Shadee Elmasry – Read These 6 Duas to Cure Your Sadness

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The speaker discusses the sadness of emotional stress and the need for protecting one's health and family due to slavery and violence. They also touch on the importance of mercy and protecting one's health and family, as well as the use of words like HPma and the Quran in preventing feelings of sadness. The speaker also discusses four cures for sadness, including reciting the Sharia and calling upon Allah by all its examples. The use of the Quran and reciting its we'd be forgotten is also highlighted.

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			And if you asked me at a very
basic level, I believe that
		
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			depressions that people suffer.
It's compounded sadness. It's like
		
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			sadness, automatically, you didn't
treat it, then it continued and it
		
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			continued into became your state.
When we talk about our outside of
		
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			religion, outside of spirituality
or regular emotional states, you
		
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			can't always control your
emotional state, something can
		
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			make you sad. And then something
can make you happy. But you don't
		
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			want to be a feather in the wind,
you want to be more in control of
		
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			these states than not. So when
sadness comes, you need to be able
		
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			to curb it and say, This is
enough. This is that we're not
		
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			going to go any lower than this.
And we're not this is not going to
		
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			go on for two or three days. We're
going to put an end to it. Islam
		
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			helps us monitor these moods, so
that you don't become a feather in
		
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			the wind. And then a mood takes
you and controls you then that's
		
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			it's slavery. We have solutions to
hose and folks do not let yourself
		
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			get set. And if you do, we have
solutions. Let me read you some of
		
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			the prayers of the prophets of
Allah who it was of them on the
		
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			subject matter that if you recite
these jobs, you can't possibly get
		
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			said number one. La ilaha illallah
al Halim will Karim Subhan Allah
		
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			He or Bill Arshad Adim Subhan
Allah Arab Samoa to sub a what a
		
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			Banaras should carry him focus
more on the these Dickerson dua
		
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			it's more than that. The reason
for the sadness, so sadness can be
		
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			totally out of your control.
Someone could totally ghost you.
		
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			Right? And you're like, Wait, I
thought we were friends. Or
		
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			someone could just do an about
face on you for for no apparent
		
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			reason that you know, he just
don't know what what reasons
		
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			people have in their heads. Don't
even go there. Don't try just do
		
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			that. Allah will take care of
everything. This is from Ibn Ibis
		
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			that the Prophet used to say this,
when he was struck by something in
		
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			his heart, any massive matter or
personal matter or social matter?
		
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			What have you. How about this one,
a great sadness came upon the
		
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			prophets of Allah who it was
sudden them and of course the
		
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			prophets sadness is for extremely
lofty, you know, reasons our
		
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			sadness is someone ghosted me,
right? Someone didn't talk to me,
		
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			someone you know, just leaving me
without answering me. And I
		
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			thought we were friends at thought
if he had lost, Khadija had lost
		
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			Apple toilet. And he was now
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			without any support, outwardly or
inwardly. And he went to talk if
		
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			it's to give them the Dower, and
they treated him extremely
		
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			viciously and rudely. And they
were violent, and they sent kids
		
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			out to throw rocks at him. And
they mocked him. So the Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
from his heart this this extremely
		
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			powerful dua, which is a cure for
anybody who has sadness Allahumma
		
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			inni escuela alayka Dafa Kuwaiti
Oh Allah I complain on to you the
		
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			weakness of my strength locket
Allah to heal it and the meekness
		
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			of my abilities, my plans, well,
how can you harness and how easy I
		
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			am to be rejected by people? And
that's how people feel sometimes
		
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			they feel so easily to be
rejected. So easily rejected by
		
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			everyone. So that really hits
home. Yeah, out of hamara he mean,
		
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			almost Merciful of the merciful
and rubble Musa Dauphine, YOU'RE
		
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			THE LORD OF THE WEEK won't be and
you're my lord Illa mentor
		
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			Killarney unto Whom will you? Will
you give me in other words who's
		
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			going to who's going to be have
power over me? It got even yet to
		
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			Germany a stranger to brush me
aside. It occurred even malleco
		
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			Emery or someone near but is in
control of me in lemmya Can Baker
		
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			hollobone Aliya fella who barely
if there isn't, if you have no
		
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			anger upon me, as long as you're
not angry with me then I don't
		
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			mind any of this. As long as Allah
is accepting me and is pleased
		
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			with me then then I can bear all
these hardships while I can. Or
		
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			Machuca hiya Elsa Ali, however
your mercy is easier for me such a
		
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			powerful dua the next one Allah
Who mufaddal Him what can she
		
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			fella come? Oh Allah, the remover
of anxiety and the remover of
		
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			sadness. Alhambra welcome Mooji
boo Zhao wattle Motorin the one
		
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			who answers the prayer of the one
who is in dire need of a man who
		
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			dunya will Accra the merciful in
the dunya and the Accra whare.
		
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			Hema Houma and he is Rahim
compassionate in the dunya and her
		
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			entire family for hum NEERA
mutton, Tov Nene beha and Robert
		
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			Merton and rahmati menzi work. If
you have mercy upon me have mercy
		
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			upon me with with an amount of
mercy that will make me not need
		
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			anyone else's sympathy. It's not
good to need sympathy from people.
		
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			It's not a good treat. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the
		
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			in in when he was constricted, or
when he was said he used to say
		
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			Allahumma in the abduct. Oh Allah
I'm yours
		
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			Live and the son of your slave
webinar optic webinar emetic and
		
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			the son of your female slave now
see antibiotic. My forelock is in
		
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			your hands meaning all of my if
you have if you control someone by
		
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			his head by his forelock the front
of his hair, you can drag him
		
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			anywhere, right. So it's an
expression that says everything of
		
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			my affairs is in your hands.
Mauldin Fia hockomock Your ruling
		
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			is happening. Whatever you rule is
happening to me. I don't fear
		
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			kuduk Your judgment upon me is
always fair. As educated equally
		
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			is men who are like I asked you
about with every name that you
		
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			possess. Allah has so many names,
some made to be enough such that
		
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			you named yourself with Ansel tofi
kitab IK or you revealed it in
		
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			your book. I limped out I had a
monocarpic Are you taught any of
		
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			your creation, this name, I asked
you by all these names. I was set
		
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			thought to be the enemy of AB
index or you name that you possess
		
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			that you kept it with yourself.
That was not revealed to anybody.
		
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			And Ted Johanna Khurana Robbia
kalbi to make the Quran the spring
		
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			on my hearts. When neurosurgery
and the light of my chest were
		
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			Gela, Hosni and the expeller of my
sadness. Were the hair behind me
		
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			and the remover of my anxieties.
So the prophets of Allah when he
		
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			was salam here is teaching us turn
to dua. Number one, there's so
		
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			many lessons in this, he calls
upon Allah that he answers the
		
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			prayer of the desperate so pray
with desperation. That's number
		
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			one. Number two, remember who's in
charge of all things. All things
		
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			are not from people, meaning what
happens from others to me, the
		
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			prophet is taking us to a higher
ground. They're not doing it. It's
		
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			Allah. Allah subhanaw. Taala is
responsible for this. If Allah is
		
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			responsible for this, they're not
outside of Allah's control. They
		
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			are in Allah's control. If Allah
is the one behind this, is he just
		
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			or unjust? He's just this,
therefore this is just what's
		
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			happening to you in the big
picture. And we can sometimes go
		
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			back to the bare bones of the
Sharia bare bones of the Sharia
		
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			says, well don't why does he have
to talk to me? By shittier? Does
		
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			he have to talk to me by should he
or does he have to smile at me? He
		
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			puts people in your life. He
removes people from your life for
		
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			different reasons. He may make
someone not like you because of a
		
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			misunderstanding. And all of a
sudden that person's out of your
		
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			life. Who cares about the reason?
It's a judgment from Allah Tada,
		
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			you're not being wronged? No, this
is a divine plan, and it's
		
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			perfect. That's how we view
problems. Once you view things
		
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			like that, you've taken yourself
out of the control of another
		
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			human being. Number three, call
upon Allah by all of His Names.
		
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			The fourth thing the fourth Cure
is the Quran. So this dua here it
		
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			gives us four cures number one,
the dua of the Moto, Moto G and
		
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			moto it's actually in another the
previous draw Oh Allah you are you
		
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			answer the person who prays with
desperation so that means it's not
		
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			necessarily that Allah Tada
answers the one who's casual in
		
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			his prayer, you need to ask like
someone who sounds like they
		
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			really need something they need
help. And for cures so far that
		
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			we've come upon, well I have an
Allahumma in the outdo becoming
		
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			ill him me What hasn't we should
seek refuge from sadness and from
		
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			anxiety. Every morning when we
were sighted, what is it Latif and
		
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			if you don't recite that you can
go to Safina cited org slash wood.
		
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			Well, RG will Castle, being lazy,
being unable, while broccoli will
		
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			German Baku is being stingy and
joven is being cowardice while
		
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			gala betta Daini or curry region,
rabbit to deign to be overcome by
		
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			debt, aka regional to be defeated
by other men. What else is a cure
		
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			for sadness? Sudha said Kofa
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam
		
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			was extremely, extremely sad after
his son passed away, on top of
		
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			losing his son, his enemies had no
grace and class and how they
		
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			handled this and the Prophet was
extremely grieved. Allah to Allah
		
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			revealed to him Sudha said co
author and just recently been
		
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			talking to have you all might have
been Hamlet and he said this The
		
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			cure for sadness is for someone to
recite, suited to co author
		
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			constantly until their sadness
goes away. So I said how many
		
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			times he said what, whatever is
easy 10 times 50 times 100 times
		
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			whatever comes easy easily to a
person to recite suicide co author
		
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			in outline I can co author because
what is the meaning of the sutra