even
		

			Imagine orfan May Allah Subhana Allah grant us all goodness, through gentleness and
		

			gentleness also was the advice given to all people who are
		

			in on the path of their own. And this is something very important now anyone who's doing the hour
out there who's listening to me, listen to what the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam
mentioned when he said
		

			when he said why in the jungle, why the Allah Allah to Yemen to invite the people of the book the
Christians and the Jews of Yemen at that time to invite them to Islam. So he said what he said why
and another companion and he said to them, yes Cyril well that was said Don't make things easy on
the people and do not make things difficult for them while the Shira wallet on a federal and give
the people good news before telling them about the terrible news. Yeah, talk to them. First of all,
Janna that award and the beauty of Jana instead of talking to them first about hellfire and the
punishment is so make things easy and make them you know,
		

			make them happy listening to your speech before you give them those scary moments of hellfire or
Albula otter Tala, well, what are totally fine, and always cooperate and collaborate with one
another and don't ever conflict. Don't ever fight one another. don't disagree among yourselves. Why
you are going for down Allahu Akbar. And look at the first the first two words the Prophet SAW Selim
mentioned Yes, Sarah, one or two essential, make things easy and do not make things difficult. My
Brothers and Sisters in Islam, if I asked you to make things easy by natural it means don't make it
difficult. Why would the Prophet SAW Selim mentioned both in the same sentence? Yes, Sarah wallet
		

			also make things easy for people and do not make things difficult for them. Why is he doing that? To
leave no room for confusion, to leave no room for excuse that you should become on gentle or harsh.
		

			So he wanted to make it very, very clear. I told you the word and its opposite so that you can do
what you've been told to do and avoid its opposite. You must be gentle and avoid harshness. May
Allah Subhana Allah Allah grant us a gentle heart, I mean, our planning and may Allah subhanaw taala
make us you know among those people who hear the words of the of Allah subhanaw taala and look into
the life of the prophet Sallallahu Sallam and follow these two, you know paths that would lead us
nowhere other than Jana in sha Allah to Allah to the best of our ability may Allah grant us the
ability to follow the lifestyle brought by the prophets, Allah salam from his Lord, Allah subhanaw
		

			taala Amin Albula Amin does that unlock it and once again my brothers and sisters are watching we
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since day one in Ramadan until in sha Allah Tala this coming Friday will be the last episode in the
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