Islam and why Muslim Men and Women can’t be friends

			Bismillah Alhamdulillah Salaam Alaikum Peace be with you greetings of peace to everybody all around
the globe is tuning into the deen show your friend might have told you about the deen show your
family member, your cousin, your neighbor, and you tuned in because you've heard that we're talking
about serious issues purpose of life. Where do you come from where you go when you die? Is the
crucial question that all of us should be asking. Because death is a reality. And we don't want to
take this life as a joke because it's not a joke. So we have our next special guests who's been with
us before nomen Ali Khan and the deen show to discuss some very serious issues on the minds of all
		

			the people. We got baseball, football clubs, nightclubs, dancing, all these other things that
distracting us. But is that the way to go? Is that the way to have peace and happiness in life? Or
is there more to life? Find out the answers to all these questions and more when we come back here
and it will be right back.
		

			Hey, he's been to you. A salaam aleikum. wa salam he's been to you as well. It's good to have you
back here again, on the deen show to be here. You're actually here. Alhamdulillah with the baina.
Institute, we talked about it in our first shows about the incident that you have teaching people
the Arabic link, are you teaching people how to be an Arab? or Why do you teach in America?
		

			Well, yeah, people should be Arabs, all of them. No, no.
		

			We're trying to learn the Arabic language as best we can here to be able to study the Koran, and
actually even beyond that study Islam word in depth. Okay, before we get into that, we want to scare
some people off because some people want to hear Islam, Muslims, they get turned off, they get
turned away. So we want to start off with some baby steps. And people when they hear about Brad
Pitt, they want to know if he bought that goldfish. What j Lo's doing, you know, Facebook, 50 cents
like Brad Pitt a lot of goldfish? No, I'm just saying if it was, they'd want to know that. So. Okay.
		

			purpose of life? This is the crucial question. And we should be asking this question, why is it
important to ask the question, or reflect about the purpose of life? And where are you going when
you die? Why is it so important? You know, it's, most people don't ask themselves that question. And
I'm very happy at the institute that we have people that have made such a big sacrifice in life to
try and study here and leave careers and studies, put them on hold and, you know, convince their
families of making this sacrifice, which actually, in and of itself is proof that they have a very
clear picture of what their purpose in life is, and will accept these kinds of efforts from
		

			especially the youth that are here.
		

			But you know, this question is not something everybody cares to ask about, because the answer is
difficult. And the answer requires a lot of change in one's lifestyle, right? So it's something that
really on one's own time, if Allah blesses somebody, if God blesses somebody to have the conscious
mind to think, and to put the brakes on everything else in life, and just stop and think this
question will, you know, lead to some very serious consequences and some very serious changes in
life? But as important as this question is, it is probably the most ignored question in most
people's lives. Why does everything else seem more important than the creator? what he wants us to
		

			do? You know, these things are just like, for some people, just fairy tales, you know, that their
parents told them, you know, for some people, for many people, baseball is more important football,
you know, who won the Super Bowl, what that girl is wearing, what that boy is saying all these
things that really at the end of the day, it's like a false reality that people have created that is
really is a false perception of life is why do people are more entertained by that instead of these
more important topics that we're talking about? I think, to some extent, all of us are like that, to
some extent. And it's hard to avoid things that are happening around us in the world. The basic
		

			thing you know, the basic matter boils down to what you can see and what you can't, right. When we
talk about God, the Creator, the Sustainer, the provider, we talked about the afterlife, we talked
about one's purpose in life, and where they're going after they go into the ground and all of these
sorts of things. These are all matters of not the seen, but the unseen. And these are not matters
what people see their actions, they don't see the consequences of things like not praying, or things
like eating whatever they want, or seeing whatever they want. They don't see those consequences
right away. Right. And even people who warn them about these things say the real consequences of
		

			these are coming much later. Right. So somebody lives right now their their time doesn't get cut
off. somebody does something
		

			Wrong, they don't see the impact of their action right away unless they're like robbing a bank and
the cops show up or something, you know, so you don't see the consequences of your actions in this
life immediately. And that's another reason to easily procrastinate, to put it off. And this is part
of human nature, in some sense. We love to work on things that have immediate rewards. And we'd like
to put things off that have long term rewards. I mean, I'll give you a simpler example, not just
religion.
		

			You know, you have a workout program, you have a diet program, and you if you stay on this program
for 60 days, or 90 days or six months, then you lose these many pounds on you'll feel much better
about yourself and etc, etc, etc. you work out the first day, second day, you see results are no,
you know, you work out for a week you see results, not really, you go for a month, you barely see
any results, what most people do. The goal is way too far out there. I mean, people have become so
accustomed, most people, including ourselves, to some extent, have become so accustomed to results
right away. Anything that's even a little bit long term, we say, That's not for me, give me a
		

			shortcut. Give me something else, right. The things you make reference to often, you know,
entertainment, you know, different kinds of company and partying and all this kind of stuff. What is
it, it's instant gratification, is I need, I want something to happen for me, it's happening right
away. I don't want to wait for it to happen. And this is at the heart of the problem, you know, the,
the the human problem of not having enough patience, and wanting to go, just just thinking that now
live in the moment. And these are actually advertising taglines that millions of dollars are spent
on live in the moment you only live once, you know, obey your thirst and whatever, right? These are
		

			people that get PhDs in marketing and come up with these small taglines, which actually become
philosophies for people to live. You can I have friends whose probably your whole their whole life
you can summarize as they obey their thirst. That's all there is just a sprite walking around. You
know, that's what they are. So what we have to instill into ourselves into the company around us and
slowly our friends, people that we know, is this idea that there's more to life than just these
immediate pleasures that you're pursuing that leave you empty anyway.
		

			We're going to try to just jump around because time is short. Yeah, hopefully, one of the things
that we discussed will resonate with some people because some people be able to relate to one thing
rather than another, like the letter that we got that we discussed on the show from the sister who
got caught off guard or on guard, and she got let away and she was hypnotized by the guy, remember
that letter. And she was asking for advice, what to do, give her some wonderful advice. And from
that letter of hers, and you giving 100 lava the permission of the crater that advice, so many other
people got to benefit. So let's let's talk about the sisters in a little bit. And our sisters in
		

			humanity, this is a humanity, who now a lot of times are seeking the attention instead of from the
Creator of the heavens and earth. They're seeking attention from the boys. So instead of wearing
more than wearing less, and you'll see one person came up to me said, Man, I just saw my family
member, you know, on Facebook, and I couldn't believe it. How do I, you know, talk to her do some
kind of show, I can send her this video because when I saw her, she was like this, and everything
was off. And I knew her when she was 1314. And now let's give her a name. Jazz. Okay. You know, she
shorten it for me, it might have been something out. But it's jazz, right? So jazz is like this,
		

			it's up here that the other and he's like, man, he feels so sad and in the heart, because he knows
that she's gonna get eaten by the wolves. Man is off. For one thing, he's hungry. And she's going to
be just a captive enslaved and a prisoner. that's out there in this scandalous society. My advice to
my sisters is
		

			it's complicated. And it's it's difficult for me to talk about, especially because I'm a father and
I have four daughters, myself, and my daughters are getting bigger and bigger, actually, my 10 year
olds running around here somewhere.
		

			And it's something I think about and worrying about a lot scary. Yeah, it is. It is very scary. But
we have to the in one of the things that our religion anchors us in, is to not get caught up in the
symptoms and to understand the disease. Understand the disease. Yeah. And so like, the way somebody
dresses the way somebody talks, the behavior, these are all symptoms, that's not targeting the
disease. So for instance, telling, you know, some of the viewers that are watching this may have
teenage kids that were brought up religiously, and then they hit a certain point in life, and then
they just became a different person all of a sudden, and now you can control how your daughter
		

			dresses or where your son goes and things like that. And you try to get the mom to give a hoot about
how important hijab is and how important you know, good company is and how you know, but those
things do just fall on deaf ears. Why? Because you're trying to target a symptom and you're not
addressing a disease, that the disease is something that can't be discovered without conversation.
		

			Especially with Muslim youth and Muslims that are kind of off the beaten path. And you can't even
tell sometimes if they're Muslim or not from the way they're dressed. It's really easy to pass
judgment. And it's really hard to slow down and sit each of these people down and actually have a
heart to heart conversation and say, what's going on? Why do you think this is a good, good way to
go, and you'll hear things like I can do whatever I want. I'm a free person, you can't tell me what
to do. And you'll hear all these arguments. And you know what, respectfully hear those arguments and
try to address each one of them one at a time. And they they should be addressed this way. One of
		

			the biggest, at least phenomenon that I've seen among sisters that have left a modest lifestyle,
I'll just put it mildly that I've left a modest lifestyle. And I've chosen a different way of living
among Muslim sisters. The one of the most common things I've seen is isolation. They had low self
esteem, they were people constantly putting them down. They had in some cases, actually, recently,
I've been saw a father telling his daughter that she's too ugly, nobody's gonna marry her and this
and that, and father's telling her that I mean, the place you're supposed to gain your self esteem
is the place her self esteem is being destroyed, you know, then there's matters of feeling judged.
		

			Like, you know, I, you know, everybody has good days and bad days, right? So she has a bad day, and
she doesn't want her job and all the sisters around her pounce on her, like, you know, what are you
doing, this is so wrong, etc, etc. And she says, These people are so judgmental, and she's just
distancing herself from what would have been good company anyway. And we sometimes even in our talks
in our lectures, talk about those people in a way that even further distances than we want, we don't
want to just tell them they're doing something wrong that much is in my argument is most of them
already know that that's wrong. Our purpose is not to judge, but our purpose is to find ways to
		

			soften hearts to bring them back. We do want to be honest about the message. I don't want to water
down the conversation. But at the same time, we have to first kind of feel for these people, and
especially their families to not be impatient and impulsive. Make time for these people. And don't
don't cut them off. They weren't they're already cut off enough. You know, and it's the love we got
the love. Yeah, we're doing it. We love them, don't we? Of course, that's why we're sharing because
we care. We right back with more here on the deen show in paradise. There's no death. Yeah, you
know, there's no sickness, no sickness. In a world of peace and tranquility. No wars, no finding,
		

			finding anything that you want. Yeah, there. You could have it. Yeah. In the in the paradise. Yeah.
And God wants us to have that. But the price we have to pay is give up.
		

			Outside everything looks good. You see the $100,000 cars you see a lot of diamonds you see a lot of
females and they think that this is you know, this is a life this is this is like no paradise right
here or
		

			anyone's job to go into someone's heart and change their heart. Your job is to tell people what the
truth is. The reality of it is while we're sitting here, while I'm sitting here constantly paying
for the disease to kill was free.
		

			Back here on the deen show with nomen Ali Khan inshallah, God willing, that if we're still alive, we
can look back at some of these and a lot of the credit that has ever accepted maybe will be old man
with gray hair. I'm already getting some will be like, you remember the time when we did this?
		

			Yeah, so tell us now? Can men and women can boys and girls, can they be friends? Can the girl like
have this? This confidence that look, I'm just gonna hang out with the guy. And you know, the girls
are jealous of me. You know, they're giving me problems. He's nice to me. Actually. He praises me.
He's always telling me sweet things. He's so nice. You know, I'm not gonna do nothing with them.
We're just hanging out. Can they? can this happen is this is this.
		

			It's happening? That's for sure.
		

			It shouldn't happen. That's also for sure. But can it be that we're just friends? Is it gonna stay
like you can met boys and girls be friends? No. No boys know that all too? Well. They won't admit
it. But it's they know that very well. Sometimes girls don't. And that's what I worry about. For my,
my, you know, my sisters, my daughters is that sometimes they don't realize the the the elaborate
scheming of men. Elaborate scheming of men. Yeah. The Well, we're just meeting because, you know,
we're lab partners, or huh. We're discussing a project or the MSA, the convention. We're discussing
Islam, you know, and the sister won't see through it at all sometimes. And actually, we have to
		

			raise the level of awareness and caution among our sisters.
		

			So that they it's there's no harm, you're going to interact with men that's going to happen, right
and they're in the business world in the school setting at the end
		

			work setting it's going to happen, you are going to have interaction, but what are the what are some
guidelines that you have to respect that can make those interactions healthy as opposed to
unhealthy. I actually personally believe we should have guided interactions between brothers and
sisters, especially young boys and young girls, as they're coming up, guided by the elders, so they
know how to respectfully interact with one another also. Because in you know, in this society, if we
try to, for example, if I cut my my daughters off, and they don't ever talk to anybody else, right,
eventually, they will go to college, eventually, they will go out in the workplace, or they'll go to
		

			the airport or travel or this and that, and there'll be other people around, I don't want them to be
shocked when they see the outside world. You know, keeping our children in a bubble is not going to
save them. But at the same time, letting them loose and saying, hey, do your thing. That's also
insanity. We have to find a way of guiding interactions between brothers and sisters, especially
boys and girls, even teenage boys and girls and things like that. It's okay if they have an
interaction with each other, so long as it's respectful, and the boys are trained, where to keep
their gaze and how to keep the conversation business only, and how to you know, how to make sure
		

			they recognize when they're crossing a line. And the elders are supposed to be there to guide those
conversations. A lot of times in youth settings, even in religious youth settings, there is no older
figure shepherding the conversation or shepherding the interaction like youth groups exist. And the
guys and the girls are all a bunch of teenagers, and they're running their own thing, because youth
should be leaders Well, yes, in most things, but in some things, you guys are ridiculous. And you
need you need elder elder people to be their older folks to be there. As far as you know, this,
like, unnecessary interaction between men and women.
		

			Especially you know, where this happens, this happens with people that you spend a lot of time with.
So you go to college with some people, or you go to work with some people. And, you know, there's
lunch, and there's just, you know, meetings and this and that, and it's regular. And what that does
is it gives shaitaan an opportunity to maybe not convince you one time, but take hammer away at you
1% at a time. And it adds up, you know, until it becomes a very, very big problem. Just the other
day, I got a phone call, it was one of the most it's a very typical phone call. Usually I don't take
these kind of phone calls. But this time, I just said I was in a bad mood. So I took it. So guy
		

			calls me says, you know, I'm going to this college, and there's this girl, she takes all the classes
I take actually it's the other way around, I'm pretty sure but it's nice that he put it that way,
you know, so she takes all the classes I take Yeah, uh huh. And you know, we we discussed classes
and work and career because she's in the same major.
		

			And, you know, we've been talking for a couple of years, I haven't done anything wrong. I was like,
yeah, sure you haven't. And and then he says, you know, but she just told me the other day that, you
know, she's considering a proposal, and my heart sunk. And I don't know what to do. What should I
do?
		

			And this guy is like, in just this deep shock that she proposed. Did you propose to her? Because no,
we were just friends. I didn't realize we were more than that until she said there's a proposal.
		

			So I started getting attached. Yeah. And I said, Dude, what do you want to do? You just don't
		

			wanna marry, talk to parents go.
		

			But there's already another proposal and she's, I think she likes the guy or something. I you know,
I don't even see what life is worth living anymore. Blah, blah, blah. Now say, Okay, here's the
first thing you do. Go tell your parents.
		

			Like 2122 years old, I tell them go tell your parents. And he says, No, I can't. They'll kill me.
		

			And I said, Okay, so you can't live without her. But you can't you're not mad enough to tell your
parents? No. Why were you spending so much time with her? I just liked her. She was a real friend.
She used to listen to me in blah, blah, blah, all this stuff? Look, if you're gonna go around, did
you know religious he asked him flat out, did you know religiously what you're doing is wrong. going
out with her and sitting and having fries at McDonald's is wrong. You knew that or no? Yeah. Well,
now you know why les has don't do it. Because it hurts.
		

			You know, there are consequences of this in the author. But emotionally, people get scarred. People
get really messed up. And they don't realize the price they pay emotionally. Even in this world. I
would argue even it's not fair to the people that these kinds of individuals will eventually
married. Because they're not emotionally attached purely to the person they married, they've, their
mind is somewhere else and they're reminiscing about somebody else, you know, and it's not fair to
another person. So even from an emotional point of view, it's unfair. You know. The other thing is
this culture of dating and you know, seeing somebody and then you're not seeing them that you're
		

			seeing somebody else and things like that. You just learn to become insensitive to other people's
feelings. You just at the end of the day, you just turn into a customer looking at
		

			for yourself, first time a guy gets dumped, he's depressed the next time he's like, I'm going to be
the one doing the dumping, you know? So he's just, I'd rather not be hurt myself, I'd rather, you
know, be dishing out and taking, you know, so you just become more and more inhumane. And that
leaves you incapable of having a family because at the heart of families love and compassion and
courtesy and worry about somebody else, you become bankrupt of those feelings as a result of these
like petty petty relationship, shallow relationships? Absolutely. Did you get to see a video that
some not yet Muslims made? And we say not yet Muslims, because everyone has the potential to submit
		

			to the one creator and not his creation. That's what a Muslim is. So they did some video on a
college campus. And the topic was can boys and girls be friends? Did you get a chance to see it? And
they were interviewing say, Hey, what do you think? You know, can you just be to the guys you think
you just be friends with the girls? And he's like, at the end? No. And it's a very interesting
video. So they see is not just coming from our perspective is coming. People know? The obvious
truth. Yeah. Okay. So would you say, look, Islam, that that total and complete adherence to what God
Almighty the creator wants us to do is the best self defense for many of these evil vices, you do
		

			Islam, you avoid alcoholism, you do Islam, you avoid gambling, you do Islam, you avoid these
heartbreaks, and all the things that just flip your life upside down. So by doing what God wants us
to do is to belt best self defense, because an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure.
Yeah, I would say that, but I would also say, you know, somebody can hear that and hear the counter
argument. Well, a lot of Muslims are into these things. They have Islam.
		

			Islam lives in people, when they're they have reinforcement. What young people especially need is to
surround themselves with other people that are trying to protect themselves. Also, they're trying to
guard their their chastity, their dignity, their shame their religion. At the same time, you know,
you could you could have only Muslim friends and still be the most messed up person in the world.
There's plenty of that going around, right? So picking your friends carefully, and picking friends
that will safeguard your own Islam. This is actually the key. Islam itself, of course, is the
solution. But Islam lives in people. Islam doesn't live in books, it lives in people. So you need to
		

			find people that are living it, and to surround yourself with them is I would argue the best
defense. We're gonna be right back with more take a break here with Norman alikhan at the baina
Institute, on the show, be right back.
		

			Back here on the deen show with Naaman, Ali Khan, and we love the people. slumps is love on my kind.
So we want to share because we care, believe we honestly care, do we? Yeah.
		

			So when we see these things out there, obviously, you know, they really as the last and final
messenger sent to mankind, he said, if you see an evil change with your hand, if not speak against
it, and at least amounts to hitting your heart. So when you see a lot of these things that aren't
good for the human beings, it upsets you It saddens you. So we hope by doing these programs that
people will listen, they went to benefit and implement some of these advices so they can save
themselves from these heartbreaks woman cannot get used and abused by men, man can not end up saving
himself from just being an animal out there on the hunt environment like this.
		

			Allah says in the Quran, that the most potent desire put inside men was desire for women. Allah says
the creator says Allah says to me, he made a list of things that we are tempted by what's this list?
		

			So first of all, I'll say the Arabic and English publisher how admin and bizarre desire of our love
of temptation and desire that comes out of women, when men and having sons or manpower that is to
saving will contaminate the habit, filled by and piled up hordes of golden silver, which just means
wealth. We want to have tons and tons and tons of savings even if we can, if we even if we don't
live long enough to spend all the wealth we have, we'd still like to have piles upon piles. Well,
and we'd like to have an old language translation would be cattle, but cattle was what it was your
business back in the day, right? People love having business and they're discussing their business.
		

			What do people talk about in their break? work, the new technology that's coming out the new trends
of the hospital, the new that, you know, if you're a doctor, you're talking about the new medical
trends, if you're a techie, you're talking about the new updates to this
		

			software to the new language that's coming out and the new trends in you know, app development or
whatever, right? This is your anon. And then what health which is the crop now what is the cattle
used for? It's used to produce the crop. So the return on investment is the health. So people love,
you know, the the desire for women, and then suns manpower, then in a lots and lots of wealth, then
how do you get that wealth, business return on investment? You know, what an arm one has this, this
is the list that was made in the third surah of the Quran. And at the top of that list, what was
their women? Now, if you look at this list, people will go through any means to acquire wealth. I
		

			mean, some of the most corrupt practices in the world today are utter, as a result of multibillion
dollar industries that don't care about right and wrong, they just care about their bottom line. And
we're seeing that in the news every day, right? The same if that's the case, if there's an urge
inside the human being, and if there's no guidance, and he has no brakes on how he attains that
appetite. Compared to an animal, an animal feels hungry, a gator feels hungry, a lion feels hungry,
what does it eat, whatever it can catch? Well, it doesn't think about the consequences, or if it's
gonna hurt something else, or whatever, it's got an appetite, it's got to be met. Well, what if it
		

			comes to this temptation in men, if there's no guidance, if there's no humanity left, then you will
do whatever it takes to fulfill that appetite. Right, and you will, doesn't matter if it hurts
somebody else, doesn't matter if it corrupts, and destroys society and ruins families, none of that
matters. All that matters is your urges. That's the only thing you see, you don't see anything else.
So I don't see any difference between people that are, you know, that are addicted to these kinds of
temptations. And people that are multibillion dollar executives that make you know, these deals that
destroy the entire villages in the third world, because of their bottom line or contaminate water
		

			supplies and things like that, because they're going to produce some, you know, some some soda for
somebody, you know, $4 billion, billions of dollars of profit, there's no difference between them.
Because at the end of the day, you have a desire, you fulfill it, and you don't care about the
consequences. This is why we are the way we are in those desires. A lot put in us, but he also gave
us the brakes. That's what guidance is it holds you back and keeps you balanced. So you don't turn
into an animal when the guidance is gone. That's all you and I are then couple points I just have to
mention before we close out monastry about baina. And before that for the four because we really
		

			catered to those who know nothing about the purpose of life are out there. She might have just came
back. And you know, look, we keep it real here on the D show. So she came back our show is caught
late at night and she's coming from the strip club. She's a stripper, the guy is coming from the
nightclub. He's smoking weed. He's drinking booze. And now they tuned in. And they've watched a
couple of the shows. And they liked this idea of just worshiping the Creator, not his creation.
They're getting sick of following their lusts and desires. Maybe they want to change their life, but
they don't know where to start. What advice do you have for them. And just In short, the I mean, the
		

			fact that they're making time to watch a video like this one is a really good sign, good sign that
Yeah, it's a very good sign that you good lies in their heart. And the first starting point would be
for any person that's immersed in a lifestyle like that, that you shouldn't look at what you've done
already in the past and say it's too late for me, there's no such thing. There's no such thing that
your yesterday will determine what your tomorrow is going to be. And we shouldn't let that be the
case. Also, don't let your friends and the people around you, you know, determine who you are, you
are your own man, you are your own woman. You can't just see everybody surrounded around me is a
		

			certain way. Therefore I have to be this way. Or this is all I know of. That's not who you are.
You're You're greater than all of those things. You were created for a higher purpose and all of
those things, making time for just, you know, reflection, making time for pursuit, searching more,
making time to seek out people that can teach you better, is probably the first big step anybody can
take. If you can find, for example, a local mosque, to go ask some questions, to send to send you
questions. So you can connect them to people that may be in their area because that needs to happen
to tap into actually living resources that can ask questions, answer questions about religion and
		

			things like that would be the next healthy step would be a good step in the right direction and one
thing at a time. But really, you should not assume that first of all take it's here to take the
matter seriously, as you keep saying it's an urgent matter, it shouldn't wait. So if you know you've
been blessed enough to at least be exposed to something about the message, at least give it some
more time and explore some more and find out if this is really the right thing and if it's the right
thing for you. And the second is to give it to don't put this off, because you don't know how long
you and I are going to be around so that we can take proactive action. And the last minute that we
		

			have tell us sure about your organization, the bane Institute Institute is a complicated
organization which I'll simplify for you the point of it is
		

			Two things. The vision of it was to make Arabic easy for Muslims to study. And for Koran to call up
for Quran to be made easy for Muslims to study the point, the original purpose of it was to
facilitate that education. for Muslims in America, that was the original goal hamdulillah slowly,
it's expanding to around the world.
		

			As the goal of the organization grew, so did some of its goals. So it's not just introductory
education in Arabic and introductory education in the Koran. But actually, the where we're sitting
now on campus is actually a pretty advanced program in Arabic. 100 likes the only one of its kind in
America, where our students are studying for a little over nine months, full time, and they're
studying the Arabic language inshallah parlez as best as I and my colleagues can teach it, so that
they have a really good sound grounded understanding of the language enough that they can read the
Quran and read Hadith and read Arabic or Islamic texts in their original form, without translation,
		

			and understand them in depth. This is the verbatim Word of God the crack the verbatim Word of God
and the Word of the prophet SAW the Hadith, right? So they, they're able to get a firsthand taste of
that, because you know, something's always lost in translation, and some beauty and some depth is
always missing. So the point of this training is to give give students the power to at least taste
some of that depth for themselves. And then the the idea of actually the one of the first
expressions I taught in the program this year I want to share with you is I'll give you a small
example of a conclude, you're passing by and you see a well, right. And you're not that thirsty back
		

			in the day, obviously, nowadays, nobody would look into oil. But back in the day, you'll pass by a
well, you don't think twice about it, you go on, somebody else passes by and says maybe I should
have a little. So they take a little like they dip their finger and they tasted a little. And they
realize this is actually a well, and the water in it is water from Paradise from heaven. It's
incredible. It's nothing like they've ever tasted ever before. Now, if you had a little taste, what
would you want to do? More, you'd want to get more a guy who never got the first taste to begin
with, what would he do?
		

			Just go on his way he wouldn't even think twice, right? The point here is, you know, to give
students a little bit of a taste. And if I can do that successfully, and my colleagues can do that
by less permission, then while they do, they'll take a second dip and a third on their own.
Absolutely, you know, and then people who never embark on this journey, they will never know what
you're missing out on. So that's that's the that's the beauty of you know, this language and the
beautiful book that Allah has given us the more we explore it, the more beautiful we find it so
people can find you there bainer calm but you know.com Thank you once again with the Creator of the
		

			heavens and earth rewards you for being anonymous. Thank you so much for coming we're really happy
to have you here and another students are happy to see you and she'll let me get time to interact
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