Sulayman Van Ael – The Divine Names 8 The Relationship Fiqh

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			Do you want to have a microphone or
		
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			not?
		
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			Yes?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			With the will of Allah in this last
		
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			class of this series, I would like to
		
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			mention some of the important things that are
		
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			connected to knowing Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And also to mention how the names of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala are connected to
		
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			Fiqh.
		
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			So these are two things I would like
		
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			to have a look at inshallah.
		
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			So the first thing is, why is it
		
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			important, once again, to know the names of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala?
		
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			We've mentioned some of this.
		
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			And then secondly, how are the names of
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala connected to Fiqh?
		
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			So these are two things that I would
		
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			like to shine a light on today inshallah.
		
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			One of the scholars said, if you know
		
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			Allah, you know yourself.
		
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			And if you know yourself, you know Allah.
		
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			This has been misunderstood by many people.
		
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			And some of the people have claimed this
		
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			saying to reflect a kind of anthropomorphism, meaning
		
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			that we compare Allah to his creation, which
		
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			we don't.
		
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			The aqidah of the sunnah is that we
		
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			don't compare Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in
		
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			any way to his creation.
		
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			So what do they mean when they say,
		
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			if you know Allah, you know yourself, and
		
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			when you know yourself, you know Allah?
		
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			Well, when you look at your shortcomings and
		
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			weaknesses, then you know what Allah is not.
		
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			If you see that you forget, you know
		
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			Allah doesn't.
		
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			When you see that you have strength, but
		
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			that your strength reduces, decreases, then you know
		
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			that Allah is qawiyun mateen, meaning he's strong,
		
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			but he's at the same time mateen, meaning
		
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			that his strength doesn't decrease.
		
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			When you look at Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala's wisdom and knowledge, and you look at
		
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			your own ignorance, you know that this is
		
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			not Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			So this is what they mean when they
		
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			say, if you look at yourself, if you
		
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			know yourself, you know Allah.
		
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			Meaning, if you know yourself truly, not skimming
		
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			the surface of yourself, but you know yourself
		
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			and your flaws and your shortcomings, then you
		
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			will know Allah.
		
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			You will know that he is in no
		
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			way like this.
		
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			And if you know Allah, you know yourself.
		
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			Because by looking at how perfect he is,
		
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			you know how needy you are.
		
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			You know how vulnerable you are, without his
		
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			protection.
		
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			You know how humiliated you are, without him
		
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			honouring you.
		
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			You know how low you are, without him
		
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			elevating you.
		
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			So at the end of the day, by
		
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			looking at Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, you
		
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			actually found what you were in need of.
		
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			And one of the main reasons why people
		
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			are not able to find any form of
		
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			happiness, is because they do not know Allah.
		
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			They are like beggars, knocking on every door,
		
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			not finding anybody to give them what they
		
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			are looking for.
		
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			And if we just look at the movie
		
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			stars, the singers, the people that are very
		
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			rich, the majority amongst them are depressed.
		
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			Even though they have everything you are wishing
		
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			for, materially.
		
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			They commit suicide, their children very often go
		
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			astray.
		
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			So they didn't find this happiness.
		
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			So this is one thing.
		
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			So now when we look at the importance
		
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			of the names of Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala, it is actually the basis for your
		
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			worship.
		
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			Like if you see that you are not
		
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			able to strengthen yourself, not able to put
		
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			yourself on the path of worship, then this
		
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			is because you don't know Allah.
		
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			That's all.
		
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			So many people that are suffering with ongoing
		
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			haram in their lives, other people with ongoing
		
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			bad characteristics in their lives, then this is
		
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			due to a lack of knowledge of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			Because, imagine yourself, sitting on a bus, and
		
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			you want to gossip about someone.
		
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			You want to gossip about X.
		
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			And you are sitting with your friend and
		
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			you say, do you know what X did?
		
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			He goes like, he's there.
		
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			What are you going to do?
		
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			Are you going to gossip?
		
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			You are not going to gossip.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because X is there.
		
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			Your father doesn't know that you smoke.
		
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			You go into a shop, buy some cigarettes.
		
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			All of a sudden you hear his voice.
		
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			You are not going to say, give me
		
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			a packet of cigarettes.
		
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			You are going to say, I wanted some
		
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			chewing gum please.
		
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			You are going to change it.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because your father is there.
		
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			Knowing that someone is present will stop you
		
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			from doing what is bad.
		
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			So the only reason why we do things
		
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			that are bad is because we forgot that
		
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			he is present.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			So this is the only reason.
		
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			And this is why the Messenger of Allah
		
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			s.a.w. has said, like Imam Ibn
		
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			Rajab r.a. mentioned in his Jamil Ulum
		
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			Al-Hikam, and the hadith is authentic.
		
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			He said, and it's in the Musnad of
		
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			Imam Ahmad, He said, behave like someone who
		
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			is always accompanied by a person he respects
		
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			from his community.
		
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			For example, you are married.
		
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			And usually when you talk to your wife,
		
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			it's more like, come on, just let it
		
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			go.
		
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			Now your father-in-law is there.
		
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			How are you going to talk to his
		
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			daughter?
		
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			You will not even ask for a glass
		
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			of water.
		
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			You will say, do you want a glass
		
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			of water?
		
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			Look, Dad.
		
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			So you are going to show off.
		
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			So what is happening is the more sure
		
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			you are of someone's presence, the more that
		
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			you knowing this person to be present will
		
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			have a direct influence on the way you
		
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			behave.
		
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			Like for example, I'm driving a car.
		
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			And it's like during the night, one at
		
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			night, and you know, it's a crossroad in
		
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			the middle of nowhere.
		
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			There is literally no car, not even a
		
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			bike, a fly, a motorcycle, nothing.
		
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			And now you're sitting there, and it's red,
		
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			red light.
		
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			To be quite frank, you ask yourself the
		
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			question, why am I stopping?
		
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			There's no one.
		
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			I know that there's no one.
		
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			But now there's a little camera, flashlights.
		
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			Of the police.
		
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			Are you going to stop or are you
		
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			going to continue?
		
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			Honestly, there's no one.
		
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			But you know this camera is working.
		
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			If I pass the red light, 150 pounds
		
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			done.
		
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			What am I going to do?
		
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			I'm going to stop.
		
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			You're not going to continue.
		
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			So once again, to show you, if you
		
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			know that there is muraqada, that there is
		
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			muraqada, that someone is observing you, then the
		
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			way you behave will differ from if you
		
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			are ignorant of him observing you.
		
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			And this is why one of the names
		
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			of Allah is al-raqeeb.
		
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			Al-raqeeb, subhanahu wa ta'ala, the one
		
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			that observes people.
		
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			Their outward behavior and their inward state and
		
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			emotion.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So this is the first thing we have
		
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			to know.
		
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			Knowing Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will eventually
		
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			lead to us no longer doing anything which
		
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			we will be ashamed for on the Day
		
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			of Judgment.
		
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			This is exactly what we need to do.
		
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			If we believe in a Hereafter, then we
		
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			shouldn't do anything that will expose us in
		
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			a negative way on the Day of Judgment.
		
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			Do you agree?
		
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			So you believe in Al-Qiyamah, you believe
		
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			in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, so you
		
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			shouldn't do anything which influences or which puts
		
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			you in a bad daylight.
		
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			So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, knowing Him
		
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			will eventually lead to that state.
		
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			So why do we want to know Allah?
		
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			Why do we want to get to know
		
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			Him?
		
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			We want to be always in a state
		
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			where we know that Allah hears us, sees
		
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			us, knows what we do.
		
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			But the way I'm putting it is like
		
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			almost trying to convince you that it's something
		
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			negative.
		
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			The negativity in a certain way which is
		
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			not negative is a lower state.
		
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			The lowest state of a human being on
		
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			the face of the earth is not doing
		
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			something bad because Allah is observing him.
		
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			Doing something good because Allah is observing me.
		
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			This is the lowest state.
		
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			And this counts for the majority of people.
		
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			If it weren't for Allah punishing me, maybe
		
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			I wouldn't have prayed.
		
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			Maybe I wouldn't have fasted.
		
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			Maybe I would have done something haram.
		
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			But there is a punishment.
		
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			If it weren't for His punishment, I wouldn't
		
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			wake up for Fajr or wouldn't pray or
		
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			whatever.
		
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			So people are moved by this lower state.
		
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			They say if this lower state doesn't move
		
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			you, you are close to your own destruction.
		
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			Like if fear for Allah doesn't move you,
		
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			nothing will.
		
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			That's the lowest thing.
		
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			Somebody doing haram or not doing what he
		
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			or she has to do is actually saying,
		
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			I don't mind Allah looking at me and
		
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			telling me to do something and I'm not
		
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			going to do it.
		
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			This is exactly what Iblis did.
		
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			Like when Allah said, what was wrong with
		
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			you that you didn't do sujood when I
		
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			commanded you to do so?
		
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			Then he answered, He said, I'm better than
		
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			him.
		
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			You created me out of fire and him
		
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			out of clay or sand.
		
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			So the biggest sin ever committed was based
		
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			on not doing what Allah wants you to
		
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			do.
		
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			And they say that people that do not
		
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			pray are in reality a reflection of shaytan
		
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			on the face of the earth.
		
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			Because Allah says pray and they don't.
		
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			And this is why Allah calls some people
		
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			ikhwanu shayateen.
		
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			Like in surat al-Isra, they are the
		
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			ikhwan, his brothers.
		
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			Allah speaks in the Qur'an about shayateen
		
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			al-ins wal-jinn.
		
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			The shayateen from amongst the jinn and the
		
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			shayateen from amongst the human beings.
		
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			And they say someone doing what he shouldn't
		
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			do is a reflection of the state of
		
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			Adam.
		
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			So at the very beginning we had two
		
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			states.
		
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			Not states like the United States of America.
		
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			We had two states of mind.
		
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			One was Iblis not doing what he was
		
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			commanded to do.
		
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			The other one was Adam doing what he
		
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			was forbidden to do.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			Now the ulema they say which of these
		
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			ones is worse?
		
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			Not doing what Allah tells you to do
		
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			or doing what Allah forbade you to do.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So what is worse?
		
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			So this is a question I'm asking you
		
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			and I want you to ponder and think
		
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			and reflect over this.
		
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			So what according to you is worse?
		
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			Not doing what you have to do or
		
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			doing what you shouldn't do.
		
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			The first one?
		
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			Not doing what Allah commands you to do.
		
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			Everybody agrees?
		
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			Why?
		
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			Why do you agree?
		
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			Because Ibn al-Jawzi said this?
		
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			In Sayyid al-Khatir or why?
		
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			And this is why Ibn al-Jawzi looks
		
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			at it and he says okay which of
		
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			these are worse?
		
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			He said the first thing to know is
		
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			Iblis didn't do what he was ordered to
		
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			do, sujud.
		
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			This is why every time when we prostrate,
		
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			like the messenger s.a.w. said, Iblis
		
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			cries.
		
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			He said I was ordered to pray and
		
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			I didn't and I am for * and
		
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			the human being was ordered to pray and
		
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			he did and he's for paradise with every
		
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			sujud.
		
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			So now Ibn al-Jawzi looks at this
		
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			and says okay on the one hand we
		
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			have Iblis who didn't do what he was
		
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			ordered to do and he's forever and ever
		
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			for * and on the other hand we
		
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			have Adam who did what he didn't have
		
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			to do but he repented and was made
		
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			or will be amongst the inhabitants of paradise
		
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			again.
		
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			The second thing Ibn al-Jawzi says, doing
		
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			what you don't, like not doing what you
		
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			are ordered to do usually sprouts forth from
		
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			ego.
		
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			From ego and stubbornness.
		
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			Like I am, imagine yourself telling your child
		
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			could you please bring me a glass of
		
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			water?
		
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			Could you please clean your room?
		
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			And your child says no.
		
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			How would you feel?
		
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			That would feel bad isn't it?
		
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			You tell your child do it and it
		
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			straight forward just says no.
		
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			You can say what you want, I am
		
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			not going to do this.
		
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			On the other hand you told your child
		
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			not to do something.
		
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			When you tell your child not to do
		
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			something it's going to hide.
		
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			It's not the ego that is nourishing it,
		
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			it's passion and a weakness.
		
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			It's not in the form of strength.
		
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			Someone saying I am not going to do
		
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			what you ask me to, it's stubbornness and
		
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			strength.
		
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			Is everybody with me?
		
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			It's stubbornness and strength, like I am not.
		
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			On the other hand if you do what
		
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			you shouldn't do, it is weakness.
		
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			You are going to, oh I shouldn't.
		
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			You always have this feeling of being observed,
		
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			afraid.
		
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			Someone not doing what he has to do
		
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			is afraid of being caught.
		
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			Someone saying I am not doing what you
		
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			want me to do isn't afraid of being
		
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			caught.
		
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			And this is why Ibn Al-Jawzi says
		
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			someone refusing Allah's command is actually a straight
		
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			forward rebel.
		
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			He is a rebel.
		
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			I am not going to do what you
		
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			say.
		
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			Is this clear?
		
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			So now the lowest level of getting you
		
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			to move in a right direction is fear.
		
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			Fear.
		
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			You just say OK I am going to
		
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			do this otherwise Allah is going to punish
		
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			me.
		
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			If this doesn't move you, your heart is
		
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			dead.
		
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			Then the highest level is being driven by
		
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			love.
		
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			That's the highest level.
		
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			And they call the first one the feeling
		
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			of being observed.
		
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			And the highest level, the level of he
		
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			who observes.
		
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			You see?
		
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			He is observing the divine blessings.
		
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			He is observing the divine deeds.
		
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			He is observing, witnessing the beauty of these
		
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			names.
		
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			So he is driven, he is attracted by
		
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			these names.
		
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			The other one isn't.
		
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			He is afraid of these names.
		
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			And this is what the Messenger of Allah
		
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			ﷺ mentioned when he said اِعْبُدُ اللَّهَ كَأَنَّكَ
		
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			تَرَاهُ فَإِن لَمْ تَكُنْ تَرَاهُ فَإِنَّهُ يَرَاكُ يعني
		
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			الإحسان أن تعبد الله كأنك تراه إِن لَمْ
		
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			تَكُنْ تَرَاهُ فَإِنَّهُ يَرَاكُ الإحسان is that you
		
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			worship Allah as though you see him.
		
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			And if you don't see him, meaning if
		
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			you are not able to witness his beauty,
		
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			then at least know that he sees you.
		
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			That's the lowest level.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			So the highest level is the level of
		
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			Mushahada.
		
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			And this level cuts all negativity.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because you will be pushed forward by witnessing
		
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			his beauty subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			Someone saying, I tried so many times to
		
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			do something, but I can't.
		
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			And looking at how weak I am, I
		
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			don't think I will ever be able to
		
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			do so.
		
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			This is the lowest level.
		
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			Don't look at yourself.
		
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			Look at the one who is able to
		
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			change you.
		
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			Look at the one who is able to
		
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			do everything he wants to.
		
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			So you connect to Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala because you know the beauty of his
		
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			names.
		
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			So you just go and say, I can't
		
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			do anything, but he can do everything.
		
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			I am limited, but he is not.
		
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			I am weak, but he is strong.
		
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			So by observing his names, you will find
		
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			strength.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			And this is why, like in Khiliyyat al
		
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			-Awliya of Imam al-Asbihani, it was said
		
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			that Utbah said, مَنْ عَرَفَ اللَّهَ أَطَاعَهُ He
		
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			who knows Allah will worship Allah.
		
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			يعني, he who knows Allah will worship Allah.
		
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			Do you know Anthony Joshua?
		
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			You do?
		
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			How come?
		
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			You're in a mosque, are you allowed to
		
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			know this?
		
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			Of course you are.
		
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			We live on planet Earth, don't we?
		
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			So Anthony Joshua, for example, four times world
		
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			champion in all the divisions?
		
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			Yes, he is.
		
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			So anyway, now people want to pay a
		
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			lot to see him.
		
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			If you want to sit in the first
		
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			row, why do they want to pay a
		
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			lot?
		
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			Because they know that they are going to
		
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			see something.
		
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			If you know what the value is of
		
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			what you are looking at, you will give
		
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			things away.
		
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			People for a Rolex, they might give 20
		
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			,000, 25,000, 30,000.
		
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			People with a Rolls Royce Phantom, they might
		
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			give 300,000, whatever.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because they know what the value is.
		
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			So now, he says, مَنْ عَرَفَ اللَّهَ أَطَاعَهُ
		
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			The one that knows Allah will obey Allah.
		
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			Because he knows what the value of his
		
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			Lord is.
		
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			And the value is unlimited.
		
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			So he who says, I love Allah, I
		
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			love Allah, I love Allah, but he doesn't
		
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			go to Allah, I'm sorry, you're just pretending.
		
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			You are pretending.
		
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			If you tell your wife, I love you,
		
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			but every day you insult her, you say,
		
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			you this, you that, and at the end
		
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			of the day you say, if you would
		
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			only know how much I love you, she
		
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			would say, you look like someone who wants
		
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			to get rid of me.
		
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			He says, this is how I express my
		
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			love.
		
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			The further I go away from you, the
		
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			more I miss you.
		
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			This doesn't make sense.
		
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			This is the same with people pretending, I
		
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			love Allah, I love Allah, I love Allah,
		
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			but you're running away from him.
		
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			If you love someone, you draw closer to
		
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			him or her.
		
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			So for each claim, there should be a
		
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			proof.
		
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			And this is why the poet said, تَعْصِ
		
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			الْإِلَٰهَ وَتُظْهِرُ حُبَهُ إِنَّ هَذَا لَا عَمْرِ بَدِيعُ
		
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			You claim to love him, but yet you
		
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			disobey him.
		
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			Verily, this is something I don't understand.
		
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			لَوْ كَانَ حُبُّكَ صَادِقًا لَا أَطَعْتَهُ If your
		
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			love were to be true, you would have
		
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			obeyed him.
		
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			إِنَّ الْمُحِبَّ لِمَنْ يُحِبُّ مُطِيعُ Because the lover
		
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			obeys the one that he loves.
		
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			The lover obeys the one he loves.
		
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			If you would go the first day to
		
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			ask a hand, someone to marry, and you
		
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			know her sister, made your sister know that
		
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			she has an allergy, for example, roses.
		
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			She doesn't like roses.
		
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			And when she eats these cashew nuts, her
		
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			throat swells up, and she needs to be
		
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			taken to a hospital.
		
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			She really doesn't like boss, the perfume boss,
		
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			right?
		
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			Or Sauvage of Dior.
		
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			She doesn't like that.
		
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			And she doesn't like the color green.
		
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			You will look at the tiniest detail, even
		
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			in your watch.
		
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			If there would be green in your watch,
		
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			you would throw it against the wall.
		
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			You say, I'm not going with something green.
		
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			If your eyes were to be green, you
		
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			would put lenses in to make them brown
		
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			or blue.
		
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			This is how you would go.
		
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			You wouldn't go, do you want some cashew
		
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			nuts and boss?
		
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			You know, that wouldn't work.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because a lover lives up to the expectations
		
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			of his beloved one.
		
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			So, it's better not to claim anything, and
		
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			just to be who you are, than to
		
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			claim something which you are not.
		
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			Because the Messenger ﷺ said, and someone who
		
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			pretends to be someone who he or she
		
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			is not, he's wearing what?
		
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			The clothes of deceit.
		
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			If you pretend in front of the people
		
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			to be someone who you are not, then
		
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			it's like you're wearing the what?
		
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			The garments of deceit.
		
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			And on the Day of Judgment, you will
		
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			be exposed.
		
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			So now, رَوْ أَنَّهُمْ صَدَقُوا اللَّهَ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا
		
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			لَهُمْ If they would have been truthful towards
		
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			Allah by acknowledging who they are, then this
		
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			would have been better for them.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So now, we can't claim.
		
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			We should stop claiming anything.
		
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			Don't say, I would like to be amongst
		
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			those who pray at night.
		
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			Pray at night then.
		
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			If you really want something, you go for
		
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			it, isn't it?
		
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			Now in life, if you want something, don't
		
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			you go for it?
		
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			Why should this be different with the Deen?
		
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			I would really like to cry during the
		
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			night for Allah.
		
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			I would really like to memorize the Qur
		
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			'an.
		
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			I would really this, I would really that,
		
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			and here we are.
		
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			It sounds very fancy, very beautiful, but it's
		
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			an empty box.
		
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			It's an empty box.
		
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			The moment you open it, there's nothing but
		
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			air.
		
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			Words.
		
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			So now, Allah.
		
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			If we go back, then we see that
		
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			knowing Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, and the
		
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			highest level is loving Him.
		
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			And this is by doing what He loves.
		
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			And to be quite frank, the goal is
		
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			not to love.
		
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			The art is to be loved by the
		
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			one you love.
		
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			Because loving someone who doesn't love you back
		
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			is a torture.
		
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			It's a disaster.
		
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			It's a calamity and a catastrophe.
		
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			People kill themselves because the ones that they
		
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			love don't love them back.
		
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			People are depressed.
		
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			People go to a psychiatrist, a psychologist.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because the one I love doesn't love me.
		
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			You can't force others to love you.
		
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			But Allah showed you His way for you
		
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			to be loved by Him.
		
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			There is a clear road.
		
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			There is no magic Harry Potter wand that
		
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			you need.
		
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			There is no ring that you need to
		
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			look for and preserve like in the Lord
		
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			of Rings.
		
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			Nothing.
		
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			It's Quran.
		
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			It's all clear.
		
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			Everything is there.
		
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			It's there.
		
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			Allah doesn't want us to go through a
		
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			jungle to find, you know, the jewel of
		
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			the Nile.
		
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			He wants us just to open the book
		
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			and there we are.
		
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			But how much do you want it?
		
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			You will know how much you want it
		
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			when you die.
		
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			The moment you die, you will know the
		
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			value of everything.
		
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			The Messenger ﷺ passed a grave.
		
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			And he said, Do you know what this
		
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			man wishes for?
		
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			He said, No, Ya Rasulullah.
		
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			Do you know what this man wishes for?
		
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			A man buried on the cold ground, soil,
		
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			alone, far from everything he was used to,
		
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			far from his sofa and television, far from
		
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			everything, from his children, his beloved ones.
		
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			Do you know what this man is longing
		
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			for?
		
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			They said, Tell us, Ya Rasulullah.
		
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			He said, Praying two raka'at is more
		
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			beloved to him than everything you possess on
		
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			this world.
		
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			Praying two raka'at.
		
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			Like Allah says in the Qur'an, People
		
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			say, قِيلَ رَبِّ رَجِعُونَ Ya Allah, please, can
		
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			I go back?
		
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			Just one time.
		
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			I'm going to do tawbah for that sin.
		
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			Just one time.
		
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			خَلَاس It's but a word that he is
		
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			uttering, but it's gone.
		
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			So now, when this man died, and Bilal,
		
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			may Allah be pleased with him, was with
		
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			him, this man said, Oh, if only it
		
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			would have been complete.
		
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			Oh, if only it would have been further
		
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			away.
		
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			And then the man died.
		
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			So now Bilal was astonished.
		
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			He said, What is this man saying?
		
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			Instead of saying Shahada, La ilaha illallah Muhammad
		
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			Rasulullah, he says, If only it would have
		
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			been complete, if only it would have been
		
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			further away.
		
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			So he went to the Messenger, Sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam, and he said, Ya Rasulullah, this
		
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			man said this and that.
		
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			The Prophet said, The Prophet said, Do you
		
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			know why?
		
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			He said, Tell me, Ya Rasulullah.
		
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			He said, When he died, the rewards for
		
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			his actions were shown to him.
		
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			This is what we will see before we
		
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			die.
		
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			The rewards.
		
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			The Messenger, Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, said, No
		
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			one amongst you will die before seeing his
		
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			place in Paradise or in *.
		
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			Even when you are still alive.
		
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			But it's after your soul reaches the throat
		
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			and you can't talk anymore.
		
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			And that is why some people don't want
		
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			to give their soul away.
		
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			They don't want to give their soul.
		
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			They want to hold on to that body
		
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			for as long as they can because they
		
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			know that that which they are heading for
		
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			is something terrible.
		
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			So they stick to everything within the body.
		
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			Everything.
		
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			And this is why Allah, Subhanallah, says, And
		
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			if you would only see how Yadribuna wujuhahum
		
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			wa azbarahum, how they hit and slap their
		
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			faces, the angels, and their backs.
		
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			Like when you cover, you try to get
		
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			it out of the throat of the one,
		
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			you know, when somebody...
		
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			So this is the way that they will
		
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			slap her in the face and on the
		
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			back.
		
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			I mean, give us your soul!
		
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			He doesn't want to.
		
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			Because he has already seen where he or
		
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			she is heading for.
		
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			So now, he said, Do you know, he
		
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			said, his rewards were shown.
		
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			And he saw that one day, a poor
		
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			man came up to him and asked him
		
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			for bread.
		
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			He had one bread.
		
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			This was all he had.
		
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			Nothing more.
		
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			And he gave away the half of his
		
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			bread.
		
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			Thinking that this was a lot.
		
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			And it is when this is all that
		
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			you possess.
		
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			But when he saw the reward for a
		
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			half piece of bread, he said, if only
		
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			it would have been complete.
		
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			If only I would have given an entire
		
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			bread to this person.
		
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			And one day, he led a blind man
		
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			to the mosque.
		
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			And when he saw the reward for each
		
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			footstep that he guided this man to the
		
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			mosque with, and he saw the reward for
		
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			each footstep, he said, if only it would
		
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			have been further away.
		
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			And this is where we go wrong.
		
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			Because we live in everything is a click
		
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			away society.
		
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			We scroll through China and Canada in a
		
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			couple of seconds.
		
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			Today, I was looking with my wife on
		
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			YouTube what does Canada look like.
		
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			Because somebody said, maybe you can come to
		
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			Canada, visit, deliver a talk.
		
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			So I don't know, so I went YouTube.
		
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			What was it, I don't remember.
		
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			Places to go, what to see in Canada.
		
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			All of a sudden, I saw everything in
		
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			Canada.
		
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			All the animals, all the festivities, the bridges.
		
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			In three minutes, it was a click away.
		
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			The problem is that if you want to
		
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			reach Allah, it is not a click away.
		
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			It is thousand miles away from your ego.
		
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			Thousand miles away from haram.
		
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			Thousand miles away from laziness.
		
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			Thousand miles away very often of everything you
		
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			would like to do.
		
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			And it lies in the valleys of what
		
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			you don't like to do.
		
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			Like people looking for a treasure, they have
		
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			to go through the mud.
		
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			They have to say farewell to their families
		
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			for three months on the wild sea.
		
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			Conquering the waves, diving deep.
		
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			But at the end, there they are with
		
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			a treasure of gold and silver and diamonds.
		
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			This is the way to Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			And this is why Imam Ahmed, rahimahullahu azawajal
		
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			said, and some have declared the hadith daif
		
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			and others hassan li ghayrihi.
		
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			And he said, Jannah is comparable to a
		
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			beautiful garden on a very high mountain.
		
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			Difficult to get to.
		
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			And * is comparable to a garden in
		
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			a very low valley.
		
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			Very easy to reach.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			So now, getting to Allah is beautiful.
		
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			But sometimes when we look at this fast
		
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			food era that we live in, we think
		
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			it's just like this.
		
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			Because we got used to this.
		
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			We change friends the same way we change
		
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			phones.
		
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			We get angry when people don't understand us
		
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			as quickly as a computer does.
		
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			Turbo speed era, where everything is a click
		
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			away.
		
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			And there you need to train yourself for
		
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			10, 20 years until your soul is pure
		
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			enough to meet Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			in this life.
		
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			We are hidden.
		
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			Our soul is hidden behind the dust or
		
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			under the dust of sins.
		
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			We need to wash it.
		
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			We need to get rid of it.
		
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			Because Allah is always close to us.
		
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			He's never far away.
		
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			We are far from Him.
		
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			And if we were to get rid of
		
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			our sins, we would find Him there where
		
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			He always was.
		
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			Nearby.
		
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			He's not veiled.
		
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			What is big enough to veil Him?
		
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			He's not veiled.
		
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			We are.
		
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			He's as obvious as He always was.
		
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			You see?
		
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			So the way to Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala is a beautiful one, but it is
		
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			in need of patience.
		
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			Of suffering.
		
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			Suffering, I don't mean that you have to
		
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			go home.
		
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			You take a whip and you hit yourself.
		
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			This is not allowed in Islam.
		
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			But when I say suffering, it just means
		
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			like sometimes waking up when others are asleep.
		
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			Sometimes posing your favourite.
		
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			Now people can pose things.
		
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			They say, Bro Shaykh, you know my international
		
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			soccer team is playing the World Cup today.
		
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			I would like to watch it live.
		
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			But it's around Fajr and I'm afraid to
		
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			miss it.
		
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			Can I?
		
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			Oh, they said no.
		
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			Sorry, they said Maghrib.
		
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			Can I join my prayers?
		
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			Can I join my prayers?
		
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			I said, pose it.
		
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			He said, watching it live is not like
		
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			posing it.
		
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			He really said this.
		
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			He said, Shaykh, but when I pray and
		
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			I hear people, you know, shout, I will
		
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			know that their goal that has been made.
		
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			So I will be deconcentrated.
		
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			I say, man, your goal, this is making
		
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			your goal.
		
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			And if you are, ma'am, if you
		
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			are watching telly, the moment that you should
		
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			be praying, I said you're not outside, but
		
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			you're outside.
		
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			You're outside.
		
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			So, this is very important.
		
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			So, the way to Allah Subh'anaHu Wa
		
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			Ta-A'la is a beautiful one, the
		
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			most beautiful.
		
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			And when you reach there, you said, SubhanAllah,
		
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			why have I waited so long?
		
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			Wallahi, we try to look for our happiness
		
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			in everything.
		
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			And we never find this happiness entirely in
		
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			creation.
		
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			Never.
		
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			The one that makes you happy today is
		
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			the one that will make you cry tomorrow.
		
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			The one that promises you the world today
		
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			will be a cheat tomorrow.
		
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			The one that you, you know you sacrificed
		
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			your time for and your money for will
		
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			be the one that slams the door in
		
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			your face the moment he reaches what he
		
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			was looking for through you, using you as
		
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			a trampoline.
		
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			The only one who you will not need
		
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			to fear for doing this is Allah.
		
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			Never breaks his promise.
		
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			When you call him, he will always call
		
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			back.
		
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			He will always answer.
		
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			Phone number, easy.
		
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			244-34.
		
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			244-34.
		
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			You know, you have a direct line.
		
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			Never occupied.
		
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			But we don't use it.
		
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			We call everybody when we are in a
		
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			problem.
		
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			We knock every door.
		
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			Can you help me bro?
		
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			Can you help me out?
		
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			Bro, bro, bro, all bros.
		
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			All of a sudden everybody is bro.
		
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			Come on bro.
		
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			Yesterday you were gossiping about him but now
		
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			you need money bro.
		
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			So now, the thing is, what do you
		
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			show Allah when you ask all the bros?
		
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			And when no bro is there, you say,
		
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			Rabbi, can you help me?
		
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			Was he your last choice?
		
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			Why he should have been your first?
		
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			Maybe that's the reason why he doesn't answer
		
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			us.
		
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			He said, look, you were asking everybody.
		
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			Why you just had to ask me?
		
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			What is wrong with you?
		
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			So he doesn't answer.
		
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			And then we say, yeah, but when I
		
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			ask Allah, it doesn't work.
		
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			It doesn't work.
		
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			Is it like you go to Luna Park
		
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			and you put one pound and all of
		
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			a sudden you drive a car?
		
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			No, it isn't.
		
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			Do we say Luna Park?
		
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			You didn't know what I meant, right?
		
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			Then why did you guys go, yes, Luna
		
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			Park.
		
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			How do you say this here?
		
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			Yes, arcade thing.
		
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			Do we say arcade thing?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So sometimes we think like, okay, you know,
		
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			so anyway, getting to Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala is in need of dedication, but especially
		
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			in need of love.
		
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			You know, love.
		
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			The Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam used to
		
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			ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala very often
		
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			for his love.
		
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			And now when we hear about Islam, it's
		
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			like love hasn't got a place in Islam.
		
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			When you talk about love, okay, he must
		
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			be a Sufi.
		
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			He talks about love.
		
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			That's the first thing they say.
		
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			Like love, okay, Sufi.
		
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			Hate, okay, they say.
		
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			You know, everybody.
		
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			Dawah, oh, tabligh.
		
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			The Salaf as-Saleh, yeah, Salafi.
		
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			You know.
		
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			Yes, and the political situation in England.
		
00:37:30 --> 00:37:31
			Oh, Ikhwani, Tahriri.
		
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			So all of a sudden you can't speak,
		
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			you can't say anything, or you're classified.
		
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			Well, the Messenger sallallahu alaihi wa sallam spoke
		
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			a lot about love.
		
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			And one of the hadith, like in the
		
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			Musnad of Imam Ahmad, the Messenger sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam raising his hands to the sky,
		
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			and saying, Allahumma inni as'aluka hubbak.
		
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			Oh Allah, I beg you, give me your
		
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			love.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			Give me your love.
		
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			Allahumma inni as'aluka hubbak.
		
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			Wa hubba man yuhibbuk.
		
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			And the love of those who love you.
		
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			I want to be beloved by you, and
		
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			be loved by the ones that love you.
		
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			Wa hubb kul amal yukarribuni ila hubbik.
		
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			And I ask you to grant me love
		
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			for every deed that guides me to your
		
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			love.
		
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			Allahumma ja'al hubbaka ahabba ilayya minal ma
		
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			'il baaridi ala dhama.
		
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			And then he said, Oh Allah, make loving
		
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			you more beloved to me than cold water
		
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			running through a dry throat when I'm thirsty.
		
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			You know Ramadan, when you feel it, right?
		
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			That's the only moment when you feel it
		
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			when you drink.
		
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			Like, oh, I have something here, a tube.
		
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			When I drink now, I don't feel anything.
		
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			So he said, Make loving you more beloved
		
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			to me than cold water running through my
		
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			dry, thirsting throat.
		
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			This is what he would...
		
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			Once the messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, was
		
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			talking to someone, and his companion said, I
		
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			love this man.
		
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			He said, did you tell him?
		
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			He said, no.
		
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			He said, tell him.
		
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			Because certainly Allah loves it when you love
		
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			someone, that you tell that person that you
		
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			love him.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			The messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, said, No
		
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			one amongst you will enter Paradise.
		
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			No one amongst you will enter Paradise until
		
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			he's a true believer.
		
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			And he won't be a true believer until
		
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			he loves others.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			So love is very important.
		
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			But what about loving Allah?
		
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			The messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, said, Listen
		
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			carefully.
		
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			In Al-Bukhari, He said, if someone has
		
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			three attributes, then he will taste the sweetness
		
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			of faith.
		
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			Remember?
		
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			One of them, An yakoonallahu wa rasooluhu ahabba
		
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			ilayhi mimma siwahuma.
		
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			That Allah and his messenger are more beloved
		
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			to him than anything apart from them.
		
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			That you love Allah more than anything else.
		
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			It's very hot here, isn't it?
		
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			No, it isn't?
		
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			No, maybe it's cold.
		
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			Yes, I think it's quite hot.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			An yakoonallahu wa rasooluhu ahabba ilayhi mimma siwahuma.
		
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			That Allah and his messenger are more beloved
		
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			to him than anything else.
		
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			That's the first one.
		
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			Then he said, secondly, He said, And that
		
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			someone loves his brother for the sake of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			It can also be a sister.
		
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			That you love someone for Allah's sake.
		
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			Now my question to all of you, what
		
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			does it mean to love someone for Allah?
		
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			We hear this so often.
		
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			Brother, I really love you for Allah.
		
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			What do you mean?
		
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			You know, one of the first things I
		
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			wrote in Arabic after becoming a Muslim was
		
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			when people were asking me, how are you
		
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			doing?
		
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			But nobody was really caring.
		
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			I became Muslim when I was 18.
		
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			And then people would ask me, that was
		
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			at the very beginning of my Islam.
		
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			How are you?
		
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			Everything is not really good.
		
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			No problem, Allah will take care of you.
		
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			Okay, thank you.
		
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			And at the end, I hated people to
		
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			ask me how I was doing.
		
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			Because I really felt it was very hypocrite
		
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			to do this without any follow-up.
		
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			And this happened especially after two things when
		
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			I wrote this kind of poem in Arabic.
		
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			My Arabic wasn't that strong then.
		
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			So the first one was, when I came
		
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			back from Sudan, we were praying on concrete.
		
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			There were no rugs and everything on concrete.
		
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			So I had a quite big mark of
		
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			sujood.
		
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			Not because I was praying a lot and
		
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			I was very pious.
		
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			It was just concrete.
		
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			And I used to pray behind imams that
		
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			love to pray for a long time.
		
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			Like sujoods of half an hour.
		
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			So I came back and it was really
		
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			big.
		
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			Normally you have this when you become an
		
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			uncle.
		
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			Figuratively speaking.
		
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			When you become older, 70, 60, you have
		
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			this due to always putting your front on
		
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			the floor.
		
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			So now, the first thing was, this man
		
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			coming up to me and he said, I
		
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			would like to give you some advice.
		
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			I said, yes.
		
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			Do you know that some people, they rub
		
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			their front over the floor so that they
		
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			would appear pious.
		
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			Naive as I was, I didn't even think
		
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			that he was talking about me.
		
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			So I said, yes, subhanAllah.
		
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			I said, yes, this is really terrible.
		
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			And some people do this when they convert
		
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			to Islam to be accepted much quicker.
		
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			Then I said, okay.
		
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			I said, you mean this?
		
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			I don't want to hurt your feelings.
		
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			He just did.
		
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			I don't want to hurt your feelings.
		
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			And then anyway, then he said, I really
		
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			give you the advice, stop rubbing your front.
		
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			And this and that.
		
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			So I said, I don't do it.
		
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			He said, just acknowledge, do tawbah.
		
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			I said, muhim.
		
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			That was in the first month after my
		
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			Islam.
		
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			Then the second thing, when I came back
		
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			from Sudan, alhamdulillah, where I went to memorize
		
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			the Qur'an, in the desert of Sudan,
		
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			I came back.
		
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			One day the Imam was absent.
		
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			And I was the one that memorized the
		
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			most Qur'an.
		
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			So some of the people said, go ahead
		
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			and pray.
		
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			But I felt like this is going to
		
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			be a fitna.
		
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			A convert has not been a Muslim for
		
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			a year.
		
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			Standing in front of people to lead them
		
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			in prayer.
		
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			I didn't feel it very good at that
		
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			time.
		
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			But anyway, the moment I stepped forward, some
		
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			people started shouting in the mosque, we're not
		
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			going to pray behind someone who was a
		
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			kafir yesterday.
		
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			Yes, that's true.
		
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			So I was really hurt.
		
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			And to be quite frank, I had some
		
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			tears flowing over my face.
		
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			I was like, what's going on here?
		
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			And then with Asr, I came back.
		
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			And then one of the trustees stood up.
		
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			And I thought he was going to stand
		
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			up for me.
		
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			So I said, some people provoke fitna in
		
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			the mosque.
		
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			And he myself said, yes, you know, he's
		
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			going to speak out.
		
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			And he said, they want to impress others.
		
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			And they want to give them the impression
		
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			that they are scholars.
		
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			And they put themselves in position that do...
		
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			Okay, okay, khalas.
		
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			And then they kicked me out of the
		
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			mosque.
		
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			So this is when I wrote my poem.
		
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			But my Arabic wasn't very good at that
		
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			time.
		
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			But I still, you know, mention it sometimes.
		
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			And then when people used to ask me,
		
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			how are you?
		
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			I would say, لا تسأل عن حالي إلا
		
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			وأنت مخلص فإن سألت علمت وإن علمت وما
		
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			عملت فيوم القيامة حسبت وليس بعد الحساب إلا
		
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			جنة أو نارا Which means, do not ask
		
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			how I am.
		
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			Unless you are sincere.
		
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			Because if you ask, you know.
		
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			And if you know and you don't act
		
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			upon what you know, you will have your
		
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			حساب يوم القيامة and after your حساب there's
		
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			only جنة أو نار So this would be
		
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			my reply when someone would ask me, how
		
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			are you?
		
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			So then they would be astonished and they
		
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			would feel bad.
		
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			But it didn't change anything.
		
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			الحمد لله How did I get into this
		
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			story anyway?
		
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			So yes, the love for Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			What is loving for Allah?
		
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			This is my question.
		
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			What does it mean when someone says I
		
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			love you for Allah?
		
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			Look, love can be expressed in two ways.
		
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			In a feeling and in an action.
		
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			Remember?
		
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			An action is, if you hit someone, you
		
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			can't say I love you.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You give someone a flower, say I love
		
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			you.
		
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			So the love we are talking about is
		
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			not always the emotion.
		
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			It is rather to put this person in
		
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			front of you at rest.
		
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			That the only way that you will treat
		
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			him will be within the boundaries of what
		
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			Allah loves.
		
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			That you will give him or her his
		
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			rights, that you will not transgress and that
		
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			you will let fiqh rule between you if
		
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			there are mutual disputes.
		
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			So loving for Allah is not as much
		
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			a feeling as it is an action.
		
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			And this is where we go wrong.
		
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			People say I love you for Allah, but
		
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			they wrong you.
		
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			They don't love you for Allah.
		
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			Say yeah, but I feel love for you.
		
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			Action.
		
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			This is loving for Allah.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So that's important.
		
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			That the love for Allah is a framework
		
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			wherein we will communicate and live with people.
		
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			Our interactions will be with justice and not
		
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			with oppression.
		
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			Is this clear?
		
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			So loving for Allah, this is what it
		
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			means.
		
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			That your love for yourself will not allow
		
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			you to take away his right upon you.
		
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			You will give it even if it goes
		
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			against you.
		
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			This is loving for Allah.
		
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			Your love for Allah is stronger than your
		
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			love for your own ego.
		
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			So when you're wrong, you're wrong.
		
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			That's loving for Allah.
		
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			And this is why the Messenger of Allah
		
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			said He said the strongest connection of faith.
		
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			How do you call a chain that is
		
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			like this?
		
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			How do you call these things?
		
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			We just say links?
		
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			He said the strongest link of faith is
		
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			loving for Allah.
		
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			Because then you will never wrong someone.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			And what is hating and despising for Allah?
		
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			Same thing.
		
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			Is that when someone wrongs you, you will
		
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			only go by what Allah has allowed you.
		
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			And this is why Imam Zahabi when he
		
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			said sometimes you need to talk about someone.
		
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			Like you're at your job and there is
		
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			a board meeting and you need to talk
		
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			about the employees.
		
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			So you might have to say something which
		
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			isn't that good, is it?
		
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			Like sometimes he's too late, he gets angry
		
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			quite quickly.
		
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			Also when you're a teacher at school, you
		
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			sit in a gathering, you have to mention
		
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			a student.
		
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			This isn't gossip.
		
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			But it can be.
		
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			When?
		
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			Well Imam Zahabi says when talking negatively about
		
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			someone, if one word suffices to show what
		
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			you mean, then the second word is haram.
		
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			You see this?
		
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			Like I can say the brother is late.
		
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			The brother is very often too late.
		
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			The brother is always too late.
		
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			The brother is never on time.
		
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			Well, you will be judged.
		
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			So even the way that you describe something,
		
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			it should be with adal, it should be
		
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			with justice.
		
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			Is this clear?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Are there any questions about what I have
		
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			said?
		
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			Please, please ask questions.
		
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			No questions?
		
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			Leith has questions?
		
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			No?
		
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			No one?
		
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			Yes?
		
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			It's not a question about
		
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			the path of God, but I want to
		
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			know that in something, if God would not
		
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			have told something, then it wouldn't even be
		
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			punished.
		
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			None.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Is there anything within the system of how
		
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			children are taught that love as well as
		
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			loving God?
		
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			I entirely agree.
		
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			I agree with you.
		
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			Children should be taught love rather than fear.
		
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			Fear is for the sinners.
		
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			Love is for the worshippers.
		
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			So a child doesn't have to be inspired
		
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			with fear.
		
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			It should be taught how to love Allah
		
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			and why.
		
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			And the moment a child at a certain
		
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			age would sin, then you can also...
		
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			And also, what is fearing Allah?
		
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			This is also very important.
		
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			Do we fear Allah because of Allah, or
		
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			do we fear Allah's justice?
		
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			We fear Allah's justice.
		
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			What do I mean?
		
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			If I don't do anything wrong, I don't
		
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			have to fear.
		
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			I fear the consequences of my sins because
		
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			Allah can punish me for this.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			So Allah is our object of love, and
		
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			our sin is the reason why we fear
		
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			Allah's justice.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			So this is very important.
		
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			So we see that the Messenger of Allah,
		
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			when he used to educate his companions, especially
		
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			the younger ones, he would be very gentle
		
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			and loving and caring.
		
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			Very.
		
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			Like if you look at the amount of
		
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			love that he was giving.
		
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			Like for example now, if you pray, like
		
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			you pray Salatul Maghrib, and there's a child
		
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			crying or running around, raising its voice, believe
		
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			me, the first thing that everybody, or almost
		
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			everybody in the mosque will do, is turn
		
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			around.
		
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			Who is this child?
		
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			Not only who is this child, whose child
		
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			is this?
		
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			You know?
		
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			So the father is like, don't come now,
		
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			don't come now.
		
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			He will be happy when everybody prays his
		
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			Sunnah.
		
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			So, I mean, the Prophet A.S. used
		
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			to hang dates at the level of children
		
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			in the mosque.
		
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			Dates.
		
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			So that they could come into the mosque,
		
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			you know, grab some dates, they would play,
		
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			subhanAllah, they would horseback ride the back of
		
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			the Prophet A.S. while he was in
		
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			sujood.
		
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			He would perform sujood, and then Hasan and
		
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			Hussain would climb on his back, play, and
		
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			then he would stay in sujood for a
		
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			long time.
		
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			And then the Sahaba, they lift their faces,
		
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			they said like, did he die in sujood?
		
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			Because he was staying for so long in
		
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			sujood.
		
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			And then after the Salat, he said, you
		
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			know, they were having fun, and I didn't
		
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			want to ruin their pleasure.
		
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			I didn't want to ruin it.
		
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			Meaning that even though he was connected to
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, very often we
		
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			claim, we claim to be very pious, we
		
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			hear everything when we pray.
		
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			And then your phone rang.
		
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			Oh subhanAllah, I didn't know, I was somewhere
		
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			else.
		
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			SubhanAllah, the Prophet A.S., he heard these
		
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			children cry, for example.
		
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			He said, I wanted to prolong my prayer,
		
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			but I shortened my prayer, meaning the time
		
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			of my prayer, because I heard a child
		
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			cry.
		
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			And I know how difficult it is upon
		
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			its mother to hear it cry.
		
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			So the mosque was filled with children.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			The Prophet A.S. was on the minbar,
		
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			and Hassan and Hussain passed, his two grandsons.
		
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			Imagine me doing this, like a lathe running
		
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			in front of me, and all of a
		
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			sudden I get off, I unplug the mic,
		
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			I get off, take my boy up, Hi
		
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			Habibi, how are you, everything okay?
		
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			People would look at me, what is this
		
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			crazy Imam doing?
		
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			Well, the crazy Imam is putting the Sunnah
		
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			into practice.
		
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			That's what the crazy Imam is doing.
		
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			So, he would take them, here and here,
		
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			he would kiss them, and then he would
		
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			say, how much do I love them, I
		
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			couldn't resist.
		
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			Can you see this?
		
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			I couldn't resist from, you know, we say,
		
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			hugging them.
		
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			I couldn't, you know, stop.
		
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			And then he would give the khutbah with
		
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			his grandsons in his arms.
		
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			Was this only with his grandsons?
		
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			No, with his granddaughter as well.
		
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			Like Umayma, Umayma is the small, how do
		
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			you call that?
		
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			diminutive?
		
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			Yes, diminutive.
		
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			Do I say it correctly?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So, he would take his granddaughter, put her
		
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			on his shoulders, in the midst of a
		
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			macho culture.
		
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			I mean, these people, ten years earlier, they
		
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			would bury their daughters alive.
		
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			And now you have this Prophet, alayhis salatu
		
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			was salam, carrying his granddaughter on his shoulders,
		
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			during the prayer.
		
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			The most high thing one can do is
		
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			praying for Allah, being an Imam, and then
		
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			saying, the place of a little girl is
		
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			not under my feet, it's under the soil,
		
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			but it's on my shoulders while I talk
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			It's the same way.
		
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			If you would say, where would you expect
		
00:55:16 --> 00:55:17
			a Prophet to die?
		
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			You would say in sujood, while praying.
		
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			He died in the arms of his wife.
		
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			He died in the arms of his wife.
		
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			So that everybody would know what the position
		
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			of a woman is.
		
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			He didn't die in sujood, he died while
		
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			he was with his noble face, you know,
		
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			in the arms of his wife.
		
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			And she was always boasting with this.
		
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			She said, he left the dunya in my
		
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			arms.
		
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			She left dunya in my arms.
		
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			You see?
		
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			So, Allah.
		
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			This was the mosque.
		
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			Even if there was one of these small
		
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			sahaba, he would always make jokes in the
		
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			mosque.
		
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			And sometimes, he was young.
		
00:56:04 --> 00:56:07
			There were pillars, and then he would tie
		
00:56:07 --> 00:56:10
			small ropes so that people would fall over.
		
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			This was what he used to do.
		
00:56:12 --> 00:56:15
			And then Uthman would run behind him.
		
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			And then he was too fast.
		
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			Do you know that the hadith where the
		
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			messenger of Allah said, do not frighten your
		
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			Muslim brothers.
		
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			Why was this?
		
00:56:22 --> 00:56:22
			Out of the nothing?
		
00:56:23 --> 00:56:23
			Out of the blue?
		
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			No.
		
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			For this companion.
		
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			Because he would jump.
		
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			Imagine, you know, 11 years old, jumping behind
		
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			a curtain in front of an uncle, like
		
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			this.
		
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			You know?
		
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			So, he would say, don't frighten.
		
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			Don't frighten them.
		
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			Please, make jokes, but don't give them a
		
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			heart attack.
		
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			So, many of these hadith, when you look
		
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			at the messenger of Allah, after fajr, what
		
00:56:48 --> 00:56:49
			would he do?
		
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			He would turn around to his companions, he
		
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			would do his dhikr.
		
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			Imagine this.
		
00:56:53 --> 00:56:55
			The sun rise behind him, right?
		
00:56:55 --> 00:56:57
			Because you pray in this act.
		
00:56:57 --> 00:56:59
			So, you would have the sun rising with
		
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			all these beautiful colours.
		
00:57:00 --> 00:57:02
			You would smell his perfume.
		
00:57:02 --> 00:57:05
			His perfume beard with natural oil.
		
00:57:06 --> 00:57:08
			Aisha, when he would go out of the
		
00:57:08 --> 00:57:10
			mosque for prayer, she would follow him with
		
00:57:10 --> 00:57:11
			some oil and she would go like this.
		
00:57:12 --> 00:57:14
			Sometimes they would compete, the first one to
		
00:57:14 --> 00:57:14
			the door.
		
00:57:15 --> 00:57:17
			The Prophet, they would compete.
		
00:57:18 --> 00:57:19
			The first one to reach the door.
		
00:57:19 --> 00:57:21
			And when he wanted to get out, Aisha
		
00:57:21 --> 00:57:22
			would stand in front of the door.
		
00:57:22 --> 00:57:23
			And he had to try to pass.
		
00:57:24 --> 00:57:28
			So anyway, so now, the Prophet would sit
		
00:57:28 --> 00:57:30
			there with his beautiful clothes, his nice hair,
		
00:57:31 --> 00:57:33
			his turban, perfume.
		
00:57:33 --> 00:57:34
			And he would do his dhikr and look
		
00:57:34 --> 00:57:36
			at his companions with a smile.
		
00:57:37 --> 00:57:39
			And what were they talking about?
		
00:57:40 --> 00:57:44
			Were they always talking about what has Allah
		
00:57:44 --> 00:57:45
			said, what has the Prophet said?
		
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			They would live it.
		
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			They wouldn't talk it.
		
00:57:49 --> 00:57:51
			We talk it, but we don't live it.
		
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			They would walk the walk before they talk
		
00:57:54 --> 00:57:55
			the talk, and we talk the talk and
		
00:57:55 --> 00:57:56
			we don't walk the walk.
		
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			So they would sit there and then they
		
00:57:59 --> 00:58:01
			would talk about their jahiliyyah, how they used
		
00:58:01 --> 00:58:03
			to be and what they used to do.
		
00:58:04 --> 00:58:06
			And then they would start a, how do
		
00:58:06 --> 00:58:07
			you call, a fruit peel fight.
		
00:58:08 --> 00:58:10
			They would peel fruits, eat it, and with
		
00:58:10 --> 00:58:12
			the remainders, they would just throw it at
		
00:58:12 --> 00:58:13
			each other in the mosque.
		
00:58:14 --> 00:58:15
			Rub it in each other's faces.
		
00:58:16 --> 00:58:20
			And the Prophet, then just used to look
		
00:58:20 --> 00:58:22
			at them until his dhikr was finished, and
		
00:58:22 --> 00:58:25
			then he would say, stop, who amongst you
		
00:58:25 --> 00:58:26
			had a dream tonight?
		
00:58:27 --> 00:58:29
			And then they would stop with their faces
		
00:58:29 --> 00:58:32
			full of fruit and I don't know what.
		
00:58:32 --> 00:58:34
			You know, we can't imagine this, can we?
		
00:58:34 --> 00:58:37
			Then they would sit and then everybody would
		
00:58:37 --> 00:58:39
			tell the Messenger of Allah, what they had
		
00:58:39 --> 00:58:40
			dreamt of.
		
00:58:40 --> 00:58:42
			And then he would explain their dreams.
		
00:58:43 --> 00:58:44
			This was the mosque.
		
00:58:44 --> 00:58:47
			This was what formed these people.
		
00:58:49 --> 00:58:53
			Love, beauty in every aspect and dimension of
		
00:58:53 --> 00:58:54
			their lives.
		
00:58:55 --> 00:58:57
			And this is why people today, they don't
		
00:58:57 --> 00:58:59
			find love, they don't find, not everywhere, mashallah,
		
00:58:59 --> 00:59:00
			this is a good mosque here.
		
00:59:01 --> 00:59:03
			So, but people, they look for this love,
		
00:59:03 --> 00:59:06
			they look for joy and happiness and pleasure,
		
00:59:07 --> 00:59:08
			but usually they don't find it.
		
00:59:09 --> 00:59:12
			So if we are able to re-establish
		
00:59:12 --> 00:59:19
			this kind of subhanallah atmosphere in mosques, wallahi,
		
00:59:19 --> 00:59:20
			people would come.
		
00:59:22 --> 00:59:24
			Now, most of the time, shh, don't talk,
		
00:59:24 --> 00:59:24
			don't speak, no, no.
		
00:59:25 --> 00:59:26
			Child, oh, a child.
		
00:59:28 --> 00:59:29
			Child, so what?
		
00:59:30 --> 00:59:30
			Allah.
		
00:59:31 --> 00:59:32
			Okay.
		
00:59:32 --> 00:59:33
			Do we have any questions?
		
00:59:35 --> 00:59:37
			We still have five minutes, then it's...
		
00:59:38 --> 00:59:38
			Yes?
		
00:59:46 --> 00:59:48
			Oh yes, and the last one is that's
		
00:59:48 --> 00:59:50
			the hadith of Al-Bukhari and that one
		
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			despises to be, to go back to kufr
		
00:59:54 --> 00:59:57
			after Allah has saved him or her from
		
00:59:57 --> 01:00:07
			kufr with the same amount of, subhanallah,
		
01:00:08 --> 01:00:10
			I'm trying to find the right word, I'm
		
01:00:10 --> 01:00:13
			not an English native speaker, sometimes I try,
		
01:00:13 --> 01:00:14
			I do my best.
		
01:00:15 --> 01:00:18
			So that one dislikes to go back to
		
01:00:18 --> 01:00:20
			kufr after that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
01:00:20 --> 01:00:23
			saved him from kufr with the same strength
		
01:00:23 --> 01:00:25
			that he would dislike to be thrown into
		
01:00:25 --> 01:00:26
			hellfire on the day of judgement.
		
01:00:27 --> 01:00:28
			With this strength.
		
01:00:31 --> 01:00:34
			So if one has these three things, loving
		
01:00:34 --> 01:00:36
			Allah and his messenger more than anything else,
		
01:00:36 --> 01:00:39
			alayhis salatu was salam, loving someone for Allah,
		
01:00:39 --> 01:00:42
			we now know what it means, and despising
		
01:00:42 --> 01:00:44
			to go back to kufr or back to
		
01:00:44 --> 01:00:47
			sin after Allah has saved you from it,
		
01:00:47 --> 01:00:49
			then you will taste the sweetness of faith.
		
01:00:50 --> 01:00:52
			And as we said in one of our
		
01:00:52 --> 01:00:55
			previous talks, is that the sweetness of faith
		
01:00:55 --> 01:01:00
			can be tasted with the soul exactly like
		
01:01:00 --> 01:01:02
			the sweetness of food can be tasted with
		
01:01:02 --> 01:01:02
			the tongue.
		
01:01:04 --> 01:01:09
			And that's the point where you say if
		
01:01:09 --> 01:01:11
			this would be the state, the inner state
		
01:01:11 --> 01:01:12
			of the people of Jannah, it would be
		
01:01:12 --> 01:01:13
			sufficient.
		
01:01:15 --> 01:01:17
			Some people with their soul, they have this
		
01:01:17 --> 01:01:18
			feeling.
		
01:01:18 --> 01:01:20
			It's like they're already in Jannah, the only
		
01:01:20 --> 01:01:22
			thing that needs to be done now is
		
01:01:22 --> 01:01:27
			for their mortal bodies to be transformed into
		
01:01:27 --> 01:01:28
			eternal ones.
		
01:01:29 --> 01:01:31
			But they don't need paradise to be close
		
01:01:31 --> 01:01:32
			to Allah.
		
01:01:33 --> 01:01:35
			They are not limited nor restricted.
		
01:01:37 --> 01:01:39
			They want to be with Allah subhanahu wa
		
01:01:39 --> 01:01:42
			ta'ala in every state that they are
		
01:01:42 --> 01:01:43
			in without regards.
		
01:01:44 --> 01:01:47
			And of course this is never a physical
		
01:01:47 --> 01:01:47
			nearness.
		
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			This is important to know.
		
01:01:50 --> 01:01:52
			Did you grasp the last sentence?
		
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			Their souls are ready.
		
01:01:57 --> 01:01:57
			They're ready.
		
01:01:58 --> 01:01:59
			They're detached.
		
01:01:59 --> 01:02:02
			And this is why they say a true
		
01:02:02 --> 01:02:09
			a true muhsin, a true believer has no
		
01:02:09 --> 01:02:10
			dunya and no akhirah.
		
01:02:12 --> 01:02:14
			His dunya is for his akhirah.
		
01:02:15 --> 01:02:17
			And his akhirah has no share in it.
		
01:02:17 --> 01:02:18
			It's to be with Allah.
		
01:02:19 --> 01:02:21
			He doesn't think about castles and rivers and
		
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			he thinks Jannah is just a door closer
		
01:02:25 --> 01:02:25
			to Allah.
		
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			Done.
		
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			Allahu akbar.
		
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			Do you have any questions?
		
01:02:34 --> 01:02:36
			Okay, then I have questions.
		
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			What did you get out of what has
		
01:02:39 --> 01:02:41
			been said today for yourself?
		
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			One.
		
01:02:43 --> 01:02:47
			Everybody has to mention one point.
		
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			Yes.
		
01:02:56 --> 01:02:57
			That's one.
		
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			Two.
		
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			The highest level is mushahada.
		
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			Three.
		
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			Four.
		
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			Here.
		
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			Don't put yourself first.
		
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			Where did you get that from?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Sometimes you have to do exactly that which
		
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			you do not like to do.
		
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			Just because it's haqq.
		
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			People will declare you to be a fool
		
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			or to be out of your mind.
		
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			But the only thing that you are doing
		
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			is following the haqq.
		
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			None.
		
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			What else?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Because one is nourished by the ego and
		
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			the other one by weakness.
		
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			None.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			But as we said...
		
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			The way...
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			None.
		
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			You are right.
		
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			This is why some of the usooliyoon, of
		
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			the people of usool fiqh, they say in
		
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			reality there are only commands.
		
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			Like even saying that something is forbidden is
		
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			also a command.
		
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			The command of not doing it.
		
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			None.
		
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			So, this is what they would say, but
		
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			they philosophize about it.
		
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			And they try to trace it back to
		
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			the very beginning.
		
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			And also to the feeling which usually occurs
		
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			when you don't have to do something, you
		
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			will try to hide it.
		
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			And when you are commanded not to do
		
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			something, you say, I don't care.
		
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			So it's very often that feeling that goes
		
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			with it.
		
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			But if we really trace it back then
		
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			it would be as you say.
		
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			Like everything is in reality a command.
		
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			None.
		
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			And all are bad.
		
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			And this is why Imam Al-Haytami, says
		
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			in his book Al-Zawajir Al-Kabair, he
		
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			said that we don't look at the sin
		
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			but at the one that we are obedient
		
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			to.
		
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			And then everything, every sin is big.
		
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			There is no small sin.
		
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			Because every disobedience to Allah is something terrible.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			You?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			No problem.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			No.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			True.
		
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			Today the young people are majority here.
		
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			1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6.
		
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			Next to you.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Mashallah.
		
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			Nice.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Good.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			No.
		
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			It's not about the children screaming.
		
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			Some say that mosques will become places of
		
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			dispute.
		
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			And where people, and disagreement.
		
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			And this is very often what happens.
		
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			Sometimes people even get angry because the Imam
		
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			read for too long.
		
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			Or his sujood was not long enough.
		
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			You know.
		
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			So yes.
		
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			So it means, it's actually referring to that
		
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			a mosque will become a place of dispute.
		
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			Others say it will become a place where
		
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			people will buy and sell.
		
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			Buying and selling is not allowed in a
		
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			mosque.
		
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			Buying and selling, writing down contracts and so
		
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			forth.
		
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			It goes as far as the Messenger ﷺ
		
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			telling a man who came into the mosque
		
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			and saying, who has found my camel?
		
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			And then the Prophet ﷺ said, may Allah
		
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			not give back your camel.
		
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			This was a way to educate him because
		
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			at the end they say that it is
		
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			a way of putting something and not a
		
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			dua for him not to find his camel.
		
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			It was just to show the people that
		
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			this is not a place where you ask
		
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			for dunya.
		
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			No.
		
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			Someone?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			That's a hard one, isn't it?
		
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			And if you love someone, and also that
		
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			the most important thing is not to love
		
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			but to be loved by your beloved one.
		
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			Otherwise you die.
		
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			Emotionally.
		
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			What else?
		
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			Yalla.
		
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			This is the last class.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Well, the things I've mentioned.
		
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			Hang some dates.
		
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			Activities.
		
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			Yes, like you are doing.
		
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			Like in the mosque, alhamdulillah, there are a
		
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			lot of activities.
		
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			The only people we're missing out on are
		
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			these guys.
		
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			Like, you know, football teams, soccer teams, American
		
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			football teams, you know.
		
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			But not at a low level.
		
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			Very often these football teams they don't get
		
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			very far.
		
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			What we want is really like these people
		
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			that set an example and that, you know,
		
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			can grow and do these kind of things.
		
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			Like, people should also know that being a
		
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			Muslim is not always talking about Islam.
		
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			And this is like, today we have the
		
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			feeling like, if I don't talk about Islam,
		
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			I'm not being a good Muslim.
		
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			No, it is if you do haram, you're
		
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			not a good Muslim.
		
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			If you don't do what you have to
		
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			do, you're not a good Muslim.
		
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			But apart from that, do you really think
		
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			that the Prophet Isa never spoke about things
		
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			and he used to wrestle, he used to
		
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			sprint with his wife.
		
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			You know the hadith?
		
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			He told his companions, you know, go a
		
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			bit further, and they would run against him.
		
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			You know, he would make jokes.
		
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			You can find a chapter of the jokes
		
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			of the Messenger ﷺ.
		
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			He used to wrestle with a Christian man.
		
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			You know, with a Christian, he used to
		
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			wrestle.
		
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			So, I mean, there was a lot of
		
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			joy.
		
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			And today it's like, if you want to
		
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			be a true believer, you need to be
		
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			sad, you need to be afraid, almost desperate.
		
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			Like, I'm going to be punished.
		
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			SubhanAllah, this is when you sin, this is
		
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			how you feel.
		
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			Then you do tawbah, you get back.
		
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			But never in the Qur'an being sad
		
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			has been a merit, mentioned as a merit.
		
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			Never.
		
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			Allah rather says, قُلْ بِفَضْلِ اللَّهِ وَبِرَحْمَتِهِ فَبِذَٰرِكَ
		
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			فَلْيَفْرَحُوا He says, let them be happy with
		
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			the favors of Allah and His mercy.
		
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			And when it comes down to sadness, Allah
		
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			says, وَلَا تَهِنُوا وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا Do not be
		
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			weak and don't be sad.
		
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			Allah says, and you know, He refers to
		
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			a certain deed, and then He says, this
		
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			is from the Shaytan, لِيَحْزُنَ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا So
		
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			that the believers would be sad.
		
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			The Messenger ﷺ used to ask for happiness
		
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			and used to seek refuge against sadness.
		
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			Oh Allah, I seek refuge with you against
		
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			sadness.
		
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			So some people think that being pious is
		
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			equal to this.
		
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			I'm sorry.
		
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			I mean, this is not how I understand
		
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			being pious.
		
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			They, subhanAllah.
		
01:12:16 --> 01:12:18
			The Prophet ﷺ said, a smile is a
		
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			sadaqah.
		
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			A smile can save you from *.
		
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			So, anyway, that's how I see it.
		
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			I want to see happy Muslims.
		
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			Some Muslims, am I going on for too
		
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			long now?
		
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			Yeah, okay.
		
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			You really bring me a nice coffee.
		
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			Because with your coffee I could go on
		
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			for hours.
		
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			No, no.
		
01:12:45 --> 01:12:45
			Yeah.
		
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			Due to the coffee, I forgot what I
		
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			wanted to say.
		
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			So, happy Muslims.
		
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			Some people, some Muslims feel guilty.
		
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			They say, how can I be happy when
		
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			people suffer?
		
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			This is a question.
		
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			Well, by we need to doze everything, don't
		
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			we?
		
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			Like, what I really hate, and I don't
		
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			use the word hate very often, is people
		
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			talking all the time about people that suffer.
		
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			Like, oh poor people, oh poor people, oh
		
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			poor people.
		
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			But if you would ask them, do you
		
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			put your alarm clock at two at night
		
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			to wake up and make dua for these
		
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			people?
		
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			When you are alone, do you cry for
		
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			these people?
		
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			If you don't, don't talk.
		
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			Remember, we need to walk the walk before
		
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			we talk the talk.
		
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			That's very important.
		
01:13:39 --> 01:13:41
			If we talk and we talk and we
		
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			don't do anything, this is a sign of
		
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			hypocrisy.
		
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			So it's better not to talk and to
		
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			work on yourself until you become and set
		
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			an example, not through your words, but through
		
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			your deeds.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
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			Yes, exactly.
		
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			So yes, we feel bad for what happens
		
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			in the world.
		
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			But on the other hand, sometimes it turns
		
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			us into ungrateful people that we can't enjoy
		
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			the blessings that Allah gave us.
		
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			And He gave us these blessings and the
		
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			Messenger of Allah said Allah loves to see
		
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			the blessings in the life of the servant
		
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			upon whom He bestowed the blessings.
		
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			He likes you to enjoy it.
		
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			He likes you to have this.
		
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			And there is a time for this and
		
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			a time for that.
		
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			Be sad in your prayer.
		
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			If you really feel bad for the orphans
		
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			of Syria, the orphans of Palestine, the orphans,
		
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			non-Muslim orphans in Africa, whatever, then, you
		
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			know, either you help with some money, either
		
01:14:43 --> 01:14:45
			once a year you go to the green
		
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			zone, not to the war zone, where you
		
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			can help the fugitives.
		
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			You are going to feed them, you're going
		
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			to help them.
		
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			If you really want to help them, you
		
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			know, go for a counselling training.
		
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			You know, you become a counsellor.
		
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			Within two years, you go to these areas,
		
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			the fugitive camps, you help people to get
		
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			rid of their traumas.
		
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			Then for me, it really hurts you.
		
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			Do something.
		
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			Don't talk.
		
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			Is that clear?
		
01:15:14 --> 01:15:16
			So, we need to dose everything correctly.
		
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			And we shouldn't feel guilty either to enjoy
		
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			our blessings.
		
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			We should feel guilty if we don't share
		
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			our blessings.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			The last thing I want to say, before
		
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			I answer your question, is, you know, it
		
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			really hurts you, right?
		
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			One of the things you can do is
		
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			go home, take your most beloved shoes, your
		
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			most beloved trousers, your most beloved jacket, your
		
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			most beloved watch, if you have two, take
		
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			off everything that which you love most, and
		
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			send it, give it away to people who
		
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			are in need.
		
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			Just this alone drives people crazy in their
		
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			head.
		
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			Now, some of the people might have things
		
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			going through their, oh no, I'm not going
		
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			that way.
		
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			These shoes, these Jordans.
		
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			No, no.
		
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			So, I mean, talking is easy.
		
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			But Allah says, you will not attain righteousness.
		
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			Climb up to the climax of being good
		
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			and having virtues until you give away that
		
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			which you love.
		
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			Your most beloved pair of shoes, jacket, trousers,
		
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			shirt, and if you have two phones, your
		
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			most beloved phone, whatever.
		
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			How difficult is this already, really?
		
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			You might already feel it now.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			Yes, that's it inshallah for today.
		
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			Last question.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			By not taking creation into account, nor the
		
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			expectations of creation, nor the judgement of creation,
		
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			if you know that you are living up
		
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			to Allah's criteria.
		
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			Listening to people, or their judgement, or their
		
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			living up to their expectations, will always fool
		
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			us.
		
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			But our correct understanding of what Allah wants,
		
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			will not.
		
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			So if one knows, this is the path
		
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			I want to follow, this is my maximum,
		
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			this is what I can do, then nobody
		
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			should whisper.
		
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			Okay, that's it.
		
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			That was the last class of the names
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			Yes.