Taimiyyah Zubair – Taleem al-Quran 2010 – Juz 09 – L097D

Taimiyyah Zubair

Al-Araf 8-206 Word-Analysis and Tafseer 199-202

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The speakers discuss the concept of forgiveness and the importance of showing forgiveness to avoid negative consequences. They stress the need to be witty and humble, and emphasize the importance of following rules and not following prov statements. They also discuss the use of shaper's actions as a tool to interfere with behavior and seek revenge, and emphasize the importance of protecting oneself from negative thoughts and actions, avoiding anger, and mistakes in relationships. The segment ends with a discussion of the concept of shaping and how it can affect one's behavior and behavior.

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			Wasn't below him in a shape on his logy investment I have managed for him.
		
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			That's number 97. So, total loss will begin from IRA number 199
		
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			coup de la four take what is given freely what motivated trophy and enjoin what is good, what are
the ninja Helene and turn away from those who are ignorant
		
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			over here and lots of panel data is commanding the Prophet sallallahu wasallam to do something that
is very important and very essential, especially when it comes to giving power when calling people
to a loss of friends,
		
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			because many times when a person is calling people to Allah, he faces challenges,
		
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			especially from people, sometimes it comes in the form of comments, sometimes it comes in the form
of opposition,
		
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			notice the word hold and hold gives me any ticket hold on to it and keep this with you.
		
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			Make this a constant habit and make it a way of your life.
		
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			What that you must have a laugh with you
		
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			What is asked me
		
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			if one is from the roof hunters I info well
		
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			as you know, is basically used for forgiveness, it is to overlook someone's mistake someone's fault
and forget about it, do not take any kind of revenge Do not ask them about anything with regards to
what they have done it is to completely forgive someone and forget about what they have done.
		
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			So, who they are for meaning forgive all the time in every situation, make this aware of your life.
And sometimes you have to tell yourself that I have to forgive no matter what because if you don't
forgive and you keep graduate in your heart, if you keep thinking about what other people said how
other people are behaving, then you cannot move on with life. So, who they are for hold on to
pardon.
		
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			The word also gives the meaning of excess that which is extra
		
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			as we learned earlier, that yes aluna Canada Yun sukoon they ask you about what they should spend
tell them
		
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			whatever that is extra whatever that is beyond your need. So, an alpha over here also gives a sense
of that which is given freely.
		
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			Remember in Makkah, the cat was not made obligatory over here what it refers to is whatever people
give in charity whatever they give freely the surplus of their wealth, let them give
		
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			or take a look at it the word awful literally means is convenience.
		
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			So what is it mean is convenience. It is that hood ma salata meaning take what you can obtain easily
without any difficulty.
		
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			So who they are for make the situation easy. When you're dealing with someone, deal with them with
ease, deal with them with leniency for the last four. And at the same time, what would have been the
OSI and command with the recognized good that which is known as good that which is approved by the
Quran and Sunnah. Whether it is in the form of kindness, or generosity, decency, that's what you
should order people to do.
		
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			What already and turn away our new j Nene from those who are ignorant,
		
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			who is a genuine person, someone who doesn't know any better, or someone who is not doing what they
should be doing, what they know they should be doing.
		
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			And sometimes we do come across people who know what they should be doing, but they're not behaving
properly.
		
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			So what should you do with that? Ask yourself why intubating properly, what's wrong with them? Don't
they know any better and this kind of behavior is unacceptable. If you do that, you're only going to
harm yourself.
		
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			So what are we told to do over here, I have just gotten away from them. Don't bother to argue with
them. Don't bother to counter what they have done in any way just turn away from them just ignore
them. Just tell yourself that the other person doesn't know any better.
		
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			It isn't that this I have the Quran This is our it is the most comprehensive I have good a lot of
personal look.
		
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			Because in it, the best character is not.
		
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			And the most important part of good character is forgiveness showing part in showing forgiveness.
		
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			If we look around ourselves, even within our personal lives, many people
		
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			They become sad. Or we see that they are said, they're angry, they're upset. They're frustrated.
Why? Because they have high expectations of others. And when those expectations are not fulfilled,
they become very sad. They become very upset.
		
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			So over here, what are we being told holding our foot, just hold on to forgiveness, just Barden in
every situation, because when you forgive the other, you're actually freeing yourself, you're
actually freeing your heart.
		
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			Because you remember the word real, what is will mean?
		
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			a grudge, enmity, hatred, that is kept in the heart. And from the same root is the word wall, which
is used for shackles, fetters, locks chains.
		
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			So when a person entertains hatred and a grudge in the heart of another, there in reality, he is
inflicting harm upon himself. And many times, the other person does not even have any idea.
		
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			So just forgive, overlook what the other people are saying what the other people are doing, and
focus on what you're supposed to do. If there are some people who come in argue with you, tell them
what is good, and then just turn away from them. Don't bother to argue with them.
		
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			And remember, this is a monkey soda. This is our office and lucky soda. And the profits are a lot of
freedom is being commanded to adopt this manner, were
		
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			in Lucca, in the face of opposition and hostility.
		
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			But what is our reaction generally, that if the other person is showing anger to us, we want to show
more anger to them.
		
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			If the other person is misbehaving, we misbehave even more. But that does not solve the problem at
all. It doesn't solve the problem.
		
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			So over here, the profits or momentum has been told, could you hold on to forgiveness and Pardon?
		
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			the profits of the lotus Adam said that on the Day of Judgment, a quarter will call out.
		
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			A caller will call out.
		
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			And he will say that Who are those who have a right upon a law?
		
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			Who are those people who have a right upon Allah, let them stand up.
		
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			And at that time, only those people will stand up, who forgive the mistakes of others in the dunya.
		
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			Who will stand up those people who forgave the mistakes of others in the dunya.
		
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			And then they will be told to enter again without any reason why? because they did not take his out
from people and does Allahu opa not take his out from them.
		
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			The profits are a lot of sort of ultracet forgive him who runs you? The person who wrongs you
forgive him, and join with him who cuts off from you?
		
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			The person who cuts off relations with you, you should join with him
		
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			and do good to him? Who does evil to you?
		
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			The one who does evil to you? What should you do towards Him? Do good.
		
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			Just like in the Koran we learned that a different vendor to repel evil with that which is better.
Because when you repel evil with that, which is better, only then can the problem be solved.
		
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			And if we repel evil with evil, if we counter fire with fire, it's only going to worsen the
situation. It's not going to solve the problem at all.
		
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			And if you look at it, the prophets had a lot of he practiced his principles so well of forgiving
others, holding on to forgiveness, holding on to pardon in every situation that because of this
reason, his enemies even became his friends, his enemies, they became his friends.
		
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			If we look at it in Makkah, who are his main opponents of Buddha? Well, even more later, I was a
fan. What happened with these people?
		
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			A Buddha, his children, his son, he became a believer.
		
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			When even earlier, even his children they became believers of also fear he himself became a
believer. So the prophets little notice that I'm one of his greatest achievements were that he
converted his enemies into his friends.
		
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			And how is that possible? By showing forgiveness?
		
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			But what do we do many times?
		
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			We turn our friends into our enemies, over what?
		
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			over 50 issues minor issues.
		
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			I know that I know. He said that the prophets are a lot of them was not vulgar, nor did he condone
vulgarity, meaning he was not obscene in his speech.
		
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			And he was not one to shout in the marketplace. He would not shout
		
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			and yell in the marketplace. And he did not reward evil with evil.
		
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			He did not reward evil with evil.
		
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			Rather, he would forgive and overlook.
		
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			What would he do? He would forgive and overlook
		
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			over here, a lot of times are saying that who the last word, hold on to pardon? What motivated OC
and command that which is good. What are ninja headin and turn away from those who are ignorant.
		
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			And you look at it out if you need to stand away from them. Because many times there is no benefit
in arguing with the other person, no benefit at all.
		
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			Sometimes you tell yourself, I'm going to prove it to them that they're wrong, I'm going to show
them that what they're doing is wrong. Go ahead and try. Prove it to them. You can spend hours, you
can spend days talking to them, discussing with them arguing with them, they're not going to admit
many times. And instead it's going to worsen the situation.
		
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			So when you know that the other person does not understand, he's not going to admit his fault. He
doesn't even realize that what he's doing is wrong, then just ignore them. Just turn away from their
own.
		
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			Because if you argue with them, it's only going to make you more upset, it's only going to make you
more set. So do yourself a favor and turn away from those people who oppose you would argue with
you.
		
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			Know, this is what in and if Yamanaka
		
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			it comes to you what comes to you.
		
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			And evil suggestion. Mina Shivani from shavonne. Number one and evil suggestion.
		
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			Then what should you do? First start a villa, then seek protection, seek refuge in Allah. Seek a
loss refuge seek His protection.
		
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			Because in the who indeed he for me. He is hearing our demon. And he's also annoying.
		
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			Many times, we think to ourselves, that we do forgive someone for the wrong but they're doing
		
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			but then all of a sudden, we think why? Why should I be a pushover and it's their fault. They're
wrong. Why should I say that? You know, it's okay.
		
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			I'm not gonna say it's okay. I'm going to take revenge. How could they dare shouted me How could
they dare say this about me? I'm going to go say more to them. This kind of thought is removed from
shape on
		
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			and allows the parents our calls it knows
		
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			that what in my yen's of America if he urges you if he incites evil in you mean a shape or any form
shape on the idea of unlocker is from the roof letters noon day, when
		
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			it's when the roof letters move. Right, right.
		
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			And this is to incite evil.
		
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			It means to incite evil.
		
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			And literally the word nozzle is to tickle someone with one's fingertips.
		
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			It is to tickle someone with the fingertips not with the nails. But with the fingertips.
		
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			When you tickle someone with your fingertips, then what happens? Immediately, they begin laughing
immediately they begin curling up. If it's a child, he'll begin curling up on the bed. And many
times what happens, the person is sitting quietly, very cold, you begin fixing them and all of a
sudden, they begin moving.
		
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			And the witness learn from this is also used for
		
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			interfering into someone's affair is to interfere into someone's affair in order to negatively
affect their matter.
		
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			So what does it mean?
		
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			to interfere in someone's affair in order to negatively affect their matter?
		
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			So insert use of it number 100 we learn that use of our listener set mimbar the another shape and
obey me. We're being witty, after shavon had incited discord and evil between me and my brother.
		
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			So what in my in Dylan neck I'm in a shape on his own. That if shape on provokes you to do evil. If
shavon provokes you to not forgive, if shavon provokes you to take revenge. When you feel hesitant
to forgive, when you want to return it. Then what should you do?
		
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			Follow the palm of your heart. Follow the call shavon no Pfister has been the seat refuge in Allah
asked him for protection as can
		
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			To give you tofield to forgive the other, ask Allah subhanaw taala to protect you from the evil of
SharePoint
		
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			in devil Sameer and Arlene, indeed he is hearing and he's also knowing he hears your statement, and
he also knows your actions, your activities
		
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			over here, what do we learn
		
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			that whenever we want to do something good, whether it is the intention to forgive someone to
overlook their mistake,
		
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			or it is any good deed that a person wishes to do, then chip on interferes chip on becomes very
alert.
		
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			And he makes us overcome by other thoughts, or he makes us overcome by anger or feelings of revenge,
because of which we do not want to make any amends to the situation. But rather, we ruin the
situation for ourselves.
		
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			So what do we learn from you
		
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			that in this situation when shavonne comes in interferes, seek the protection of Allah? Because many
times what happens, for example, somebody is misbehaving with you, and you're thinking in your head,
let them finish. And I'm gonna say this to them.
		
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			Or, for example, somebody says something to you, you go away from there. And all of a sudden you
tell yourself that, how dare they say that? How can I remain quiet? I should have said something.
And then you decide to go back to them and yell at them or say something negative to them.
		
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			But what do we learn?
		
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			That the moment this talk comes into your mind, seek a loss protection? Don't follow that call.
Don't follow the provocation of Shetland.
		
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			Don't listen to him don't obey Him.
		
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			And seek refuge with Allah. Indeed, Allah is hearing and he's also known
		
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			into the movie known. I number 9798 Wheeler, what would be our route to becoming hamazon? shopping?
What our movie called the moon
		
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			and say, My Lord, I seek refuge in You from the incitements are the devil's I seek your protection
from the incitement from the hammer that of shall be what our rules will be called be a rule and I
seek refuge in You My Lord, lest they be present with me.
		
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			Even they should come near me I seek your protection because it's chiffon is in the company of
another there obviously that person is in a lot of danger. So seek Allah's refuge
		
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			in the Medina toe in the doors people who fear Allah those people who are conscious of what happens
to them either Mr. Honda if Amina Shivani when an impulse touches them from coupon code, they
remember for either her mobile phone and at once they have insight
		
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			who only those people with the core experience this and what is it that they experience that either
must sell home when it reaches them
		
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			but if one is from newsletters for welfare
		
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			for well for
		
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			so in the Medina tuffeau either Mr. Hooper even when a fight is reaches them in a shape or any from
the shape one, what happens to that girl they remember to apply if it's a newsletter spa welfare,
from the word buffer your tofu, and forefinger tofu is literally to go around. The word co F is also
from the same route to go around to circle around and for if fairing is one that goes around
		
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			one that rewards
		
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			and the word party is used for gene Why? Because they're always going around
		
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			similarly to a pipe is also used for a recurring what's what's what's, what's that that keeps coming
to a person, it comes into a person's mind or he forgets about it and comes back again, he keeps
thinking about it. So this is what is a recurring what's what's it because it keeps coming back.
		
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			Similarly, it also applies to a thought in a person's heart, which keeps coming back, which he keeps
thinking about.
		
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			So when if it comes to them from SharePoint, meaning an impulse of visitation
		
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			when I was was a comes to them, and it keeps coming back again and again. Let's say for example,
somebody misbehaves with you, somebody yells at you, and you want to answer back, but you don't do
that you seek Allah's refuge, you go away from there, you control your anger and then constantly in
your head, what happens? I should have said this, I should have said this, you know what, I should
go and tell them maybe I should send him a text message. Again and again. It keeps coming into your
		
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			This is a flight from shavon.
		
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			So those people who have to quote one such a recurring thought keeps coming to their head from
Japan, what do they do? So that they remember? What do they remember? What do they recall? What do
they realize that this is a negative thoughts from shaper.
		
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			This is certainly something that Allah does not like it is from Japan.
		
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			So they remember at that time, that the negative thought that is continuously coming in their head,
they remember,
		
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			it is almost like a terracotta over here, it gives the meaning of that they remember, a less
punishment, or the warning of punishment, or the good news of reward. So the warning of punishment
for what,
		
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			for being rude to someone, for showing anger to someone. Or, for example, to the crew, they remember
the reward for forgiving someone for overlooking their fault. They remember and if they remember who
they are for an injection, he didn't pull their number.
		
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			And when they remember, for either one would fit on an image immediately, instantly, they have
insight,
		
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			meaning they realize that this is the game of shape.
		
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			They realize that this is a versatile shaper, and then they can see through the situation.
		
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			They can distinguish the Hulk from the wrist.
		
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			And hence, they take that action which is proper.
		
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			So those people who have the fear of Allah, what happens to them, that they become alert when she
upon whispers.
		
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			And on the other hand, there's another person who does not remember because he is overcome by his
anger.
		
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			And as a result, he begins to follow the impulse or the suggestion of SharePoint.
		
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			So what can we learn from this is the only thing that can protect the person, the only thing that
can protect a person from reacting negatively that Acquavella
		
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			because What is that supposed to do to a person, it shows him his mistakes, it shows him his own
faults. And it stops him from doing anything that would be displeasing to a loss of habitat.
		
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			Because remember, what is the core, it's the fear of Allah, that needs to doing that which Allah has
commanded.
		
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			And refraining from that which Allah has forbidden.
		
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			So only those people who have Taqwa only they experienced this
		
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			that whenever an impulse which is in some shape on to codify, it ever moves later on. And they have
insight they realize this is the plot of shape on this is the game of shape on cesana telling me to
do this. This is shutdowns whatsoever.
		
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			But on the other hand, what if one home but their brothers whose brothers
		
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			the brothers have champagne?
		
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			And over here, what does it mean?
		
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			That they're similar to them in nature,
		
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			they will be there. They listen to them. Because brothers are always cooperating with one another.
		
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			So a 101, but they're brothers, what happens to them? The mo dude at home feels lazy. They increase
them in error, meaning the share playing the devil's they increase these people who are the brothers
of Shelby in what fiddle go up in error. So malayaka zero, then they do not stop short. They do not
fall short. In increasing in the way
		
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			you do it is when the roof is named all that mud. And what does that mean to extend to prolong
something.
		
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			So you do the shopping extend them, they prolong them feel like meaning they help them go towards
Berlin, they lead them further into wrong.
		
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			And you may have noticed that for example, two people, they have an argument and one of them is
getting extremely angry, extremely angry. If at that time, he doesn't restrain his anger. If he
doesn't seek refuge with Allah. If he doesn't remember that anger is something that the prophets
that a lot of students forbade us from. And controlling our anger is something important. And what
is that person going to do?
		
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			He is going to act according to his anger.
		
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			He is going to continue to yell. He's going to continue to say such things which are extremely
inappropriate and he's going to regret them later on.
		
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			So the person who follows you upon who is needing to shape on in other circumstances. In other
situations, he becomes a brother of shape and then even in his
		
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			situation where he is angry, where he is frustrated and what's going to happen.
		
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			He is also going to followship on in that situation.
		
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			You understand?
		
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			Because it's the word is one, a person who has befriended the shared plan, a person who obeys
chiffon.
		
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			You think out of nowhere he's going to become very righteous and forgiving. No, it's not going to
happen. He is going to increase in his wrongs in his misbehavior. What if one a woman was killed he
saw malaria, then they do not stop short.
		
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			Though you'll soon is little factories off sod raw costs
		
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			and costs is to make something short.
		
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			Also solar is also from the same root cause of solar solar to cost and what is it that when a person
is traveling, he shortened zipper instead of praying for the car, what does he do he prays only to
the car.
		
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			So, extra yoke is to stop from something
		
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			to fall short from completing something, do not do something as much as it should be done.
		
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			So thumbnail if they don't, then they do not stop short mean the devil they do not fall short in
misguiding such people in misguiding such people.
		
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			Now, what happens when a person is extremely angry?
		
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			If you are, let's say you're upset with what happened, if you will, and discuss your problem with
someone who does not have the club,
		
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			then what will they encourage you to do?
		
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			To forgive the other? No, they're going to encourage you to take revenge, to say something.
		
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			Do not be a pushover to take revenge, to tell the other person how you feel, how upset you are, how
angry you are.
		
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			But on the other hand, if you go and discuss this issue with someone who has,
		
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			who has the fear of Allah, what are they going to tell you, they're going to tell you to be patient,
they're going to tell you to be forgiving. And they will probably show you that it's actually your
mistake, it's actually your fault. It's not the other person's fault.
		
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			So why don't we show to us
		
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			the importance of righteous company, that if we keep ourselves in the company of those who fear
Allah, then they will encourage us to do that which is good to forgive, to turn away from the
ignorant.
		
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			But on the other hand, if we keep company of sharpening, whether it is from the human surgeon, those
who are far from the those who are far from the dhikr of Allah, those who run away from the Quran,
then such people are not going to encourage you to forgive, they're not going to encourage you to be
generous.
		
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			If you notice over here is one hasn't mentioned what one of the brothers of shaping where the
brothers are shaping.
		
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			In the Quran, we learn that Indian mobile arena cannot equate to shopping. The spendthrift, those
who are wasteful when it comes to spending, they are the brothers of the devil's
		
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			they are the brothers of shopping. Oh, those people who waste their money? How are the brothers of
Sheltie
		
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			that chip on tells them to waste their wealth. And they waste their wealth chip on tell them to
spend extra or wastefully and they listen.
		
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			And at the same time when it comes to giving them protocol, chip on discourages them.
		
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			So when a person obeys champon in other circumstances, then even in the situation where he's upset
where he's angry, where he's suffering from opposition that even in that situation, he's also going
to follow shavon
		
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			he's also going to follow shape one.
		
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			So what's the solution? What is the way of controlling your anger?
		
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			keeping yourself in the company of those who are righteous
		
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			in the company of those who are polite, in the company of those who are soft,
		
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			in the company of those people who are not rude,
		
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			because if you stay in their company, then you will learn to forgive. And on the other hand, if you
were those people who are always arguing, who are always yelling, who are fighting with others, then
the same is going to influence you as well. Because
		
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			it depends on the type of company that we keep.
		
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			Presentation of this is
		
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			good company is a result of good manners. And also the other way around that good manners are a
result of good company. Because your a flock is affected by the company that you keep
		
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			many times that happens at the kinds of words that your friends use. You begin to use the same words
you begin to use the same expressions
		
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			because friends influence one another
		
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