Suzy Ismail – #34 AlAzeem
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The speaker discusses the importance of incorporating the name "verbal" into their relationships with their spouse and their children. They explain that this is a sign of satisfaction and a means to establish a connection with their partner. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of anchor and love for one's partner in achieving their goals.
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It's nice to see you again as we continue to bring the divine into
the daily by understanding how we can incorporate the 99 names of
Allah subhanaw taala, and the characteristics of those names
into our daily lives so we can improve our relationships with our
spouse and with our children. The name that we're going to discuss
today is, Allah has been, which means the most magnificent.
When we think of the word magnificent, we know that it means
something that is elevated something that is exalted. And we
know that Allah subhanaw taala is an awesome, the most magnificent,
the one who's most elevated, Most Exalted. But it's interesting that
when we often first get married, or when we first have a child, our
response internally upon laying eyes, on our spouse on that
wedding day, or upon laying eyes on our child, when our child is
first born, is that this is the most magnificent being in our
life. And it's common that in those first few moments, our eyes
process, you know, that, that those split seconds of seeing our
spouse on the wedding day, seeing the infant child, when our child
is first born, I'm thinking, This is it, this is the greatest human
being in my life. And this is my from Allah subhanaw taala, for us
to truly feel this kind of a connection with the spouse in
those early moments, because it is the beginning of the foundation of
a lifetime together in sha Allah, but also with our child in those
first few moments where we bond with our child, when at first
sight, we truly feel that this infant is magnificent.
Yet we all know for those of us who have been married for several
years, or those of us who have children who have grown older,
there are days when we may look at our spouse days that we may look
at our children. And we may not feel that they are quite as
magnificent as we may have thought when we first laid eyes upon them.
And this is again part of human nature. You know, we ask Allah
subhanaw taala consistently with the diet, Yom we'll call liberal
groups, and it can be an Idina or changer of the heart, keep my
heart steadfast on your faith. Why? Because our hearts are
constantly moving up and down. Our hearts are constantly in a state
of flux. And that state of flux can sometimes cause us to be very,
very close with someone or feel close with someone to admire
someone to feel connected with someone, whether that someone is
our spouse, or our child, or someone else, even outside of the
family. And yet on another day, we may not feel that connection, we
may not feel that closeness, we may not feel that admiration for
that person. And yet, our connection to Allah subhanaw taala
is what we want and then desire to be the most stable, to never
change because Allah subhanaw taala is allows him the most
magnificent, and that is not something that is variable or
something that we can feel one day and not another one, we feel this
way towards our spouse or towards our child, you know, when our
children may be driving us crazy, it's summer vacation, and many of
us as parents may be thinking, what is school going to begin. And
those are the moments where we may not be thinking our kids are quite
so magnificent, or during those arguments that we might have with
a spouse. Those are the moments that we're not thinking our spouse
is quite so magnificent. In those moments, it's important to anchor
our hearts back to that connection that we felt on that first day. On
the first day that we laid eyes on our spouse on that wedding day on
the first day that we laid eyes on our infant child in our arms when
the child is born on the first day that we felt that connection,
because to go back to that place of feeling that there is some sort
of magnificence in our relationship is the most beautiful
bond that we can have with our spouse with our child. And of
course we ask Allah Allah Azim to always anchor our heart and our
love for Him. And in our recognition of his magnificence,
does Accomando here and I look forward to speaking to you again.
The next time we bring the divine into the daily. A stub article