Tahir Anwar – Was A Mercy To Mankind

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The speakers discuss the importance of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, who is the Messenger of Islam. The Prophet's actions and intentions for the future relate to his actions and intentions for the future, and he is used as an example for the success of the world. The speakers stress the importance of avoiding false accusations, showing gratitude and weaknesses in order to be a complete believer, and listening to one's parents' teachings to avoid damaging relationships. They also discuss challenges of family life, including personal lives, struggles with job responsibilities, and personal lives. The speakers stress the importance of protecting families and building financial independence through various projects.

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			I bear witness that there is none worthy
		
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			of worship except Allah.
		
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			I bear witness that there is none worthy
		
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			of worship except Allah.
		
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			I bear witness that Muhammad
		
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			is the Messenger of Allah.
		
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			I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			Allah is the Greatest.
		
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			Allah is the Greatest.
		
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			There is none worthy of worship except
		
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			Allah.
		
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			There is no one more impactful that has
		
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			come to this earth than the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			There is no one who has moved more
		
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			lives than the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			There is no one whose day to day
		
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			movements, every single one of them, there is
		
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			no one on this earth who has come
		
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			whose movements have made an impact like that
		
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			of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			Historically when we look upon an individual, when
		
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			we imitate an individual, when we look up
		
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			to an individual, we look at them for
		
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			some of their talents, some of their talents,
		
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			not all of them.
		
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			We look at how they speak, we look
		
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			at how they write, we look at how
		
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			they sing, we look at how they play
		
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			sports.
		
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			Those are the qualities we imitate, we look
		
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			up to certain qualities of human beings.
		
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			But there is no one on this earth
		
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			whom people look up to for all of
		
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			his qualities.
		
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			And that's why Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta
		
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			-A'la mentions in the Qur'an, وَمَا
		
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			يَنطِقُ عَنِ الْهَوَى إِنْهُوَ إِلَّا وَحْيٌ يُحَى that
		
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			every action, every word of the Prophet Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam happens to be a revelation revealed
		
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			by Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la.
		
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			And so if you want to look up
		
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			to someone in your moments of happiness, the
		
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			Nabi Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			In your moments of grief, the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			While you are traveling, the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			While you're at home, the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			While you're young, the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam.
		
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			As you get older, the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			You're a female, the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam.
		
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			You get what I'm trying to say.
		
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			In every moment, in every moment of ours,
		
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			we can look up to the Prophet Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam and we can turn to his
		
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			seerah.
		
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			We can turn to his seerah.
		
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			And it is that seerah of the Prophet
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam that continues to keep the
		
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			ummah alive today.
		
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			In moments of extreme grief, in moments of
		
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			extreme grief, we still look up to the
		
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			Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			We don't lose our faith.
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, the Qur'an
		
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			is filled with verses around the Prophet Sallallahu
		
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			Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِي رَسُولِ اللَّهِ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ
		
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			The best example we find is in that
		
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			of the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.
		
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			And the example that we find are not
		
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			just for this dunya.
		
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			We have to understand that the examples that
		
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			we find are examples that lead us into
		
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			the akhirah, that take us into the akhirah.
		
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			The real salvation, the real success is not
		
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			that of this world, is that of the
		
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			akhirah, is that of the hereafter.
		
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			And so when people grieve, when people become
		
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			sad, when people become upset, people do all
		
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			kinds of things.
		
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			And in addition to taking the means that
		
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			we need to in this dunya, we turn
		
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			to the seerah of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam.
		
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			It's very simple.
		
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			And a simple example that has been so
		
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			real for us, for the last so many
		
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			decades, but for people who have not been
		
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			alive for the last so many decades, definitely
		
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			the last year, are our brothers and sisters
		
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			in Gaza.
		
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			Despite all the odds being against them, every
		
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			single odd being against them, having had to
		
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			forcefully give up everything that they had, including
		
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			many their own lives, there is not a
		
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			single person that you will come across who
		
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			has deviated from their faith.
		
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			I want people to think about this.
		
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			You have all these groups, we're finding this
		
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			in today's day and age, we have all
		
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			these groups of individuals who say they consider
		
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			themselves to be ex-Muslim.
		
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			People who say, well, I was born Muslim.
		
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			People who say my parents are Muslim.
		
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			People who say I go to pray because
		
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			everyone prays, but I don't know if I
		
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			believe in Islam anymore.
		
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			I really don't know if there happens to
		
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			be a God out there anymore.
		
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			How can the God of the Muslims be
		
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			so non-merciful?
		
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			These are very real questions.
		
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			This is a very common question amongst young
		
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			individuals.
		
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			How can Allah allow for this to happen?
		
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			The very people that are suffering are not
		
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			making these statements.
		
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			The very people that are suffering are not
		
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			making these statements.
		
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			The very people who are carrying the limbs
		
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			of their young children in bags are not
		
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			making these statements.
		
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			Yet when you ask them, they say, حَسْبُنَا
		
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			اللَّهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيمِ حَسْبُنَا Allah will suffice for
		
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			us.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because they didn't just read the seerah.
		
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			They didn't just study the seerah as something
		
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			meant to be studied and researched.
		
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			They allowed for that seerah to penetrate into
		
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			their hearts.
		
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			They allowed for that seerah to penetrate into
		
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			their hearts.
		
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			And while the seerah contains, the seerah reminds
		
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			us of how to live in this world.
		
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			More importantly, the seerah also reminds them of
		
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			the akhira and the hereafter.
		
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			Reminds them of the hereafter.
		
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			And so they know that for all their...
		
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			They won't ask and say, Why will Allah
		
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			allow this?
		
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			They truly believe that the reward is with
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in the hereafter.
		
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			We have these golden...
		
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			You know, subhanAllah, we're alive.
		
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			We're well.
		
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			We have the ability to read.
		
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			We have the ability to study.
		
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			We have the ability to listen.
		
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			We have the ability to host events and
		
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			conferences that are around the Nabi sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam without any permission from anyone.
		
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			You know, we take, as Muslims in America,
		
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			we take so many things for granted.
		
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			We take so much for granted.
		
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			And then when little things happen, we begin
		
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			to complain.
		
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			The reality is that the freedoms that the
		
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			Muslims in America have are unfound in other
		
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			parts of the world.
		
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			A very dear friend of mine has dedicated
		
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			the last few decades of his life translating
		
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			works, Islamic works, into the Chinese language.
		
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			Corporate America took early retirement, is living off
		
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			of his retirement for the last two decades.
		
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			And he recently told me that he wanted
		
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			10 copies of a certain book to be
		
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			brought into Taiwan through mail.
		
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			No, just being mailed.
		
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			A book, 10 copies of a book being
		
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			mailed from the United States into Taiwan.
		
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			And he needed government permission to import 10
		
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			books on Islam.
		
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			By the way, they were all one book.
		
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			It was just 10 copies of one book
		
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			into Taiwan.
		
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			The permissions that are needed, the freedoms that
		
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			we have as Muslims in America, don't take
		
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			them lightly, brothers and sisters.
		
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			When we are given this opportunity to discuss
		
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			the Battle of Badr, the Battle of Uhud,
		
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			the migration of the Prophet ﷺ, the lessons
		
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			that we take away from them, the ability
		
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			to practice Islam, the ability to dress in
		
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			whatever way we want, the ability to congregate
		
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			freely.
		
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			These are all freedoms that you and I
		
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			have been given, that people actually fought for,
		
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			by the way.
		
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			Now, don't get me wrong.
		
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			You want to talk about many of the
		
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			freedoms that we are being stripped of, that's
		
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			an entirely different lecture.
		
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			But we have the ability to stand up
		
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			for our rights.
		
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			And so while there are many, many faults
		
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			we find in this land that we call
		
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			home, the rights that our First Amendment gives
		
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			to us should not be taken lightly.
		
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			And as a result of that, we have
		
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			every reason to not just study our faith,
		
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			but to be in gatherings that will allow
		
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			for our hearts to become munawwar, to allow
		
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			our hearts to be enlightened.
		
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			This is very real.
		
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			And Allah ﷻ reminds us in the Qur
		
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			'an, وَأَطِعُوا اللَّهَ وَأَطِعُوا الرَّسُولَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُرْحَمُونَ Obey
		
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			Allah and His Messenger.
		
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			Obey Allah and His Messenger.
		
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			And that's what people who are going through
		
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			grief in other parts of the world are
		
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			doing.
		
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			They are simply obeying Allah ﷻ, and His
		
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			Messenger against all odds.
		
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			And they say, سَمِعْنَا وَأَطَعْنَا We have heard
		
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			and we have obeyed.
		
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			We have heard and we have obeyed.
		
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			They don't ask questions.
		
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			But it takes a lot.
		
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			It's not just about information.
		
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			The information highway is very, very real.
		
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			People know a lot more than what people
		
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			knew in the past.
		
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			There's no doubt about that.
		
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			But it hasn't penetrated into the hearts.
		
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			In fact, in Surah Al-Imran, the verse
		
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			that I recited, وَأَطِعُوا اللَّهَ وَأَطِعُوا الرَّسُولَ لَعَلَّكُمْ
		
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			تُرْحَمُونَ The verse right after that is, وَسَارِعُوا
		
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			إِلَى مَغْفِرَةٍ مِّن رَّبِّكُمْ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرَضُهَا السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالْأَرْضُ
		
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			أُعِدَّتِ الْمُتَّقِينَ الَّذِينَ يُنفِقُونَ فِي السَّرَّاءِ وَالضَّرَّاءِ
		
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			وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ وَاللَّهُ يُحِبُّ
		
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			الْمُحْسِنِينَ وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ When we
		
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			talk about seerah, people say, I know exactly
		
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			what's happening.
		
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			I don't need to be told.
		
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			Simple qualities of the Messenger ﷺ.
		
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			Simple reminders of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			in the Quran.
		
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			وَالْكَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala explains
		
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			two qualities that the believers need to have
		
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			in order for you to be a complete
		
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			believer.
		
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			كَاظِمِينَ الْغَيْظَ وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ Those who withhold
		
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			their anger.
		
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			It is a prophetic quality to withhold our
		
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			anger.
		
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			Some would say, suck it up.
		
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			But it's a prophetic quality to withhold our
		
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			anger.
		
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			That's when you know you've become a good
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			وَالْعَافِينَ عَنِ النَّاسِ And forgiving people.
		
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			Learning to forgive.
		
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			Simply say that I have forgiven you until
		
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			the day of judgment.
		
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			And my reward in أَجْرِيَ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ
		
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			My reward is with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta
		
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			'ala.
		
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			That's really what being a Muslim is.
		
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			It's very very simple.
		
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			That's really what following the seerah is.
		
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			You know people say I need to fight
		
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			for my rights.
		
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			Absolutely we need to fight for our rights.
		
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			But there are times when we come into
		
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			situations where forgiveness is far better than fighting
		
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			for our rights.
		
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			I'm not alluding to the current political situation
		
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			by the way.
		
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			I'm talking about our family matters.
		
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			Right, family matters.
		
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			How was the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam?
		
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			The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam when Aisha Radiallahu
		
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			Anha was asked How was the Nabi Muhammad?
		
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			How do you define his character?
		
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			She said كان خلقه القرآن His character was
		
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			the Qur'an.
		
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			When Aisha Radiallahu Anha was asked How is
		
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			he at home?
		
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			The Nabi Alaihi Salatu Wasalam says خِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ
		
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			لِأَهْلِهِ The best of you are those who
		
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			are best to their families.
		
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			We simply cannot.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, we cannot change the ummah.
		
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			We cannot bring change to the ummah.
		
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			Unless we bring an internal change to ourselves.
		
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			Really, that's the greatest challenge that we have.
		
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			People talk about all these great challenges.
		
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			The simplest challenge is simply going home after
		
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			work, after the masjid and being kind to
		
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			your family members.
		
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			Giving time to your family.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, however, whoever.
		
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			This is for everyone, myself included.
		
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			That we're not hanging out with our friends
		
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			far more than we're hanging out with our
		
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			own families.
		
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			That when we go home, we're not screaming
		
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			all the time.
		
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			When we go home, we are kind to
		
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			our parents.
		
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			خِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ When we go home, we
		
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			are kind to our parents.
		
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			When we go home, we are kind.
		
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			We have good words for our spouses.
		
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			If something has or has not been done
		
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			at home, we simply don't lose our cool
		
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			and end up becoming a monster.
		
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			Why?
		
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			خِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ Because the best of you
		
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			are those who are best to their families.
		
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			Spending time with those around you.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because خِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِأَهْلِهِ Giving people their due
		
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			rights.
		
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			You owe people money.
		
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			Pay your debts.
		
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			You've been unkind to one of your brothers
		
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			or sisters.
		
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			Be kind to them.
		
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			The seerah reminds us the Prophet ﷺ says
		
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			that whoever is kind to their kith and
		
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			kin, to their blood relatives, the Nabi ﷺ
		
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			says you have two benefits.
		
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			The Nabi ﷺ says, your age is increased.
		
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			If you are kind to your blood relatives,
		
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			this is the Nabi ﷺ, your age is
		
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			increased.
		
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			The Nabi ﷺ says if you're kind to
		
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			your kith and kin, your wealth, your rizq
		
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			is increased.
		
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			Your rizq is increased.
		
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			I have a very dear friend, very briefly,
		
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			he says I've been struggling to get a
		
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			job for the longest time.
		
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			He says I heard this in a khutbah.
		
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			I got in my car and I came
		
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			to realize that I have a sister who
		
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			I disagreed with.
		
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			And as a result of my disagreement, I
		
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			had not necessarily cut ties with her, but
		
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			we wouldn't call each other.
		
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			We wouldn't speak to each other as we
		
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			would in the past.
		
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			And he says, I sucked it up.
		
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			I picked up the phone and called my
		
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			sister.
		
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			And I asked her for forgiveness.
		
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			He says despite my sister being in the
		
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			wrong.
		
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			He said I asked her for forgiveness.
		
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			I said let bygones be bygones.
		
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			Let's move ahead in life.
		
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			He says I put the phone down.
		
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			The next phone call I got before I
		
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			even got home was a job offer.
		
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			And I've been struggling to get a job
		
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			for 10 months.
		
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			Why?
		
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			By the way, very highly accomplished, PhD.
		
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			In any case, why?
		
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			The Nabi ﷺ makes us this promise.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, the seerah is awesome to
		
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			say the least.
		
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			The seerah is awesome.
		
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			But it's all about listening to it.
		
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			It's all about implementing it.
		
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			The more we listen, the more we will
		
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			have the ability to implement.
		
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			We haven't been sent into this world to
		
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			simply make money and just have fun.
		
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			There's a lot more that needs to be
		
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			done.
		
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			And Allah ﷻ, for Muslims in America specifically,
		
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			Allah has given us this ability to have
		
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			the freedom where we can congregate in our
		
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			mosques and ask any one of us to
		
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			be able to speak and listen to them.
		
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			You don't need approvals from some authority, some
		
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			worldly authority in order for you to be
		
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			able to listen to a lecture on seerah
		
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			or for that matter anything else by anyone
		
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			that you wish and desire to do so.
		
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			This is a great opportunity.
		
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			But like I said earlier, we've been taking
		
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			this for granted.
		
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			And as a result of our taking this
		
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			for granted, we simply think, oh, it's just
		
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			another event.
		
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			It's simply just happening.
		
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			Who cares?
		
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			Let's move on.
		
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			Any gathering in which Allah and His Messenger
		
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			are mentioned are also gatherings of dhikr.
		
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			We tend to forget that.
		
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			We come from certain kinds of backgrounds and
		
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			ideologies where we think that the only form
		
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			of dhikr is reciting the Qur'an.
		
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			The only form of dhikr is attending some
		
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			sort of a dhikr gathering.
		
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			That the only good that we can do
		
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			in our lives is doing certain types of
		
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			activities or reading certain types of books.
		
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			The reality is that for us to be
		
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			able to say, I am Muslim, to go
		
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			into the house of Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala, to go into any gathering where Allah
		
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			and His Messenger are mentioned are all gatherings
		
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			of dhikr.
		
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			Don't take these lightly.
		
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			And I say this especially to the young
		
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			parents.
		
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			And I want to close.
		
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			I say this especially to the young parents.
		
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			If you are concerned about raising your children
		
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			wholesome, holistic, Muslim, if this matters to you,
		
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			you are going to have to give up
		
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			your weekend parties and going out all the
		
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			time.
		
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			I'm not saying don't do them.
		
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			But you're really going to have to make
		
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			a conscious choice of these gatherings and the
		
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			house of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala being
		
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			a very, very important part of your life.
		
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			And being there with them.
		
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			You know I say to parents at Sunday
		
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			school, don't be the parent that simply leaves
		
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			the child outside and picks them up outside.
		
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			Be the parent that walks in with them.
		
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			Be the parent that prays dhuhr next to
		
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			them before you take them home.
		
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			That's how we're going to raise children.
		
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			And if we truly want the seerah to
		
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			be implemented in the lives of our children,
		
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			we simply can't teach them the seerah.
		
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			We have to implement the seerah in our
		
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			lives.
		
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			We have to implement this.
		
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			It's hard work.
		
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			And we're not doing this just for the
		
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			sake of the dunya.
		
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			We are also doing this and more importantly
		
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			doing this for the sake of the akhira.
		
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			Don't forget that.
		
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			We're always worried about what's happening to us
		
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			in the dunya, but it's all about the
		
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			akhira.
		
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			May Allah bless us all.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reward us
		
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			all.
		
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			And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala allow
		
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			us to truly love Him subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala and His messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam.
		
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			Barak Allah, barak Allah lana wa lakum fil
		
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			quran al azim wa nafa'ana wa iyaakum
		
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			bil ayati wal dhikr al hakeem innahu ta
		
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			'ala jawadun kareemun malikum barr al ra'uf
		
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			al raheem fastaghfiruhu innahu huwa al ghafoor al
		
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			raheem alhamdulillahi
		
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			rabbil alameen wassalatu wassalamu ala sayyidina muhammad wa
		
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			ala alihi wa sahbihi wa man tabi'ahum
		
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			bi ihsan ila yawm al deen amma ba'd
		
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			We talk about the Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam and his seerah, and I want to
		
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			close with something very, very simple.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also told
		
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			us how to live in this world, how
		
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			to be financially competent in this world.
		
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			And we Muslims have a method of being
		
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			financially competent called waqf.
		
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			This is just something which is very, very
		
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			near and dear to my heart.
		
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			And I only say this as a matter
		
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			of fact and information.
		
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			I sit on the Prophet of about half
		
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			a dozen non-profit boards.
		
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			And every single one of them has a
		
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			waqf in the millions of dollars.
		
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			Whether that project is small or large, I'm
		
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			a true believer in waqf.
		
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			And I could speak about this forever, but
		
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			if you go to certain Muslim countries, no
		
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			matter how hard you try, you cannot donate
		
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			and contribute to your local masjid.
		
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			You can't because these are run by awqaf.
		
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			And the reason I shared this and I
		
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			decided to talk about this right now is
		
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			as I drove in, and I can see
		
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			from here that your masjid has a waqf
		
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			project that no masjid in this country has.
		
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			Mubarak.
		
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			Mubarak to all of you and to your
		
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			entire community for thinking of the future of
		
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			this ummah.
		
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			Where we can go to putting our funds
		
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			in far more places.
		
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			Let me tell you something.
		
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			Let me tell you a secret.
		
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			Fundraising will never stop.
		
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			It's an opportunity to give to the house
		
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			of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			It's not a bad thing.
		
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			But if you have your awqaf, you know
		
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			you can run your schools and your masjid.
		
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			I say schools first.
		
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			We're living in interesting times.
		
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			And so mubarak to you and your community
		
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			for this amazing project that you are doing.
		
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			And I can tell you for a fact,
		
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			and I know all of you know this.
		
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			There's not a single community in the entire
		
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			United States that has been this visionary as
		
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			your community to build this project.
		
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			And I've been told that the theme for
		
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			it is united we build.
		
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			And inshallah united we will build.
		
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			And this is also part of the seerah
		
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			of the nabi sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
		
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			Where we become financially independent.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reward us
		
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			all.
		
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			May Allah facilitate khair for every single one
		
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			of us.
		
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			May Allah protect us from all forms of
		
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			harm and evil.
		
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			And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala continue
		
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			to bless us and our families.
		
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			Those who are ill in our families, may
		
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			Allah grant them shifa.
		
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			Those who have passed away, may Allah grant
		
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			them maghfirah.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala grant us
		
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			a means of halal rizq.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make our
		
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			means of rizq easy for us.
		
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			May Allah put increase in barakah in our
		
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			rizq.
		
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			May Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect our
		
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			children and our progenies.
		
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			And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala facilitate
		
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			khair and blessings for all of us in
		
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			this dunya and the hereafter.
		
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			May we and our progenies until the day
		
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			of judgment be amongst those who love Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			Who truly love the nabi Muhammad sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wasallam.
		
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			And become proud of obeying Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala and his nabi sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
		
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			And may Allah never ever take this blessing
		
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			of iman away from us and our progenies
		
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			until the day of judgment.
		
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			Ameen.
		
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			Al-Fatiha.