Suzy Ismail – #30. AlAdl
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Saramonic it's nice to see you again, as we continue to bring the
divine into the daily by understanding how the
characteristics of Allah subhanaw taala, as encompassed in the 99
names of Allah can be incorporated into our daily lives to improve
our relationships with our spouses and with our family. The name that
we're going to discuss today is a ladder, which means the most just,
or the most fair,
many times in our relationships will find difficulty in feeling
like we are struggling with injustice. This can often occur
when husband and wife are in an argument. And each one is trying
so hard to prove that he or she is the one that is right. And then it
feels as if there is injustice that is occurring. But in reality,
we need to stop sometimes, and ask ourselves what is more important,
being right, or understanding the other person's viewpoint and
working together to understand one another and reach a point of
compromise. When we talk about injustice, again, we often talk
about that injustice that's perpetrated towards others. But
there's often injustice that we also perpetrate towards ourselves.
And that comes in the form when we are so hard on ourselves. When we
view ourselves in a way where we're unhappy with who we are
unhappy with where we are in life. We often say this as the marriage
relationship grows. And often as our family grows, as well, as
mother as Father, we may reflect on our lives and feel like we're
not where we need to be as a single parent, as a person who is
still looking to get married, whatever stage we are in, in life,
when we are unjust towards ourselves. It is because we feel
insecure. And we begin to project that insecurity inwardly, it will
reflect externally as well. And it can often result in us taking
those insecurities and putting them externally upon our spouse
upon our children and causing disharmony in the home. So I pray
that Allah subhanaw taala, Allah had the one who is most just will
allow us to find that internal justice within ourselves towards
ourselves, but also that justice in our family, in our home and
with our spouses to Zakouma level higher, and I look forward to
speaking to you again, in our next episode of bringing the divine
into the deli. I said I'm on a call