Shakiel Humayun – Propel Forward 52nd Sermon

Shakiel Humayun
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The speaker discusses the rules and laws of life and how they can be successful. They stress the importance of fully submitting to the universal decree and avoiding past experiences to propel forward. The importance of cooperation and avoiding mistakes is emphasized, as it is the main limiting factor for achieving success. The speaker also highlights the importance of creating a culture of cooperation and avoiding certificate and envy.

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			To advance in life,
		
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			one has to understand
		
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			the laws of life.
		
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			Like anything else,
		
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			for us to be a winner,
		
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			to become winners,
		
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			it's important that we understand what the rules
		
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			are.
		
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			Take, for example,
		
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			a sports game,
		
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			a soccer game.
		
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			For us to be successful
		
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			or to win in that game, it's important
		
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			for us to understand what are the rules,
		
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			the regulations
		
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			for this soccer game. How can I score?
		
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			What is a penalty? What will hold me
		
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			back? What will prevent me from advancing?
		
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			And so life is similar.
		
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			Life has rules,
		
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			regulations,
		
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			laws.
		
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			You can call them decrees.
		
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			And if we understand them well, we're able
		
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			to propel forward. We'll be able to advance
		
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			in life.
		
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			And there are 2 major
		
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			decrees
		
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			that I would like to talk about today
		
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			that can help us propel forward
		
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			in life, in this test that we live
		
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			in.
		
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			And the first
		
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			decree
		
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			is. This is the universal
		
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			decree.
		
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			This is the decree that when Allah decrees
		
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			for something to exist,
		
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			he says be and it becomes.
		
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			So this encompasses the creation of Allah because
		
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			it exists
		
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			by Allah's decree. The universal decree.
		
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			And anything else that exists or that happens
		
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			from events and actions,
		
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			all of that falls under
		
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			this universal decree because nothing can exist or
		
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			happen
		
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			without this decree of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			So the creation of the sun, the stars,
		
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			and the moon are all are
		
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			all from this universal decree.
		
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			The creation of time
		
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			is from this universal decree.
		
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			And under this category are also things
		
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			that we have no control over.
		
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			Which fall under this universal decree.
		
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			Like, for example, our birthplace.
		
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			We had no
		
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			say in where we would be born.
		
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			Our race.
		
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			We had no say in what our race
		
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			would be.
		
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			Our age.
		
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			What it is right now. We have no
		
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			say in how time progresses
		
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			year after year.
		
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			And we have no say in stopping time
		
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			or slowing time or reversing time. All of
		
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			these
		
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			all of these items which we have no
		
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			control over
		
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			also fall under
		
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			the the universal decree.
		
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			The second kind of decree
		
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			is
		
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			This is the directional
		
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			decree.
		
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			This is when Allah decrees commands and prohibitions
		
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			for mankind to live. Commands and prohibitions
		
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			that are designed
		
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			to be the utmost
		
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			benefit for man in this life.
		
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			And these commands and prohibitions,
		
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			we have a choice.
		
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			It's not like the first category where we
		
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			don't have a choice. Here we have a
		
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			choice. We have a choice to implement these
		
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			commands and prohibitions.
		
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			This decree of Allah could happen, and it
		
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			may not happen. Allah has decreed for us
		
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			to be honest.
		
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			There are people who lie.
		
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			Allah has decreed for us to be charitable.
		
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			There are people who are stingy.
		
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			Allah has decreed for us to take care
		
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			of the poor. There are people who neglect
		
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			the poor. So this category, it could happen
		
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			or it may not happen.
		
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			The first category,
		
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			the
		
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			universal decree
		
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			where we didn't choose our race or our
		
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			gender. We had no say if we were
		
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			gonna be male or female.
		
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			This is called involuntary submission.
		
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			Where all of us
		
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			have involuntarily
		
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			submitted and acknowledged
		
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			that, yes,
		
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			we have no control.
		
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			Yes. We have acknowledged
		
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			that our birthplace. We have acknowledged our race.
		
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			You don't have a a Chinese person saying
		
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			that he's of Hispanic race because he acknowledges.
		
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			He acknowledge this decree of Allah. And it
		
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			would
		
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			be nonsensical for someone to contest
		
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			this,
		
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			this universal decree.
		
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			Versus
		
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			the directional decree, the commands and provisions,
		
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			this is where voluntary submission is. We can
		
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			voluntarily
		
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			submit to Allah's commands or provisions, or we
		
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			could choose not to do it. Allah has
		
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			commanded
		
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			us to stay away from Riba, not to
		
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			have interest bearing transactions, not to have bank
		
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			accounts. We can choose to do it, or
		
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			we can think we're making money and have
		
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			get involved with interest. It's a choice of
		
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			ours.
		
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			What Islam uses is the premise of
		
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			the universal decree where we have involuntary
		
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			submission.
		
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			Islam uses that as a premise and says,
		
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			look.
		
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			You involuntarily
		
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			submit to your gender, to your race, to
		
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			your to your location, to where you were
		
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			born. You involuntarily submit to these decrees of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			This fact that you acknowledge and agree to
		
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			agree to should guide you to full submission
		
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			by submitting to the commands and prohibitions of
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And
		
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			this full submission, and we talked about the
		
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			rules and laws and how to be successful
		
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			in life.
		
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			This full submission
		
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			is the recipe of being successful in life.
		
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			As Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa'ala said,
		
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			Where Allah subhanahu wa'ala says,
		
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			certainly the one who submits himself
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			This is the full submission. Voluntary
		
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			submission.
		
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			The one who submits himself to Allah,
		
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			surely he will have his reward with Allah,
		
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			and there will be no fear nor will
		
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			he grieve. This is success. The definition of
		
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			success
		
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			is when we understand that involuntary
		
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			submission should lead us to full
		
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			submission to
		
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			commands
		
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			and
		
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			prohibitions.
		
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			And when we find the queen of when
		
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			she saw the wonders of that
		
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			he was able to,
		
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			by Allah's power and permission,
		
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			to move her throne from her land in
		
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			Yemen all the way to his palace.
		
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			This
		
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			is from.
		
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			This is the abilities,
		
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			the provisions that Allah has provided to Soleiman
		
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			This is the universal decree.
		
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			Things that human beings don't have control or
		
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			power over.
		
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			And when she entered his palace, she thought
		
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			it was a body of water, so she
		
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			lifted her dress thinking that she would have
		
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			to tread water.
		
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			And then
		
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			said, it's just a palace that's paved out
		
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			of crystal.
		
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			And so when she saw this, she saw
		
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			she saw the bounties and the will and
		
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			the decree that Allah has provided.
		
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			She used that
		
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			universal decree as a premise to enter into
		
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			full submission.
		
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			She's. This queen then said
		
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			I have wronged myself. She realized that she
		
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			now that she has to,
		
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			have complete submission because she understood
		
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			this universal decree. She said, I've wronged myself.
		
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			And I now fully submit with Suleiman
		
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			to Allah, the Lord of the worlds.
		
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			And this submission,
		
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			full submission,
		
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			is very important because if we remain in
		
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			our involuntary
		
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			submission,
		
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			things that we acknowledge and recognize,
		
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			we live in a conflict.
		
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			In conflict with nature where the sun, the
		
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			moon, the stars, and the universe all fully
		
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			submit to Allah. So we
		
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			become
		
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			those beings
		
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			that are in dissonance to the universe,
		
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			that don't fully submit while everything else besides
		
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			the man and the jinn are submitting to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And when we have this conflict,
		
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			the human being living with this conflict constantly
		
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			tries to seek peace because this conflict
		
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			does not allow the person to be in
		
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			peace.
		
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			And the only way a person will be
		
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			in peace if they go all the way,
		
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			if they propel forward and fulfill the submission,
		
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			the voluntary submission such that it's full submission.
		
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			That only by the dhikr and the remembrance
		
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			and the worship of Allah does the hearts
		
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			find peace. It's through this submission.
		
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			And worse than that, worse than someone
		
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			just sticking behind
		
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			in involuntary submission, not going all the way
		
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			and also doing the voluntary submission, worse than
		
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			that
		
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			is when some people try to contest
		
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			the universal decree.
		
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			Contest what we all acknowledge that we have
		
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			involuntarily
		
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			submitted
		
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			to. For example, someone saying,
		
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			why do I have to die? I shouldn't
		
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			we shouldn't die. Contesting the concept of death
		
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			when everyone knows that we all will die.
		
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			To contest this concept, this universal decree
		
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			is
		
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			nonsensical.
		
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			It's like saying if I'm going to play
		
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			in the World Cup a soccer game,
		
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			I'm going to contest why is there a
		
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			time limit. Those are the rules. Those are
		
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			the laws of the game. So once we
		
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			enter into life, we come on this earth,
		
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			it doesn't make sense for us to contest
		
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			the laws and the decrees that are given
		
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			that are a given in this world for
		
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			this life. So someone contesting
		
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			that why should they die, it doesn't make
		
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			sense.
		
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			If someone contests their age and someone says,
		
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			look, I'm 75 now but I feel
		
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			younger.
		
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			So,
		
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			any time I have to fill up an
		
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			application form and they ask me for my
		
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			age, I'm not gonna put 75.
		
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			I'm gonna put 25 because I feel
		
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			and I can identify myself
		
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			with a 25 year old. This is contesting
		
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			the universal decree. It doesn't make any sense.
		
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			We can't change time. We can't change
		
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			these
		
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			givens in the universe.
		
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			The same thing
		
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			with gender. If someone says no matter how
		
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			they feel, they can't contest if they're a
		
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			male or a female. It's a given. We're
		
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			born with those
		
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			qualities.
		
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			And so by contesting involuntary
		
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			submission, it's not
		
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			propelling forward. It's actually regression. We're going backwards.
		
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			And so propelling forward means
		
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			to understand what is the given in this
		
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			universe. What are the givens in this test?
		
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			Yes, there's a time limit. I have to
		
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			die. Yes, I have a gender that has
		
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			been chosen for me. And for me
		
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			as to how do I use these givens
		
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			to have to complete this test to be
		
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			successful
		
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			through full submission.
		
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			And to contest it is like someone going
		
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			to
		
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			the soccer field and saying
		
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			and playing a game of soccer. Hey, we
		
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			should not have these nets here. We should
		
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			have hoops. That's how we should play soccer.
		
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			It's a given. When you go to a
		
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			soccer field, that's a given. Those are the
		
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			rules. Those are the laws. And you have
		
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			to play within the rules and laws and
		
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			try to contest them. You're just wasting time
		
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			because there's a time limit for that soccer
		
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			game to end.
		
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			These 2 decrees
		
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			are very important for us to understand to
		
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			live this life. And this is why Allah
		
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			he told us that if we say we're
		
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			going to do something in the future,
		
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			the future has to deal with time.
		
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			And we don't own time.
		
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			We can't claim
		
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			a slot
		
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			of time in the future because we don't
		
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			own it. This is why Allah subhanahu said
		
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			that
		
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			we should not say we're gonna do something
		
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			tomorrow
		
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			except by saying insha'allah.
		
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			Because something to do with time and the
		
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			future, that has to do with the universal
		
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			decree. And we can't claim that.
		
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			And so we have to this is where
		
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			the nexus is where the universal decree
		
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			and the directional decree, which we volunteer to
		
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			submit, cross. And so if I'm gonna say
		
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			I'm gonna give charity next week, that's part
		
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			of the directional decree that I have the
		
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			choice to do that. But I have to
		
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			couple that and acknowledge the universal decree that
		
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			it's not gonna happen because I don't have
		
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			control over time except if a law wills.
		
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			And so there's 2 strategies. There's a couple
		
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			of strategies I want to give today of
		
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			how we can propel forward
		
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			in this life,
		
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			in this test,
		
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			by avoiding things that would actually hold us
		
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			back
		
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			from advancing
		
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			in this life and this test.
		
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			The first
		
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			is not being stuck in the past.
		
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			Sometimes we get stuck
		
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			with events
		
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			that happened in the past and we just
		
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			can't let go.
		
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			Those experiences may be unpleasant.
		
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			They may be difficult that we went through.
		
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			Distasteful.
		
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			And it's difficult for us at times to
		
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			just let go. But by not letting go
		
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			of that past,
		
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			we hinder ourselves from moving forward.
		
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			Like an argument we may have with someone.
		
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			And that we have that bad taste
		
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			and we're not able to speak to that
		
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			person properly. We're not able to cooperate with
		
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			that person properly. We're not able to do
		
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			ventures with that person which could probably benefit
		
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			ourselves, our families, and the community. So we're
		
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			stuck in the past and we're replaying. We're
		
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			rewinding and replaying the past.
		
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			And Allah
		
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			teaches us that in this life
		
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			taught us
		
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			to drop the past and to move forward.
		
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			There was a man at the time of
		
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			the prophet Muhammad
		
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			used to live in Mecca while the prophet
		
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			Muhammad and his companions migrated to Medina. He
		
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			wanted to migrate to Medina and go to
		
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			the prophet Muhammad
		
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			But his family told him, don't go, don't
		
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			leave us, stay here. And so he stayed.
		
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			And then years later,
		
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			he went to Medina. And when he went
		
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			to Medina,
		
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			he saw that how the companions
		
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			had advanced in their knowledge and practice and
		
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			worship and understanding of Islam.
		
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			And he was away all this time and
		
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			he lost out.
		
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			And so he regretted
		
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			and he resented his family that held him
		
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			back.
		
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			And he said when I go back, I'm
		
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			going to do this and do that and
		
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			do this to my family because they made
		
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			me lose time. They made me lose all
		
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			these opportunities.
		
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			And then Allah revealed
		
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			that
		
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			if you
		
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			pardon
		
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			and overlook and forgive,
		
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			then surely Allah is the most forgiving, the
		
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			most merciful. Here Allah is teaching him and
		
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			teaching us to let go of the past.
		
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			If mistakes were done by people that hurt
		
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			us or harmed us in some way, we
		
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			can't live with that. We can't have a
		
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			culture of intercom.
		
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			A culture of revenge.
		
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			A culture of confrontation.
		
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			A culture of being trigger happy about suing
		
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			everyone and anyone that upsets us.
		
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			But we have to create a culture of
		
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			cooperation and not confrontation.
		
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			So the first thing that holds us back
		
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			is being stuck in the past. The second,
		
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			what holds us back is
		
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			the scarcity mindset.
		
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			The scarcity mindset where if you have a
		
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			business and someone 2 blocks down opens a
		
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			similar business or you have a website and
		
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			someone opens a similar business online,
		
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			you feel like they are going to take
		
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			away all your customers.
		
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			This comes from the scarcity mindset. That there's
		
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			not enough people
		
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			that will buy your product. There's not enough
		
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			resources
		
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			in the world to go around. That's a
		
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			scarcity mindset.
		
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			But instead the mindset should be,
		
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			oh, great. Another person has opened up a
		
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			similar business to prop, to provide product,
		
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			goods, and services, which benefits mankind.
		
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			So it's great he's doing that. Let me
		
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			figure out what my
		
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			value proposition is, what my unique selling proposition
		
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			is, how I can differentiate, how I can
		
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			leverage my strengths and be different so both
		
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			of us can provide
		
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			those goods and services,
		
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			but to different audiences because it's custom now
		
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			and it's needed.
		
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			And the more we serve
		
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			various audiences, the better it is for mankind.
		
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			But the scarcity mindset makes that person want
		
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			to attack that person, makes that person want
		
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			to call the billing department that person because
		
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			his permit is not up and try to
		
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			attack him and destroy him because he thinks
		
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			that if he's alive and there, I won't
		
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			be able to survive. That's a scarcity mindset.
		
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			Or we have friends and
		
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			or family,
		
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			and we have some initiatives, we're involved in
		
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			some endeavors.
		
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			And they say, well, if you don't do
		
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			what I'm telling you, if you don't take
		
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			my advice, I'm not going to support you
		
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			anymore. I'm not going to come anymore, etc.
		
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			That's coming from the scarcity mindset. The person
		
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			thinks that my support is going to make
		
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			this
		
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			successful. And if I'm not here, nothing's going
		
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			to happen. As if there's no one else,
		
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			nothing else around.
		
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			There are no other people around to help.
		
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			That's a scarcity mindset. And Allah highlights this
		
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			scarcity mindset
		
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			with
		
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			the the hypocrites.
		
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			Where Allah says
		
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			that they're the ones, the hypocrites,
		
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			those who
		
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			have disbelief inside and pretend to be Muslim
		
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			on the outside.
		
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			They're living in this conflict.
		
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			Allah says that they're the ones who say
		
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			do not spend on those who are with
		
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			the messenger of Allah
		
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			so that they may leave the prophet Muhammad
		
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			This is from the scarcity mindset.
		
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			They were thinking that if they could stop
		
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			people
		
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			from spending on those who migrated to the
		
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			prophet Muhammad, who left their families, left their
		
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			businesses, left their wealth, and everything just came
		
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			with their shirt on their back, and if
		
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			they were able to stop people from
		
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			giving them funds,
		
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			that everything will collapse.
		
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			Allah attacks
		
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			this scarcity mindset by answering back and says
		
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			Allah then says
		
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			but to Allah belongs the treasures of the
		
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			heavens and the earth. The treasures of the
		
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			universe.
		
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			But the
		
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			hypocrites, they don't understand.
		
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			It's an understanding
		
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			problem.
		
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			This scarcity, it's a mindset
		
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			problem.
		
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			And so this mindset holds us back.
		
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			And this is the core
		
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			problem of envy.
		
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			It's a scarcity mindset.
		
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			Why does this person have a nice house,
		
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			a nice car? Why is this person wealthy?
		
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			It's from the scarcity mindset thinking that these
		
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			things cannot, there's not enough in the world
		
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			for it to go around.
		
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			And so I have this envy and I
		
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			have this jealousy.
		
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			But my hope and expectation should be the
		
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			other way around. If I see that Allah
		
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			can give someone a good house or give
		
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			them wealth,
		
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			instead of being envious and wanting that to
		
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			be removed from another person,
		
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			I should go to the source.
		
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			The source is Allah. And if you can
		
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			give him, you can give me. And so
		
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			as believers, every single one of us
		
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			should expect and hope from Allah
		
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			that he makes
		
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			him or her into a billionaire.
		
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			What is that to Allah? To make you
		
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			into a billionaire? It's nothing.
		
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			You shouldn't have this expectation that you should
		
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			be a millionaire. You should have this expectation
		
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			and hope that Allah make you a billionaire.
		
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			Because to Allah belongs the treasures of the
		
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			universe, and that's nothing for Allah subhanahu.
		
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			So when we remove our scarcity mindset, it
		
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			starts to stop holding us back from advancing
		
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			and moving forward.
		
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			It helps us cooperate instead of confront.
		
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			It helps us
		
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			to think and understand that resources are many
		
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			and much more
		
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			than what we're seeing within our two eyes.
		
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			I ask Allah to
		
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			help us
		
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			understand
		
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			the laws and regulations
		
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			of this life and this test so we
		
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			may pass it and become winners and become
		
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			successful in the hereafter.