Tom Facchine – The Comment Section #11 – She Fell In Love With a Muslim

			A lot of times it happens where, you know, they're developed romantic feelings between Muslim and
non Muslim. So, you know, if there's a Muslim guy, for example, and there's a non Muslim woman and
they develop romantic feelings for each other then mashallah, the guys who have principal and who
are acting on principle, they won't marry that person, you know, assuming they're not like a
practicing Christian or Jew, but they won't marry that person until that person has become a Muslim.
And that's great. Good for them. Fantastic. The issue for the non Muslim person for the woman in
this situation is that can cause them to doubt if they were to become a Muslim. Maybe they were
		

			thinking about it already. Is their conversion sincere? Or are they just doing it for love or for
marriage? And my advice to a person would be become a Muslim, become a Muslim. Don't let yourself
fall prey to this sort of, you know, doubt because first of all, these things aren't mutually
exclusive. Okay? You're falling in love with somebody, that person's a Muslim. Why are you falling
in love with them? Part of the reason is Islam. Okay, so you can't cleanly separate out your
feelings for Islam and your feelings for this person. It's not like you're falling in love with this
person but you hate you hate the Islam that he follows. If you really are inspired by this person's
		

			religion and this person's faith then that's part of what you fell in love with. So act on that
become a Muslim, get married inshallah live happily ever after.