Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al Quran 2012 – P18 179E Recap Al-Nur 30-31

Taimiyyah Zubair
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The speakers discuss the importance of protecting one's privacy during wedding dressing and the use of body language during dressing. They emphasize the need to avoid disrespectful behavior and find the right balance between stylish and casual fashion. The speakers also stress the importance of not losing focus on one's appearance and avoiding deception in shades. They stress the need to value one's personal health and time for personal reasons and not lose faith in oneself.

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			So, Allah subhanaw taala says, Well, are you Dina Xena Tahuna? Just a quick review again, a few more
things that I would like to add over here. First of all, what is mentioned with respect to
protecting the private parts, right, meaning that there are parts of your body that should be
covered that should not be exposed, unless there is a state of emergency surgery treatment, you
know, something like that. Other than that, do you think it's okay to expose the Aurora in front of
another woman even? Is that justified? It's not justified. What if it is the night before the
wedding? Where a woman wants to get an entire body wax done? For example, people have actually told
		
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			me they have recommended Why don't you do this?
		
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			Honestly, I'm not joking. And if they can tell a girl who's wearing the niqab, they can tell you
too.
		
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			Right. And when people at the time of wedding that is the greatest time of fitna, honestly, that is
the time when you're kind of forced to leave your hijab or when you're fully decked out go in front
of men who are non Muharram. Right expose your older before people. This is such a sensitive, you
know time, but when people tell you to do these things, what are you going to do?
		
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			What are you going to do? A loss peloton tells us that the women should guard their private part. So
it doesn't matter whether it is for the purpose of grooming, or you're going swimming and you're
changing. Or you are at school, before gym or after gym and you have to change. It doesn't matter
what situation it is. Your body is yours. It is not to be displayed in front of other people. No
matter how much depressurize you this body is an Amana on you Allah's panel data is going to ask us
what we did with our body. When we think about body as an Amana we think about its health. I better
take care of my body a better eat well a better exercise a better sleep a lot, you know, because my
		
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			body's in Amana on me, what about covering the body, Allah is also going to ask us about that.
		
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			So remember, whether it is for the purpose of grooming or it is for the purpose of you know,
changing in front of other people, whatever it may be, do not expose your older, even if you have to
wait 20 minutes in a line, wait 20 minutes in a line for a cubicle where you can change your clothes
and privacy. Do not expose your odor in front of other people. Then over here we see that not
revealing Xena.
		
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			What is included in Xena. I mentioned you two things which we reviewed at the beginning also the
body and what is worn on the body. Now, when it comes to the clothes of a woman
		
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			normal clothes, let's say she's wearing pants and a shirt, or let's say she's wearing shalwar kameez
or any other traditional clothes. What are they called?
		
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			What do you call it? Your traditional clothes?
		
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			Did are are batty. Okay, so whether you ain't did our birthday Sheila kameez, you know, whatever
you're wearing Sardi whatever. Is that Xena.
		
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			Tough question.
		
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			Be honest with yourself. Does it beautify you?
		
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			Does it beautify you? It does?
		
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			Allah Subhana Allah says in the Quran in surah Al Ashraf is 31 Yeah, Benny Adam. Hello, Xena. takom
are in the Killeen, Masjid. or children of Adam. Take your Xena near every Masjid meeting when
you're about to pray. Make sure that you've taken on your Xena and what is meant by Xena over there
is clothes, normal clothes.
		
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			So the clothes that a woman wears even they are Xena. Even they are adornment, which means that when
she goes in front of non Muslim, she should try her best to conceal that to cover that as much as
possible. Now, somewhere Allah might have said that the bare minimum is that her clothes must be
covered with something that reaches at least down to the knees. Minimum. All right. And especially
if the clothes are tight, like for example, if a woman is wearing tight skinny pants or something, I
mean at home, in front of your husband go ahead. But when you're stepping outside, or when people
are walking in and your shirt is short or even if it reaches your knees and your legs are
		
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			completely exposed than they have to be what has to be done. What does Allah say Wallah you, Medina.
Xena tahona they should not reveal their Xena. All right, when it comes to jewelry, whether the
jewelry is worn over and a buyer or through a hijab, is that Xena?
		
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			Is that enough? Because sometimes I think it's just a necklace on top of an a bio. What's the big
deal?
		
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			That is also Xena. Instead of Taha 87. Allah says what are kina Hamina ozada Min Xena to comb, the
Bani Israel said that we were made to carry the Xena of the people What does Xena refer to over
their jewelry, the gold and the silver of the Egyptian people. And Allah says the women should not
reveal their Zina. So go ahead, wear 10 necklaces if you want. But where should you wear them? In
just put your hijab on top right or your bio or your you know, jacket, cardigan, whatever you're
wearing? conceal it, cover it. Likewise, when a woman is dressed up in the sense that her hair is
made, she's wearing nice clothes. She's going to a party. Is that all Xena? Yes, it is. And so pasos
		
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			is 79 We learned about karoun that karoun He got all dressed up. All right. And he came out before
his people for Hello Jada comi fees, Xena teehee he came out in front of his people in his
adornment, meaning he was all done up he was all decked out. So when a woman is all decked out,
okay, then that is what Xena What does Allah say? Wallah you Widener Xena tahune The women should
not reveal their Xena.
		
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			Remember that InSilico are off we learned about the rulings concerning clothing. Right? Allah
subhanaw taala says yeah, Benny Adam De Anza Nalli come Lieberson we have sent to you we have given
you live as clothing that you worry so article that covers your private parts where Isha and it's
also an adornment, right? So Libertas is something that you have to wear anyway, what is mentioned
in this is a female that is big enough to cover the body with to cover the beauty with. So you
understand, because some people say what this means is that you just make sure that your chest is
covered. And I'm wearing a shirt, my chest discovered. Well, do you think the Arab women went
		
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			* around?
		
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			No, they didn't go *, the workloads as well. But Allah subhanaw taala told them, they should
take their head covering and put that on their chest. So that means that on top of your normal
clothes, something has to be
		
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			has to be worn for the purpose of covering?
		
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			Yeah, go ahead.
		
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			Suppose
		
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			what?
		
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			Do you know exactly what is looking beautiful, right? I mean, we have not been instructed in our
religion to go and pinpoint everybody's mistakes. So for example, I'm not going to go around to
everybody and say, by the way, sister, your hijab is too short and fix it from here. And this hijab
is too colorful. And you should do this. And you should do that. I'm not going to do that. I'm not
going to tell the group in charges to do that. I'm not going to do that. Because this is a matter
between you and your Lord. You will know very well what is beautiful, right? What's the criteria
that we have been given over here? What is beautiful, cover it? We have not been told that what is
		
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			beautiful, throw it, still put it on wear it. But just one thing when you go outside when you go in
front of non Muslim men cover it.
		
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			Okay, so the question is that, are there any restrictions when it comes to colors, patterns, and
such things on your clothes? And when it comes to your hijab? When it comes to your clothes, no
restrictions? Unless you're going in front of men, when you're going in front of non Muharram men,
then we haven't been told discard your beautiful clothes. We haven't been told change your clothes.
What is it that we have been told?
		
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			Cover it.
		
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			So wear beautiful clothes, wear beautiful, traditional patterns, you know, whatever clothes, okay?
But just one thing we have been told, cover it. And that means that what we're using to cover should
not itself be
		
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			displaying beauty. First of all, it should not be transparent. And secondly, it should not be such
that it's displaying more beauty. All right. So for example, you go to certain places. Generally
people wear such plain colors generally, that if you wear something colorful, you'll stand out too
much. But there are other places where if you are wearing something colorful, it's not really a big
deal. But even then, don't wear something too colorful that will
		
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			make your face look so beautiful. All right, and your overall appearance so attractive that a person
from 50 meters away is looking, what kind of a color is that? What kind of a pattern is that on that
dress thing that this lady is wearing, and he wants to check it out so that our buyer, the hijab
should not be a source of
		
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			beautification, it should be a source of covering the beauty. I'm sorry if you hate me for this, but
I got to do my job. It's in the Quran. It's in the Sunnah. And I cannot tell you go ahead. Facial
piercings are they allowed or not? I mean, it depends. Right? It depends. I mean, again, if you're
going in front of non Maha men, I would consider even a no spin as a source of beautification.
Because a nose pin, why are you wearing that in the first place anyway? What's the objective of a
nose pin?
		
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			Despite the discomfort and everything else? What's the objective?
		
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			beautification, right? So if the purpose of that nose pin is beautification, then is it okay to show
that beautification in front of men?
		
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			Is it okay? You know the answer? Anything else? Yes.
		
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			Okay, if you're wearing henna, and you have to go in front of men, what would you do?
		
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			Get some bleach. Okay. And soak your hand in it so that the henna comes off?
		
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			Yeah. What are you going to do? What's the rule that Allah is giving us here?
		
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			Cover it?
		
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			How
		
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			were your mittens? Even though it's 40 degrees outside?
		
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			How do you cover it?
		
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			Extend your sleeve out. When you're outside, don't you know wave your hand at anybody? Especially
when men are seeing right? Keep your hands down, covered? Closed? Whatever possible. All right. If
you have a hijab or something, keep it there, depending on how much henna you've got on anyway. All
right, go ahead.
		
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			So like they went off the house with like, stuff that appeared like,
		
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			shorter.
		
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			Exactly. And I mentioned that earlier, that in certain societies, for example, at the time of the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam wearing Kohle, in the eyes was something standard. All right, everybody
did it, it was something standard wearing Kohle in the eyes. All right. Now, if a woman is wearing
Corporal at home, we no matter how much you try to take it off before going, it's not going to come
off. In fact, you're going to look even more Messier. Right? So what do you do, then you don't touch
it, you go outside, just don't look at men in the eye. Just don't do that. Right. And also, I mean,
when you know that you're going somewhere where there will be many men, then be aware of that. So
		
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			for example, if I ever have to go to the marketplace or something, I make sure that I'm not wearing
any makeup, I take it off, right? Or I make sure that it's very subtle, or when you are going to a
women's gathering. So for example, you're coming here Sunday morning, you're coming here after
class, you're gonna go home, maximum you're going to do is go visit your sister or some of your
relatives and then go back home. A little bit of eye makeup, which is hardly obvious unless a person
really looks at you. There's no harm in that. Go ahead.
		
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			No
		
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			it's not necessarily like blusher, eyeshadow, anything, it's just a concealer foundation to like in
asleep and it's it sounds want to take out your under eye chakra as long as it will make you look
normal. Natural. Right? That's the criteria. Go ahead.
		
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			Saudi Arabia, right. Like the culture there. It's like, you know, if you want to wear the colors we
wear now it'd be kind of off and induction
		
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			didn't mean like I misunderstood what you said. It's like, so in this country, most of Japanese are
people even if they're dressed really modestly. They were like, on our phones. And not like I don't
even sparkly
		
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			stone jewelry. And it's like, if it's standard.
		
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			And that's cultural without okay, as long as something. Oh, wow. This person there's so they
actually like decked out with Okay. Okay.
		
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			Honestly, it depends on where you're going, who you're going to be in front of. All right, who
you're going to be dealing with? Because, I mean, at the end of the day, you are the best judge. All
right. Like for example, what I mentioned earlier that in some places you wear any color, you stand
out, my sister lives in Saudi Arabia and she does not like black. So she will wear a her standard
hijabs that she wears here. And you know, when
		
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			She goes to a masjid. Everybody gets angry with her. That why don't you wear just black but she
doesn't because she doesn't like it. And there's nowhere in the Quran or sunnah, that we're told you
have to wear black. Right? But over here also when she's here, she doesn't wear all patterns. All
right? She doesn't wear extremely bright colors that are attractive. All right? You have to, you
know, find that middle ground where you're neither drawing unnecessary attention. Right, nor are you
going on the extreme that you are leaving what is permissible. So you have to draw the line
yourself. Go ahead.
		
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			mean in the Quran we are told that Allah subhanaw taala says in Naza Jana sama dunya, busy Nathanael
kawaki that we have beautified the sky of the world with the adornment of stars. So what are stars?
Adornment they are beautification. So those stars could also be put on your bio on your hijab. All
right. So see, are they a source of attraction? You understand this should not be a source of
attraction. Any other question? Go ahead.
		
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			What if it's school related? Go talk to the principal, go and ask for some kind of accommodations to
be made for you. We live in Canada multicultural. It's the best thing about it. Yes.
		
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			Going to the
		
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			American is the thing that we can do it what we should do. Okay.
		
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			I mean, even if a woman is sick, or if a woman is unable to clean herself in her private area, it's
beyond her ability.
		
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			Beyond her ability, she's got some physical ailment, she's got some serious health issues. She's
extremely old, she's not able to do it, then in that case, yes, she may get assistance. And I
remember one of the classes that she actually bassoon he taught, in that he mentioned that even
then, she should not just go to any person, if she's married, that her spouse should help her with
that. And if she's not, then in that case, you know, somebody who has some level of hierarchy that
they will not be looking at her or you know, they will maintain a level of modesty when helping her
go ahead
		
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			I mean, if you are wearing nail polish when you're on your period, I don't see a problem with that.
I mean, it's a woman's wish to beautify herself and that is a time when she can actually wear nail
polish for a few days. So I mean, what you can do is when you are going outside just as you would
conceal your henna, also conceal your nail polish. All right, go ahead
		
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			then she doesn't cover as much
		
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			yeah inshallah we'll get there also those Ayat alter inshallah we will study. What that means is
that if a woman becomes old, right, there is no harm. There is no sin on her if she removes her
theory up and what is meant by theory up over there is her outer garment. So for example, a jilbab.
I imagine a woman is on a wheelchair, or she's walking with the help of a walker, and she's wearing
a JimBob she can barely, you know, walk and she's wearing a jacket about that will be very difficult
for her. But still in the Quran, we learned that they should not display their beauty.
		
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			Because sometimes we think that okay, now I'm 60. So I don't need to wear hijab, but let me get my
hair nicely colored, right. And I can still wear some makeup. And just because a woman is past the
age of menopause, she thinks that she doesn't need to wear proper hijab anymore. No, she still has
to. You know, remember that as long as a woman has the desire to beautify herself. She should cover
herself. Yes.
		
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			You're going outside with your husband?
		
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			Can you wear makeup?
		
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			Don't ask me. Look at the ayat. What does Allah say? Don't ask me. Don't make me look like the bad
guy. Okay, sister Tammy is too extreme and a little those too extreme. I'm not giving you an answer.
You look at the eye at yourself. And tell me, you're going outside in front of non Muslim men. I
don't care who's on your side, your husband, your son, your friends, whoever it is. When you're
going in front of non Muslim men, and you have makeup on, you know exactly what you should do.
Right? conceal it to the best of your ability. conceal it. And if you feel like you find it
difficult to conceal it, then don't wear it. Go ahead. Exercise.
		
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			Running outside. How would
		
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			Okay, if you want to go running outside, no, this morning only I was thinking, I can't do these
things anymore because the kids are sleeping. So you can't really leave the kids. Right? But when
you're going running outside, how can you do it? How can you do it? Yes.
		
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			Please depart or go at a time when people don't.
		
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			Okay? So for example, one option is that you go at a time when people are sleeping generally. Right?
So for example, Sunday morning, like today, it was ideal. was beautiful weather early morning best.
Any other option? Yes. Any other suggestion?
		
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			Comfortable. Exactly. So a comfortable a buyer. All right, or comfortable, loose hijab, that's not
going to get in your way. And you can run easily, you can play easily. You can do whatever you want
easily.
		
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			All right. Yes.
		
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			The question is that if a woman is wearing a skirt, and she wants to go out like that, does it
always have to be played? Remember, first of all that a skirt? What is it? It's your clothing?
Right? And your clothing is a part of adornment? Right? So it's ideal if that is concealed. However,
if a person doesn't find themselves at the level where they're able to conceal that as well, then in
that case, where something that has as subtle of a pattern as possible. All right, meaning you don't
want bright colors, too many bright patterns that just remember the criteria, it should not be a
source of attraction, it should not be a source of attraction, go ahead.
		
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			Can we wear sleeveless shirts or shorts? Okay, in front of my hum. Technically speaking, if you go
like that in front of your father, like with your arms all showing, technically speaking, there is
no center in that. However, there must be a level of modesty. Go ahead.
		
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			Exactly, you have to maintain your Hyah. Right. I mean, you could go like that in front of your
husband, for sure. You could go like that in front of your, let's say, son who is three, four years
old. Okay. But once your son grows up to be six, seven, and he's wondering what is wrong with my
mother? Why is she dressed in this way? Then, of course, you should see what is best in the
situation that you're in.
		
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			Shorts mean, you you learned about that, that? Until the knees? Right is our little that is like the
bare minimum that has to be covered? I mean, what is beneath that? Yes, it may be exposed. But if
you walk around with something that is revealing your entire leg, first of all, because the shorts
are shorts, you each leg is separate, and then your lower leg is all exposed anyway, the body is
being exposed. It's somewhat covered, but it's not concealed. Right. So in that case, it would be
inappropriate to go like that in front of your Mr. Holman. Any other questions? Last question
because I have to move on to the following. I actually have so much material to cover go ahead
		
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			it should, whatever you were on top jilbab insha. Allah the details of jilbab we will study in
pseudocolor his app so don't worry, Job's gonna come again. Okay. The bare minimum length of that
they're gonna have said that it should come up to the knees. At least the knees and I don't mean
above the knees. Till the knees. All right.
		
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			Yeah, so for example, let's say it's winter, all right, and you have a long jacket. That is still
your needs or below your needs. And you want to go outside like that. You've got your skirt or
something or very loose pants and then you have a long jacket that's reaching down to your knees or
even below. You can go out no harm.
		
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			All right. But of course it's ideal to conceal all of your clothes. You see, our buyer is a new
thing. At the time of the Prophet saw a lot of seminar buyer did not exist. What women did was they
took large pieces of cloth and they use that to cover their bodies. All right, and their clothes and
of course when they would walk, I mean part of their lower garment would be exposed. It would be
seen not that their legs were seen but their lower garment was seen. You understand. Now it's
inconvenient to wear a loose sheet of cloth around you. If you did that you're doing it fine. But it
would be inconvenient and this is why we wear now and our via because it stitches put it on and you
		
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			forget about it.
		
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			All right and on top you wear him out.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Rollerblading horse riding, whatever it is, you're wearing in a bio. And you have to lift it up a
little bit. Just lift it up to your knees. Not about that.
		
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			roller coaster, you have to lift it up fully. Or when you go to Wonderland.
		
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			Yeah, this is why I remember I didn't sit on those rights.
		
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			Because I mean, your legs are showing, right? I mean, depends on the ride also. Okay? That if it's
just two people sitting, alright, and the people who are in front of your behind you, they're far
enough that they're never going to be able to see your thighs, no harm. But if there's nothing on
the sides and your legs are dangling, all right, and somebody can see you, when you're all the way
down, they can see you from the side, the shape of your thighs is being exposed, then that is not
appropriate. Okay.
		
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			Now, one thing, before we move on to the following, I add
		
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			adorning yourself beautifying yourself. This is something that's part of being a woman all right. I
mean, it's part of being a human. And especially as a woman, you have this natural desire to
beautify yourself. Right? In the Quran. Allah Allah says our main unit show Phil Hillier, that the
girl creature the girl is the one who is raised who was brought up in adornments, right little girls
you see Earrings, bangles, and poor boys, what do they have cars. So but girls, I mean, they grew up
with beautification, they are adorned.
		
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			But just remember something
		
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			where beautification is an important part of life, it should not become the purpose of our lives.
		
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			It should not consume so much of our money, and so much of our time, and so much of our attention,
that we forget things which are far more important.
		
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			I mean, when it comes to, for example, makeup, how much money does it cost? A lot, right? You know
better when it comes to putting that on? How much time does it take? A lot. And when it comes to
researching the best way of putting that on and watching one YouTube tutorial after another and then
checking one magazine after the other? How much attention is that taking from you? A lot? What is
the NEA behind this? Why are we beautifying ourselves to such great lengths that hundreds of dollars
are being spent? Hours and hours are being spent? So much of our precious time and attention is
going into this? What are we doing this for? This is something that we need to question ourselves
		
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			that why am I doing this? What's the objective? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said that
who ever wear clothes or fame, meaning he wears clothes in order to gain fame in order to be
noticed. He's doing this out of pride than Allah who will dress him in clothes of humiliation on the
Day of Judgment.
		
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			Allah who will dress him in the clothes of humiliation and disgrace on the Day of Judgment. I'm not
saying don't dress beautifully. I'm not saying don't wear makeup, do that. But to Remember that
moderation is something that is very, very important. Don't lose balance. Don't forget the greater
purpose of your life in beautifying yourself.
		
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			How long should it take to wear hijab nicely, properly? How long should it take to dress up and make
your hair along?
		
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			Check yourself? Check yourself every day or every time you're going somewhere? How much time did I
spend in getting ready? One hour? I mean, so many husbands complain, right? It's time to go. We've
been waiting for 20 minutes, we're still not ready. You keep saying one minute, one minute, one
minute. And you take so long. This is a problem with married women. This is a problem with young
women also, who are not married who are still single. We spend too much time in getting ready. And
getting ready is not the purpose of our lives. Because the same body is going to go in the grave.
What is the NIA? Why are we obsessing so much over our hair and our looks? Why? Why so much? I'm not
		
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			saying ignore it, give attention to it. But with moderation. Are we spending similar amount of time
and our money on gaining something that is more lasting?
		
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			You know, sometimes we complain that oh, this book is too expensive.
		
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			It's $5. Well, the eyeliner that you got was not even $5 Right? We complain about Islamic apps being
expensive. For example, why?
		
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			are they charging it should be for free Islamic classes. They're too expensive courses they're too
expensive fees we cannot pay. But how much money are we spending on beautification, beautification
makeup that will get washed off, and it will go down the drain.
		
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			After a few hours, it's not the same anymore. You know, the day that I lost appreciation from makeup
when it was my sister's wedding day. Okay, she was getting ready makeup was being put on, it was
time to pray. And she realized she didn't have her will do. And the person would put the makeup on,
they had put everything like, you know, waterproof. So for example, even the mascara was waterproof.
And basically everything wasn't for that reason she had to she didn't realize Rub, rub rubbed her
eyes. Why are my eyelashes falling off? And they still don't feel wet? Because it was waterproof.
Right? water repellent? Right? I mean, so much time so much money goes into this right? But then
		
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			what happens after a few hours? What happens? You know exactly what happens, you wash it off, it
goes down the drain.
		
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			Was it really worth it than to spend one hour doing that? Was it really worth it? It wasn't.
		
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			So we need to value our lives we need to value the time that Allah Subhana Allah has given us this
is short, this is temporary. Give attention to your looks. I mean, I shut off the low on the eyes of
the prophets have a lot of time they spent time dressing up looking beautiful they did. I mean, we
hear narrations about himself am I not getting her hair made and the Hapa began and she stopped
right away. And then, you know, she went to pray basically, mean they spent time on this. They had
hairdressers even. But this was not the purpose of their lives. Remember the limits of spending your
time on these things. Because when it crosses over no particular limit, then it becomes it's rough.
		
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			It's rough. And it comes into wasting money and those who waste money who are the brothers of
shaitan. And we don't want to be the Sisters of shaytaan.
		
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			Also remember that when it comes to beautifying yourself beautifying oneself, we should remember the
rules the etiquette, right? That in beautifying ourselves we should not lose our modesty. Right? We
should not forget the limits that Allah subhanaw taala has set. Likewise, I mean, in Hadith,
clearly, we learned that women should not dress up like men and men should not dress up like women,
this is something that is not permissible. And also remember that beautification, it should never be
for the purpose of deception. If it is for the purpose of deception, then it becomes a sin.
		
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			It becomes a sin. So for example, if the makeup on the face is such that it's completely changing
the complexion of a person, their skin color, or it's completely changing the shape of their
eyebrows, or the shape of their lips, completely changing that they look like a completely different
person than that is deception. Right, putting eyelashes on, which don't look fake, I mean, some
eyelashes, they're really good in the sense that they look fake, clearly. Right? But some, they look
too real. They are basically deceptive, right? The objective is deception, deceiving the other,
portraying that you're very beautiful, or that your eyebrows are like such and such. Whereas in
		
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			reality, they're not like that. coloring your hair or attaching things in your hair in such a way
that they look natural. That is also deception. And that is also something that's not permissible.
But if for example, you know what your friends hanging out, and for fun, you got this pink, you
know, here, right? That's clearly fake. Mean It looks plastic, right? Even if it doesn't, it's
bright pink. All right, and you attach it in your hair, all your friends know it's fake. Right? Or
something is made of cotton. Like the Sahaba were asked that if something is made of cotton, and
that is used to braid the hair. Is that permissible and said no harm? Why? Because it's made of
		
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			cotton, and it's obviously not your hair. Right? I mean, you're not gonna manage to deceive anybody.
All right. So remember that when you're adorning yourself and you're putting something on to enhance
the beauty of your hair, to enhance the looks of your face, whatever it may be, it should not be for
the purpose of deception. Because that would be a serious sin. Right? Yes.
		
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			streaking, as in coloring your hair.
		
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			I mean, if you're coloring your hair and you've got let's say, you know, for example, red or
something in your hair, okay, or blonde even, right? A little bit here there. Of course everybody
knows that's not how hair is
		
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			All right. I mean, your hair is generally one plain color unless you're really old. Right? Then you
get white and shades of gray and black and everything, right? In your hair. But if it's other
colors, your hair is generally black. And in the middle, you have a color here, there at the bottom
in the middle somewhere. That's perfectly fine. No harm with that. All right. I mean, if you do it
pink, purple, even yes, they're not natural colors. It's better to keep it as natural as possible,
mean closer to what people generally have. Again, it's not deception. I mean, everybody knows people
are not born with purple and pink hair. All right, go ahead.
		
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			I mean, maintain modesty HYAH wherever you are, right, especially in front of men. With respect to
hair color, remember that the Prophet saw a lot of Salam, he actually encouraged people to color
their hair. This doesn't mean that you destroy the natural color of your hair. It means that when a
person is getting white hair than he should, or he or she should color their hair. So for example, a
bucket of blue heron whose father when he embraced Islam, he came to the Prophet sallallahu sallam,
he came to Medina, his hair was all white, white, everything, had beard, everything white, and the
Prophet sallallahu sallam said, color your hair, but refrain from Black. Why refrain from Black?
		
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			Deception? Right? So for example, a 70 year old person with a poor black color on their hair, many
people would wonder she 50 She 40 Well, how old is she? Right? It's deception. Any other color? No
harm with that insha Allah and the prophets Allah Allah is and I'm also said the Jews and the
Christians do not dye their hair so be different from them. Alright.
		
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			Inshallah, there will be more that we will cover on this topic. But just to conclude this topic,
		
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			a few words of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam, to serve as a reminder for all of us, in a
hadith which isn't as sensitive to Sahaba authenticated by Mamdani. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said that the worst of your women are muda but reject those who display adornment. Who are
muda high yield that those who work with pretense they are Mona few thoughts, hypocrite women, none
will enter Jannah from among them, except like the red beaked and footed curl, meaning such a curl
is very rare. Likewise, the women who are like this moudaber Rajat, Moto heikkila, very few among
them, will enter Jannah moudaber, reject or those who do tuber route those who display their Xena,
		
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			Allah has told us lie you, Medina Xena to Han. And the exact opposite of that is Kabul Raja a woman
displaying her Zina. Disregarding the words of ALLAH, the command of the messenger salAllahu alayhi
wa sallam with the high elf or those who walk with pretense meaning we don't walk naturally. They're
walking with pretense in order to attract attention. So physically they're displaying adornment. And
the way they're carrying themselves also they are attracting attention. Such women Rasul allah
sallallahu sallam said, they're the worst of your women, they have hypocrisy and they will not enter
Jannah May Allah protect us. In another Hadith we learned the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, there
		
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			are two types of people who will be punished in *, and whom I have still not seen, meaning these
people do not exist at the time of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. So he predicted that there will be
people who are going to be like this, and they will be people who will end up in *. First of all
men having whips like the tails of cows, and they will beat people with them. And secondly, women
who are Cassia Arya let me let me let women who are cast yet who are dressed up, but they are out
yet they're still naked.
		
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			They're covered, yet they're naked. Why? Because their bodies are covered, but still through the
covering, their body is being exposed, it is being revealed.
		
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			The objective of clothing is not achieved. Cassia the idea let me let me let me let meaning those
who are inclining others to themselves, meaning the way they carry themselves, the way they go in
front of others, the way they dress up? What's the objective, attract attention, attract attention
muamalat And they are themselves man ilat ones who are inclined, meaning those who are inclined to
evil. So for example, a woman going out and the way she talks the way she walks the way she looks.
She's trying to attract attention. And why is she doing that because she herself is
		
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			inclined to evil. So for example, a woman who's flirting, right, I mean she's drawing attention at
the same time she is inclined to others who are not halal for her. So Cassia ARIA to me, let me
elaborate. Their heads will appear like the humps of camels, meaning the way they make their hair on
their head it looks like a hump of a camel. They will not enter Jannah and they will not smell its
fragrance which is perceptible from such and such a distance. The fragrance of Jana can be smell
from such a distant place. But a woman who does not protect herself who does not preserve her
modesty for that woman, even the fragrance of Jana is haram and this is a Hadith in Sahih Muslim.
		
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			This is why Allah says in these ayat, What Tubu in Allah He Jimmy on a U haul mcmeen on all you
believers, repent to Allah altogether. La La come to flee home so that you may be successful. You're
only helping yourself you're only benefiting yourself when you observe this command.
		
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			subclinical locomobi handmake Nisha de la ilaha illa Anta Nesta Furukawa to Boulais As salam o
Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh