Sulaiman Moola – Forgotten Etiquettes #13 – Apologise When You Are Wrong

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The speaker discusses the importance of apologizing for mistakes and slip-ups during negotiations, and how pride keeps people into problems. They also criticize the actions of a member of the military and the use of deadly language during negotiations. The speaker ends by teasing the military's actions and warning of progress being made.

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			Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim as humans we are prone to error. We are weak, we are feeble, we are
fallible. There's no doubt that we do slip up in our arrangements in our agreements, provided we are
not deliberate in violating we are not malicious. We are nasty. We are not obnoxious, but mistakes
and slip ups happen to the best amongst us. The key thing is when we do slip up, do we have the
courage and the confidence to apologize and that's the etiquette of today. Well, Eric, devout who
are in the Mohalla fatigue him if you've opposed a senior or you've gone against an agreement, can
you step back and apologize? In English they say anger gets us into problems, but pride keeps us
		
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			there. Because of our pride. We cannot apologize how many and arguments would be quelled? If we have
the courage of picking up the phone and apologizing road rage, you stepped onto the wrong lane, just
open your window wave at the other driver and apologize my mistake instead of becoming vulgar and
obscene. So again, we look at the incident of Satan or Musa and Hadith Allah him I mean Allah He has
salatu wa salim
		
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			Javier Alayhis Salam and impressed upon Musa you don't ask me a question till I don't initiate the
discussion. They boarded a boat and they went with these people. When it was the time to disembark
from the boat, have your Alayhis Salam removed a plank from the boat? Musa alayhis salam immediately
objected a karateka ha Little River and aloha. Have you defected the boat to drown the people of
this boat Lukka Jada che and imra you've done something grave and strange and immediately have your
Alayhis Salam reminded him you know what the regulations of enrollment at my institution is that you
don't ask me anything. I don't initiate the discussion. And immediately what was the reaction of
		
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			Musa alayhis salam lead to kidney B mana seat? Please don't hold me accountable. I forgot for
garnethill Hola Amin Musa NIS yah none. The Prophet sallallahu sallam said Sedna, Musa alayhis salam
forgot and he accepted, you know, he apologized. So that's the message today we'll tease out during
the Mohalla for to him to not defend yourself when you know you're wrong. Do not play mind games
when you know you're guilty. Apologize and make progress.