Shadee Elmasry – Questions Surrounding the Sexual Abuse Epidemic part 1
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hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah while he was on video,
Manuela a couple of things that I wanted to start off with something
pretty funny
Did you guys see this? No, no, I didn't see it. All right, here we
go. New Jersey is the most stressed out state. And I was
saying and then they wonder and they start asking us why the
Safina sidepod guests were so rough around.
Alright, right. So this one says nj.com. We were rated I don't know
who did this rating. Okay. zippia Virto. No. All right. So zippia
graded us as the most stressed out state having to sit in traffic and
route one
of our highways. That's pretty miserable. All right. Here it is.
commute time. Yeah. Unemployment hours worked population density,
home price to income ratio, right. And percent uninsured. Wow. Okay.
So the higher any of these was, the more stressful the subdivision
is. So that's basically how it goes. So you guys didn't see this
thing? No, no. All right. Every state was one to 50 the least.
Okay.
On the least stress for Iowa, Minnesota, Nebraska, North and
South Dakota. They're barely alive, let alone be stressed.
There's nothing going on. I wouldn't be if if it was
depression, they'd be the highest. What doesn't tell us where New
Jersey
landed? What's our score out of 50?
Let's see.
zippia. Firstly, who is it? Yeah.
All right. So New Jersey ranked at dark blue, which is highly
stressed, but it didn't say it score.
Didn't give us our score one. We're number one. What is the
actual score though? It was number two.
Number two, it was Georgia. Why weird? Florida was weird. I don't
know. It's going on there.
But yeah, California. Yeah, I can see that.
Alright, right. New Jersey, Georgia. How are they stressed in
Georgia must be in Atlanta. Florida. California, New York.
Like how was New York? Number five? Oh, you know, you know who
ruined New York offset the balance of the upstate? Yeah. Buffalo
Rochester. Those states that really like Troy.
Those parts? Yes. Albany. They don't even really count as New
York because they work in the city. They're super up there
because I worked with something. They shouldn't even be counted.
New York City should be part of New Jersey. Yeah. Like the culture
and all of that. In order to get to North Jersey. I have to pass my
net right. Now. That's true.
But it doesn't say the score that we got.
It just says commute unemployment hours worked population density.
And by the way, I actually personally love population
density. Like I can't stand Yeah, I don't see why that's a big deal.
I can't stand going to these places where there's there are no
people. Yeah, it just the long commutes though. I get. Yeah.
Yeah. Well, long commutes are a byproduct of the population
density that's sitting on the turnpike. Yeah, that's true.
That's a good point. There's your lawyer brains coming in.
All right, do I need to do an introduction here? So we got
Hamza Qureshi on my right hand side on my left, and we have a
couple of things to talk about. So the first thing we'll talk about
is, first thing that I want to talk about
is what everyone's talking about, which is Khabib. Right?
Everyone's happy with Khabib. So first of all, yeah, it's true.
There are rules. We do have rulings on boxing and everything,
but are fighting in general. Right.
But I mean, it's not really the time to bring it up. Right. I
mean, the timing to give a federal on the issue is not the right
timing. So but the but you guys said like you watched it. I
watched it. I wasn't. I was amazing. It was like like he
destroyed four rounds of dominance. Not even close. Really?
Absolutely.
For a guy who was the defending champion. Yeah, like it was. It
was embarrassing. That what's his name?
His last two fights in a row now. Right? Well, I don't know if you
can count the boxing one as a
That was like a joke, right? It was he went out of his comfort
zone to make some money. Yeah, he held his own. Yeah. And I actually
think he got closer to winning. What I heard is he got closer to
beating what's his name? My mother Mayweather. Then he got to Kobe.
Is that true? Yeah. I mean, what for Mayweather fights it looks
like everyone has a chance to get some just that says gamepoint is
defensive fighter.
He tires you out for like the first few rounds. And then he just
finished his you.
churros is commenting already. Oh, my God. So this is actually going
to
be podcast and as a live stream so you can bring your questions. We
do have a couple of things that are critical to talk about, but
we're just getting started here. So Rose says Alright, tell me why
Hamza just doesn't look like he belongs in this video with that
outfit. What are you talking about? He's got the tech guy
outfit on.
Nickname for Shabbos is the Mufti rapper, mostly rapper? Oh, I
thought it was shisha.
Alright, let's get to the topic that I wanted to talk about, which
is that a number of people are actually they have a misconception
on the issue of sexual abuse. That's the first thing. Okay. And
the issue of sexual abuse is that some people imagine that the
Hadoop, the rules of the Hadoop are the only rules that apply to
anything. In other words, if it's not a hard punishment, like it's
not a law, right, or or it's not a crime. And if you don't reach the
head punishment
criterion of witnesses, then it's not a crime, then there's no
there's no way to prosecute the person at all. So this is actually
totally wrong. And the first thing you ought to know is that there's
Hadoop and there's Telzio, something called Tassie it sounds
it is discretionary punishment by the ruler or by the state. Okay.
So when you have Tassie it, you basically got a situation where
the community recognizes that such such and such is wrong, and they
establish a punishment for it. Okay, now the punishment had
There's a limit for discretionary punishments. And, for example, if
it wouldn't be physical, which we don't have today, which actually,
believe it or not, this sounds crazy. But in Islam, in the city,
they recognize that a person could have rights and responsibilities
at home. So by jailing someone, you're actually compromising
responsibilities, he was fulfilling for someone else.
Right? So let's say you got a
guy who commits a crime, you jail the guy? Well, what if that guy
had kids? Right? What have you seen care of his mom and his wife
and three kids? So you've just done a type of oppression to those
people, right to those that wife and kids, so rather they
preferred, bring the guy in, give him a couple of lashes and send
them home Olympic, right, so everyone could see what happened.
And he actually acclimates to society, people see him limping
home, right? And they realize, well, I don't want to do that. I
don't want that to happen. He's embarrassed in front of everyone
to now if you go to jail, you don't have to face anyone. So you
when you when you're found guilty in a court, though, you got to
face on. Yeah. And you come home, you'd have to face your community.
You'd be embarrassed, right everyone and everyone makes an
example out of you. Right? And at the same time, you don't miss out
on the your obligations and responsibilities that you might
have been doing for someone else. All right. So that was the logic
behind the idea of of corporal punishment. Now, the other idea
and we're getting a bit off topic is that corporal punishment isn't
necessarily with like a whip, when they say lashes doesn't mean a
whip. It was like, like they used to take a thick piece of leather,
and then just strike the guy. Anyway, the our point is not to
talk about corporal punishment, right? But I'm just saying the
theory of it makes a lot more sense than the theory of putting
someone in jail. That's the first thing. The discretionary
punishments just as an FYI, was a maximum of 10 strikes with a
leather
strip, right? So you got a fat Leather Strips, so you don't cut
the skin, but you just cause him to be in pain for a couple of
days. So you give them some serious bruises, but it's it
should be a maximum of 10 All right.
Anything else that the society deems is wrong as punishable, they
can through their judges through their state through whatever,
okay, establish some limits and some punishments. Okay. Now, let's
now look at the evidences. The types of evidences are three. The
first evidence is the primary evidence, which is witnesses, eye
witnesses, okay. The second type is secondary evidence, which is
like an object, right? So if there's fluid on a shirt or on
pants, that's evidence right. And the proof of that is that proper
use of it Saddam was
acquitted solely on secondary evidence, right? He was acquitted
on the shirt being pulled from the back, not from the front. So if
there was a struggle, okay, there would have been scratches on his
front of his shirt. Right. And the but the struggle, but he wasn't
involved in the struggle. He was being attacked from the back.
Right. So he was acquitted solely on the fact of being on secondary
evidence, then there's circumstantial evidence. Right. So
hums I want to ask you is that actually how it works?
Is three levels of evidence? Yeah, we have multiple levels of
evidence. The most preferred evidence in the American legal
system is what they call beautiful Viva Bucha evidence, which is like
eyewitness testimony. Okay. So that's the same thing eyewitness
testimony. Right and eyewitness testimony can be judged.
You know, based on the person based on the one giving you