Shadee Elmasry – NBF 249 Stories of the Awliya
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this the stories of the earlier from the Salah, crocheted iya in
which we are almost finished and once we finish this book, which
maybe we can finish it today. Then next week we begin with this
amazing book and read the stories of the Zodiac from this book.
Contemporary
people have ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada look at this this amazing book
which was given to us as a gift by
Dr.
Edelman gave it to luck was seen as a gift. Okay
well hey, Manny, he let me use a couple of minutes low so I have if
needed care to be what have you been? MongoDB whatever I'm gonna
zoo judgy one of his sayings a Tukwila the whale woof. I love
hoodoo de la Yoxall fie how Allah Tada hula, your castle fear. The
what is taqwa? Tuck, what is to stop at the limits of Allah
subhanaw taala. And why is it so important? Simple reason is that
it's easy to do a bet that it's enjoyable to give charity. It's
enjoyable to go to the masjid to pray. What's really hard is
stopping your desires. That's the real hard part. Is it to be able
to control your desires and to stop them. That's the real hard
part of the situation. All right. That's really hard. And all of the
A badda the goal of a Betta
is to really give you enough sweetness that you don't need to
relative to go to the Haram nuff sweetness of Imam what is taqwa?
Someone is asking Taqwa is to avoid something, okay?
To try to avoid something.
All right. And this book that we're reading from, it's called a
reset of Cush idea.
Reset as a pistol. You can even get a PDF. in English. I'm not a
fan of getting PDFs, but it's a very old translation that's out of
print so you can get the PDF of it in English online. Okay, next
we'll call him an Alpha Man. I thought I saw better Lavinia Yeah.
Adam Bucha. Let's settle for Cora Abdullah who Allahu Taala be
Meltzer called if you're consistently choose the dunya over
the deen. And you choose to sit with the millionaires and the
people who love purses and the people who love who go to concerts
and the people who love all this nonsense and the people who just
want to buy cars and watches. If I'm sitting with a group of guys,
the moment the discussion gets into that more than three minutes,
I'm out, Jay, hey, I'm going to go we're gonna go play golf. And then
we're going to, you know, look at this watch I got for $25,000 And
don't think that they don't do it because it's an investment. You
can sell those watches, luxury cars, luxury watches don't lose
value, they increase in value. It's actually percentage wise,
just percentage wise. It's financially more beneficial
to buy to have a luxury car. I mean, it's
supercar I mean, like, not even a supercar, a Porsche, for example,
then to have any other car, like a regular Mercedes or something, you
got a Mercedes, it the value goes down. But when you get these,
like, elite cars, the value always goes up. You literally never lose
your money. You never lose value. The only problem is you can't
really take your family around in these cars. Like if a guy gets a
Porsche once Okay, he's gonna do if he gets a Porsche
he's had that Porsche does not lose value. It actually increases
in value. That's why to get those supercars I don't know, just
Porsche count as a supercar. It's not up there with the McLarens
Lamborghinis, right.
So it's in the maybe middle or bottom of the supercar world,
right? Like McLaren Lamborghini, that's Bugatti is absurd. Another
level, but the thing is these they never lose value. So but any of it
when I'm sitting with a bunch of guys, and I know this about
sisters, too, when they're sitting around and the discussion goes to,
you know,
dunya buying it up and competing. And if that you want me to move
the mic, if, if,
if that discussion continues that more than two sides, I'm out. But
the beauty of it is that
the beauty of it is that
when you talk about the deen like myself for a living for life,
that's what you do. People use the muted.
You know that I'm the worst. mm is the worst person. Alright?
Is the worst person to to ask as a reference. Everyone's on their
best behavior in front of the Imams of the masajid. So that's
what I said, Oh, do you marry this person? Yeah, I asked the Imam.
The Imam said he's one of the best brothers. Of course, everyone who
comes to the masjid is literally on their best behavior at that
moment, not just to impress people, but the setting. It
implies that right? The setting of the masjid puts you in a mode of
Toba that puts you in a mode of it's not becoming to talk about
bad things or to say things that are unbecoming. Right? It's not
becoming so amazingly, you know Imams they tend to be to always
give good
you know, testimony for P for guys. And it turns out to be bad
right? Sure has to be wrong. But the Imam is actually not guilty of
that because in front of him, people are on their best behavior.
So that's where
you look at Sahaba do not choose the Sahaba when as soon as people
go into that I'm gone. Okay, newsflash, our own man Ryan
just spoke at the moment of heavy bomber on Thursday. Okay say again
we need to see this guy
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or try his his Instagram hobby bomb on his Instagram
it doesn't say here whoever becomes rich
his heart dies Now whoever prefers consistently to sit with them over
the football the football that meaning the pious
we need the rich of the OMA the wealthy of the OMA
have an their own way of being wealthy.
Their own standards like when you go hang out with rich guys. They
all were broadcasting it. Ryan speech, put it up, clip it
no screen grab, translate, put it up. Okay, now listen up.
The rich have every culture. They have their ways. They have the
people they sit with and the people they don't sit with, okay?
They have their ways. There are certain clothes, they would never
get certain cars they would never get all right.
We we don't operate like that we have another way of operating. And
that's extremely important to actually start codifying that.
Right. What is the Muslim millionaire supposed to act like?
That is going to actually increase his wealth, bless his wealth and
bless him.
Okay,
then that should involve a discussion of our identity. Do you
identify as a millionaire or do you identify as a woman? A Mutsuki
a Mohib
All that who happens to be a millionaire? And that's why I like
there are a couple of millionaires that I actually look up to as
honestly I think they're earlier
and the reason is what they could be doing with all their wealth
and what they actually don't like what they the way they could be
living
and then the way they actually live okay?
It's amazing. Some of these you would you see him in the masjid
you would never ever once imagine. Now you go to their house, it's a
different story, but the amount, the amount of sadaqa that they
give the schools the dollar looms that they have put together.
I'm not going to say their names here or their schools because
you'll know who they are because they may want to be Mafi.
Before we go to Mohammed and mother to be let's go to see our
man Ryan. At the moment you pulled it up he's just going to shrink
that up and resize it
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all right. Let's say he'd be an English so we'll put the volume up
so we can hear the speech in English.
Oh, there's someone speaking over him. Let's see our man
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Allah has chosen this MACOM for us. Mean cool little American
alleged Hakuna Nastasia and Nadal raffia Istar and Mola JELA fear
Allah Lenin had a knock on Canada. I was born in America in a time
where Muslims were looked down upon and even sometimes feared
would need to be Amreeka fee. Not Hallett in Canada novela Alam al
Muslimeen. In other words, is there Rob Bell? Can you harass men
whom are here and the only exposure that I had to Islam was
what I was seeing in the media? Well, me I couldn't leave it
outwardly I had minute Muslimeen Seiwa na Quinta Otto who fill
Erlang I was born Catholic and my family and I would go to church
every Sunday. Although we weren't religious whatsoever. We did it
anyways. We need to get through Key and welcome to other Omarosa
de Lille camisa. Quilliam ahead, Allah RhoGAM Anna alumna Quran,
Lana Celebi today on Lakan Kwinana. Eventually, I left the
church and I met a friend. We would speak much about spiritual
matters like death, the soul and the purpose of life. FedUni Hey,
Dr. Lu refill can isa welterweight with Sadiq li couldn't not have
had this was not a * or Fie, omo Rowhani and miss what rule was
southern EJ the nephew had hit here.
However, after some time, I rebelled, and I began to take a
very different path. I met new friends and I namespace religions
upon Allah by the festival to Hyundai tynehead manha was like
too much like an orange mm and Welteroth HB BB a Sahaba Welcome
to Abu Khalid Dianna.
It was only after my close friends wronged me the starts to seek the
truth.
When I can feel bad that there has
to be EA and anybody that's smarter than us.
Growing up has an unhappy path. And after this time I began to
spend a lot of time in solitude in nature.
To the side of the Leela few Salwa Fitzrovia, I would think and
ponder a lot about how to find inner peace. Going to SML whatever
Caracas Elan NK fie it EJ diplomat Nina was schooling and botany. And
throughout this period of time, everything began to be assigned
that was around me will feed silicone Farah Quinta or Aquila
holy area.
And I knew some Muslims, although they weren't very religious, some
of them may have even been doing wrong. They all seem to be firmly
grounded in something and what they believe it's out of style
about the muslimeen What am we akuna minal mucha de Janine Belova
whom can we are Turkey goon bow the Malay and buried lacking
within the few whom? Who Rasul Fie, amen him What else do you
have for him? We were discussing argue issues of life purpose, and
This eventually led me to picking up a translated copy of the brand.
Couldn't have not had this now whom I spoke he had enough he had
the higher what Davina had the Elana Katana, Nasca men must have
in mortality. And immediately when I opened up the Quran, I saw this
verse, When the Methodists David lay his
head here a tabula rasa. Then mustafina dena Umina been away
before up mono Salah Rosa gonna hold up your coin, and then I read
a verse in Surah Yunus Sumatera it's also Rafi Soros Yunus, who
will lead the use a Euro company battery will help you documents on
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will be Jadhav even RC from wotja humulene modes when pulling back
and we're gone no and now I'm or Hey Toby him that our will la
McAleese in Ella hood been lion and Jetta Anna J dynamin. Had the
hidden Hakuna nominal Shakira in Salamandre Homido homie about
going out of eBay even? Yeah, you have NASA in another room. full
sequence matter I'll hire Tanya from Elena Moto G, oh, come on, be
open be Macoun sometime.
And then after I saw this idea, I briefly read about certain
pillars of Islam. I read some Sierra and I read about the
guidance that we have from the Sharia. That and thoughts had
Hillel Lima. But that's an accurate che Anil is
mean spirited Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam will Archangel
Islam abou than an Afghan and Zoho and I love reading about the
Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam when he was in Valhalla, because I
personally resonated this as I would spend time pondering on a
mountain in seclusion myself, we're going to have an opera and
interviews on the law highly early Sahil Selim who he had, you know
that if you've already hit up some of that IQ and you couldn't, SLE,
ns Gija well can atari mean wait, you can't.
At this point, I realized that Islam was the absolute truth. And
I immediately took my Shahada. Hannah is out of NL Islam who will
happen Mukluk where she had shares to help kinda, I found that
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was completely aligned with
the hook. Everything about him was directing towards the hook. And
because it was because he was supported by the hook. Well,
that's the end the Neville albums Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam can
feed me while he drew ill health with me. I highly encourage it at
Heartland okay and then mental happy to live here that
hamdulillah here in McAllen. We've been blessed with the presence of
his inheritors 100 he left he had an MACOM but mainland Mola Tada
Elena be an Yeah, hello Murasa He is Allah Allah He was like the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam everything that they want
for us, is for us to find a lot on what Miss Lin Nabi sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam lay up to whom Mina Illa and Nasir Luna drizzle
moulders Allah although my father shaker no one saw him
would join the scene with Kareem.
What happened finished? So hot a lot of them a lot. There you have
it folks.
And there now heavy bomber speaking lady. So there you have
it.
And that's what insha Allah
is our goal is to graduate some Shabaab
to go off and study with the real mountains and to take from them
and we have a Senate and we've tested and we're not something
that you know, is separate from the OMA. Right? We're not
something that
cut off from our marathon helmet Tirath well Marathe well it's a
never we work just a waystation you come in wash each other down
learn the basics. Okay, get strong and then move on to the shoe. And
Ryan went to Team
Haroon went to study which tickets were
discovered ships were headed by by looking everywhere. Okay,
fine until he found this young scholar who was really like a
fruit from chicken Mohini.
Right. He's one of the fruits of chicken, Marathi, and then
headwinds that would shift him Aveda himself. It studies
at the federal Yean is a tuna
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isn't quite a one
different people studying
we're a continuation. So taka de macadam macadam macadam to
introduce you. This is the world there's a new world out there.
Okay.
There's a new world out there.
It's, there's there's a world out there that we don't know about.
And that's the world of Edmond, Oklahoma and mountains. And then
the best we could do take people off the streets, you know, Muslim,
regular good, most of them and that listen, there's something
else you got to know out there and you do that and you go and then
maybe if 5% of those people come back 10% Come back then they could
help expand the project.
Muhammad inevitably Raji Allah Tada. And what does he say here?
He lived 120 years about, can I Jeeva shut. He only he didn't eat.
He lived on his 20 years why some people say that he lived that long
and had Baraka in his food, why they have broken his food. He
refused to eat what humans touched, because he didn't want
any type of sinfulness to come into his food. So that ended up
him eating only
leaves and grasses and greens that he his stomach got used to.
Okay.
And what is the most humiliated people is a poor man who who
humiliates himself for a rich person.
And the greatest of people
get in honor is a rich man who humbles himself
for the poor, how does he humble himself to the poor? He never
makes sure. He makes sure never to embarrass them, never to make them
feel bad about their life. Okay.
That is the best of people. Okay. Again, notice there is never in
Islam.
A really like a praise or a blame of wealth. We're not socialist nor
capitalists. Neither is there a praise for wealth, nor a blame for
wealth. Neither is praise of poverty nor blame of poverty. It's
how you act with it.
I'm ready McKee.
Carla Coloma took a yellow took took a yellow call Booker. I was
sent to her female geography Karateka Santa Fe majestic fifth
pick Karateka our cartography fee Ma Ba to kobika Minho, snin Elba
in our onsen, ojo merDan el dia o Shebaa and I will note and I will
Shuksan Alclad and follow to Allah you do Mandelic everybody who is
any thought you get about Allah subhanaw taala good or otherwise,
that has a likeness of creation in it. Allah is far from that. Do you
not hear Allah says Neysa chemical he shaped what was stimulable?
See, we've said this many times. This is like Lesson number one
in a sunnah. Okay.
Lesson number one is that after the most important Arpita after to
heat is Tenzin okay? The most important Updata after Tauheed is
10 Z. Jews they worship one God, but he's an he's a man God is
complete anthropomorphic God who has stinginess, he has almost like
emotional issues when you read their books about God
unbelievable Christians yeah they worship one God they say within
himself is three but he's one so okay fine, but within it within
him, they lost it so hate within it. They say it's one God but
three within so that
Have you lost three essences of one, whatever you want to say,
Okay, let's say fine. You didn't understand we just mean like, fun.
But it's anthropomorphized. It's a God that takes a human form.
Or a God that has a son.
And you do they draw him, like his finger touching Adam.
Anyone who has such a God will come to despise him. This is the
fitrah of the human being, to despise worshipping something that
has the attributes of creation. Full stop. The fitrah viewing
despises it. It fits on a human despise a certain things that only
belong for Allah. Do we not despise someone begging somebody
else? Like when you see someone is always latched on to you. And not
one time they begged, you find that's fine. Like one time someone
is a complete, distraught state, and they beg you for help find,
but they're always begging No. And they keep going to other people to
beg. Why do we despise it because that begging is only for Allah
subhanaw taala. So we are created to despise it. So we're created,
the way we're create someone wants said to me that they're confused.
Do they think that they think though, that people observed human
nature? And what benefits humans then fashioned religion?
According to it? No. I said no. I said no. The revelation of Allah
to Allah is true. It is a revelation from Allah. And because
Allah is also the creator of human beings, the observations about the
creation will naturally be in the word of Allah. Remember, because
it said, the word he Allah will get so will will will observe so
well, the creation, that he will make an observation, then find the
idea for it in the Quran. But he'll make the observation first,
why? Because the author is one in the same.
Allah is the Creator, but he will write the proof of this world this
is this world has a creator. Well, the Quran is the speaker is Allah
and the creator and the speaker are the same. So you're naturally
going to find get these statements, you're naturally going
to find this. And I think it was in the alchemy of happiness, that
he said that the insight of the pure hearted person, and I would
even go further. Any astute observer Muslim or Kapha? And
that's why all the self help books. What are they based on?
Observation? Very astute observations.
Let's go to the Sony you find it there. Why? Because what are they
observing the creation of the Creator.
And then what is the Sunnah the education
of the of the Creator
as the prophesy centum said at Devaney, it'll be fast enough that
dB, in most cases, have an astute education. Okay.
All right.
His astute and astute observation of nature will coincide with what
the Quran isn't.
Most of them are Kevin who makes it.
Alright.
So tansy, if you're new to this, write it down and the origin of
whatever book you have in front of you 10 z, it is to remove from
Allah all the attributes of a created being is there is a clear
distinction between the creator and the created, the created
beings are every thing that has a limitation to it.
Some someone recently told me that, how could we say it's
impossible for Allah to Allah to
take a physical form? Aren't we limiting the Creator? No, we say
because divine power is restricted is connected only to what is
rationally possible is only connected to that which is not a
contradiction, because contradictions are not possible
things. And Allah says Whoa to Cooley che in Kadir he is capable
over all things.
Therefore, if something is contradictory, it's not a thing
anymore. It's not a thing.
Can so so there's no difference between a square circle and a
limited God. Once you said square, it has four sides. Once you said
circle it has no it has just no angles at all. Square has to have
four angles of equal sides. A circle has no angles at all.
And no straight sides. You're just said to opposite things. That's
all he said. So it's not even to think. So we don't ask if Divine
is this is the misuse of intellect. Secondly, a God that
can enter into a form Well, forms are limited and a God by
definition is unlimited.
Okay, God is infinite. A form is finite. So can a finite thing
become infinite? That's what you're asking. Can something
be finite and infinite simultaneously. Can 10 Oranges be
seven oranges simultaneously? You're asking a nonsensical
question. So the question of can it come into existence? Right? Is
it's out of balance. You misused your intellect. So don't ask if
God can do this in that.
Ask if it's something that's possible.
Okay? Possible we define it in two ways possible within a reasonably
or by habit.
And we mean here reasonably what does it mean rationally or
habitually, Rationally speaking, is just anything that doesn't
contradict itself. Can God create a pink elephant with green
stripes? Yes.
But do we see it habitually in the world? No. So habitually, is what
Allah has created that we see regularly. additon. Okay.
mumkin. So, the monkey net the possible things of the world we
divided in our theology into two categories, that which is possible
rationally, the only condition that has it's not self
contradictory that's it. It's not a self contradictory statement,
inconceivable statement. And the opposite now is habitually
additon. Then let Can we look around in the world and look for a
pink elephant with green stripes? No because habitually it's not
possible it's not something that we ever see in the world. It's a
futile thing good
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your driver
gut and the neffs is between the two
it is a trickery the neffs is something that tricks you the next
neffs is something that has based desires be careful of this
understand the neffs
if I thought ah
be wary of the neffs guarded
guarded by knowledge and feed it water it
good and you water it with Fear and Desire.
Next is Abdullah Abdullah ibn Jimenez it he says we're gonna go
straight to their sayings. LEM Yoda Yeah, I had one for real that
and mineral Farah LD ELLIPTA Allahu Allah. Allah be told the
ACE sunnah and you don't leave off an obligation except the
punishment of that is leaving office on.
Good luck all of the low Kartika work done to sell the movie Tesla
movie he made her wages enough sick, the best time that you can
spend is the time in which you're safe from the tricks of the ego
and that's why so hubbardston for Cara is the best thing right? To
be around good people.
The doors of the trickery of the knifes is closed
that's why it's to be wrong good people to be around your family
that it would be like socially inappropriate for you to do
something bad. That's good to society is doing the work for me.
Okay
well let me die your I don't Asuna Illa Osaka and Nutella bit Buddha.
If you leave off sunnah
Allah me tests you by now loving innovation. Why? Because you took
a step away from sunnah. A vote
away from sunnah is a vote for innovation. So you will eventually
may fall into innovation. If you dis, the punishment of every
action is is it's like genre. If you disrespect another Muslim, you
may get disrespected. And the way you may get disrespected is that
you may fall into sins. So you disrespect yourself. You hate
yourself. Okay.
Talking about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, for
example, in a MACOM without edit.
You may find yourself
you know falling from the high station that you're trying to
attain. Alright, and debasing yourself. And if you did it
privately, then you debate yourself privately. If you did it
publicly, you debase yourself publicly.
Does that mean Jinsol Amyl. The compensation of an action is from
the genre, or the species or the gence
of the action itself. The consequence of course, right? If I
throw a ball at the wall, bouncy ball, if I throw a bouncy ball at
the wall, what's going to come back at me a brick, a baseball,
no, a bouncy ball, right? So whatever you throw out there, it's
going to mirror right back to you.
As Jezza Minjin Salama
I love the story of Jehovah.
In in Persia, I think they call him a mute. I don't know what
camera what they call him. But
Jehovah
was sniffing
meat
across the guy grilling and selling meat so
So how would go eat his bread? Dip the bread in what he could afford
fat. All he could afford was fat, right? Dip it in fat, sniffed the
meat
from the the seller across the street and eat to it, right?
That's what he would do. He was so poor.
So the guy said stop. He said, why? I'm sitting across the street
from you. You don't on the street. It's true. I'm not loitering in
front of your storm city across the street. Here's smoke is coming
to me. I'm too poor to buy your meat. I dip the bread and fat, put
some salt on it and eat it while sniffing the grilling of your
meat. Nothing wrong with that. He said not on, you're stealing from
me. Basically, you're enjoying with the efforts of my labor. So
he said Come. Let's go to court. So the police took them to court.
They sit in front of the judge. The judge says What's your
complaint? The man sniffs my meat. He said what's the value of the
meat that He sniffed? He said
couples couples couples silver coins. He said Okay Joe how bring
a couple silver coins. He said God judge Come on. I didn't eat his
food. It's in the public. He said Just bring me the silver coin
stick to silver coins. He said oh to the to the plaintiff. He said
Pay attention here and he dropped the silver coins on the table and
they made noise. He said did you hear the noise? He said yes. He
said okay that's what you get. You don't get the money itself you get
the noise that the money made. Well he didn't take the meat
itself he took the smell of the month the meat right he took the
beautiful the nice smell of the food you take the sound of the
money
How brilliant is that?
We have a hurricane coming who we got let's let's check the weather
maybe that's what the
oh maybe that's what all the humidity sore from and the heat I
didn't come sit with
but Malakar Jean
Okay, next I really liked these
let me repeat them again whoever leaves off the photo ID he will
eventually leave off the sun in the sun or the protection of the
photo ID and the for the ill or the protection of the Sunon okay
well I'm Yoda I had a son in law OSHA Can you tell a bit better,
you don't leave off sooner unless eventually because something's got
to fill the void to write innovations, you may start to fall
in love with innovations.
And there's no better time.
There's no better time. There's no better moment than the time in
which you are prepared. You are guarded by your knifes from your
knifes when you're sitting with your spa when you go to places
like Medina, Mecca ombre, okay, you are
really protected from the high wedges of your knifes and that's
one of the scariest things, there is a problem if you are with these
people, and in those special places, and your neffs is still
acting up. So at that point, you really you truly need help.
He truly need help.
Last one, he says well wachten Yes, laminaria Sufi him and Su
Yvonne, Nick to have a bad opinion of the people
all right to have a bad opinion of the people anytime that you could
be protected from yourself thinking Ill of the people and
that what is the best way we don't need to socially interact too
much. We don't need to go online too much. We don't need to look at
people we don't need to think about people and to so if it's
something where it's Paola
it really focuses on Elina Anil Hulk
Latina and then Anil help is so important.
Again, Anil cult is a mental state. It's a spiritual state.
Where don't need to think about people. I don't need the people
for my satisfaction. And that makes your people say, Oh, it
leads to a cold person who has no friends. No, it doesn't. It leads
to a person who has friends
for the right reason. Not for selfish reasons. Right? Like if
I'm your friend because you praise me if I'm your friend because you
take you go we go out to eat and you you pay the bill, if I'm your
friend because you give me you know some feeling about myself.
That's a selfish type of friendship as the moment that you
can't do that I turn against you. I don't need you anymore, right.
And I become angry. So that's not a friendship that's a sponge
someone's soaking for himself. The friendship for the sake of Allah
subhana wa Tada is because I'm going to do what I'm doing because
Allah is going to be pleased by that. How you react to what is
indifferent to me. I'm not emotionally needy on you. The
emotional neediness is not friendship. People confuse the
two.
Many times parents they mate for some reason their life seems
incomplete to themselves. They have a kid and the emotional
neediness. They take it from their kids now that gets going
I'd be miserable when he grows up because the moment he wants to be
independent, his independence equates to your suffering. So
you're going to try to resist him being independent No. So the love
that we should have the pure and true love is separated from
emotional neediness doesn't mean I don't have feelings for the
person, but it's not an emotional neediness. Okay, would you get
that though? Michela
gifts from where?
Finally Eliane comes with a Phillips got a collar it's got no
funny business around
that's the type of if the moment the day I find that type of
thought and by 10
Masha Allah,
so don't give house it's your job.
Next one is Maui living in Ajit kala Kulu halen yeah Kuno and
Nettie jetty, Aleman good.
And the TGT element for inner Bharara who okay because in has to
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lair Kuno on the TGT, Elman. That's a very important
letter there Kulu Harlan lair Kuno. Isla, TGT, Elman.
Every state, spiritual state that comes upon a person, every more
cash of every vision, every spiritual thing that happens to a
person, spiritual opening spiritual experience. That is not
a result of knowledge, nor do the people of knowledge give you an
understanding and an interpretation for it. It is
harmful. As we have said before, this is extremely important. On
the understanding of spirituality in Islam. Not all spirituality is
good. Spirituality is of three things.
The Spirit, the world of light, the world of darkness and the
world of the dunya
there is a spirituality of the dunya okay, if any person goes and
does a neutral meditation, neither does he meditate upon Allah, nor
does he meditate upon some kind of shaytaan
he just thinks about nature and he sits in nature nodine there right.
So what is he going to? Actavis what is he going to take? He's
going to take of the the wisdom the lights and the openings that
are of this dunya what can he benefit he can Get Genuine benefit
of only matters of habit a dunya when ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada says,
Yeah, Allah Munna VA Hara Minar had to dunya they know the outward
of this world that includes in it a type of dunya we spirituality
and they will you can see a traces of that benefit in them. So they
may be bit calm or they may have some wisdoms of life how to live
life, but what are they what does it not supply them doesn't supply
them with the eternal Hawk
true explanations about the nature of the neffs of the nature of
Allah subhanaw taala that they want to get anything from that so
we could say about that. It's halal.
It's halal. When does it become almost for us our sheep may just
dismiss and flick that stuff away. Because once you if someone say
hey, listen guys, we don't got any food. But I do have Slim Jims. Oh
man, that's great if you're starving in a desert and someone
brings you Slim Jim That's amazing. Right? So is halal or
haram to eat that Yeah, fine. Let's eat it. It's not considered
as halal food right
until somebody comes upon a steak house and says Hey guys, I got
steaks now for somebody now to prefer the Slim Jim that is hunted
over the steak. We say that that is foolishness right? So the shoe
our shoe who are living in the world of Quran and oh rod and
Sunon and now you come and bring them you know Tom Jones is a you
know, spiritual meditation in nature.
Let's say the student says it's all * had nothing haram about
it. This is okay, but what am I going to do this to rock as of
tangent can cover into what you're going to get there and 20 years?
Right? So it becomes a matter of home stupidity. Okay, so that's so
we didn't say it's that stuff is haram, but it's just a waste.
Waste of time. When I can when I can take a highway and you can
walk you say, Hey, can we take a bike? Yes, you could take a bike
but why would you take a bike if you have a car doesn't make any
sense. It in fact is a waste it's wastefulness. So spirituality here
he's saying it must be judged by knowledge and guided by knowledge,
because shuttering knowledge because there is a spirituality of
the dark side to say it's on can try to mislead people, not just by
the dunya and
My desires shaytaan misleads people through spirituality. So do
you think that the Hindu,
whatever they're called, or are misguided?
By the dunya? They're not the Hindu. What do they call these
guys? Sure, whatever they're called the priests, the yogi's,
the yogi's are not making stuff up, they are having spiritual
experiences. This is the easiest explanation. You're not going to
have a continent full of people, all over the continent, they're
having these experiences and they gather together to a lie. The
truth is usually the simplest explanation. And the piece of
information people are not aware of is that there is a dark
spirituality that you can tap into. By constantly focusing on
things probably they're shouting, does not Allah say in the Quran
gives us a bell, can we, Abdullah Jin, Allah tells us the whole
explanation of Hinduism right there.
They used to worship gin. Every spiritual experience that these
Yogi's have, either the most innocent of it is it's a natural,
worldly spirituality, that's the most innocent, and anything that
is truly hudec IODA. And they do have Kodaka debt. Right? They do
break the norms, and what people would call miracles. It's the
action of the jinn, helping them. Okay? Allah says it very clearly.
But can we Abu Duna Jin, all these medicine men who go to any
culture, from the ancient times, pre modern cultures, animistic and
paganistic cultures, they got medicine man, the medicine man,
why did why does everyone hold him sacred, he has no money.
But he's tapped into dark spirituality. And he knows how to
say stuff and move stuff and do all sorts of tricks.
That's from the Djinn
no doubt about that.
Okay, so that's why any spiritual experience has to be on the tracks
of Al Mushara. And then once it is, once it is, then
you can take you can have your opinion, we are allowed to have
the opinion
such that if a if a
person was to have a true dream, and what's the level of European
you can even like the king had a dream, right? Prophet Yusuf alayhi
salam interpreted that dream.
And he acted upon it.
However, we cannot act upon it outside shittier and all
right, there's Cydia and there's all too common sensical acceptable
behavior in our community. Like what, for example, let's say
somebody has a true dream, that one day he's going to marry
someone so all right.
Firstly, you have to bind your behavior by the sheer. Number two,
you have to bind yourself by oath.
What's an exam? You don't go to that person and say, We're gonna
get married? Okay. I just had a dream, we're gonna get married.
Right? At this point. You, you've you've you've disrespected
something Allah has given you by not managing a buyout from luck
and take it away. Simple as that. nothing's permanent for you.
Right?
Secondly, you have to act by the audit. What is the audit by which
people marry? What is the order by which people talk about their
spirituality to like in what agenda? They don't like to keep it
private? You're gonna make people crazy. Secondly, there's another
reason epistemological reason it may be akin to you is don't need
to me. Right. And for a complete stranger, it's less than that.
It's just hearsay. A regular Muslim walked in and told me he
had a dream means nothing to me. I don't know you. Now say I trust
you. I trust you. But you're liable to make mistakes because
we're not MASU. So I believe you but it's at the level of vision.
Because you can just like you can miss read a festival in a book,
you can miss read a dream. You can misinterpret a line of text from a
book from Quran or Hadith or item. You could also misinterpret a
dream. So it becomes dandy. Let's say a dream interpreter told you
the truth. Yes, it can be appealed to you. But you still have to
behave build off
fictional frontiers is in the house idea and is in the house.
You guys know.
You guys know.
Leon, from Dallas, but he's now here. Dallas, poached him is
always poaching our guys. We're going to reverse it by the way.
We're going to reverse it.
Yeah.
We're poaching. There. They they poached the Ark families for
years. They poached New Jersey families. And now I don't know
what's going on. I think it's just the it's not exactly practical
anymore. The prices went up.
Right and it's starting to get saturated.
On top of that, there's a lot of drama in Texas. shaytaan was
working hard.
It's not the Muslims aren't bad the Muslims are good. shaytaan is
the enemy. That's the in the answer. Why is there so much fitna
between Muslims because shaytaan is an enemy. And not everybody
can,
can face the enemy, and every day
who miss mingles with the people, or Masjid that tries to build a
housing complex around it. All of these people are a fall in the
category of the people that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said he deals with the people and and has suffered with
the fitna. This is fitna, this Imam hates this email, this Imam
expose this email. This man has a war against this email. And there
are stuff within the massager to
guy comes and opens the masjid doctor comes opens the masjid with
housing units and it's amazing treatment for the OMA. Then all of
a sudden another person comes and tries to navigate away from him
and plays politics and gets him out of the picture that's fitna
for him. We may not hear about us fitna.
Those people who are trying to correct the society and suffering
the fitna.
Okay, even if they make some mistakes, they're better than the
one who seclude himself and stays pure.
Right. That's what the Prophet himself said. Because if everybody
takes the route of the one who stays away from the fitna, think
about it like this, the ruling is based on if everyone does it. Yes,
as an isolated case, you are safer, you're happier.
Okay, then the one who is exposed to the people and in drama
as an individual. But as a principle, we have to ask the
question, What if everybody behaves like that, then no good
people would do anything. Everyone said, I don't want to get my
clothes dirty. I don't wanna get my heart dirty. I don't want to
get involved in drama. I don't want any waste of my time from
reciting Quran and reciting a rod. Okay, we all do that. No? Well,
guess what? Shayateen are not saying the same thing. SELTENE are
going to fill the arena. Okay. They're going to fill the arena.
So we have to realize that even though those those Imams were
looking at saying what is happening in Texas, right.
But those still better than inaction. All those people who
founded those masajid and founded those schools and, and those
housing complexes around the masajid are superior in the sight
of Allah than inaction. Someone who said no, I'm just going to
take myself or worship Allah here. And many people say this, whenever
they see their friend and fitna, they say Hamdulillah we stayed
safe. We stayed out of it. All right. And they pat themselves on
the back that that's not correct. That's not right. That's not
right. The one who who struggled to try to do something good, then
found himself in some drama and fitna, even if he has mistakes and
proof being the party of Satan, it is the correct party. When the
fitna happened to you, they didn't have mistakes. They had terrible
mistakes. They took him out of animaljam. The one who killed said
naughty and they committed heinous sins against him. That's what
fitna does, it messes people up but they're the correct party. All
of them as a total. The group of said naughty, they're the correct
party. They're the Sahaba of say, naughty, okay. And the followers
just said naughty.
They have all that reward. Yet still the fitna was so intense,
that they couldn't discipline themselves from taking this
carriage right
and torturing him, and they tortured him with the worst of
torture. Okay, after he killed said naughty, and even though
Allah Himself the prophesy sentiment himself said this is the
most wretched person on the earth is the ones who killed the camel
at the time of sada and the ones who kill say, naughty. The Prophet
has already done this, right? This is a righteous person. Like if you
are such a person that you're in the OMA Muhammad salallahu Salam,
and your heart is so dark and your mind is so dense, that you don't
realize the MACOM of it. You've never solid that can only come
about by evil that can only come about by wretchedness and evil
like you cannot possibly be that dense. To not know them will come
of it * toilet, it only comes that your heart is so covered with
arrogance, and a twisted arrogance in arrogance that is adorned by
piety. And that's why the parasites are from the most
dangerous of people because they cover their arrogance with piety,
prophesy, centum said the Paradise will have the corpse knees and
corpse hands from sujood which means that they don't make sujood
on rugs, or mats or straw mats or leather or anything. They make
sujood out of piety right on the dirt. And they don't remove the
pebbles from their foreheads. They keep making sujood on it until
they have marks here. marks here marks everywhere. They shorten
They're so beyond even what the prophets I send them said out of
caution seeming to them. They never trim their beard. He was a
knockout he says that such a person is a fool like us Why
wouldn't a person clean up his beard alert? I can even read you
the quote your mm inukai okay
and he meant by this the fist length the club but cleaned it up
Alright, so you don't have an excessively long beard and Malik
prohibited as a type of Rhea Cydia to have more than the fist length.
Okay.
And then they shave their heads completely so that they don't have
any type of
vanity to themselves. So you see them fasting all the time praying
every sunnah and nephila until you say to yourself, I'm nothing in
comparison to them. Anytime that you see somebody and you say I'm
nothing in comparison to them, no, there is some Kibana there on that
person. Because the truly advanced will never make you feel that
you're less than them. The truly near to Allah will never make you
feel that you're anything less in fact, they would make you feel
special by the gifts Allah gave you
should make you feel comfortable and inspired.
Next one
is made of Nin Ajit Paula Kulu had a we just read this one now he
continues, what color Mumbai? Yeah, if you worked in min elkaar
to he FurReal Dalton if Tara the Hello Allah He heard him I love
that hotel Cal for you though. Hello badda hain. If a person
skips the Fatah, it
then one day, Allah Allah will take from him the sweetness of
performing that funny though, even if later on, not right away,
was soo Illa Isla and it's so goofy for Karla he was asked on so
he says as sub brew tattle Umbreon night to solo off is that which
leads you that which guides you to patients in commandments and in
prohibitions, because that early phases, the most important one,
the fundamentals, the barebone basics is the most important one,
which is avoiding prohibitions and fulfilling obligations. Let me
tell you that one time,
a group of people, all they studied mainly was FIP. And
oftentimes, like the theory have to So Wolf, like books have to
solve. And then they emphasize on zoo hood and tahajjud and memorize
of Quran and sort of soak so called dry elements of things.
And their state was amazing. Then some people have to sell wolf
came. And they took them away from that, and into singing, and doing
enough gar and being very kind and soft with everybody to the point
that they would stop forbidding the wrong. And this took place
really over a period of 10 years. Their state in the early time was
better than the late later time. And it is set and Allah knows best
by many orlimar that alone.
If you are on and you leave in to do a bad no orphan, then you've
gone down because item is always greater than a better no often.
Okay, so let's say a person wakes up in the morning and they
memorize some Quran and they study some FIP.
Then somebody says no, no pray tahajjud is better. Alright, so he
wakes up in the morning and he doesn't memorize and he doesn't
study FIP Okay, and rather he prays to hajat he's gone down.
This is from a bliss. It's from John.
He's gone down. Because the servants of knowledge.
Where did I read it recently? SubhanAllah. I just read it
recently, from the self, where they said that Oh, from medic
himself in a medic himself.
He quoted some people or via his teacher saying that, for me to be
asked a question and then not answer it, then look, search for
the answer.
Then solve the problem based on knowledge for that person and
everybody else. I would prefer to do that one time than to make Hajj
20 times.
How to 20 times benefit yourself. Malik said that he only arrived at
what he arrived at because he was never asked a question except that
he would not stop until he found the correct answer.
And that answer that is that is clear that has a strong
foundation. Then once you get the answer from one person, you spread
it to everybody.
This is why the Habib Habib Ahmed emphasizes Tao the men had his
alien salute Tao. You don't know how many openings you're gonna get
from helping other people and how much just you're leaving on the
table. If you just do, I didn't. And so look.
If you just do a demo only and you have no concept
sudo su means spiritual development,
traveling the past spiritual path, then are you going to become dry
and you're not going to benefit people. If you do admin salute
you just selfish.
If you do salute only, you're going to be as Indian. Someone who
says, I want spirituality only, and I don't study the books,
you'll be sad, and I've seen it.
I've seen a group of people. I don't know if I told you guys
about this. I'm not gonna say the exact number. But let me tell you
that when I asked the brother because this brother he had no one
on his face, I couldn't believe what I was seeing.
And anytime I'd be around him something amazing would happen as
if it's like Korematsu almost, right. Like I remember one time,
someone asked a question, and he said, I wonder if such and such is
true. Literally at that moment, the light flickered. Right? So the
so he said, there's your answer, the man that you could say
literally has caught on it, right.
And things like that would always happen, be mentioned talking about
someone so that person would call stuff that just seems like he's at
another he's attracting at another level, like attracting these
comments.
His routine was probably to go home and everyday to have about an
hour of 30 minutes of la ilaha illallah in a row. And then he'd
have his buff Quran and his other little ferrets.
heavy heavy vicar.
When I got to know his family, though, they were almost missing
they were missing major for it. And they were committing major had
him but because his state was so good he didn't want to ruin his
state by having to fight or command right and forbid wrong
because when you have to command right and forbid wrong with your
family, it's not a good feeling. It's like ah, I have to go through
this conflict again. And it's kick could start as a nice little word
here and there. It may become a conflict that's why Allah says was
stubborn Allah What would I like a Salah was stubborn it command your
family to the prayer to the deen Salah here means a deen
and have not summer is the bar is stubborn, with a BA added to it
for great emphasis.
That means it's going to be a conflict someday, and they may not
look at you the same anymore. They oh here we go again. Okay, are you
serious? This is what you're talking to me about? Yeah, this is
what I'm talking to you about this little thing. You think it's a
little thing Allah thinks it's a big thing, right? Sometimes it's
like this, right?
And they might be like, Oh, this is a conflict. This is not fun.
Nobody wants to do this. But Allah says do it. Now these are in a
such a spiritual state that he's so in peace. He doesn't do they
don't do that. Maybe they don't know what's important. So it was
100%, vicar. Their Dean was 100%
fastforward. That group is almost like there's no activity. It's
nothing. There's nothing there. They have just sulk?
No, I didn't know Dow, the Dow is to each other to come to the
ticker sessions. That's it, but no concept of Alright, well, what are
the people back home that you left at home? What's their state?
What are they doing? There's no concept of that. So fast forward,
all of it just dissipated. It just went nothing right.
Now let's go to the group that has Aiden and Tao only. I've seen that
too. That will do so look, no solo, Kyle and Tao. They're light
years better. light years better, but they do have a problem. There.
People, especially their youth, they dry out. And when they dry
out, guess what happens? They get bored of religion. Like they do
good for 20 years.
Or the youth may do good for five years. But because there's no
juice on the inside, they get bored. So reading texts becomes
boring to them anymore. Right? They read a Quran recited Quran
listening to Quran becomes boring. And because they didn't have a
tradition of spirituality, they ended up going not to like Casita,
but to music. Right. Or not to studying texts, even if they're
the rational ones of them, went from like studying texts, to
studying academic mumbo jumbo jargon, because he wants us mental
intellectual stimulation. He got bored of the tour off. So he went
into some other nonsense, right?
Left Dawa and went into business, like they used to gather for. Now
they sort of got bored of that. So they get bored. But the right
balance is all three. And the consequence of all three is that
you will be slower in advancement in all three. You will be slower
in advancement. But that slowness in advancement has a great wisdom
to nobody yet. You're the universe's broken. Anyone who just
as let's say I'm going to do I'm only nothing but
you're going to advance faster.
But you're going to end up in hitting walls and hitting and in
dead ends.
Over the years, this is slower. But it also it you always stay in
love with it. Because like you're always seeing people surpass you.
Yeah, that's actually true. You're always gonna see if you live
balanced, you will always see people surpassing you. But it's
gonna give you two benefits. Number one,
it's going to keep you humble. Number two, you're actually get to
see the negative results. Because if all they do, let's say
spirituality, I got no family, I got no job. I'm nothing but
yourself. Yeah, he'll advance past you. And you'll get to see after a
few years, the results of that, right.
And number three, the benefit of it, it keeps you loving it keeps
you desiring it. So that those are some of the benefits of balance.
And that's all from the teachings
that three part teaching that all of us are gonna go by based upon
the hadith of Djibouti, darsena. Eman Islam in Essen.
That as well, because the archetype of the funniest Yep,
correct. The archetype of Benny surah is all law.
No spirituality. And the Christians all spirituality, no
law. And Islam has to have both. And both the Christians and the
Jews, I think the Jews more than the Christians, the Jews said
their message is for them only.
And that's what they were told Sir, you only the Christians
innovated and took it to the world. Right? Who was not meant to
be?
Because the Christian religion is meant to have the Torah. The Torah
is restricted to the law, living in this country only for our
people. So they innovated took it to the world.
And when they innovated, they lost it all. They lost it. When they
innovated like that, and Islam comes to balance that too and
bring it to the world. That's a difference.
Okay, he continues, he's saying EFA to lab theory Dahu UNEF CE be
ma Hua V. What is the flaw of the human being
is his satisfaction with himself to be self satisfied is a problem.
Because
to be self satisfied, is
going to stop you from growing, you got to be unset that's why
whenever if you go slow, you're always going to be unsatisfied.
Because it's relative.
Right? If you've got a company, and the company's not, let's say
produces 10 items, it's gonna take time to develop each 10 item.
Right? You got another company sells one item.
If you sell one item, you sort of reach your limit quickly, right?
But you're surpassed the other guy.
And you'll always be feeling man, they did better. But you actually
in the end, the long run are gonna have a stronger company because
you sell 10 different products, not just one product, right?
I just got an index in chevy Gama Dibner JELA so happy to sit at the
shakin so happy to sit me at shakin Merlok T to fi him mittlere
herba I'm gonna have been jealous as I kept the company 600 You
I didn't find anyone like them but for
like four unique ones. Well, whom Abu Taraba Noxubee
and Abu cherub set alpha t ruku. To whom Elijah for the fakir your
sustenance is whatever you find, while he bears to whom etc. And
his closes whatever covers his body. Well my skin who hates
winners, and His home is wherever he stops for the night.
We'll call it Asada collab. Do Phil Amelie was at the Hala water
who Kubla Ania mela who? Unbelievable. This is an
unbelievable one. That's really true.
If you have true sit, then you find in your in your deeds, then
you will have sweetness in it you will find the sweetness of it
before you even do it. That Allah is rewarding your intent before
you do it. How sweet is it the trip to Hajj in the preparation of
hedge? Who here has made hedge
the preparation of hatch like those months before you give me
begin getting your reward? Because there's something special about
the preparation of hedge there's like something unwanted coming to
you. Then there's Anwar coming to you. When you're just when you
start the journey, and you are considered to be on Hajj, the
moment you you leave your house until the moment you return.
You're considered on Hutch in the sense that you're special in the
sight of Allah and His angels. You got a special light and a special
reward.
We'll call it Khanna era mean as hobby he may ACARA who's the Fitch
jihadi he would get that the toe Batali and Allah Azza wa Jalla
coolin Allah Allah you remember Coleman had to write a movie
unforseen
him, this is very important, very important.
He says, If he starts to see his companions dropping off, what does
he do? He compensates for them by doing more a bed to himself. Why?
Because Allah says, Allah does not change the state of a people until
they change themselves. In other words, you're in a state of
goodness, because all of your collective a Betta is, let's say
at level 75.
Now some of your companions start dropping and getting into the
dunya and dropping off, they're gonna bring the group down. Now
you need a special group to balance them out. It's extremely
important, right. And that's why it's very important to grow the
circuit and the group of people who are really focusing on Sudoku
and a Betta, and Edmund Dow, they got to be strong, because when the
rest of the community drops off, which happens, the common folk
hate to say this, but many common folk, they're addicts to novelty.
Once the whole teaching is loses its novelty.
They start getting bored, because they don't can easily get them
off, they get bored of it, they don't stop doing it. And they
start going to concerts, and they start buying ridiculous stuff with
their money. And they start becoming absurd, right? And you
know what I think? I think they get comfortable, because they know
someone else is doing the deed for them, and putting the blockages
and putting the protection for the community. Right? That's what
happens. They're like, okay, he's the man of Allah, they got it
covered, right, we're gonna be protected as long as we hang out
with that circle be protected. And then they go off to attend
concerts, they go off to do nonsense. They go off to get
involved in this garbage. Thinking about Mexico will say salam to
them, smile at them. And we'll get some of that Baraka, right?
Really, that's the way people think. Or they just take it for
granted. The fitna free,
kids are guided,
that's not coming out of no reason for no reason that's coming
because their efforts being put in, and Allah's having mercy as a
result of those efforts.
And they just take you for granted, they think, oh, that's
what the community is. So they can go fool around, be stupid.
And think that this is going to continue it's not. And if it does,
it may not continue for you. You may go off and fall into fit into
the rest of Jamal can be safe. So
it's really important for the regular common folk to understand
that it's a collective effort. And it's amazing that he says this,
that Allah subhanaw taala it he judges the group. So if some of
the group starts to go down, someone's got to make up for it.
Amazing that observation that he makes, he would increase his
tahajjud
can call Benny obeying Allah He had done between Mala and myself
as an oath Allah muda ye de la haram, el caso rot Yadi and who?
I don't reach my hand to the Haram except something comes to obstruct
me. Well, Kuru maximun.
maximun Neff, see Allah cut to Allah Marwaha to my neffs only
pulled me to something once to men nuts hubs in whereby you learn
what NFE is.
I had a desire of bread and eggs while traveling from Delhi to
Anatolia, Illa. Korea, I left the path completely and went to stay
in a village and now these are at another level at that point at
another level, okay, at another level.
But what about Alia Raj Arun, what Allah kabhi a man became attached
to me what and he kept my company well, Carla Khanna, Heather, my
little Suzy for Al Cooney Falcone, Alban was Surah booni Sabina also
can have a mad lawsuits he was with thieves this person so they
threw me off. Right and they hit me seven nice lashes. For waka for
Elena Raju and Sufi Yun fissara Kala kala where como Harada ohada
Bucha Robyn and Noxubee okay fucka Looney, Wataru Elijah, okay. So,
they said, Let Abu to rob here who has come to visit us let him be
the judge
what are the colony Raju lumen Zilla who are pad dama la Jakob
Zenvo by the
right
fucka Looney what other UI layer? Alright, so the man who make him a
judge, he said come in now, so you could judge but before you judge
you have dinner and they presented him eggs and bread. This is a pot
of like exactly what he wanted. Get
Subhan Allah
All right.
So he came
finally arrived at Mecca, and they said, You look fresh, traveling.
You look fresh, right? What did you eat? Because you look your
face looks bright. He said, What did you eat? He said, Oh, I ate
once in busted up. And I ate once
in another city at two meals on the whole trip.
Actually, there is studies even because we, in the modern times,
people always want this stuff to be they want some observable
evidence for this. There's a lot of studies on that. decreasing
your food, just like almost extreme levels. But if it happens
gradually, it's amazing for your health, your body becomes
extremely healthy. But you know, this stuff is not gonna happen as
long as you have regular Muslim families.
It's not you who can't discipline yourself. You are bound by a Deb,
you're bound by a Deb are we bound by edip? So you're gonna go to a
Muslim family's home that invites you they may be a relative, they
may be an in law, and they have a spread, not a meal. A spread, like
they may have spent from 9am until 5pm cooking.
That's a shift. It's an eight hour day, right cooking. Now, you're
gonna come in here and you're not going to eat their food. That's an
insult now at that point, right. So we can take another sunnah from
the Prophet side send them is when a righteous person cooks you food
eat with Shawa. Right. So that's hopefully, our McLeod's from that.
Right. And so you and secondly, you're the prisoner of your host,
you have to eat. So then we just have to eat. And some people do a
thing. And I'm not endorsing this. Because you don't want to be
discovered doing this. And it's a little bit of an insult to, but
they have learned to perfect fake eating.
In front of the person they take, oh, this is amazing. Take a big
bite. But then it's very slyly. Take it put in someone else's
plate. Try this. You got to try this. Try this. And then he didn't
eat much. This is like fake eating. Right? And it is okay if
you don't insult the person and that the food is not gonna go to
waste because that's what I'm doing. Okay. And you ever only in
America? I want to know if you guys ever have to sing in your
house. Right? Finish off the last spoons. May Allah reward you,
right? This ever happened in your house? Finish off this food so we
don't have to throw it in the in the garbage May Allah reward only
in America, we think we get rewarded for eating. Right? Oh,
I'm full to just finish this little off before we throw in the
garbage. May Allah reward you, right? We're getting rewarded for
over eating here in America. That's only in America. Is that
the case?
All right. Looks like we not gonna finish today. But we will finish
it next week. Okay, let's go to the q&a. No.
Take
from reading somebody said of course idea. Let's go to the q&a.
See what we got here.
All right, q&a has begun it and what do you have to say? Anything?
Yeah.
Yeah, that's true. Have you been with ghost travels for Joetta
Dawa. And he said, This struggle in these trips is not the lack of
sleep or anything like that. It's the eating. Because again, you're
hosted, right? You're hosted. So you have to eat and it is an
annoying struggle to you, because your head dissipates. When you
fill your stomach, your spirituality goes down. It's one
of the prices to pay. You know, being a guest. That's exactly what
exposing yourself to the people and being patient with their
fitness is that not fitna. And it's terrible. You go and you have
a good study had an estate because like you're measured, your food is
measured, you have your regular routine, then all of a sudden, you
have two three gatherings in a row. And you find yourself weighed
down now, right and your state is not there anymore.
You What else bothers your state is that
the chitchat is just inane. And it's all of the dunya. And it's
just like
extremely bothersome. Right.
But that's also from the fitna of the people, having suffered with
the fitna of the people.
And if you can influence them good, but you can insult them or
make them feel any better that you're any better than them.
That's the sort of success and Tao.
Okay, is that you cannot make people feel you're any better than
them.
And they Yeah, they do. Bye
Other days he's talking about the dunya that does still doesn't mean
I'm better because I don't know how they're gonna die. I don't
know how I'm gonna die. That's how you rationalize it because we
can't fake it and say and and not recognize an objective fact. And
in fact in front of us, this is the whole Hadith. This is
nonsense. You're ruining my state right now. I'm still not better
than you because I don't know how you're gonna die. I don't know how
I'm gonna die. So I'm still have no kid but in front of, you're not
better than me. But at this moment in time, okay, you're not doing
something good. Right? And I don't want to be around you.
But you still may be better than me in the future.
Yes.
I've heard that. You have to accept invitations, you should
accept the invitation unless there is a reason as Eminem is owed said
when he did not go to a wedding
that had Mongkut in it. And they said did not the prophesy centum
say you must must accept the invitation. He said not this kind
of invitation. Any Halal invitation where monka will not
occur. And that hadith, you feed the nub? That Hadith implies Ned
not obligation. Okay.
So it's my job for you to now accept that invitation. And if you
accept an invitation, here's another thing. You can ask what
care the meat came from? Because you've already accepted the
invitation. Right? Is Now you cannot enter someone's home and
then insult them.
So you may sort of, I don't know try to ask around what their
opinion is on things because unfortunately, there are many
Arabs and now they have infected some of the bases.
It's a Christian country save us money.
Okay.
How do you have this in North Jersey and in Central Jersey,
where the halal food is in ShopRite?
Where there's as much headache available as not had like, why
would you have to even go to this? Like you have no need for this?
Okay.
Here not only in America they say in Morocco to this happens. finish
this off. May Allah reward you.
How about how about this one? I can't eat I can't finish it. You
know the kids in Africa. Okay, but if I eat it, they're so hungry.
Right? How does this How does the math add up here? So we meet
eating it How does that change their effects? In Africa?
Yeah, they don't make you feel bad. But mathematically Wait a
second. This is not adding up.
Yeah.
You don't know where the buck is and in that's true to the you
don't know where the buck is.
You don't know what the buck is? Yeah.
Yeah, Subhan Allah. Yes. A Scam, right? No, I many of us have a
habit just whatever's in the plate. We clean off the plate,
whatever it is that you know, such thing as throwing food in the
garbage. Right. And, you know, people say that. And sometimes I'm
thinking maybe, well, maybe you're assuming a lot about yourself and
your house and your money. Okay, maybe there was also some Dubai,
there are some Lana there too, right.
So a little bit of a pat yourself on the back.
Back in the day, a food that was haram was like, almost unheard of.
But today Reba has touched everything. And we have problems.
Not only that, who actually, like you may be shuttering, innocent
and valid to eat some food, meat, for example.
But the truth, you don't know. Right? It's on collective trust of
this butcher.
Is it rationally within the possibility that he slips in a lie
or something? Of course it is. Right? Of course. Some of them
have been caught and exposed. Butchers lie to the community
about their meat being hunted all we can go bye bye Shinya is this
person doesn't do outward since so he sought to a secret we can trust
take his word for it.
Let's say the moment the guy says hello food, but then you open
another restaurant with liquor. No, you're not solid anymore.
We're not trusting you. We would still we could still buy it from
you. If you have some secondary proof such as a manager in the
back who was Salah is it the other owner is crazy but this is halal
food I buy it myself. I do the shipping right? Procurement it's
called. Or
we can also trust if our minds deem that rapping
to be sound like if there's a halal company that wraps the food
in such a way, in such a way that it's not conceivable that someone
will fake that rapping. Right? Then we can accept that. Whereas
by FIP if halal meat
exits divert the view of a Muslim, it loses its testimony, because we
don't take fat
Well from an unbeliever.
So that means I say to her, Hey, listen, I'm sending you 10
chickens.
But I'm sending it to you through a Christian farmer, who also has
his own chickens. Now it's within reason that he couldn't mix up the
chickens, he could have dropped one chicken, as I'll just replace
it with one of mine. Right? That's not halal or a pagan, let's say
just take out edit gets out from the equation, a Hindu guy or
something. It's within reason that he's not cautious with the 10
chickens, and there's no demarcation
right, then we won't accept it. Because it's as if it's accepting
a federal, we don't take a federal from a non Muslim, but if you
packaged it in such a way, right? And he said, Listen, I'm gonna
give you a package of chicken, I'm sending it with the company. And
this 10 Chickens are wrapped with my label on it.
And it becomes inconceivable that a pagan is gonna go find his label
printed and fake it. Right? Then we can accept that. And that's
basically like our version of the hull brands at ShopRite today. So
that's why we're allowed to accept it.
But the moment if you go to a Christian butcher, a non Muslim
butcher, and it says here, no, this chicken right here is how
that and he picks up a chicken wings. Really, who slaughtered it.
Abdul, Alright, I got it from Abdul Nah, that's, I can't accept
that.
Even if I trust him in the dunya I can trust him in worldly matters,
can't trust him in in Okinawa matters because he doesn't believe
in the ACA that we fear and he doesn't abide by our law.
Our whole adage Muslim, there are Muslim but they're innovators so
their deeds are not acceptable and change until they change their
beliefs.
What is a karma? Karma is a gift from Allah something that is not
the norm of how life happens. And hence it gives you a feeling that
Allah is blessing you and confirming what you're upon in
your beliefs and your actions. That's a karama. Okay.
We were told as kids, leftover food will chase you on your multi.
Emma, how many people have got that one too? You got that one?
Oh, I got that one. I remember that one. I remember hearing that
one. It's gonna the rice is going to run after you on the Day of
Judgment.
Yeah, what is difference between my Tesla and Ashley's? In the 32nd
answer that is that my Tesla bound themselves by certain principles
that contradicted verses and Hadith of the Quran.
Verses of Quran and the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
salam, and hence their, their their understanding, ended up
contradicting.
So their use of intellect went beyond its bounds.
And they negated verses of an Hadith. When I would have asked
God who wasn't what deserty he saw the prophets of Allah what He said
on the prophesy. centum said, read my Hadith. So he left all the
books of reason and intellect, and he just studied Hadith day and
night on the order of the prophets I sent him and that lasted for
some period of time, until Hadith had entered his whole being is
what sha Allah Allah implemented in the subcontinent, who are very
awkwardly based. It's a Persian tradition, this aqua Nia, very
rationally based, metal led scholars and philosophers. And he
says too much philosopher, right? So he instituted Dota, two Hadith
one year of reading all Hadith day and night for one year, so that it
enters your bones, and you become a lover of transmitted knowledge.
And so I would have said that she did that. And he read Hadith day
and night, to become very well versed in Hadith. And then he saw
the prophets of Allah when he was setting them a second time. And he
said, I said, Read Hadith. I didn't say leave off Cana.
So then he realized that his mission in life would be to
rectify between the two. What is condemn condemn is bringing a
rational categorization of our beliefs and a rational way to
reconcile beliefs a narrations that seemed to oppose one another.
And there are many narrations that would seem to us they contradict
each other. Good.
Here's a question for you. Sometimes the Quran says
for example,
men face similarity where men feel art
or math is similar to a method
and other ads say meth is similar to a lot.
What is one way to know the difference of what's going to come
when so how do I know if says what's
In the heavens and what's in the earth, Memphis and what's your
methodology versus Memphis Mo, what you will not what's in the
heavens and the earth? Okay?
Whenever the heavens and the earth are referring to the creatures in
it, it's always repeated what is in the heavens and what is in the
earth because they are different.
The creation in the heavens or not in the earth, and the creations in
the Earth are not in the heavens. So they're distinct. But whenever
it's an attribution to Allah's creation, He created both so it's
linked Mephisto actually, that's a quick way for people who are doing
hips to recognize the difference when you're doing have
underlined them with the shabby hats
and write them down somewhere. Okay, what's a shabby has verses
that sound alike? And or circle
the similar words that are in an idea, for example, sudut believe
it's a SFX.
Okay, Allah mentions three people that are going to fill a vial
Amin, well Kathy rune, well machico So that you don't confuse
them, you should circle them. So when you look at the page, you see
the parts that you may trip up on in your hips.
And anyone can make hips if you split the page in half. This is
one of the best techniques find an area somewhere in the middle that
where the subject changes and split it in half. Split the page
in half by making a line there that will render every sutra to be
the size of almost sewer systems.
How easy it is to memorize students a shrimps
pretty easy, right?
So the whole Quran is 1200 suited to Census. Right? That's it. So if
it takes if it would take you one day to memorize suited to shrimps,
it take you a decade to memorize the Quran. But give including
sickness traveled, it's miss days, right?
A decade.
It may take you 20 minutes to memorize soda shrimps, right?
So it may take you just 20 minutes a day
to sit and memorize half a page. And then one day a week to review.
You're not going to review everything you're going to review
something but over time, time is your ally if you do this if you
have discipline time is your friend.
Time is your ally.
So Locke says that there are seven Earth's
Imam and Ellucian said this is seven other Earth's with its own
inhabitants
could this be an evidence for parallel universes?
I can't talk to any with any certainty let's see with it Bucko
he says
soon as the taller which we just were actually we just covered it
but I don't think he mentioned it here. Read in the Tafseer
All right, so let's let's have one service at solok instead a number
12 Okay
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he created seven heavens and from the Earth's like them
okay,
Phil added yet another Hello, I'm Rubina Hoon.
The command of Allah comes down with them.
Okay, I'm gonna get to coffee and leaves as an important question.
Can I ask you something? Should the study of Islamic sciences we
started with animal health first No. Should be started with Aki the
first animal has like one of the last things you need. You don't
need that.
And the one who has it can write the book on it. Okay bIllahi min
Osama is sub A Serbia el oro the sofa called Luna Annie, who are
may you do roofie hindlimb and IGBT at BT for NZ Ron matawa. Who
you never met, um remains here Allah's command for what happens
in these Earth from rain and growth of trees etc. We get to be
Laylee when the hurdy will save us shut up and brings the four
seasons where local Iowa and I like to laugh at her and he
creates different animals and he makes the move from state to
state. All of these creations and things that are happening
frequently are made out of the he was summer in Midsummer Eve in
every planet of his planets and heavens of his heavens.
Carl Icahn McCarthy well I'm Roman Embry he Wakaba Omen Qaddafi in
every one of these seven heavens and seven Earth's
there is his own commit that fulfills
Lita Allah Moo so that you may know and Allah Allah Krishna and
Claudia that are the laws passed capable of all things when a
Lakota has to be created. He has knowledge of all things. So if
they ever did
cover another planet out there. This will be an area for our to
increase our Amen because he mentioned seven Earths and he
says, so that you know that Allah has power for overall things. So
that we have in the Quran here we have historical record that the
Quran is already with us, and that we only know of one planet with
beings on it. So the day they come around and they discover another
planet with its own life forms on it, right? Who knows what if it's
possible or not? It's possible what we Muslims will say, we say
well, Allah said, so we should just increase an event. So take
this as a vaccine, take it as a vitamin, put it in the in the bank
right now. Okay, so you have it on the day that some NASA person
comes out and says, This is a major breakthrough, we have
discovered and we now have evidence, okay, that there is
another planet out there with its own ecosystem. Its own existence,
its own life, its own something. Okay? We say you're behind the
times. There's five more that's to
us them there's five more okay.
Woman ultimate loan I'm really interested in what others said
about it very, very interested of a what they said is the reality is
do we do we have transmitted evidence any transmission that's
even Hey, in even like a flimsy transmission
of what would be on their got their own life forms? Maybe? Maybe
that's where you've been best said. It's us. Exactly. That's
there. Another webinar bass and another, you know,
but where did he when I basket that from?
The Jewish mystics? Because they've been our best news known
to sit with the Jews, not the Jews but cabinet but
if not best, was
love to take knowledge of the, you know, these additional things that
are not that the Prophet didn't speak about for wisdom. The
Prophet limited, what he spoke about for wisdom, okay, so if not
best wanted to hear what the because the prophesy centum said,
Go and read their books, because they have amazing things to say,
the female idea, it could have two meanings, hygiene, and how false
This is an IGE. Right? Even if it's acceptable, so it has both
meanings.
How do you go to gender without waiting the 50,000 year period,
now the 50,000 year period is not for every Muslim. And for every
moment you can go to the AMO PMO with a high seven yesira A short
he said and insha Allah Tala we can attain that by the Allah's
mercy, we have to earn that mercy. We work not to earn Jana we work
to earn mercy.
Will Jesus tell people their station in paradise? What is the
role of the dabao art Deb batil art Jesus alayhi salam will return
and will speak of the people to the his people that Christian or
who attribute themselves to him about the truth? And he will tell
them that
here I am, there is no
crucifixion happened to me. Okay, that's the meaning of breaking the
cross. So breaking the cross means when he comes, the whole religion
becomes null and void. Right? The whole religion comes. Let me take
take an example.
If a person if first and there's a there's a line in a book, or let's
say somebody
has in a book, a line that we're disagreeing about, right? Then in
another book, he explains him as the author explains himself, then
our debate is done with Right? Or the author himself comes in. Okay,
we can ask him, What did you mean by this? Right? So that's his
exact same once the person himself comes in, and he's the only face
has been preserved.
Face of Asa, there is a worldwide known likeness of what's Prophet
Jesus is going to look like. There's a wisdom in that, in that
when he comes, there's gonna be no doubt that it's him. All right,
and there's, if you think about this, no other prophet Do we have
any sense of what he looks like as an image. And of course, we have
it transmitted in the soma, and what the prophet looked like and
what he didn't look like, but who knows that only people who study
but if all if Allah wants him to be known to everybody who studied
and didn't study, and as painted all across the world, that Jesus
has a statue that is neither tall nor short. That is more to the
lean side than the thick side. The profit wasn't lean. The profit was
balanced, and if he had anything it was more towards the strong and
the thick, wide shouldered and big hands, then skinny
Buckler was skinny. All murder was big. Say Nadi was big, say North
men was lean.
The profit was more towards slightly towards the whites the
strong side. Okay. He had the profit out of full beard say now
he says like a pointy, thin haired beard, Prophesy centum had black
hair, say Neysa has reddish hair. Like these are very clear,
distinct features. Okay, that people who have that look weak,
they call it the Jesus look. Right? They have no respect for
the prophets, we honestly have no respect.
All right.
What you got that when one of the Boston
you guys might not remember this, you're probably too young. But in
my day, there was a play on the Boston Red Sox and the Yankees
they hated each other. They had like a rivalry of death.
And one of the Red Sox players left the Red Sox joined the
Yankees.
And that was like a big deal when I was young. So at the game at the
first game, back in Boston, they had T shirts printed, okay, and
this guy had long hair, like long reddish hair and a reddish beard.
So they said, looks like Jesus acts or throws like Mary acts like
Judas.
Because Judas is the trader, these people have no respect for the
religion at all. No reason I went into a restaurant once and Italian
restaurant to wash my hands. On top of the toilet was a picture of
Jesus and Mary.
Like, do you think that that's praise? Like you're praising them
or loving them by putting their picture on, I took it off. It's
not even Jesus in America, we don't believe in these things. But
nonetheless, you're attempting that I took it down. I put it in a
shelf. Either way, I'm benefiting, right, because I'm hiding a
picture that's haram for us to look at. And with their attempt to
honor Jesus and Mary, I removed it
anytime you see someone, like disrespect them or find an excuse
to take, like one time I was sitting with a half as half as
Quran. He had the most of on the table and his feet on the table.
Right? What's wrong with you? He had his feet on the edge of the
table and the must haves right there. Some people purposely did
purposely do that, because they believe to honor the most half
itself is a step toward Schick.
They say that that's just the book. The Word of Allah is
separate than this, just the pages. Okay, well, what if I did
that to you, and stuck my feet on the table to you? Are you say,
That's just your dunya we body, that's not your essence and your
That's right. So you make an excuse you say, just thinking
about an AI trying to remember it, and you'd pick it up. But don't
let her leave it. It's corrodes your heart. If you leave the
disrespect to the Prophet of Allah and His Messenger, and you just
accept it. He put a like a black spot in or you find a way to be
creative. One time someone.
I went to a place, it was very embarrassing. And I it was like
the workplace, but it was a very fancy workplace. The lunch there
eats to die for like real food.
Fancy workplace executive level stuff. So they said, okay, just
take the shrimp took the shrimp. But I saw that the guys, the way
they make the shrimp is in the same pan takes shrimp out but the
chicken, take the chicken out, put the ham and I'm like, I can't eat
it now. Right? Because it's mixed up.
But I was sort of young. And this person was like, I don't know what
to say.
Right? When you're young, you don't have the courage to talk,
right? And it's an older person. So I tripped.
I spilled the whole thing, right.
opes.
And it was a little bit of a scene, but at least it got away
from nodding and Hello. All right. And then went on just took the
veggie option after that.
Someone says a brother is in a difficult marriage and his wife
has stopped praying
and practicing whatever, she would have a slum and she blames him for
it. And she says because of you. I don't feel like praying. Okay.
Well to unfortunately this is the way of the bliss because bliss
said Oh Allah, you're the reason I'm committing
disobedience? To which degree, if any, is the husband to blame for
this. Is this even a think what depends with the husband did
she he could share in the blame. She never is going to be blameless
because the prayer is an obligation from Allah. But yes, it
is conceivable that you also share in the blame.
You can drive people crazy. And you'll only know this if you have
your own kids. Right? Like there's there's a there's a measured
amount of correction to make before you really make someone
want to book want to leave measured amount of correction. So
if there are 10 mistakes that
Listen, he's making in their prayer, you keep them in your
mind.
And you have to balance out between the praise and the blame
and the correction.
Good.
And you have to spread it over time.
Yes, I am seeing it and I'm not doing anything about it now,
because I'm timing it right? Um, do something about it later.
Right? Because you cannot possibly correct 10 things at once you make
the person Firstly, they won't do it. It's too much. One correction
every once in a while can stick. Right? It can stick, but 10
corrections at once he gets lost.
So today, it is possible that a person does is called 10 fear. You
made the person hate the religion. And when a fear own. Okay.
Someone's asking anyone know of a good place or group in the Philly
area that can help a 40 year old get started with this. Who's in
Philly? His name is Daniel Moniz. Yeah.
Our guys in Philly.
That came to away them. But I don't have any other phone numbers
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but it depends on where you will Philly's far from there but in
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of mirror their costume medic says friend doesn't want children
informed wife before marriage. Now she wants kids what should they
do?
Stay in a bad mood until the guy gives up. Right? Isn't that the
way? You know things work between two people
stand out. You don't want children? Okay, then you have no
need for the cause that brings about children. Right?
You're watching right now. But this is a problem. That's why your
that shot is invalid in the first place. I wonder if that shift is
invalid, because from the purposes of marriage is to have the Ria.
Just like it's invalid if someone says we're gonna get married, but
we can't have * is invalid.
We're gonna get married, but you can't touch me. It's invalid.
Right? Because from the purposes that to Cydia has made marriage,
one of the reasons not the only reason is intimacy. So you cannot
forbid it. Take someone I'm going to sell you a phone, but don't
call somebody.
No, it has to shut up that's invalid. The marriage is valid,
but that condition is invalid. We have to ask if
that shot is invalid. But anyway, still takes two people. But that
then is really more in the wife's hands.
Right? Unless he's gonna sit and make her take a pill every
morning.
Like it's more in the wife's hands than anything else.
But that's a problem. I think that you should look into that and
maybe ask your ask around.
Because even if the shot is invalid, we're not machines, he
still has to go along, he starts to raise a child, he has to live
with it. He has to not be in a bad mood about it. Right? Not be angry
about it, not resent the, like all the sorts of psychological things
are involved. So he's got to make he's got to change his opinion on
his own.
Okay.
You got to change his opinion on his own. Because he can't say oh,
you forced me into it. Then every time Oh, get off for soccer
practice. Oh, you forced me into this. Get Oh, go get me a diaper.
Oh, you forced me into it. And every time he buys you how much
the diaper costs, right? You're not taking a vacation that year.
Okay. If you're going to Italy, you're going to Vermont this year.
All from the diapers and the baby formula and the baby food and at
all the trap. The headache of putting together the baby where
the baby's sleep. And then they change every six months. It's
different. The first it's the best in it. Three months later, it's a
baby thing. 12 months later, the baby thing has to become a little
baby bed. One year later after that he grows out of that the
amount of furniture the amount of little things and then they're
nonstop milking the baby industry. Now there's some people have
formula. They formula feed because they're sick or something. There's
a reason they formula feed. They don't breastfeed. So they get the
formula in the middle of the night. There's nothing worse than
having to get up microwave, the baby formula, right? for the
bottle. So they created a heck
okay, it's a bottle holder has two bottle holders in it. And you put
water in there, you plug it in, you turn it on, that water stays
warm the whole time. Okay, put the baby formula in there all night.
So you wake up baby's asleep without even closing your eyes.
Open your eyes. You feed the baby to me right now.
You have a kitten and you have to feed it you have to feed the baby
formula model. You're kidding. How cute is that? Subala.
Sister you accepted the condition and now you have a problem but
Allah can help you right now.
And I think they can, it doesn't make a difference whether the
condition is valid or invalid, you still have a problem
because he's got to be fallen, because it's such a life altering
thing. Okay.
Are there Habib in Istanbul? Not that I know of Kareem.
How do I build terracotta during changing life circumstances says
no, but
when Allah says makes a command, you follow it, you do it.
Even if it looks like something scary is going to happen, such as
people who leave jobs
without any job because it's forbidden, without any other job
prospects. Allah says whoever has taqwa, he makes a way out. You
don't wait for the way out then have Taqwa. You don't wait to get
another job, then have to have Taqwa first. Can I get Can I marry
someone who's an innovator like this person says she, this
marriage would be permissible for us to engage in Haram. For us
forget marriage is haram to have Samba
right? To keep the friendship of an public sinner from the Sunnis,
let alone someone who has errors in their data, which makes them
I'm looked at
a fast clip and looked at the socket and fess up is haram. A guy
who owns a liquor store, I can't be friends with him going to his
house, he comes to my house now. We can be friends with this
person. That's an endorsement, let alone marrying them. And let alone
an innovator in octina. Because matters of beliefs are more
important than actions. Yes. About a child, that union. That's a
relative. How would you say there's someone whatever, that the
child of somebody whose parents, one is an innovator, and one is
Edison.
Asked them you guys cause the problem? Don't come to me to solve
your problem. This is the truth from even our best he says, Allah
says whoever has stuck well, he gives you a way out. You didn't
have Taco. So Allah won't give you a well now you suffer. You know if
it makes you to visit or celebrate that birth? Yeah, celebrate.
Oh, can I go and celebrate there? There? Yeah. Okay. So that first
of all, to be accurate. And this is not an endorsement but the
marriage with a festive or an innovator is haram but valid. The
marriage to a zin deep?
Like someone who whose beliefs are contrary to what is known to
religion by necessity, that's called as in deep worse than an
innovator. Okay, that marriage is invalid. Marriage of a Muslim to a
Hindu, Muslim, Muslim to a Qadiani. Right.
All right. The Hindus a careful obvious Qadiani we call that
persons in the marriage to them is not as haram and invalid. It's not
even valid. Okay.
So the
Sultan's to go and celebrate the birth of a child that comes out of
the relationship that was haram to engage in but valid, what is the
ruling on that? Is your question?
As a very good question. It was a very good question.
And so I would say about it that it's
what do you Who are you congratulating? Who are you, you
know, supporting in this right? That's a tough question. Tough
question.
All of us in our families may have to really navigate these tough
situations. And may Allah help all the people who are navigating in
sha Allah, people make sacrifices, they make mistakes. Inshallah
Allah forgives us all for those because not everyone who has a
nice clean cut Sunni family, some people do, but it's not clean cut.
And when you have to be patient, you want to be cautious with your
religion, but you also have life to live. I can't pick a fight to
every two weeks. It's just not it's exhausting. So
what's the dua for marriage and stable life? Though the first
thing is whatever you want from Allah, you ask it directly. And
secondly, if you want, you gotta run Alright, take care. Oh good.
If you if you want to
have a stable married life have is to come up with Allah, Allah will
guard your life. Be sincere with Allah be honest, be direct, be
hard working. When it comes to your DNA and your your religion
and your marriage, and your and your everything. And there's
tequila with people, like tequila with people is being mindful of
them, being generous of them being courteous, caring about the little
things. Jack marriage is all little things That's my belief.
Marriage is all we may think it's big things because the contract
it's like a big thing. Protect this person for life. All that get
a home all that stuff.
But the actual reality of marriage is all the little things. You
thinking to text and you don't? That's a little pebble, right? You
could put a hearty emoji, but you don't. That's a little pebble,
right? But it amounts after a while, you know that the person
doesn't like your coffee mug left out
to very little thing, right? Can you just put it in the sink? To
very little thing, but all of marriage is very little things.
And I believe actually all of life is little things. Because if you
take that ethic and marriage, you take that ethic everywhere else,
and all these little things compile up to a big thing, not the
prophesy. centum said most people enter Jannah they don't enter the
Hellfire by major sense by little ones that they just didn't
consider to be a big deal. Because you waited on your skill. The big
deal is no Muslim should ever said it's not a big deal. Alright, as
soon as not a big deal or something minor haram. Thing
Sahira is not a big deal. Because it's about Allah. It's not about
you. This is about Allah. It's not about you. Allah decides not you
is rejecting Hadith, Cofer. Yeah, I believe there's an indica Quran
only I would not consider the Muslims. Yeah. Because you're you,
you by necessity negate many things related, known in religion
by necessity.
And it's probably
the greatest disrespect to the Prophet salallahu Salam is
perennialism and Quran ism perennialism. The perennial list
is also outside of Islam. When you're holding that the belief in
the Prophet despite having heard of him is not an obligation and
the person can still attain salvation without it. This is your
as you indicated the biggest. It's the first pillar, Leila and Allah,
Muhammad Rasool Allah, that's Shahad is the first pillar of
Islam.
Okay, it doesn't matter if you pray and fast after that
if someone has three hours of free time, how should they utilize it
fully to grow spiritually?
I would, I would
probably divide it up into 30 minute segments and make it
balanced.
Make it balanced across there are many different things you can do
and 630 minutes, six segments. And you should have something for your
deen something for your dunya
something of knowledge, something of relaxation, right? Little bit
of everything. He gave me three, three hours right now I sleep.
It's nonstop, you get to a point in life. It's literally nonstop.
There's never a moment of rest. But it's a NEMA. It is a NEMA
because that means there's no free time to have a bad thought. Like
there's no free time to have a depressing thought. There's no
free time to have a negative thought. There's no free time to
think about other people. Right? Most people who have dramas and
crisis, just get busy man, you got too much free time to think about
this. Oh, they went they didn't invite me. Oh, they went and they
did this. What's the precondition of that? The precondition of all
negative and sad thoughts is you have to have the time to have
those thoughts.
I would say most of my people in my generation, now they're in the
phase where there are little kids, there are teenagers, they're
elderly,
in their life right now, parents are old, teenage kids. That's a
whole different pitch. It's like a curveball. And then there are
little kids, which is not like a heavyweight. There's not there's
nothing new about it. It's just like a heavyweight. And then the
elderly is a fragile glass. What know that that's the marriage
itself is a fragile vessel. You got to take care of that too. And
the elderly is also like a very sensitive thing.
And then you have to work and you got to make money. So all whenever
I see all my friends, I see the same look in their face. It's like
bags under their eyes. All the people who are reaching that age
has bags under their eyes, right? They look at you nothing that ever
happened in the past between you the like matters anymore. If it
was bad, nothing matters. It's like we both went to the hellfire.
And we both been through *. So nothing of the past really
matters. Nothing of the future could really excite you anymore.
Which is weird.
So you just got to accept everything as an AMA from Allah
Tada. Everything is Annamma
someone's question repeatedly, opinion on moded parade. Sure. How
do we invite you to an event? No live parade where Jersey City?
Not sure but he's asking you to send it to booking so things
started that orgy
and also your opinion on?
No, I go.
I would go. What's wrong with that?
There's marches people do marches for all sorts of things. This is
the march for love of the Prophet Seisen. Right? People if you say
we're gonna march in protest of something, what about marching in
support of something? Just did not the prophesy said I'm marched with
Hamza on his right side or the Lozano almost on his right
Saturday Allah Allah and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam marched in between them, and the Muslims all behind them.
And there were only 40 Muslims at that time, say normal it was the
14th mill.
They marched I don't know if all of them or they were but they
marched
La ilaha illAllah Muhammad Rasul Allah all around MEK
this the first march in Islam I wish then we have a protest march
we just go there hospital loan amateur wikid You know, recite the
Quran recite the Quran Allah make dua give us give a speech about
you know harm and vote him and all that.
But has to have some of the Karela to
ladies and gentlemen
this brings an end to our week. Next week no holidays nothing
Monday we should be honest to Allah to Allah. Let's look at the
calendar. Monday we enter the last week of
my sufferer and we enter the URL on Saturday inshallah estimated
and that means Hey, can you help me arrange readings right after
let's say, love it for 25 minutes in the masjid
short reading from any book and a short the 20 minutes after every
month because I can't make it to the masjid every day. Okay.
All right. So that's next Saturday. Not this Saturday next
Saturday. All right, because I can walk out late brother and sisters
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