Tamara Gray – Tahajjud Waking Soul & Society #01 Why Tahajjud

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The speakers discuss the importance of the concept of "nafila" and the importance of setting boundaries for one's worship. Teheshjood is seen as the only thing available to be human at night, and the speakers stress the importance of praying for oneself and others. Prayer for God is emphasized, and feigned behavior is discussed as a way to be at peace and be at peace at night.

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			People ask me, Why tahajjud, why
are you always talking about this?
		
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			It's such a small part of life,
such a small part of worship life.
		
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			Why do you talk about this? Talk
about other things. Talk about
		
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			recitation of Quran. Talk about
charity. Talk about fasting. And
		
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			of course, all of these other
things are very important, but
		
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			tahajjud has a unique
		
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			reflection or a unique importance
that we understand if we really
		
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			carefully read the Quran and
carefully think about the words
		
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			and lifestyle of Rasulullah.
		
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			If we think about the concept of
nafila, what does nafila mean?
		
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			Nafila is something extra. We know
we have to do the fuddled. We know
		
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			that the Furu Darlene is very
important. And many, many people
		
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			are struggling with the fuddled. I
know this. But when we ask
		
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			ourselves, what is nafila, we can
look to the Quran to understand
		
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			Allah, SWT. Allah says, omin ele
Fatah, be He. Na feel it alaq AASA
		
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			in here, but athakara, Bucha,
makam and Mahmoud, ah, so nafilit
		
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			and luck means it's nafila. So
this is something that is nafila.
		
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			This, of course, is as this is
something special for rasulallah,
		
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			something special for his ummah,
that we have this unique time at
		
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			night that is nafila. What does
nafila do? Nafila brings us to the
		
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			love of God, and this, ultimately,
is what we all need. And so then
		
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			we look around, what is the nafila
that we should be doing, and we
		
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			discover that Allah Himself has
described nafila as tahajjud.
		
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			Okay, so now we need to get up,
and in other places, in the Quran,
		
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			kung malail, ilakalilan, get up at
night, except for a little so we
		
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			begin to understand this night
time is for sleep and for worship.
		
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			And when we begin to understand
and think about that, we begin to
		
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			walk a different path. The
importance of teheshjood
		
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			comes back to the importance of
really what it means to be human,
		
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			because we are created to be ibad
Allah, to be of the worshipers of
		
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			God, and we have a whole life of
busyness and running around and
		
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			rushing and coming at night
exhausted, and we're looking for
		
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			rest in 100 places, but the real
rest isn't is at night. The real
		
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			rest is standing before God at
night. The real rest is standing
		
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			at the in the last third of the
night, standing before Allah um
		
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			lave. Stand up at night. Stand up
at night. To be of the ibadar
		
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			Rahman Al ladini lira. Be him such
a number. Let's think about that
		
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			first for a minute. To be of the
worshippers of the Merciful. And I
		
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			want to talk a little bit about
what that means to become of the
		
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			worshippers of the Merciful, but
to be that person we'll talk about
		
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			that maybe later, is also to
define this as the one you betun
		
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			means to settle. If you think
about the word beit, a house, a
		
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			place you settle, you be Dun, to
settle in, settle into worship. It
		
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			becomes something that you're at
home with, something that's your
		
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			you settle your heart in. And it's
very interesting the verse,
		
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			because it begins with such Adan
so you be doing in prostration,
		
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			prostration to God, in great
humbleness to God, and then Priya
		
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			man. And and think about that when
we talk about the of prayer, when
		
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			we think about what's the most
important part of the prayer, if
		
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			you have bad knees, or if you have
an injury, you break your leg, or
		
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			something like that, what do you
have to do? We have to make sure
		
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			about priyam. We have to make sure
about the standing up at at night,
		
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			right? Or, excuse me, the standing
in prayer, which is the standing
		
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			at night, the establishing of the
prayer, and sujood is the thing
		
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			that if we break your like or
something we don't have to do yet
		
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			in this verse, such then
		
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			sujood comes first.
		
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			Why? Because, not only in action,
because the nighttime prayer is
		
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			not only an action of the body,
		
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			it's not only an action of the
forehead kissing the ground, it's
		
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			also an action of the heart.
		
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			And tahejud is the place where our
heart wakes up and where our heart
		
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			rests, and so when we begin to
develop a habit of tahajjud, na
		
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			philet and luck, na philet and
luck, this nafila, this special
		
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			thing that's not a follow. No, no,
it's not obligation. Think about
		
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			your children. When you ask your
children to do something that is
		
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			an obligation and they do it,
you're happy. But what if they
		
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			come and do.
		
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			Something extra, maybe you ask
your kids to unload the dishwasher
		
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			and you come upstairs, or you come
into the kitchen, you find out
		
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			they unloaded the dishwasher and
they did the dishes. Of course, in
		
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			a way, it's a silly comparison,
but as parents, we know how that
		
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			feels. You didn't have to nag for
the dishwasher to get unloaded.
		
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			You didn't have to fuss about all
of these things, about whatever it
		
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			is to take the garbage out, or
whatever the thing is. And on top
		
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			of that, they did something extra.
Imagine if you're a son or
		
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			daughter, after you told them take
the garbage out, you discovered
		
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			they washed the garbage tins.
Allah, you might faint, fall on
		
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			the chairs. What in the world was
that? But certainly you'll, you'll
		
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			look at that child with the eye of
of appreciation, of love, nafila
		
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			is the thing we do that is extra
for the one that we worship.
		
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			Nafila is not just the fad. It's
standing up to do that extra
		
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			thing. And tahajjud is the most
important nafila. It's the most
		
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			important sunnah. I mentioned all
of these other beautiful things
		
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			that we have to do, and all of
these other things we want to
		
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			think about, I should say other
things that help us on the path,
		
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			fasting, sadaqah, praying sunnah,
prayers around our followed,
		
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			prayers giving kind and good words
to people. Oh, this is important,
		
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			but
		
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			helps us to grow individually, to
become of those who Allah loves
		
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			and also as a community, think
about that verse, becoming of
		
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			those who have makam and Mahmud a
elevated status. What is the
		
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			status of our community today? Not
so great. We have pretty bad
		
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			PR, but we can find good PR on our
prayer carpet at night. We can
		
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			through the worship of God,
through deep worship of God, and
		
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			even quick, even Swift, even a
couple of minutes before Fajr,
		
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			worship of Allah, span taala, we
can elevate not only our personal
		
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			status with God, not only our
personal status with dunya, but
		
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			the status of our Ummah, as was
the promise to Rasulullah,
		
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			sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam, as
is a promise to us. The importance
		
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			of tahajjud is in walking the path
of becoming of the Beloved,
		
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			of becoming of those who have a
heart that it's easier to love
		
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			with his heart. Stand up at night
and follow in the path, listening
		
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			to the Prophet Sallam when he was
asked, what are the best of deeds?
		
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			If Shu Salam, give greetings of
peace. Feed people welcome. NASA
		
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			niam, stand up at night while
people are sleeping. Let us all
		
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			together. Stand up at night while
people are sleeping, and as we
		
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			look out of our window, pray for
every single one of them, that
		
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			everyone might take advantage of
these most beautiful moments and
		
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			grow love flowers in our hearts
that bring us near and close and
		
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			holding to The path we are meant
to be on. Mohamed, you,