Shadee Elmasry – NBF 61 Tafsir of Surah alHumazah (Open Q&A)

Shadee Elmasry
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The conversation covers various topics related to Islam, including finding a heretic person, finding a partner, avoiding bribery, and avoiding material purchases. The speakers emphasize the importance of protecting oneself and avoiding negative feedback, as well as finding a partner for a rhinoplasty and fulfilling someone's obligations when a woman is sick. They also touch on the negative impact of older people on their health and behavior, the importance of engagement in marriage, and the need for forgiveness and improvement in mental health and emotional strength. The segment ends with a discussion on the return to the UK and the potential for Islam's "Theology" to hold people back from marriage.
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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim

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what I

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was salam Allahu ala Sayidina Muhammad you wanna and you want me

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to send him $100 bill

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with a lot of sin was in a jar to show me that they can eat a lawman

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and I said oh, because he didn't have a dean. Whenever I get and

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Phil on Moroso Hatton. Phil just said they will say that and see

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shahada and Mo Farah Joe Maddon mo Fernanda, he's a man and men and

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that will also give me an agenda. What is on another watch he can

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carry him or SallAllahu ala Sayidina Muhammad Mergen wala he

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was salam Subhan Allah because Allah is that yeah, um, I'll see

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if Oh mon was an adversary in what hamdulillah Europe?

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Me

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Al hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah. He was early he

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was FBE women, whether welcome everybody to nothing but facts are

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live stream today is going to be about sudents L L Homosassa.

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Right, right. It's in Homosassa. Today, right? So today suited to

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homos that will really be reading from the Tafseer of Sedna, an Imam

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Al Bukhari, which is one of the best self esteem that you'll ever

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come across is Imam Ali Baba wheeze tafsir. And we'll be

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reading from that and then of course, as you know, Mondays open

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QA so you'll be able to bring up anything that you want usually we

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go along Mondays.

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And today um, do that the weather's good out. It's not so

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hot in the studio, we're putting in our AC unit, hopefully this

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week. Okay.

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Let's start off with who R is given us some comments. Hamza

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Hussein is very excited that Jordan Peterson and Hamza Yusuf

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are collaborating on a an interview, I thought that

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interview wasn't happening. I didn't haven't followed Jordan

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Peterson. I never actually did follow Jordan Peterson. I've seen

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his clips here and there.

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But I guess it's always good to be talking. That's what Tao is. It's

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just constant talking. We're just you never know who's going to

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benefit from something.

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Ideal Aleem needs your DUA So may Allah subhana wa Tada give him a

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speedy recovery and as shifa as his grandfather is in surgery

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after a car accident, and many other people are saying Salam on

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April, the sericin.

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the

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sort of common sensical, calm or most sensible comment that we

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talked about alphabet soup army, is probably what God has taken

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down on that. Alphabet Soup. Of course, you can't talk about the

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alphabet soup because of how beloved they are with everybody

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and

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or how forceful they are. Which way you want to look at it. So

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it's an almost Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim way you don't liquidly

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houmas that in Lomasa Cara signal Imam Ibn Abbas al Masha una

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Binyamin Mati al Morpher, hakuna banal Himba

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and Homas al Hemsworth. Lums. is it's a way to speak about people

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to drop a comment here and there without necessarily saying

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anything. That's a problem within Hemsworth lumps. You're not

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actually saying anything, but a comment here and there is what's

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causing people to

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separate from one another. Okay, this is Al Hamza lumps.

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Alba, Hunan. I'll borrow a little bit of alive when I know who my

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wife had were who else so it's always looking for faults between

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people.

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And it's always making a comment here and this you can you can, you

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could look at when someone walks in someone says something, you

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look at someone else and you smile, you're making fun of the

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person without words. So Williams Williams is a human behavior that

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we make fun of people, we backbite them without necessarily using any

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words, selves.

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Well, Carla McLeod's and at home has a lady you're able to fill up

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Philippi will will loser or a Lanza, a leather your ebook, Phil

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watch. Another way to do this is that

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someone who does it behind your back and someone who does it to

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your face? Both are wrong. Some people say, Oh, no, no, it's not

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backbiting because I would say to his face, it's not about that.

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It's about what the person liked this to be said about him. That's

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the the criterion. Backbiting is not necessarily a criterion of

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only being behind their back would also be the criterion of would

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they like it to be said about them. And backbiting remember is

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true, truthful statements?

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If it's a false statement, it's out of worse level. Get Booked in.

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If it's a false statement, or translates as Colombini or both,

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then we'll call it say during the job ad remember there's two sides

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say two and we'll say your most knowledgeable of the seventh is

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from Medina say they've been Jubail. He's a Berber from the

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west. He's the most pious of the teb eight, of course,

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there is has been an busty who is the best preacher of the Taliban.

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And of course, there is a way silcone he's his own category.

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He's not to be judged with other Jabeen because he was mentioned

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directly by the Prophet sallallahu anyway, we Salam

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al Homosassa Olivia Kulu Lahoma Nursey were terrible whom were

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Lonza upon Ali him

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basically the back of biters, Carla Agnes eight algumas, Olivia

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Mizzou

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and NAS Via de wellbeloved boom, we're loams Allah dl mizune bd

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Cerney. Well, you're a bomb. So one other definition of it is Al

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hems is injuring people and LEMs is talking about them. You see

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here, Allah subhanaw taala has used a word that has many

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different possible meanings. And so all these tough seers are

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bringing all these possible meanings. So if you had a 30 were

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miserable. Is there any way enemies will be is a the hems is

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with the tongue? And the lenses with the I mean, you could?

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Someone could you roll your eyes at somebody? Right? Rolling the

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eyes is one of the worst things. If you have kids, don't ever let

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them roll your eyes at you. Right? How could I mean, don't ever let

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somebody you know your kids roll their eyes is one of the worst

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habits. Okay? It's one of the worst habits and then when I 15

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used to roll their eyes at the prophets I send them

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when the Prophet would speak they would roll their eyes and look at

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each other. And Allah says lo

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Well Rousseau, they roll their eyes and they do this

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what makes blue collar in the case en el Hamza al Homosassa a leather

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up jelly So who will be so in love?

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The hams is in person

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and he uses words that bother the people that he's sitting with.

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Well Luminesce algumas our Lomasa a levy the Lomasa is you mildew

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behind a behind me where you see Ruby Rossi it's with his eyes and

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with his head making

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like sarcastic like type of expressions like that

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where Mizzou behead GeV and with his eyebrows, making gestures that

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are mocking the person well Holman not done that failing that was

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suckered us in or diecuts and levy Yes, Kuru. Well, darkness was

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ruled hums elkus while odd, Allah che and bill on the origin of hems

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is breaking something with force.

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What Allah foofy Manasa letter Lila so Kaldi said it came back.

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It came this came that the sewer came down because of Agnes Agnes

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Shetty. If newer, a duck coffee can a cow for nursery work double

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him he was famous for this this person and Agnes was famous for

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this.

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Bacala Mohammed Devon Itzhak mesin Nana smell Anna Surah tell him as

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a NASA let V omae of Nicola Jo Jo Mahi, the famous enemy of the

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Prophet omega, even Caliph Wirkkala mocha till Naza. Let's

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Filoli dibden Moguera.

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Walid in Mahira.

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This this, this came down on who was Carla Dibner leads father,

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they used he used to backbite the prophets of Allah when he was

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salam. And when the Prophet was in the presence, he would constantly

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be making facial gestures against him,

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constantly mocking him, making these snarky expressions with his

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face, putting him down.

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Remember, mockery is actually one of the things

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that if you have no Hoja

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and you have no respect you mark if you have no hedge against

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diverse and really essentially if you had no respect, so you can

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have a respectful enemy, you can respect your enemy.

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When I deal with let's say, there's some other religious

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groups from Islam or outside Islam, I respect them. So we're

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gonna make fun of them. Just debate them with with Hajaj with

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evidence. And then there's some other things that that has no

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respect deserves no respect. You just mock it.

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God, I'm a judge. We're here. I'm the Hockley coolamon adhesive

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photo, of course, which I had said it's it's specific may have come

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down for a specific person. But of course it's general for everyone

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who follows that person in that behavior that Allah says a levy

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Gemma I Merlin got a puja photo of nonmetal harpswell Hamza workwell

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ki se Gemma means these people why are they feel they're so confident

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to put people down there rich?

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The rich so they feel confident and putting people down. Okay,

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they have a lot of money and they sit there counting it okay the

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counting session of their money is there thicker it's there a bird

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it's there their pride when they look at their bank accounts and

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they look at the income coming in to what makes them happy.

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Why does

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he know he has numerous income sources Gemma Alma Why didn't

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meaning I have make money from here from here from here from here

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many different numerous sources or it means he counts it or he

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gathers it

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or he's preparing it for something.

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You'll call that to shape what that to either I'm sick to keep it

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hoard it.

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Yeah, so why no matter what colada, he doesn't he forgets that

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having a lot of money is not going to change your death date. Use

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your brain.

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Still gonna die. Okay, still gonna die for dunya? No, no, no lamb

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root. Now everyone knows that they're gonna die. But when Allah

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subhanaw taala says that he thinks he's not going to die means he's

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behaving like somebody who's not going to die. Because we know

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common sensical. There's no human being on the earth. The most

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arrogant being on the earth knows he's gonna die. Right? So what

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does it mean here when Allah Subhan? Yeah, so no matter how

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clever he thinks his wealth makes him eternal, infinite or permanent

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on this earth means he behaves like that. His wealth makes him

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behave like somebody who's not going to die

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or is not going to someday. Go through

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phases that humbled people, there's a phase of life where you

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lose your strength or you start losing your edge, lose your

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strength. So you're not number one anymore. You start like being

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number two and three and four.

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Right. And then all of a sudden, you start hitting a phase where

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you can't even play the game in a too tired to play the game of life

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anymore. Too old, the youth are surpassing you now.

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Then he comes a point in time where you're so old.

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The old age itself is a sickness, like when you're healthy, you're

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sick.

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When you're sick, you're almost gonna die.

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This is the concept and idea that old age really, it's a type of

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sickness. That's why old age is one of the reasons why you can not

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fast pay video. He's too old to fast. He's so weak. His default

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setting. It's not a pretty sight. Some of these people they so old,

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course go bald, and even their beard hair falls out their arch.

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Now they're shrinking. Right? They shrink like Yoda. Okay? And they

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stop smelling sense of smell is no good. So they don't even smell

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themselves anymore. If we go to senior citizens home, and a

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stinks, right, they'd have no sense of smell. They don't know

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how bad things smell. So everyone's like, turned off from

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them from the minibar. Like looking at them is a turn off

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smelling them as a turn off. The also the old people, like children

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again, lose sight sometimes of how much the talking. You want to hear

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them anymore, right? Ever see, like

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someone in the supermarket? And you're like, Hello, ma'am. Do you

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need any help? Oh, no, thank you, son. And then all of a sudden, she

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comes in a conversation says lost touch with the idea of what a

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supermarket transit interaction should be like, it should be no

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more than three seconds.

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Are you are you kidding? You need something? No, thank you very

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much, though. Okay, that's it, it should be done at that or

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neighbors. you wave at a neighbor or you say something very nice.

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That interaction designer fun life custom in life, that transaction

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should be no interaction should be no more like five seconds.

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Maximum. You can't hold someone up while they're taking a walk in the

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neighborhood. Or get in the mail. You can't hold them up for more

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than 20 seconds. It's just makes life.

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We're neighbors we're not friends, right? There's a difference.

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There's acquaintances good neighborly relations is different

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from friendship. But they may they may lose track of these customs of

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life and lose sight of the fact that you have work, you just came

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from work. You get in the mail, you want to sit home, you throw

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that mail on the counter, have dinner, do your business with your

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kids, whatever they got to do, sit on the couch, and just unwind.

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They lose track of these customs of life. Their their conversations

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are way longer than because for them, they've been home all day

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all alone.

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They see somebody, oh, wow, it's a chance to talk. So from the

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standpoint of listening to them, being with them. Old age, it's a

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really tough situation. This person, you don't realize you're

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gonna go there. The only reason people are ever happy and old ages

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because someone's having mercy on them.

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That's the truth. Just like a child, the only reason you're

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still alive because your parents have mercy on you.

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So where you gonna get that mercy, you have to earn it. When you're

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in the middle of life, you have to treat people well. So that at the

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end of life that have mercy on you, okay?

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He forgets that he's going to reach that phase. He's so arrogant

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and oppressive to other people. That's the meaning of Yes,

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everyone no matter what that means. He acts as if he's going to

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be eternally in youth on the earth, and never going into these

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difficult phases of life, let alone dying. Which is, thing is

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it's hard to talk about death because nobody died and come back

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to talk about Okay.

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Right, nobody has come back and told us about it. So we can't

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really talk about it much. But all these weekend, people have talked

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about that.

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Canada, rather than ally ally equilibrium, hello. So Kela

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negation of what's before them by then the UTRA lane but then thrown

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like a rag. Like you're not even worthy. UTRA abandoned, thrown

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like an old rag. And if you wash to wash your cars manually, I wash

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my car manually, right? Because sometimes those car washes they

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they're not really that great on the car. They make little tiny

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screech more scratch marks, right? I wash my car myself, but what do

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you do with those rags is toss them at the end. When you're done.

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Look at all rag. Okay, you toss it like an old rag.

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But then

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If the hotter months thrown like a piece of garbage in the hotel

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and the hotel MA

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in Esma and not what is the

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the roof of the hotel? The inference of it hooked on my here

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it's talking about the Hellfire but what aspect? The thing that

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crushes

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a imagine a rock that crushes something hot crushes. Good hold

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them up is that thing that crushes so be thrown in there like you're

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throwing recycling you see the recycling getting patted pat you

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know screeched completely crushed up and made into little cube of

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metal and they take that and they sell it or they melt it down and

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they sell it right likewise crush him make him a patty. Goodbye my

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system not actually no settlement for you. Salam was peace right? My

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I guess that's the greeting of the Hellfire below that not missing

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them. Good

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Sumit hope I'm on the moon

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it crushes their bones. They're completely crushed. Like this Like

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like a cartoon. Basically. You're seeing the cartoons where that

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poor wily coyote he's chasing after the

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what is what bird is it or Orion the ostrich.

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The Roadrunner right he's chasing after the Road Runner and then he

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gets crushed by a train is completely crushed flat. Except

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here's the problem you can't die you don't die in Africa you deal

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with it

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when the rocket Mahatama and what will tell you what is that haha,

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not Allah Hill mocha. Allah's fire that is lit. It's it's already

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lit. It's waiting for some people.

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All these people making fun of the deen and the truth if they don't

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repent this what they're getting, you shouldn't wish it for anybody.

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It's what you're gonna get. Okay.

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Let's see totally Oh al F EDA. Oh, this is this one. You got to think

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about this.

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This Hellfire perceives your heart precedes your fears. And it costs

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you.

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I mean, physical torture is one thing. mental anguish is another

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thing.

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So it haunts you. allottee totally. Oh LLF Ada, it's aware

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about your deepest thoughts. So this Hellfire is a mental and

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spiritual anguish upon you as well. What is your worst fear?

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We'll bring it but we won't bring it quickly. We'll bring it slowly

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so that extend the punishment and the fear.

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Extending the punishment punishment on the fear. Well, it's

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the law well blue will be not in our heads. Okay, you're getting a

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lot of metadata that are gonna be a better that's when I and tech

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Kulu Coolessay men who had that anti LFO Furedi call the whole URL

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Cora V. Well, Kelby accordion Kelby says that it finishes him so

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much, that there's nothing left for him except his forehead is

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like it's in there. He's completely tortured. There's

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nothing left to torment except his mind.

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And then he's re brought back to full health and the torture begins

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a new right.

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Fee I'm at the moment dakara Cara Hamza will Kizza Abu Bakr fee.

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Ahmed bilum Align will meme or Ahmed plural. Fiamma din fue

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omoton Ahmed, generally

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alright.

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Like pillars almost Turo?

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Will Corolla karoun Bufete Kokkola here Rafa semi YTB of idea I

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imagine Tirana Ahmed is a pillar, something that puts you up. Well,

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homage me and Jim are mouj Mithila Adeem. Well, Adam Odom, Carla hold

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for Rob Wirkkala Abu Zubaydah, Gemma Imad Mithila Ahab what I

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have will call it if not bus at Hello whom fear I imagine for

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mudita daddy him Big Mad Buffy Ana de Mesilla said they're gonna have

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chains around their necks said that lamb hill at Werb doors are

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closed and the Hellfire Bella vana and who Bella vana and her Ahmed

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you are the Buena BF and they're wrong rods by which they're struck

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in the fire.

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Imagine what you imagine, interpret what you interpret. It's

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all bad

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gut

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wealthy lay out dad's well above let you talk because Elena and

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some say it's these. These towers that crash upon the people have as

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I said, interpret as you wish, right? It's all bad. None of it's

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it's all worse than itself. A and multiple book I lay in the mud way

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a few clearer Abdullah bin Ahmed will be Ahmed Carla McCarthy at

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the bucket of WebU la him from Massoud

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Minh Hadid. Minar hotair Jaya la him Ramu ha ha roja

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okay

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that the doors are closed locking the heat inside of the Hellfire

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okay and the locking of the doors it also depresses them and removes

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all of their hopes

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Galilean but then ultimate not alone Mocha, latte Japan

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fillet of the highly Hamburg well adequate ally him well muda Min

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civitella Ahmed, the moment data it's it's a description of the

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pillars so they look and they don't see an end to this hellfire.

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A motto What if it's a Kunal out of Sacramento Sierra? Okay, that's

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it for sudut algumas okay

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Spatola

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whatever religion that has i that what can I tell you? You don't

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like it? Don't do it. Don't don't do anything wrong.

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Right some but some people they really, you know, wonder Oh my

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gosh, all this other crap. What's going on here? What what's the

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problem? Do you don't like it? Don't disobey God. That's how

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simple it is. Good. Don't Don't be disobedient.

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If you don't like it so much.

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Alright folks, let's go now to open QA.

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It's a hydraulic press. Hamza says yes, it's like a hydraulic press.

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All right, anything else? Ryan?

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Obviously, the question is

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how can we improve our character or behavior towards other people?

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Are there any books about perfecting our character?

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Character to other people study the Sunnah. Because the prophets I

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said no had the best of character and a lot of things in character,

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their judgment calls, which we don't know. So we need the prophet

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to just draw a line in the sand for us.

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We need the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to tell I'll tell

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you an example of something that has to do with character. But it's

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oftentimes something that we don't think about, where we have a hard

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time thinking about, if I'm looking at my own life in my

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situation, I might be asking myself,

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well, I might say to myself, there's an imperfection in my

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dunya.

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Should I say, Oh, well, at least it's better than so and so who or

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who has a really bad situation? Or should I say I need to get better

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because so and so has a better situation? Okay, well, the

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province I said, draws a line in the sand. He says that, if it's

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about the dunya always compare yourself to someone less than you.

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Okay, because you might ask yourself, why would I compare

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myself with someone less? Yeah, if it's about the dunya compare

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yourself with someone less you feel good about yourself. The

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Prophet told us to do that.

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If it's about the deen compare yourself with someone better than

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you.

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So that you can aspire, because one you need to aspire to the

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other one, you need to be satisfied with what is which is

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not to say that you don't strive for improving it. Because the

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Prophet also said it had asylum and Phalke. Guard what benefits

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you but the feelings you have about yourself should always be

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positive. You see the difference? The prophets separated between

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aspirations of the world and aspirations of the deen and he

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also separated between the feelings you have about yourself

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and the actions you take. So he said take actions to improve

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yourself but the feelings you have about the dunya should always be

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positive. Like it's not an amazing oh, you should always be positive

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by virtue and by the fact of

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comparing yourself looking at those with less than you but then

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acting upon what will improve you.

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Alright, let's take this question from Nabil. She says how do you

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deal with patiently waiting for your DUA? How do I do

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With it,

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you deal with it by passing the time all right passing the time

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and

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solver is just there's no shortcut to summer. Okay?

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There's no shortcuts a sub patience is just waiting. You just

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sit there and wait. And you busy yourself busy yourself doing

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something else. Busy yourself preparing for it, right? You got

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to busy yourself then you come back to it, then you busy yourself

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then you come back to your DUA.

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You just have to wait.

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Ali says alphabet soup flagged the previous NBF 16 Other effects 60

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Yeah, I'm sure. Muhammad has always says if anyone saw that

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Elon Musk tweeted about going to * this sort of really comes

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from Why did we go to help? He wants to go to *. That's what

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he said. Right? He said, everyone, everyone's going to *, which is

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really weird because he's someone who aspires to be different from

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everyone else and better than everyone else, isn't he? Like he

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everyone else also in the world? If he says all humanity's most of

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humanity is gonna * so they'll all go to *. Most humanity is

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poor too. So before most of humanity lives on like, check to

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check basis so why don't you live like them to so on the earth he

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doesn't want to live like them but in the afterlife, he's good to go.

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So if that's what he wants, let him have it.

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Turquoise man says I got a question. How can we improve our

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character? Oh, this is a question we just read right? Yeah

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May Allah try to save us from this other?

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We should never assume that we're exempt Why would we think we're

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special?

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We're not exempt if you do what this results in

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but have hosted done beloved but at the same time, make dua that

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Allah preserves you from it would say no, I'm gonna say really?

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About like, if it was a group of people I would be scared I would

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be the one Subhanallah them dare say no more. It is said that he

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said, if it was announced that every one of the human beings has

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been saved from the Hellfire except one, I would be afraid it's

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me. And saying Abu Bakr said if I had one foot in paradise and one

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foot outside of paradise, I would still

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not be certain.

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How do you make up for Miss Raka? I don't know how to do so Judah

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forgetfulness.

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Mr. Tanaka.

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Let's say Frank, three calls for Aisha

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and then you don't know if he did the fourth one or not. You do the

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fourth one. Now that because either your fourth or fifth,

00:37:42 --> 00:37:45

right? You either right or wrong about the three. So it's either

00:37:45 --> 00:37:49

your fourth or your fifth? You finish it you say a ceremony and

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then you make two sujood cell

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and then you get up to prostrations. You say that just

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yet again. And he says ceremony come again.

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Ibrahim Junaid, how much would you recommend the volumes of a hero

00:38:05 --> 00:38:10

mundane for the average person to read? Get the summarized here

00:38:10 --> 00:38:15

Aluma Dean by NJ doed and reread first the books of Imam and had

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dead first read all the books by Imam Abdullah Bernardo had that

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because he basically summarized

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it here along with Dean. Caitlin Johanne says,

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What are the limits of Asana done? It's an ambiguous situation, we

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continue to assume the best of people. Is there a limit? Good

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question and simple answer. If you have an interest that could be

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harmed, you don't have hosted done you have suitable. So I'm hiring

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somebody. I don't have done a marrying somebody no husband done.

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So even though you're not hired, you're not getting married into

00:38:51 --> 00:38:57

our family. You're not being my roommate. We're not traveling

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together. We're not doing business together until you've proven give

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me some evidence, like references

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for marriage, maybe an engagement period to make sure that you're

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not hiding anything. There's no funny business. Like yes, everyone

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comes to marriage with the best foot forward.

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So I don't I don't know the truth about you. Yes, you're coming with

00:39:20 --> 00:39:23

the best foot forward. Wonderful. Okay, there's, I like everything I

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see.

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But I still haven't scratched beyond the surface. You're selling

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me. You're selling yourself right? So it's accepted. Let's say I'm a

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dad. All right. I accept this guy. You like him? Okay, good.

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Engagement. kickball. It's in the Sunnah say naughty and father more

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engaged. Good. Say naughty is the least person who last person

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whoever needs to be engaged because his character is known

00:39:48 --> 00:39:51

inside out by the prophet already. So Allah is but establishing a

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sunnah. Also for the girl. It's like easing into this

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relationship. I'm going to be so close to this man. Not right away

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like that.

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But the engagement allows me to Now, observe more, you're not

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going to be able to put on a face and put on your best foot forward

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for nine months, the truth is going to come out of who you are.

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So what are we going to do in this nine months, have dinners,

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go out, meet your family, meet your friends, and you meet our

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side. And we keep cross pollinating like this until we

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really get to see the inside out and your marinade, this

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relationship is now marinating. And I get to see who you are. It

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could be I catch you proposing to another woman, like your shop in

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the market, my cinema go marry that other woman.

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It could be that I catch you, you have a temper. Or in the middle of

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a discussion, I realized, whoa,

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this guy's an innovator. Goodbye, right.

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Or he doesn't have his head screwed on straight. Or he has a

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past that I don't approve of, I might approve of certain things I

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

might not.

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Or the girl herself may realize

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he's actually he's got bad habits. He's not cleaned. Right. So that's

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the value of that period of time. But it should not be too long nor

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too short, too short is useless and too long. It's also useless.

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There's a middle period of time where I get to see this human

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being in many different ways to the point that he can't put on an

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act anymore. And that's the value of engagement.

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I don't want to get involved in my life with somebody I don't know.

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This is a marriage or close thing, right? I don't know you asked me I

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don't like get close to strangers. I like to get to know them first.

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Okay, what's the best best they could have prior to surgery? A

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salon to Allah say it will donate of course no doubt about that.

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What is too far? Well, Matt could never had to be in Atlanta. Oh my

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goodness. No, I didn't when we stopped

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so far. It says in the mountains the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam

00:42:05 --> 00:42:08

heard Musa bargaining with God what does it mean?

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I do do you mean by that? That he said go back and go back and

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ask Allah to reduce

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that was Rama for us.

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And bargaining with God maybe job seeking forgiveness seeking

00:42:30 --> 00:42:30

increase.

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Lay polymath Do you think you will ever do a class on Johanna to toe

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hate? Probably not on Johanna to toe hate and if we did it would

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probably be with somebody like shifts us Stacy of Safi.

00:42:44 --> 00:42:47

What's the best way to memorize Moshe didn't want ain and other

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medic he texts repeat them 15 times before you go to sleep the

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section that you're reading and 15 times reading it and then five

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times from memory.

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Jennifer at 714 says what is the Quran and Sunnah recommend to

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increase in mental health and emotional strength. A vicar was

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Samba the vicar and Samba the Corolla and companionship with

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people

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what is the Sunnah of smiling Who am I supposed to smile that

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smile at the people is permissible for you

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to have a relationship with Okay, so you're not gonna go smiling to

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all the women right? To do what's your business with them. Okay, now

00:43:33 --> 00:43:37

if you're like a tenant in the hallway and you pass your neighbor

00:43:37 --> 00:43:39

you because I said I'm like or something like that or hello or

00:43:39 --> 00:43:44

whatever the best would be but there's no harm gonna happen from

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that.

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But that is the Sunnah of smiling definitely at the parents faces a

00:43:49 --> 00:43:54

great a bad kids faces it's drama at your peers faces its

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

relationship. sunnah sadaqa

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let's go to YouTube here. Say it Mohammed Daniel Hasnain. A Salam

00:44:06 --> 00:44:10

aleikum wa rahmatullah he What happened to the previous video?

00:44:10 --> 00:44:13

Again, comb Lutz

00:44:14 --> 00:44:18

trying to get his bent. Is it true that everyone will have to go

00:44:18 --> 00:44:23

through Hellfire no way Minko Illa worry to her where they do her

00:44:23 --> 00:44:27

over the software to do it. Every one of you will pass over it

00:44:27 --> 00:44:31

meaning there is a phase on the Day of Judgment in which there is

00:44:31 --> 00:44:34

a bridge over the Hellfire so we will all pass over the hellfire.

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Yes, that's true. We will all pass over though. Fine.

00:44:38 --> 00:44:41

Noah says Christian friend wants to purchase a home with a ribbon

00:44:41 --> 00:44:44

mortgage then sell the home to a Muslim friend or have a free while

00:44:44 --> 00:44:47

the Christian is still paying the river mortgage on his end. Will

00:44:47 --> 00:44:48

the Muslim be in good standing.

00:44:50 --> 00:44:54

The Muslim does not have to worry where he's gonna buy it from. I

00:44:54 --> 00:44:59

don't have to worry about where my seller. I'm the buyer. I don't

00:44:59 --> 00:44:59

care where the seller got

00:45:00 --> 00:45:04

As I don't care how he got it it's not my business in the Cydia only

00:45:04 --> 00:45:09

looks at the my sale. Of course I know if like if he's if I know he

00:45:09 --> 00:45:12

stole it that's another thing right? But how he bought it that's

00:45:12 --> 00:45:16

his business. Right? I'm buying it from him

00:45:17 --> 00:45:19

the contract I buy from him is all that matters

00:45:20 --> 00:45:25

follow up yep. So it's we know it's wrong to assist, assist

00:45:25 --> 00:45:28

someone in a sin. Yes it's wrong to assist someone innocent and

00:45:28 --> 00:45:32

even even if it's catheter, catheter or otherwise Yes, that's

00:45:32 --> 00:45:36

correct. So if you plan this out, though, if you plan it out, no,

00:45:37 --> 00:45:40

that's different. No, but listen, you're gonna buy this house.

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44

That's your business. Don't tell me Don't Ask Don't Tell us the

00:45:44 --> 00:45:47

only thing that komoot said. That's good. Don't Ask Don't Tell

00:45:47 --> 00:45:47

right.

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And then I buy it from you. That's it.

00:45:54 --> 00:45:58

It says hello to give a beat down to a husband who has abused their

00:45:58 --> 00:45:58

wife.

00:46:00 --> 00:46:01

It could be

00:46:02 --> 00:46:04

it could be Yeah, you come and say to say

00:46:05 --> 00:46:10

a guy has beaten your sister or your brother.

00:46:11 --> 00:46:14

And you come and you start taking your belts off and you beat him

00:46:14 --> 00:46:15

down.

00:46:17 --> 00:46:20

I might like to join it. Sounds fun, right?

00:46:21 --> 00:46:25

It could be because sometimes that's the only way to solve

00:46:25 --> 00:46:30

problems. Allow them it's a different situation. Every

00:46:30 --> 00:46:33

situation is different. You have to see if that's going to improve

00:46:33 --> 00:46:34

things or make things worse.

00:46:36 --> 00:46:40

Am I allowed to change method based on liking one of the men

00:46:40 --> 00:46:42

more than the others you are allowed but this is not should be

00:46:42 --> 00:46:47

like constant nonstop habit. Every day, every month every year I

00:46:47 --> 00:46:50

change the method. But if it's like one time finding the levers

00:46:50 --> 00:46:50

of you.

00:46:52 --> 00:46:56

It says if I joined Aisha in Jamaica in the last raka

00:46:57 --> 00:47:01

Yes, you Oh to rock us out loud. So you you've got one record

00:47:01 --> 00:47:04

silent. Now you owe two out loud so records two and three should be

00:47:04 --> 00:47:08

out loud. Had your mood says if you keep persisting and being

00:47:08 --> 00:47:12

stubborn and DA is it possible you are given something even if it is

00:47:12 --> 00:47:13

not fair for you?

00:47:15 --> 00:47:18

You're being given to that's the first thing you're given.

00:47:19 --> 00:47:23

If Allah gives you da it was good for you. You're being righteous in

00:47:23 --> 00:47:25

your dog. You're not being sneaky. You're not being tricky. You're

00:47:25 --> 00:47:30

worshipping Allah properly. This is a gear already being given a

00:47:30 --> 00:47:33

great nema. And a lot of answers that drop

00:47:34 --> 00:47:37

when Allah Tada answers you gives you something that is bad for you.

00:47:37 --> 00:47:41

This is when it's when you're missing the nature of your asking

00:47:41 --> 00:47:42

is no good. Right?

00:47:44 --> 00:47:47

Be careful what you ask for is when the nature of your asking is

00:47:47 --> 00:47:50

no good. Just like what we just said here. Elon Musk said Alright,

00:47:50 --> 00:47:53

give me hellfire, whatever. That's where we say be careful what you

00:47:53 --> 00:47:56

ask for. But you don't come to someone piously praying for

00:47:56 --> 00:47:59

something improving their life staying away from haram hoping

00:47:59 --> 00:48:02

that Allah answered their prayers, following the Sunnah, so that

00:48:02 --> 00:48:06

Allah answers their prayers, making intends to that person

00:48:06 --> 00:48:08

should not be told Be careful what you ask for that person should be

00:48:08 --> 00:48:13

told you have already been given in this dua and this is to come

00:48:13 --> 00:48:17

something better than your DUA. Allah Tada will not trick such a

00:48:17 --> 00:48:20

person. You have to understand the nature of Allah Tada in this

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

respect, he does not he did not play a trick on such a person.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

This is the meaning of Allah's Name a Shikou.

00:48:28 --> 00:48:34

He gives reward to those who do good deeds. He doesn't trick up

00:48:34 --> 00:48:35

someone who does a good deed.

00:48:37 --> 00:48:42

And why not say in your DUA if it's good for me, or bless it for

00:48:42 --> 00:48:42

me.

00:48:43 --> 00:48:47

Sofia Gollum says in my culture, which is Bangladesh, my cousin's

00:48:47 --> 00:48:53

kids are considered nieces and nephews a lot. A lot up. You

00:48:53 --> 00:48:56

cannot see your cousins cannot even see your cousin without a

00:48:56 --> 00:49:00

job. How about her kids? Common sense, right? Common sense. And

00:49:00 --> 00:49:02

you can marry your cousin and cousin and you can marry their

00:49:02 --> 00:49:05

kids. Let's say your cousin is way older than you. It could happen

00:49:05 --> 00:49:10

because you could have 20 years or 15 years between one sibling and

00:49:10 --> 00:49:16

the next. Such that when they have cousins their big age gap when the

00:49:17 --> 00:49:22

older cousin has a kid maybe the same age as you marriageable age

00:49:22 --> 00:49:22

as you

00:49:23 --> 00:49:28

so you can marry your cousin. You can definitely marry her cousin's

00:49:28 --> 00:49:31

kids. They have to cover in front of you. So Sophia,

00:49:33 --> 00:49:33

you would

00:49:35 --> 00:49:38

when they pass puberty, you cannot see them without a job No.

00:49:40 --> 00:49:43

Sara says is it haram if you completed an internship for a

00:49:43 --> 00:49:49

mortgage department in a credit union non for profit Ribba

00:49:49 --> 00:49:51

mortgages? Yes.

00:49:53 --> 00:49:54

You have committed something

00:49:55 --> 00:49:59

more Blanco says I owe called up for federal and so can I forge the

00:49:59 --> 00:49:59

tuna rock

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

had to leave it to the Feds and and pray to the gods Kubla and

00:50:02 --> 00:50:04

fudge until they're all made up

00:50:06 --> 00:50:10

Can I forego the two Americas? Yes you can forego that Aviva. And so

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

you make up your fetch.

00:50:12 --> 00:50:15

How do we learn business rules in Islam? Many teachers say only some

00:50:15 --> 00:50:18

can teach it. But in real life, most people have online

00:50:18 --> 00:50:21

businesses, even small, cannot follow. We follow a simplified

00:50:21 --> 00:50:26

formula. Yeah, you talk to the people who have knowledge in the

00:50:26 --> 00:50:30

realm of business, and Muslims who have opened up businesses similar

00:50:30 --> 00:50:33

than you are similar to yours, because they've already been

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

through all the questions that you're gonna go through. They've

00:50:36 --> 00:50:40

been through it, right. So if there are pious Muslims like that,

00:50:41 --> 00:50:44

that are in your community, and they have their own businesses,

00:50:44 --> 00:50:47

doctors and lawyers talk to them. See what they said.

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

All right. Mm says I'm a Hanafy

00:50:52 --> 00:50:54

and can take Roxa

00:50:55 --> 00:50:56

without salvia

00:50:59 --> 00:51:03

if there's a reason why not it's not it's not totally wrong. You're

00:51:03 --> 00:51:07

not intending if there's a reason in the medical opinion permitting

00:51:07 --> 00:51:07

the thigh

00:51:09 --> 00:51:10

playing soccer

00:51:12 --> 00:51:18

Okay, so play soccer, but the portion above the knee a little

00:51:18 --> 00:51:21

bit is forgiven in the medical method. The WSB Is there someone

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

here on

00:51:29 --> 00:51:31

audio the audio is fine okay.

00:51:32 --> 00:51:35

I said I'm on ECAM Did you see design is far right Group

00:51:35 --> 00:51:40

announced that they will destroy an Alexa on the 28th All right,

00:51:40 --> 00:51:45

we'll have to wait and see. I don't know what is cash cash is a

00:51:45 --> 00:51:49

lots out of showing you something of the you can bring in the sun if

00:51:49 --> 00:51:54

you want to. Some showing you something of the truth whether

00:51:54 --> 00:51:59

it's the future or whether it is something of

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

you need to charge her gluons they're

00:52:06 --> 00:52:12

medically fit class, medically fit Mason Haix Malachy flick class is

00:52:12 --> 00:52:17

tomorrow, right what's up class? Seven o'clock? Seven o'clock

00:52:17 --> 00:52:21

medically fit class. We continue the reading of Ignatieff. Okay.

00:52:23 --> 00:52:27

Did he finish sicker? Yeah, we're just have to go over Zika of

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

livestock which we'll do real quick. And then we go to Hutch.

00:52:31 --> 00:52:36

No. is prayer invalidated if a woman passes near you or in front

00:52:36 --> 00:52:38

of you know it's not invalidated

00:52:40 --> 00:52:44

it's not invalidated it's when the prophets said that what he meant

00:52:44 --> 00:52:48

is your focus may be in may be lost that's what it's back

00:52:50 --> 00:52:54

that's what the prophets I sent him so your focus is lost.

00:52:55 --> 00:52:55

Okay.

00:52:57 --> 00:52:59

All right, Nabil it says Can we send Salah on the Prophet with a

00:52:59 --> 00:53:04

specific intention? Yes, you can. Can we send Salah on someone

00:53:04 --> 00:53:08

else's behalf? No, you send Salah and you make dua for the other

00:53:08 --> 00:53:11

person but you cannot send Salah on behalf of somebody who's still

00:53:11 --> 00:53:14

alive and intend the reward to someone who still live it the

00:53:14 --> 00:53:16

person is dead fine

00:53:20 --> 00:53:25

is dropped shopping haram by Edge mat drop shipping not that I know

00:53:25 --> 00:53:29

not by his mouth there is some that say there's a lot what fabric

00:53:29 --> 00:53:33

is your cream scarf this here I think it's a regular cotton and

00:53:33 --> 00:53:35

it's a it's a synth him

00:53:36 --> 00:53:37

this is a Sylheti

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41

it's a hood coded Cape

00:53:50 --> 00:53:52

Ibrahim does not have any cues he just wants to say Ely

00:53:53 --> 00:53:58

are there future classes on and feats of nomadic? Nah not for a

00:53:58 --> 00:54:02

while? Alfie it's been ematic it's so detailed it's not suitable for

00:54:02 --> 00:54:08

us right now later maybe I am nothing in my life is going great

00:54:09 --> 00:54:12

I follow the city I pray and I fast nothing's going the way I

00:54:12 --> 00:54:16

plan I want it to go to the point I'm tired and see no point in

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

doing so for a lot of them

00:54:23 --> 00:54:23

no

00:54:27 --> 00:54:28

you need to

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

review some things

00:54:34 --> 00:54:38

you need to start having a positive outlook. Make force it

00:54:38 --> 00:54:40

you have to force a positive outlook.

00:54:42 --> 00:54:44

If something comes to mind, I'll bring it up right now but right

00:54:44 --> 00:54:45

now

00:54:47 --> 00:54:53

you just have to I'll think of something Ismail Qureshi friend is

00:54:53 --> 00:54:56

struggling with the idea that we didn't ask to be created. Alright,

00:54:56 --> 00:55:00

kill yourself done. And now we are responsible for life and every

00:55:00 --> 00:55:02

thing that comes with it. What should I say? Kill yourself, then

00:55:03 --> 00:55:05

the moment you put the knife to your neck, you're gonna get

00:55:05 --> 00:55:11

scared, right? That means you love life, you've been given a gift for

00:55:11 --> 00:55:14

free. And now you're not grateful for it.

00:55:15 --> 00:55:18

The Hello Lockwood didn't ask to be created. Who are you?

00:55:19 --> 00:55:25

Is this like modern secular ethics of consent? God doesn't have to

00:55:25 --> 00:55:28

take your consent. Okay? You're lucky God gave you a chance he

00:55:28 --> 00:55:31

could have created you put it straight in the Hellfire could

00:55:31 --> 00:55:35

possibly he's it's his ownership is his creation.

00:55:37 --> 00:55:40

I mean, that might be a little bit of a mean approach. But think

00:55:40 --> 00:55:40

about this.

00:55:41 --> 00:55:46

Consent is a secular ethic. God does not need your consent to do

00:55:46 --> 00:55:51

anything. You've been given a great NEMA, the proof of which you

00:55:51 --> 00:55:54

will do everything to survive human being will do everything to

00:55:54 --> 00:55:55

survive. Okay.

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

You're given a great blessing. Be grateful for it.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:07

How long is the Day of Judgment? It is long for those who have

00:56:07 --> 00:56:12

sins. And Cofer and it is short for those who don't? who are who

00:56:12 --> 00:56:14

have good deeds

00:56:15 --> 00:56:16

and who have a clean heart.

00:56:17 --> 00:56:20

Caitlin says you said busy yourself preparing for your draw

00:56:20 --> 00:56:23

to be answered. How do we best prepare ourselves for the for the

00:56:23 --> 00:56:26

job? Ask yourself how am I going to be grateful when Allah Tada

00:56:26 --> 00:56:29

answers this for how am I going to be grateful? And maybe my prayer

00:56:29 --> 00:56:33

requires certain things. All right. Follow Oh Allah, tada, I

00:56:33 --> 00:56:37

want to I need some better income. Start preparing your business.

00:56:37 --> 00:56:41

Start having a business, right? Start working towards it.

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45

He's not the wealth is not going to come from the sky. It's not

00:56:45 --> 00:56:48

going to fall from the sky. Got to work for it. I want to have a

00:56:48 --> 00:56:53

husband. I want to have a wife to get in shape. Don't you want your

00:56:53 --> 00:56:56

husband to like how you look or your wife? So get in shape?

00:56:57 --> 00:57:00

Right? Start living as if it's going to happen.

00:57:01 --> 00:57:05

Good. Prepare for it. How are you going to be grateful to Allah?

00:57:05 --> 00:57:08

Think about yourself. How are you going

00:57:09 --> 00:57:12

to give sugar for this now? I'm going to give sugar by attending

00:57:12 --> 00:57:16

hips class once a week. I'm going to give sugar by giving $50 a week

00:57:16 --> 00:57:19

in sadaqa because I'm going to give SOCO to buy. How are you

00:57:19 --> 00:57:23

going to give sugar? So start preparing for that.

00:57:26 --> 00:57:29

I started Can we join the medically fit class? Yes, you can

00:57:29 --> 00:57:30

still join in? No problem.

00:57:33 --> 00:57:36

Your recordings and the recordings are all up

00:57:38 --> 00:57:42

okay. Sayed Muhammad Daniel says sorry to tell in public please say

00:57:42 --> 00:57:46

Masha Allah hamdulillah received Glad Tidings by the messenger

00:57:46 --> 00:57:49

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam He said your wife and you with me and

00:57:49 --> 00:57:52

for the dose Masha Allah that's an amazing dreamies I wouldn't don't

00:57:52 --> 00:57:56

tell these dreams in public though. Erase it tell only the

00:57:56 --> 00:57:58

people that you know that you trust that will not give you acid

00:57:58 --> 00:58:02

nor call you insane but I mean I believe that it's possible for a

00:58:02 --> 00:58:05

profit dream like that to happen. Or for someone to see the profit

00:58:05 --> 00:58:07

like that. So may Allah Tala.

00:58:08 --> 00:58:10

He says now how should we behave?

00:58:11 --> 00:58:14

You should have more Taqwa of Allah at this point. If Allah gave

00:58:14 --> 00:58:20

you that NEMA have more Taqwa more Akasha okay. Can a true dream be

00:58:20 --> 00:58:24

interpreted by the person who sees it? Yes, he can. Of course a true

00:58:24 --> 00:58:27

dream. You can be their own interpreter. I bet symbiotic.

00:58:37 --> 00:58:42

No, no of which one do you love? Which one are you laughing at? I

00:58:42 --> 00:58:47

mean, the guy says I was created without my consent. Logically, how

00:58:47 --> 00:58:51

can you ask something that doesn't exist consent even by Munchak? How

00:58:51 --> 00:58:55

can I seek the consent of let me create you let me ask your

00:58:55 --> 00:58:57

consent. Why would ask your consent? You're my creation.

00:58:58 --> 00:59:03

Right? Do you ask your iPad can roll your iPad doesn't have life

00:59:03 --> 00:59:07

right? Do you ask consent of your kids when they're born?

00:59:08 --> 00:59:09

So you have kids

00:59:10 --> 00:59:14

your kid is four years old Baba you didn't take my consent you

00:59:14 --> 00:59:17

know what the Liberals they're always saying their kids are

00:59:17 --> 00:59:20

saying these bizarre things right? Mama what's happening in the

00:59:20 --> 00:59:26

Ukraine Wow, the lying right mama? Why is he so anti this? They're

00:59:26 --> 00:59:28

like right but let's say hypothetically

00:59:31 --> 00:59:35

you're kid comes to you and says Hey, but you never asked my

00:59:35 --> 00:59:40

consent to to be born. It's not even possible. Right? So

00:59:43 --> 00:59:48

no, there's no such thing no concepts that you we deserve

00:59:49 --> 00:59:51

for our consent to be had

00:59:52 --> 00:59:56

masuma People say that just says who was the right hand man of the

00:59:56 --> 00:59:59

judge is the internet now. We take these ads

01:00:00 --> 01:00:04

as proper physical things, and we'll see what happens when they

01:00:04 --> 01:00:04

happen.

01:00:06 --> 01:00:11

How do we deal with a divorce is a state issued decree required.

01:00:13 --> 01:00:17

You get the divorce, you make your agreement together, and then you

01:00:17 --> 01:00:20

have a court order so that everyone will get their rights

01:00:20 --> 01:00:24

even if they back out of the fulfilling their rights. They

01:00:24 --> 01:00:28

will, the court will fulfill the rights. So let's say I'm dealing

01:00:28 --> 01:00:32

with a divorce right now as a wellI of somebody. So yeah, let's

01:00:32 --> 01:00:35

agree outside of court, what you're gonna do what you're not

01:00:35 --> 01:00:38

going to do, but we will get it court ordered. I don't know if

01:00:38 --> 01:00:41

you're going to back out how do I know your situation may force you

01:00:42 --> 01:00:46

to stop paying, well, then the court will dip its hand into your

01:00:46 --> 01:00:50

bank account, and we'll extract the money. Or if you don't follow

01:00:50 --> 01:00:53

the procedures that you have to bring the kid back by 5pm On

01:00:53 --> 01:00:57

Sunday, the court order we can have to call the police to make

01:00:57 --> 01:01:00

sure you follow the rules. So there's nothing wrong with that at

01:01:00 --> 01:01:00

all.

01:01:09 --> 01:01:12

From the law that no it didn't choke up there. It says can you

01:01:12 --> 01:01:15

tell us some Hadith about the prophets of Allah when he was

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

selling them wrestling and grappling? There messenger

01:01:17 --> 01:01:21

sallallahu alayhi wa sallam received two men who he loved.

01:01:22 --> 01:01:24

This man was a great wrestler.

01:01:26 --> 01:01:29

And he saw this man coming and the province I set him said to him,

01:01:29 --> 01:01:33

enter Islam. He said no. He said if I wrestle you when you enter

01:01:33 --> 01:01:37

Islam, he was the best wrestler in Mecca he said no if you wrestle me

01:01:37 --> 01:01:40

down this definitely by why because we know that you don't

01:01:40 --> 01:01:43

practice wrestling. Right the prophesy send them was not known

01:01:43 --> 01:01:48

to practice in a wrestling so if he wrestles the best wrestler in

01:01:48 --> 01:01:53

the city, they must be from divine intervention. So the man agreed to

01:01:53 --> 01:01:56

that. Then the Prophet wrestled him down. Okay, and the man

01:01:56 --> 01:02:01

entered Islam. So the wrestling and grappling it's like one of the

01:02:01 --> 01:02:05

hull parts of sports, boxing and hitting the face and Blooding

01:02:05 --> 01:02:08

someone up that's all Haram as we love could be even everything.

01:02:09 --> 01:02:14

That's haram. But some Mufti said that the only time that Habib's

01:02:14 --> 01:02:19

fight was Halal was McGregor because he made fun of Islam. I

01:02:19 --> 01:02:22

can't remember that he did. But he did say something right about

01:02:22 --> 01:02:27

Islam. So the Mufti says, now it's helpful for him, beating him up

01:02:27 --> 01:02:27

his head.

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Alright, I assume well, Todd says it's ridiculous here in the UK, a

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patient sued her mom, her mother's doctor, a patient.

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I gotta read this. She sued her mother's GP general practitioner,

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I guess for being born.

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Absurd.

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How absurd. Is this society getting? She argued that if the GP

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had told the mum to take folic acid, she would have delayed

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conception and she wouldn't have been conceived? These people don't

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want to exist. Guess what, we don't want you to exist either.

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Way. You're not alone. People like you. I'd rather you highlight

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delete, if I could, but I can't. Okay. And she won the case against

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the GP. What kind of judge

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what Allah doesn't love people. He makes them love concepts that make

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their population decrease. We want to abort everyone. We want to not

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have babies.

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We don't want you around either. So I support you.

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masu Muhammad, is there a draw to help with cowardice or excessive

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fear?

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For one's dunya? Yes, La hawla wala Quwata illa biLlah La hawla

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wala Quwata illa biLlah It conquers fear and Allahu Akbar

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conquers fears.

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Onza Gemma says, I have been increasing Salah as you mentioned,

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but I've been focusing more on it so far, which is better. Salah on

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam more and some is tougher.

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Because the prophets I said to them is said about him that he

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made us so far around 100 a day.

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But for Salah on the prophets I sent him he said if you if you do

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all of your nephila as salah upon me, so therefore salah is the most

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and so far you should have some of course we should all have some

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Mustafa if we're not doing this so far, there's a problem. So if you

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look at them, they're pro fighters who are Muslim and get praised yet

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hitting the faces a sin? Yeah, of course it is. Along with the lewd

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things that come with it. Is their income halal or haram? It's not

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haram as it's not halal. You know, the income of of boxing and

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hitting you know

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why did the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked to be shown

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things as they are, what does it mean? That means we may see a

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thing and misunderstand it or misinterpret it. So that's why

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There's a hadith I don't know if this draft goes back to the

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prophet but the self always

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affirmed this hadith. This door Aloma edited haka. How can what is

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open it's about showing me the truth is truth. And let me follow

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it show me falsehood as false and let me follow it everyone dresses

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up their beliefs, shape on justice up bad actions as good. So we

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asked protection from that we need protection from that.

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And falsehood is dressed up as always dressed up as good. The

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truth is always dressed up as as bad.

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Regarding suits and hummus, I often find myself being overly

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cautious when it comes to backbiting. I don't think he can

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be overly cautious. But you should know that you may back by it in a

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few situations where there's an interest. Someone says to me, Hey,

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should I should I marry someone? So you have to tell the truth?

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Well lie there are people I hang out with. I would tell people the

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truth. I hope Allah doesn't put me in this position. But I would tell

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people and it's not you, Ryan. But I will. I would tell people a word

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that they should be smart enough to understand, right? Because I

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also have to protect myself. I don't know if this person is going

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to go and say, Oh, guess what Shadi said such and such, I don't

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know if that's gonna happen. But I would sort of

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you asked me I

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have to give, I must. I cannot lie and say yes, he's excellent. I

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might say something like, ask him about this.

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Maybe ask other people, there is a way in which I can give a negative

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review. Not me, only anyone can give a negative review without

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explicitly saying something bad, which is only for the sake that I

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don't know if that person is going to use cross fitna. Now if I know

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he's not going to CrossFit, and I'll say it, like if it's my

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friend, if my friend comes to me, because I got friends that are

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older than me, and their daughter may be 20 years old. Hey, listen,

01:06:52 --> 01:06:55

one of your guys in the masjid your friends, I know you hang out

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with this guy, and he's proposing to my daughter, and what do you

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think? If I know that he's not going to go cause fitna and spread

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the word. I'll tell him the truth. He's not really correct, appear.

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He's, I wouldn't do it. Right? You should try to give him a reason as

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much as possible. But it's also sufficient for you to say I

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wouldn't marry him to my own daughter. Right? That's

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sufficient, but so Backbiting is not just allowed. It's almost

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obligatory in some sense or circumstances where someone could

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lose something. Someone can be harmed. Right if you don't say the

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truth about somebody

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what's the optimal number of records for Jehovah to have to

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even shake a better to delay Salah in the permitted time and pray the

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Sunnah and photos are pray exactly on time and only the photos.

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If it's for Maghrib you pray the photo straight.

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But for fudge the house, you can pray the sun and the work can be

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delayed to wait for people to come. I used to can be delayed to

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wait for people to come as well.

01:08:02 --> 01:08:05

Okay, next question here.

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Yes, good. can

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still follow up? Can you like if you want to create a habit of

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doing it every day? But you don't get faced with this many like

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decisions every day? Can you do it? Generally there is a concept

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of a general staccato The answer is yes. And in which you say my

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general affairs

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opha Ibrahim, you can you put the ArcView up? Because opha Ibrahim

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is asking where can we register for fit classes are a few basic

01:08:37 --> 01:08:42

thematic effect that I teach is an ArcView, basic, radiant pearl.

01:08:42 --> 01:08:45

What is the answer for cash cash is that Allah shows you something

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of the truth that is of something of the unseen.

01:08:50 --> 01:08:54

And this knowledge that we take, we don't act upon it specifically

01:08:54 --> 01:08:59

in a way that except two different things that you can act upon

01:08:59 --> 01:09:03

because we either way you're doing something. If I'm going if I'm

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deciding should I go to Connecticut, or should I go to

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Detroit, right.

01:09:09 --> 01:09:13

And then I receive a cache of some nice thing happened in

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Connecticut, I decide to go to Connecticut. That's 200 things,

01:09:16 --> 01:09:16

right?

01:09:18 --> 01:09:22

There's no harm in that. Because the knowledge of MacArthur river

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we have to understand is a speculative knowledge it's not

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absolute knowledge like the Quran and the Sunnah.

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Bushra Begum has an eye infection may Allah subhanaw taala give you

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a speedy she fell. Will the man be sinful if he takes another wife

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without telling his first one there's no obligation to tell your

01:09:47 --> 01:09:50

first wife but if you causing pain to people, because it's not their

01:09:50 --> 01:09:53

culture, they're not used to it who would be responsible for that

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pain? If you mess up your daughters now my daughters are all

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messed up because and my dad my son has all my stuff now in the

01:09:59 --> 01:09:59

head.

01:10:00 --> 01:10:03

That's your you're gonna that's your action but you didn't commit

01:10:03 --> 01:10:06

Zina? No, the marriage is valid. You did not commit Zina, but

01:10:06 --> 01:10:08

you've messed up your family, you're gonna suffer those

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consequences in dunya and akhira.

01:10:11 --> 01:10:14

is going to the message to see other people detracting from the

01:10:14 --> 01:10:18

reward of Salah. The answer is no you can, you're allowed to go

01:10:19 --> 01:10:24

Manifesting with your mind and dua are the two correlated, the your

01:10:24 --> 01:10:29

mind is a suburb by which you focus, your mind will not create

01:10:29 --> 01:10:34

anything, unlike the law of attraction. Kooks tell you, the

01:10:34 --> 01:10:38

mind does not nothing creates except Allah. However, the the

01:10:38 --> 01:10:40

good, the correct thing about law of attraction is not law of

01:10:40 --> 01:10:43

attraction, it's common sense is that the more you think about

01:10:43 --> 01:10:47

something, the more you focus on it, what you focus on, is what

01:10:47 --> 01:10:51

grows in life. So this idea of thinking about something and

01:10:51 --> 01:10:55

loving it, that's totally correct. And that's not law of attraction.

01:10:55 --> 01:10:57

That's just common sense. We all know that, right? You all know, in

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your own life, if you focus on something and you think about it,

01:11:00 --> 01:11:03

and you really want it badly, right? Chances are, it's gonna

01:11:03 --> 01:11:05

happen for you gonna make it happen, right?

01:11:06 --> 01:11:10

Draw it now, you need a lot to audit to create this for you. You

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don't we don't create anything. But we do.

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Ask an act. And that the aspect of blockchain and that's true is it's

01:11:19 --> 01:11:23

simply the concept of focusing, reminding yourself What's my goal

01:11:23 --> 01:11:23

in life.

01:11:24 --> 01:11:27

And that's doesn't need law of attraction for that any person

01:11:27 --> 01:11:29

who's lived long and succeeded can tell you that.

01:11:31 --> 01:11:34

Now, neither has a question. How can we expect goodness and be

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optimistic when all the prophets that significant loss and

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sacrifice If anyone deserves easy would be them. And the prophets

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also had the greatest blessing in this life, as well as the greatest

01:11:46 --> 01:11:49

test, the sweetness that they had in their heart is greater than the

01:11:49 --> 01:11:52

sweetness we'll ever have. The metaphor of Allah that they have

01:11:52 --> 01:11:56

is greater than what we have. The joy that they had inside of their

01:11:56 --> 01:11:59

family was greater than the joy that we'll ever have. Why? Because

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the tequila begat that.

01:12:02 --> 01:12:06

So don't just think that prophets suffered the most, they also enjoy

01:12:06 --> 01:12:07

life the most,

01:12:08 --> 01:12:12

not the life of the dunya. We're having steak every day. But the

01:12:12 --> 01:12:15

relationships of the prophets are the best. The marriages are the

01:12:15 --> 01:12:18

best. Of course, there was exceptions to show us like Satan,

01:12:18 --> 01:12:21

the new I say, the loot. And we can't say loot too much because

01:12:21 --> 01:12:22

we'll get flagged.

01:12:23 --> 01:12:28

But they also as they suffered so much suffering produces a

01:12:28 --> 01:12:32

knowledge and their wisdom, that wisdom and knowledge also produces

01:12:32 --> 01:12:35

goodness. So they had the best of life to.

01:12:38 --> 01:12:39

Next question says here

01:12:45 --> 01:12:48

Hey, Chuck says, I just want to thank you and your team, thank you

01:12:48 --> 01:12:51

so much, and hamdulillah no question, but I want to thank you

01:12:51 --> 01:12:53

and your team, and we thank you for the comment because I can

01:12:53 --> 01:12:57

maloca we need you to do as much as possible. How do we strengthen

01:12:57 --> 01:12:57

belief

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that everything that happens is for our own good?

01:13:02 --> 01:13:05

The attributes of Allah subhana which Allah we contemplate the

01:13:05 --> 01:13:06

attributes of Allah,

01:13:08 --> 01:13:11

and that ALLAH SubhanA, which Allah has told us this, and to

01:13:12 --> 01:13:15

believe in the promises of Allah is all about purifying our heart,

01:13:15 --> 01:13:19

when we have doubt about Allah's promises is solely for the purpose

01:13:19 --> 01:13:23

that are the reason that we have since sins beget doubt.

01:13:24 --> 01:13:28

Good deeds beget trust, right. I remember, I think it was a

01:13:28 --> 01:13:30

football that you gave it a long time ago.

01:13:31 --> 01:13:35

You said like we're not a people who have to see to believe it's

01:13:35 --> 01:13:38

the other way around. Yes, we don't. We're not a people who see

01:13:38 --> 01:13:42

to believe we believe first, we make the decision to believe.

01:13:44 --> 01:13:49

And then then we will see, we have to make the decision that Allah

01:13:49 --> 01:13:53

said, Everything is for my goodness, therefore, I'm going to

01:13:53 --> 01:13:55

believe in it. But you will not be able to believe it unless you

01:13:55 --> 01:13:59

strengthen your Eman by a bad and remove since

01:14:01 --> 01:14:06

the pure heart attracts the truth. The dirty heart attracts since the

01:14:06 --> 01:14:10

pure heart attracts optimism. The dirty heart attracts pessimism and

01:14:10 --> 01:14:16

doubt. The pure heart attracts hope and certainty. The dirty

01:14:16 --> 01:14:22

heart attracts hopelessness and doubts. Okay. Any do I have to

01:14:22 --> 01:14:26

seek the truth? Yes. Simply Oh ALLAH. Show me the truth as truth

01:14:26 --> 01:14:29

and guide me to it show me falsehood as falsehood and guide

01:14:29 --> 01:14:29

me to avoid it.

01:14:31 --> 01:14:35

Well, what does being inspired by a lot to do something feel like

01:14:37 --> 01:14:40

a tough question. If something comes to mind, I'll say

01:14:41 --> 01:14:45

if you have to make up seven years of Miss ALLAH, do you double up

01:14:45 --> 01:14:48

each five to seven years? Yes. And you don't bother with any No

01:14:48 --> 01:14:48

offense?

01:14:50 --> 01:14:54

is a true there's workout and delaying Fajr yes in that

01:14:55 --> 01:14:58

to make sure that it's in because if you notice fudging you can't

01:14:58 --> 01:15:00

see it really when it comes in unless

01:15:00 --> 01:15:02

You're on a clear horizon. So it's better to delay it to the point

01:15:02 --> 01:15:07

that you're certain that feathered is in that aspect of the delay. My

01:15:07 --> 01:15:10

name is Norma and says, Can women go to an Imam and request a

01:15:10 --> 01:15:15

divorce without the husband consent? They can. And if she's

01:15:15 --> 01:15:20

able to prove damages and harms, technically the Imam can separate

01:15:20 --> 01:15:24

husband and wife, we just don't do that. Because we would only do it

01:15:24 --> 01:15:26

through a council because it would cause so much fitna in the

01:15:26 --> 01:15:30

community. Right, because but in the Maliki method, the absence of

01:15:30 --> 01:15:34

a judge is the Imam of the mosque. He can do it. He can do it

01:15:34 --> 01:15:38

separates between the two, if she can prove the harms and the

01:15:38 --> 01:15:38

damages.

01:15:40 --> 01:15:42

All right, let's go back to YouTube, should we pray fetch it

01:15:42 --> 01:15:48

at 15 or 18 degrees, it's safer to read 18 to 15 degrees fudge, stop

01:15:48 --> 01:15:53

fasting at 18 or stops hold at 18. Print 50. In the safer? Because we

01:15:53 --> 01:15:57

really don't know. You had a question on that. So does in any

01:15:57 --> 01:16:00

way does it kind of like contradict the point of like

01:16:00 --> 01:16:05

having a prayer time if we're kind of using both times, or that

01:16:05 --> 01:16:07

contradict the point of like finding out is it contradict the

01:16:07 --> 01:16:11

point that there is a prayer time? No, it doesn't contradict the

01:16:11 --> 01:16:14

point of that of having a prayer time because we stop at 18 and

01:16:14 --> 01:16:17

pray at 15. But it does establish the fact that we don't know what

01:16:17 --> 01:16:22

the time is. We're uncertain about exactly when Federalists does a

01:16:22 --> 01:16:25

dispute just difference of opinion. And also, this is not

01:16:25 --> 01:16:27

something that we're good at anymore. And the northern

01:16:27 --> 01:16:32

hemispheres are so cloudy, and it will take so many repetitions of

01:16:32 --> 01:16:36

citing the sunlight. And no, I don't think any of us have time to

01:16:36 --> 01:16:42

drive one hour and get good at that. Right. Until that we can be

01:16:42 --> 01:16:44

certain that it's 15 or 18 degrees.

01:16:47 --> 01:16:52

I have to ask him, yeah, but probably it's maybe a fun Keifa

01:16:53 --> 01:16:56

right. For us to find someone to do this.

01:16:57 --> 01:17:00

Can you have ideas or suit is written on the wall? It's

01:17:00 --> 01:17:04

hilarious. However you shouldn't put your feet to the wall then

01:17:05 --> 01:17:07

it's weird to hear

01:17:08 --> 01:17:10

you refer to yourself by your first name.

01:17:11 --> 01:17:14

Mahmoud Mohamed Dean are we answered that and then I will just

01:17:14 --> 01:17:16

says said Mr. Aiko.

01:17:17 --> 01:17:21

I've been in Atlanta for about two months. Okay.

01:17:22 --> 01:17:25

And the group down there said setups nice the group down in

01:17:25 --> 01:17:27

Atlanta says that sends their son home so why they come sit down to

01:17:27 --> 01:17:30

you I'd done and to the whole crew. We got to go to Atlanta

01:17:30 --> 01:17:32

Sunday. It's a poppin place

01:17:34 --> 01:17:35

you're going in the summer What are you going for?

01:17:37 --> 01:17:40

Oh mashallah for why I'm conference. It's good. It's a

01:17:40 --> 01:17:41

poppin place Atlanta Georgia.

01:17:43 --> 01:17:47

Abdulhadi Is it permissible to lie to conceal past sins? Yes. No one

01:17:47 --> 01:17:51

No one's allowed to know your sins. Unless like you have a

01:17:51 --> 01:17:52

disease

01:17:54 --> 01:17:58

you don't have to say why I got this STD you don't have to say why

01:17:58 --> 01:18:01

you got monkey pox but you got monkey bucks the girl has to know

01:18:01 --> 01:18:04

right? You don't just say why why did you get monkey box? I'm not

01:18:04 --> 01:18:06

going to answer that question right

01:18:15 --> 01:18:18

sericin is asking you about da against rulers.

01:18:19 --> 01:18:20

Okay.

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We ask Allah subhana which Allah to give us rulers that are better

01:18:25 --> 01:18:30

than them for to guide them to what is good right.

01:18:32 --> 01:18:35

We should definitely not make dua that anyone burns in the Hellfire

01:18:36 --> 01:18:38

but we can make dua to Allah remove them and bring us someone

01:18:38 --> 01:18:42

better you have to say and bring us someone better because you can

01:18:42 --> 01:18:46

say remove them. But you get someone worse like what happens in

01:18:46 --> 01:18:48

many it happens in many countries.

01:18:50 --> 01:18:53

What is the main radiant process what's the main reason for Salah

01:18:53 --> 01:18:58

to Hajj any reason that you want that is an intensive dua you can

01:18:58 --> 01:19:06

do so lots of Hajah okay Hajah in the in the context of FIP means a

01:19:06 --> 01:19:10

dire need, but in the context of dua, it just means a strong

01:19:10 --> 01:19:13

desire. That's all it doesn't have to be for death

01:19:16 --> 01:19:20

Is it a synonym aka disallowance of hija? Well, it's one of the

01:19:20 --> 01:19:24

Sooners that has a name right and usually in the in the webinar

01:19:24 --> 01:19:29

should have a CD my era defined to separates so no more aka from Sun

01:19:29 --> 01:19:33

Nikka FIFA, the Sunday market is that which has a name salted Hydra

01:19:33 --> 01:19:35

has a name. Right. So so no, I could have to do that.

01:19:37 --> 01:19:39

What is the best way to find sweetness in the trial? Great

01:19:39 --> 01:19:44

question. It's to contemplate the wisdoms that come after it. Right?

01:19:45 --> 01:19:49

The what's going to come out of this trial is going to come that

01:19:49 --> 01:19:51

I'm going to be far more experienced, I'm going to be

01:19:51 --> 01:19:53

better at what I'm doing, et cetera, et cetera

01:19:56 --> 01:20:00

is made Qureshi to what extent to avoid purchasing

01:20:00 --> 01:20:03

products that may have been produced through forced Uyghur

01:20:03 --> 01:20:09

labor. I never got into that movement of not buying or buying

01:20:09 --> 01:20:10

because at that point,

01:20:11 --> 01:20:15

you're not going to buy anything. You go live like the Amish. Okay?

01:20:16 --> 01:20:21

That's where I'm at on those things. It's just too much. And

01:20:21 --> 01:20:27

it's how much someone go oh, this iPad was made by the Uyghurs this

01:20:27 --> 01:20:31

was made by Bengalis were abused. The wallet was made by Kashmiris

01:20:31 --> 01:20:35

who was the undershirt was made in a Pakistani sweatshop. Okay, so

01:20:35 --> 01:20:37

I'll just go live live with the Amish then Right?

01:20:39 --> 01:20:43

So my own clothes, it takes the 38 days to make a nice

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I can't live like this. So I just don't go into that at all to be

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honest with you.

01:20:59 --> 01:21:02

What kind of promises and conditions are halal to put in any

01:21:02 --> 01:21:08

contract? Anything that does not negate a the Cydia or be the

01:21:08 --> 01:21:13

purpose of Nica. So you can not say we will get married but but

01:21:13 --> 01:21:15

there will be no sexual relations in this marriage. You can't say

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that. Right, because that denies the purpose of marriage. You

01:21:19 --> 01:21:22

cannot say we will marry but there we will never live together that

01:21:22 --> 01:21:25

denies the purpose of Matt and negates the purpose of marriage.

01:21:25 --> 01:21:28

Of course, anything haram you know that I'm sure that you don't need

01:21:28 --> 01:21:32

to be told that but what's haram to put in a marriage contract

01:21:33 --> 01:21:37

are invalid. It's an invalid clause the marriage is halal. The

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contract will be valid, but just that clause will be as if it

01:21:41 --> 01:21:47

doesn't exist. And that is any clause or condition that negates

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the purpose of marriage.

01:21:51 --> 01:21:54

I'm not here 911 says is even out to be a heretic. We don't read the

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books of ethnography. But we don't believe him to be a heretic

01:21:57 --> 01:22:00

because his books are it's not clear what's written and what was

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added by scribes. So we can't really assess anything directly.

01:22:05 --> 01:22:07

Rashid's Elsevier says

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that this question on empanada beat was answered before Thank you

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very much for for retyping it Kenna Muslim be a chaplain in the

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military forces for Muslims in a non Muslim country. As the pay is

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good. You have to look at the actions of that army if that army

01:22:30 --> 01:22:33

is fighting oppressive wars or could fight oppressive wars then

01:22:33 --> 01:22:37

No, like if you're if you go into the army of Romania, which

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basically we don't ever see Romania going into oppressive

01:22:40 --> 01:22:44

wars, right? What do they even do? Do they even have an army? Right?

01:22:45 --> 01:22:47

So but they don't go into oppressive wars. We never see that

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right? Then you can serve the Muslims they're oppressive does

01:22:51 --> 01:22:54

not mean oppressive against Muslims, only any oppression.

01:22:55 --> 01:22:58

Any war that would not be valid in the Sharia. And if that war

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happens, you have to resign.

01:23:01 --> 01:23:05

Bennettsville benefits of reading morning and evening of God. Very

01:23:05 --> 01:23:09

simple. It keeps away so much of the hesed and the shayateen away

01:23:09 --> 01:23:10

from you and strengthens your email

01:23:11 --> 01:23:16

saved Muhammad. Daniel has a name. He says. Can you remind us of the

01:23:16 --> 01:23:19

sheikh who was once the head to the Medicare he used to confirm

01:23:19 --> 01:23:22

his Fetzer with the prophets? I said no. So he used to give a

01:23:22 --> 01:23:27

fatwa. He's lived at the time of at Germany. And he was a casualty,

01:23:27 --> 01:23:30

but I cannot remember his name, I'll get you his name inshallah.

01:23:30 --> 01:23:34

But he would write a federal and he would always put it under his

01:23:34 --> 01:23:38

pillow. And he would not publish the fatwa until he saw a vision of

01:23:38 --> 01:23:41

the prophets of Allah when he was selling them and the messengers of

01:23:41 --> 01:23:44

Allah when he was sending them approved of the festival.

01:23:45 --> 01:23:47

This is true. Okay.

01:23:48 --> 01:23:51

would be wonderful to have such people alive in this day and age,

01:23:51 --> 01:23:57

but it is true that and we say it's true because he and the

01:23:57 --> 01:24:01

scholars who are not liars and who know how to assess evidence,

01:24:02 --> 01:24:03

talked about this

01:24:07 --> 01:24:09

is there a drought for mental health issues?

01:24:12 --> 01:24:15

You should also get medical treatment as well as reciting the

01:24:15 --> 01:24:18

Quran. But you should get the medical treatment that is needed.

01:24:19 --> 01:24:20

Okay.

01:24:24 --> 01:24:28

Someone is asking you a question about Hamza Yusuf and heavy

01:24:28 --> 01:24:31

Valley, can you advise them I'm not in a position I have. I'm not

01:24:31 --> 01:24:33

I don't have lines of communication with them.

01:24:39 --> 01:24:40

How do we pray? So lots of Hajah

01:24:42 --> 01:24:44

so lots of hedge it we'll go over it one day because it's going to

01:24:44 --> 01:24:45

require us to actually

01:24:47 --> 01:24:50

write it down or show it on the screen, but it's too dark. We'll

01:24:50 --> 01:24:52

do two rockers and it's a special draw.

01:24:53 --> 01:24:56

When we see the deceased relative in a dream, is it always the case

01:24:56 --> 01:24:59

that they're talking us from the buzzer? Yes, it is said that

01:24:59 --> 01:25:00

anything

01:25:00 --> 01:25:02

that the dead says to you is hot because they have reached the

01:25:02 --> 01:25:06

buzzer and there is no lying in the buzzer. There's no telling

01:25:06 --> 01:25:11

lies. Is it a sin to sleep late at night? Yes. If you know that

01:25:11 --> 01:25:15

you're going to miss fetch it is but if you don't know that you're

01:25:15 --> 01:25:19

going to miss fetch and then it's not sinful. What should one be

01:25:19 --> 01:25:24

one's response or dua if sees or read something Islamic phobic or

01:25:24 --> 01:25:24

cool free

01:25:27 --> 01:25:29

stuff little stuff for a while that

01:25:30 --> 01:25:33

should Muslims not feel at ease knowing that the province I set

01:25:33 --> 01:25:36

them set a time will come where a man with my name and his father,

01:25:36 --> 01:25:40

so be as my name come, that's mmm and Maddie, we should feel

01:25:40 --> 01:25:44

optimistic. But we still have to do our job we can't rely upon mmm,

01:25:44 --> 01:25:47

and Maddie coming in our lifetime and fixing everything we have to

01:25:47 --> 01:25:51

do our jobs with our own selves. Next,

01:25:52 --> 01:25:55

I have a question. So we know the sleeping person is not

01:25:55 --> 01:25:58

accountable. Right while they're sleeping? Yeah, that's correct. So

01:25:58 --> 01:26:03

if you if you wake up in the, if you've set an alarm, and it goes

01:26:03 --> 01:26:08

off during the time that Phaedra has come in, and you wake up and

01:26:08 --> 01:26:11

turn it off, go back to sleep. But the only way you know you did this

01:26:11 --> 01:26:13

is because you woke up with your phone right next to you. You don't

01:26:13 --> 01:26:16

remember doing that at all? Yeah, sometimes you're holding your

01:26:16 --> 01:26:20

phone and you shut it off as soon as the alarm goes off, and then

01:26:20 --> 01:26:23

you miss the Scylla. Right? If that happens, Inshallah, that

01:26:23 --> 01:26:25

person will, will not be considered someone who

01:26:25 --> 01:26:29

intentionally skipped fetch, will it? Because is that because that's

01:26:29 --> 01:26:33

not counted as being awake? Or is it because they were awkward? No,

01:26:33 --> 01:26:37

they were not sufficiently awake to be held accountable. There is a

01:26:37 --> 01:26:42

concept of being between awake and asleep. And that person that's

01:26:42 --> 01:26:45

called know us and that person is not held accountable for shutting

01:26:45 --> 01:26:47

off his alarm, for example.

01:26:50 --> 01:26:54

So I had seen a uv is on the chat. I didn't know that. He says

01:26:57 --> 01:27:01

don't look at the faults of a certain group tivity of its agenda

01:27:01 --> 01:27:02

and who

01:27:04 --> 01:27:08

had you know, Muhammad says I had read that of God and Salah is like

01:27:08 --> 01:27:12

polishing your heart. And as far as like cleaning it so as to

01:27:12 --> 01:27:16

father should be given priority for the common sinner then of God,

01:27:16 --> 01:27:17

do you recommend the same?

01:27:20 --> 01:27:25

At a certain level, all the any ticket is good and so far is

01:27:25 --> 01:27:26

extremely necessary for all of us.

01:27:28 --> 01:27:30

And so on the profit you cannot go without it.

01:27:33 --> 01:27:34

What's the best way to do a staccato?

01:27:35 --> 01:27:38

If it's for more than one thing? Should I do it separately? You can

01:27:38 --> 01:27:41

do all of your matters in one staccato.

01:27:46 --> 01:27:50

phala to test via is a sunnah in all the format hubs. That's a

01:27:50 --> 01:27:56

question from Farah Ahmed. It is a sunnah in all four methods. Noah

01:27:56 --> 01:28:00

says, you recall the 2x factors of raising children that you

01:28:00 --> 01:28:03

mentioned, I remember one was the level of demand but cannot recall

01:28:03 --> 01:28:09

the other. I think the X factors in raising kids is the company

01:28:09 --> 01:28:10

that they keep.

01:28:11 --> 01:28:15

I think that's what it is. Number one is the company that they keep.

01:28:15 --> 01:28:18

If you're sending them out to the wolves for eight hours a day, and

01:28:18 --> 01:28:21

the kid comes back with fangs. What the heck do you expect you

01:28:21 --> 01:28:24

sent them out to hang out with those people and to be educated by

01:28:24 --> 01:28:28

them to not just hanging out by the way to be educated by them?

01:28:29 --> 01:28:32

All right for eight hours a day. Now I know that many people they

01:28:32 --> 01:28:34

have no choice to have to kill their kids go to public school,

01:28:34 --> 01:28:36

Allah will help you insha Allah if you have no choice, but if you do

01:28:36 --> 01:28:42

have a choice, and you've chosen to put them in an environment with

01:28:43 --> 01:28:44

darknesses

01:28:46 --> 01:28:48

for 4550 hours a week

01:28:50 --> 01:28:54

plus projects after school and I need to get on Zoom because I'm

01:28:54 --> 01:28:56

having a project with so and so bla bla bla bla bla

01:28:59 --> 01:29:03

then you're gonna so what you reap so so what you read and then don't

01:29:03 --> 01:29:04

ask me questions

01:29:05 --> 01:29:08

or there was made an offer always answered yes

01:29:12 --> 01:29:15

asking for my brother the top three things a man should be

01:29:15 --> 01:29:18

looking for in a woman for marriage number one

01:29:20 --> 01:29:21

as the Prophet said dean

01:29:22 --> 01:29:23

number two

01:29:24 --> 01:29:26

she's not unattractive

01:29:27 --> 01:29:30

we don't have this like crazy bar and then this I learned this from

01:29:30 --> 01:29:33

one of the Habib. He said the condition that you know that they

01:29:33 --> 01:29:37

they do things by in their wisdom. She's not unattractive. Attractive

01:29:37 --> 01:29:40

is like relative, but she's not unattractive. You're not someone

01:29:40 --> 01:29:44

that you have to look away from. That's those two he said. But I

01:29:44 --> 01:29:47

would also add they also added other things compatibility with

01:29:47 --> 01:29:51

your family. So for example, if I'm from an ethnic background

01:29:53 --> 01:29:58

if I marry someone from a far different ethnic background, I'm

01:29:58 --> 01:29:59

all I'm doing is I'm adding

01:30:00 --> 01:30:03

possibilities for misunderstandings. But if I marry

01:30:03 --> 01:30:07

someone from the same exact background, the chance of laughing

01:30:07 --> 01:30:09

at the same jokes enjoying the same food is all higher. It's

01:30:09 --> 01:30:14

better. It's easier, right? So as much as we have these interracial

01:30:14 --> 01:30:17

and interethnic back marriages, and we think they're fun and cool

01:30:17 --> 01:30:22

truth is that the closer the more factors that are the same, the

01:30:22 --> 01:30:25

more likely that there won't be misunderstanding and there'll be

01:30:26 --> 01:30:30

an easier life. Right? It's just a fact. So I have heard the Habad

01:30:30 --> 01:30:34

give that piece of advice, too. So that's three pieces of advice. As

01:30:34 --> 01:30:36

many things similar in your backgrounds, culturally and

01:30:36 --> 01:30:40

ethnically, she's not unattractive. And her deen is

01:30:40 --> 01:30:44

solid. What is what does it mean? Her deen is solid. It when your

01:30:44 --> 01:30:48

daughter is 20? She's going to be exactly like this woman. If you

01:30:48 --> 01:30:53

accept that for yourself, then good. Okay, so the carbon copy of

01:30:53 --> 01:30:55

what she is now. That's your daughter and 20 years. Are you

01:30:55 --> 01:30:59

satisfied? Are you happy with that? Then her Dean is good.

01:30:59 --> 01:31:04

Likewise for the women. That's your son in 20 years. A guy's

01:31:04 --> 01:31:07

proposing to you. Let's say he's 20 years old. 25 years old.

01:31:08 --> 01:31:11

Fast forward that's your son. Are you satisfied that that's your

01:31:11 --> 01:31:13

son. Then marry the guy

01:31:19 --> 01:31:24

is slotted hija salah or a dua, you pray to rock you make what do

01:31:24 --> 01:31:26

you pray to truckers and you say this job?

01:31:27 --> 01:31:28

It's deadhead.

01:31:30 --> 01:31:33

So I didn't have your class says Were you satisfied with professors

01:31:33 --> 01:31:36

brown response to your article when you were on the podcast with

01:31:36 --> 01:31:37

hijab?

01:31:38 --> 01:31:41

Well, I felt that he started to walk it back. That's why I went I

01:31:41 --> 01:31:45

was not trying to attack the guy and they wanted me to attack him

01:31:45 --> 01:31:49

and they wanted me to slit his throat. But the point is, if

01:31:49 --> 01:31:52

someone's going to walk back there, and I think at the time of

01:31:52 --> 01:31:56

the podcast, it was irrelevant anyway. Right because a lot of it

01:31:56 --> 01:32:00

was already passed. But from what I remember he did walk it back

01:32:00 --> 01:32:02

from what I remember right

01:32:04 --> 01:32:06

but that was my intent my intent wasn't to slit his throat an

01:32:06 --> 01:32:09

embarrassing and humiliating I'm not going to do that to somebody

01:32:09 --> 01:32:11

who there's a potential for them to change.

01:32:12 --> 01:32:18

What can one do to make Shayateen weak stay on will do all the time

01:32:18 --> 01:32:20

and keep your tongue moving in zicatela

01:32:22 --> 01:32:26

shape can you advise a book on to so if all the books of the moment

01:32:26 --> 01:32:29

had dead Abdullah in it we had dead then the books of Imam Al

01:32:29 --> 01:32:30

Ghazali?

01:32:32 --> 01:32:35

What are your thoughts that estimate time that Islam will end

01:32:35 --> 01:32:39

is 1500 After the hijra, no thoughts on that no action and no

01:32:39 --> 01:32:39

thoughts?

01:32:42 --> 01:32:46

So that had Dean he was saying I was not telling you about somebody

01:32:46 --> 01:32:49

at gym, I was telling someone else who commented don't look for the

01:32:49 --> 01:32:49

false if

01:32:51 --> 01:32:54

people want to detect me because I said something nice about somebody

01:32:54 --> 01:32:57

you can do. Let me tell you something that to believe that I

01:32:57 --> 01:33:00

see are just regular normal people who are going to the misogyny.

01:33:00 --> 01:33:04

Alright, I'm not gonna go and do an inquisition. What's your Updata

01:33:04 --> 01:33:07

Do you believe Allah tells a lie? Are you a deal? bundick I'm not

01:33:07 --> 01:33:08

gonna go that way.

01:33:09 --> 01:33:10

Period.

01:33:11 --> 01:33:13

If it becomes apparent, then it becomes apparent and by the way,

01:33:14 --> 01:33:16

I'm not from the subcontinent. I don't know a lot of their

01:33:16 --> 01:33:17

politics.

01:33:20 --> 01:33:24

I was saying Kiani, but I do know certain rulings and I stick by

01:33:24 --> 01:33:27

them because they're in the sad books of the Arabs to

01:33:28 --> 01:33:30

our end that are in Arabic and accessible.

01:33:32 --> 01:33:35

Are people with mental health conditions considered earlier? Not

01:33:35 --> 01:33:38

necessarily. Why would they be considered odia because they're

01:33:38 --> 01:33:42

not accountable for the actions. Not accountable is different from

01:33:42 --> 01:33:46

Olia non accountable may be forgiven for their sins that's

01:33:46 --> 01:33:49

different from odia may be that they do receive a special amount

01:33:49 --> 01:33:52

of protection. Yes, we can see that but that's a different

01:33:52 --> 01:33:53

category from odia.

01:33:55 --> 01:33:58

Ma says what's the interpretation of viewing battle of bed that in a

01:33:58 --> 01:34:02

dream it depends on the other symbols around that

01:34:05 --> 01:34:09

how do you deal with a family with a strong Wahhabi leaning?

01:34:11 --> 01:34:11

tough situation

01:34:13 --> 01:34:15

get a job far far away.

01:34:17 --> 01:34:21

Go get a job in Hawaii or something

01:34:24 --> 01:34:28

how do you deal with a can you know I keep reading the same

01:34:28 --> 01:34:32

questions. Is it true when women say no they actually mean yes. I

01:34:32 --> 01:34:35

get that's I don't know if that's a joker I guess but

01:34:37 --> 01:34:40

what's your favorite so I don't know the names of these episodes

01:34:40 --> 01:34:42

to be honest with you but oh this that's the standard Oh, that's

01:34:42 --> 01:34:43

really the best

01:34:45 --> 01:34:49

next question, what is up with our camera? I guess it's it's working

01:34:49 --> 01:34:50

so hard so it's not charging the same?

01:34:51 --> 01:34:55

What can modern Muslim learn from the Amish? How to milk a cow

01:34:55 --> 01:34:58

maybe? How to slaughter a chicken probably I mean

01:35:01 --> 01:35:05

What's the dua of the prophet for anxiety? Allah mania oh the

01:35:05 --> 01:35:10

becoming ill him me well husband, I seek refuge from anxiety and

01:35:10 --> 01:35:11

sadness

01:35:13 --> 01:35:18

to men Tasneem my elder sister's father in law died a day ago may

01:35:18 --> 01:35:21

Allah Allah give him genitive for the dose, and judge him only by

01:35:21 --> 01:35:26

the best of his deeds. Good. And may Allah subhana which Allah

01:35:28 --> 01:35:32

give it to him to survive the messenger and make him a Sofia for

01:35:32 --> 01:35:35

the rest of his family and unify them altogether. And then that's

01:35:35 --> 01:35:39

it for the dose. Have you tried date coffee? Never never tried it?

01:35:39 --> 01:35:40

No.

01:35:44 --> 01:35:50

Is overthinking good or bad? Well, depends what you're doing. Buying

01:35:50 --> 01:35:56

a car, getting married, choosing what's for dinner? All depends.

01:35:57 --> 01:36:02

I would really want to overthink something that's long term and can

01:36:02 --> 01:36:05

damage my life. Such as marriage, I would overthink that I would

01:36:05 --> 01:36:09

wait. I would wait. I would let's see this person. Right?

01:36:10 --> 01:36:15

If it's something that is like, what sneakers should I buy, then I

01:36:15 --> 01:36:16

would not overthink that.

01:36:17 --> 01:36:22

So very quite simply, it depends on the damage and the longevity of

01:36:22 --> 01:36:26

the thing that we're talking about here. My kid asked why DA is an

01:36:26 --> 01:36:29

answered when he asked Allah to not give him nightmares yet he

01:36:29 --> 01:36:34

keeps having them because dua is not just answered without taking

01:36:34 --> 01:36:37

action. Maybe he's watching something that gives him

01:36:37 --> 01:36:41

nightmares. Maybe he's not doing the other god. If Allah gives you

01:36:41 --> 01:36:45

a chance to act, that's his answer. So if I want to get

01:36:45 --> 01:36:49

downstairs, Oh Allah, may Allah make me get downstairs in peace in

01:36:49 --> 01:36:54

one piece. Don't I still have to get up? Look where I'm going. Walk

01:36:54 --> 01:36:59

carefully, walk down the steps, open my eyes. So the fact that

01:36:59 --> 01:37:02

Allah has given me feet and given me eyes, he's answered my dog. Now

01:37:02 --> 01:37:03

I have to act upon it.

01:37:04 --> 01:37:10

So maybe that he has not yet acted upon what's necessary. What's

01:37:10 --> 01:37:14

necessary of of God before sleeping will do sleep upon will

01:37:14 --> 01:37:16

do. And by the way,

01:37:18 --> 01:37:19

maybe his parents are fighting.

01:37:20 --> 01:37:23

Maybe he's they're watching something that's bad on TV that's

01:37:23 --> 01:37:26

scaring him like horror movies. I know people were into horror

01:37:26 --> 01:37:29

movies. I never understood this. Like

01:37:31 --> 01:37:35

I get like, it's like upsetting to watch this stuff to me. It's not I

01:37:35 --> 01:37:37

don't know if I can say I'm scared, but I grossed out more

01:37:37 --> 01:37:41

like I'm grossed out. I know some really funny people. I mean, I

01:37:41 --> 01:37:44

just don't understand they're there. They watch horror movies.

01:37:44 --> 01:37:47

Like constantly. That's what they watch. It's the weirdest thing and

01:37:47 --> 01:37:51

I think there's some satanic Jimny stuff involved with those horror

01:37:51 --> 01:37:57

movies, I would not the screaming and all that stuff. So for cupping

01:37:57 --> 01:37:58

and company,

01:38:00 --> 01:38:07

I would advise you to try to look at the material means that are

01:38:07 --> 01:38:11

involved in it. eating and eating and drinking late can also result

01:38:11 --> 01:38:16

in weird dreams. So try to take the ASVAB in addition to the DA

01:38:16 --> 01:38:20

and Allah to Allah will grant you what you're looking for. If you

01:38:20 --> 01:38:23

work hard at it and you keep your job guarantee as the prophesy

01:38:23 --> 01:38:26

centum said, Make dua while certain with the Java.

01:38:28 --> 01:38:31

Cigar Ali Ibrahim says Can our feelings tell us if we're doing

01:38:31 --> 01:38:35

good interns of Eman? Sometimes I don't feel good. I associate that

01:38:35 --> 01:38:38

with the man and reevaluate my life. Is this an innovation? Not

01:38:38 --> 01:38:43

necessarily. And it's not necessarily a fact either. Okay,

01:38:43 --> 01:38:46

it's not necessarily it's definitely not false. If I'm

01:38:46 --> 01:38:48

feeling down, there's no such thing as feeling down for a

01:38:48 --> 01:38:53

prolonged period of time. For us, for even Muslims. There's no such

01:38:53 --> 01:38:58

thing. We pick ourselves up rather quickly. With Amen. Remove the

01:38:58 --> 01:38:59

rusts.

01:39:00 --> 01:39:01

Okay.

01:39:02 --> 01:39:08

And I remember not getting a job one time that I had hit a grand

01:39:08 --> 01:39:12

slam in the three day interview process, I had just smashed every

01:39:12 --> 01:39:17

pitch that came my way. But the person in charge me and them

01:39:17 --> 01:39:20

didn't get we didn't get along. Like I knew that they didn't get

01:39:20 --> 01:39:25

they didn't want my views in the building. Right? But with everyone

01:39:25 --> 01:39:29

else, even some of the other professors. They came and told me

01:39:29 --> 01:39:33

by the way, we're all voting for you. He told me this. He's not

01:39:33 --> 01:39:35

allowed to tell me this, but he did. The student body told me that

01:39:35 --> 01:39:39

too. Right? So I was like, Wait, I got this. And to me, it's like a

01:39:39 --> 01:39:41

competition. Okay.

01:39:42 --> 01:39:45

And then I didn't get the job. So I was really just down about it. I

01:39:45 --> 01:39:48

was down about it because I felt it was like a betrayal from this

01:39:48 --> 01:39:53

person who laughed and smiled in my face the whole time. Right. And

01:39:53 --> 01:39:56

then went around doing this like the head person that had the final

01:39:56 --> 01:39:57

say.

01:39:58 --> 01:39:59

So I was down about it, too.

01:40:00 --> 01:40:02

point that I wasn't talking for like a day, second date. Then

01:40:02 --> 01:40:08

third day my dad said three days past, it's over, click that you

01:40:08 --> 01:40:12

snap out of it quickly. And I believe that the those whose Eman

01:40:12 --> 01:40:16

is stronger, they snap out of things much faster. between one to

01:40:16 --> 01:40:20

three Salas, you have a nice sleep. That's it game over, we

01:40:20 --> 01:40:23

move on from the dunya. Now there are major things if someone loses

01:40:23 --> 01:40:28

a limb, we ask Allah offense, and I cannot imagine the people who

01:40:28 --> 01:40:32

have motorcycle accidents who become paralyzed. And Hamdulillah.

01:40:32 --> 01:40:36

They are Furnham, Abdullah, Venus, thank Allah to Allah who has not

01:40:36 --> 01:40:39

tested us with what he's tested other people with, you don't ever

01:40:39 --> 01:40:40

want to be tested with these things.

01:40:42 --> 01:40:46

I can't even advise on that. They would have to advise on that.

01:40:46 --> 01:40:49

Because what they've been through of losing a limb of becoming

01:40:49 --> 01:40:50

paralyzed.

01:40:52 --> 01:40:56

I just, it's unbelievable. It's really unbelievable the type of

01:40:56 --> 01:40:59

the type of tribulation that they go through. They should they're

01:40:59 --> 01:41:02

heroes, in my view, the people who withstand that and they have

01:41:02 --> 01:41:05

suffered and they get better in the deen. They're heroes. One guy

01:41:05 --> 01:41:10

said that, listen to this. He got hit by a car one day on a regular

01:41:10 --> 01:41:14

routine day. He's 19 years old, he gets hit by a car from the rear.

01:41:14 --> 01:41:17

So he jerked his head a little bit. And he had some neck pains.

01:41:18 --> 01:41:19

So he went for routine X ray.

01:41:21 --> 01:41:26

And MRI, whatever, because he hit his head pretty badly. They said,

01:41:26 --> 01:41:30

they said they called him and they said, you and your parents, we

01:41:30 --> 01:41:31

need to see you.

01:41:32 --> 01:41:34

So we're not going to give you the result over the phone, we need to

01:41:34 --> 01:41:37

see you. As alarming. Right. They get there.

01:41:39 --> 01:41:44

They say to him, we have good news, bad news.

01:41:46 --> 01:41:49

And then some news that's in the middle.

01:41:51 --> 01:41:54

He said the good news is the accident did cause you nothing.

01:41:54 --> 01:41:57

There's no damage from the accident. The bad news is while we

01:41:57 --> 01:42:01

were doing that examination, we discovered a tumor in your brain.

01:42:02 --> 01:42:07

And then the middle news that's probably gonna be bad is that in

01:42:07 --> 01:42:11

the process of removing this tumor, you will over the span of a

01:42:11 --> 01:42:16

few years lose your eyesight 100% eventually, you're going to 100%

01:42:16 --> 01:42:19

lose your eyesight. Can you imagine the tribulation on a 19

01:42:19 --> 01:42:21

year old, his life is ahead of him.

01:42:23 --> 01:42:28

That young man went and he was in a very, very bad condition in

01:42:28 --> 01:42:31

terms like spiritually and emotionally, which I cannot

01:42:31 --> 01:42:36

imagine. I can imagine most people being in that condition. And then

01:42:36 --> 01:42:37

he said it took him about two years.

01:42:40 --> 01:42:44

quit school. Immediately once the tumor was removed, he immediately

01:42:44 --> 01:42:45

lost a chunk of eyesight.

01:42:47 --> 01:42:48

And it was just sitting home.

01:42:49 --> 01:42:55

Just being an absolute, miserable state mother, absolute miserable

01:42:55 --> 01:42:58

state father life turned upside down. Your wife is miserable. Your

01:42:58 --> 01:43:03

wife can't smile. Your own Son is going through this horrific

01:43:03 --> 01:43:06

calamity. There's no reference point. Like you can't call Hey,

01:43:06 --> 01:43:09

uncle, Uncle Bob, you also went blind. No.

01:43:10 --> 01:43:13

Like, like sometimes there's a reference point. Let's say if

01:43:13 --> 01:43:17

something bad happens to a kid, let's say his mom dies. So I'm

01:43:17 --> 01:43:21

gonna let off he was sent him. But then like your mom's mom died. You

01:43:21 --> 01:43:24

can call her Hey, Mom, your mom died, right? What do I do? What's

01:43:24 --> 01:43:27

it like? You can talk about it? There's no reference point here.

01:43:28 --> 01:43:31

No one very rare. It happens in a family that someone goes blind.

01:43:33 --> 01:43:37

So, according to what he told me, he told me this directly. He said

01:43:37 --> 01:43:41

two years he was absolute darkness and anger.

01:43:43 --> 01:43:49

cannot imagine the misery that he was in. He said then I just

01:43:49 --> 01:43:52

started getting used to being blind. That's what happened. He

01:43:52 --> 01:43:56

said what happened was when he analyzed himself, I just got used

01:43:56 --> 01:44:00

to it. Like it's it's my it's myself now. I'm a blind person.

01:44:00 --> 01:44:03

That's it. I got used to it. Now I said, Well, what can I do with it?

01:44:03 --> 01:44:06

Let's let's start praying Gemma because he has no social life

01:44:06 --> 01:44:10

anymore. So let's go to Gemma. I enjoy going to gym, I start going

01:44:10 --> 01:44:10

to gym.

01:44:12 --> 01:44:17

And then he starts, he just he turned. He made a turn. And when

01:44:17 --> 01:44:23

he turned his whole family turned and he went to ombre. And now he's

01:44:23 --> 01:44:25

a very jovial person.

01:44:26 --> 01:44:29

And I'll tell you why I believe he's a jovial person, because I

01:44:29 --> 01:44:32

believe his heart is clean. Why? Because he cannot sin with his

01:44:32 --> 01:44:35

eyes. Like physically, spiritually, his heart is clean.

01:44:35 --> 01:44:36

He cannot sin with his eyes.

01:44:37 --> 01:44:41

Because he can't sin with his eyes. That's the biggest thing

01:44:41 --> 01:44:46

that blocks the light of Allah is the young boys and the youth,

01:44:46 --> 01:44:50

young men looking at *, looking at women. It's the number

01:44:50 --> 01:44:54

one darkness that comes in bliss himself. And the prophets I seldom

01:44:54 --> 01:44:59

said it is bliss is poison arrow with which he never misses. Right

01:45:00 --> 01:45:03

IBLEES himself said I will get them with every seductress. Okay?

01:45:05 --> 01:45:06

And I'll never miss with this.

01:45:07 --> 01:45:13

So as a blind young man 2122 years old, no 23 This is the height of

01:45:13 --> 01:45:16

passions right? He cannot sin with his eyes.

01:45:17 --> 01:45:20

So it's hard it's constantly clean. And now I meet him he's

01:45:20 --> 01:45:24

always got a smile on and will lie he has a light on his face. So

01:45:25 --> 01:45:30

it's unbelievable. The the defeats in my opinion of Sabra that these

01:45:30 --> 01:45:31

people have shown

01:45:33 --> 01:45:37

Andre says if I'm hunting and I intend to take down an animal, I

01:45:37 --> 01:45:39

say Bismillah before shooting correct

01:45:41 --> 01:45:45

but anything could Allah but the animal does not die.

01:45:46 --> 01:45:49

You go slaughter it. So you have to have a knife with you. So let's

01:45:49 --> 01:45:54

say you shoot a deer then you catch the deer now it's on a side

01:45:54 --> 01:45:55

bleeding out

01:45:56 --> 01:45:58

Okay, you go you slaughter it

01:45:59 --> 01:46:00

that's the way it's done

01:46:05 --> 01:46:11

were the 12k lifts of Quraishi in the Hadith mmscfd brings different

01:46:11 --> 01:46:12

ones but he

01:46:13 --> 01:46:13

does

01:46:15 --> 01:46:17

he he lists them they're

01:46:22 --> 01:46:27

real take mice and yes, we are. Yes Mike Tyson. But we are

01:46:27 --> 01:46:30

answering questions here for another 1020 minutes

01:46:40 --> 01:46:45

should I do Hibs or should I study up here and fix it up? First, it's

01:46:45 --> 01:46:48

more important to me but big if you have short term if you have

01:46:48 --> 01:46:50

like two years to study update and flip

01:46:52 --> 01:46:53

is more important

01:47:03 --> 01:47:07

any future plans to come to the UK? Yeah, there is we got to take

01:47:07 --> 01:47:11

the whole crew to the UK we take a trip all of us to UK because we

01:47:11 --> 01:47:13

can learn a lot from them. They're like 50 years ahead of us

01:47:16 --> 01:47:19

because literally they're 50 years ahead of us because they arrived

01:47:19 --> 01:47:21

in the UK 50 years before the immigration arrived to America.

01:47:23 --> 01:47:24

Cameras black again.

01:47:25 --> 01:47:25

Okay

01:47:35 --> 01:47:38

Okay, let's go and see what we got here. A man Abdur Rahman was the

01:47:38 --> 01:47:42

ruling on the movement in group vicar like church in vicar or

01:47:42 --> 01:47:46

Mevlevi vicar. It would be at the type of bid that is not sinful

01:47:46 --> 01:47:51

that is just rejected but moving itself is not sinful combining it

01:47:51 --> 01:47:55

with Vic and may be disrespectful may be a bidder, but it's not the

01:47:55 --> 01:47:58

bidder that they're gonna get sins for Well, lo Tada Adam.

01:47:59 --> 01:48:02

But I don't necessarily do that. Well I don't do that I don't do

01:48:02 --> 01:48:05

that movement and we do that could have sitting with what God

01:48:05 --> 01:48:06

silently respectfully

01:48:10 --> 01:48:14

acute accusation of Satan and while we have being an innovator,

01:48:14 --> 01:48:18

how could a Sahabi be an innovator I commit sins can make mistakes,

01:48:18 --> 01:48:22

but you're not the one to judge that. This. So we only say what is

01:48:22 --> 01:48:25

good about the sahabi Satan, Amalia.

01:48:27 --> 01:48:31

Constant dua do we say if Allah didn't want it, it wouldn't be

01:48:31 --> 01:48:32

able to make the DUA.

01:48:33 --> 01:48:38

They don't necessarily save that but they do say, Oh Allah, that

01:48:38 --> 01:48:39

they do say,

01:48:40 --> 01:48:45

in Laguna de Lima or Jamal Hampton at Palava. They do say oh Allah.

01:48:46 --> 01:48:49

If you didn't want me to do this for me, you would not have kept me

01:48:49 --> 01:48:54

persistent upon this prayer. Or they do say, either LM Allah who

01:48:54 --> 01:48:59

have done a dua here alone in Juba, when when Allah when Allah

01:48:59 --> 01:49:05

makes you persistent upon a dua like 234 or five years than he has

01:49:05 --> 01:49:08

prepared for you the answer, that's out of optimism, they say

01:49:08 --> 01:49:09

this

01:49:13 --> 01:49:17

man, Mahmud Mohiuddin Are there any rocks or when women converts

01:49:17 --> 01:49:20

to not divorce the husband if they are nice?

01:49:22 --> 01:49:26

I don't really believe in the fatawa that say that the Muslim

01:49:26 --> 01:49:30

woman can remain married with a non Muslim man. There is some

01:49:30 --> 01:49:33

pragmatic so maybe she won't do divorce him like the same day she

01:49:33 --> 01:49:36

takes her shahada, but in theory, the answer is no.

01:49:37 --> 01:49:42

In theory, the answer is that that marriage is not valid.

01:49:46 --> 01:49:48

The camera is going to keep going black because it takes more energy

01:49:48 --> 01:49:51

to use the camera than to charge so that's okay. Today we'll just

01:49:51 --> 01:49:55

keep going back and forth. We're just talk and answer the questions

01:49:55 --> 01:49:59

quickly. Insha Allah. Here in Japan we have earthquakes often in

01:49:59 --> 01:50:00

societies

01:50:00 --> 01:50:04

idolatrous Is it okay that could Is it okay to say it could be the

01:50:04 --> 01:50:08

anger of Allah? Is the anger of Allah by how they respond to it.

01:50:09 --> 01:50:15

Right? Because if a city is on a fault line, if that those who

01:50:15 --> 01:50:19

become Muslim, I believe you still have earthquakes. How you respond

01:50:19 --> 01:50:20

to it may be the problem.

01:50:22 --> 01:50:27

Prince Matthew says, I like clarification in hosting Ubuntu

01:50:27 --> 01:50:29

Biller, does it mean that I can do a simple action and assume that

01:50:29 --> 01:50:34

this action will induce things we want? For example, if I drink

01:50:34 --> 01:50:38

water can I have my Nia for it, to have guidance in it for me?

01:50:39 --> 01:50:44

You can but also it's really meant for a bad debts do a bad and have

01:50:44 --> 01:50:46

the hustle done that Allah will give you a great reward.

01:50:49 --> 01:50:52

Sheikh if I come to Egypt, can we meet well, but I'm not in Egypt.

01:50:52 --> 01:50:56

You got to come to New Jersey. Javed Ali. Javed can't come to New

01:50:56 --> 01:50:57

Jersey.

01:50:58 --> 01:51:00

Can we eat restaurant depot Halal chicken, I don't know the

01:51:00 --> 01:51:03

companies that are offering Halal chicken there and what their

01:51:03 --> 01:51:04

nature is.

01:51:05 --> 01:51:10

But if I do come to the UK for $1 tour, of course that'll be you

01:51:10 --> 01:51:11

know, advertised

01:51:13 --> 01:51:16

I tried Salahuddin he says I tried to pay most of my Zika and Ramadan

01:51:16 --> 01:51:20

but gave more sadaqa. Can I still give his again now? Or should I

01:51:20 --> 01:51:21

wait till Ramadan?

01:51:22 --> 01:51:27

You can only give Zika when it's due. Cannot give us a cut in

01:51:27 --> 01:51:30

advance. So if you're as a candidate is Ramadan, you can only

01:51:30 --> 01:51:32

give us a hint, Ramadan, next Ramadan.

01:51:34 --> 01:51:37

If I'm hunting, we answered this one by use of it. How do you

01:51:37 --> 01:51:42

fulfill Scylla to run with a big international extended family, you

01:51:42 --> 01:51:45

only have to do it with the people that you can and that are very

01:51:45 --> 01:51:46

close to you.

01:51:47 --> 01:51:49

What's the ruling on answer that?

01:51:55 --> 01:51:59

What if you hunt an animal and it dies on the spot before

01:51:59 --> 01:52:03

slaughtering it? That's enough. You shoot the animal and it dies

01:52:03 --> 01:52:05

right there. That's enough.

01:52:09 --> 01:52:13

Does ArcView offer Arabic? Yes, we have Arabic courses pre recorded

01:52:13 --> 01:52:17

and we have some live as well. What's the stance on voting in a

01:52:17 --> 01:52:20

non Muslim country? It's not going to be a major sin or shidduch

01:52:20 --> 01:52:24

unless you believe that these laws are better than the shittier.

01:52:25 --> 01:52:29

That's the problem. But if you're just voting because it's the least

01:52:30 --> 01:52:36

possible, like harm, all of our politics is on the lesser of two

01:52:36 --> 01:52:38

evils. None of it's good.

01:52:41 --> 01:52:45

general advice for a selfie youngster says no. Who doesn't

01:52:45 --> 01:52:48

take any classes and FIP and out data but believes in googling

01:52:48 --> 01:52:51

headlights and listening to tapes of scholar uploaded to social

01:52:51 --> 01:52:52

media is sufficient enough.

01:52:59 --> 01:53:01

general advice to such a person

01:53:04 --> 01:53:08

I guess let him go through that phase until he realizes that it's

01:53:08 --> 01:53:09

not going to work.

01:53:10 --> 01:53:14

Okay, because he's going to end up having to recreate the wheel or

01:53:14 --> 01:53:17

with many inconsistencies. And then when he grows up and has

01:53:17 --> 01:53:21

conversations with scholars is going to realize that those who

01:53:21 --> 01:53:22

study Akita and FIP

01:53:24 --> 01:53:25

they have superior knowledge.

01:53:26 --> 01:53:28

They have superior knowledge.

01:53:29 --> 01:53:30

So

01:53:31 --> 01:53:33

sometimes you have to wait

01:53:35 --> 01:53:37

until people learn by experience.

01:53:43 --> 01:53:47

Are we allowed to eat the machine slaughter chicken? The machine

01:53:47 --> 01:53:47

slaughtered?

01:53:50 --> 01:53:55

The machine slaughter chicken that using the machine is not sinful to

01:53:55 --> 01:53:59

slaughter the chicken. The question is, is it working? In

01:53:59 --> 01:54:02

other words, do the machine get slaughtered, actually get

01:54:02 --> 01:54:07

slaughtered? Or is the machine missing? That's the question that

01:54:07 --> 01:54:11

he's asking is the Studio open? It's not open to everyone like

01:54:11 --> 01:54:14

it's public. But if you contact us and we know who the person is, and

01:54:14 --> 01:54:17

we know that they're okay, then this they could sit and attend the

01:54:17 --> 01:54:19

live stream live in person.

01:54:21 --> 01:54:25

All right, let's take a couple more questions of that bus. It's

01:54:25 --> 01:54:28

gone What will happen to a person who is outside of his sunnah on

01:54:28 --> 01:54:32

the Day of Judgment. Now, Buddha, the Buddha in Ocarina is divided

01:54:32 --> 01:54:40

into three categories. If a person negates a belief that is explicit,

01:54:40 --> 01:54:43

and whatsoever, then there is indeed there are careful

01:54:44 --> 01:54:46

if they negate a belief that is explicit.

01:54:48 --> 01:54:53

A vaquita but it is not widespread. That's called vid mo

01:54:53 --> 01:54:59

festuca. So they are a facet or a sect. They are Muslims, but their

01:54:59 --> 01:54:59

good deeds

01:55:00 --> 01:55:05

are invalid because deeds are only valid. If they're awkward to

01:55:05 --> 01:55:05

sound.

01:55:07 --> 01:55:10

That type of person is rejected from the fountain of the Prophet.

01:55:10 --> 01:55:14

They're dragged away, which is to the hellfire. But someday in an

01:55:14 --> 01:55:17

eternity, they're forgiven after a long other,

01:55:18 --> 01:55:23

then there is a bit of something that is of a new issue. A new a

01:55:23 --> 01:55:26

new doctrinal question. There are new doctrinal questions that come

01:55:26 --> 01:55:31

up. And the scholars seek the evidence and they find the answer

01:55:31 --> 01:55:35

and they come to a consensus on it. If someone does a bit in that,

01:55:35 --> 01:55:39

okay, then that's a bit that is sinful, it's not with us because

01:55:39 --> 01:55:43

their deeds are valid. They are from the Sunnah. And we are to

01:55:43 --> 01:55:47

advise them and we are not to promote them. That's the answer of

01:55:47 --> 01:55:49

the three levels of bitta in Aikido

01:55:51 --> 01:55:55

Any advice for seeking marriage with someone from another tribe

01:55:55 --> 01:56:01

and race despite the prejudice common in the OMA? I mean, I had

01:56:01 --> 01:56:04

I've given the advice that what I think is is

01:56:06 --> 01:56:09

the three things that are conditions in marriage is you look

01:56:09 --> 01:56:12

for the dean of the woman, you look for that she's not

01:56:12 --> 01:56:18

unattractive, and that as much as possible commonalities in your

01:56:18 --> 01:56:18

background.

01:56:20 --> 01:56:23

That's not necessary but it's just advice right.

01:56:28 --> 01:56:31

Can I combine the six day days or so well with Ramadan? No, you

01:56:31 --> 01:56:33

cannot combine fasting have an obligation with the Sunnah.

01:56:38 --> 01:56:42

When is plastic surgery allowed? It's allowed for a defect. It's

01:56:42 --> 01:56:47

not allowed to improve normal normalcy. So for example, a lot of

01:56:47 --> 01:56:52

people we got crooked noses. Welcome to the club. Right? I had

01:56:52 --> 01:56:56

a doctor he told me, you need I'm going for procedure, by the way,

01:56:56 --> 01:57:01

not for plastic surgery for actual like breathing, right? You're

01:57:01 --> 01:57:04

allowed to do those. That's for health. But he's not going to go

01:57:04 --> 01:57:08

in and straighten my nose. He told me you're got a crooked nose.

01:57:09 --> 01:57:11

Thanks, doc. All right, you're trying to sell me like plastic

01:57:11 --> 01:57:16

surgery rhinoplasty right? So I'm not gonna get a rhinoplasty this

01:57:16 --> 01:57:21

will be haram. But if someone has a major birth defect, he's a 100%

01:57:21 --> 01:57:24

allowed to get plastic surgery. Like sometimes they might have a

01:57:24 --> 01:57:31

big spot or a major, like major defect, that he's not a normal,

01:57:31 --> 01:57:34

imperfect, but we're all normally imperfect, right? That's the

01:57:34 --> 01:57:36

nature of dunya that we don't change

01:57:37 --> 01:57:40

in terms of plastic surgery to our face. Okay.

01:57:46 --> 01:57:49

fixing your teeth is allowed fixing your eyes LASIK surgery is

01:57:49 --> 01:57:50

allowed.

01:57:51 --> 01:57:52

That's allowed.

01:57:56 --> 01:57:59

What is the ruling on marrying someone who has bitter in their

01:57:59 --> 01:58:02

creed but not cool for if the bidder is Mufasa it's sinful to

01:58:02 --> 01:58:03

marry them.

01:58:05 --> 01:58:09

Of if the bidder is FIFA, which we just mentioned, it's on a matter

01:58:09 --> 01:58:13

of discussion and interpretation. Or it's a minor matter of a

01:58:13 --> 01:58:16

certain Hadith then that's a bit odd that is it. It'd be

01:58:16 --> 01:58:18

discouraged to marry such a person.

01:58:20 --> 01:58:23

What about hair? Yes, a woman who was going bald, even the hair

01:58:23 --> 01:58:27

transplants the scholars have said is permitted as long as it is your

01:58:27 --> 01:58:32

hair not strange hair. So to take a hair a woman let's say she has

01:58:32 --> 01:58:37

hairs she's balding. Okay, and that's why the Islamic

01:58:37 --> 01:58:40

publications they used to always have these types of hair

01:58:40 --> 01:58:43

procedures if it's your hair that it's fine if it's something else's

01:58:43 --> 01:58:45

hair like fake hair then it's not allowed

01:58:49 --> 01:58:52

Is it okay to cut the whole head of the animal? No, that's my crew

01:58:52 --> 01:58:54

but the animals still valid as a slaughter

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no one in the masjid hasn't says they don't remind people of the

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job you can remind people of the digit

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sorry to repeat this, but since I made the intention to combine show

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well and the Kaabah What should I do? Consider them of show well and

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redo your cola. You have to redo your cola

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Mahmoud Mohit Dean, thank you very much. And please make dua for us

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please.

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Alright, Ryan, well, a couple more questions. What else? We just only

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take two more questions and we'll go I love it when Ryan's smiling

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that means something juicy is on the screen.

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How can we explain to someone that who doesn't believe the prophet

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sees our deeds is shown our deed the prophet has shown our deeds.

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We know that the nature of which he sold our deeds we don't have to

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worry about that he is shown our deeds he said that himself. So

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Allahu alayhi salam in Hadith

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Is he have an order yes the prophet has known Allah subhanaw

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taala says we have sent you a book and a light the book is the Quran

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the light is the problem. How could the Prophet not be known?

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Okay

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Sheikh who is in your profile picture? That's me a long time ago

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okay

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all right. Reply to a heavy say I say nice. It did not celebrate the

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Molad

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what does that have to do with anything?

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It has nothing to do with anything celebration. She didn't celebrate

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graduations. She didn't celebrate I mean parties. She didn't

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celebrate his priorities. She didn't celebrate anything. of

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those things that didn't exist at the time celebration in general is

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okay.

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The question is, what are you celebrating? And how are you

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celebrating it? Cupping our wigs and extensions for balding, sick

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women Halal only for the husband? Yes. For the family and the

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husband? Yes, in her household. It is okay, because it's in our

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household. These things about the wigs and stuff is all about if it

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would be misleading potential suitors for marriage. But if a

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woman let's say she's got cancer, she she may

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have these things

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in her life and her family where they they know her situation. And

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it's not misleading anybody that is allowed, including extensions

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and weights who told me the Sheikh Muhammad should be medically fit.

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Someone said if you make dua for something specific you might get

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it and we need bad for you. Is this true?

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Know

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when Allah to Allah answers the prayer of a pious, sincere, pure

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intentioned, Muslim, it's good for him. The question now becomes, is

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he going to be thankful when Allah to Allah says something such as or

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when people say that, you're gonna be

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you're gonna get what you want, and it's bad. That's when they're

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not making dua in that sincere way. Right. When someone is saying

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people say things all the time, that are not in the form of a

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sincere dua, right. When they say something like, yeah, yeah, I hope

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that happens to me. All right. Okay. You know, I have no problem

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with that happens to me. That's where we say be careful what you

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ask for good.

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Trying to think of example, Ryan, can you think of an example

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like say you criticize somebody

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for a tribulation, how they're reacting to a tribulation? And you

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say, Well, if that happens to me, I'd be fine, because that's what

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we need to be careful what you ask for. But the sincere praying

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person who was sincere, Allah does not punish them.

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It's a very bad opinion of Allah to have that.

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How do you reduce Shao? Hua besides fasting, sleep early,

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sleep early, when you sleep early, you can focus more, you can

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control yourself better. And most of the things happen at night

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anyway.

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Good. Are we allowed to take the easiest opinion from each method

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which makes our life easy? No, that's not the methodology of the

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scholars.

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The methodology is that you follow one school and you discipline

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yourself to it. But when there's a hardship, like it's impossible to

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follow that school, then you follow another school?

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Are these happening at MUSC? No, I'm going to teach them I teach my

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my classes at NBC. But the studio stuff happens about three, four or

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five miles away from MBSE in a different building altogether.

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Selling movie tickets to non Muslims halal or haram money,

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probably closer to the haram.

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Last question, if a woman is sick and medically proven not to have

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children, can the husband seek another wife? He can seek another

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wife whenever he wants to?

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The question is, if that's something that the first wife will

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he, he just you just have to make sure you don't want to harm

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somebody to do the Khaled. Right? We're not saying that it's haram.

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But at the same time, we don't want to seek our happiness on

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someone else's sadness, you won't be happy. And I say this because

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we're not in a culture that has any reference point to this second

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wife. If we're Yemen, fun, because I remember an example where a

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woman called her dad and he said, Father, my husband has taken a

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second wife. And the father answered by saying and isn't your

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mom, a second wife, and your sister has a second co wife, your

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other sister has another co wife. There's reference point in that

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society. For someone to say It's alright.

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It's part of life. We don't

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I have that reference point. And I would not be an experiment in such

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a thing.

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When it happens, and there's plenty of reference points, then

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you can lean on those on that tradition and that history, right?

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But until then the damage that you could do to someone can be serious

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damage because this is not something we know in our society.

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So don't experiment with your with your wife and say, Hey, I'm going

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to bring on a second wife here. And you're just going to do or you

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can simply divorce that woman.

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Right? You're not sinful. for divorce. It's not it's the most

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hated of Allah's Halal things, but not sinful. Like if you cannot

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fulfill her rights, I can't fulfill your rights anymore

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because it's not what I expected. Right? Call us

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on BSN, it's called a good divorce. It's like, I just can't

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fulfill these rights. This tribulation is too heavy for me.

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I'm weak. I need to have kittens in life.

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Okay, it's not a great thing but you're not sinful that's better

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than

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other dramas.

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And Allah knows best.

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Some people say the dua of the pious is the same as the doer of

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the first book. That must be one of the most ignorant things I've

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ever heard

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it's a completely ignorant to say that

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yeah, exactly the prophesy. Selim has a hadith in which a man comes

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he's so poor, he's so looks like he should be answered in his dot.

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But he's but the Prophet den says How will he be answered when his

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food is haram? His wealth is haram. Everything is from haram.

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So the more haram in our lives, the weaker our dua, the more a bad

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impurity, the stronger our dua until you reach a point all your

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dogs accepted. That's Willa. Sade Muhammad Ali when Maliki wrote

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books on the different doubts spreading and that's translated

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sadaqa Can you put the link it's translated

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methyl anemia je Ventosa matters that must be rectified rectified

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is a

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it's translated so put the link please.

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All right, unfortunately, we have to stop here, folks Xochimilco

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Subhanak. Allah Houma will be handed the shadow and Illa illa

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Anta the stock photo quality will equal us in an insert. Olivia host

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Illa Latina Manu, WA middle side towards the wall. So Bill Huck,

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what? So the summer was salam o aleikum. Warahmatullah wabarakatuh

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see you all tomorrow in sha Allah for the Shemitah

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