Shadee Elmasry – Etiquettes of Dua EP. 14 Ramadan 2024

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			We know that Allah subhana wa Tada
is the most generous, but that
		

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			does that mean that he gives
anything that you want as long as
		

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			the preconditions are met? And of
course the answer is no. The
		

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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said used to jubbly adegoke
		

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			Merle ameobi estimate l Katya
Tiara *, she means you will get
		

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			your answer as long as you don't
ask for what is sinful and
		

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			disobedient to Allah subhanaw
taala for cutting off kinship ties
		

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			now can you ask for something that
would have an indirect harm to
		

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			somebody else? You can't as long
as you're not intending the harm
		

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			like what? Oh Allah grant me this
job opening. Let us buy this
		

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			house. Yeah, but there are three
other bidders, right? So if Allah
		

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			says yes to you, that means he
says no to others. As long as your
		

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			intent is not to harm them then
this is not what we're talking
		

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			about. This is permitted for you
to do Oh Allah let me marry so and
		

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			so. Okay, but five other guys want
to marry her? So if Allah says yes
		

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			to you, he says no to four others.
That's okay. provided you're not
		

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			intending to harm somebody else.
So you not allowed to ask for
		

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			something haram to be made her
that for you. You're not allowed
		

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			to intentionally harm somebody and
you're not allowed to cut kinship
		

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			ties by saying Oh Allah, let me
never see him ever again. Now,
		

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			this is all under the banner of
Attica, fedewa, Allah subhanaw
		

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			taala says in the Quran foodora
bekam Tada Ron will goofier in a
		

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			row, lay your head when watch TV,
ask ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada with
		

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			Tabata and silently for Allah.
Allah does not love those who have
		

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			acted in dua. So yeah, today is
going beyond your limits. Just
		

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			because Allah is generous doesn't
mean there are no limits. There
		

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			are some guidelines, very simple
guidelines. We already mentioned.
		

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			Two of them, that you don't ask
for sinfulness and you don't ask
		

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			for cutting off kinship ties and
you don't try to harm somebody
		

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			with your dog. Also, not having
desperation is add to that. You're
		

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			asking Allah while you're like
comfortable while you have a false
		

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			sense of security, while you have
a type of arrogance even and a
		

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			type of independence. I'm just
doing this right. So that's the
		

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			first thing who FIA means. When
are we allowed to be allowed in
		

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			dua or silent? The answer is if
you're going to disrupt other
		

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			worshippers says EMA medic, then
you have to lower your voice,
		

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			because the Prophet did pass by
and a Sahabi press by a man alone
		

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			in the masjid at night, making
allow a out loud DUA and in this
		

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			case, the man the Sahaba said He's
showing off the Prophet sallallahu
		

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			alayhi wa sallam said no, he is
aware. He's desperate. He's
		

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			calling upon his Lord. So when do
we have to be silent when we're
		

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			disrupting the other worshippers?
Right and everyone is praying
		

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			sunnah and you're making dua out
loud, you're now at source of
		

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			disruption. So yeah, tada is
yelling at in a way that disrupts
		

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			others. Also the Sahaba asked the
Prophet site setting them is Allah
		

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			far, so that we call out to him?
Or is he near so that we can have
		

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			an intimate whispering dua, so
yelling in dua is not necessary in
		

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			the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa
salam, so a man yelling out loud
		

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			in his dua, then the prophesy set
him said Allah is not far from you
		

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			that you need to call
		

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			a yell in such a way. So yelling
is a branch also. That is muck it
		

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			up into ah, the last thing that is
cruel, and may even render a
		

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			person's jaw invalid is a type of
rhyming poetry in dua, in which
		

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			you're essentially showing off
your language skills, showing off
		

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			your prose showing off your
ability to talk. And the reason is
		

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			that dua is meant for humility,
dua is meant is not meant to show
		

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			off your skills, you have to show
some humility. So one or two
		

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			rhymes that is almost inevitable
in the Arabic language is
		

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			acceptable, but making your poetry
your poetry and your DUA, and
		

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			making it like a beautiful speech
is not what's meant what's meant
		

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