Sulaiman Moola – Forgotten Etiquettes – 01 Mannerism

			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim. It is indeed part of the richness of the teachings of Islam and the
pristine teachings of this beautiful religion, that it is a faith governed by values, morals and
etiquettes. And today, unfortunately, this has become so absent and there's such a vacuum in the
lives of people regarding basic etiquettes of life. And hopefully in sha Allah in the series, we're
going to embark on different etiquettes that govern our day to day interaction. So as the opening
remark I say to you, my brother and my sister that hakama and the Halima say, at tarbiyah two and
tarrif metathetical LOM good nurturing and upbringing will teach you when to speak. You could be
		

			articulate, but there's a time to speak. In fact, Ibrahim Bin Adham Rahim Allah said it has
submitted Alhadeff yet Akella Maliki bar I used to Nam In Haiti here. If we had to listen to a young
boy interrupting the discussion of a senior honestly, we would become despondent have a bright
future for him. So the first thing tarbiyah is an tarrif metathetical alum went to speak, while lako
and istemi lemania Tech alum and good character is that you can be attentive. Sometimes the person
doesn't want any counsel. He just wants to offload husband and wife at times. Can you just listen to
each other? So we all want to become good speakers, but are we good listeners are throbbing Raba
		

			hurricane bahala, who was the great African scholar, it is said about him that at times people would
narrate to him an incident and he would listen to it so attentively as though he never heard it.
Whereas he heard it before that man was born. Well, a Flacco and testimony Allemagne Yetta Callum
well Dubow Allah to party Armenia Tech alum and good mannerism is that you do not cut someone when
he's speaking. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not interrupt the villager while he was
passing water and urien in the masjid, how often a person is trying to speak and we abruptly cut him
we don't allow him the opportunity to complete his point or express his argument. And last but not
		

			least, what the car Oh, Allah to suck data Columbian. Yetta Kalam and it is a mark of intelligence
that you do not believe whatever you listen to. So while it is important to afford people, the right
to speak and not to interrupt them and to find the right time when to speak, but that doesn't mean
everything that is told to you, you accept it. May Allah bless us with these beautiful teachings. I
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