Shadee Elmasry – Episode 2 An Awkard Moment Glimpses

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The speakers discuss the importance of focusing on oneself and not running shoes, being quiet, and not speaking of the winner. They also talk about the prophets of Asana and how teenagers sell them to adults. Later, a woman is embarrassed by a man on a horse ride and gives her a gift for her fashion. She is thankful for the gift and sees the woman in person.

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			So we're not, we're not saying
that, do this do that we're not
		
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			saying, be like me, we're saying,
let's talk about the profits of a
		
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			summer. Let's all just kind of
focus on himself. So let's go into
		
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			the story.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu wasallam,
was coming to the Eve prayer.
		
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			And on his way to the youth
prayer, a lot of the men they had
		
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			the children's on their shoulders,
that they're holding their
		
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			children on the way there. And the
prophets have said, I've noticed a
		
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			child that was not coming. And he
was kind of crying, who's sad, he
		
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			was kind of sitting on the side of
the road, right? So the profit is
		
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			awesome. So beloved, sobre, la do
so
		
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			he stops what he's doing. And he
stops walking, and he goes over to
		
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			the child and he asked the child,
you know,
		
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			someone I go, you know, why are
you Why don't you come into the
		
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			parent. And the child, you know,
he's a young boy. He says, you
		
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			know, Sula, I'm not going because
my father died. My father died.
		
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			And I'm sad. I don't have a
father, to put me on the shoulder.
		
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			Look at all the other kids. They
have a dad that puts them on the
		
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			shoulder. But I don't have any
doubt to put me on the shoulder.
		
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			So I'm not going.
		
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			Right. And we all you know, dads,
we kind of know that stubborn
		
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			attitude our kids give us
sometimes, right? So the prophets
		
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			have some smiling, he imagined
right? He tells the child, I'm
		
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			gonna be like your father today.
And the child's like shot, right?
		
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			This is the message of Allah
citizen. So the process of picking
		
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			the child up and he puts him on
the shoulders. And he walks with a
		
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			child with a child on the
shoulder. So listen to the youth
		
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			prayer. And you can imagine how
happy that kid must have been,
		
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			right? Yes, his father passed away
but the Messenger of Allah Azza wa
		
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			sallam showed love and concern for
this little child, right? Southern
		
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			lighting. So
		
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			the prophets of salaam when he
would come back from a journey.
		
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			When you come back in Medina, to
the masjid, he started doing this
		
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			one practice where he would line
up all the kids. And then he would
		
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			go and stand on the other side.
And he would say, the first kid to
		
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			catch me wins, right? And all the
kids were they would come and rush
		
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			and they'd catch up. And it became
so so much of a habit that when
		
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			the Prophet SAW son would come, he
wouldn't even say anything. We
		
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			just look at the kids and smile,
it all line up. Imagine all these
		
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			boys and girls and all these
little kids lining up, right? And
		
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			the process of just looks at them,
and says go or whatever, right?
		
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			Bismillah and all the kids are
rushing, and the process. I was
		
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			like, come, come, come, come,
come, whoever catches me, whoever
		
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			catches me. And then the kids come
and
		
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			they jump on the provinces. Right?
And they jump on the paths of some
		
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			you can imagine they're smiling
and laughing and look at the way
		
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			the process of was met. In the
Masjid. Can you imagine like an
		
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			imam or Sheikh doing that these
days, like the Prophet was Saddam
		
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			was like that with kids. Right
with kids. Many times in our
		
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			machines these days were like,
tell the kids to be quiet, no
		
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			running shoes quiet. The process.
So he, the first thing he did when
		
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			he saw these kids was he lined
them up and they did a race. And
		
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			he didn't just say that. He said,
Whoever catches me, the first
		
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			person to catch me first, I'm
going to give them a gift.
		
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			Like we're so we had such an
awesome Prophet salallahu Salam,
		
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			right. Now, I'll end with this
story.
		
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			This is one of my favorite
stories. You know, we know how the
		
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			prophets of Psalm was with
children. We know how the prophets
		
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			are selling was with adults,
right? Very often, or very little
		
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			do we hear about how was the
prophets of Asana with teenagers?
		
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			And how was the messenger of alas
a little later send them with
		
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			teenage girls? Right? If I asked
you like how many how many of us
		
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			actually know a story of how the
process was with teenage girls. So
		
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			this is one of my favorite
stories. So the prophets of ascent
		
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			was coming back from a journey.
He's coming back on a beast,
		
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			right? Perhaps a horse or a camel.
		
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			And as he's coming, all these kids
are kind of lining up. They're
		
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			seeing him they're seeing
sometimes and stuff. And there's
		
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			like a girl, probably like a
preteen girl. She hasn't really
		
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			hit like, you know, puberty or
anything. She's kind of like a
		
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			young girl but almost there,
right? Like preteen. Maybe she's
		
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			11 years old. I don't know. She
she bumps her friend, right
		
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			elbows, her friend and she's like,
I dare you to ask the Messenger of
		
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			Allah listen, if you could ride
with him on his horse. And she's,
		
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			you know, typical teenage fashion,
right, like, okay.
		
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			So she just, you know, blurts out
like yeah, those tools Allah, can
		
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			I jump on the horse with you? And
the prophets. So as it's coming,
		
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			he hears her, and he comes over,
and he's smiling, right? He's in
		
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			he stops and he tells her so I'm
gonna go hop on. Great. And now
		
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			the girls like, oh my god, like
it's actually going down right?
		
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			She looks at her friend her
		
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			first looking at her like, it was
all bad, but you gotta go, no
		
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			process was actually you better
get on, right. So now this girl is
		
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			like, Oh my God, right? So she
goes and she gets on, she's kind
		
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			of nervous and embarrassed, she
can't believe this is going down.
		
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			So she gets on, and she's writing
right behind the message of Allah
		
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			says I'm not same on the same
beast, right? The same horse, or
		
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			whatever that was. So they're
going now she's pretty happy,
		
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			excited. That's pretty cool
opportunity. But
		
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			as she's going, she has to go up,
she gets the urge, like she's
		
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			gotta go, right? And you're not
like in a car, you know, you're
		
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			not like, you're behind the
Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam
		
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			on the same beasts. Right? Now,
the Prophet saw somebody as a
		
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			miracle he could see behind him
just as clearly as you could see
		
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			in front of him. So so so he goes,
and he noticed that this is going
		
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			on. And she has an accident, right
there. And he noticed that and it
		
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			wasn't just an accident. She
actually, that was her first
		
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			menstruation cycle. It just
occurred, like right there. Like
		
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			the most embarrassing moment ever.
So the profit zone, he just
		
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			reaches in and he gets a clock,
and he gives it to her. And he
		
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			says that, you know, don't worry,
it's all good. You know, he tells
		
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			her like, don't worry, you know,
here's the clock. And he explains
		
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			to her take this cloth and dip it
in salted water, and you can clean
		
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			yourself. Right? He doesn't make
it awkward or anything. Right? And
		
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			then look at this wisdom, right?
		
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			He knows this is an embarrassing
moment. So what does he do? He
		
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			turns it into the best moment. He
reaches in his pocket. And he
		
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			takes out jewelry. Right? And he
gives her this jewelry as a gift.
		
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			Right? As a gift. Imagine you made
just made the craziest mistake of
		
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			your life. And you're getting a
gift, right? So she gets this gift
		
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			and she's so happy. She can't
believe it. Right? She got this
		
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			gift of jewelry. And she said
that, you know, this was the best.
		
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			It was the most embarrassing
moment. But it turned into the
		
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			best moment of her entire life.
Right?
		
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			So the lady Wow. That's how he
was. That's how he was with kids
		
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			with children. He was
approachable, smiling. The Cyber
		
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			said. Whenever we looked at him,
he was smiling with us smiling,
		
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			right? He's when he was speaking
he was smiling. So a lot isn't. So
		
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			no, that Shala glimpses of the
Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam.
		
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			We hope you join us regularly
every week in sha Allah, just to
		
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			hear a little bit just a little
glimpse of the prophets of salaam
		
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			so we can increase our love. So
why it was me so much Exactly
		
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			Okay, and it's not gonna offend
Salam