Suhaib Webb – From the Questions Bank Breastfeeding More Than Two Years

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A woman wants to breastfeed her 2-year-old child to her children, as she wants to avoid harm to her child. The Sharia heals the woman with the words "we are not a threat" and gives her permission to breastfeed the child. The woman believes that breastfeeding is allowed within a 2-year period and that she should not harm the child.

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			So I received a question from a woman
		
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			who her sister recently passed away or, like,
		
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			And she left a child. This child is
		
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			over 2 years old, and
		
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			she wanted to know if she could breastfeed
		
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			this child
		
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			so that child would become the to her
		
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			children
		
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			even though it was over 2 years because
		
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			we know
		
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			in the second chapter of the Quran
		
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			verse
		
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			233, I believe,
		
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			Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			The Quran says that, you know, mothers who
		
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			want to complete the time
		
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			of breastfeeding
		
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			should do so within a 2 year period,
		
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			meaning,
		
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			like that's the limit.
		
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			It's important that we understand one of the
		
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			foundations of Islam
		
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			is what's
		
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			called And one of the foundations of Islam
		
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			is achieving benefit and preventing harm from people.
		
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			Imam Ibn Qayyim said that the edifice of
		
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			Sharia rest on bringing benefit and preventing harm.
		
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			For that reason, if we go into the
		
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			books of tafsir that deal with the fiqh
		
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			of the tafsir of the Quran, it's called
		
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			akam, tafsir akam.
		
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			And
		
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			we studied this for 4
		
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			years in Al Azhar University, more than 400
		
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			ayaats of the Quran.
		
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			We find that imam
		
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			he says something very powerful. He says,
		
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			He said
		
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			increasing 2 years
		
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			or decreasing 2 years in breastfeeding
		
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			is allowed
		
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			if it will not harm the child.
		
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			Contemporary, they
		
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			explained and expounded
		
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			on the statement of and they
		
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			said it is allowed for the woman to
		
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			continue
		
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			beyond
		
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			the mother 2 years
		
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			if there is a benefit for the child
		
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			and there is a protection of harm.
		
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			So in this situation,
		
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			this woman
		
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			definitely could breastfeed this child after 2 years
		
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			because it's going to ease and facilitate the
		
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			relationship, and this child is going to need
		
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			care. This child is going to need other
		
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			family members in its life,
		
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			and that is something that the Sharia
		
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			takes seriously.
		
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			So the answer is yes.
		
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			May Allah bless you.