Shadee Elmasry – Read These 6 Duas to Cure Your Sadness
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And if you asked me at a very basic level, I believe that
depressions that people suffer. It's compounded sadness. It's like
sadness, automatically, you didn't treat it, then it continued and it
continued into became your state. When we talk about our outside of
religion, outside of spirituality or regular emotional states, you
can't always control your emotional state, something can
make you sad. And then something can make you happy. But you don't
want to be a feather in the wind, you want to be more in control of
these states than not. So when sadness comes, you need to be able
to curb it and say, This is enough. This is that we're not
going to go any lower than this. And we're not this is not going to
go on for two or three days. We're going to put an end to it. Islam
helps us monitor these moods, so that you don't become a feather in
the wind. And then a mood takes you and controls you then that's
it's slavery. We have solutions to hose and folks do not let yourself
get set. And if you do, we have solutions. Let me read you some of
the prayers of the prophets of Allah who it was of them on the
subject matter that if you recite these jobs, you can't possibly get
said number one. La ilaha illallah al Halim will Karim Subhan Allah
He or Bill Arshad Adim Subhan Allah Arab Samoa to sub a what a
Banaras should carry him focus more on the these Dickerson dua
it's more than that. The reason for the sadness, so sadness can be
totally out of your control. Someone could totally ghost you.
Right? And you're like, Wait, I thought we were friends. Or
someone could just do an about face on you for for no apparent
reason that you know, he just don't know what what reasons
people have in their heads. Don't even go there. Don't try just do
that. Allah will take care of everything. This is from Ibn Ibis
that the Prophet used to say this, when he was struck by something in
his heart, any massive matter or personal matter or social matter?
What have you. How about this one, a great sadness came upon the
prophets of Allah who it was sudden them and of course the
prophets sadness is for extremely lofty, you know, reasons our
sadness is someone ghosted me, right? Someone didn't talk to me,
someone you know, just leaving me without answering me. And I
thought we were friends at thought if he had lost, Khadija had lost
Apple toilet. And he was now sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
without any support, outwardly or inwardly. And he went to talk if
it's to give them the Dower, and they treated him extremely
viciously and rudely. And they were violent, and they sent kids
out to throw rocks at him. And they mocked him. So the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said from his heart this this extremely
powerful dua, which is a cure for anybody who has sadness Allahumma
inni escuela alayka Dafa Kuwaiti Oh Allah I complain on to you the
weakness of my strength locket Allah to heal it and the meekness
of my abilities, my plans, well, how can you harness and how easy I
am to be rejected by people? And that's how people feel sometimes
they feel so easily to be rejected. So easily rejected by
everyone. So that really hits home. Yeah, out of hamara he mean,
almost Merciful of the merciful and rubble Musa Dauphine, YOU'RE
THE LORD OF THE WEEK won't be and you're my lord Illa mentor
Killarney unto Whom will you? Will you give me in other words who's
going to who's going to be have power over me? It got even yet to
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Emery or someone near but is in control of me in lemmya Can Baker
hollobone Aliya fella who barely if there isn't, if you have no
anger upon me, as long as you're not angry with me then I don't
mind any of this. As long as Allah is accepting me and is pleased
with me then then I can bear all these hardships while I can. Or
Machuca hiya Elsa Ali, however your mercy is easier for me such a
powerful dua the next one Allah Who mufaddal Him what can she
fella come? Oh Allah, the remover of anxiety and the remover of
sadness. Alhambra welcome Mooji boo Zhao wattle Motorin the one
who answers the prayer of the one who is in dire need of a man who
dunya will Accra the merciful in the dunya and the Accra whare.
Hema Houma and he is Rahim compassionate in the dunya and her
entire family for hum NEERA mutton, Tov Nene beha and Robert
Merton and rahmati menzi work. If you have mercy upon me have mercy
upon me with with an amount of mercy that will make me not need
anyone else's sympathy. It's not good to need sympathy from people.
It's not a good treat. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the
in in when he was constricted, or when he was said he used to say
Allahumma in the abduct. Oh Allah I'm yours
Live and the son of your slave webinar optic webinar emetic and
the son of your female slave now see antibiotic. My forelock is in
your hands meaning all of my if you have if you control someone by
his head by his forelock the front of his hair, you can drag him
anywhere, right. So it's an expression that says everything of
my affairs is in your hands. Mauldin Fia hockomock Your ruling
is happening. Whatever you rule is happening to me. I don't fear
kuduk Your judgment upon me is always fair. As educated equally
is men who are like I asked you about with every name that you
possess. Allah has so many names, some made to be enough such that
you named yourself with Ansel tofi kitab IK or you revealed it in
your book. I limped out I had a monocarpic Are you taught any of
your creation, this name, I asked you by all these names. I was set
thought to be the enemy of AB index or you name that you possess
that you kept it with yourself. That was not revealed to anybody.
And Ted Johanna Khurana Robbia kalbi to make the Quran the spring
on my hearts. When neurosurgery and the light of my chest were
Gela, Hosni and the expeller of my sadness. Were the hair behind me
and the remover of my anxieties. So the prophets of Allah when he
was salam here is teaching us turn to dua. Number one, there's so
many lessons in this, he calls upon Allah that he answers the
prayer of the desperate so pray with desperation. That's number
one. Number two, remember who's in charge of all things. All things
are not from people, meaning what happens from others to me, the
prophet is taking us to a higher ground. They're not doing it. It's
Allah. Allah subhanaw. Taala is responsible for this. If Allah is
responsible for this, they're not outside of Allah's control. They
are in Allah's control. If Allah is the one behind this, is he just
or unjust? He's just this, therefore this is just what's
happening to you in the big picture. And we can sometimes go
back to the bare bones of the Sharia bare bones of the Sharia
says, well don't why does he have to talk to me? By shittier? Does
he have to talk to me by should he or does he have to smile at me? He
puts people in your life. He removes people from your life for
different reasons. He may make someone not like you because of a
misunderstanding. And all of a sudden that person's out of your
life. Who cares about the reason? It's a judgment from Allah Tada,
you're not being wronged? No, this is a divine plan, and it's
perfect. That's how we view problems. Once you view things
like that, you've taken yourself out of the control of another
human being. Number three, call upon Allah by all of His Names.
The fourth thing the fourth Cure is the Quran. So this dua here it
gives us four cures number one, the dua of the Moto, Moto G and
moto it's actually in another the previous draw Oh Allah you are you
answer the person who prays with desperation so that means it's not
necessarily that Allah Tada answers the one who's casual in
his prayer, you need to ask like someone who sounds like they
really need something they need help. And for cures so far that
we've come upon, well I have an Allahumma in the outdo becoming
ill him me What hasn't we should seek refuge from sadness and from
anxiety. Every morning when we were sighted, what is it Latif and
if you don't recite that you can go to Safina cited org slash wood.
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German Baku is being stingy and joven is being cowardice while
gala betta Daini or curry region, rabbit to deign to be overcome by
debt, aka regional to be defeated by other men. What else is a cure
for sadness? Sudha said Kofa Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam
was extremely, extremely sad after his son passed away, on top of
losing his son, his enemies had no grace and class and how they
handled this and the Prophet was extremely grieved. Allah to Allah
revealed to him Sudha said co author and just recently been
talking to have you all might have been Hamlet and he said this The
cure for sadness is for someone to recite, suited to co author
constantly until their sadness goes away. So I said how many
times he said what, whatever is easy 10 times 50 times 100 times
whatever comes easy easily to a person to recite suicide co author
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