Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al Quran 2012 – P07 076D Tafsir Al-Maidah 101-104

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The speaker advises the audience not to ask unnecessary questions and avoid unnecessary stress, as it can lead to unnecessary unnecessary argument and unnecessary stress. They also remind parents not to ask questions that will make them unhappy and lead to unnecessary unnecessary argument. The importance of finding out about certain matters and following Prophet's teachings is emphasized, along with the need for everyone to practice their values and not share false assumptions and expectations. The speaker also discusses the importance of not acknowledging common sense and justifying actions, and mentions a study on "will" and "willow" to describe actions.

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			Yeah Are you handle Adina? No all you have believed like us and we're an ASHA in do not ask about
things which things intubate Allah calm. If they are shown to you, they're disclose to you the cell
calm, they will make you unhappy they will distress you come from seeing well Hamza, so is what
evil, meaning it will distress you and will make you unhappy. Don't ask such questions. In other
words, the answers to which you will not like the answers that will disappoint you. Don't ask such
questions whose answers will disappoint you. And this could be in religious matters as well as
worldly matters. For example, once a man came to the Prophet salallahu Salam, and he asked him,
		
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			where's my father? His father died as a mistake. So the Prophet saw a lot of sunset in the fire.
		
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			What's the point of asking such a question? Where's my father? It's understood if you died as I'm
wishing is in the fire. Don't ask because when you hear from the mouth of the prophet that your
father is in the fire of *, it's going to make you really, really sad. So don't ask about such
things. Similarly, we learn that once a man came and asked the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Who is my
father, because it was said that his mother committed Zina, and his father was not the father whom
two people believed was his father was actually somebody else. So he came in as a prophet, so a lot
of them so who is actually my father? He said, Yes, it's that men, meaning not your mother's
		
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			husband, but the other men, and that obviously distressed that person that I am one of those Xena.
		
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			I have been born out of Xena. My mother committed Zina, so it hurt him. It offended him. He didn't
want to hear that this isn't worldly matters in religious matters. When the ayah was revealed, will
Allah heal and as you hinted at that it is a rite of Allah that the people should perform Hajj. When
this I was revealed a man came and asked the prophets on a lot of sun every year, do we have to
perform Hajj every year?
		
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			He didn't respond again. He asked again kept asking. And the prophets have also got upset that if I
had said yes, then you would have to do it. Now imagine the difficulty that it would cause to all
the Muslims, none of us would be here today. If Hajj was obligatory every year, we wouldn't be able
to do anything in our lives. Because all year long we would work to make enough money so that we
could go for Hajj. This is what we would be doing. People save money for three, four years, and
eventually they're able to go to Hajj. Imagine if Hajj was mandatory every year. So don't ask such
questions that will make your life difficult for you that will cause you distress, things you don't
		
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			want to hear. This is why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Leave me as I have left you, because
those before you were destroyed because of many questions and disputing with their prophets. Such
questions, what do they cause differences and they ultimately lead to harm. So this is why Allah is
telling them believers not to ask questions, which are irrelevant, whose answers are not a benefit
to you. They will only make life difficult and miserable for you, they will only hurt you. And this
is something that we have to apply in every area of our lives. For example, if you go to somebody's
house, and you ask them, Where do you buy this meat from? And they tell you I bought it from me for
		
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			lunch. Paramount, and you firmly believe that make the largest problem or Paramount is how are you
firmly believe that? Will you be able to eat that food?
		
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			No, don't ask questions. Don't ask questions that are going to make life for you and for others
difficult and will lead to if the last day called you over to have food with you to spend some good
time with you and here and evening turns into an argument. Likewise, you have some problem with
let's say your in laws, those of you are married, please listen to this carefully. And those of you
are not made doesn't as carefully as well. Because one day, Inshallah, when you will be, you might
have problems, and you don't like the kinds of things that perhaps your mother in law does, or your
sister in law does. And let's say your husband goes for an entire day while you are at home.
		
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			And then you ask them, so what did she say? And what did you guys do? Or you ask your children? What
did your aunt say? What was your aunt wearing? And what was my mother in law doing? Was your
grandmother doing? And the kind of answers that you were given they hurt you.
		
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			They hurt you that your sister in law said something about you? Or they were celebrating while you
were not there because they don't care about you. What's the point of asking such questions? What's
the point? What's the benefit? There's no benefit. Likewise, a woman may get married to a man who
was maybe previously married to someone. His first wife died or he divorced her. And now she is on
his case trying to find out. What was her name? Where did she live? Why did you divorce her and if
not him, asking every other part.
		
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			wasn't in the world. So I just want to know, like, what's the main reason why he divorced her? And
when she really a good person, or was she a bad person? And then you find out that okay, she was
evil. She was like this. And because of this reason he divorced and it was good for him that he
divorced her. And then you want to find out what did she wear? On her wedding day? Where are those
pictures? Where did you take her? When he got married? Where do you guys used to eat? There you go
for your honeymoon, how much was the dress for? And then you find out oh, her dress was $2,000. And
my dress was $500.
		
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			He gave her a whole set of jewelry. And to me he just gave her a ring.
		
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			And that hurts you. There could be a reason why he gave her an entire set. Maybe he could afford it
at that time. And now he can't afford to give you a whole set. So he gave you a ring. There is a
reason. But it hurts you.
		
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			So don't ask about such questions. Whatever has happened in the past has happened. It's over its
history. Let it go. Let it go. Don't pry don't do the justice. So let us adorn a Shia in don't ask
about such things into Telecom, calm, they will hurt you if you were to find out about them. So what
kind of questions should we ask relevant questions useful? The answers to which really have to do
with normal? The answers to which will really benefit you not hypothetical questions. Yesterday, I
mentioned to you that the scholars have even said that if there is a sea creature that resembles a
human being ie Immerman. That's still Halal because it's a secret tree. And the person who asked
		
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			this question, What a ridiculous question. Because first of all, do mermaids even exist? And if you
have a little child who loves her mermaids, that by the way, if mermaids were real, we could
actually eat them. Imagine the distress that you would cause to a little poor girl. Just imagine.
		
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			So don't ask such questions into Bella Contoso, calm, don't ask hypothetical questions all the time.
If this were to happen, what if that happened, don't do that. It's only going to make your life
difficult, and it's only going to make you distressed. And the justice is something that we should
not do that justice is basically being overly curious about matters which are irrelevant to you.
		
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			And likewise, one more thing, please, you young girls, remember, when you get married inshallah? Or
if you are me, don't ask your husband ever. Did you have a girlfriend? Did you have a crush on
someone? Don't ask this question. What benefit is he probably doesn't even remember who that girl
was or where she lives.
		
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			And here you are. Oh my God, my husband used to love somebody. He doesn't love me. Don't ask your
husband. Do you love me? Again and again? Do you love me? Don't do that. Don't ask your parents
again. And again. Do you love me? Do you love me? Ever say yeah, yeah, of course I do. But you're
like, oh, but that yes, was not real.
		
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			It's understood. They love you. And if they tell you, I love you, then accept what they say. Because
women, they have this problem a lot. A lot. They asked too many questions, irrelevant questions, but
people's feelings were people's private matters. Don't do that. Let us unwind a share in intubate
Ella canta soupcon. We're interested in her and if you were to ask about them, Pina Yonezawa Quran
at the time when the Quran was being revealed to Buddha Lacan, that they will be exposed to you
meaning then you will be given the answers, that when the Quran was being revealed, when the Prophet
sallallahu sallam was alive, if somebody were to ask a question, and the answer would be given for
		
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			sure, why, because of where he is coming? And then when the answer is given, the command is given,
then you have to follow it, you have to do it and that it will make life difficult for you.
		
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			So be careful, be wise about the kind of questions that you ask our follow who are on her, Allah has
pardoned it. Pardon what? What has happened before so now don't repeat the same mistake again. An RF
Allah on her altar refers to all those matters about which Allah subhanaw taala has kept silent,
that certain matters. Allah subhanaw taala has not mentioned them the prophets of Allah Islam has
not mentioned them in detail. Why? For some wisdom,
		
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			there must be some wisdom behind it. So don't go searching those answers because you can't find
those answers today anyway. And at the time when the where he was being sent, there was a reason why
Allah had not explained those matters yet.
		
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			Think about it. If there was a companion who would come to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in Makkah
and asked him, Is it haram? Alcohol? Is it halal?
		
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			And if at that time the
		
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			answer was given, yes. You think everybody would be able to stay away from common? Would they be
able to no they wouldn't whose life would be difficult, their life would become difficult. So
certain matters were explained later at certain times. Don't be hasty to find out about them. And I
give the same advice to you as well. When you're learning the Quran, you may have many questions you
want to know immediately. Isn't the call mandatory? Is it mandatory to wear our via? Don't ask such
questions already. Unless unless you really want to do it. If you can't wait.
		
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			Then go ahead. But asking from now and then you're like, okay, so stay with me. I said, you have to
wear a buyer. I don't want to learn about those verses. So I'm not gonna continue with the course.
I'm too scared. I don't want to know.
		
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			There's you ask is music haram or halal? And we see that such verses I mentioned much later in the
Quran after the 20 of Jews. Why? Because by that time a person has that strength of Eman, the
softness of the heart that is required to accept these rulings. So whatever has been deferred,
deferred until then.
		
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			Well, hola hola. folden Haleem and Allah is Forgiving and tolerant, meaning there's a reason why he
has delayed these answers these matters. So wait, and Allah Azza foetal Rahim so whatever has
happened so far has happened. Don't repeat the same mistake again. But Salah ha calm woman public
come some people before you also asked irrelevant questions, unnecessary questions, so most bahuvida
caffeine and when they got the answers, they didn't want to hear what happened. They became it's
deniers, meaning they didn't want to do it. What does this remind you of? Some people who asked too
many questions, and when they got the answer, they didn't want to do it. Who the bunny is slightly
		
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			remember that this little Bakara the story of the cow. They kept on asking questions until it became
too difficult for them. They didn't want to do it. And they refused to do it. At that time, they
slaughtered the cow but in many other occasions, they kept on asking questions, questions that made
their life difficult and then they refuse to do it.
		
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			So asking questions is important. But only when the questions are relevant when they're irrelevant.
They only make your life difficult.
		
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			So the information that has been given just stick to that not less not more.
		
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			Then Allah says module Allahu Allah has not made meaning he has not appointed Member he rotten.
Anybody wrong? Well, I said about nor any cyber. When I was Lila Nora, and he was Lila Weller,
Harmon, Nora. Anyhow, these four animals that are mentioned over here were basically different kinds
of animals, which were dedicated to the false gods meaning the machine, they would dedicate certain
kinds of animals to their false gods. And dedication would mean that the milk of those animals
people could not drink, they could not write those animals, they could not slaughter those animals.
And with regards to what exactly will sila is what exactly ham is, what exactly sir Eva Mahira there
		
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			are many, many opinions. And if I were to go into each one of them, first of all, you'd be confused.
And secondly, you might even laugh. Laugh is good right now, but it would confuse you more than
amuse you. Like for example, just to tell you how complicated it is. But Hera, it is said that it is
the 11th, daughter of a sheep camels born after 10 brothers. And you're like What 11, the daughter
of a chic animal born after 10 Brothers, this is just one opinion, there are nine other opinions as
well. The basically the such things that if a she camel would give birth to twins, again and again
and all those twins were male, and then eventually she gives birth to a female, then that female
		
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			would be dedicated to the idols or that mother would be dedicated to the idols, the mother of those
great camels would be dedicated to the idols. Right. So there are different opinions how it is said
that it's a bowl basically, that fathered 10, female calves. These things are irrelevant to us. Now.
		
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			You probably have never seen a camel. And you probably don't know the difference between a male
camel and a Shinka. Well, you probably don't know what it means to give birth to 10 she camels,
right? Because it's irrelevant to us. So this is why I'm not going to go into all that detail. You
can find out these details from various tafsir books, but it's not relevant to us. The point is that
when Allah subhanaw taala says over here, that he has not appointed any such animals. That if a
camel gives birth to Tenshi camels then you dedicate her to the idols, or you dedicate its 11th
child or you dedicate the mother of multiple twins. Are you dedicated the father of multiple twins?
		
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			First of all, those animals are
		
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			Look, if you find it amazing that a she camel gave birth to 10 males, you should be amazed at the
power of Allah. Not the power that she can, because it's not in the hands of the chicken. Whether
you're impressed by the mother or the daughter, doesn't matter, you should be impressed by who?
Allah azza wa jal Mahalik so he says, These animals are not appointed by Allah. Well I came in
Medina Cafaro but those people who disbelieve you have thrown out Allah hookah they, they fabricate
lies about Allah Karim. They are Kaduna. And most of them don't use their mind. Because of the use
their mind. They wouldn't dedicate such animals to their false gods. Because when such animals will
		
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			be dedicated, it would be a burden on the people think about it. Here you have a camel, it's
dedicated to the idols, you can't ride it, you can't use it at all. In fact, you have to take care
of it
		
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			side by side, that it would be a camel that that will be just left on its own. So it would wander
freely in the streets and destroy people's property, trample people's you know, land, and as a
result, people would suffer. So if they use some common sense, they wouldn't do this and the
dedication they have done. This is all fabricating lies about Allah, meaning they have no knowledge
of it. They have just invented all this, which gives us a very important lesson that if you don't
know about something, don't talk about it. Mr. Malik wants a group of students came to him and
stayed with him for 15 days and every day they would ask him so many questions. And he would say
		
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			he would say I do not know. Because he didn't know the answers to those questions. So if you don't
know about something, don't talk about it. Will either penalize them and when it is said to them
Tolo come, Ilana under allah to that which Allah has revealed. Look, the Quran talks about this.
This is what Allah has revealed, the complete opposite of what you were doing. What he loved was
soul and to the messenger come to the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam do what He commanded
God who they say her Spooner enough for us, is what men were generally what we found our forefathers
on
		
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			the practices of our forefathers, their beliefs, their culture, the things that they used to do that
is sufficient for us. That is enough for us, meaning we have no interest in what the Quran says, We
have no interest in what the prophets Allah has commanded. The rituals that we are busy with,
they're good for us. They're enough for us. Allah says a willow can, would they still follow their
fathers? Even if about a woman, their father is Leia and I'm gonna shake and they didn't know
anything? Well, if they don't, and they were not rightly guided, meaning why are they following
their forefathers when their forefathers did not know? And they were not rightly guided to
		
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			understand this verse properly, that following your parents, your forefathers, in itself is not
wrong. It is wrong when a person is following them when they were not rightly guided when they were
ignorant of the truth.
		
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			So for example, a person is told that the way in which you're praying is not according to the
Sunnah. You should pray in this way, because this is the way that the Prophet saw a lot is in
performance. Allah says, no, no, no, no, no. My father taught me how to pray when I was three years
old. And this is how I have prayed Salah all my life. My mother used to pray like this. My father
used to pray like this, and my father, my grandmother taught him. So I'm going to pray like that,
because this is how our family prays. No, you're not going to do that.
		
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			When you have learned that the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam says something different than
you have to follow what the Sunnah, not what your parents did.
		
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			And at the same time, don't look down on your parents.
		
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			Because perhaps that's all that they knew to be correct, which is why they did it. And you will be
worse than them. When you know what correct is yet you leave it in imitation of other people.
		
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			So, what do we learn over here the importance of following the truth, even if the entire society
contradicts it, even if your culture contradicts it, because we have two extremes. Some people
follow the culture. They said this is how we Pakistanis are this Are we Somalis are this is a we are
there's a we are this is what we've always done. And at the same time, there is another extreme
which is that people give no importance to culture. They said this culture it means nothing. You
should only practice Islam you should only be Muslim Quran, sunnah class, and they give no
importance to culture at all. No, culture is important. We are human beings. Your culture shapes you
		
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			it
		
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			gives you joy in your life. So culture is important but when it contradicts the Quran and Sunnah,
then you leave it if it doesn't contradict it, then there's no harm in fact it's good for you
because it helps you do certain things. So two conditions are given over here that they should have
written and they should have hidayah who your forefathers your culture if they had that follow them
and following them is good. But if they didn't have it, then do not follow and leaving their ways is
better for you Inshallah, and still have respect for them in the sense that don't look down on them
don't confront them. There are many great scholars who differed from their families from their
		
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			teachers even but still they had great respect for them great respect for them in the manner that
they spoke to them in a manner that that dealt with that because you can agree to disagree you can
and you can still be respectful
		
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			let's listen to the recitation of these
		
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			gentlemen oh god Baynton how
		
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			nurse he wants Shahana hot all no one do one
		
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			that he can
		
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			no longer
		
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			we will no longer be cliche gnarly
		
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			long awful walking man was only in
		
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			wall long we
		
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			still will for me to work on Java capsule onto hobby
		
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			on one Hina unis
		
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			long one will long waffeln Halle Odyssey
		
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			feudi merge Allah along with the hail or
		
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			she
		
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			wants me that you
		
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			can Latina CAFO we have to own our long you can work so
		
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			will either be
		
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			long enough was only Paul who has Munna.
		
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