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A representative from a nonprofit organization called a potential customer to ask about their experience with mental health and depression. They are looking for people who have experienced mental health issues and want help. The organization is a hotline for mental health counseling programs and training programs for coaches. They discuss their mental health training programs and use of anonymized call centers, as well as their plans to roll out web therapy in the US and Canada.

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			This organization is called in the
sea. Hmm. And let's bring him on
		
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			from based in Canada. It's a
hotline if a child if a youth is
		
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			suicidal, and we ask Allah
offense, and I'm from that, but I
		
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			found this was an excellent
organization. It's a nonprofit
		
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			organization. Brother, I'll see
you. Does that clock in for coming
		
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			on?
		
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			Welcome to the live stream. Why
don't you tell us right away? What
		
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			is the organization? What was the
impetus to the organization to the
		
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			point of it all is CD, what we're
finding the majority of the calls
		
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			we get, especially with what's
going now what's going on now,
		
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			overseas in the Middle East, we
get a lot of calls, people are
		
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			sad, they're depressed, they're
dismayed. They don't know what to
		
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			do. And what we find is the best
thing for anybody is to be able to
		
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			talk to somebody. And
unfortunately, there's so much
		
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			stigma in our community around
mental health around depression,
		
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			as you stated, you know, it's,
it's it's frowned upon to even say
		
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			that you're feeling sad or
depressed. Why are you sad? Why
		
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			are you depressed, do do some
liquor, and you'll be okay.
		
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			Unfortunately, not everybody to
your point, has had that
		
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			background has had that training.
Not everybody has a sheriff or a
		
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			teacher that they can sit with and
talk to. So this helpline, which
		
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			is toll free, confidential, it's
non judgmental, is for people to
		
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			pick up the phone and call and you
know, it's not just young people.
		
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			We're getting calls from adults.
It's interesting, what one of the
		
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			directors told me, it was very, it
was a very sad and emotional
		
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			story. He said, he recalled
receiving a gift in the mail, it
		
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			was a handwritten letter with a
small desk be from somebody in
		
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			Palestine, who wrote them a letter
and said, I've been using your
		
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			service. And it's helped me to get
through some very trying times.
		
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			That was about two years ago, we
don't know where that person is,
		
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			or what's happened to them. So
this is the condition of the
		
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			community, and they just need
somebody to talk to you. So we've
		
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			set up this helpline, and, you
know, it's interesting. So we have
		
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			the helpline, we were getting
calls, we get about three 400
		
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			calls a month, and then the
pandemic happened. Everybody's at
		
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			home.
		
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			What do you think happened to the
number of calls we'll take? Over
		
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			the roof? No, the calls dropped?
Oh, really? Support? They got
		
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			their family support? No, it's
because your privacy, you're
		
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			sitting in the room with everybody
else? How are you going to pick up
		
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			the phone and call somebody and
say, Hey, I'm feeling depressed.
		
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			So we started, we started to text
line. And our text numbers went
		
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			through the roof.
		
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			You know, once or twice a month, I
get stories back where we've,
		
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			we've actually prevented a suicide
by text. So it's an important
		
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			service. And really, you know, I
just wanted the opportunity to
		
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			come on here. And just let your
audience know that
		
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			not everybody is as lucky as you
to have somebody like Dr. Shadi to
		
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			talk to, and bounce these ideas
off of them. If you or somebody
		
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			you know is struggling, it's
dealing with these problems. Pick
		
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			up the phone, call the CEO, it's
really simple. 1866 Naseeha, you
		
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			can call or you can text and and
secondly, because we are now
		
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			expanding into the US. We need
help. We need volunteers if you're
		
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			interested in helping. You know, I
know the New Jersey community, I
		
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			grew up in the New Jersey
community. I know people want to
		
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			roll up their sleeves and help.
This is this is really, really
		
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			important task. Class people need
our help. Yeah, what are the
		
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			qualifications of someone who
wants to help?
		
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			So we are starting to look for
people now who are in the field or
		
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			are studying in the field of
mental health or medicine to come
		
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			on as counselors. We do have a
training program that we put them
		
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			through all of our counselors, by
the way, see the our their peer
		
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			counsellors, so they're young
adults, answering the phone, and
		
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			then we have clinicians on staff.
In addition to counseling, though,
		
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			you know, we want to do programs
in New Jersey, like the one we did
		
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			at MCMC. You know, we want to
bring in guys like machmood and
		
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			other people to talk about their
struggles with mental health. And
		
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			for that we need boots on the
ground. Right? We need people in
		
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			New Jersey to say, hey, yeah, you
know, come to NBC. Let's run a
		
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			basketball camp. And then let's
have a discussion. We've started
		
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			working with the Molson center in
Chicago. We're gonna start working
		
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			with the Molson center in Chicago.
We want to do healing circles.
		
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			It's like a study circle, but you
come to the circle, bring your
		
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			parents and just have a discussion
in a safe space about what you're
		
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			going through what you're feeling.
And
		
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			so you receive the calls, do you
follow up and does that person
		
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			who connects with them the first
point of contact, call them back
		
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			every two days? Or is it just a
one way street? Yeah. So what we
		
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			do is that are the names are
anonymized on the call center.
		
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			What we don't want is callers that
are coming in to then become
		
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			dependent on somebody's an
individual as their support line.
		
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			So our counselors are trained
primarily to listen, and to
		
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			assess. And if it's seemed that
somebody is in a situation where
		
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			they may harm themselves or
others, then take the appropriate
		
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			action, we do allow repeat callers
to come in. But if we find the
		
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			calls are coming in, we do try to
point them or direct them to
		
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			another source for long term care.
Now in Canada, interestingly, we
		
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			started web therapy, we're
actually offering free web therapy
		
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			in Canada. And now in the US,
we're looking at the different
		
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			states to see how we can do that.
Because, you know, clinical
		
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			therapy is expensive, especially
if you don't have insurance. So
		
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			that is a program that we're
looking to roll out in the US in
		
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			the new year and shout loud, but
		
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			yeah, it's mostly it's just active
listening and making sure that the
		
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			person who's calling is safe, and
then directing them somewhere
		
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			where they can get help. Can
people text? Yeah, absolutely.
		
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			Absolutely. Almost almost half our
calls are coming through text 1866
		
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			nasiha. Is that for Canada only,
or the US? Its global. Its global.
		
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			That's we're getting people from
all over the world.
		
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			You don't cover addiction therapy
has nothing to do with this,
		
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			right? Someone called I'm
depressed because I'm an addict. I
		
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			can't stop doing this. Do you
cover that to? Anything? Anything?
		
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			Any type of? Yeah, so almost half
of our calls, I think 39% of our
		
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			calls that come in, have to deal
with some type of an addiction,
		
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			whether it's drugs, alcohol, and
unfortunately, the big one these
		
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			days is looking at things you're
not supposed to look at, on the
		
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			screens. That's a that's a big
one. And we do have, we have
		
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			people that are actually trying to
provide these types of therapies.
		
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			You have my good friend, Dr. Ray
hands ad on, I think last month or
		
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			a couple of months, you look like
his cousin.
		
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			I don't know who's the lucky one
in that example.
		
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			So Rehan actually is doing this
very same thing with individuals
		
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			like he, you know, he's bought a
place and he's providing this type
		
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			of personal therapy. So I think
there's enough to do that. Many,
		
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			many people get get can get
involved, and we will still need
		
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			more help in this area.