Shadee Elmasry – The Etiquettes of Companionship & The Virtues of Seclusion

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			Hey, we're
		
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			we're here talking about the
latest class that's been out,
		
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			which is virtues of seclusions.
the virtues of seclusion, and the
		
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			adequate of companionship because
I've mentioned earlier that I'm
		
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			not really a big believer or a fan
of the idea of total seclusion,
		
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			unless someone's going into
retirement.
		
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			If someone's going into retirement
and just finished all their duties
		
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			and obligations to the world,
that's one thing. But if someone
		
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			isn't, then at that point,
		
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			you know, it's it. Besides that
it's not possible. And it's not
		
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			something that we do in our
culture in our society and in
		
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			America, and Muslims in the West
in general. And I don't even think
		
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			it's fully possible to do a full
on seclusion.
		
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			In any event, what we're doing
here is what I did is I combined
		
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			it with virtual seclusion and
etiquettes of companionship, and I
		
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			think etiquettes of companionship
is a very important subject,
		
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			because when we're not doing
seclusion, we're being with
		
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			people. And if you're not going to
be with people, or if you're going
		
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			to be with people, you might as
well have some kind of Beloved's
		
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			or some kind of basis for being
with people. So how that should
		
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			be. Now the first thing that this
is a book a man was shot on, he
		
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			talks about is, the first feature
is if you're gonna go in with
		
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			arrogance, you all your
companionship is going to be
		
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			vaulted, it's going to be
		
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			it's going to come back to haunt
you, if you go in to, to being
		
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			with people with any type of
attitude. And I've learned this,
		
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			I'm the first persons who have
learned this and have made these
		
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			mistakes, and go in with an
attitude and try to
		
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			you know,
		
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			get your point across in a way
that that's, that could be
		
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			hurtful, or is not considerate, it
becomes a problem. So the second
		
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			thing is
		
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			that, in place of this attitude is
got to be the drama and mercy. And
		
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			the first mercy on people is
having mercy on them by staying
		
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			away from them. If you can't hurt
if you can't stop hurting them. If
		
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			you keep hurting people, then you
might as well stay away from them.
		
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			Right. So what do you meme shot
on? He says it's from the
		
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			etiquette among
		
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			advocates of companionship to show
mercy on the Muslims. The Prophet
		
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			peace be upon him said the Muslim
is the one who other Muslims are
		
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			safe from his hands and from his
tongue. So if we got a track
		
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			record, that we keep hurting
people, that we have a track
		
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			record of hurting people, either
we do one of two things, we get
		
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			used to just admitting that we're
wrong. It's very important in
		
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			softball companionship, to just
admit that you're wrong, we'll
		
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			admit that you have made mistakes
and compensate, alright, make up
		
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			for it, start changing your ways.
Okay? If you're not able to do
		
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			that, then just stay away from
people. In that case, your
		
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			seclusion is not for yourself, to
improve, but it's for yourself to
		
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			stop harming people. Okay. And the
Prophet peace be upon him
		
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			businesses Hadith saying, and
Muslim woman said him and so many,
		
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			he said, and he said, the Muslim
is someone who others are safe
		
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			from their hands and from their
tongues. And I've mentioned it on
		
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			the podcast, which we just
released, that it should be all of
		
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			our goals. And it's definitely one
of my goals to reach the point
		
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			where, as I'm going to Bumba said,
the West African
		
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			person scholar, shampoo put up the
resistance to the French without
		
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			really doing much she put up a
resistance to the French by
		
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			gathering all the people around
him. And he said it would set
		
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			about him even that he never
disobeyed his God and he never
		
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			offended his Lord's creation.
Okay, and Allah knows best how
		
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			many people that I've offended and
and all of us, I guess, are
		
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			somewhat guilty of that. But we
have to try to push back and none
		
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			of our Islam is any good. If it's
not beautiful.
		
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			And this is something we have to
realize if we've ever been harsh,
		
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			and anytime that you're fighting
against something that's wrong,
		
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			and all this reform and liberal
movements that are out there. I
		
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			mean, not only are they wrong,
they're pushing people off the
		
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			cliff out of Islam. But the thing
is, we got our foot in the door. I
		
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			think there are a lot of people
now listening. The question is now
		
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			we have to make our presentation
beautiful. And we have to take
		
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			into consideration the concept of
your words might be true. Now
		
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			removed from them. What is
offensive? That's the point that
		
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			we're at right now. Aren't the
words might be true. The arguments
		
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			are all true. Okay, they're sound
arguments. They're all correct. No
		
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			one's going to argue on the issue
of the actual points. No one's
		
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			gonna go there. But the question
is now is it have we removed from
		
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			it what could be offensive? And
have we added to it what's
		
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			called hosting have been hosted
done is having a good opinion of
		
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			people that we people out there
are that are that we're arguing
		
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			against their arguments that we're
argument arguing against.
		
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			Oftentimes we have to realize that
people do wrong without
		
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			necessarily the explicit expressed
intent to do wrong, they're doing
		
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			wrong because of other issues. And
one of the best statements that I,
		
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			I've heard is that somewhat
Someone once said, So and so he's
		
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			not bad, but she got him, right.
He's not bad, but she thought I
		
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			was fooling him. Okay. And this is
a statement that I heard from
		
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			someone that I felt was, was
extremely wise, and it was a good
		
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			way to have a massage for people.
And when you see people doing
		
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			wrong to take that approach,
because from that approach, you
		
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			could actually have some mercy
towards them, some kindness to
		
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			them, some good opinion about
them. But when you're believing
		
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			that the person himself is evil,
the person himself is out to get
		
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			everyone, the person himself is
the problem, then you're never
		
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			going to be in a situation to
bring any benefit. You're just
		
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			going to be full of hate full of
anger, etc. And we want to be we
		
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			want to move away, move away from
that. He says, You're the divine,
		
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			that compassionate, okay, is
merciful to those who show mercy.
		
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			And when we look at these matters,
anytime that a person is okay,
		
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			anytime someone that a person is
harsh with others, he should
		
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			expect it, how should he and why
should he expect any mercy to
		
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			come? Come to him. And oftentimes,
you see these people that are
		
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			extremely dry on the inside, and
miserable on the inside. And
		
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			that's the result. That's the
punishment of being harsh. So even
		
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			if we're speaking the truth, we
have to look at the casing, we
		
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			have to see if this casing is
would the Prophet peace be upon
		
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			him, have be pleased, be happy
that this is his ambassador and
		
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			His representative. Remember, he's
Nabil Rama. And that doesn't mean
		
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			that there weren't Sahaba that, as
we said in the podcast, have had
		
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			the brass knuckles on Okay, there
were Sahaba with the gloves off
		
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			that existed. Okay, they existed
in the province, I sort of knew
		
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			that there's a wisdom behind these
people behind that approach
		
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			towards things saying that without
a father say no, I've been hooked
		
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			up Seneca been worried. And
probably tomorrow said same that
		
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			kind of a when he doesn't go out
his sword is never in his case,
		
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			his sword is always out. Alright,
someone's always going to pay a
		
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			price when saying the fellas been
relieved is up. There's a wisdom
		
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			for the existence of that. But our
question is, do we want to get our
		
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			message across? Or do we simply
want to get our anger out? Or do
		
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			we simply need to? Are we striving
to hurt the people who we think
		
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			and we imagined are harming us or
harming Islam? And that's the
		
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			question we have to always go back
to. And if we want to have any
		
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			beauty in our message, then we
have to always imagine and
		
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			recognize as right a Wilson has to
say here. Some people aren't
		
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			malicious. They're just fools,
right? They're just foolish, and
		
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			don't discount the stupidity of
people. Which is not to make fun,
		
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			but really don't discount that
some people are merely ignorant
		
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			and foolish, right? And sometimes
it's stupid. Okay, and it happens.
		
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			So the issue is, again, the casing
of our data. It's not enough. Is
		
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			it enough to be sincere? No, you
have to be on the sunnah to you
		
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			have to be accurate. You can't
just sincerely do something, you
		
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			have to be accurate. Of course,
your action has to be in line with
		
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			the Sunnah of the Prophet peace be
upon him. The next question is,
		
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			when you're sincere, and you're on
the Sunnah, I'm telling you, it is
		
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			not enough. Okay? And I'll be the
first person to say I'm the first
		
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			person guilty of it. It's not
enough to be sincere and to be
		
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			correct, okay. You also have to be
have SN in your message, you have
		
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			to have guests in, in your
attitude in whatever you're doing.
		
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			And that it said that beauty is
only going to be fulfilled when
		
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			you put when you pour a lot of
hosting in love with the people
		
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			hosted them and not and here's
another thing, try as best as
		
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			possible to the outside of power
situations. Because once you have
		
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			power in an organization, in any
situation, honestly, Your beauty
		
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			is gonna go away. The reason is
you have to you have to guard your
		
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			power, you have to protect your
power, right? You have to remove
		
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			people who are causing trouble.
You have to do things that are
		
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			really difficult, right? You have
to do things that are extremely
		
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			hard. Say no, I'm going to put up
his his forte. His expertise was
		
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			not to be the great ambassador,
like say document's was saying Abu
		
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			Bakar acidic, what was he? He was
the dawn of the OMA. He was in
		
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			charge. And what he had to do was
he had to make put down some
		
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			serious policies. And none of his
governors, very few of his
		
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			governors really enjoyed being a
governor for all over Canada.
		
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			Because if you were his governor,
okay when they're sitting on what
		
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			was the was in charge, and you
were his governor, you weren't
		
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			having a nice
		
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			cushy life.
		
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			But that's what worked, right? So
if you're going to be in power,
		
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			it's very hard to be in power and
to be beautiful at the same time
		
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			or to have SN and to be a an
ambassador for a cause at the same
		
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			time, because once you're in
power, you're going to have to
		
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			remove people set rules. And the
best way to do that the only real
		
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			way to do it is the way that they
normally did it with extremely
		
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			strict. Okay. He cut down on a lot
of indulgences or indulgence in
		
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			terms of wealth by his governors
inside the city of Medina. He
		
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			didn't allow indulgence. He didn't
allow high rise towers anyone to
		
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			build anything that was higher
than the highest building at the
		
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			time of the Prophet peace be upon
him. Okay. He didn't allow any of
		
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			the new foods in Medina,
		
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			the new foods that were that were
discovered that were being sold in
		
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			Persia, in Egypt, in Iraq and
these newly conquered territories
		
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			to be sold in Medina. All right,
he didn't allow that. Because he
		
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			said, this is we're just 10 years
from the death of the messenger
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa salam. And
now he started noting, we're
		
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			eating all these oily foods, all
these spices, the meal now instead
		
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			of just eating a little meal, a
normal meal, it's now becoming
		
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			like a feast, and he disallowed
this he knew that corruption
		
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			started. Corruption starts with
the stomach, and Ivanova doon
		
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			repeated that centuries later that
corruption starts with the
		
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			stomach, alright, corruption
occurs by excessive eating by
		
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			becoming picky about food by
having too many choices. He just
		
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			allowed this right wealth. When it
came about saving on mobile hot
		
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			dogs. This allowed for people to
own more than four homes and he
		
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			made a PS he said you're only
going to have four wives maximum.
		
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			So you can't have more than four
homes, that people were having
		
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			homes and summer homes and some
and homes outside the city and
		
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			home inside the city, etc. He
disallowed all that only for the
		
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			city of Medina. So to rule if you
want to rule you might as well
		
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			rule like say nama ruled with
really strict rules. But you have
		
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			to realize when you're going to do
that, you're not going to be the
		
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			ambassador that you need to be
okay, if you want an ambassador,
		
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			who was the number one Ambassador
used by said no, I'm not saying
		
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			Abu Bakar and the prophets of
Allah 2007 It was implemented by
		
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			Fenn. And what was said and
Ottomans approach extremely
		
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			lenient personality, sent off
members. FM was an extremely
		
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			merciful and lenient personality,
okay. And he was someone who
		
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			people took advantage of, and you
look at when he ruled, all the
		
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			Omega took advantage of him. And
they took advantage of him so
		
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			much, that really it led to the
ruin, he will lead to the ruin of
		
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			the whole situation, the Benny
omega that took advantage of the
		
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			kindness of Satan off men have no
offense, but he was the best
		
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			ambassador. And the prophets I
sent him said, If I had another
		
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			daughter, I would have married
him, her to have men and so on. If
		
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			he had more and more daughters, he
would have made them send off men
		
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			because he was the most lenient,
kind, best person to be around.
		
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			And when we're talking about our
situation, now, we're not ruling,
		
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			we have to realize that we're not
saying all about it, but
		
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			we're ambassadors. And if we're
going to be ambassadors of the
		
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			Prophet peace be upon the messages
for all those who have latched on
		
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			to this movement latched on to
this. In the beginning, it felt
		
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			like a rebellion, like two, three
years ago that you had leaders not
		
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			talking about the main issues, you
had stuff going on. That was no
		
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			one was addressing certain issues,
and things were passing, and harms
		
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			were coming into the community and
it felt like, like no one was
		
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			saying anything about it. So what
began as a seemingly were like a
		
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			rebellion that a lot of people
have latched on, if we're going to
		
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			actually make this thing, a
serious reality and Muslim life in
		
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			the West, in America in our area,
we have to look at the casing, and
		
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			the presentation has got to start
to be polished. And really this is
		
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			a message for myself before anyone
else. Let's take a look at what
		
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			people are saying here. Right a
Wilson one of my takeaways from
		
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			the hookah last Friday is that
isolating oneself from the OMA
		
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			isn't advisable she's 100%
Correct. To isolate from the OMA
		
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			isn't advisable if anyone feels
that they could survive without
		
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			anyone really that only happens
when you have to when you have no
		
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			choice.
		
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			You become like a lone sheep
vulnerable to attack 100% agree
		
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			you become vulnerable to attack
and when we say the Ummah
		
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			you select the gathering that
works for you. You select the
		
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			masjid that works for you, but you
have to be plugged into something
		
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			you don't have to be plugged into
everything. Right? But you're
		
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			plugged in to something right.
She's right about that. So at what
		
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			point does one give up oneself
their ability to interact with
		
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			people without offending them and
decide that isolation is better?
		
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			And the answer to your question is
you select the companionship that
		
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			you want you select the group of
the OMA within the OMA vecher okay
		
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			with that you're fine with because
I'm going to say when we when we
		
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			talk about being about
		
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			encasing
		
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			Our message encasing our
presentation. Okay, polishing our
		
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			presentation, we are not for an
instant, not for a moment, not for
		
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			an iota of time, okay, we're
		
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			going to give up an inch of our
principles, we're not going to
		
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			give up an inch of it. And the
best approach in Islam is the
		
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			conservative approach. It's what's
going to last. It's what's lasted.
		
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			It's reached us until now. So
therefore it has some, I mean, the
		
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			fact that it's reached us until
now indicates its power. Okay, the
		
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			way of the Eman Ottawa, which is a
way that has been checked and
		
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			double checked and triple checked,
that's the only way that we're
		
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			gonna go. And if we start going
any other way, we put a, we put
		
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			ourselves at risk. So we're not
gonna give an inch away. But at
		
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			the same time, we have to be with
the gym and be kind with them. And
		
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			be careful, be considerate of our
words when we're dealing with
		
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			them. And the way to do this is to
be highly selective of the people,
		
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			the company that you keep, which
jamaa that you're going to keep,
		
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			and honestly when as soon as I see
any type of secularism coming from
		
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			a gym, or any type of whatever
thing that I'm going to disagree
		
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			with either now or in the long
run, I just step away, I tried to
		
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			have a hospital done, and I
rectified the wrong, it not
		
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			directly, right, not necessarily
face to face, so that I don't have
		
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			one, I have a confrontation. But I
could come on a stream here, I
		
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			could go on the the member, and
you can do it in a general way,
		
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			you have to forbid wrong, but
there's a way to forbid wrong and
		
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			pick an unnecessary fight. And a
lot of groups. A lot of people
		
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			pick an unnecessary fight, right,
a fight where we just like it, you
		
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			could have achieved the same thing
without picking a fight. And I get
		
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			that there are some moments, okay,
there are some points in time
		
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			where you actually need to get
attention. And I recognize that
		
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			where you where no one's looking
at an issue and you're talking and
		
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			no one's paying attention, there
is a moment, right where you need
		
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			to get attention. But once you've
got the attention, at the moment
		
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			that you've got the attention, now
you have to pivot, right. And this
		
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			is not changing in a sense of
hypocrisy, but you have to pivot
		
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			pivot from the aspect that as the
province is said, liquidity
		
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			meccanica for every situation,
every circumstance, there's a way
		
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			to talk, right? When you need to
get people's attention. There's a
		
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			way to talk, once you've got
people's attention, there's a
		
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			different way to talk. If you're
looking for a short term goal,
		
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			there's an approach, right? You
can be
		
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			one way when you're going for a
short, when you go for a long term
		
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			goal, you need to be more neutral,
you need to be more together
		
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			oriented, group oriented. If you
want to go long, you have to go
		
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			together. Okay. So again, we're
not saying here, we're just going
		
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			to join everything. Everything's
Fuzzy Wuzzy. I'm not into that
		
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			everyone knows I'm not into that
at all. Never be into that.
		
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			Because principle is the main
thing. And personally speaking, I
		
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			like to sleep at night. And if you
can't sleep at night, when you
		
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			know that you believe one thing,
but you just said the opposite.
		
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			Okay? You believe one thing, but
the opposite is happening in real
		
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			life. How can you sleep? How could
you sleep with yourself? Okay, so
		
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			we're not going to leave off with
any of those principles. So at the
		
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			same time, we're going to be with
the agenda that we feel we're
		
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			comfortable with. What is the name
of the book, the name of the book
		
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			is etiquettes of companionship by
Imam is SHA Ronnie, this is the
		
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			book. And this is the first half
of what we talked about in the
		
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			virtues of seclusion clash which
is now up at Safina dash
		
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			online.teachable.com. Okay,
		
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			I should have said is this about
Muslim life in America can people
		
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			of Pakistan where everyone is
Muslim, and we are in power, take
		
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			advice from this? I definitely
think I'd take advice from this
		
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			because the common person in any
Muslim country right now is
		
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			surrounded by secular forces, and
oftentimes surrounded by secular
		
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			family, and oftentimes is mocks in
his own home, okay. And in their
		
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			own family, and everyone knows
family members from different
		
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			countries where
		
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			the the be praying is mocked.
Alright, showing up with a beard
		
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			is mocked. So you're going to be
stepping away from those groups
		
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			and guard yourself from these
groups. I'm telling you any
		
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			personality that's going to
secularize your thought that's
		
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			going to weaken your passion for a
better for Dean, and everything's
		
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			got to have passion. We got to
have passion. If there's no
		
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			passion, it's dead. What is a
business? What is it right? If
		
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			you're new in this if there's no
passion for Dean, and no passion
		
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			and love for the issue, then stop
doing it. I have trouble doing
		
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			anything that I really don't love.
Okay, we'll have cola saying
		
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			watching from Albania Allahu
Akbar, Shola.
		
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			What are the Bible says sometimes
no matter how polite you are,
		
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			people are still sensitive and get
offended. That's true. But you
		
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			have to look at your you have to
look at the majority. And you have
		
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			to look at your colleagues and
your
		
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			yours. If your colleagues and your
peers are, you're taking their
		
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			advice, you're listening to them,
then most likely, you're gonna get
		
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			the truth. So a lot of times it's
true, they're going to be offended
		
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			and my my Polit politically
speaking, I'll never support
		
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			certain things that are
contradictory, directly
		
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			contradictory to the sharp end,
we're just not going to support
		
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			them. And those people are going
to constantly be offended. So
		
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			well, there's nothing you can do
about that as long as you wouldn't
		
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			ever be embarrassed. Definitely 10
years down the line, showing
		
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			people your statement and
realizing that you really put in
		
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			an effort to remove anything that
is can cause an unnecessary fight
		
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			that will cause unnecessary
offense towards people if people
		
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			are going to be offended by the
truth. That's a different story.
		
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			And if the prophet peace be upon
him was the was the most polite,
		
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			most beautiful, best presentation
that you're gonna find? And they
		
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			still were offended? What did
Allah say? The Prophet ALLAH
		
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			SubhanA wa Tada consoled the
messenger peace be upon him. He
		
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			said, they are upset with you.
They have an issue with Allah as
		
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			soon as I let it go was the Imam
shift Sarani mainly quotes our
		
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			little house which was his his
teachers ship. He says you must be
		
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			merciful to Muslims, if you wish
to be shown mercy that you bear
		
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			their sorrows is from being
merciful to them. And a lot of
		
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			people when they see some of our
brothers and sisters sort of
		
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			really walking boldly into COFA by
the idea that they're ingesting
		
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			and digesting and laughing at
okay, and oftentimes they mock and
		
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			laugh at matters of Dean and you
see this your natural instinct and
		
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			reaction is to go into a rage is
to become the anti Satan of Musa
		
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			de Sena. He's Kadeem, Allah, Allah
chosen ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada said
		
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			he looked at the earth to see who
will up turn the overturn the
		
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			frown, and he found no heart more
humble than the heart of Moses
		
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			said no Musa has mentioned the
Quran over 36 times, say Musa
		
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			alayhis salam is the profit
mentioned by name more than any
		
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			other profit on Amis
		
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			on the Vienna MBA, Jimmy an
assault which is no one is going
		
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			to have a rank of Prophet Musa
they said what did he do when he
		
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			went back down the mountain and
saw them worshipping the golden
		
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			calf? After the Anwar, right. For
affordability can be Russia he
		
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			he took his brother heroines
Beardy through the tablets broke
		
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			the tablets. Okay, took the beard.
I looked at what after the
		
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			bureaucracy educate your children
who in a college dorm letter could
		
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			be like it will be ROTC right in
the country to intercooler for
		
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			ROTC, the bane of any sorority. He
said he took the beard of Satan
		
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			the heroine and Jeff slammed him
against the wall. What how long a
		
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			profit you're taking the beard of
a profit and slamming him up
		
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			against the wall and yelling at
him and you're taking the the
		
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			tablets that Allah just himself
just etched in the mat his message
		
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			to the bene so I eat and you're
throwing them and breaking them
		
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			across the mountain. Right? This
is the rage that said the Musa
		
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			Kate went into but why he went
into this rage and he threw the
		
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			tablets and he grabbed the beard
of his of another prophet. Okay?
		
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			And Allah azza wa jal never gave
him a moment of a tab. Not a word
		
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			was said to Musa de Sena that Why
did you do this?
		
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			Because he was angry for the right
reason. He was angry because he
		
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			saw his people who just saw the
miracle of Allah open the Red Sea
		
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			a month ago. And now 40 days
later, they travelled a little
		
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			bit, they rested a little bit, he
went up the mountain for 40 days,
		
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			he came back down, they're
worshipping a false god. Not even
		
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			two months have passed by.
		
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			So his rage and his anger had a
reason. There was a reason for his
		
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			rage. And as I have an article on
this in Muslim matters, that Moses
		
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			his anger is famous. It's known
that Allah never took him to
		
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			account for it because he was
angry for the right reason. Good.
		
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			Now, this is the point that we
talked about, we were saying that
		
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			sometimes anger has is valid, it
has a reason, and it's acceptable.
		
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			But what we're saying and at the
same time, say no Musa is one of
		
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			our examples that Allah says in
the Quran, Allah, Allah Dena Had
		
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			Allah Febi, who doubted it, but we
also have a Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam who's the
greatest example. He's the
		
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			greatest example. And he's the one
that we should be thinking of,
		
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			when we're presenting this data to
others when we're presenting this
		
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			deal to others. Is this going to
please the Prophet peace be Vaughn
		
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			and what I've said earlier, it's
not enough to be sincere. It's not
		
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			enough to be correct. Your
presentation has to be beautiful.
		
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			If you're going to talk about the
Sonos prophets, I said, that's
		
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			what he deserves. Because the
messengers of Allah, why do you
		
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			sell them deserves a better
effort? He does
		
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			deserves an effort in which we've
		
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			taken consideration, we fought
about the issue of how is our
		
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			message being presented, okay. And
if we've made mistakes in the
		
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			past, I'm number one in that, then
we make up for it in the future,
		
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			we're not going to pout and cry or
defend ourselves and try to be
		
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			better, we're going to fix it.
Suja Farukh says, I recall there
		
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			may be a hadith that the messenger
SallAllahu sallam said, A time
		
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			will come
		
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			believe it will sleep at night and
become a disbeliever in the
		
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			morning scary stuff. Do you think
we are approaching these times?
		
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			Believe it or not, I do believe
we're approaching these times. And
		
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			I do believe that some of us have
actually seen it. And the
		
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			disbelief that is in this hadith
is both the disbelief that is
		
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			direct open air to that leaving
Islam openly. And speaking of the
		
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			ex Muslims, which is funny,
because they, they never stopped
		
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			being ex Muslims, like I'm waiting
for them to be something else.
		
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			Right. And they never stop
obsessing with the issue of Islam.
		
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			The funny thing about ex Muslims
is they keep hanging around Muslim
		
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			circles trying to bother us. And I
got one of them. And I banned him
		
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			from the page. He is famous
actually, as an ex Muslim, that he
		
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			goes and he tries to bother you.
And then he puts it up on his
		
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			website, and hamdulillah some of
the brothers warned me about him,
		
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			so I just banned them right away.
But it's funny that ex Muslims
		
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			never stopped being ex Muslims,
like you can be ex Muslim, but
		
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			then are going to be something
else like what are you going to be
		
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			a Democrat, a Christian, an
atheist of, you know, follower of
		
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			Dawkins, you know, be something
else, but they never stopped being
		
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			ex Muslims, and they unify and
they gather and they have these
		
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			meetings, as ex Muslims, it's
almost like, aren't you going to
		
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			be something else like move on
already. So in any event, that's
		
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			ex Muslim, but the other type of
cover is the open contradiction of
		
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			Allah's book is covered below. And
there is no two Muslims that are
		
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			going to disagree that the open
contradiction of Allah's book is
		
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			covered.
		
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			So when you say that you're going
to support and validate, and aid
		
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			and believe in something that
Allah is telling you is simple, is
		
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			we should disbelieve in, we should
be pushing against that, in a
		
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			sense, is an open call for a
builder as it's comfortable. Now,
		
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			there's nothing else to call it.
And people will take up a cause,
		
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			you know, at a campus or at a high
school, or what have you, they'll
		
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			take up a cause. And they'll
openly support it. And when they
		
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			do, so, they're contradicting
God's book, right. And when you do
		
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			that, and there are certain things
that are done ot that doesn't need
		
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			an explanation. It's known in
religion is known to Muslims, Jews
		
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			and Christians. And when they do
that
		
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			their deeds aren't going to be
accepted, they won't be accepted
		
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			inside of a lawn. So they've
rectified that belief. And that's
		
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			something that we're riding
against. And I'm telling you, we
		
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			need to vaccinate all of us need
to be vaccinated and to pass on
		
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			the vaccines. And it's not enough
that certain things are not for
		
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			scholars that already yet are not
just for scholars, every common
		
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			Muslim has the right has the
obligation to command right and
		
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			forbid wrong when it comes to or
to to clarify the issue when it
		
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			comes to Bodia to deen and what I
put on Muslim matters the other
		
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			day, the 14 points is from there
all delorey of the deen and I'm
		
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			going to be putting little one to
two page essays on these issues.
		
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			Okay, so that you as a common
Muslim out there, you're not maybe
		
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			don't know the Hadith don't know
how to cite verses don't know how
		
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			to how to put the argument
together. It's going to take you
		
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			60 seconds to figure this out to
see it. It's so simple. It's so
		
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			easy, and you need to pass it on
you as a common Muslim. It's,
		
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			it's, it's a duty upon us if we
have any care, okay? Even if
		
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			you're not a professional, you're
not doing Tao full time. You're
		
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			not studying full time you're not
you haven't studied in the past,
		
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			but certain things don't require
studying the idea of obey God and
		
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			obey His prophet that God is the
one that Allah azza wa jal can
		
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			determine to us what's right and
what's wrong. The basic
		
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			reputations of secularism does not
require scholarship. It doesn't
		
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			require scholarship, but I'm
putting it in a little essay that
		
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			hopefully be published soon. Okay,
that you can all see download
		
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			Holika leaders, Sunday school
leaders, Islamic school, middle
		
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			school, high school, I mean, I
teach the reputation of
		
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			secularism, I teach that to little
kids, right? Very simply, I say
		
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			who made us Allah subhanaw taala.
If you make something who gives
		
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			the instructions on how to use it?
Right? If you have a frigerator,
		
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			if you have a computer who gives
the instructions? Anyone? Or the
		
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			or the one who made it? Well, they
all get it. They all get a toy,
		
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			and you have instructions? Well,
you're only going to get the
		
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			instructions from here. If your
dad says No, put the battery this
		
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			way. The kid says no, the
instruction says the other way.
		
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			Who's right? The instructions,
right? The instructions the one
		
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			who makes the item has the right
to give the instructions.
		
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			Likewise, do we believe Allah made
us yes or no? Right? And if the
		
00:29:55 --> 00:29:57
			answer is yes, then we also
believe that he can tell us what
		
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			to do. So what's right and what's
wrong is the
		
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			Turn by luck, what we do, and what
we don't do is determined by God
		
00:30:03 --> 00:30:06
			and His messenger. And any human
being that contradicts that we
		
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			don't obey them in that, okay? We
can be nice to them, you could
		
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			deal with them, but we won't obey
them in that. Alright, very
		
00:30:12 --> 00:30:17
			simple, very easy refutation
against this secularism, because
		
00:30:17 --> 00:30:20
			what's going to happen is people
are going to come and no one have
		
00:30:20 --> 00:30:22
			taught them that lesson. They
never took their flu shot, they
		
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			never took the vaccine, and then
they're going to be told that
		
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			something is right, that there are
human rights, that there are other
		
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			rights out there, and they're
gonna absorb those as truths, and
		
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			then weigh the Quran, and weigh
Islam against those
		
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			principles that they were taught
in a secular environment. Alright,
		
00:30:41 --> 00:30:45
			and once that happens, it's too
late in the game.
		
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			Alright, so we'll have cola
perhaps says What if the religious
		
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			leaders and the Muslim community
around us are corrupted and do
		
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			what the who they're doing with
the Kitab abandon a model for Nyan
		
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			mocha? Then what should our
relationship with this Gemma be?
		
00:31:01 --> 00:31:05
			The relationship with is it is
that if you're not in a position
		
00:31:05 --> 00:31:10
			to rectify a situation, and you're
in a position actually to be
		
00:31:10 --> 00:31:16
			negatively affected, then we could
say what say North man said, say
		
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			North man was asked the same
question about the rebels, right?
		
00:31:20 --> 00:31:24
			Those who were rebelling against,
say a North man, and they had
		
00:31:24 --> 00:31:30
			surrounded his home. And some of
the some of the Teviot in the
		
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			young
		
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			Muslims who had never met the
prophet, but they met these Sahaba
		
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			they essay northmen off, man,
they're doing this and this and
		
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			this, but they're also praying,
right? And they sort of taken over
		
00:31:40 --> 00:31:42
			the message of the Prophet and
they were leading the prayer there
		
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			should we pray behind them or not?
Say no with man said the prayer is
		
00:31:46 --> 00:31:49
			the best thing that Allah has
brought down to the earth. So if
		
00:31:49 --> 00:31:52
			you see those people doing
something good, do it with them,
		
00:31:52 --> 00:31:55
			if you see them doing something
bad stuff away from them. So if
		
00:31:55 --> 00:31:59
			the that group is doing something
good, then keep that tie. If they
		
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			start doing something bad, then be
different from them. Right? So or
		
00:32:03 --> 00:32:06
			stay away from them when they're
doing something bad. And in your
		
00:32:06 --> 00:32:10
			own ability, where you're capable,
where you have the right to talk
		
00:32:10 --> 00:32:14
			where you have the right to speak,
and guide or to write, then
		
00:32:14 --> 00:32:17
			commend the right and forbid the
wrong don't go into someone else's
		
00:32:17 --> 00:32:21
			message that someone else is
running and stand up like we had
		
00:32:21 --> 00:32:22
			some guy do
		
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			in our masjid and trying to tell
us what to do. Okay, and he's
		
00:32:27 --> 00:32:30
			totally having no respect for the
gym. Ah, that is that's out of
		
00:32:30 --> 00:32:34
			line. So commanding right and
forbidding wrong has rules has
		
00:32:34 --> 00:32:37
			guidelines, and the guideline is
you do it, where you have the
		
00:32:37 --> 00:32:41
			right to do it, you don't do it.
Okay, where someone else is in
		
00:32:41 --> 00:32:46
			charge someone else's running the
thing, okay, unless it is open
		
00:32:47 --> 00:32:49
			sinfulness as this hobby. One
time.
		
00:32:50 --> 00:32:55
			One of the Omega princes came in
to leeks about to eat and he stood
		
00:32:55 --> 00:32:58
			up to give the hookah first where
it's known that it's a sulphurs.
		
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			So one of the Sahaba stood up
said, Turn around switch it is to
		
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			Salah first, not the football
first. So unless it's open like
		
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			that, otherwise, leave off those
groups of spread the good in your
		
00:33:10 --> 00:33:14
			own sphere so that we don't become
people of fitna going into
		
00:33:14 --> 00:33:17
			different masajid causing troubles
who are everyone remembers those
		
00:33:17 --> 00:33:21
			Neji types, the Wahhabi types that
went around all the different
		
00:33:21 --> 00:33:24
			masajid causing trouble, right
trying to do revolutions in the
		
00:33:24 --> 00:33:28
			mosque trying to steal followers
from those mosques. Right? And
		
00:33:29 --> 00:33:31
			they cause all this trouble and
they cause more people to have
		
00:33:31 --> 00:33:35
			hate and anger. They have a
greater legacy of hatred and anger
		
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			than they have guidance. Okay. And
they were saying God Allah Tala su
		
00:33:40 --> 00:33:42
			they were saying God said Prophet
said and they were quoting all the
		
00:33:42 --> 00:33:46
			Hadith and everything. But
ultimately they cause more grief,
		
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			more hardship, more pain on people
than everyone else. And this is
		
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			again all this we touched upon it
of when to be with the people and
		
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			when not to in the virtues of
seclusion videos. Next thing he
		
00:34:00 --> 00:34:00
			says
		
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			you must know that our bearing the
sorrows of our fellow Muslims,
		
00:34:08 --> 00:34:12
			does not oppose submitting oneself
to the decree of Allah azza wa
		
00:34:12 --> 00:34:16
			jal, unlike what some people
think. The servant bears the
		
00:34:16 --> 00:34:19
			sorrow of his fellow and
accordance to their having earned
		
00:34:19 --> 00:34:23
			sense for which they are liable to
the calamity that has befallen
		
00:34:23 --> 00:34:27
			them, and he acknowledges in
accordance to the Divine Cree, for
		
00:34:27 --> 00:34:30
			which the knowledge has come to
pass. Thus it is impossible to
		
00:34:30 --> 00:34:32
			repel something like that. So
understand, a group of ignorant
		
00:34:32 --> 00:34:35
			chicks are mistaken in this
regard, believing they themselves
		
00:34:35 --> 00:34:38
			are submitting to Allah azza wa
jal, while they reject anyone they
		
00:34:38 --> 00:34:41
			see bearing the sorrow of his
fellows. They say why is so and so
		
00:34:41 --> 00:34:46
			opposing divine decrees and they
think that which they follow is
		
00:34:46 --> 00:34:49
			more correct, but they're wrong.
What he's saying here is when
		
00:34:49 --> 00:34:55
			people are in a state of sadness,
what you don't tell them is stop
		
00:34:55 --> 00:34:57
			being sad. This is Allah's will.
		
00:34:58 --> 00:34:59
			This is what you don't tell them
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:04
			Because the idea of sadness is not
contradictory to the idea of
		
00:35:04 --> 00:35:08
			believing in Divine Will,
believing in what Allah has has
		
00:35:08 --> 00:35:12
			decreed that yes, this is a
decree. And sometimes it's a
		
00:35:12 --> 00:35:18
			punishment, you do certain things,
okay, you're gonna get a reaction,
		
00:35:18 --> 00:35:21
			you eat unhealthy, you can get a
heart attack, there's going to be
		
00:35:21 --> 00:35:26
			a reaction. So just because
someone's sad about the Nasrullah,
		
00:35:26 --> 00:35:31
			or the fitna that's coming down,
does not mean at all in any way,
		
00:35:31 --> 00:35:34
			shape, or form, that they're
rejecting the divine decree. And
		
00:35:34 --> 00:35:38
			just because you're doing them,
you're consoling them. Okay? When
		
00:35:38 --> 00:35:42
			you console someone, also doesn't
mean that you're denying the
		
00:35:42 --> 00:35:46
			divine decree. Right. So this is
what he's saying here is sympathy
		
00:35:47 --> 00:35:51
			and empathy for people does not
necessarily mean we're denying the
		
00:35:51 --> 00:35:57
			Divine Decree, nor even, and for
telling them, you know, that they
		
00:35:57 --> 00:36:01
			were right about what they've
done. So people do wrong, they
		
00:36:01 --> 00:36:06
			make mistakes, provided that
you're not affirming the wrong,
		
00:36:06 --> 00:36:11
			right or supporting them in the
wrong, you're gonna have you it's
		
00:36:11 --> 00:36:15
			acceptable for them to be sad and
for you to be to console their
		
00:36:15 --> 00:36:15
			sadness.
		
00:36:22 --> 00:36:25
			Another Hadith says, someone who
does not bear the interest of
		
00:36:25 --> 00:36:30
			Muslims is not from among them,
someone who cuts off the Muslims
		
00:36:30 --> 00:36:34
			and has no interest in their
affairs, any longer the Prophet
		
00:36:34 --> 00:36:37
			peace be upon him, he declares
them that they're not one of them,
		
00:36:37 --> 00:36:42
			not one of them in the aspect of
receiving God's mercy, receiving
		
00:36:42 --> 00:36:44
			the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa
taala.
		
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			Not from the aspect that he's a
Catholic. So it's not like if I
		
00:36:48 --> 00:36:51
			don't care about what's happening
in some country about the Muslims
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:54
			then, and I'm not reading up on
it, and I'm not getting angry.
		
00:36:54 --> 00:36:58
			That doesn't mean that I'm not a
Muslim. It just means that when
		
00:36:58 --> 00:37:00
			the book comes out to the entire
Ummah, that that person won't have
		
00:37:00 --> 00:37:03
			a share in it, that when the
protection comes from the entire
		
00:37:03 --> 00:37:07
			OMA, that person won't have a
share in it. When do I made for
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:10
			the entire OMA, that person will
have a share in it. That's the
		
00:37:10 --> 00:37:14
			meaning of that millennia Tenma,
the only a modern Muslim in Felisa
		
00:37:14 --> 00:37:16
			minimum, who doesn't care about
the affairs of Muslims is not from
		
00:37:16 --> 00:37:19
			among them. We're a people that we
don't have the elitism in our
		
00:37:19 --> 00:37:22
			community we might have in the
people, but we don't have elitism.
		
00:37:23 --> 00:37:26
			We don't have an idea that I'm not
going to those places, those
		
00:37:26 --> 00:37:29
			places are beneath me, because
what gathers us are is the
		
00:37:29 --> 00:37:32
			masajid. And what what gathers us
in the massage and is something
		
00:37:32 --> 00:37:35
			that has nothing to do with
people, which is the Salah, okay,
		
00:37:35 --> 00:37:38
			and the the ultimate unifying
factor of the Muslims is the
		
00:37:38 --> 00:37:43
			obligatory prayer in the masajid.
So after July in particular, so a
		
00:37:43 --> 00:37:46
			lot will affect you tragedy in
Asia, in particular, the Sillas
		
00:37:46 --> 00:37:48
			you're going for Allah azza wa
jal, you're not going for people.
		
00:37:49 --> 00:37:52
			So if you refuse to go there's a
problem. There are some massages
		
00:37:52 --> 00:37:55
			that you're allowed not to go to.
The massages that you're allowed
		
00:37:55 --> 00:38:01
			not to go to are the masajid that
were established by groups people
		
00:38:01 --> 00:38:05
			who are upon the Creed dot theta,
and listen with Gemma, and these
		
00:38:05 --> 00:38:11
			are the mainly reformist or Mata
Zilla, the MATA Zilla, the Shia
		
00:38:11 --> 00:38:14
			and the majestic Anna, any of
these people who established the
		
00:38:14 --> 00:38:18
			masjid a person should stay away
from it. And most most of the
		
00:38:18 --> 00:38:23
			Creed's the aka and that go
straight. They could easily be
		
00:38:23 --> 00:38:27
			placed into one of these three
categories, either at design,
		
00:38:27 --> 00:38:31
			which is at the modular or even
way better than today's reformers.
		
00:38:32 --> 00:38:36
			They were scholars they were
pious. They they had a lot of good
		
00:38:36 --> 00:38:39
			qualities to them, but they were
marked as Allah which means that
		
00:38:39 --> 00:38:43
			they've judged revelation with
their own reason. Okay. That's
		
00:38:43 --> 00:38:46
			their main flaw which caused them
to negate certain attributes of
		
00:38:46 --> 00:38:51
			God so they negated that the kalam
of Allah azza wa jal, the Quran
		
00:38:51 --> 00:38:54
			was his speech, they negated that
because they made the argument
		
00:38:54 --> 00:38:59
			that wait a second, Arabic is not
pre eternal. So if Allah speech is
		
00:38:59 --> 00:39:03
			going to be pre eternal, okay,
it's his attribute that existed
		
00:39:03 --> 00:39:06
			forever. The Arabic language did
not exist forever. So how was the
		
00:39:06 --> 00:39:10
			Quran Allah speech, so therefore
they said, It is Allah speech from
		
00:39:10 --> 00:39:14
			the aspect of ownership, okay, but
it's not his attribute. And so
		
00:39:14 --> 00:39:17
			Noah Jamal came in and said, No,
you're misunderstanding what
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:23
			divine speech is. Divine speech.
Kolev Allah azza wa jal is his
		
00:39:23 --> 00:39:26
			speech without sound without
letters without beginning without
		
00:39:26 --> 00:39:30
			ending without grammar, without
language, etc. It's just kind of
		
00:39:30 --> 00:39:34
			Neff See, and that's what existed
before it ever went into a no hot
		
00:39:34 --> 00:39:38
			food, okay. And then it came down
as the Quran. So they said that's
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:42
			what's Kalam Allah and whoever
says that what's between the binds
		
00:39:42 --> 00:39:46
			of the Quran is not Kalam, Allah
is kappa. So they made took fear
		
00:39:46 --> 00:39:50
			of the martyrs Allah from that
aspect. But to in today's groups
		
00:39:50 --> 00:39:54
			are the so called progressive s
which really are regressive, and
		
00:39:54 --> 00:39:58
			the so called reformers, which are
nothing other than deform. So it's
		
00:39:58 --> 00:39:59
			really don't say
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:03
			progressive or riff reform and
progressive, you wrote you should
		
00:40:03 --> 00:40:07
			say is deform and regression.
That's what it is it's deform and
		
00:40:07 --> 00:40:10
			regression, and it should
constantly be on our mind. And if
		
00:40:10 --> 00:40:13
			there's a snake, if there are
snakes in around your house,
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:16
			aren't you going to make sure that
the windows are closed that the
		
00:40:16 --> 00:40:18
			doors are shut, that your eyes are
out there for where the snakes
		
00:40:18 --> 00:40:21
			are? Right? And anytime a snake
comes out, you want to make sure
		
00:40:21 --> 00:40:23
			that you know that they're
		
00:40:25 --> 00:40:29
			that you get rid of them. All
right, same thing with deform and
		
00:40:29 --> 00:40:32
			regression movements, that they're
corrupting you and your faith, the
		
00:40:32 --> 00:40:35
			corrupting your afterlife, so you
have to keep your eye out. Okay?
		
00:40:35 --> 00:40:38
			And the other two groups are the
majeste sama those who are giving
		
00:40:38 --> 00:40:42
			a lot of the refuse to make
Tenzin. The tansy have ALLAH
		
00:40:42 --> 00:40:44
			SubhanA which I do, which is to
say that he is
		
00:40:46 --> 00:40:50
			not subjected to time place,
location, direction, physicality,
		
00:40:50 --> 00:40:52
			this is known it's unsorted to
look for loss,
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:54
			basically,
		
00:40:55 --> 00:40:57
			and implied in SUTA luckless
		
00:40:58 --> 00:41:02
			glow low, the low summit Lemina
dual immunity will America local
		
00:41:02 --> 00:41:06
			fauna had none like unto Him? And
then lastly, the Shiite groups who
		
00:41:06 --> 00:41:10
			disrespect the Prophet directly.
Or sorry, indirectly disrespect
		
00:41:10 --> 00:41:15
			the prophet by disrespecting is
Sahaba and his wives. Anyone who
		
00:41:15 --> 00:41:18
			says listen, I respect you, but
your wife is something she's,
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:21
			she's she's *. She's
ridiculous stuff Allah what
		
00:41:21 --> 00:41:25
			respect? Is that? Right? Right. I
respect you. Yeah, you're a good
		
00:41:25 --> 00:41:28
			Muslim, but your wife, she is like
an apostate. Okay, she's a
		
00:41:28 --> 00:41:31
			straight. What kind of respect is
that? I respect you. But you know,
		
00:41:31 --> 00:41:34
			those guys that hang around you.
They're all like the worst of
		
00:41:34 --> 00:41:37
			people. What kind of respect is
that? So anyone who disrespects
		
00:41:37 --> 00:41:41
			say that I shall be low on say,
No, I'm not saying that will
		
00:41:41 --> 00:41:44
			buckless a dip? Say no off man
said number one IRA. Alright,
		
00:41:44 --> 00:41:48
			anyone who's disrespecting them is
in fact disrespecting the Prophet.
		
00:41:48 --> 00:41:52
			And no one should say Listen, he's
shame but he doesn't curse the
		
00:41:52 --> 00:41:56
			Sahaba not curse the sahaba.
That's not an achievement. You
		
00:41:56 --> 00:41:59
			respect them? Okay, they are the
representatives of the Prophet
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:02
			peace people that he that's his
product. What is the product of
		
00:42:02 --> 00:42:08
			the prophets I send them is the
students. That's his product.
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:12
			That's who who produced he's
produced say that Isha said Norma,
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:17
			send Abu Bakar before him. Say no,
have men been offended. That is
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:20
			the handiwork of the Prophet is
the Sahaba that's why the prophets
		
00:42:20 --> 00:42:26
			I said him said follow me and my
companions after me. Okay. Follow
		
00:42:26 --> 00:42:30
			me and my companions after me. So
any disrespect to the prophets of
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:33
			Allah when he was alone. No one's
going to do it directly. They're
		
00:42:33 --> 00:42:37
			going to do it indirectly through
the wives and Sahaba of the
		
00:42:37 --> 00:42:40
			messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
salam who disrespects them has
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:43
			disrespected the Prophet when
Nabil Ella Bella millennium and
		
00:42:43 --> 00:42:47
			puts him the prophet is more
worthy to the believers than their
		
00:42:47 --> 00:42:51
			own selves. So you should be more
upset if the prophet is offended
		
00:42:51 --> 00:42:53
			than if you're offended. And
you're going to tell me that no
		
00:42:53 --> 00:42:55
			one's going to come and offend
your wife and you're not going to
		
00:42:55 --> 00:42:58
			be offended or offend your your
best friends and you're not going
		
00:42:58 --> 00:43:00
			to be offended. All right, you're
definitely going to be offended,
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:05
			and said, I Isha. What else does
she omit? Um, oh, minimum we need
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:09
			was legible on Mahato calm All
right, your his wives or your
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:13
			mother's? Right there, the Mothers
of the Believers by the word of
		
00:43:13 --> 00:43:15
			the Quran, so someone disrespects
your mom, you're not going to be
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:20
			upset? Right? Someone disrespects
your mama calls her all the names
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:22
			that they call Seda it's about the
love of Donna, you're not going to
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:27
			be upset you better be right. So
this this little way out of oh,
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:30
			they don't curse the Sahaba You
better not that's not an
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:33
			achievement that's a given. That's
beyond given. You respect them.
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:37
			Okay, and you honor them and you
say say you didn't have a say in
		
00:43:37 --> 00:43:42
			Abu Bakar say that it shall not be
allowed to add on. Okay, so that's
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:45
			the to show you on which may Allah
azza wa jal keep it away from us.
		
00:43:45 --> 00:43:48
			And I don't mind if you have a
share a neighbor you have a share
		
00:43:48 --> 00:43:51
			a doctor you have a share a
whatever you can have even shade
		
00:43:51 --> 00:43:55
			partner in business, not a problem
but don't come and try to make the
		
00:43:55 --> 00:43:58
			religious stuff all one and fuzzy
wuzzy it's not going to be it's
		
00:43:58 --> 00:43:59
			not gonna work out.
		
00:44:00 --> 00:44:04
			Okay, keep the religion aside and
keep your worldly business one
		
00:44:04 --> 00:44:05
			thing and your religious side
another thing
		
00:44:14 --> 00:44:19
			there is an amazing story. Amazing
story that's related to say that
		
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			an Imam Al Junaidi salak Muhammad
Ali Junaid Okay. A salak who was
		
00:44:29 --> 00:44:33
			one of the early scholars he
lived. I'm trying to think.
		
00:44:34 --> 00:44:38
			I think before a write up before
after saying that the madman would
		
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			have been humbled. And
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:44
			the situation happened. A man came
to him
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:52
			and said the homes, the houses in
your district have all been
		
00:44:52 --> 00:44:56
			consumed by a fire in your
neighborhood except yours. So he
		
00:44:56 --> 00:44:59
			said 100 and up and then
immediately he said a stock Fula
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:04
			And then he said What is it? He
said how could I have been happy?
		
00:45:04 --> 00:45:09
			Right like happy for myself and my
own house while all my brothers
		
00:45:09 --> 00:45:14
			homes have been burned down, and
it Junaid said, I have been making
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:18
			us to fall for that. That word and
hamdulillah I've been making this
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:22
			too far for it for 30 years.
That's what Juanita said exact.
		
00:45:22 --> 00:45:27
			Could you believe that? Could you
believe that? So here he says, say
		
00:45:27 --> 00:45:31
			no, um, I didn't know hooked up.
Okay. So you know, I'm gonna fuck
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:36
			up would not laugh at all, after a
calamity had befallen the Muslims
		
00:45:36 --> 00:45:40
			until that calamity had been
removed. Honorable Qatar would not
		
00:45:40 --> 00:45:44
			laugh. If there was a calamity
that befell someone, he wouldn't
		
00:45:44 --> 00:45:51
			laugh until it was absolved. So if
you had authority, Ahmedabad
		
00:45:51 --> 00:45:54
			disease, I'll die and the tsunami,
they all practice the same thing.
		
00:45:56 --> 00:45:57
			It's known that even
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:03
			so I didn't show up. Wouldn't
smile wouldn't laugh What a joke
		
00:46:03 --> 00:46:08
			until he had fulfilled his mission
of freeing Jerusalem from the
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:08
			Crusaders.
		
00:46:10 --> 00:46:13
			But I had says, How could I be
happy for myself when all the
		
00:46:13 --> 00:46:15
			homes of my friends were burnt
out? That's what we that's what he
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:19
			said some how to love. Right? And
how am I supposed to just go be
		
00:46:19 --> 00:46:24
			jovial, be happy when all this
calamity is happening? So at least
		
00:46:24 --> 00:46:27
			we can do that when it has to do
with people we know. Right? People
		
00:46:27 --> 00:46:30
			we know. And there are certain
things that aren't becoming.
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:36
			There was one time a friend, they
had a funeral. And they the
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:41
			certain person died in the
community. Another group that were
		
00:46:41 --> 00:46:45
			close within they had their
wedding scheduled, right. They had
		
00:46:45 --> 00:46:46
			their wedding scheduled and you
know that these weddings when
		
00:46:46 --> 00:46:49
			they're scheduled. Firstly, you
have the invitations, you have a
		
00:46:49 --> 00:46:54
			lot of money put down the hall is
rented the vacations from work for
		
00:46:54 --> 00:46:58
			the honeymoon is all you can't
just cancel things anymore. So
		
00:46:58 --> 00:47:01
			they did have the wedding. But it
was a very somber wedding. Right?
		
00:47:01 --> 00:47:05
			And that's what they did. And they
they refuse to just be just as if
		
00:47:05 --> 00:47:09
			nothing happened. And I remember
one time, there was a situation
		
00:47:09 --> 00:47:12
			where a really bad thing had
happened to some people in the
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:15
			community. This was way back in
the day in Virginia. And it was
		
00:47:15 --> 00:47:19
			going to steam. It was one of the
intifadas and some really bad
		
00:47:19 --> 00:47:22
			things were happening and videos
were coming out of all these
		
00:47:22 --> 00:47:24
			horrible things that were
happening. And
		
00:47:25 --> 00:47:29
			the wedding of Palestinian wedding
was taking place. And my landlord
		
00:47:29 --> 00:47:33
			at the time I was living in his
basement is a great guy. He went
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:36
			off and he said, I can't believe
we're having this wedding. It's
		
00:47:36 --> 00:47:39
			just not the day. They just had a
Palestine March. And he went and
		
00:47:39 --> 00:47:42
			he came back that night. And he
told me you won't you're not going
		
00:47:42 --> 00:47:45
			to believe what happened. I said
what happened? He said they had
		
00:47:45 --> 00:47:50
			the wedding. It started off somber
because just the all the Intifada
		
00:47:50 --> 00:47:53
			stuff was happening. The bombs
were raining down kids were being
		
00:47:53 --> 00:47:56
			killed. You know how it is.
Whenever Israel goes into mow the
		
00:47:56 --> 00:48:02
			lawn, as they say, you know, cut
the grass in Gaza. And he said it
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:05
			started off, okay. But then they
pumped all the music up. And all
		
00:48:05 --> 00:48:08
			these people hit the dance floor
started dancing. And he's like,
		
00:48:08 --> 00:48:12
			Wait a second. It's not the this
isn't the right place. And he told
		
00:48:12 --> 00:48:15
			his wife, let's go. And they and
she was like, How can we go? These
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:18
			are my cousins, etc. He said,
Okay, I'm leaving, right. And he
		
00:48:18 --> 00:48:23
			refused to be in attendance with
all this joy, Glee and joy. And
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:27
			when on the same day, they just
had the march. And they just on
		
00:48:27 --> 00:48:30
			all this news was coming out all
these kids being killed in Gaza.
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:33
			And he and these were people from
Gaza. He's not like some people
		
00:48:33 --> 00:48:39
			that were from another ethnicity.
These were Palestinians. So he's
		
00:48:39 --> 00:48:43
			he went, he took his car and he
left his wife called him said pick
		
00:48:43 --> 00:48:46
			us up, you're not going to believe
what happened. So he goes, picks
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:51
			them up. And he said shortly after
you left, two girls on the dance
		
00:48:51 --> 00:48:54
			floor kept bumping into one
another forget the dancing. That's
		
00:48:54 --> 00:48:57
			a whole nother story in front of
the men and everything. They kept
		
00:48:57 --> 00:49:02
			bumping into each other. And they
started fighting. Their friends
		
00:49:02 --> 00:49:06
			started fighting and a brawl broke
out in the wedding, a brawl
		
00:49:06 --> 00:49:09
			amongst the girls. Like the the
girls that were dancing, not
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:13
			little girls like women that were
dancing. Then the guys got
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:17
			involved and the whole thing, the
whole dance floor turned into like
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:21
			a mosh pit of fights. Right? And
he came back and he told me this
		
00:49:21 --> 00:49:24
			and he said Subhanallah I knew it
wasn't right. Like he didn't. This
		
00:49:24 --> 00:49:27
			guy was just like a blue collar
guy. He's like, in my heart. I
		
00:49:27 --> 00:49:31
			knew it wasn't right. My gut knew
that it's not right to be that
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:34
			gleeful and happy at the same day,
the same moment
		
00:49:36 --> 00:49:41
			that these things that calamity
has fallen before and the Muslims.
		
00:49:43 --> 00:49:46
			All right, I think let's wrap up
here any questions or comments
		
00:49:46 --> 00:49:48
			that people have? We can take
		
00:49:49 --> 00:49:55
			it. All right. Nazma socket, says
What's your take on that man
		
00:49:55 --> 00:49:58
			message in which many elements
signed? Let me take a look.
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:02
			I can't even remember what it is.
Okay, the recognition of eight
		
00:50:02 --> 00:50:05
			schools of Cydia fiplima that have
been the varying schools of
		
00:50:05 --> 00:50:07
			Islamic theology.
		
00:50:08 --> 00:50:13
			Sunni Hanafi Sunni Maliki Sunni
Shafi Sunni, humbly, okay, Sunni,
		
00:50:13 --> 00:50:17
			Shia Joffrey Shia as ad is Shia
via the Shia Abadi, what is he
		
00:50:17 --> 00:50:20
			saying? forbade declaring an
apostate. Okay?
		
00:50:22 --> 00:50:25
			Is that what they're saying? That
forbade declaring an apostate
		
00:50:27 --> 00:50:33
			yet forbade declaring as motivated
as careful, yes, that's fine, that
		
00:50:33 --> 00:50:36
			we won't call them Kufa, that
doesn't mean they're right. That
		
00:50:36 --> 00:50:39
			doesn't mean it's Edison or the
math. That doesn't mean that
		
00:50:39 --> 00:50:41
			number one, most of these things
don't even have a chain of
		
00:50:41 --> 00:50:43
			transmission of reliability. And
people don't even know what a
		
00:50:43 --> 00:50:49
			method is a man have. Okay, a
method is the thought of a much
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:55
			dead, amen, that has come to us by
several mutawa chains of
		
00:50:55 --> 00:51:01
			transmission that exist until
today. So that there is no doubt
		
00:51:01 --> 00:51:04
			that yes, these are the words of
Abu Hanifa. This is the ruling of
		
00:51:04 --> 00:51:08
			Matic, this is the methodology of
Chef, right, et cetera. That's
		
00:51:08 --> 00:51:11
			what a myth have is and
unfortunately, the humbly method
		
00:51:11 --> 00:51:14
			is dying out. If someone can
revive it, it's not going to take
		
00:51:14 --> 00:51:19
			one person you need dozens upon
hundreds. So how do we know you
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:22
			can't just take a manuscript and
say, well, witch dead so and so
		
00:51:22 --> 00:51:25
			said, This witch said so and so
said that, how do you know who the
		
00:51:25 --> 00:51:28
			scribe was? How do you know if it
was written? A men have means that
		
00:51:28 --> 00:51:31
			in which dead men documented his
ideas upon
		
00:51:33 --> 00:51:37
			upon all the web of the deen and
then it was transmitted to us
		
00:51:37 --> 00:51:41
			generation after generation by
hundreds upon 1000s of scholars
		
00:51:41 --> 00:51:43
			who checked and double checked and
made sure that's what he said,
		
00:51:44 --> 00:51:47
			Okay, and then weighed it and
studied it and transmitted it to
		
00:51:47 --> 00:51:50
			us until so it's a living
tradition of thought from which to
		
00:51:50 --> 00:51:57
			head Imam. So we even discount
that. Yes, remember God the
		
00:51:57 --> 00:52:01
			theory, he has rulings and he had
followers. So if you had a thought
		
00:52:01 --> 00:52:02
			he had rulings.
		
00:52:04 --> 00:52:05
			Who else?
		
00:52:06 --> 00:52:11
			And Latham inside had a met him
and Oza I had a meth lab mobbin
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:16
			Mama will rush it had met him. So
many scholars had muda him but
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:19
			guess what, all of the Ottomans
are in agreement. We would not
		
00:52:19 --> 00:52:23
			allow that med hub to manifest
today why because we we don't have
		
00:52:23 --> 00:52:28
			their works in a transmission that
celled we have their books, yes,
		
00:52:28 --> 00:52:33
			published by publishers. But in
act in order to act upon it, to
		
00:52:33 --> 00:52:38
			live by it to believe it, we need
more thorough transmission, it
		
00:52:38 --> 00:52:41
			needs to be like a multilateral
transmission and the multilateral
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:44
			transmission of them which to hit
Imams is the transmission
		
00:52:44 --> 00:52:46
			transmission of
		
00:52:48 --> 00:52:52
			Abu Hanifa medica Shafi there are
hundreds upon 1000s. Okay,
		
00:52:52 --> 00:52:57
			hundreds upon 1000s of scholars in
every generation from those Imams
		
00:52:58 --> 00:53:01
			coming down to us bringing us
their work so that we can know
		
00:53:01 --> 00:53:04
			that that's exactly what they
said. So the transmission is the
		
00:53:04 --> 00:53:08
			question and what these this
listing here. And these don't even
		
00:53:08 --> 00:53:13
			have sound transmissions first of
all, so this Eman accord is not
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:18
			saying that these are all
acceptable doctrines at all. And
		
00:53:18 --> 00:53:20
			if they're saying that then
they're wrong, because there's not
		
00:53:20 --> 00:53:24
			even a discussion. Okay? What
they're saying is you do not
		
00:53:24 --> 00:53:27
			declare them as calf and and try
to kill them. That's what they're
		
00:53:27 --> 00:53:32
			saying. Right? You don't declare
them as COFA that's fine. No one's
		
00:53:32 --> 00:53:34
			saying she had her Kufa, we're
saying they're outside of some
		
00:53:34 --> 00:53:37
			ninjavan. Right? We're saying what
they're saying is wrong. All
		
00:53:37 --> 00:53:42
			right? What they're putting forth
is wrong. Right? And they're and
		
00:53:42 --> 00:53:46
			biddies were saying their bid A's.
These groups are bid A's, the the
		
00:53:46 --> 00:53:50
			sheer groups, the validity groups,
the IBA the advisory maybe not
		
00:53:50 --> 00:53:55
			hardly exists. The body groups
they are multimedia, okay. They're
		
00:53:55 --> 00:54:00
			Muqdadiyah which means that their
deeds will not be accepted by
		
00:54:00 --> 00:54:04
			Allah. Okay, let me just speak in
theory about not not a person
		
00:54:04 --> 00:54:05
			here, not about people.
		
00:54:07 --> 00:54:11
			The idea of a Biddy if you're
outside of Santa ngema, that your
		
00:54:11 --> 00:54:14
			deeds will not be accepted by
Allah azza wa jal until you
		
00:54:14 --> 00:54:21
			rectify your beliefs Okay. Until
you rectify Allah says not to
		
00:54:21 --> 00:54:22
			America okay.
		
00:54:24 --> 00:54:28
			This is that it's hard for me to
quote a middle of a in the off the
		
00:54:28 --> 00:54:35
			top of my head but have correct
belief. Okay, or else your Ahmed
		
00:54:35 --> 00:54:37
			your deeds are bought that
		
00:54:38 --> 00:54:39
			your deeds are bolted
		
00:54:42 --> 00:54:46
			surely Ayers Davis Yeah, I don't
know. Oh, this is either I don't
		
00:54:46 --> 00:54:50
			know you must have liked my page.
So don't like it unlike okay. I'm
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:53
			sorry. Salam aleikum? Why are
Muslim leader Imam talking about
		
00:54:53 --> 00:54:55
			the danger of liberalism,
secularism feminism. There are a
		
00:54:55 --> 00:54:59
			main reason people, people are now
talking about it. Okay.
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:02
			People are now
		
00:55:03 --> 00:55:06
			talking about this stuff. And
that's why I said that people
		
00:55:06 --> 00:55:11
			weren't listening before they are
listening now. They are talking
		
00:55:11 --> 00:55:16
			now. And Daniel's got his got the
brass knuckles off. Madman, Luke's
		
00:55:16 --> 00:55:20
			are talking about it. A lot of
people that say Yaqeen Institute
		
00:55:20 --> 00:55:23
			is talking about it, most of
matters is always been publishing
		
00:55:23 --> 00:55:28
			about it. So try to get into those
circles. And that's it's going to
		
00:55:28 --> 00:55:32
			be we're pushing back. The
pushback is coming, as there's no
		
00:55:32 --> 00:55:33
			doubt about that.
		
00:55:34 --> 00:55:37
			Sharifa Morgan says, I said I'm
gonna come rahmatullah wa
		
00:55:37 --> 00:55:42
			barakatuh. Can a Sunni attend an
event of molded, etc, of a Shia
		
00:55:42 --> 00:55:45
			msgid When there is no mention of
hating the Sahaba and wives that
		
00:55:45 --> 00:55:46
			are the Allahu Anhu?
		
00:55:47 --> 00:55:50
			An answer to that is what if Mr.
Muhammad Salah Barakatuh you
		
00:55:51 --> 00:55:55
			certainly should not attend to any
religious events by any of the big
		
00:55:55 --> 00:55:59
			three groups, any of the three che
groups, they are the 80s? The
		
00:55:59 --> 00:56:04
			Ismael 80s and the Imam ease which
are also known as the fibres, the
		
00:56:04 --> 00:56:08
			southerners and the twelvers. A
Sunni should not attend any acts
		
00:56:08 --> 00:56:14
			of worship with any religion or
any Shiri group or any bid a
		
00:56:14 --> 00:56:19
			group. You can if it's a social
matter, then maybe, right. But if
		
00:56:19 --> 00:56:20
			it is a
		
00:56:21 --> 00:56:25
			religious act, then we don't
believe that they're a bad that is
		
00:56:25 --> 00:56:30
			our acceptable their worship is
not acceptable. Okay, those who
		
00:56:30 --> 00:56:34
			will make portable ima and forgot
the habitat analog. That's the
		
00:56:34 --> 00:56:37
			idea of an accuracy manual
Cassadine will may affordable even
		
00:56:37 --> 00:56:42
			for the habitat Armello whoever
disbelieves in Eman when when
		
00:56:42 --> 00:56:47
			Allah says Amen, he means all of
it. Not some of it all of Amen.
		
00:56:47 --> 00:56:52
			All of the pillars of Aikido are
maniac hornbill. Amen, for cut the
		
00:56:52 --> 00:56:57
			habit Armello, okay, whoever
rejects Imen, any of it or all of
		
00:56:57 --> 00:57:02
			it. And the proof that when Allah
says whoever rejects Amen, that
		
00:57:02 --> 00:57:06
			it's any of it or all of it is
this ensuited Bacara whoever
		
00:57:06 --> 00:57:09
			believes disbelieves in one day,
it's as if you believe that all
		
00:57:09 --> 00:57:14
			this believes in all of it. Okay?
So, forgot the heavy Domino, his
		
00:57:14 --> 00:57:18
			armor are not accepted. And we had
a tsunami gemera We don't pray
		
00:57:18 --> 00:57:22
			behind any of the big age groups.
And I know that a lot of Western
		
00:57:22 --> 00:57:25
			Muslims, they like to be fuzzy,
that we like to be nice, and we
		
00:57:25 --> 00:57:29
			don't like to talk about these
things. But I do. And I liked to I
		
00:57:29 --> 00:57:33
			love data. I love knowing what I
believe in what I don't. And I
		
00:57:33 --> 00:57:36
			love knowing what to do and what
not to do. Right. And I'm telling
		
00:57:36 --> 00:57:39
			you, this is why selfies succeed.
You look at selfies, some people
		
00:57:39 --> 00:57:42
			that their facilities are not on
the radar at all. But let me tell
		
00:57:42 --> 00:57:46
			you there the work that they've
done, they have reached so many
		
00:57:46 --> 00:57:50
			people, and yes, there's a lot of
blowback. But a lot of people
		
00:57:50 --> 00:57:53
			leave it. And they've really
they've made more people angry and
		
00:57:53 --> 00:57:56
			miserable. All right, that's for
different reasons. But one thing
		
00:57:56 --> 00:57:59
			that they have that's good, is
they're very clear on what they
		
00:57:59 --> 00:58:01
			believe and what they don't
believe. And they have evidence,
		
00:58:01 --> 00:58:04
			all right. And likewise, we're
presenting here the evidence and
		
00:58:04 --> 00:58:08
			you can go and look at any of the
classical scholars, they will tell
		
00:58:08 --> 00:58:12
			you, the ALMA the a bad debt, the
good deeds, the acts of worship,
		
00:58:12 --> 00:58:17
			in the sight of Allah of the bidet
is not accepted. That's why we
		
00:58:17 --> 00:58:19
			don't pray behind them. I'm sorry
if that offends people, but that's
		
00:58:19 --> 00:58:21
			the truth. I really don't want to
offend people. And that's what I'm
		
00:58:21 --> 00:58:24
			talking about the ideas I'm not
talking about shady people, right?
		
00:58:24 --> 00:58:28
			I'm not talking about them. And I
guarantee you, if one of them
		
00:58:28 --> 00:58:30
			walks up to me, I don't know how
to be mean to people to their
		
00:58:30 --> 00:58:32
			face. I don't know how to offend
people. I don't want to offend
		
00:58:32 --> 00:58:35
			people. I don't like fighting with
people. But when it comes to
		
00:58:35 --> 00:58:41
			Arpita right, when it comes to
actual beliefs, right. And and our
		
00:58:41 --> 00:58:44
			Dean we got to be clear, right I'm
sorry. I gotta be clear on the
		
00:58:44 --> 00:58:45
			issue and those issues
		
00:58:47 --> 00:58:50
			we don't mix those issues up right
so I
		
00:58:51 --> 00:58:53
			anyway, let's move on.
		
00:58:55 --> 00:58:58
			So hey, Elsa, says Santa Monica.
Do hobbies fall into the three
		
00:58:58 --> 00:59:03
			categories of mossy suggest that
we stay away from if so. What
		
00:59:03 --> 00:59:06
			would you be say about prank
buying a layperson who frequently
		
00:59:07 --> 00:59:08
			for those types
		
00:59:09 --> 00:59:15
			only if they outwardly and openly
refuse the 10 Zia you don't have
		
00:59:15 --> 00:59:18
			to go searching for their opti
that we're not talking to police.
		
00:59:18 --> 00:59:21
			We don't go around searching what
people's opinions are that's the
		
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			way to do that. We don't do that
and what have you is not even the
		
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			right name because we'll have is a
beautiful thing nobody's okay.
		
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			Because that's the promise I send
them refuse to make dua for them.
		
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			The najis and he said bad things
would come out of Nigeria and he
		
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			was right. The whole movement of
the Nigeria where did it come out
		
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			of Nigeria? Okay. najis they do go
do Akita police, policing people's
		
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			aka and we don't do that. But if
an imam openly says and refuses to
		
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			make 10 z have Allah azza wa jal
from the physicality and body and
		
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			refuses to say No, Allah does not
have a physical form and a body at
		
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			that moment as soon as
		
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			He says that from the provider
again.
		
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			Neither is any Muslim no Muslim
would accept that touch seem. This
		
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			is called Tenzin.
		
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			Say it hasn't Jamel says salam
aleikum. I would like to know
		
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			about de hokum of perda while
watching looking at non Muslims on
		
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			TV, news channels, etc. The answer
is why they come with sunnah. It's
		
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			obligatory to lower the gaze from
non Muslim spirit. That's the
		
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			answer.
		
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			All right, so we'll stop. We'll
pause here for the day. And again,
		
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			we we looked at some of this
wonderful work beautiful workio
		
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			etiquettes of companionship by an
imam is shot Ani. And it's the
		
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			first part or first half of the
virtues of seclusion class, which
		
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			I'll put up the link right here.
		
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			That's the link right there. You
can get seven hours of classes on
		
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			that and on virtues of seclusion,
and I felt that was really
		
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			beneficial class and Hamdulillah.
But in any event, one last
		
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			question here.
		
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			ticos Adi Hall says a ceremony
will forgive me if this is
		
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			throwing a spanner in the works,
but how do we define Dynegy
		
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			people? Forget the names of the
people right now. The next is the
		
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			location. The next is the location
of East Central Arabia. That's the
		
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			nudge in the province I settled on
was making blessed to have prayed
		
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			for blessings on Shem and Yemen
and and people kept saying nudged
		
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			and he refused to pray for them.
And he said from there, we'll come
		
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			some fit them some tribulations
and earthquake and the horn of
		
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			Satan. And when we talk about the
melody people, we're really
		
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			talking about three issues. Number
one, the issue of touch Shimon
		
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			Updata and 10 Z, which we insist
upon and all Edison or GEMMA
		
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			insist upon from the times of the
early stuff, okay, they insist
		
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			upon this tansy which as we said,
is declaring that Allah azza wa
		
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			jal is free from bodily form from
existence in time from causing
		
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			effects these ASVAB from
direction, okay, from movement
		
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			displacement, that Allah is free
from all this, this is the most
		
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			important feature of of the
attributes of Allah is to know
		
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			these free from them. So if they
refuse to refuse that that's
		
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			number one, if they don't
recognize the validity of the MME,
		
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			and they merely look at them as
academics that you can't follow
		
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			them because they're wrong. And
they only view them academically
		
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			like history of the methods, but
you can't really follow them. We
		
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			reject that completely Abu Hanifa
his method is totally valid to be
		
01:03:05 --> 01:03:10
			followed. Okay, Maddix and Chevy's
mme are totally valid to be
		
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			followed and they're more
sympathetic to a Chevy than medica
		
01:03:14 --> 01:03:15
			number Hanifa.
		
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			Their methods if you don't
recognize the the Trent that those
		
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			chains of transmission so the men
hubs is the second issue. And the
		
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			third issue is their stances on
those whom the almost classical
		
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			time the OMA the scholars of
classical time recognize their
		
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			soul, their salah, I should say,
their righteousness of color,
		
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			Jada, Annie, Atma Rifai, these
people who the NASA moment and
		
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			only up we consider them only at
rather what they do is they have
		
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			very bad opinions towards them.
And what they're doing is they're
		
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			going against
		
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			what was an edge mounted upon
them, even even their own shift in
		
01:03:51 --> 01:03:56
			the Tamia recognizes that I've
covered Jelani was one of the
		
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			righteous and one of the earlier
and he had medical on that. So the
		
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			issues of the odia as the other
thing all right.
		
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			Hashem Muhammad saying reference,
please reference to what? We'll
		
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			get his clarification and then
we'll, we'll wrap it up
		
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			all right, he asked for reference.
		
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			We can type it in later if he if
he's going to
		
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			specify what he needs a reference
to so just happen to locate on
		
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			Subhanak Allahumma odiham digna
shadow and Illa Illa. Anta the
		
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			stuff we're going to do in a
class, in Al Insana, Fucus,
		
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			illAllah. Deena am Anwar Ministry
had what was what was sort of sub