Suhaib Webb – Hikam Five Our Efforts Reveal Our Values

Suhaib Webb
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The speaker discusses the hikes and the importance of prioritizing one's priorities and balancing them with the rest of one's life. They emphasize the need to focus on one's dunya and not lose hope in the future. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of prioritizing one's deeds and not working hard for them.
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Welcome back, Masha'Allah,

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to our

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journey through the hikm of Imam Ibnata'allah Skandri.

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Let's quickly review what we've gone through so

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far. So the first hikm talked about trusting

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our deeds in a bad way, what's the

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sign of that, that we lose our bearings

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when tests come. The second was talking about

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emergent religiosity, why I wanna pull away from

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things, or I wanna take in things, intake,

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outtake.

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And if that's not with God, then that

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could either mask a hidden desire or could

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cause me to fall from a noble station

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in my life. The third thing that we

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talked about was that my

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passion aspirations are not going to pierce

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the divine measurement, the aqdah which Allah has

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granted me. And then the 5th we talked

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about is give ourselves a break, be careful

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of anxiety.

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So being careful of, you know I know

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this is right, this has to be right.

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That's one thing that can cause us to

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fall away, and that's the internal reliance, yettimad

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ara nessi.

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And the second part of that, which is

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the 5th hekam,

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is the opposite, right, is being destroyed

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by aspirations that didn't materialize in my life.

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And so I think about it and it

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causes me depression and I become like, you

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know, incapable of functioning to the point that

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I lose hope in Allah. So one is

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I didn't get what I wanted before it

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happened, and I lose hope in Allah. Number

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2 is when I look back on it,

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and I say, oh man, I really wanted

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that to happen, why did this happen? Or

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something bad happened to me, and it causes

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me to question

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Allah

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in a way that leads to

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losing hope in him. This takes us now

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to the 6th hikm, and this one,

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oh man, this one is no joke, because

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this one is about priorities. What are our

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priorities? What are your priorities?

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If I say I want the hereafter, there'll

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be priorities that align with that.

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If I want the dunya, there's priorities that

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align with that. So the sheikh he says,

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you exerting all your effort

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for what has been guaranteed for you.

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Fi ma tolibamik,

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while you are

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having shortcomings,

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you are failing

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in performing what was commanded of you,

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dalilun

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adam timasil basiyeotimink

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is a sign of your blindness

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or shortsightedness.

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And what he means is, if you and

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I are claiming to live for the hereafter

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then our

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the vision of our heart, walakan ta'malqullubalati

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fisudur is directed toward the hereafter.

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But if I'm not working for the hereafter,

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then that's a sign I'm either short sighted,

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I find hereafter in the dunya, or I'm

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blind,

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I can't see the hereafter. I'm out of

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focus. So one of the lessons of this

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hikm is priorities

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and balance.

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Priorities

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and balance. So the sheikh says,

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ichdihaduka,

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fee ma duminalak.

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You exerting all your effort for what's been

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guaranteed tea free. What he means is your

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risk,

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your provisions. Allah says in the Quran after,

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ala'adhiillah,

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ala Allah Here is Oha, that there's nothing

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that walks on the face of the earth

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or exists in creation,

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except Allah

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is in charge of its provisions.

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Doesn't mean that we get lazy, doesn't mean

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that we don't work hard. Remember the second

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hikm, tajrid,

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pulling away?

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No, we have to work hard for dunya.

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If you pay attention,

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usually when I read this hikom people get

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really uber sensitive.

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Because

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it's not saying don't work hard for dunya,

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It's saying if I work hard for dunya

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while

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I neglect the hereafter,

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that's the problem.

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But what if we said this,

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You work hard for dunya

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and you work hard for akhirah.

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You work hard for what's guaranteed for you

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and you work hard for the akhirah.

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What does he mean by

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not using the word duminalak,

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the hereafter isn't guaranteed for you, you Allah,

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he means

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you gotta work for jannah,

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jannah ain't guaranteed for you.

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You have to push for it, so just

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as we work hard for dunya and to

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achieve

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the fruits of dunya, we should couple that

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with working hard for the hereafter.

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Wa fidharika falyatana fasil mutana fisoon.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said,

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This object which is worthy of competition, compete

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for it. Allah

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says, watulkal jannatulati,

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uhristumuhaabi

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ma kuntum ta'maloon

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Allah said, this is the jannah which you've

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inherited

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because Allah has blessed and accepted what you've

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done.

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What you've done, remember the first hikim, don't

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get it confused.

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So what this hicom is teaching us is

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priorities.

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Number 1, if I'm working hard for dunya

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and neglecting akhirah, that's a sign of my

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shortsightedness.

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What if I neglect dunya and work hard

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for the ekhara, also that's a sign of

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shortsightedness.

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What we want is,

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We want both.

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And he says

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because what he means is the halal and

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the haram. Do I exert effort

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to guard my prayers,

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to protect my worship,

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to observe the khair, and to stay away

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from evil?

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So here we learn something from this hikim

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insha Allahu ta'ala.

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Is a sign of your blindness,

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is that we have to have priorities,

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and we should focus on our locus of

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control, be it by the grace of Allah.

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Allah has granted us a locus of control

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in our dunya, in our deen,

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Let's work on that. Let's

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make that work to the best of its

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ability. Waqhu Allah says khu and fosakuma aharikum

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nala, save yourself and your family from *.

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Start there.

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Oftentimes we wanna go outside of our locus

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of control, that's delusion,

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but what we wanna do is

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focus on what we've been commanded

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and focus on our dunya around us. For

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example, building personal wealth and power, not in

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a way that leads to oppenus, but that

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allows me to protect my family, and to

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get my family, for example, access to good

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education,

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religious education, all that,

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at the same time I'm doing that, but

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not in a way that sacrifices my akhira.

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The point of this hicom is, number 1

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is, how can I analyze myself? What am

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I working for? What am I not working

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for? So it leads to, the idea of

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introspection, muhasaba.

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Number 2 is, what are my priorities? And

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number 3 is balance,

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siddhi aham zuruk, and we we we we're

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gonna teach this book in the future. He

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said, you know, taqdimal ahem alemohim shatno sadiapinafikulishei,

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putting

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priority in what's really important over what's secondarily

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important is the sign of the righteous and

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everything. So this hichem,

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You working hard for what's been guaranteed for

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you.

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And you neglecting what has been commanded of

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you, Dalilon is an evidence in Timarsi of

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the blindness

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of your foresight, your spiritual foresight make from

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you.

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