Suzy Ismail – #39 AlHafeeth

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The speaker discusses the concept of "medicals and how they can improve relationships with their spouse." They explain that the "medicals that can be achieved through the transmission of messages from their experiences during marriage can be sustained through their relationship with their partner." They also mention that "medicals can be achieved through the transmission of messages from their experiences during marriage."

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			Santa Monica, it's nice to see you
again as we continue to bring the
		
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			divine into the daily by
understanding how we can
		
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			incorporate the characteristics of
the 99 names of Allah subhanaw
		
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			taala into our daily lives to
improve the relationship with our
		
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			spouse and with our children. The
name that we're going to discuss
		
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			today is L huffy, which means the
preserver when we talk about
		
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			preservation in our marriages, we
often talk about longevity, or we
		
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			talk about that emotion that we
may have at the start of marriage,
		
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			and the feeling in the beginning
of marriage and the start of a
		
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			relationship where we truly feel
that this feeling will last
		
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			forever. So we think about the
hearts and the butterflies and the
		
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			feeling of flowers and roses. And
it's a beautiful feeling. But the
		
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			emotions that we may have at the
start of the marriage, or in that
		
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			getting to know one another
process can often feel very
		
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			different 10 years into the
marriage 20 years into the
		
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			marriage 30 years into the
marriage, and even from day to
		
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			day. And this is why we
consistently remind ourselves to
		
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			repeat the blyat Young will
contribute Hello sambit Columbia
		
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			Allah Dena, oh changer of the
hearts, keep our hearts steadfast
		
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			on your faith. Because our hearts
change. And unhealthy the
		
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			preserver is the one that can
preserve the emotions in the
		
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			relationship. And as long as we
anchor the emotions in our
		
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			marriage, to a greater love to a
love for the sake of Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala then we can begin
to achieve that sense of
		
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			preservation within our marriage
relationships. So rather than
		
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			lamenting the fact that we may
feel differently towards our
		
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			spouse 20 years into the marriage,
or 10 years into the marriage or
		
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			even five years into the marriage,
instead, we realize that the
		
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			change that occurs within our
heart is a change that also comes
		
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			from Allah subhanaw taala. But the
connection to our spouse can only
		
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			come when we connect to Allah
subhanaw taala and when we anchor
		
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			our heart to Allah to unhealthier
than the HIV of our relationship,
		
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			the preservation of our
relationship will occur. So I pray
		
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			that Allah subhanaw taala and have
you lessons our relationships with
		
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			that continuous preservation and
that he allows us to experience
		
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			the most beautiful emotions from
the start of marriage and long on
		
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			since then, does a common law Hi,
and I look forward to seeing you
		
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			again as we continue to bring the
divine into the daily salamati