Suhaib Webb – Hikam Three Passions Don’t Equal Power

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The speakers discuss the importance of trusting one's actions and beliefs in order to achieve positive outcomes, using examples like the use of Saboni for words that are not understood and the significance of the "monster" in Sawab Zarate's words. They emphasize the need for trusting one's beliefs and allowing their desires to erode one's faith in God. The speakers use a comparison between the "ma'am" and the "monster" to explain the importance of trusting one's actions and beliefs in order to achieve positive outcomes. They also emphasize the need to trust one's beliefs and allow their desires to erode their faith in God.

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			Womani waalaasalamu
		
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			Alaikum, Warahmatullahi
		
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			wa barakatu.
		
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			Welcome to the hikum of Imam ibn
		
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			Ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and
		
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			We
		
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			We ask Allah to grant us truly religious
		
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			upright wisdom. We reach now the 4th hikm,
		
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			and as you recall I said that the
		
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			first 15 hikm
		
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			address things that can come between us and
		
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			God. So the first one is our deeds,
		
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			like how do I understand my deeds? How
		
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			do I understand utility? How do I understand,
		
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			actions in this world, and I don't fall
		
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			into delusion or regret?
		
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			The second is the religious,
		
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			emergent religiosity,
		
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			where I want to pull away from things
		
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			where God has put me, that creates a
		
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			lot of harm in my life and the
		
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			life of others, or I want to over
		
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			furnish myself
		
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			where Allah has sufficed me, that also can
		
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			create harm not only to others around me,
		
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			but my hereafter.
		
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			Both of them. Both of them. So
		
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			don't be extreme in your religion trying to
		
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			go too hard, and the other would be
		
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			like,
		
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			to be rafil.
		
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			Ghafilun an amri, right? To be negligent
		
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			of affairs.
		
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			So between negligence
		
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			and hyper
		
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			irrationality and extremism is the sunnah, is the
		
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			sunnah. And now that takes us to,
		
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			the 4th,
		
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			and that is,
		
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			I'm gonna read it to you and then
		
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			we'll explain it. The sheikh, he says,
		
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			the word,
		
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			you know, Musaabaqa is a race, so sawabeqalhimam
		
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			is
		
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			the
		
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			aspirations
		
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			that I have which are extremely passionate and
		
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			competitive.
		
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			And actually it should be al alhimam asawabik,
		
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			there's a reason he did this in Arabic,
		
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			we'll talk about that in rhetoric.
		
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			Iblafa tasifalmossof,
		
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			it's like really cool why he did this,
		
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			but it's hard for me to explain it
		
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			now. And it'll take us into a different,
		
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			different area that we don't want to go
		
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			at the moment, but just remember this. My
		
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			teacher used to tell me sometimes
		
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			I say things you don't understand, because later
		
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			on in the neighborhood of knowledge, we're gonna
		
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			pass by that house, we're gonna pass by
		
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			that residency, and you'll have a little familiarity
		
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			with it. So remember that Sawabirk Ol Himem
		
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			should be Al Himem As Sawabirk,
		
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			but the sheikh
		
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			is plain in the language.
		
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			And if you think about it, if you're
		
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			Arab, it's interesting he uses sabbik first, and
		
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			then himmam, because Mosabaka means to be first.
		
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			There's a lot happening in the language there.
		
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			The sheikh has bars, mashallah. Fasawabiqulhimam,
		
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			you
		
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			know this passionate,
		
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			passionate drive that you have. La tuqriqul
		
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			aswarul aqdar.
		
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			Cannot pierce, la tuqriq.
		
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			Khara means to pierce like clothing. If I
		
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			rip this clothing, if I rip this shirt
		
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			and there's a hole in it, Uh-uh,
		
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			al Khamisa, like
		
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			I ripped it, right, so I ripped it,
		
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			so
		
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			here he's saying Latuhliq,
		
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			your
		
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			passionate aspirations
		
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			cannot rip open a hole,
		
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			aswar al aqdar,
		
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			in the
		
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			fences and walls
		
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			that surround
		
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			qaba
		
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			and qadr,
		
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			what has been granted to you in this
		
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			life,
		
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			your measurement. Aladiqaad
		
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			Dara Fahada.
		
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			Gubah is the divine decree,
		
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			qadr is the measurement of that decree.
		
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			I will explain, people sometimes misunderstand
		
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			the hadith that dua can change,
		
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			Adr.
		
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			Adr is known
		
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			to Allah, was known to Allah, and will
		
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			always
		
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			be known to Allah. It can change it
		
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			from our perspective,
		
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			but it's known to Allah. Talk about that
		
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			in the future, but here, Sawaybiqulhimami
		
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			latukhriqul
		
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			aswaralaktar
		
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			That your
		
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			passions,
		
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			no matter how, you know,
		
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			how how deep those
		
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			those goals that you have
		
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			are invested and planted in your competitive passion,
		
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			that's not going to pierce the fortress of
		
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			what Allah has decreed for you.
		
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			Man, this is incredible because one of the
		
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			things that comes between us and God, and
		
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			we will never admit it, but our actions,
		
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			to send
		
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			this is that
		
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			sometimes we don't want what God has given
		
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			us.
		
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			In goodness, we've been commanded as we'll talk
		
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			about in the future, if what God has
		
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			given us is bad, or evil, or goes
		
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			against the Sharia, we are commanded to oppose
		
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			that. That's resilience.
		
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			That's resilience.
		
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			We'll talk about that in the future.
		
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			What we're talking about now is,
		
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			in the areas of the permissible,
		
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			in the areas of my life, like I
		
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			want to get into this grad school so
		
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			bad, I work super hard for it, I
		
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			write everything, I do everything, it doesn't happen,
		
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			oh man I'm angry at God. Why are
		
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			you angry at God?
		
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			Or I really wanted to marry this person,
		
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			it didn't work out, like do you think
		
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			God hates me? Why would God hate you?
		
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			Hashtag you ain't that important.
		
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			Or I'm may Allah protect us, I'm sick,
		
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			or I'm struggling, or I have certain issues
		
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			in my life that bother me.
		
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			I allow that to erode
		
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			my faith in God,
		
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			and think about the first hicom,
		
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			mina'aramat,
		
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			i'timad, a'alalamal.
		
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			The sign that you've
		
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			trusted your deeds here, it's minaalamat
		
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			i'timad alalamek.
		
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			So the first dealt with our outward actions,
		
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			and now in the 4th hicom,
		
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			the 3rd hicom, he's talking about resting on
		
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			our emotions.
		
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			You know to be a good Muslim demands
		
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			incredible emotional intelligence,
		
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			because we have to trust that trauma is
		
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			from God. We have to trust that good
		
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			is from God, and we know that it's
		
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			from God, but we trust that there's something
		
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			good there for us. Wa'asa
		
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			Something's good for you, you love it, it's
		
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			bad for you, you hate it, it's good
		
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			for you, Allah knows and you don't know.
		
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			So what he's saying here is, Sawaybiqulhimamlatuhriqul
		
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			aswalaaqdar.
		
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			Don't allow
		
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			your
		
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			your desires, and your aims, and your goals,
		
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			which are rooted in this competitive passion.
		
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			If they don't happen, don't let that frustrate
		
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			you.
		
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			Aqdar, because you don't have the ability to
		
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			do that for yourself.
		
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			Leave it to Allah
		
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			and trust Allah You La Mumani Khalaqa
		
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			Doesn't Allah know better
		
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			his creation than you and I? He created
		
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			us,
		
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			Subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			So there's a lot happening in this Hikmah,
		
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			Hikam, but something that's really beautiful, the Sheykh
		
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			he says, wafihi tashbih al aqdari bi madinah
		
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			lahaaswarung
		
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			fisiyalati
		
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			walhifti ara sibilin Makniya
		
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			We'll learn this in rhetoric, but this is
		
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			a form of comparison called isti'aral Makniya where
		
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			he is making us see the image,
		
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			tajsid al afkar, the goal of rhetoric in
		
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			Arabic oftentimes is what's called tajsid al afkar,
		
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			to give a thought,
		
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			a body, a physical image. So he's saying
		
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			here is,
		
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			if you want to imagine
		
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			your passion,
		
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			and how it's going to impact the outcome
		
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			of things,
		
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			you know what, it's like trying to pierce
		
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			a impenetrable
		
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			fortress,
		
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			and the impenetrable
		
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			forces fortress is what Allah's plan is for
		
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			you. So don't allow your passions,
		
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			if they don't
		
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			materialize
		
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			to cause you to give up.
		
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			Also, if your passions do materialize,
		
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			don't be deceived by that. Very similar to
		
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			the first hicom, the lesson here now is
		
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			internal
		
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			reliance.
		
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			Instead of reliance on my deeds now, I'm
		
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			relying on what I think is right,
		
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			what I think is right, and there's a
		
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			lot, you know, that can come from this
		
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			hikm, I mean,
		
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			it's it's mashallah, mashallah, extremely, extremely, extremely powerful,
		
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			extremely beautiful. So we'll stop here inshallah, we'll
		
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			pick up with the next one,
		
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			inshallah. Barakallahu fikaum, assalamu alaykum