Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al-Quran 2010 – Juz 30 – L309D

Taimiyyah Zubair

Ash-Shams-Ash-Sharh Tafsir Al-Lail 1-21

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The speakers discuss the differences between men and women in their behavior, including their goals and expectations. They stress the importance of acceptance and guidance in life, as well as the importance of avoiding giving charity and giving oneself a reward for their actions. The segment also touches on the benefits of sharing one's wealth or charity to purify others and the importance of giving back to others in return for something.

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			rajim Bismillah Ar Rahman Rahim
		
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			lesson number 309 so to lay it number one to 21 sort of the lane is a Maki sola. And it was revealed
after so little Arla.
		
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			It has 21 verses about 70 words and approximately 300 hoof Bismillahirrahmanirrahim when layli
either Yoshida by the night when it covers one head either agenda, and by the day when it appears,
or not Hanukkah record our own sir, and by he who created the male and the female.
		
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			Over here also Allah subhanaw taala swears an oath, first of all by the night and what feature of
the night either Yoshida when it envelops when it covers, what does it cover? Everything with its
darkness, everything that is between the sky and the earth, it covers it with its darkness, will lay
the EPA OSHA when either agenda and by the day, when it appears the agenda, Jim Lam well, and what
is the Jelani when something is revealed when something is exposed, so by the day when it unveiled
when it exposes what itself, meaning when it becomes manifest, when it becomes visible, how would it
slide with its radiance with the son
		
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			in sort of Islam Ayah 12 Allah says, Allah later when the Hara a attain, and we have made the night
and the day two signs from a homeowner at Elaine. And then we erase the sign of the night when
you're
		
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			in a hurry mobile Sarah, and we have made the sign of the day visible. So by the night when it
covers and then by the day, when it appears, the night is dark, and the day is bright, completely
opposite, when a Hanukkah the carnival,
		
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			and by he who created the male and the female,
		
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			male and female also completely opposite. So who has created these opposites? Allah soprano,
completely different things. The male the female, the night the day, completely different. What's
the job person in the ciriaco militia. Indeed, your efforts are diverse, just as the night and they
are different. Just as the male and female are different. Your efforts, your striving, your deeds,
your actions, your goals in life, even they're different.
		
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			And when they are different, the results will also be different. In the ciriaco shutter shutter is a
plural of the word Shetty. Like the word Mandala is the plural of the word mareel. We have learned
earlier that several jamir on Roku boom, shatter their hearts are in fact, diverse mean they're not
united. So basically shut down shut it is when the Unity or togetherness of something is dispersed.
When it's not united, when it's not together, it's dispersed it varies. So, we see over here that a
loss of panel data has created a great variety in his creation.
		
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			A great variety in his creation, flowers are various colors, even soil mud is of different colors,
trees are of different colors, green also you will find a different shades. So who has kept his
writing the creation alasa parameter. Similarly, when it comes to human beings, some He has created
males and others He has created female,
		
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			which shows that men are different from women. Males are different from females in various ways, at
different levels, in their physiology, in their psychology, in their thinking in their feelings. In
every way. They are different in their abilities. They're different. And in fact, no two individuals
even are the same, even of the same gender. But we see that on a larger level. People are different
on the basis of their gender.
		
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			And although people don't like to accept this fact, this is a reality. This is a reality, a boy will
be different from a girl. And the greatest evidence of that is the body itself. The way the male
body functions, a female body doesn't function like that. The way the female body functions, the
male body does not function like that.
		
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			A woman when she hits puberty, she has menstruation. A boy doesn't. It doesn't work like that. A
woman she can give birth, a man cannot no matter what you do. So when the bodies are different, this
means their ability
		
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			keys are different, their roles are different, their characteristics are different. And when they
are different in Messiah combination, then their efforts will also be different.
		
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			Their efforts will also be different, their striving will also be different. We're not saying that
one will be better than the other, but it's different.
		
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			Not that one is better than the other one is more virtuous than the other. But the simple fact is
that it's different. Both are necessary. However, at the same time, they differ. And we see that
people in general as well. Now forget this difference between men and women, but in general people
as well. Their efforts vary. Some people they're striving is towards gender, how their goal is
gender, so their way in life is of obedience. And there are other people whose goal is nothing. So
what are they working towards the Hellfire, unintentionally, even they're working towards the
hellfire. It's not that a person says my goal is up. I know. His goal is not gender. Therefore he's
		
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			ending up towards Hellfire, how? By His acts of disobedience, there are some people whose effort to
striving is to gain prosperity, happiness, success in this dunya and other people they're striving
is for what purpose to get happiness, prosperity success in the hereafter.
		
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			So people's goals are different. And their way of striving is even different. Their way of doing
things is also different.
		
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			The way one person works, the other doesn't, the way one eats, the other doesn't. The way one
writes, the other doesn't.
		
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			Compare your writing with the person sitting next to you, it's different.
		
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			The way you're taking notes is different from the way your partner is taking notes. The way you're
sitting is different from the way your partner is city.
		
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			Some, their goals, their striving is better. And others, they're striving, their goals are not as
good.
		
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			They vary. And this variation is with regards to characteristics. And it's also with regards to the
level.
		
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			Those who put in more effort, they end up achieving more, and those who put in less effort, they end
up achieving less. So in
		
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			Russia, your efforts all vary, they are different. Now each person should see, what is he striving
towards? What is his striving? Like? What is his goal? What does he want to attain, because for our
for our taco, as for he who gives and fears Allah will set the hub in her center, and he believes in
the best reward than what will happen faster and we are suitable, we will ease him to where it is.
		
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			And on the other hand, the person who has stolen our cars, there will be the prisoner, fasten your
seatbelt, and so completely do different outcomes, depending on what
		
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			depending on what the striving, what is a person striving towards. One way is an alpha. Alpha is to
give to give something, how in abundance fully as a favor, as a bonus. And alpha needs two things.
Because it's fairly modality it needs two things, basically needs to have when you're giving
something a you need the thing that you're giving, and B you need the person who you're giving that
to
		
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			and its tumor from
		
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			isn't mentioned over here.
		
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			Know what and who are not mentioned.
		
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			What hasn't mentioned men are the one who gives What does he give and who does he give it to that is
not mentioned. Why?
		
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			Because it varies from person to person.
		
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			It varies from person to person, situation to situation. But obviously, the one who is concerned
about giving, he will find something to give, he will find someone to give. So for a moment our
author, whoever gives of his wealth of his time of his skills, he shares he contributes what the
call and he's fearful of Allah, meaning he stays away from disobedience as well. So he gives, in a
way, this means he's obedient. And he gives up as well because jack is in and what the call he stays
away from what from that which is forbidden will suck the COVID resna and he confirms the
truthfulness of personnel what is on her SNA
		
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			and personnel refers to olatunde harassment, the most beautiful statement,
		
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			the most beautiful statement and what is the most beautiful statement whose statement is it? The
statement of loss upon the call of Allah and also the statement of His Messenger sallallahu wasallam
because the most truthful and the most beautiful speech is that of a loss of time.
		
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			thought that was the profit sort of answer conveyed to us. So sokoban has now he believes in it, he
confirms it, then what will happen first, and we assume
		
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			we will ease him toward ease.
		
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			If you think about it for a moment about the power in a way that shows on, and also documented
personnel this shows
		
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			even
		
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			so I'm on an email both of them, what will happen and personnel? Yes, usually, we will ease him
toward ease lujah zero, we will facilitate we will make easy for that person, we will make it easy
for him. What will we make easy for him? I'll use raw. What is
		
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			the is the easy way?
		
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			Do you know Islam? I mentioned that earlier is that at least the first to do Islam the religion of
truth. Why? Because it is easy. What's the evidence?
		
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			The Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam barista when hanifa to some had the salad.
		
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			So first, and we assume that we will make the religion easy for him. We will make the religion easy
for him in the sense that it will become possible for him to follow the religion. It will become
easier for him to follow the religion.
		
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			But what does your phone makeup person think?
		
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			It's very hard. It's very difficult. It's very difficult to do good. It's very difficult to follow
the dean.
		
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			But what do we see here? That the one who believes in her SNA The one who accepts and the one who
are appalled and ethical, that Allah will make it easy for him? It doesn't mean it's simple. No, it
could be challenging. It could be difficult, however, it's made possible for him. Because remember
the meaning of de seed what is the seed to facilitate something for someone? Remember the horse that
he has settled for was a little coupe. It's prepared for riding, the saddle, the stirrup, the reins,
everything is there. So when you ride a horse, on whom is a saddle, the horse that is trained, it's
easy for you to ride that horse and imagine if you ride a horse whose back is naked? No saddle,
		
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			nothing. Can you imagine even riding a horse like that? No, you won't even go near ours like that.
So Fasten your seat belt in your salon meaning we facilitate it for him we make it easy for him.
It's possible for him to do it. But you have on insert Rebecca at 68 we aren't ashamed on we're
either going
		
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			to crumble fascia, shed on promises you poverty, and he ordered you to do that which is fascia will
love who you are either komagata men who are fabula and a lots of promises you something but he
promises you what forgiveness and bounty so it's up to you whose promise Do you believe in? Do you
believe in the promise of Allah?
		
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			Or do you believe in the promise of shavon shavon makes you think it's difficult, you're going to
suffer? It's impossible. You can't do it. There's no way.
		
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			But Allah tells you, you do it, I'll forgive you. You'll do it. I'll make it easy for you. So it's
up to us was promised Do we believe in who's promised? Do we have more yaqeen and children is a
greatest liar.
		
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			And Allah subhanaw taala. He's the one who's most truthful.
		
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			And this is something true that when a person starts something initially he finds it difficult.
		
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			However, eventually it does become easy for him, isn't it. But ease comes after acceptance will suck
double Hostnet comes after acceptance. If you don't accept your situation, it will never ever become
easy for you remember that.
		
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			For example, there are some people who never accept the fact that they have moved to another
country.
		
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			When they don't accept the fact that even if years go by life is difficult for them. They don't know
what to do. They don't know how to do things. They don't know how to live there. Why? Because
they're not accepting in their mind, they're still back home.
		
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			Because they're still back home. You wonder how much time goes by where they're living currently,
they will not take advantage they will not be able to accomplish anything. So the first thing is
acceptance. Similarly, some people are not willing to accept that winter has come.
		
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			So they're not willing to accept that winter has come then what happens? They complain, they get
upset. And the person who has accepted then what does he do? He says okay, fine. I'm gonna have to
wear different shoes. I'm gonna have to wear different clothes. I'm gonna have to wear a jacket when
I go in is difficult. It is somewhat inconvenient to put on a jacket and to put on those big shoes
out in the snow. It isn't convenient. However, doesn't that make your life easy?
		
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			It does. So the first step is acceptance. Accept and
		
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			Then things will become easy for you. If you don't accept, it will never be convincing.
		
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			Yesterday, somebody was asking, I mentioned in class earlier that how can you fear something that
you haven't even tried? somebody was asking that? How can it be a general principle? Like,
obviously, you're afraid of something that you have tried?
		
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			So the thing is that yes, you are afraid, but you have to accept the difficulty, you have to accept
the challenge. And when you accept it, it will become possible for you. For example, before doing
this course, if you got five days a week, no, no, no. But those of you said, okay, five days a week,
inshallah we can do it, let me try at least once you start doing it, then what happens? It becomes
easy. But if you say, No way, five days is too much, four days is too much, I cannot do it, then you
will not be able to do it, it will not become easy for you.
		
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			So the first thing is acceptance, and then it becomes easy for you. In terms of fragile, we learned
that Yeah, yeah. To an absolute my inner injury in our Viki arrabiata, who is probably the one who
is happy, pleased, accepting of the commands of Allah, accepting of the decrees of Allah. So when a
person accepts, then he's able to do when he's able to do it, he becomes more than allowed to
becomes happy with him. So personally, yes, you will then use what we facilitate the ease for him
the easy way for him. Some scholars have said that first one Yes, sir. What? What this means is that
Allah subhanaw taala creates ease for him this law for him, in every matter of his every affair of
		
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			this
		
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			in the matters of Deen. And in the matters of dunya.
		
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			The one who are with the call was South Dakota has not and what happens Allah makes his affairs easy
for him possible for him. I'm not saying that life becomes a breeze, no, it becomes easy for him to
do things.
		
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			Like for example, it happens sometimes that you want to buy
		
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			a pair of shoes. And you just can't find the right pair of shoes. Does it happen?
		
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			You go to one store, you go to the other store. And then finally like Forget it, I'm just going to
purchase it, I don't have much time.
		
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			And there are other people who they go once or twice and immediately, you know, they're able to get
it. I remember there was this scholar who was visiting and he happened to come here in winter. And
when he came in winter, that meant he needs a jacket needed snowshoes. And the country that he was
coming from those I mean, you don't need to wear such things. So basically, he needed to buy all of
it from here. And there was a person they took him to the mall in order to buy their shoes and
jacket. And they walked into a STORE and they tried on a jacket and they said yeah, this is fine.
And they purchased it. And they walked into another store, they found a pair of shoes and they found
		
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			they were comfortable for the purchaser. And this person was so shocked they didn't even go to
another store. He didn't even try something different. How can if we have to buy what do we do? We
try once join another store in another store. Okay, where's the cheaper? Where's the best quality?
And where is it that you'll find the best one the one that suits me most perfectly? Then what
happens mattress become more complicated for you? When you're presented with more choice? Should I
get that $150 which is great or should I get that 201 which is black? Or should I get that cheaper
one which is beige? Which one should I get? Then you're making your life difficult, but a person
		
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			whose focus is not as dounia mean His focus is okay fulfill this need and move on move on with life,
then what will happen as soon as something will come they will
		
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			take advantage of that opportunity. And this person asked him that this is quite expensive by the
way. He said it doesn't matter My time is more precious. I came here not to shop I came here to
teach.
		
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			So his time was more precious to him. So buying a jacket and buying shoes in one trip became easy
for him. And for us in five trips buying one jacket is impossible.
		
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			So Fasten your seat and you saw his worldly affairs are made easy for him and his deenie affairs are
also made easy for him in through the follow up I have for Allah says woman yet up in La Jolla Jana
who mean angry.
		
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			Whoever fears Allah, Allah makes from his affair ease Allah makes matters easy for him.
		
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			And this is a reality. The more obedient a person becomes to Allah. The more his situations are
made, the more his affairs are made easy for him.
		
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			The more a person wants to obey Allah, the more his life is facilitated for him.
		
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			And the more distant a person becomes from the dean, the more busy his life becomes.
		
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			Isn't it so the more distant a person is from the dean distant he is from Allah.
		
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			His life becomes even more complicated, more consumed, and he doesn't find the time. For example,
you ladies have the time to come here and study and cook and look after your children and do laundry
and the other women who think how do you do that? I'm sure other women ask you, how do you do that?
How is it possible for you to do it? Don't you crash? How do you manage to do all of these things?
You said? I don't know. It just happens. Honestly, when people ask me, how do you do like, I really
don't know. It just happens. 100 Allah, during this course, a lot of things have come up, a lot of
things have happened, a lot of guests have come in my house stayed with me, gone, many things that
		
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			happened, I've had to travel myself. But everything just happens by itself. You know, we learned
earlier falcata hamanaka, you have to throw yourself into it. You throw yourself into it, then Allah
takes you through it.
		
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			The best thing is that Allah gives the stomach Nina, the contentment in the heart that a person is
satisfied, he's happy. And other people are shocked. And how can you do it? How is it possible?
		
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			I remember that when my son was born, my mother, she pushed me that you have to go to class, you
have to. And I also had to push myself that I have to do this. Because I knew that if I don't go now
I won't be able to go late. If I don't start now, I won't be able to start later. And I'm so glad I
made that decision. It was difficult initially. But when I am
		
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			in terms of law, I am so calm. Right. So everything falls in place.
		
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			everything falls in place. Over here law says personally a suitable use law.
		
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			And for instance, at a Buddha only how these different different classes have come up for the
children. When I started coming here, there was no proper class for toddlers at that time. But
eventually, there was a class for the toddlers as well. And now and hamdulillah what he's learning
there, I'm so glad he's learning draws, he's learning so many things that I was surprised about. I
mean, probably I couldn't teach that to my son at home myself. But because he's coming here, he's
learning from others.
		
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			So personally, as soon as you saw me allowed to make his way, his life easy for him, the matters of
dounia, the matters of the law as well.
		
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			All the unimportant, unnecessary things are removed from your life. And this is a big blessing as
well. A big blessing. Because many times it happens that people are struggling, you know, fighting
against themselves that I don't want to watch television, I don't want to go here, you know, somehow
helped me or look at rid of this habit.
		
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			And when a person focuses on that which is good and allows and makes it easy for him to get rid of
those bad habits.
		
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			When you busy yourself in something good, then you won't have time for something bad. So firstly, as
soon as you swap.
		
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			And on the other hand, what Amanda mahina was stolen. And as for the one who is stingy, becomes
selfish, he doesn't give neither of his time, nor of his wealth, nor of his abilities, the skills
that Allah has given him the guidance that Allah has given him with which he could serve thee, he
could help so many people, person become stingy. He's only concerned about himself. He's only
concerned about his comfort was governor. And he feels that he is free of need, meaning he doesn't
need a law. He's self sufficient. He doesn't care. He doesn't need the reward. He doesn't need that
extra reward in the hereafter. Because what is this diplomat? To show that you don't care? When a
		
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			person doesn't strive more than what is he showing? They doesn't care, he doesn't need that extra
reward. But if you think about it, we need that extra reward when desperate for every bit of reward
that Allah will give us. But if a person becomes stingy, and he thinks he doesn't need it, we'll cut
the ribbon Hostnet and he denies the best reward facility acetyl houden Ursula and her synovia first
to the best word, or then the Quran.
		
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			Or an Ursula can also be understood as the best reward because hoseline its literal meaning it is
that something that is very beautiful, a very beautiful, feminine thing. So it's best word best
reward. He denies that doesn't show any interest in that. Then what happens Fasten your seat or
we'll get our slot we will ease him to word difficulty.
		
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			We will make difficulty easy for him. What does it mean by that person is rude in a restaurant? What
does it refer to? Or sort of first to disobedience and the consequent punishment that refers to
disobedience and the consequent punishment in the hereafter.
		
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			Because a person might say that disobeying Allah is much easier.
		
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			Is it
		
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			sleeping compared to praying what's easy? Sleeping? So why is it called an Ursula? Why is sin
disobedience called Ursula
		
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			because in its end result it is difficult
		
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			and it's gone.
		
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			sequence it is extremely difficult in the Hereafter, it will be very difficult.
		
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			So Fasten your seat award and Ursula, we will make his way of disobedience easy for him, we will
pave the way for him, we will give him the trophy to do what? To disobey more.
		
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			So what do we see
		
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			that whatever a person wants, whatever a person strives to do, that is what he will be able to do.
That is what Allah will enable him to do. If a person wants to do good, alone will facilitate that
way for him.
		
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			And if a person wants to do bad, a local facility did that for him. You were given the trophy for
whatever you desire. In other words, so personally, yes, suitable dinner saw
		
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			recitation
		
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			bismil walk
		
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			wanna call upon
		
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			nephila was stolen.
		
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			This is so scary,
		
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			that the one who becomes stingy, selfish, and he feels he doesn't need a law, he doesn't need that
extra reward, then what happens? life becomes more difficult for him.
		
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			life becomes more complicated for him.
		
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			On the other hand, the one who goes out in the way of a law, the life becomes easy for him, dealing
with problems challenges becomes easier.
		
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			Remember that difficulties are a part of life whether you do something or you do nothing.
		
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			difficulties are a part of life. Why? Because the katakana in Santa Fe covered in net accardi han in
Arabic akata Hamza Malati. So whether you do something or you do nothing, life will be difficult.
However, if you're out in the way of Allah, those difficulties will become easier to deal with.
		
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			And if you're not out in the way of Allah, those difficulties will become extremely difficult to
deal with extremely difficult that a person cannot do anything that doing a little bit even becomes
very challenging.
		
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			I remember when my son was very little, I'm just sharing these stories with you just so that you can
also relate with them. That when he was very little, he had severe eczema, severe eczema, his entire
skin was wrong. I mean, people would see him and they'd be shocked at what's wrong with the sport.
		
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			And I remember I had to come to class every single day. And I mean, I had to come I had to come. But
because I had something to keep myself busy, I had something to remind me that life is difficult
accepted, Allah will give reward for patience was easy for me to see him. It was easy for me to deal
with his raw skin. But I think about it that if I were home, looking at my poor child every day, I'd
be so sad and upset, and, you know, trying one thing after the other and complain and wonder, what
did I do? And why is this happening? That problem would become much, much bigger for me much bigger.
		
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			So the thing is that when a person has a goal in life, and he's striving towards it, and dealing
with these issues in life, whether they're big or small, it becomes easier. Allah gives you the
strength. Yeah, the Allah, Allah gives you the strength.
		
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			And if a person makes his entire focus in life, the problems that he's dealing with, and he doesn't
have any strength, he cannot do anything.
		
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			For example, there are some sisters who when they become pregnant, what happens with them is that
they're overcome by their sickness, and they don't leave the house, they don't do anything that is
lying in bed. The thing is, the more you lie in bed, the more you're stuck in your house, the more
you're thinking about your nausea and your sickness, towards sick, you will feel get out, do
something, do something. And as long as you keep pushing yourself, you'll find the strength the
woman who said that's it.
		
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			We have so many problems, everyone has problems, but sometimes it overcomes us and that's like the
end of our world like you know, okay, she has marital problems or you know, the children problems or
whatever problems sickness, health, this that and financial issues, all this stuff. And then it's
like you just immerse yourself
		
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			into those things. And that's all your life is about. But a handler has given us an amazing place to
go to, and channel our direction, our thinking, our whole goal towards something else. Imagine
otherwise, we would all just be sitting home doing cooking.
		
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			I don't know cooking and cleaning. And that would be the end of it. It's a sad life. I think it's
very boring. Like, I mean, I personally enjoy cooking, I love to try different things. But I don't
think I could just cook. And the only thing I do one day is only cook. No, I have to do something
else as well.
		
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			So I remember when I came, and who the like, I don't have a right. And my husband is working, I have
to take a bus. And it's a long way. And I have to wake up early morning to prepare for kids
breakfast and all this is just shade, and it's showing me Everything is hard for you don't go, my
husband telling me go, everybody's going and go, no problem. And my mother, she told me go My friend
was telling me I said okay, I have to go, I used to take a bus and come in, they're hungry, like I
found my neighbor, she called Buddha. And then like, everything has become easy, slowly, slowly.
Even though I have so many things to do a lonely because
		
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			we let our mind control ourselves. Instead of controlling the mind 111 I started I had a major
operation my surgery, and after a week or so I had to drive it.
		
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			Everybody was telling me is going to be impossible.
		
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			But you know, once you tell your mind, give yourself a message. No, you can do it. Yes, you can.
		
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			And always remember that intercom lamona for insomnia, Mona Kanata, at the moment of June, I'm in a
lovely man, I urge you if you're hurting, if you're suffering some pain in the way of Allah,
remember that there are other people as well who are suffering, pain in the way of dunya. However,
you hope from Allah what they don't hope for.
		
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			At the end of the day, you hope for award from a law firm, every effort you put in for every little
bit of pain, you suffer, you hope for award from a lot. Other people, they don't expect anything
like that, but they're still striving so shouldn't you're striving to be much more,
		
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			it should be much more. So don't give up.
		
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			I realized that it wasn't really relaxing. And that that became very burdensome, I would be homeless
at a time playing games and whatnot. And basically, I've developed like many illnesses, and it
became really hard and just relaxing, was really hard to sleeping at night was more difficult and
tiresome when I don't have any routine, anything to give you satisfaction. So you're at home eating,
you're in your pajamas all day, you don't have anywhere to go. And when I decided to join the
course. And when I did join it, when I came outside of my home actually did something, life became
so much more easier. You think that even your life is busy, it becomes hard. But no, when you have
		
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			something to do, it's easy, because when you have nothing to do, you don't know what to do. Yes. And
that itself is a torture cycle. I just think that sometimes when we see things, we just see it from
our perspective. And then we don't see that unless I can do something and sometimes like, you think
that there's no way that I'm going to be able to do this or there's no way that I'm going to be able
to come up from this for remember that there's over controlling your life. So just rely on him.
Exactly rely on him, we look at the situation with our limited minds limited vision. But also
panatela knows how to create influence. So both from him
		
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			I remember this lady who was like me, and I remember every time a person would come to her to like,
you know, to complain about a problem or anything should say no give charity, like given Seneca when
others want to ask know what is appropriate? Because you know, for example, you know, make some
people tell other people to tell them whether it's poor for that day. No, no, you know, tell him
what to do Tell them, but for him, What is she getting the perfect you know, you know, give charity,
but then they kept looking at it. I know from our data. And then also I was like, you know, giving
also makes things easy for us. And I should know what to get out from here should go and give
		
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			charity.
		
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			The one who gives then personally Yes.
		
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			And the one who bahara who doesn't give then what happens for Sunni Sunni or so. So when you get in
the way of Allah that will create ease for you.
		
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			I was just thinking of my own story about how I ended up at that and I was thinking that because
that's how God says that if you don't want the easy way then he makes it the hard way easy for you.
But I was thinking that because when I did that, and you know, I really felt that okay, university
is not the right way to go for me or like you know, I was doing OSEP so that was my confusion that
was happening that it kept messing up. So I
		
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			Thinking that because I'm the law like I came here my whole plan changing like duties for from
university to other than I was thinking how to delete it, I might never come.
		
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			I have a granddaughter and I'm not driving. And so we take the bus every day and we had this heavy
backpack. It feels like I have a boulder every day. And my daughter has got the heavy backpack and I
look at it, it's more painful for me to look at my daughter and she's walking and she's got this
heavy backpack and my granddaughter is on the stroller and sometimes it's windy and it's sometimes
it's raining and all that stuff. But like and I was like telling myself like okay, well I don't have
a car that's fine. It's hard for me but then again when you think of what you're doing, and it makes
it easy for you and Alo will make it easy for you because sometimes like you know we get a right all
		
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			the time they can handle that like you know, for the past month that I wasn't driving I mean there's
a lot of sisters who are giving us a ride and making it easy for us. It might look so hard for them
we can all sister it's so hard for you to walk for me it's easy. The hardest part is looking at my
children they're going through the barrel hamdulillah my daughter understands like every time she
sees a hardship on both of us he says in Jana mama
		
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			so other people when they look at your situation, they might think that oh my god, you're going
through such a difficult time. But for you it's not a big deal for you it's not a big deal. So
personally yes pseudocode in use a lot makes easy.
		
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			Okay, let's continue.
		
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			So mmm bocchetta was Telenor what could have been her SNA fastener? Yes, sir. Who did or saw
difficulty? The path to Hellfire that is made easy for him. When I use near and Houma who either
third, and what will his wealth avail him when he falls when he falls where when he falls in
Hellfire, and will as well help him with his money, help him lose his house help him know his
belongings cannot help him. Either. Todd Terada from the veterans law Dahlia Radha, which is to
perish, Antara D is to fall in a ditch or a well, or a hole or something like that, and then be
destroyed die as a result of that.
		
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			We have learned to work with our da da da da is the animal that dies from falling. And when it dies,
then it becomes Mater and when it's Mater You can't eat it. Similarly, we have learned to do
whatever our hoof I told them
		
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			all at the law he indicated that to the so rather, what does it mean to perish to be destroyed and
Terada when he falls because the result of falling is destruction. So now you have in your annual
manual illiterate that when he falls when he ends up in his grave, in that hole, and when he falls
in the punishment of Hellfire, what good will be his wealth to him? It will not avail him
		
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			yo malaria and Pharaoh Merlin, what are going on?
		
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			And a person will say on the Day of Judgment, my album now I need money Yeah, hello, Carney. So
Tanya. So, a person's goal in life should not be just as welcome children, but rather it should be
the hereafter. That should be the goal. Because if a person is striving for the Hereafter, then
everything will fall in place. And if a person is striving for the dunya, then this dunya will
occupy him it will keep him busy. And when he goes, he will go empty handed. Nothing of his wealth
will help him in Elena and Huda indeed upon us His guidance, meaning it is our duty, it is our
responsibility. It is incumbent on us Allah subhanaw taala takes us as a responsibility on himself
		
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			to do what and who the to guide people, to offer guidance to people to point out the path of
righteousness to the people.
		
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			We're in mellonella hirota Well, una nnd to us belongs the Hereafter, and the first life as well.
The Alpha and the Omega alpha refers to the hereafter and alluded refers to the dunia so both of
them who do they belong to
		
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			a loss of prime data. In other words, if a person is striving for the zero, alone will give him
that.
		
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			And if a person is striving for dunia, who will give him that even Allah will give him that so it's
up to us what are we searching for? What are we striving towards? Are we striving only for this
dunya? Or are we striving for the hereafter? What have we been taught to pray Robin attina for dunya
hacer una wolfin it has asked for both because Allah has both to offer
		
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			for under to canal and tell us so I have warned you of a fire which is blazing and the con. Allah
has
		
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			pointed out the way of guidance. And he has also warned us about what a fire that is the lava that
is blazing the lava from Lam law. Yeah. And this is when fire is blazing. And we have learned
earlier color in the lava mozartian Please show up to the room and Edinburgh with a will with rising
flames for under to come down on the lava fire that is raging, a fire that has rise in flames. Lay
us let her in the flesh or none will enter to burn in it except to
		
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			the one who's more stretching, the one who was unlucky, the one who didn't make the right choices,
he will enter and burn in there. Who is he? A lady kuzava what are
		
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			the one who denied and he turned away gazyva who
		
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			the messenger until Allah turned away from what from fate from him. And
		
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			then also remember that the cleave kuzava this is with regards to Hubbard that whatever the
messenger has informed us of whatever Allah has informed us up to the person denies that rejects
that that is the key.
		
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			It's the opposite of the sleep. So, for example, we learn that we will be resurrected, but if a
person says no resurrection, that is what we have been told there is gender and now if a person says
no gender now, then that is what that means. If we are told such and such will happen, and a person
says no, it will not happen. Then this is what the CLI
		
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			and Tawana determines what when a person turns away from afar, he turns away from obedience. So, the
one learn the one Li This is with regards to number and name. This is with regards to commands and
prohibitions, the cleavers with regards to hover, and the only is with regards to an animal that a
person turns away from what has been commanded turns away from following the rules, so he does
whatever he pleases. So unless he can devoto Allah, such a person will end up where in Hellfire was
a huge and never had a car, but the one who is most righteous, he will avoid it was the eugenics
eugenics, from the agenda from the Geneva and which is to save oneself to stay away from something
		
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			so he will be spared he will be removed far away from the Hellfire who the one who has a car? Who is
		
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			the one who is most the
		
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			the one who has a lot of the power, the one who is most God fearing? One was very fearful. So such a
person who will be saved from the hellfire. We don't insulate them it is 7172 that will Amen.
Camila. Where do you do her? Karnataka? hotma Macedonia every person has to cross over the hellfire.
		
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			But what is that someone who Nigella Dena taco, then we will say Who? Those people who had the core.
So once a user never had such a person will be saved from the hellfire.
		
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			Who is he under the yoke demon? Or who
		
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			is he who gives from his worldwide in order to purify himself?
		
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			So another way of doing things kids what? Spending spending in the way of Allah, Allah de Mola who
yet
		
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			because charity cleanses a person from what is sin.
		
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			It purifies a person from sin. Instead of the Toba at 103, we learn Clubman and William so the
pattern to the hero was a key on behalf of Sunyani. Those people who remain behind from the battle
the profits are loaded on the store, take from their wealth or charity by which you purify them. So
charity is a means of purification. Because in then has an earth you'd have mercy.
		
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			So a lady of the manor who yet as a
		
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			woman he had in her in the home in near mountain villages and woman early I hadn't, he does not give
for what purpose may not have been for anyone, meaning to a person for the sake of anyone. He
doesn't give it for the sake of the one sake of who are in the home with him. monera Martin is a
blessing, meaning a favor that was done to him. And this favor is to be to dessert. It is to be
given as reward It is to be rewarded, it is to be recompense for
		
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			In other words, he is not given to someone in return for a favor that was done to him. rather he
gives it for whose sake for the sake of Allah soprano exclusively.
		
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			People spend for different reasons. Some people spend just out of the kindness of their heart just
because of the poor
		
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			miserable situation that the other person is in other people spend on others. Why? Because this
person was good to me, therefore, I should be good to him as well. She helped me, this is why I
should help her. She bought me lunch today I should buy her lunch. This is what this is to return a
favor.
		
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			And another is that a person spends a person does good exclusively for the sake of
		
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			whether or not someone has been good to him. Whether or not they have thanked him whether or not
they have appreciated him in the past, no, it doesn't matter. So he is giving for whose sake for the
sake of Allah.
		
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			And when people give to those who are good to them, that this is in a way, just exchanging. And this
is expecting something in return. She was good to me, I should be good to her. So that next time
she's good to me again,
		
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			this is expecting something in return.
		
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			But over a year, we're early I had dinner in the home and near Macon, Georgia, a person is giving
from where he cannot even expect anything in return.
		
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			Do you understand? He will not even expect anything in return. You buy lunch for your friend today.
She buys it for you tomorrow. That means you can buy for her again. And then she can buy again for
you. So it's like a good relationship. But if you buy for someone whom you don't even have any good
terms with, you don't even expect that they will buy something for you tomorrow, then this is true
charity.
		
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			So when I had an Indian woman near mutton to desert, and why is it that he gives them in Liberty law
over the European area but only seeking countenance of his Lord?
		
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			He is spending? Why? Even the law seeking What do you hear on the face of his Lord? And another one
who is most I mean he is spending in order to please his Lord, so that he can enter agenda so that
he can see his work. This is why he keeps hoping to see
		
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			what does Allah say what is alpha
		
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			and soon, he will be happy, but will be happy. His Lord will be happy. He is spending two pleases
Lord alone will be happy with him. Or when a sofa yada, yada meaning he himself will be pleased.
Because when you give to someone for the sake of Allah, that is what brings you true happiness, and
you will be happy with what what the reward that Allah will give him in the hereafter. Wonder
Sophia.
		
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			It is said that every worker of denardo in Makkah, he would free those slaves who were weak, who are
oppressed, who couldn't do anything for themselves, and many of them were unable to benefit others.
So his father told him that why don't you free those people who can actually benefit you once you
free them.
		
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			If you buy their freedom, then at least when they're free, they'll be able to help you. So he said,
I don't freedom so that they can help me but I freed him for the sake of Allah, in Liberty Hall are
watching.
		
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			And when a person does something exclusively for the sake of Allah, without expecting anything in
return, than what happens on a sofa, Allah will be happy. And Allah will make that person happy as
well. While the monthly
		
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			recitation
		
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			reward. Yeah, you expect reward from Allah, whether it is the removal of some harm or ease in your
life, that also you're expecting a lot. So that means if it is our job to learn, so when a person
spends in the way of Allah, any hopes for award from Allah, that is exactly what is required. Not
that you start expecting reward from people that she will be good to me that she will pay me back
		
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			She will also do this to me know,
		
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			doing good to someone who's good to you that is justice and doing good to someone who cannot benefit
you or you do not expect any benefit from them. That is what your size
		
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			over here where Allah subhanaw taala says we're in mellonella irata when oola that the hereafter
belongs to us and Dhoni also belongs to us. Africa as mentioned first. Why? Because it's more
important.
		
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			Although dunya comes first and Africa comes later, but as mentioned first because it's more
important than it's an afro, that Allah subhanaw taala is milk will be more evident.
		
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			We listen to the recitation again.
		
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			This
		
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			one