Shadee Elmasry – Etiquettes of Dua EP. 14 Ramadan 2024

Shadee Elmasry
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The segment discusses guidelines for a church's worshippers, including not asking for sinfulness and cutting off kinship ties. The speakers also mention guidelines for a church's worshippers, including not asking for sinfulness and not trying to harm others. The segment ends with a mention of YouTube and a YouTube channel for further information.
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We know that Allah subhana wa Tada is the most generous, but that

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does that mean that he gives anything that you want as long as

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the preconditions are met? And of course the answer is no. The

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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said used to jubbly adegoke

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Merle ameobi estimate l Katya Tiara *, she means you will get

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your answer as long as you don't ask for what is sinful and

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disobedient to Allah subhanaw taala for cutting off kinship ties

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now can you ask for something that would have an indirect harm to

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somebody else? You can't as long as you're not intending the harm

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like what? Oh Allah grant me this job opening. Let us buy this

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house. Yeah, but there are three other bidders, right? So if Allah

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says yes to you, that means he says no to others. As long as your

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intent is not to harm them then this is not what we're talking

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about. This is permitted for you to do Oh Allah let me marry so and

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so. Okay, but five other guys want to marry her? So if Allah says yes

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to you, he says no to four others. That's okay. provided you're not

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intending to harm somebody else. So you not allowed to ask for

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something haram to be made her that for you. You're not allowed

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to intentionally harm somebody and you're not allowed to cut kinship

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ties by saying Oh Allah, let me never see him ever again. Now,

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this is all under the banner of Attica, fedewa, Allah subhanaw

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taala says in the Quran foodora bekam Tada Ron will goofier in a

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row, lay your head when watch TV, ask ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada with

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Tabata and silently for Allah. Allah does not love those who have

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acted in dua. So yeah, today is going beyond your limits. Just

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because Allah is generous doesn't mean there are no limits. There

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are some guidelines, very simple guidelines. We already mentioned.

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Two of them, that you don't ask for sinfulness and you don't ask

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for cutting off kinship ties and you don't try to harm somebody

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with your dog. Also, not having desperation is add to that. You're

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asking Allah while you're like comfortable while you have a false

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sense of security, while you have a type of arrogance even and a

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type of independence. I'm just doing this right. So that's the

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first thing who FIA means. When are we allowed to be allowed in

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dua or silent? The answer is if you're going to disrupt other

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worshippers says EMA medic, then you have to lower your voice,

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because the Prophet did pass by and a Sahabi press by a man alone

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in the masjid at night, making allow a out loud DUA and in this

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case, the man the Sahaba said He's showing off the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam said no, he is aware. He's desperate. He's

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calling upon his Lord. So when do we have to be silent when we're

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disrupting the other worshippers? Right and everyone is praying

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sunnah and you're making dua out loud, you're now at source of

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disruption. So yeah, tada is yelling at in a way that disrupts

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others. Also the Sahaba asked the Prophet site setting them is Allah

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far, so that we call out to him? Or is he near so that we can have

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an intimate whispering dua, so yelling in dua is not necessary in

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the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa salam, so a man yelling out loud

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in his dua, then the prophesy set him said Allah is not far from you

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that you need to call

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a yell in such a way. So yelling is a branch also. That is muck it

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up into ah, the last thing that is cruel, and may even render a

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person's jaw invalid is a type of rhyming poetry in dua, in which

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you're essentially showing off your language skills, showing off

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your prose showing off your ability to talk. And the reason is

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that dua is meant for humility, dua is meant is not meant to show

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off your skills, you have to show some humility. So one or two

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rhymes that is almost inevitable in the Arabic language is

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acceptable, but making your poetry your poetry and your DUA, and

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making it like a beautiful speech is not what's meant what's meant

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