Shadee Elmasry – Questions Surrounding the Sexual Abuse Epidemic part 1

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hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah while he was on video,

Manuela a couple of things that I wanted to start off with something

pretty funny

Did you guys see this? No, no, I didn't see it. All right, here we

go. New Jersey is the most stressed out state. And I was

saying and then they wonder and they start asking us why the

Safina sidepod guests were so rough around.

Alright, right. So this one says nj.com. We were rated I don't know

who did this rating. Okay. zippia Virto. No. All right. So zippia

graded us as the most stressed out state having to sit in traffic and

route one

of our highways. That's pretty miserable. All right. Here it is.

commute time. Yeah. Unemployment hours worked population density,

home price to income ratio, right. And percent uninsured. Wow. Okay.

So the higher any of these was, the more stressful the subdivision

is. So that's basically how it goes. So you guys didn't see this

thing? No, no. All right. Every state was one to 50 the least.

Okay.

On the least stress for Iowa, Minnesota, Nebraska, North and

South Dakota. They're barely alive, let alone be stressed.

There's nothing going on. I wouldn't be if if it was

depression, they'd be the highest. What doesn't tell us where New

Jersey

landed? What's our score out of 50?

Let's see.

zippia. Firstly, who is it? Yeah.

All right. So New Jersey ranked at dark blue, which is highly

stressed, but it didn't say it score.

Didn't give us our score one. We're number one. What is the

actual score though? It was number two.

Number two, it was Georgia. Why weird? Florida was weird. I don't

know. It's going on there.

But yeah, California. Yeah, I can see that.

Alright, right. New Jersey, Georgia. How are they stressed in

Georgia must be in Atlanta. Florida. California, New York.

Like how was New York? Number five? Oh, you know, you know who

ruined New York offset the balance of the upstate? Yeah. Buffalo

Rochester. Those states that really like Troy.

Those parts? Yes. Albany. They don't even really count as New

York because they work in the city. They're super up there

because I worked with something. They shouldn't even be counted.

New York City should be part of New Jersey. Yeah. Like the culture

and all of that. In order to get to North Jersey. I have to pass my

net right. Now. That's true.

But it doesn't say the score that we got.

It just says commute unemployment hours worked population density.

And by the way, I actually personally love population

density. Like I can't stand Yeah, I don't see why that's a big deal.

I can't stand going to these places where there's there are no

people. Yeah, it just the long commutes though. I get. Yeah.

Yeah. Well, long commutes are a byproduct of the population

density that's sitting on the turnpike. Yeah, that's true.

That's a good point. There's your lawyer brains coming in.

All right, do I need to do an introduction here? So we got

Hamza Qureshi on my right hand side on my left, and we have a

couple of things to talk about. So the first thing we'll talk about

is, first thing that I want to talk about

is what everyone's talking about, which is Khabib. Right?

Everyone's happy with Khabib. So first of all, yeah, it's true.

There are rules. We do have rulings on boxing and everything,

but are fighting in general. Right.

But I mean, it's not really the time to bring it up. Right. I

mean, the timing to give a federal on the issue is not the right

timing. So but the but you guys said like you watched it. I

watched it. I wasn't. I was amazing. It was like like he

destroyed four rounds of dominance. Not even close. Really?

Absolutely.

For a guy who was the defending champion. Yeah, like it was. It

was embarrassing. That what's his name?

His last two fights in a row now. Right? Well, I don't know if you

can count the boxing one as a

That was like a joke, right? It was he went out of his comfort

zone to make some money. Yeah, he held his own. Yeah. And I actually

think he got closer to winning. What I heard is he got closer to

beating what's his name? My mother Mayweather. Then he got to Kobe.

Is that true? Yeah. I mean, what for Mayweather fights it looks

like everyone has a chance to get some just that says gamepoint is

defensive fighter.

He tires you out for like the first few rounds. And then he just

finished his you.

churros is commenting already. Oh, my God. So this is actually going

to

be podcast and as a live stream so you can bring your questions. We

do have a couple of things that are critical to talk about, but

we're just getting started here. So Rose says Alright, tell me why

Hamza just doesn't look like he belongs in this video with that

outfit. What are you talking about? He's got the tech guy

outfit on.

Nickname for Shabbos is the Mufti rapper, mostly rapper? Oh, I

thought it was shisha.

Alright, let's get to the topic that I wanted to talk about, which

is that a number of people are actually they have a misconception

on the issue of sexual abuse. That's the first thing. Okay. And

the issue of sexual abuse is that some people imagine that the

Hadoop, the rules of the Hadoop are the only rules that apply to

anything. In other words, if it's not a hard punishment, like it's

not a law, right, or or it's not a crime. And if you don't reach the

head punishment

criterion of witnesses, then it's not a crime, then there's no

there's no way to prosecute the person at all. So this is actually

totally wrong. And the first thing you ought to know is that there's

Hadoop and there's Telzio, something called Tassie it sounds

it is discretionary punishment by the ruler or by the state. Okay.

So when you have Tassie it, you basically got a situation where

the community recognizes that such such and such is wrong, and they

establish a punishment for it. Okay, now the punishment had

There's a limit for discretionary punishments. And, for example, if

it wouldn't be physical, which we don't have today, which actually,

believe it or not, this sounds crazy. But in Islam, in the city,

they recognize that a person could have rights and responsibilities

at home. So by jailing someone, you're actually compromising

responsibilities, he was fulfilling for someone else.

Right? So let's say you got a

guy who commits a crime, you jail the guy? Well, what if that guy

had kids? Right? What have you seen care of his mom and his wife

and three kids? So you've just done a type of oppression to those

people, right to those that wife and kids, so rather they

preferred, bring the guy in, give him a couple of lashes and send

them home Olympic, right, so everyone could see what happened.

And he actually acclimates to society, people see him limping

home, right? And they realize, well, I don't want to do that. I

don't want that to happen. He's embarrassed in front of everyone

to now if you go to jail, you don't have to face anyone. So you

when you when you're found guilty in a court, though, you got to

face on. Yeah. And you come home, you'd have to face your community.

You'd be embarrassed, right everyone and everyone makes an

example out of you. Right? And at the same time, you don't miss out

on the your obligations and responsibilities that you might

have been doing for someone else. All right. So that was the logic

behind the idea of of corporal punishment. Now, the other idea

and we're getting a bit off topic is that corporal punishment isn't

necessarily with like a whip, when they say lashes doesn't mean a

whip. It was like, like they used to take a thick piece of leather,

and then just strike the guy. Anyway, the our point is not to

talk about corporal punishment, right? But I'm just saying the

theory of it makes a lot more sense than the theory of putting

someone in jail. That's the first thing. The discretionary

punishments just as an FYI, was a maximum of 10 strikes with a

leather

strip, right? So you got a fat Leather Strips, so you don't cut

the skin, but you just cause him to be in pain for a couple of

days. So you give them some serious bruises, but it's it

should be a maximum of 10 All right.

Anything else that the society deems is wrong as punishable, they

can through their judges through their state through whatever,

okay, establish some limits and some punishments. Okay. Now, let's

now look at the evidences. The types of evidences are three. The

first evidence is the primary evidence, which is witnesses, eye

witnesses, okay. The second type is secondary evidence, which is

like an object, right? So if there's fluid on a shirt or on

pants, that's evidence right. And the proof of that is that proper

use of it Saddam was

acquitted solely on secondary evidence, right? He was acquitted

on the shirt being pulled from the back, not from the front. So if

there was a struggle, okay, there would have been scratches on his

front of his shirt. Right. And the but the struggle, but he wasn't

involved in the struggle. He was being attacked from the back.

Right. So he was acquitted solely on the fact of being on secondary

evidence, then there's circumstantial evidence. Right. So

hums I want to ask you is that actually how it works?

Is three levels of evidence? Yeah, we have multiple levels of

evidence. The most preferred evidence in the American legal

system is what they call beautiful Viva Bucha evidence, which is like

eyewitness testimony. Okay. So that's the same thing eyewitness

testimony. Right and eyewitness testimony can be judged.

You know, based on the person based on the one giving you