Tariq Appleby – Forbidden Love

			So there's much to talk about, you know, separating and all of these things. But it is Allah
subhanho wa Taala. For instance, how is it possible that we could have gotten a hike together, or go
swimming together? When unless you have a hand or data once men and women to play separately?
		

			So you telling me that in a state of sila, we I'm saying a lot.
		

			When I'm only thinking and I'm supposed to think of Allah alone, I have to be separate from the
women and the women are separate from the men.
		

			But inside Allah, we are separated and outside, we are intermingling. And we are, you know, enjoying
one another's company and laughing and giggling and falling for one another and being attracted to
one another. Of course, that that doesn't make sense. But rather, Allah subhanho wa Taala created us
and he knows us. And so what we are doing and what we are trying to do, is something that is not
only going to protect our honor, but also protect our hearts, and May Allah subhanho wa Taala
protect, but this man said, I had a cousin, and I loved her more than a man loves a woman that, you
know, this love that I had, was an infatuation. It was an obsession. And I tried to seduce her, but
		

			she would never allow me. She was a pious woman and you know, he was trying to commit an act. You
know, he was trying to commit a sin, but she wouldn't have any of it. Until one day, during a time
of great famine and hunger, she came to him asking him to lend her some money, can I borrow money?
		

			And he said, I will borrow you the money if you allow me to do what I have been wanting to do for so
many years.
		

			And reluctantly she agreed. And when he was about to commit the sin, she said fear Allah and do not
break the seal, except with the right of Allah meaning in marriage, that what you are about to do is
haram fear Allah.
		

			And then he feared Allah. Imagine this woman he loves us so much he wants to be with he has the
opportunity now. But the fear of Allah is is hot. Yesterday in the morning I mentioned seven people
that will be under the shade of a law. And one of those people is a man that is invited to Zilla is
invited to harm by a beautiful woman with status and he says in the takaful law indeed. I feel a lot