Shafayat Mohamed – Akhlaq In Islam Short Islamic Reminder

Shafayat Mohamed
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The speaker discusses the mannerism of Islam, including the use of "has been" in the bathed nila and the "has been" label. He emphasizes the importance of being in the government parliament and representing the house, as well as the mannerism of the act of the m c o, the sheikh, and the mannerism of the home. He encourages people to be grateful for the radical imams and to continue their conversation. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of being in the government parliament and representing the house, as well as the mannerism of the act of the m c o, the sheikh, and the mannerism of the home. He encourages people to be grateful for the radical imams and to continue their conversation.
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Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has an Nasratiallahahu

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ta'ala reported

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that the prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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whenever he shook the hands of someone,

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he will shake the hands

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and he will never pull his hands back,

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until that person takes his hand back first.

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Follow that?

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The next part of that hadith,

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he says,

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and the prophet

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never sat with his feet facing anybody.

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See how powerful?

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Today, a lot of people do that.

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They go in gatherings, little Koran Kwanee in

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their homes and they are here and there.

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There is a whole line and you know,

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we have been talking of humaza, lumaza,

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mannerism.

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Allah will permit we will continue the next

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because I really can't complete this topic. I'll

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give you a little summary of it.

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The prophet

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never did,

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And it has become a practice over the

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the the years, for the past 14 1500

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years ago.

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It's

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considered

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bad manners to sit and put your feet

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towards the face of someone.

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Have you ever seen an imam sit

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and when he turns around, he puts his

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feet to the audience? You ever saw that?

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I don't care if he's Salafi, Alafi, Maliki,

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Shafi or Nafi.

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Forget about them telling you, let me see

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the hadith.

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Never did the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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did that. When he let salah,

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he turned around, he sat on his knees,

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feet with with respect to his audience. There

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are times he will fold his feet when

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he's tired,

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but he'll never hear that he sat down

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and face his feet towards the audience.

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That was his aqlaq sitting, whether here or

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anywhere.

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And that's why no imam you will ever

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see do that.

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Never.

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Because it has been trickled down in the

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adab and etiquettes of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam. The khalafair Rashidin,

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the the tabi'een, the tabi' tabi'een, the teachers,

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the students, the imams.

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That it's uncomfortable.

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It's impractical.

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It's impossible for men to feel to even

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do that. And if a person does that,

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it looks absurd.

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It doesn't fit in the mannerism of Islam

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because our Rasool SAWA never did that. So

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what I wanna share with you and Marcel

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is that you don't do that with other

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people anywhere else

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because it's a sunnah of the prophet sAWA

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not to do that.

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He was bigger than everybody else if you

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want to put it like that

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in his audience.

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He was the Rasul of Allah, the most

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pious.

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Okay, Allah gave him that darja,

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He could have face his feet to anybody.

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Who gives us the authority because we're wealthy?

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Because I'm Arab, I'm Pakistani,

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I got money, I'm this, I'm that, I

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could push my foot in the face of

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someone.

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When I sit in the masjid

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or in a public audience or in a

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gathering.

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You know what is even most disgusting, some

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of these people put their feet out, there's

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not even something good looking to look at.

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Toenails need to be cut,

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they need some pedicure,

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They need more than pedicure.

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They need their hearts to be pure.

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Yeah.

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It is a gift. That's why I know

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today we have some students and people here

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and I

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in which Allah subhanahu wa'ala in another hutba

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inshaAllah,

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in which Allah

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give you a little summary before.

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And for those of you who came late,

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I'm sorry you need to take the CD,

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you'll understand that I introduced the bathed nila,

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the topic of adab and etiquettes in a

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mafil and sitting in a gathering.

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And how

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Allah

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told the prophet to tell the hypocrites

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who sat in a gathering

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that they should make room for the other

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people. You know, when you go to functions,

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ask brother Farooq and ask all the emcees.

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You're always like, brothers could you make space

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for the other people?

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Come on. In Islam, a mast of ceremony

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should not have to do that.

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Our Quran tells us to make space for

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the other people.

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You see why I'm telling you that it's

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our fault?

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Our Quran tells us, sometime you are told

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by the m c o, by the imam

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or the sheikh, could you get up and

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make room for the other people? People are

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mad. People are angry.

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Go check Surah Mujadila

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chapter 58 verse 11.

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Take the CD after, study it and we'll

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talk about it in a few weeks from

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now, next week inshallah.

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Allah commands,

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make space,

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make room for the other people,

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because the monafics

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used to deprive other people.

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We were taught not to have that bad

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manners.

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Do you understand my brothers and sisters? This

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is very important in Islam.

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Yes, of course,

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if you're in the government parliament

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and you are the speaker of the house,

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you have your chair, you represent Florida and

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Texas and Washington and Connecticut, you have your

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seats, that's a whole different thing. If you

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have your seats and you have your place,

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somebody walks in you're gonna get up from

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your seat and It doesn't work there.

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It doesn't mean that the imam is leading

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salah and somebody tight in the back, he

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leaves the spot and say, come brother, come

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use my space. Now that's been like an

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income poop. That's stupidity.

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There is a place and time for it

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but when you go into it, do you

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know the mannerism of a home?

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When you go to the house of someone

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and my students, we have a lot of

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students in dialogue and I basically wanna remind

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myself and our students, our students develop that

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those characteristics

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that some of the older people don't have.

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When you go into the home of someone,

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Islamic mannerism is that you do not sit

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until the host tell you to sit.

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Do you know that?

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You don't sit.

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And then you don't want to sit in

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the best chair that you see in the

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house. Oh, this is so comfortable, boy.

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You have to wait until a host say,

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have a seat.

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Or if the host says, sit where and

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if the host says, sit here, you don't

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say, no, I wanna sit on your chair.

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He says, sit here, you sit there.

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Or if the host says, sit anywhere,

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well, you have sofa, you got chairs, you

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got the ground, you sit anywhere, but doesn't

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mean you'll go sit on the table now

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if you say sit anywhere.

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There's mannerism.

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You go to a function and a program

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and they reserve chairs or they got speakers

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or they got guests or they have this,

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that, or the lecturers, you don't go just

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go occupy the chairs.

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These are all mannerism. That's what happened.

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That's what they were doing to the Sahabas.

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They knew the Sahabas came to learn. The

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Monarctic tried to deprive them. You know other

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people have this duty, this position, this responsibility.

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This show business we have, we want to

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all deprive because of our arrogance, our pride,

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whoever we think we are.

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My brothers and sisters, this is very deep

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in the depth of mannerism. Time does not

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permit

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really today for me to continue.

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But we will continue a little bit. I

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really wanna continue on this ayah number 11

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of Surah Mujaddila. We spoke a little bit

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of the secret talk

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from verses number 9 and 10.

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We'll continue in the next week by ensuring.

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And we'll let these radical imams brainwash some

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of us.

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We come here, we sit, we sleep in

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Khubbas, we don't get the message, that's why

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we miss it. All I need you to

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be grateful.

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Are

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you telling me Allah

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will not protect the the prestige of Muhammad

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was only living for business?

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That's all our dream. Let me see who

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shall save you now.

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Nobody. Nobody.

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