Shafayat Mohamed – Akhlaq In Islam Short Islamic Reminder

Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam has an Nasratiallahahu

ta'ala reported

that the prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

whenever he shook the hands of someone,

he will shake the hands

and he will never pull his hands back,

until that person takes his hand back first.

Follow that?

The next part of that hadith,

he says,

and the prophet

never sat with his feet facing anybody.

See how powerful?

Today, a lot of people do that.

They go in gatherings, little Koran Kwanee in

their homes and they are here and there.

There is a whole line and you know,

we have been talking of humaza, lumaza,

mannerism.

Allah will permit we will continue the next

because I really can't complete this topic. I'll

give you a little summary of it.

The prophet

never did,

And it has become a practice over the

the the years, for the past 14 1500

years ago.

It's

considered

bad manners to sit and put your feet

towards the face of someone.

Have you ever seen an imam sit

and when he turns around, he puts his

feet to the audience? You ever saw that?

I don't care if he's Salafi, Alafi, Maliki,

Shafi or Nafi.

Forget about them telling you, let me see

the hadith.

Never did the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

did that. When he let salah,

he turned around, he sat on his knees,

feet with with respect to his audience. There

are times he will fold his feet when

he's tired,

but he'll never hear that he sat down

and face his feet towards the audience.

That was his aqlaq sitting, whether here or

anywhere.

And that's why no imam you will ever

see do that.

Never.

Because it has been trickled down in the

adab and etiquettes of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

wa sallam. The khalafair Rashidin,

the the tabi'een, the tabi' tabi'een, the teachers,

the students, the imams.

That it's uncomfortable.

It's impractical.

It's impossible for men to feel to even

do that. And if a person does that,

it looks absurd.

It doesn't fit in the mannerism of Islam

because our Rasool SAWA never did that. So

what I wanna share with you and Marcel

is that you don't do that with other

people anywhere else

because it's a sunnah of the prophet sAWA

not to do that.

He was bigger than everybody else if you

want to put it like that

in his audience.

He was the Rasul of Allah, the most

pious.

Okay, Allah gave him that darja,

He could have face his feet to anybody.

Who gives us the authority because we're wealthy?

Because I'm Arab, I'm Pakistani,

I got money, I'm this, I'm that, I

could push my foot in the face of

someone.

When I sit in the masjid

or in a public audience or in a

gathering.

You know what is even most disgusting, some

of these people put their feet out, there's

not even something good looking to look at.

Toenails need to be cut,

they need some pedicure,

They need more than pedicure.

They need their hearts to be pure.

Yeah.

It is a gift. That's why I know

today we have some students and people here

and I

in which Allah subhanahu wa'ala in another hutba

inshaAllah,

in which Allah

give you a little summary before.

And for those of you who came late,

I'm sorry you need to take the CD,

you'll understand that I introduced the bathed nila,

the topic of adab and etiquettes in a

mafil and sitting in a gathering.

And how

Allah

told the prophet to tell the hypocrites

who sat in a gathering

that they should make room for the other

people. You know, when you go to functions,

ask brother Farooq and ask all the emcees.

You're always like, brothers could you make space

for the other people?

Come on. In Islam, a mast of ceremony

should not have to do that.

Our Quran tells us to make space for

the other people.

You see why I'm telling you that it's

our fault?

Our Quran tells us, sometime you are told

by the m c o, by the imam

or the sheikh, could you get up and

make room for the other people? People are

mad. People are angry.

Go check Surah Mujadila

chapter 58 verse 11.

Take the CD after, study it and we'll

talk about it in a few weeks from

now, next week inshallah.

Allah commands,

make space,

make room for the other people,

because the monafics

used to deprive other people.

We were taught not to have that bad

manners.

Do you understand my brothers and sisters? This

is very important in Islam.

Yes, of course,

if you're in the government parliament

and you are the speaker of the house,

you have your chair, you represent Florida and

Texas and Washington and Connecticut, you have your

seats, that's a whole different thing. If you

have your seats and you have your place,

somebody walks in you're gonna get up from

your seat and It doesn't work there.

It doesn't mean that the imam is leading

salah and somebody tight in the back, he

leaves the spot and say, come brother, come

use my space. Now that's been like an

income poop. That's stupidity.

There is a place and time for it

but when you go into it, do you

know the mannerism of a home?

When you go to the house of someone

and my students, we have a lot of

students in dialogue and I basically wanna remind

myself and our students, our students develop that

those characteristics

that some of the older people don't have.

When you go into the home of someone,

Islamic mannerism is that you do not sit

until the host tell you to sit.

Do you know that?

You don't sit.

And then you don't want to sit in

the best chair that you see in the

house. Oh, this is so comfortable, boy.

You have to wait until a host say,

have a seat.

Or if the host says, sit where and

if the host says, sit here, you don't

say, no, I wanna sit on your chair.

He says, sit here, you sit there.

Or if the host says, sit anywhere,

well, you have sofa, you got chairs, you

got the ground, you sit anywhere, but doesn't

mean you'll go sit on the table now

if you say sit anywhere.

There's mannerism.

You go to a function and a program

and they reserve chairs or they got speakers

or they got guests or they have this,

that, or the lecturers, you don't go just

go occupy the chairs.

These are all mannerism. That's what happened.

That's what they were doing to the Sahabas.

They knew the Sahabas came to learn. The

Monarctic tried to deprive them. You know other

people have this duty, this position, this responsibility.

This show business we have, we want to

all deprive because of our arrogance, our pride,

whoever we think we are.

My brothers and sisters, this is very deep

in the depth of mannerism. Time does not

permit

really today for me to continue.

But we will continue a little bit. I

really wanna continue on this ayah number 11

of Surah Mujaddila. We spoke a little bit

of the secret talk

from verses number 9 and 10.

We'll continue in the next week by ensuring.

And we'll let these radical imams brainwash some

of us.

We come here, we sit, we sleep in

Khubbas, we don't get the message, that's why

we miss it. All I need you to

be grateful.

Are

you telling me Allah

will not protect the the prestige of Muhammad

was only living for business?

That's all our dream. Let me see who

shall save you now.

Nobody. Nobody.