Suzy Ismail – #30. AlAdl

			Saramonic it's nice to see you
again, as we continue to bring the
		

			divine into the daily by
understanding how the
		

			characteristics of Allah subhanaw
taala, as encompassed in the 99
		

			names of Allah can be incorporated
into our daily lives to improve
		

			our relationships with our spouses
and with our family. The name that
		

			we're going to discuss today is a
ladder, which means the most just,
		

			or the most fair,
		

			many times in our relationships
will find difficulty in feeling
		

			like we are struggling with
injustice. This can often occur
		

			when husband and wife are in an
argument. And each one is trying
		

			so hard to prove that he or she is
the one that is right. And then it
		

			feels as if there is injustice
that is occurring. But in reality,
		

			we need to stop sometimes, and ask
ourselves what is more important,
		

			being right, or understanding the
other person's viewpoint and
		

			working together to understand one
another and reach a point of
		

			compromise. When we talk about
injustice, again, we often talk
		

			about that injustice that's
perpetrated towards others. But
		

			there's often injustice that we
also perpetrate towards ourselves.
		

			And that comes in the form when we
are so hard on ourselves. When we
		

			view ourselves in a way where
we're unhappy with who we are
		

			unhappy with where we are in life.
We often say this as the marriage
		

			relationship grows. And often as
our family grows, as well, as
		

			mother as Father, we may reflect
on our lives and feel like we're
		

			not where we need to be as a
single parent, as a person who is
		

			still looking to get married,
whatever stage we are in, in life,
		

			when we are unjust towards
ourselves. It is because we feel
		

			insecure. And we begin to project
that insecurity inwardly, it will
		

			reflect externally as well. And it
can often result in us taking
		

			those insecurities and putting
them externally upon our spouse
		

			upon our children and causing
disharmony in the home. So I pray
		

			that Allah subhanaw taala, Allah
had the one who is most just will
		

			allow us to find that internal
justice within ourselves towards
		

			ourselves, but also that justice
in our family, in our home and
		

			with our spouses to Zakouma level
higher, and I look forward to
		

			speaking to you again, in our next
episode of bringing the divine
		

			into the deli. I said I'm on a
call