Shadee Elmasry – Ramadan Prep NBF 316

Shadee Elmasry
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The conversation discusses the benefits of healthy eating, fasting, and the importance of fasting for health and well-being. They emphasize the benefits of fasting, healthy eating, and learning the kn doners to improve digestion. The speakers also touch on the psychology behind hip surgery and the benefits of back rear surgery. They emphasize the importance of breaking fast and staying early in life, including the use of air pods and water, and avoiding overwhelm during school activities.
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah Smilla rahmanir. Rahim Al hamdu

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lillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah while early he was a

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happy woman who Allah welcome everybody to the Safina society

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nothing but facts live stream. Let's do a quick Ramadan prep

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this today on this cold Thursday I don't know what happened but all

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of a sudden it's extremely cold here. I was I was cold. I don't

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know about you guys if you guys were cold, but it's a sunny

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beautiful day.

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But it is also pretty nippy. Now fuddle the shahada Ramadan is that

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it is the month of Quran Why is it say that because Allah says

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Sharona Madonna lady own Zilla field Quran

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and a chef he is famous to have been asked

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how much Quran Do you recite? And he said, in the prayer or outside

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the prayer,

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he said no outside the prayer.

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And he said, and then the person said

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he said in the prayer outside the person outside the person in the

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day or in the night,

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he said in the night,

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he said,

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had some every three days. He says do a Cutsem every three days and

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he had four different items. One for the salah of the day, the

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nephila of the day one for the knuffel of the night, one for the

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outside the Salah, the nephila of the night

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and when outside

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the Scylla of the day, so that was Imam Shafi and how much Quran he

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used to recite a lot of people look around for some kind of

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secret techniques secret, you know, people get

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what did they call these like journals and record I'm telling

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you, the whole issue is so much simpler than that it is you just

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need to pile on a lot more and you need to be more consistent. It's

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just recite a lot of Quran in the day. Okay.

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And in the night, as much as you can, that's it. You don't really

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need

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there's not much philosophy there's no secret Vickers there's

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no secret anything.

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There's no mysticism that you need. You just need to pour on a

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lot more sauce. That's it.

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Pour on a lot of sauce. Okay.

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If you want to add stuff, you gotta leave some stuff.

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And in that's a great point. You can't add more sauce unless you

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empty something else off the plate. So you play it has to be

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emptied out. Okay?

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You do you got to remove distractions. So you got to

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eliminate distractions, can't be

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expecting to add anything in the month of Ramadan unless you

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eliminate something. And that's why let me tell you a story

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actually is an amazing story came upon a guy who had just basically

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become Muslim in jail. But this guy he knew a lot of Quran by

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memory.

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And the reason he had a lot of Quran by memory is that he was

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given one cassette tape.

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It was absorbed basit cassette tape of the last few suitors of

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Quran. And in a span of like couple a year and a half. He had

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memorized the entire tape. And that's because he had one tape,

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that's all he was admitted.

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And use his play that same tape.

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Every, every day, he just played that tape. That's all he had. So

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sometimes when you don't have a lot of choices, you end up being

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more consistent. Because he just kept repeating the same old tape

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over and over and over and over and over. A lot of people when the

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choices are removed from their life, it's actually a blessing in

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disguise. Right. It's a blessing in disguise really.

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All right, let's read a little bit

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in the no feel a little cuddle Roma that I came out a little

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cuddle. So later to cadre is of course, seeking it. It's one of

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the eight things that Allah hid inside of other things. So les

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little closet is hidden in Ramadan. His anger is hidden in

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his sense. His agenda is hidden in good deeds. His Ellia are hidden

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amongst the people. The IsaMill are them is hidden amongst his

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names. The 99 names is hidden amongst his names. That's now six

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what what did there's two more? What are the eight that are hidden

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inside of eight other things? Do you know that what are the other

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two?

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It's no, maybe he came up with it. But I think it's just I don't know

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who's attributed but to it. Where's your mic? You got it.

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But it's his socket.

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His anger is hidden in his son's

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Hadith

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what are the

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secrets are hidden in the creation

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Okay, while you look that up I'll continue but there are eight

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things hidden inside of other things. And, and the reason we're

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supposed to, to chase them and seek them down, get

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Abdulla the same is maybe mercy is hidden in tribulation maybe the

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reason we're supposed to seek them down there hidden is so that we

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can track down as much as possible. All right, we're

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supposed to track down as much as possible of them so that we're we

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don't know who's going to be from the odia of Allah so anyone that

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you see that has some signs of piety you draw near to Him it'd be

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nice to him maybe it was one of the earlier asked for his dog

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good

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in the month of Ramadan, what counts is total we any amount of

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rakaats that you pray between Asia and between sleeping

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Any amount will count for us tearaway

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and the masajid. They tend to establish 20 Because that's what

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say normal established, but the number is is not the issue for us.

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It's any amount of data we that you establish.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Gibreel came and he

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said min Ed raka Ramadan Fela Mijo for Allahu Abadi hula, whoever

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comes into Ramadan and Allah and is not forgiven all his sins,

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then Allah then may Allah push him away. Meaning that this month,

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there's so much claimed so many opportunities that how can a

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person not attain forgiveness in this month? At that point, we ask

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Allah he says, May Allah there's only one way he did this is that

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this person is obstinate, purposely not paying attention and

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not trying So may Allah try to distance him. May Allah push them

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far away. The Prophet remain silent.

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Gibreel said said it again. Prophet remain silent. Third time

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Djibouti dolly Salam said, Say Amin So the Prophet said, I mean,

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the Prophet didn't want to say I mean

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the Prophet didn't want to say a mean to something that would would

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distance another person. It was a dua against him. For colossal

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Allah when he was salam Amin, okay

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so many other aka Ramadan Philomela for Allah because of the

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amount of forgiveness that comes to a person when you are in the

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month of Ramadan, remember that the forgiveness of Shabbat was due

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the prerequisite of being forgiven in the month of Shabbat and Laylat

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in this Freeman Shabbat is not to have anything in your heart

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towards another Muslim. And we have to have that.

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Okay.

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You have to think about this Imam Have you had dad, he never he

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hated having any conflict with another Muslim. And that's really

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the ethic that we should really be upon.

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Some people get upset at decisions you make. Recently a brother sent

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me a video and he told me watch this video. A brother, another

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Muslim brother is extremely upset that you put on Owen Benjamin on

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your on your show? Do we put people on? So he could teach? So

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we could learn something? Is he count? Did he come on as an

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educator in Islam, and educator and politics we brought we bring

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people on if they have some kind of an interest. And you know these

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types of people they don't. They're not going to have a

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private conversation with you. So the way that you converse with

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them is through public discussions. If a guy from the

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Nation of Islam comes upon us, and he says you know what I'm thinking

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about actual Islam and he starts signaling that in his social

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media, I bring him on. All right. It doesn't matter what he did in

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the past. And what's the proof of this? The prophets of Allah when

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he was salam spoke about Abuja,

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okay, Abu Jamal himself, if a great murder and killer of Muslims

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was to say, You know what? I'm having second thoughts. You know,

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I'm starting to think about Islam and all the good things about

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Islam. How are you supposed to bring? How's he going to change

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his ways if the root doesn't change? The root is his belief,

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his Akita and that's the logic behind by people bring up there's

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not a single. We bought out a Jewish rabbi here that he didn't

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say he's interested in Islam, but he is interested in supporting the

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Palestinian case. They say a lot of terrible things about prophets.

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Owen Benjamin said a lot of things

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offended a lot of different other people, including African

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Americans. Right now, I didn't even I research do a lot of

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research it was recommended he was recommended to me by someone who I

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trusted. Right? So I'm go back and listen to a lot of his, his stuff.

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Okay? But either way a person could have done terrible things,

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but if they want to change their ways, why else did the prophets of

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Allah who it was Sunday give Dawa to Abuja?

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Who was the worst of the worst? Is not the Abba Soto, Allah came down

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because the Prophet was talking to the elites of Quraysh.

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Did the messenger stop ever giving Dawa to the elites of Quran

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despite all of what they have done?

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Did not EVO Sophia and lead an army that killed many Sahaba in

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the Battle of odd? And yet when I was Sophia and came the prophet

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spoke to him and continued to give him Dawa. Okay, until finally he

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did enter Islam. So let me just say here from for once and for

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all, is that when a person comes on, okay?

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That doesn't necessarily mean everything that they hold that

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we're we approve of.

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When they come on, they don't approve of everything that I

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believe in either. It goes both ways. And if you're gonna do Dawa

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to somebody, you need to have a friendly conversation with them.

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It's not going to we're not going to be attacking them.

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So that is the point here, of Dawa is when a person comes in, okay,

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and is interested in Islam, that's going to be the subject matter,

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not going to go and do a hisab take them to account for

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everything they did in the past, take into account on what standard

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Maya go tell a non Muslim fear Allah.

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On what standard anyway, I say this because people sometimes they

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come at you hard. And you're like, come on, are you serious? This is

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actually your the extrapolation that you're making. But you know,

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we have to have a forgiving perspective on things and people

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do get angry, it's okay. It's not a big deal. When somebody gets

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angry and throws words around. You know, we call it an Arabic

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throwing words around, which is, oh, you're I'm gonna flick, oh,

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you're just doing this. It's a grift. Right, you're just throwing

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words. None of it has any real

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value meaning or impact.

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So it says here, going back to the subject that to be forgiven in the

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month of Ramadan.

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It also requires us to avoid the Shut up

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by theists. So if the forgiveness of Shaban this Russia ban was

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based on not having Shanna in your heart, then the forgiveness of

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Ramadan is the same. Forgiveness in general, is much easier to

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attain when a person has a pure heart and a clean heart.

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And anytime that you do anything in life, there's going to be a

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reaction so you have to learn how to handle that reaction. Okay,

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people get angry. I just got cursed out on text the other day,

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like cursed out.

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That's okay, people get angry. What can you do?

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What can you do? I get angry. Sometimes people get angry. You

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have that kind of forgiving attitude. May Allah forgive us to

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for all the stuff that we do and the people that we tried to.

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We got angry with to. So who was shot it was summer, it's the month

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of summer and I'll tell you why. It's a month of summer. It's not

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just the fasting. People these days. They don't have a lot of

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patience with one another and the month of Ramadan. Force brings us

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together for 30 straight days, right? For 30 straight days and

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there's almost like a tunnel vision that occurs in the month of

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Ramadan. And inside that in that tunnel vision there's a lot of

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disputes in massage it's this one thing that you never want to ruin

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your your month of Ramadan with. And I was involved in that one

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time in my life. It was like one of the worst Ramadan's ever, they

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get caught up in a fitna.

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So we the month of Ramadan is going to come around, there's

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going to be fitna

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there's going to be

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get there's gonna be what you would call it.

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People disagreeing with other people and people have different

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standards of what's bad, right? And they have different standards

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of what they pay attention to. Right Go ahead. This is just a

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random quote from Twitter.

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That's what I was looking for at least in the

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UK fourth and fifth Alpha reader who fit it for that Granata diet

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well Alpha whatever who female cod for the testers who run amount see

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it.

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Work for Astra who frequently hear for that Iran abdomen or anybody

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so he said Asrar as far as the

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secrets are in the creation, what is you

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mean seek benefits secrets in the creation benefits that you don't

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know about. There are things in the creation that are extremely

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beneficial that we don't know about. That's one of the meanings.

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There are secrets in the creation. What's next?

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His pleasure is in his thoughts

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and his anger is hidden in sins you don't know which sin that will

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earn Allah's wrath.

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Yeah

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okay

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you know we have a new book coming out soon. I'm talking to the to

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the printer right now.

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We got a book coming up on the problem of evil

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not just book.

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No, no, no, we're gonna be having announcements. We're going to be

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going on different shows. Yeah, we're gonna we're gonna promote it

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and push it's so beneficial. I can't even tell you I can't even

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tell you. Saying at the moment had dead says Allah is angered by

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somebody and distances him from somebody who does not earn

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forgiveness in the month of Ramadan because how easy it is to

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attain such forgiveness. Someone who doesn't attain such

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forgiveness is someone who simply is not interested in Allah at all.

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Modern line Allah okay. He is in fact trying to avoid this

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and he deserves to be expelled from the door of God because this

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person has no desire to enter into it. And the ways the forgiveness

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in the month of Ramadan are so easy.

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All the doors of the heavens and the earth are open in the month of

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Ramadan and Shayateen are locked up and thrown to the ocean in the

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month this month.

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Remember if you have called called up to do your Kedah before the

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month of Ramadan from last year, Kala is a makeup day if you don't

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do your makeup days, you owe a makeup date and Vidya. On top of

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that, you have to do fit, you're on top of that in order to fit

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yours.

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You have to figure on top of that.

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So

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you one saw

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one, two handfuls of food for a poor Muslim, a meal for a poor

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Muslim

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for

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about 2am Dead was sorry about 2am Dead

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four handfuls. So a proper meal. All right now that's going to cost

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10 to a buck so you can get a luckyland msgid to do it for you

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or Islamic Relief.

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Another thing you have to keep in mind is that it doesn't matter

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whether you delay the fast the makeup date one year or multiple

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years, you're still going to only 1/5 year alongside your a lot of

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fasting. I want to have I have a message here for the youth and the

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Shabaab

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fast a lot. I mean you only have a week left essentially right. What

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do we got left? Very small amount of time. Okay. Very small amount

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of time.

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About how many days left so the month of Ramadan

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910 days fast as much as you can so that you don't go into the

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month of Ramadan and be completely miserable.

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Go because people come in addicted people come in addicted to

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caffeine, all that stuff. You should have killed that stuff by

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now. Right? Fast three, four days before Ramadan and Shaban.

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You come in Ramadan as if nothing happens. Whereas many other people

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that come into Ramadan, it's a shock. Their body is utterly

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shocked. Okay. Can I give a fidgets a lot? Cosina? The answer

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is no. Because

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majority of our people are not Muslims.

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And the obligatory donations like that, or payments I should say

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it's not a donation, it's an obligation they have to be to poor

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Muslims.

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Have Sicilian can you do with the Division of the moon in three

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parts? I don't know about the moon but the month is divided into

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three parts.

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The month of Ramadan. It's divided the prophets of Allah who said

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them divided into three parts.

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The first part is MK Farah. 10 days, next set of 10 days mercy.

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Next set of 10 days, freedom from the fire.

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Another thing about this month is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi

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wa sallam said Ramadan Ramadan is a Kufa Giamatti Gemma's co Fatah

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salah is a co Farah

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From salatu salam So,

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right.

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Yeah,

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exactly. Gentlemen memorize the Hadith.

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Someone might say, Well, why do I need three different forgiveness?

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Right? Well, the answer is imagine like you hose down a car, you're

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not going to get every single inch, every single speck. But if

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you always get down three times, hose it down 10 times you probably

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are right. Secondly, the levels of forgiveness are different.

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There is one forgiveness, which is

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to be forgiven of your sin. There's another layer of it. To

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erase the effects of the sin. There are side effects of every

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sin. There's a stain on a carpet, you spill grape juice on a white

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rug or on a white soap is very different. Right? You apologize

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for being sloppy with the juice. Fine, I forgive you. But But that

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doesn't change the fact that there's a stain on the job. So all

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these cat ferrets

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are removing the stains of the sin, there's sins and there are

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the stains of the sins. And then thirdly, there is removing even

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the memory of the sin. Fourthly, there's transforming the sin into

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good deeds. So the levels of Kufa are four levels, and you need a

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lot of the same

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Moca frot, to remove the same repentance to rise up through

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these levels. I'll repeat them again, the first level is the

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forgiveness of the act. The second one is the removal of the stain

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that the Act puts on the heart. The third one is to make one

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forget about it completely. And even the minute it can may be

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ordered to erase it from your book of deeds. And you yourself might

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even forget what you used to do. Talk to a lot of guys used to go

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to clubs and say I can't even remember what the songs are. I

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can't even remember what the people are. I can't remember who

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the dancers were, I can't remember who I hung out with. I can't

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remember the names of the liquor that I used to drink and the

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alcohol that I used to drink, you can't even remember it cannot

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remember it. The neural came into his heart so much that it

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literally erased the memory of these things.

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Can't remember the girls I used to chase after and all these guys I

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used to hang out with and they even the names of the clubs and

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the addresses.

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fourth level is to transform the bad deed into a good deed. And how

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does that happen? That happens because in those bad deeds, you

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did learn something about life. You did learn something about the

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club life now you're the best person to help people who have

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fallen into it. You can't come to somebody like myself. All righty,

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these kids born into Islam, they've never been to a club in

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their life. They don't do these things. Right? How am I supposed

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to help somebody who goes to the club? Right? I can't tell him I

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don't have any perspective. I don't share any anything with

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them. Right? So same Malcolm X. He knew certain ways of the streets.

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He's the best person to pull those people out. Right? So that's this

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fourth element were those bad deeds. Now, not only are they

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erased, they're actually swapped. Now it's a good deeds because

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you're using what you learned at that time.

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From those deeds to help the people who have fallen into those

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deeds. There are many, many Hadith about who is it the successor of

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hustle and bustle. remember his name, the successor of hustle and

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bustle. He started off as a mere drunk cop.

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Malik had been denied.

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He was merely a drunk soldier for the state.

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And his life turned around he started attending the masjid he

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started attending the gatherings. He started becoming a student. He

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rose up the ranks he became the assistant to ascended mastery.

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He then ended up becoming

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the successor of hustling bustling, well, how many stories

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about him talking and changing the

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you helping drunkards on the street? Many? That was his think

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he lived that life. He had a sympathy for that path. But he

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also knew how dangerous it was and he knew how to get out of it. And

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he got many many, many people to get out of alcoholism, who we used

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to drink at that time in the city of Buffalo. Okay, I'm there's even

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one story where there was a man who was drunk, he had a bottle and

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he was laying down on the street. I said Santa stuff, but a lot of

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stuff a lot of stuff. Right? So he bent down he took a like a napkin,

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and he cleaned the man's mouth from the alcohol so that he could

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continue saying the name of Allah without being mixed with an

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adjuster.

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Then he would do things like you would take the person put them

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away so that nobody would see him and then need to get you know

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embarrassed or something he helped a lot of people make Toba? Every

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No. separate subject. Every stream someone comes on Instagram it says

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the voice keeps going up and down. What's happening? Sounds like I'm

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problem.

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Instagrams issue.

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I mean, like every single days, it's one or two different people

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come and say why is the voice keep going up and down? It's an

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Instagram problem, okay, good.

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Is not the way I speak, is it?

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Okay? Good.

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Every nephila In the month of Ramadan is akin to an obligation

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outside of it. And every obligation in the month of Ramadan

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is like 70 obligations.

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The obligatory deeds are greater in reward some people say, and

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they imagined that

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you don't get rewarded for obligations, you just have to do

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it. As if it's like in the financial transactions. No one

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rewards you. No one commends you for paying your bills.

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They commend you for charity that you're given, right? No, that's

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not the case. Actually, even in this world, paying your bills on

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time will earn you more than giving charity because if you

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don't pay your bills on time, no one will rent to you. No one will

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want to sell to you because you don't pay your you don't pay on

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time. So the reward is that people continue to do business with you.

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So you're even in this life, you are rewarded more for fulfilling

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obligations than for charity. In the same vein,

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obligatory deeds are more beloved to Allah because they're the

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source of transformation for us. We get transformed

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when we do the obligations. And then when we do know if and that's

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solely for the love of Allah, and as a result, Allah loves the spec.

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obligations do not necessarily earn the love of Allah

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obligations, earn the chance to earn his love, obligations, earn

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nearness, once you're near now you can earn his love, but obligations

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in themselves, the automat 700 Ask Allah and he said this is because

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a person can do obligations solely out of fear. He does or solely out

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of an obligation. So obligations don't earn Allah's love because

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people don't necessarily do the flora it

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out of love. They do because they have to

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go but they earn us nearness to him once you're near to Allah

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subhanaw taala at that point, now you can you have a chance to earn

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his love by doing no effing extra deeds out that he's asking what do

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you mean he was his successor means that he became the Imam

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after

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house Hudson advisory Hudson Busti was the Imam and then the great

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Imam of the Great Mosque of bussola so he became he took his

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position after Imam Hassan busty passed away

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all right, what deeds do I have to do to earn that forgiveness?

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Simply fast that 330 years 29 or 30 days? That's it? The CM min

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sama Ramadan? Amen and wetty seven have offered Allah Houma to Adam

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and Nambi the other one is min karma Ramadan so you can earn it

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in in the daytime you can earn it at nighttime.

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In pm anuncia That's it. Go and attend Tada. We Mata Yes, sir,

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what is easy for you?

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And there is nothing in our deen that promotes this kind of like,

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kill yourself.

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Make your feet hurt. Stay standing do 30 minute wizards do ah, it's

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not from the sun at all. Because it makes people actually not like

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it.

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If you want to do long a bad does do that on your own. Where you

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stand for for 20 and 30 and 40 minutes do you do that on your

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own. But in the massage and in the groups, the records are actually

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meant to be kept brief. And that's what has been sent to Ahmed bin

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Abdulaziz increased the records to 36.

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So that each record could be shorter. People think that oh,

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they're more devoted. So instead of doing 20 Duck as you're doing

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36 He didn't intend it that way. He intended it that way. So that

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each rocker would be shorter, it'd be easier on people and then

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people could come in and out because each rocker was only like

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two minutes, three minutes each to duck as was three minutes.

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So that if you have you know a little bit of time, you could come

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and do a couple rockets. But if the rock guys are eight rock cars

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or even 20 Rock cars, but they're long each rock is five minutes or

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something then at that point

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you end up being stuck. Right. So they meant they increase the rock

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guys by for tastiest for ease.

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Al Iman,

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Imam Al Haddad says what is the prophet mean when he says Eman and

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wetty seven you

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Amen is believing and believing in Allah as promise, belief in Allah

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as promise. Amen. It is urban.

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sincerely seeking Allah's reward and nobody else's

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Imam had dad says adabas Psalm number one add up of Psalm

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to prove guard your tongue from lying and backbiting.

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And then if you succeed at that, guard your tongue from talking

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about other people. What is not your business of cold female a

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unique

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way out for the Idaho next? Your eyes?

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Okay, preserve your eyes from

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guard preserve your eyes from looking at the haram. At that

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point you can Yes, maybe you're so love your CM becomes valid. But at

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some point, if your eyes are no

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looking at the Haram at that point, you may there's no point

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anymore. Like yes, you have to fulfill your obligation but you

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have no reward. You went from Phaedra to mothership The net

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result is more sins than good deeds.

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What a waste, right? You can't do this. You have to guard your eyes.

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You don't guard your eyes by themselves, you guard the devices,

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the times the locations in which these problems happen. That's what

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you have to guard good

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way I found Oh no. It's a month of Quran not a month of music. So

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what may be sinful outside Ramadan is even more sinful inside

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Ramadan.

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Okay,

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what is sinful

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in sacred places, is more sinful than outside those sacred places.

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Okay.

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What sinful in Mecca, it's 10 times more than the sins in Mecca

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and 10 times more than than outside.

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Okay.

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What sinful in the presence of a righteous person?

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Right sitting in front of President rights is 10 times

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worse. Right? Then in the presence of anybody else, go oh, that's a

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nice picture. They're

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all making the thumbnails there. Look at that one with they're

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praying there. That one on the left all the way you'd like that

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one.

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Let's see food. Okay. Fair enough.

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Oh

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all right. What else? Excessive eating of Ramadan also renders the

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taraweeh pointless, excessive eating. And Ramadan is something

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that renders your Tada we're something that you're going to be

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so slow, so heavy, so unable to focus so and you smell bad too.

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Oh, the the brothers that come in and their jacket smells like

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cooking. Not suck Goodman. That's not good. I want to tell him

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Please brother take your jacket off and go put it in the samba

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hood on it or something?

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Right.

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Parler sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Osama junuh for either Cornejo

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musalman Sowmya decom Falaj Urfa well if SOCO allege hello for any

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maroon shirt shatta mahal cartel Ophelia called in you saw him

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fasting is a protection it's a shield. If it's a day of fasting

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for one of you then you don't have sexual * you don't argue

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and you don't engage with ignorant people.

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If someone curses you or fights you say I'm fasting. Okay, so

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don't do these things. So yeah, if you do cm regularly, okay. If you

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do cm regularly, you will inherit

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INSA in your your yourself your constitution, a self control that

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is amazing. A degree of self control that you can imagine

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the degree of self control, but it's not going to come from just

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fasting Ramadan, you're going to need to be regular faster outside

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Ramadan. Right? You will attain a degree of self control that you

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can not even imagine. Okay, and you won't be like I don't even

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know who I am anymore. I have so much control over myself. I tell

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myself don't do this. It doesn't do it.

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I

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mean, adabas cm, a laochra known Bahar that he doesn't try to kill

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the day by sleeping through the whole day.

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Hey, gonna get understand, especially as Sam gets in the

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wintertime, Slow slowly that's happening.

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You're going to be too cold to be moving about and you need to sleep

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a little more but

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To the idea of let's kill the day kill time by fat by sleeping more.

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That's not good. Okay

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and then he doesn't increase his eating by night. The night time

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should not be for indulgence otherwise how are you going to

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join a PM? How you're going to do any dot and it's amazing sometimes

00:35:22 --> 00:35:26

that you know if you're not used to fasting you're you get a

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psychological

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fixation on food at night as if this is the last time you're ever

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going to see food in your life. Right? So you got to be really

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that's why I'm telling you all this is just talk. It's just talk

00:35:40 --> 00:35:45

unless you practice yam right unless you practice fasting

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I can work what happened to that mustard over I was good to dark

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to help them Neff suka be muscle joy while others your ego

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can be refined and and tamed by what? By constantly being touched

00:36:13 --> 00:36:17

by hunger and thirst to help them netsuke

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anybody who has a problem with their knifes, you have a problem

00:36:22 --> 00:36:26

looking at haram talking about haram smoking haram doing anything

00:36:26 --> 00:36:32

haram you have problem with that simple solution. Actually no. You

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know I think we should put the prayer picture

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because we're actually telling people right now not to eat too

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much right

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all right, fine, good point. Your point

00:36:46 --> 00:36:47

where's that picture from?

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Pakistan or Mecca Medina

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is gonna get like a bunch of copyrights Yeah. Oh man.

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He says your light your heart will be filled with light the more you

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are touched by hunger right and more you're touched by hunger and

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thirst right so try to

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get hit the saturation to yeah there hit that bad boy. And the

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vibration vibrance

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it that bad boy.

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Okay,

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well, you journalists saw him refer here. Entertainment should

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be pushed aside.

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Push it aside as much as you can.

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Okay.

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Well, I call with Eric Antigona to whom in a tariff Cohiba hit that

00:37:46 --> 00:37:51

10 fee Ramadan with it. Were her the Colombian, Bobby were elaphe

00:37:51 --> 00:37:55

Allah rial that yomo Jana Vidisha watch enough see Arthur career on

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feeds and we'll call

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so he's saying hunger has a massive impact on

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lighting putting it on 10 We're

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putting light in the heart. What love bobble hustles fear Ramadan

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and this is most accessible and sought after in this month. A

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Medina Jerusalem Ramadan at that minute Tara for her to usher Hawa

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to let Illa yeah Duna phire Ramadan for Hooroo Navarro whom be

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a che Bong who has had the Minho la whom had delayed you do Bureau

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Baraka t so me him we see this all the time in the Islamic world it's

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a campaign that there are special foods on sweets only prepared

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Ramadan special foods only prepared Ramadan special showed

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that only air in North Ramadan and I saw this in my my own self in

00:38:50 --> 00:38:55

Egypt when I went one Ramadan. And there was special shows that they

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prepare all year to be released in Ramadan. And the show so the day

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of Ramadan will be like this. Let's start with Iftar to start

00:39:04 --> 00:39:10

with, with Iftar you you have a massive Iftar right sometimes they

00:39:10 --> 00:39:14

eat so much that they forgot to remember. I'm not even kidding

00:39:14 --> 00:39:18

you. One time one of the kids, one of the youth. He's better, he

00:39:18 --> 00:39:25

should have prayed. Right? The 10 minute note the alarm of Asia went

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

out he hadn't prayed about it. Right.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:32

And the mom got so upset she got so angry with him. Right. So how

00:39:32 --> 00:39:36

the blemishes on the resume right? He forgot to pray about it.

00:39:36 --> 00:39:40

Because there was so much amazing food being put out there. So

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

now you have this huge Iftar

00:39:44 --> 00:39:50

then you pray Maghrib you have tea and I remember my uncle, he said

00:39:50 --> 00:39:54

let me take you out to the best Tata we. We actually prayed. Aisha

00:39:54 --> 00:39:57

at one of the big massage would say to Xena on a man recited

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

Quran. It was beautiful.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

right there was a there was a recitation of Quran first you

00:40:02 --> 00:40:06

know, they sit on the chair and they just recite like up deposits.

00:40:07 --> 00:40:10

And then we got up we had the solids and Aisha was very nice he

00:40:10 --> 00:40:14

said now let's go to another place so we left there we didn't pray

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

Tata we there we went somewhere else. And he took me to this

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

little

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

play smaller than the studio, little most modern studios. It's

00:40:22 --> 00:40:26

the best start away and the man gets up for the eight rockers and

00:40:26 --> 00:40:31

he recites the last eight Sutras of the Quran. So one rock I was

00:40:31 --> 00:40:36

like Alma own Allahu Akbar. Fatiha Catherine Allahu Akbar Fatiha is

00:40:36 --> 00:40:41

Allah fetch turbojet Allahu Akbar, furred Jaco Allah had assaulted

00:40:41 --> 00:40:45

across Allah Akbar Fatiha follow just the last eight sutras in a

00:40:45 --> 00:40:47

raucous 15 minutes it was done.

00:40:49 --> 00:40:52

Right? We slammed out of the eighth raka he nudges me. What do

00:40:52 --> 00:40:58

you think? 15 minutes we finished? Like that's the goal for him. So

00:40:58 --> 00:41:01

we went out there we went next. He said now I will take him for a

00:41:01 --> 00:41:07

classic Egyptian Ramadan night. So where do we go? We see a huge tent

00:41:07 --> 00:41:11

on the tent. This tent was massive. This tent was like over a

00:41:11 --> 00:41:15

whole basketball court, I imagine. But it was outdoors. It was

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

outdoor in the middle of an area hustle and bustle and a humongous

00:41:17 --> 00:41:21

tent, we get in the tent. And there are tables and chairs. And

00:41:21 --> 00:41:26

each table is either a chessboard or a backgammon table. The table

00:41:26 --> 00:41:30

itself has that etched in on the table. And so yeah, it's like a

00:41:30 --> 00:41:33

big table. And then in the middle of the table as it's like painted

00:41:33 --> 00:41:36

on it is a chess board or a backgammon table. So my my uncle

00:41:36 --> 00:41:40

sat for the backgammon, and I sat there and his friends came and all

00:41:40 --> 00:41:44

the friends all his buddies came, and then the tea server came. And

00:41:44 --> 00:41:48

then the sweets came. Right and I'm drinking tea watching them

00:41:48 --> 00:41:52

play backgammon and stuff. Oh, the shisha came out for sure. 100% the

00:41:52 --> 00:41:56

shisha came out, right. And then I'm watching this. And I'm

00:41:56 --> 00:41:59

starting to get sleepy a little bit, but I'm just sitting there.

00:42:00 --> 00:42:04

And then a stage gets rolled out. And Mike studio gets set up,

00:42:04 --> 00:42:09

right? Speakers and everything. And then a singer comes, a lady

00:42:09 --> 00:42:13

comes on the stage and start singing, right? And all this and

00:42:13 --> 00:42:15

my uncle says what do you think? What do you think?

00:42:17 --> 00:42:21

And I'm like, what is happening here the exact opposite of

00:42:21 --> 00:42:26

everything that is meant to be. So finally we get home. It's gotta be

00:42:26 --> 00:42:30

like two in the morning. Right? We get home for two in the morning.

00:42:30 --> 00:42:34

And at that point, I was saying that there was some really nice

00:42:34 --> 00:42:38

parts back in the old days. Like it was an apartment. My grandma

00:42:38 --> 00:42:41

lived on the ground level ground floor level. Basically her door is

00:42:41 --> 00:42:44

unlocked. She has eight kids, right? And so the kids, the

00:42:44 --> 00:42:47

cousins, the nephews, the grandkids, they're all coming in

00:42:47 --> 00:42:50

and out of the house all day long, right? At night. So my grandmother

00:42:50 --> 00:42:52

lives in a very small place there. So I stayed there. I get there.

00:42:53 --> 00:42:58

They wake him up for school. We have a decent SOHO and we I go

00:42:58 --> 00:43:01

into a masjid and prefetch I go down the street. And I said this

00:43:01 --> 00:43:05

we're gonna, I'm going on. There's a masjid down here. Like Leila

00:43:05 --> 00:43:09

Hill Allah be Be careful, right? It's as if you're going like to

00:43:09 --> 00:43:14

jihad. Be careful. Don't go too often go from different routes.

00:43:14 --> 00:43:18

You might get picked up. Right? If you keep going to the masjid. So I

00:43:18 --> 00:43:21

would go one day and not go another day. Right and go to

00:43:21 --> 00:43:26

another method another day. Come home sleep again. Now, no one is

00:43:26 --> 00:43:29

getting up before us. You think maybe people sleep until

00:43:30 --> 00:43:36

you barely catch the hook. Right? Barely people wake up at the now I

00:43:36 --> 00:43:37

go to a different relative's house next

00:43:39 --> 00:43:44

have Iftar and go for Tata we but this time at this this other

00:43:44 --> 00:43:44

relative's house.

00:43:46 --> 00:43:49

She she passed away Allah give her mercy. She was my cousin and lived

00:43:49 --> 00:43:53

to my aunt's house. But they were all gathered around her her bed.

00:43:53 --> 00:43:53

Okay.

00:43:55 --> 00:43:59

Where she would say, and they would watch the show. Okay. And

00:43:59 --> 00:44:02

I'm like, There's no way I'm getting involved in this absurd

00:44:02 --> 00:44:06

drama, right? And it's a drama. So I'm sitting with them because I'm

00:44:06 --> 00:44:09

a captain. I'm a captain facing on the guest. I'm sitting with them.

00:44:09 --> 00:44:11

And they're watching the show.

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

And I'm like, I'm not paying attention to this, right? I'm

00:44:14 --> 00:44:15

doing thicker or something like that.

00:44:17 --> 00:44:20

I'm telling you, these producers know what they're doing. By the

00:44:20 --> 00:44:24

third day I'm hooked. Right? Because they just the character

00:44:24 --> 00:44:29

development, the plots the schemes, like what to say what a

00:44:29 --> 00:44:34

bunch of shayateen because you can not get hooked. And then the talk

00:44:35 --> 00:44:40

of the town one time was the show. Okay. It was the talk of the

00:44:40 --> 00:44:42

everybody was talking about the show. That's how good they

00:44:42 --> 00:44:46

produced the show. The plot lines, the character development, the

00:44:46 --> 00:44:50

mystery, right, the suspense. Everybody was talking about the

00:44:50 --> 00:44:55

show and people were supposed to look for the last 10 nights to

00:44:55 --> 00:44:58

look forward ladies and clouds. Everyone was looking forward to

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

the conclusion of the show because the show

00:45:00 --> 00:45:04

wasn't ending on the last night right? I'm like man, these are

00:45:04 --> 00:45:08

Belissa these are IB leases who have taken an Amazon away from

00:45:08 --> 00:45:10

people even from the righteous people

00:45:11 --> 00:45:17

so he's saying here if you do more eating and more entertainment in

00:45:17 --> 00:45:18

Ramadan than outside

00:45:19 --> 00:45:23

right at that point shaitan has completely robbed you out of his

00:45:23 --> 00:45:27

hesed his hatred to see you benefit he hates to see you

00:45:27 --> 00:45:28

benefit

00:45:33 --> 00:45:38

he says then a person can come out of Ramadan completely with no note

00:45:38 --> 00:45:43

a normal cash offer but look we'll look at what he says here remember

00:45:43 --> 00:45:47

had laid you during a Baraka tea so me him what I told her was to

00:45:47 --> 00:45:53

him Atha reheat mineral Anwar he will mocha fat he's basically

00:45:53 --> 00:45:58

telling you that mocha fat it is going to happen by necessity

00:45:59 --> 00:46:03

if light fills the heart then we'll cassava follows because

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

Shiva is Allah shows you what your eyes could not have seen

00:46:07 --> 00:46:08

good

00:46:09 --> 00:46:10

whew

00:46:12 --> 00:46:13

Yeah, can you get him on

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

bring him on I like it buddy.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:22

Oh yeah, yeah. used to come to all the boys yeah Tim now

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

mashallah his studies are done masa

00:46:28 --> 00:46:29

Yeah

00:46:33 --> 00:46:36

how do you tag people I think you hit at and then you tag people

00:46:38 --> 00:46:39

huh

00:46:41 --> 00:46:42

yeah

00:46:51 --> 00:46:56

mean as ever so my legs are apt to serve the dunya the matters of the

00:46:56 --> 00:46:58

dunya should decrease in the month of Ramadan.

00:46:59 --> 00:47:03

Work always decreases in the month of Ramadan for the for the sake of

00:47:03 --> 00:47:08

a bad more so than the sake of sleeping. But also people you know

00:47:08 --> 00:47:11

your your body is not really primed for working when you don't

00:47:11 --> 00:47:15

have any sustenance. So there's a pragmatic element to it as well.

00:47:16 --> 00:47:21

He says belly it's a foreign labor that he would decree he was going

00:47:21 --> 00:47:21

to

00:47:22 --> 00:47:25

spend all your time in the remembrance of Allah as much as

00:47:25 --> 00:47:26

possible.

00:47:27 --> 00:47:29

And he doesn't get involved in the work of this dunya you could do it

00:47:29 --> 00:47:31

after Ramadan except what is a necessity

00:47:33 --> 00:47:38

Elfi happy many of them will pm will be what you have to take care

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

of your family your dependents. That is because the month of

00:47:41 --> 00:47:47

Ramadan is a month of it is in the rank of the day of Joomla

00:47:48 --> 00:47:54

of the days Joomla it's blessed the DUA and is accepted right in

00:47:54 --> 00:47:55

one hour of it.

00:47:56 --> 00:48:00

Good for him but he didn't want me to and yada yada yada you Giamatti

00:48:00 --> 00:48:07

he was somebody he had a karate who salsa. Okay so Juma it has in

00:48:07 --> 00:48:11

it special event that says SUTA till calf. It has in it at tip kid

00:48:11 --> 00:48:15

little drama, you go early for drama, right? It has in it the

00:48:15 --> 00:48:19

drama itself, of course, it has in it the DUA before Kobe middle

00:48:19 --> 00:48:26

market shortly before Muhammad is a sad Mubaraka of Joomla. Mitch

00:48:26 --> 00:48:28

many people say in it, it has

00:48:31 --> 00:48:35

the demise accepted there. So Joomla has special things that

00:48:35 --> 00:48:38

would render it not to be a day of hustle and bustle.

00:48:39 --> 00:48:39

Get

00:48:42 --> 00:48:45

some of the specific things you're going to now buy your dates and

00:48:45 --> 00:48:48

break your dates on that because that is a sunnah. And if you don't

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

find anything than water,

00:48:51 --> 00:48:54

and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to always break his

00:48:54 --> 00:48:58

fast before Maghrib in the Hanafi allow for some extra time to be

00:48:58 --> 00:49:03

spent eating and you're gonna get basically chickpeas

00:49:04 --> 00:49:09

with sauce. With spices, you're gonna get samosas you're gonna

00:49:09 --> 00:49:12

get, hey, Omar, what are those vegetables that they fry?

00:49:13 --> 00:49:18

Of course, you're gonna get that stuff and they go on and they

00:49:18 --> 00:49:22

actually may spend 30 minutes eating before they pray. And that

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

is because their method allows for that. Whereas the other muda had

00:49:26 --> 00:49:29

require you to just break your fast make a door and pray right

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31

away. Then you can eat afterwards.

00:49:34 --> 00:49:38

I learned this from experience. Go into Claudia's office. He's got a

00:49:38 --> 00:49:44

spread. He's got Aruba. He's got almond drinks. He's got stuff like

00:49:45 --> 00:49:49

you've never seen before. You break your fast you expect a break

00:49:49 --> 00:49:55

your fast. Three days cup of milk Gazzola No. We're going to eat

00:49:55 --> 00:49:59

pakoras we're going to eat samosas we're going to eat chickpeas mixed

00:49:59 --> 00:50:00

with stuff.

00:50:00 --> 00:50:03

Have, it's all gonna be faster, right? He's faster now eats it in

00:50:03 --> 00:50:07

about 15 minutes. 20 minutes. That's pretty long. So that's

00:50:07 --> 00:50:09

pretty long and I'm like, hold on a second are we doing

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

are we

00:50:12 --> 00:50:14

is this right now?

00:50:15 --> 00:50:18

So it turns out that Neff have their own rules on this. Okay,

00:50:18 --> 00:50:22

they do. Hold negative is an expensive time it's the FTR the

00:50:22 --> 00:50:25

time of negative where you're not blameworthy for delaying it is is

00:50:25 --> 00:50:28

longer the other methods say hmm

00:50:31 --> 00:50:32

that's not an excuse.

00:50:33 --> 00:50:35

Yeah, well,

00:50:36 --> 00:50:40

but in the old days, how did they What did they say? Because they

00:50:40 --> 00:50:41

didn't use the minute right

00:50:45 --> 00:50:47

is it that the light goes down or what?

00:50:49 --> 00:50:50

Light as the sun goes down or what?

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

I forget actually.

00:50:55 --> 00:50:56

You mentioned

00:51:02 --> 00:51:06

letters no Almighty behind in my jello photo or across the hall.

00:51:07 --> 00:51:11

You have sold late, but you have if thought early, it was breaking

00:51:11 --> 00:51:12

fast right away.

00:51:14 --> 00:51:19

Today we're gonna break our facet anti meet the Imam has a new Imam.

00:51:19 --> 00:51:23

His name is the Imam chat from Al Azhar University is a middle town.

00:51:24 --> 00:51:25

Yeah, so

00:51:27 --> 00:51:28

Middletown Masjid Mm

00:51:31 --> 00:51:37

hmm. Hamid Reza says once the stars it's my crew up till the

00:51:37 --> 00:51:38

stars are shown

00:51:39 --> 00:51:40

generally

00:51:44 --> 00:51:44

Yeah.

00:51:49 --> 00:51:51

When babbling to saw me

00:51:52 --> 00:51:55

it's good and appropriate for the fasting person and your Calella

00:51:56 --> 00:51:57

minute actually

00:51:59 --> 00:52:02

decrease your food well, I stick them in who were there to get had

00:52:02 --> 00:52:05

Dale Herati athelstone. So there should be signs that he's fasting

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

even after my

00:52:09 --> 00:52:12

way or Halabi surgery, he will not sue the lady who attacked debo

00:52:12 --> 00:52:18

knifes. And you can get the real benefit is to teach the knifes up.

00:52:18 --> 00:52:22

And I'm telling you this is all theory. The only true way to get

00:52:22 --> 00:52:28

this is to fast a lot. To the point that food after maghrib is

00:52:28 --> 00:52:32

not the end of the world is not exciting. Right? It should not be

00:52:32 --> 00:52:37

felt that. That's it. Right? I need to have this all because I'm

00:52:37 --> 00:52:41

going to be deprived again the next day. When you fast so much.

00:52:41 --> 00:52:45

You're accustomed to being deprived of food and nothing bad

00:52:45 --> 00:52:49

happens. Right? I learned something interesting. Yeah. The

00:52:49 --> 00:52:55

the the reason for why the powers are set in certain way. Yeah. For

00:52:55 --> 00:52:59

eating is because it is either to work like that. Or it would be

00:52:59 --> 00:53:03

like on one knee and one knee up. Because it makes the stomach

00:53:03 --> 00:53:06

closes the stomach. If you sit like this crisscross applesauce,

00:53:06 --> 00:53:09

yes. I mean, it's just why don't totally totally. When you sit on a

00:53:09 --> 00:53:15

chair, you never feel satisfied when you open and many moms they

00:53:15 --> 00:53:17

do the opposite. They tell their kids don't sit like that open up

00:53:17 --> 00:53:19

your stomach so you can eat more.

00:53:22 --> 00:53:26

Yeah, and you know that feeling like it's something universal, ya

00:53:26 --> 00:53:29

know, there was a name for it, but it's called itis so you don't ask

00:53:29 --> 00:53:31

to eat a lot. You start feeling sleepy.

00:53:32 --> 00:53:35

It's called itis like just ice. So the reason I didn't know that

00:53:35 --> 00:53:38

that's a weird name. Itis is when you feel drowsy after eating and

00:53:38 --> 00:53:42

that's the reason is that where's the all the blood is going to work

00:53:42 --> 00:53:48

on? Digestion? Right? Especially Chipotle because all that saucy

00:53:48 --> 00:53:54

stuff. I don't I don't know how people eat such saucy foods right

00:53:54 --> 00:53:57

away on an empty stomach like that. Of course the Desi stomach

00:53:57 --> 00:54:00

is a different stomach than all other stomachs because how they're

00:54:00 --> 00:54:04

what they're accustomed to these guys have butter chicken for so

00:54:04 --> 00:54:09

hold right how do you asleep after that? Don't you have acid coming

00:54:09 --> 00:54:12

up? What's that? Like dinner? Holla

00:54:14 --> 00:54:14

Yeah.

00:54:15 --> 00:54:17

Wow, man.

00:54:19 --> 00:54:20

Okay, now listen to this.

00:54:22 --> 00:54:24

Yeah, he says, If I grow

00:54:26 --> 00:54:32

a coconut tree and I only water it Zamzam water. Will this tree

00:54:32 --> 00:54:34

produce coconut Zamzam water

00:54:36 --> 00:54:41

oh my gosh. That's that's the first Yeah. Like I have a question

00:54:41 --> 00:54:42

for you. How did that even get in your head?

00:54:45 --> 00:54:48

Nice. Very interesting. Right interesting.

00:54:54 --> 00:54:57

Care. He says it's the insulin spike that makes you sleepy.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:00

yeah

00:55:04 --> 00:55:05

okay.

00:55:07 --> 00:55:13

He says here that hunger decreases your desires, decrease of desires

00:55:13 --> 00:55:16

allows the light to shine in your heart. Okay?

00:55:18 --> 00:55:24

He's also says that for in a little joy will Hulu will neither

00:55:24 --> 00:55:28

Athan RVM and Phaeton will call these repeated this like three

00:55:28 --> 00:55:33

times so far that's how important it is hunger and the emptiness of

00:55:33 --> 00:55:38

the stomach has a big effect on lightning the heart meaning

00:55:38 --> 00:55:42

putting light in the heart. Good, big effect

00:55:45 --> 00:55:47

I'm telling you if you fast regularly, you'll go in the

00:55:47 --> 00:55:52

summertime and have so hold up for and break your fast at eight as if

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

nothing happened. And you'll go about your day normally

00:55:58 --> 00:56:02

was Shabbat a Szybko. US lol cuss words you will have Afla

00:56:02 --> 00:56:09

constantly being full is the origin of all hardness of the

00:56:09 --> 00:56:15

heart and heedlessness and ink and laziness and thaw and also

00:56:16 --> 00:56:18

embroiled in being bold

00:56:19 --> 00:56:26

in being bold in incense satem says how do you handle caffeine

00:56:26 --> 00:56:29

withdrawal? I'm prone to migraines. And fortunately I'll

00:56:29 --> 00:56:33

tell you my secret personally how I did it. I went out and I got

00:56:33 --> 00:56:37

decaf coffee and I got caffeinated coffee. I got decaf tea and

00:56:37 --> 00:56:38

caffeinated tea.

00:56:39 --> 00:56:43

And I went and I always start this in grad job. But this time I want

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45

to keep it year round, right?

00:56:47 --> 00:56:51

You take your usually put like let's say you put two spoons. So

00:56:51 --> 00:56:54

you take a spoon and a half of caffeine and half a spoon of

00:56:54 --> 00:56:54

decaf.

00:56:55 --> 00:56:59

Next week, two weeks later, one spoon of caffeine, one spoon of

00:56:59 --> 00:57:03

decaf. So now you're in the realm of half Caf. Okay.

00:57:05 --> 00:57:07

And then and you can go back and forth. You could do this one day,

00:57:07 --> 00:57:10

not do it the next day, do it one day, do not do it the next day

00:57:11 --> 00:57:14

until you actually are majority.

00:57:15 --> 00:57:20

decaf and minority caffeine. So the amount of caffeine you're

00:57:20 --> 00:57:23

taking is decreasing. There's another trick too, which is having

00:57:23 --> 00:57:27

a little bit of caffeine during sewed. And there's another thing

00:57:27 --> 00:57:33

that these guys get, which is a slow release caffeine pill. Right?

00:57:33 --> 00:57:37

And someone said is that halau for us because it's it's releasing

00:57:37 --> 00:57:42

while fasting. So I was like, Well, what about food? Right?

00:57:43 --> 00:57:47

Isn't protein still nourish in your stomach releasing nutrients

00:57:47 --> 00:57:52

to your body, even while after fetch. So yeah, as long as you eat

00:57:52 --> 00:57:55

it before fudge, it doesn't matter what how it releases inside your

00:57:55 --> 00:57:59

body. You're not taking into account by that. Get every

00:57:59 --> 00:58:03

Egyptian eats food. First of all, it's the best to whole

00:58:04 --> 00:58:07

food. But you don't have to eat too much. Because it'll knock you

00:58:07 --> 00:58:13

up. Food. Didn't it means it's fava beans. Yeah, it's it tastes a

00:58:13 --> 00:58:17

little much, much better than kidney beans. Fava beans, you take

00:58:17 --> 00:58:21

it, you heat it up in a pen. You put some olive oil, you put some

00:58:21 --> 00:58:25

salt, you have to cut up greens on it. Like coriander, you cut up

00:58:25 --> 00:58:28

coriander, tons of coriander because it's help you digest. Then

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

you have a piece of bread and you eat that.

00:58:32 --> 00:58:35

That's all you need. And you don't need to eat a lot of it either.

00:58:35 --> 00:58:38

You should slowly go from you'd like a full can on the first day,

00:58:39 --> 00:58:43

half again. But but you'll feel it in the morning, you'll be knocked

00:58:43 --> 00:58:47

out cold in an odd way afterwards and you'll wake up slow and heavy.

00:58:48 --> 00:58:51

So I think you can get it down to a quarter of akin

00:58:52 --> 00:58:56

a quarter of again with one slice of toasted bread.

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Okay, and a tall cup of water.

00:59:00 --> 00:59:03

That's all you need. Right? That's all you need, if you can get to

00:59:03 --> 00:59:09

that. Right. And then you come down without even thinking heated

00:59:09 --> 00:59:10

up. toast my bread.

00:59:11 --> 00:59:13

And you but you need to add the coriander.

00:59:15 --> 00:59:18

Sorry, cilantro. Coriander is when it's dry. Cilantro is when it's

00:59:18 --> 00:59:22

green. It's a green little thing that has a nice flavor to it. You

00:59:22 --> 00:59:26

cut it up and put it in in the food itself. That's how

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melody saying there Sudanese full. That's also good. So that's how

00:59:33 --> 00:59:36

the Egyptian has his soul. And it's a very simple Mediterranean

00:59:36 --> 00:59:41

diet. It's really good. It takes you five minutes to eat one minute

00:59:41 --> 00:59:47

to prepare. And you're good to go. We don't need to have a spread for

00:59:47 --> 00:59:52

so hold on one hour so like that's not necessary your body will

00:59:52 --> 00:59:52

adjust.

00:59:54 --> 00:59:59

You come to mbyc last 1010 days and they essentially bring out the

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Iftar

01:00:00 --> 01:00:04

Food is just another order of Iftar food. Right? And it's like

01:00:04 --> 01:00:08

Ah, here's the problem. Here's my biggest problem. When I go to

01:00:08 --> 01:00:13

these Iftar invitations, they have cooked such exquisite food.

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You can't say no to it. It's like I feel wrong. I feel that this

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person put out an effort and I feel that they these are this is

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fresh food that is

01:00:25 --> 01:00:30

you know, it's, it seems wrong to reject it. But that's a trap.

01:00:30 --> 01:00:34

Wallah. It's a trap right? And then you eat and you eat and you

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eat and then you're knocked out for that thought away. You're like

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can't even

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pay attention

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to all the trap ask the question. Imran Khan I guess he's out of

01:00:45 --> 01:00:48

jail said what's the end of of getting invited TIF dollars do we

01:00:48 --> 01:00:51

need to go especially if you think you may not get away with Did you

01:00:51 --> 01:00:54

enjoy the video? Are you just saying it like overall? No, I

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didn't answer that no. Because he's asking you go to those if

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stars I go to all of them you know why?

01:01:00 --> 01:01:04

I go to all of them because the saga is part of Ramadan benefiting

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people from the presence of people. People will benefit by

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giving you if taught we may not see people throughout the year

01:01:11 --> 01:01:11

right.

01:01:13 --> 01:01:16

Okay, I think personally that

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we should go to those things all right.

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That a reasonable shirt to domestic taraweeh is not like you

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have it's like only a two hour thing and domestic yeah that is

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really the whole night braided away yeah you do at your house

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afterwards you something totowa is something that can continue on

01:01:34 --> 01:01:37

when you get home to you're not only stuck with prime behind the

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men

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What's this argument

01:01:45 --> 01:01:47

what is C saying here? ciggies out as well?

01:01:49 --> 01:01:52

You're gonna regret the confidence you speak with was he talking to

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just talking to me? What confident we're talking about beans and

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stuff right?

01:01:58 --> 01:02:02

I think that this person is talking to somebody else. Okay

01:02:09 --> 01:02:10

what is

01:02:13 --> 01:02:15

interesting people in the comment section today

01:02:22 --> 01:02:24

like modern Cooper found out

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Yeah.

01:02:29 --> 01:02:33

Somebody said here throwing some cheese for dairy with the soul.

01:02:33 --> 01:02:39

Yeah, that's good. Right? There ZOC. Food with some cheese and

01:02:39 --> 01:02:40

bread, right?

01:02:41 --> 01:02:44

Maybe a cup of decaf tea for something hot, you know, in your

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system. By the way, Ramadan is coming in a few years it's going

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to be in the winter. That's a different experience altogether.

01:02:50 --> 01:02:55

It'd be cold. Right? But the nights are going to be long and

01:02:55 --> 01:02:58

the fast is going to be very easy. And fast is going to be very easy.

01:02:59 --> 01:03:05

She'd be huh, she thought it'd be a shooter or a VR mini assuming

01:03:05 --> 01:03:10

the hardware Comilla the CM is easy. And the pm of Lail is long.

01:03:10 --> 01:03:15

Imagine that you wake up at 5pm and 5am at pray 200 5am was 200 in

01:03:15 --> 01:03:16

the wintertime.

01:03:18 --> 01:03:25

Ziggy says there is a sociopath is talking here. Okay. So he's just

01:03:25 --> 01:03:27

he's messing around here with us. No problem.

01:03:29 --> 01:03:29

Good.

01:03:34 --> 01:03:37

Let's see what else that said in the moment. Her dad is telling us

01:03:38 --> 01:03:43

either Chevy I tell Buttonwood Jaya at Jimmy or Java. Wow, either

01:03:43 --> 01:03:47

Jah Ted Butler Chevette Jamil Dewar amazing saying here, if your

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stomach is full. Now, your limbs are hungry. Right? Your limbs are

01:03:54 --> 01:03:58

hungry for the next sensation. Right? If your stomach is full,

01:03:58 --> 01:04:02

now my eyes want they're filled my hands want their fill my other

01:04:02 --> 01:04:04

body parts want

01:04:05 --> 01:04:08

some kind of and that's where you get that rambunctious Nestle Amara

01:04:09 --> 01:04:14

Okay? However, either Jha till about the new, if the hungry

01:04:14 --> 01:04:18

stomach is hungry, the limbs have no desires either. So that's why

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our path the spiritual path, it's always that vichara is brought to

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the forefront. But if you really want the fast track it the tibia

01:04:30 --> 01:04:36

of a person's neffs and the tibia of a person's self.

01:04:37 --> 01:04:38

It's hunger.

01:04:39 --> 01:04:45

I heard one time that it solves 99 out of 100 problems that a person

01:04:45 --> 01:04:48

has with their with their own self. Right? If you have a problem

01:04:48 --> 01:04:52

with your tongue, with your eyes, with Your ears, whatever fasting

01:04:52 --> 01:04:58

consistently hunger is going to solve 99% of that. And fasting is

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not this fast that they

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Do what are they called these days when they intermittent fast and

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were they fast from food, but they don't fast from water.

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We're talking about the fast that Allah loves. Those fast may have

01:05:12 --> 01:05:15

other benefits, but the fast that Allah loves why? Because that's

01:05:15 --> 01:05:18

what binds you. intermittent fast, and I can break that whenever I

01:05:18 --> 01:05:21

feel like it. I always joke with my friends, I intermitted faster

01:05:21 --> 01:05:26

today, over from when from when I woke up to 9am. It's like, Who

01:05:26 --> 01:05:29

sets the number, right? You set it. So if you set it, you can

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break it. But once you open a nephila fast, right, a fast,

01:05:36 --> 01:05:39

you're stuck with it. And that's what it takes the choice out of my

01:05:39 --> 01:05:43

mind. I don't have to make a choice. Every time I see food now.

01:05:43 --> 01:05:48

I know I'm fasting. Whereas any type of diet it's a choice every

01:05:48 --> 01:05:50

single time because nothing's really binding me to it.

01:05:56 --> 01:05:57

Yeah,

01:05:58 --> 01:06:01

yeah. Once you start an affiliate, you have to finish it.

01:06:04 --> 01:06:09

For us to once you can't willfully open enough ILA prayer, and get

01:06:09 --> 01:06:10

out of it because you feel like you're

01:06:12 --> 01:06:15

not allowed to do to make it up to make it up to you.

01:06:16 --> 01:06:20

And you're sinful, you have makes too far. Same thing with a

01:06:20 --> 01:06:23

contract. I can't get out of a contract once I sign it. I didn't

01:06:23 --> 01:06:24

have to sign it in the first place, right.

01:06:28 --> 01:06:31

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Ma'am, Mullah Abdul

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dama. We are in Sodom and Bafana, the human being has not filled a

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vessel worse than his stomach.

01:06:39 --> 01:06:44

What Jor el Jawara he I vallotton unpa beha health care Awatea when

01:06:44 --> 01:06:47

he says that the limbs become hungry in the sink, when your

01:06:47 --> 01:06:52

stomach is full, your limbs are hungry. He's saying here that it

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means that your limbs, they want to they need to entertain, they

01:06:57 --> 01:07:01

need to be fulfilled their desires. Okay? Whereas when your

01:07:01 --> 01:07:05

stomach is empty, your limbs are satisfied. They don't need this.

01:07:06 --> 01:07:11

So that what is the food of the tongue? When we say that the

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tongue is hungry, it's talking. And the favorite sweet of people

01:07:16 --> 01:07:20

is backbiting. People love to backbite they love to hear the

01:07:20 --> 01:07:24

drama of other people. Okay, they feel it's almost like watching a

01:07:24 --> 01:07:26

horror movie where people love to watch horror movie because they

01:07:26 --> 01:07:29

liked the idea of actually being scared but then realizing they're

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safe. That's why that's the psychology behind horror movies.

01:07:33 --> 01:07:36

They love to feel the idea that they're, they're actually scared,

01:07:37 --> 01:07:40

but then they could pull out when they realize that they're just

01:07:40 --> 01:07:43

sitting on the couch. And they're actually safe, right. So people

01:07:43 --> 01:07:47

love to talk about other people and backbite and for the eye what

01:07:47 --> 01:07:50

is the hunger of the eye is to look looks at beat looking at

01:07:50 --> 01:07:51

beautiful things.

01:07:53 --> 01:07:58

And the ear to hear melodies and so on private parts we know.

01:07:59 --> 01:07:59

Okay.

01:08:01 --> 01:08:05

So it will seek all these things. For one reason the stomach is

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always full.

01:08:08 --> 01:08:09

So empty that stomach with fasting.

01:08:11 --> 01:08:16

If you fast regularly you come upon a situation where a state

01:08:16 --> 01:08:19

where you break your fast and you're pretty much good to go.

01:08:20 --> 01:08:24

Like you don't need a hill of food afterwards. And you're not

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fascinated by food. The way a person who doesn't regularly fast

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is

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he says without a commercia Had I wish I had this is we've witnessed

01:08:35 --> 01:08:35

this

01:08:37 --> 01:08:42

we're in the hole her Louis Hakuna sukoon who were who do her and wha

01:08:42 --> 01:08:47

Barra be on a ship, Shiva al Jawara. When the stomach is empty,

01:08:47 --> 01:08:51

you find that person calm talking to a truck driver the other day,

01:08:51 --> 01:08:56

he works for Costco, and he was telling me that this is one of the

01:08:56 --> 01:09:01

unhip, most unhealthy jobs you can ever do. And he's saying that at

01:09:01 --> 01:09:06

the truckstops There's sometimes free food and drink offered

01:09:06 --> 01:09:09

depends on the company. So the company like Costco may have

01:09:09 --> 01:09:13

negotiated and you stop at the truck, you get like a card and you

01:09:13 --> 01:09:19

could get what you want. All that stuff. So he says that there is

01:09:19 --> 01:09:24

there's a drink, there's a cup that they made. The bottom of the

01:09:24 --> 01:09:28

cup is like this big. And the cup is like this, right and this wide,

01:09:28 --> 01:09:29

almost, it's almost like

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two liters.

01:09:33 --> 01:09:37

And you fill that and they guys fill it with coke. It's terrible.

01:09:37 --> 01:09:41

And then they they their drivers, right? So they made special

01:09:41 --> 01:09:45

drivers straws. The struggle is right up to here.

01:09:47 --> 01:09:52

He doesn't ever have to pick it up or lean over to get it and this

01:09:52 --> 01:09:56

guy will drink this two liters on one side on the other side. big

01:09:56 --> 01:10:00

bags of chips and and he'll just

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Do this while driving and will have his phone in front of him

01:10:02 --> 01:10:06

while watching TV while driving. Right? And this will be his diet

01:10:06 --> 01:10:08

for the next six hours.

01:10:09 --> 01:10:11

And they'll do this every single day of his life. As long as he's

01:10:11 --> 01:10:16

driving. He says these drivers, some of them their, their legs at

01:10:16 --> 01:10:19

the bottom of their legs because of how bad their diet is. Their

01:10:19 --> 01:10:24

lights like this. Yeah, and he says he knew a driver. The guy

01:10:24 --> 01:10:29

would. That's actually pretty so absurd. It's funny. His stomach

01:10:29 --> 01:10:32

reaches a wheel that the wheel

01:10:34 --> 01:10:38

this child is right. But it's so fun. It's great. It's so absurd.

01:10:38 --> 01:10:45

His stomach is so big. That he sits now in an 18 Wheeler. And he

01:10:45 --> 01:10:48

just moves his back. And that's how he could just like you know,

01:10:48 --> 01:10:51

when you drive with your knee, that's how he does drives with the

01:10:51 --> 01:10:59

stomach. Oh my goodness. My second cup. Oh man. Mr. Keene. Mr. Keene

01:10:59 --> 01:10:59

once again.

01:11:01 --> 01:11:05

I gotta go actually get tickets today. Good. All right, let's see,

01:11:05 --> 01:11:06

let's wrap it up.

01:11:07 --> 01:11:11

The most important thing is that see it in a moment had dead did

01:11:11 --> 01:11:17

not have a CME section with phip in this book is 50 is covered in

01:11:17 --> 01:11:24

other books. But he talks about the true purpose of the fast which

01:11:24 --> 01:11:25

is the empty stomach. What's the question?

01:11:26 --> 01:11:30

This book is translated by the way it's called. And the site had Dini

01:11:30 --> 01:11:36

what was it? Amen ear translated by Dr. Mustafa Beda. We as a

01:11:36 --> 01:11:39

religious council, I believe almost can you look it up please?

01:11:39 --> 01:11:40

Yep.

01:11:42 --> 01:11:42

Okay

01:11:45 --> 01:11:47

Mr. Hubbard with that cut

01:11:48 --> 01:11:53

off do you mean help in the massager help feed help

01:11:54 --> 01:11:59

prepare if not for people manfaat para saw a man can Allahu Mytho Lu

01:11:59 --> 01:12:03

IGE Mithila agilely he mean Aveda and Yun cosa mean LGD che.

01:12:04 --> 01:12:10

Che on nothing is lost from his reward but you have the same

01:12:10 --> 01:12:14

reward as someone who was fasting there are many people who their

01:12:14 --> 01:12:19

specialty in life it seems is to come out at Ramadan and really be

01:12:19 --> 01:12:24

be the heroes of Ramadan preparing the soul right preparing the Tarot

01:12:24 --> 01:12:25

the Iftaar

01:12:26 --> 01:12:30

Okay, and we have F dot mbsc Friday nights and Saturday nights

01:12:30 --> 01:12:34

public open if doors for everybody and the last 10 nights we have

01:12:34 --> 01:12:35

that with Soho.

01:12:36 --> 01:12:42

Okay, we have that with so what is Mocha? Mocha Shiva is that Allah

01:12:42 --> 01:12:45

data may show you a vision, a dream about somebody a dream and

01:12:45 --> 01:12:49

you tell that person why does Allah show people dreams for other

01:12:49 --> 01:12:53

people? Is because if the person himself saw the vision he may

01:12:53 --> 01:12:56

think that it's just my thoughts. But when Allah shows somebody

01:12:56 --> 01:13:00

else, then he knows for sure that is from Allah, not from his own

01:13:00 --> 01:13:01

thoughts.

01:13:05 --> 01:13:09

Her the thurb in the mayor Suleyman for Tara who wallow Alma

01:13:10 --> 01:13:12

even if you're just handing him

01:13:13 --> 01:13:14

get

01:13:17 --> 01:13:21

the actual date or the actual water that's the reward how the

01:13:21 --> 01:13:26

throw up yeah so the men for Tara who whoever gives him the if for

01:13:26 --> 01:13:31

Emma men up ama saw him embody felt filthy he fee Beatty Elfi

01:13:31 --> 01:13:35

moulden orthophotos so lower the throat. So we're talking about the

01:13:35 --> 01:13:39

breaking of the fast not feeding him afterwards. So break your fast

01:13:39 --> 01:13:42

and the message then comes our house and eat no he means by that

01:13:42 --> 01:13:45

whoever actually gives you the food by which you break your fast.

01:13:45 --> 01:13:49

So what is this Prophet salallahu Salam he's encouraging here to

01:13:49 --> 01:13:53

create a world in which everyone's giving everyone food at McRib, at

01:13:53 --> 01:13:56

that moment and that's a beautiful thing.

01:13:58 --> 01:14:03

Well, I can Yes, hello Thor attom The person who invites you after

01:14:03 --> 01:14:07

Iftar like break your fast at the mothership at the masjid pray

01:14:07 --> 01:14:10

there and then come and eat at our house. He gets this though, of

01:14:10 --> 01:14:14

sadaqa of it's an it's also a great follow up but it's not the

01:14:14 --> 01:14:17

same as what was mentioned here. Okay.

01:14:20 --> 01:14:22

All right, and you get a lot of reward of course for that. Alright

01:14:22 --> 01:14:24

ladies and gentlemen, we stop here

01:14:29 --> 01:14:33

should we strive and hope for Makaha in Ramadan it will happen

01:14:33 --> 01:14:37

by itself. Strive to recite the Quran as much as you can strive

01:14:38 --> 01:14:42

to do not indulge in food as much as you can. And it will happen by

01:14:42 --> 01:14:47

itself. Am I roof seven says a kid from a Holika sometimes lead told

01:14:47 --> 01:14:49

me he saw me in a dream about to give up in the masjid. What could

01:14:49 --> 01:14:50

this mean?

01:14:54 --> 01:14:57

It could have different meanings. And Allah knows best

01:14:58 --> 01:15:00

could have different meanings and Allah

01:15:00 --> 01:15:00

on his best.

01:15:03 --> 01:15:06

But I don't want to say one specific meaning over another

01:15:06 --> 01:15:09

because I can already in my mind's picture that could have different

01:15:09 --> 01:15:10

meanings.

01:15:15 --> 01:15:17

For example, let's say at the masjid was called Rama, mustard or

01:15:17 --> 01:15:18

Rama.

01:15:19 --> 01:15:21

It could have nothing to do with

01:15:22 --> 01:15:25

the speeches it could have to do with getting engaged to a woman

01:15:25 --> 01:15:28

named Rama. That's how dream interpretation is. You're going to

01:15:28 --> 01:15:31

give a hook but at Masjid Rama, it could mean you will be engaged

01:15:31 --> 01:15:36

hutzpah at Rama with a girl named Brahma for example. That's an

01:15:36 --> 01:15:41

that's just but it could also mean exactly that what you he saw that

01:15:41 --> 01:15:44

you will be benefiting those people doesn't have to be through

01:15:44 --> 01:15:45

heartbreak could be through other things.

01:15:57 --> 01:16:01

Araki the differences and fifth differences in splitting into

01:16:01 --> 01:16:02

different groups?

01:16:06 --> 01:16:11

The answer is that yes and no. If it's, it's separating the Muslims

01:16:11 --> 01:16:13

on matters of

01:16:14 --> 01:16:19

dispute, matters of which she had, then we shouldn't do that. Then

01:16:19 --> 01:16:23

everyone takes their HD head and can be pleased with it. And

01:16:23 --> 01:16:28

convinced by it without separating the drama and difference splitting

01:16:28 --> 01:16:35

up the GEMA. Okay, or if this, but if it's if people are doing it in

01:16:35 --> 01:16:38

the correct way. This is my opinion. That's your opinion. It's

01:16:38 --> 01:16:42

a matter of opinion. This is who I follow. This is who you follow.

01:16:43 --> 01:16:47

That's not splitting. The OMA splitting the OMA is when these

01:16:47 --> 01:16:52

splits and divisions that should not that are up for discussion.

01:16:52 --> 01:16:57

These are not explicit versus the up for discussion. And this is a

01:16:57 --> 01:17:00

source for people they no longer talk they no longer they hate each

01:17:00 --> 01:17:02

other now than that is

01:17:03 --> 01:17:05

the splitting of the OMA that is minimum.

01:17:06 --> 01:17:09

Can I wear an untidy hat if I'm not answering no, you cannot. It's

01:17:09 --> 01:17:12

like wearing a police uniform or wearing a lab coat.

01:17:13 --> 01:17:17

When you don't know anything about you know medicine, because if you

01:17:17 --> 01:17:20

wear the Azadi hat, people will come and ask you questions.

01:17:22 --> 01:17:24

And if you don't know and then they'll think you're a Mufti. So

01:17:24 --> 01:17:26

that's why, you know, let's do that.

01:17:27 --> 01:17:30

How did you get through Ramadan with toddlers?

01:17:36 --> 01:17:38

Yeah, they do take up a lot of time.

01:17:41 --> 01:17:44

They do take up a lot of time in a person's day.

01:17:48 --> 01:17:50

But you got to put them to sleep early. Toddler should go to sleep

01:17:50 --> 01:17:52

early toddlers whose

01:17:53 --> 01:17:57

you don't have time for this. I am not parenting after 8pm

01:17:58 --> 01:18:02

You're on your own. You go to sleep. Okay. I'm going to be a

01:18:02 --> 01:18:06

parent all day and all night. You go to sleep. Okay, learn how to

01:18:06 --> 01:18:07

sleep.

01:18:08 --> 01:18:12

Okay, I used to make Ben Eisah benefit from trying to benefit

01:18:12 --> 01:18:16

back in the day there was iPad, iPod, I mean, with headphones. So

01:18:16 --> 01:18:19

I was to help out putting the kids to sleep. But I would have like

01:18:19 --> 01:18:24

lessons, I would have hips, I would have I would like that iPad

01:18:24 --> 01:18:27

is gonna be my time. It's now even more possible with air

01:18:28 --> 01:18:32

air pods that don't have a cord anymore, right? You stick one in

01:18:32 --> 01:18:35

there, you do the whole thing while you're taking a dose. Or

01:18:35 --> 01:18:38

while you're repeating certain verses. You can go into the

01:18:38 --> 01:18:43

computer, take the mp3 of the Quran. And let's say take half a

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page. It ends up being let's say a 42nd clip 32nd Clip put it on your

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iPhone or on your whatever your device and play it on repeat.

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You'll memorize it by by the end of the bedtime.

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Drama Yes, the prophets of Allah when he was telling us just to sit

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on his knees, then put one knee up. That would really shrink the

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stomach.

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He would shrink the stomach and then

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he wouldn't need to eat as much. Emerald I would like to fill out a

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form at my dining hall for better tasting halal food. But I also

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want to be content with the food in place in front of me. What

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should I do?

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There's nothing wrong. I think if your dining hall is serving bad

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food, I don't see it. there's anything wrong with you answering.

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Requesting

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better food. There's nothing wrong with it.

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Okay, is there any difference between sub and fetch?

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The time is called feathered the prayer is called sub.

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At least in the Maliki terminology of things

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I heard the correct Joseph Quran is fatsia and Bacara as a whole

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than fatsia and Adam Braun etc. Is this true?

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Or is our traditional Jews splitting SUTA in pieces? Now, I

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don't know what you mean by that. But you know, the Jews as they are

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in the most half is accepted by everybody.

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Khalil Berrocal, could you give several examples non negotiables,

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for potential marriage, I recommend you go into

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Safina society's playlists, and you'll see

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actually, you know, go to NBI C, go to the masjid NBC.

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And I have a 50 video playlist

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for marriage. That covers pretty much everything that you can think

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of, or at least that I thought of.

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Okay.

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So me, John says, In Turkish, we say don't let the sleep fast for

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you. Good. That's a great thing.

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Right? How much sleep during fasting would be permissible? So

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you're gonna have your regular eight hours of sleep sub six,

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seven hours, whatever people do, and then maybe a nap in the in the

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daytime. But to be frank about it.

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The day is very short right now. Now Daylight Saving is going to

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make it a bit longer. So McGraw will be around 630 By the end of

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Ramadan will be 730 Yeah. So a 730 You know, like maybe 536 o'clock

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630. You take a 15 minute nap. No problem with that. Right? No

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problem with that. It's a beautiful thing that Ramadan nap.

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And that's something that's only one of the times where it's

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permissible, as long as they wake you up shortly before Maghrib you

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haven't entered the camera here. The camera here of naps is to take

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a nap in austere time

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and wake up after method. That's my crew. But if you're gonna see

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by acid and wake up before going up, that's acceptable.

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gonna do with a cold acid in an insane and a few closer Illallah

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Deena Amande Ramona SATA hard to water while sober Huck, water was

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sober sober was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah?

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Job

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boom

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right

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