Shadee Elmasry – Don’t Fear the Future NBF 318

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The transcript discusses various stories of sexual and drug abuse, including the importance of finding out who drove a train in Atlanta, Georgia, and the negative impact of celebrities on people's lives. The importance of acceptance of Islam, avoiding exhaustion of one's body, and hesitation in certain areas is emphasized. The use of home ownership, gifts, and privacy in the church's culture is emphasized, along with the importance of belief in Visepticualistic and "epticualistic" concepts. The segment also touches on the topic of "yeah," and the potential negative impact on one's reputation and reputation among others.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al
hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam
		
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			ala Rasulillah who other early he
was a human Well welcome everybody
		
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			to the Safina Saudi nothing but
facts live stream on our final
		
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			stream of the week because I'm out
Wednesday final stream of the week
		
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			we are back streaming in the month
of Ramadan, which is gonna be in
		
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			the late next week. Definitely be
Monday for sure.
		
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			Monday night or Monday daytime,
depending on the moon sightings.
		
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			And of course, all the massages
are gonna go by calculation and if
		
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			you're a local
		
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			and you don't know much about this
debate that insha Allah you just
		
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			you would be inshallah marveled.
However
		
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			we will be starting at 2pm
		
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			right 2pm On Ramadan hours. So
that gives us a little bit of a
		
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			breather in the in the morning
time since we have so hold on
		
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			usually, I don't know about you
guys, but it's very hard to
		
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			actually do so hold and feathered
and sleep again, I'm usually up
		
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			for a good two three hour block.
Right? And I feel like it let me
		
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			make use of this blessed time. And
then you know your rest of your
		
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			day, you know that you've done a
lot already and the rest of your
		
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			day. Let's take a look at this
news story.
		
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			The alleged gang * Wait a
second why is it alleged it?
		
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			It happens
		
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			the alleged get this is BBC the
alleged gang * of a tourists
		
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			with Brazilian Spanish dual
nationality in the eastern Indian
		
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			state of Jharkhand has led to
outrage the 28 year old woman and
		
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			her husband were on a motorbike
tour. They stopped for the night
		
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			in the DUNKEY district they have
they found nowhere else to go in
		
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			the world. Right. There's no other
place to visit except India.
		
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			No offense, but it's not a tourist
site. When was last time you see
		
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			India as a tourist site, right?
Police say that they have arrested
		
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			four men and are searching for
three more. All right, the
		
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			identities of the men who were
also accused of beating the
		
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			woman's partner have been a not
been disclosed yet the couple
		
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			traveled
		
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			to several parts of Asia on their
motorbikes before arriving in
		
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			India a few months ago. So these
are the types of people who have
		
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			like some, let's say 6000 pounds
or 6000 euros of disposable cash
		
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			and they go on these
		
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			backpacking tours right staying in
hostels and and they go until the
		
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			money runs out. Usually that's how
these Europeans do it. It's very
		
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			pretty popular and Americans go on
these things too. I had a friend
		
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			he did one of these
		
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			all of Asia and he did Thailand
and then and all these countries
		
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			until he runs out of money then he
goes back
		
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			so now they have the video of the
woman posted a video on their
		
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			Instagram page with as 234,000
followers so they're they're
		
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			popular people apparently, seven
men rates me she said they have
		
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			beaten us and robbed us, although
not many things were taken because
		
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			what they wanted was to * she
said in Spanish, adding that
		
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			demand beat them and threatened to
kill them in a separate video the
		
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			husband who is Spanish. He said My
mouth is destroyed but my partner
		
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			is worse than me. They have hit me
with helmets several times with a
		
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			stone on the head. Thank goodness
she was wearing a jacket and that
		
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			stops the blow a little bit. Okay,
the videos are been taken down
		
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			from their page. Okay. The couple
		
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			were speaking in a mixture of
English and Spanish so the
		
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			patrolling team could not
understand them initially, but
		
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			they appeared visibly injured. The
Brazilian embassy got involved
		
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			told the BBC that the woman and
her husband were victims of a
		
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			serious criminal attack. The
embassy said it had contacted the
		
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			woman. All right.
		
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			And local authorities.
		
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			Alright, so what else is there to
this story? So the women the woman
		
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			did she get raped or attempted
*?
		
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			It's not really clear. She said,
Oh, did she say they raped me?
		
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			Right?
		
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			And she said they raised me okay.
Yeah. So
		
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			we need to stand united violence
against women. Conversations
		
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			around * and sexual violence
became more prominent in India
		
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			after 2012 gang * and murder of
a young woman on a bus in Delhi.
		
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			So, uh, let's see, phone Benjamin
has this revived his love of
		
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			Hindus and pudgy it's because of
the story that would be I think
		
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			the expected result he's gonna get
himself some some
		
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			little comedy pieces. Right we
Alright, so let's move on to the
		
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			next segment. We have
		
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			record attendance here at the
studio today. What we have here we
		
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			got
		
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			1-234-567-8910 1112 1314 1516 1718 18
If I counted right
		
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			from Atlanta, and from
		
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			what state?
		
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			No, also Atlanta. You're also with
Atlanta crew. everyone hears
		
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			Atlanta. Oh, everyone here is from
Atlanta. So we're being rep.
		
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			Getting a lot of love today from
Atlanta, Georgia. All right.
		
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			These brothers, okay, so Masha
Allah, well done, you're all on
		
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			your spring break. And what school
do you go to?
		
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			University, University of Georgia,
and that's like, basically your
		
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			main state school that
		
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			like our version of Rutgers,
right? Just how many 1000s of
		
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			people are there?
		
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			40k Wow, we take those things we
might hear 40,000 people so
		
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			similar to records, which is like
45,000 people, right?
		
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			Records, really 45 50,000 people
10,000 admin and stuff. Right?
		
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			All right, what are we reading
today? We're gonna read a little
		
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			bit from shift sides. But Amazon
booties book, chapter three, the
		
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			second cause fear of the future.
And this is one of the fears he's
		
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			saying is very inappropriate for a
Muslim to have a Muslim should
		
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			should never have fears of the
future. And that's why we make a
		
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			dua every day and at wit that we
recite. We have a wooded and Latif
		
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			today's Wednesday, which we're
going to do it we're going to stop
		
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			for a dog for sure. We have and
what is it Latif and what is it
		
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			Latif which you can get at
		
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			you can get it at Savini
site.org/wooded, okay.
		
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			And what is it Latif is has in it
a dua that states that talks about
		
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			seeking refuge from him he will
has an L him. This fear for the
		
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			future. Hasn't is fear for the
past. Alright, or sadness about
		
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			the past. All right. sadness about
the past, fear of the future.
		
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			That's what LM me well, hasn't is
don't forget.
		
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			It hasn't.
		
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			Hasn't is different from it
hasn't.
		
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			There is that's difficulty hasn't
is difficulty. And they used to be
		
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			a name that the Arabs use to name
so a dividend will say his
		
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			grandfather was named hasn't met
difficult. So the prophets of
		
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			Allah when he was salam said, Mal
enter sad. Now I've changed the
		
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			name to set
		
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			and his grandfather said
		
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			I cannot change the name that
Allah Tala gave me that my father
		
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			gave me. So his loyalty of his
father Sanjay, Leah was still
		
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			inside of him, that he imagined
loyalty to my father overrides
		
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			loyalty to the prophets of Allah
when he was on him. So he refused.
		
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			So Satan will save said difficulty
of personality remained within our
		
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			family because of that.
		
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			Because that's what you chose over
the Prophet peace be upon him
		
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			renaming you said, which is easy,
easygoing. So he said that hasn't
		
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			harshness difficulty of
personality remains in our family
		
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			since then. Alright, so that's the
difference between Hosen what
		
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			hasn't?
		
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			Well, has an as well as sadness.
Alright, so as previously
		
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			mentioned, six items on booty
says, and this is a book that you
		
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			can buy from the foreword
publications. Now a books this is
		
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			our own men, check them out the
lock, who teaches our Arabic
		
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			course he runs our Arabic
department at ArcView. If you want
		
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			to learn Arabic, you go to ArcView
dot orgy, and schicke Matthew will
		
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			take care of you from there. He
cares a lot about his students.
		
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			That's why we got him we wanted
somebody who doesn't teach the
		
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			class and leave someone who cares
about the students follows up with
		
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			them and make sure that they learn
and that they're motivated all
		
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			times. So he wrote this be
translated this book. Many people
		
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			have depression, anxiety and
psychological unrest, because it
		
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			tried to control their future.
		
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			The person does not know anything
about the story of his existence.
		
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			It doesn't know about his
background, his origin. If you
		
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			know about your origin, you can
know about your president about
		
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			your future. If you know that your
origin was that you're created
		
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			intentionally, by name exactly who
you are and what you're going to
		
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			get in life. That means you have
someone taking care of you.
		
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			His existence and the meaning
behind this vast universe that he
		
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			inhabits. Many of these people
have turned a blind eye and closed
		
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			off their intention and their
intuition. To attempt to find an
		
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			answer to these vital questions.
I've been exposed and are still
		
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			being exposed to depression and
different types of anxieties and
		
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			psychological unrests
psychological problems.
		
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			They have psychological solutions,
right? Psychological problems can
		
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			breed physical ailments too. But
the solution is not a physical you
		
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			can
		
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			You can cancel out the physical
ailment with a medicine. But that
		
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			doesn't change the source of the
problem is up here. Okay? And it's
		
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			not up here, just because you're
born with it. It's up here because
		
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			of a belief that you've taken on.
All right. So he says here that
		
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			the first cause was discussed, and
there's no need to repeat it. And
		
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			now we're going to talk about the
next cause. example was given of
		
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			someone who goes to sleep at
night, in his own bed, and in his
		
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			own house. And when he wakes up,
he finds himself on a train taking
		
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			him somewhere taking him to some
unknown destination, he doesn't
		
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			know who transported him from his
house to this train, nor does he
		
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			know who was driving the train to
which destination, etc. And what
		
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			awaits him. Alright, clearly this
person has to be in a state of
		
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			severe anxiety.
		
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			And what a fool is the one who
doesn't investigate and and ask
		
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			this question of who put me here,
and what I get here. And hence, we
		
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			have to know that what a shaytaan
do, he makes you distracted from
		
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			this main question? That's the
main question that he asks you
		
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			that you have to ask. So there are
some main questions in life if you
		
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			don't ask this, your life will
never be complete. So how is it
		
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			like what kind of person doesn't
ask these questions? So shaytaan
		
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			will constantly busy with I need
to eat busy with make sure we get
		
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			food, busy with entertainment,
look out the window and be
		
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			entertained games and all these
things. And that's what they're
		
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			entertaining themselves with.
		
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			Are busying themselves with and
Abuja when the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa salam was,
		
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			was doing Dawa, Abu Lahab would go
around telling people don't listen
		
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			to him. He's bad. Right? So what
do you actually do? We heightened
		
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			their focus on the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on so
		
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			many people said, Well,
		
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			I got my own brain. I could think
for myself, and then they would
		
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			understand.
		
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			But Abuja has realized, you're
still driving everyone's focused
		
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			to the Prophet peace be upon him,
even if it's in the negative. So
		
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			he came up with another strategy.
All right. And he said, Now
		
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			distract him while ago fee. So
every time the prophet is
		
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			preaching, you bring the best
storytellers and poets and put it
		
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			right next to him.
		
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			So put on a good show next to the
prophets of Allah he was salam
		
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			and that worked
		
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			distraction the OMA the OMA of
Islam dome of regular Muslims,
		
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			that you probably would not have a
lot of
		
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			genuine, genuine regular
practicing wasn't praised. Goes to
		
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			the masjid when there's an
occasion right does the basics
		
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			will be there, the cup major
kabbah it'll probably won't be
		
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			there. But distraction is his
killer, right distraction,
		
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			constant distraction, and then
saga with Takara. So sofa with to
		
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			crawl like * is a
subject it's one moment of it can
		
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			be as severe but with Tigra
becomes a Kabira. As a as a habit,
		
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			regular routine Lea, to do a minor
sin, it mounts up to become a
		
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			major sin. And that's a big
problem. And that's why Toba is
		
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			needed at all times right away
immediately from the saga.
		
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			But nonetheless, a Muslim should
be immune from a lot of
		
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			psychological illnesses,
depressions and anxieties and
		
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			these are sicknesses of the heart.
If they know where they originated
		
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			from and that you originated from
a caring Lord, who's taking care
		
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			of your disk learn as I look at
his car, we don't ask you for it
		
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			is not known as Allah's providing
the disk.
		
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			But he provides it after you put
in the effort. So in ours in our
		
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			way, your body has to be tired
every day. But your heart is never
		
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			tired, your mind is never
troubled, your body has to be
		
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			exhausted. Okay? So when, if an
author says Don't exhaust
		
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			yourself, your risk is written He
means don't exhaust your mind,
		
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			worrying where the disk is going
to come from, but do exhaust your
		
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			body. That's the difference
between in our shittier that's how
		
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			we understand work. Your body
should be exhausted every day. If
		
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			your body's not exhausted as a man
you're doing something wrong if
		
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			you're a woman, you don't have to
be tired. And in fact, if you do
		
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			exhaust yourself, right for risk,
then it could be just out of
		
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			poverty. That's understandable and
we have some Sahabi yet they
		
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			ground like say to father, she was
grinding corn meal and making like
		
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			bread and corn meal every day. Two
she was tired every single day but
		
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			that's okay. But if it's there is
no need. Then there's there is no
		
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			need to be asking. Right. And
there's no other there's no need
		
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			to be working. There's no need to
be exhausting your
		
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			stuff what?
		
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			who fooled people who fooled women
into thinking that you you're
		
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			working is like a as a good thing
for you if you don't have to work.
		
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			Why would you work? Right now I do
understand though that the modern
		
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			way that we live
		
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			what else is there to do? Right?
You sit at home all day, back in
		
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			the day sitting at home you had
like, Oh look who it is. So haev
		
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			is here Allahu Akbar. Mandala and
with a little bit of a haircut,
		
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			masha Allah What a surprise. Good
What a surprise. Masha Allah
		
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			Allahu Akbar, one of our old
		
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			brothers from Egypt has come here.
So hey, masha Allah Allahu Akbar.
		
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			Great to see you luck but look at
this
		
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			big surprise here vertical ofI
well done man who brought you here
		
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			Ryan and heavy from from Newark
right now or from JFK? No, I was I
		
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			was at somebody's house last night
came late What do you take to
		
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			Egypt Iran and Egypt Air flight
No.
		
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			Good good. First flight.
		
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			Oh my gosh
		
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			Brian
		
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			Vic, Vic
		
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			if you guys could pan the camera
and see how packed the places
		
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			you can pan the camera if you
want.
		
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			Yeah, Masha, Allah, Allah these
guys came from for their spring
		
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			break. From their spring break.
Yeah. Spring break for these guys.
		
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			out of Atlanta.
		
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			Did you guys fly up here from
Newark?
		
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			You drove how long? Is it driving?
17 hours?
		
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			11 hours.
		
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			And goals? How are you? 11 hours?
I went to North Carolina on 17
		
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			hours.
		
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			11 to Philly.
		
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			17 hours to North Carolina. Yeah.
Yeah.
		
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			No, I was young. I went to one of
these minute camps.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			All right, let's, where did we
leave off? I said, who fooled
		
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			people thinking that working is
liberation, right. But
		
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			nonetheless, you got to say to
yourself, like what is it exactly
		
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			that is there to do? Right? Is sit
at home all day. So I do
		
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			understand that to a degree.
Right. But in any event, in any
		
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			event, where how do we even get to
that subject? Fear of it is so
		
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			when when we talk about the life
of a man and this is very
		
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			important, because a lot of guys,
there's a struggle. In today's
		
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			world. There's a struggle, right?
Women cannot find a guy who can
		
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			pull it together. Right? So so
this is something that's really
		
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			important guys have to be able to
pull it together. These days, you
		
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			don't always come from a wealthy
family that could take care of
		
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			everything. Right? You got to be
able to pull it together. And I'll
		
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			tell you don't play. Don't play
video games. Don't get involved in
		
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			video games. It's a big waste of
time. massive waste of time,
		
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			right? I know some people were
very successful play video games.
		
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			I'm just saying as a word of
advice, I think is epic waste of
		
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			time. Right?
		
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			If you're gonna get into some you
got to get in somewhere you can
		
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			sweat at least.
		
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			What do you think? Have you went
to video games?
		
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			Yeah, yeah, I think video games a
lot of guys who play video games,
		
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			I just don't get the the the hours
on end people play video games.
		
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			It's like, don't you feel like
you're wasting your life away. You
		
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			should either be learning
something at all times getting
		
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			some exercise in selling
something, something that'll
		
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			benefit you in the long haul, or
getting. I know a guy he's he got
		
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			a regular IT degree. But he this
guy has gotten every certification
		
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			there is in the book. He has over
10 certifications. Each
		
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			certification takes him like 18
months of studies. But he does
		
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			them all simultaneously. He must
have 10 certifications. He now
		
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			gets recruited. Every month. A new
bank wants him to secure their
		
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			accounts. He does like fraud or
cyber security. All right. Oh,
		
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			cybersecurity.
		
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			No, no, he.
		
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			Yeah. He's like, to ensure that
there's no fraud, right? The fraud
		
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			security department and
cybersecurity every month, a
		
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			different bank. And then he just
jumps up and up and up and up
		
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			because he spends his time getting
certifications. He doesn't spend
		
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			his time wasting time. So he knows
any anything that you ask him
		
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			about this field. He's got a
certification and he doesn't just
		
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			try to learn it on himself on his
own and blogs, which is what other
		
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			friends of mine do. They have a
lot
		
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			knowledge, but there's not no
piece of paper to verify that
		
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			knowledge this guy gets
certifications. Young people
		
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			should be either they should be
studying. They should be learning
		
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			something all day. They should be
getting physical exercise, working
		
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			selling something. But video games
you're just wasting your time.
		
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			Okay. He says here usually a
person in his youth will try to
		
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			avoid these vital questions on the
purpose of life. By resorting to
		
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			entertainment and chasing
amusements which take up all his
		
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			time. He lacks knowledge he tries
to stay far from these questions
		
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			of unease, right? The unease of
attempting to answer these
		
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			questions and the chains of life
that they will require most young
		
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			people excessively seek
entertainment and heedless
		
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			distraction do so in order to
forget these vital questions that
		
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			keep haunting them. Right vital
question on what is the purpose of
		
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			life? Why am I here? What am I
doing? These questions of life.
		
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			Imagine, however, when the phase
of youth ends, followed by the
		
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			phase of middle age now, your
desires, your strength, all of
		
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			these things basically begin to
recede. Most of your life is
		
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			behind you. But yet still a lot of
life is ahead of you. And that's
		
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			where depression comes into what
they call midlife crisis. A lot
		
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			has passed, but there's still a
lot ahead. Like you're not old
		
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			when you're 40. But you're old
relative to young people, like
		
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			it's inappropriate for you to hang
out with young people now, no one
		
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			expects that to happen. Okay, go
and hanging out with with youth in
		
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			the sense of going out where they
go out. Imagine they go into six
		
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			flags with 20 year olds, and
you're 40 it's not going to work.
		
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			Go ahead, doing all these things.
It doesn't, that it's not suitable
		
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			anymore going backpacking with
people and you're 40 and they're
		
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			all 20 just doesn't make sense.
It's not accepted. So
		
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			you're now supposed to be in a
certain position, that's mature,
		
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			but you got a lot of your life
ahead of you. So that's where a
		
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			lot of people's regrets come up.
And their doubts come up. And they
		
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			get very sad that their youth is
visibly leaving them now, and they
		
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			don't, but they still got the
perceptively they perceive that
		
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			they have a lot of life to live.
That's why they get depressed,
		
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			they getting anxious. I got more
for another 40 years to live, and
		
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			I don't got anything to show for
it. I'm not happy, blah, blah,
		
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			blah. That's where this depression
sets in to people what they call
		
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			the midlife crisis. But I'm also
gonna shake that off quick. If it
		
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			settles upon a Muslim and may
settle upon you. If you're not
		
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			busy. This stuff only settles on
you if you're not busy. If you're
		
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			busy, nothing this it won't
settle. Okay, it's like, like we
		
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			tried to latch something on to
something that's moving. You can
		
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			never latch it on. This this
sadness will never latch upon
		
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			someone who's busy. That's why
it's good to be busy Hanukkah,
		
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			they say, the buttock of removing
all the sadnesses. But when it
		
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			comes on a person, they gotta
remember, what am I seeking? The
		
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			pleasures of life, you're headed
towards the pleasures of life.
		
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			A Muslim is headed to all these
pleasures, the older you get every
		
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			second that ticks off the clock.
You're headed to those pleasures
		
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			of life, but permanent. You don't
have to work for it. It's perfect.
		
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			And it's free. That's what Africa
is permanent, perfect and free.
		
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			Here the pleasures of life are
temporary, imperfect and
		
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			expensive.
		
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			If it's haram, it's expensive.
It's hot out it's equally
		
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			expensive and maybe even more
expensive.
		
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			But this so the pleasures of this
life, you have to ask yourself, if
		
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			this is what Allah gave the
sinners on the kuffar. What then a
		
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			waste that will mean whenever you
see the pleasures of life that you
		
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			feel like you're missing out on,
say, oh my gosh, look how amazing
		
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			this is. And I'm missing out. It's
haram or I can't reach it. I can't
		
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			get it. You have to ask to tell
yourself if what the SATA Hain
		
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			said, which I read recently in the
book of ignorance, Josie, he said
		
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			one of the SATA he,
		
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			he they came upon a scene of food
and drinking and music and women.
		
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			They were walking and they saw
this,
		
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			the scene in front of them.
		
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			And he said don't ever feel loss
when you can't have these things
		
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			in this life. He said because of
this, if you're impressed with
		
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			what Allah gave kofod and sinners,
imagine what he's prepared for
		
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			believers and right and the
righteous, right. So for the
		
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			pleasures of life, we never miss
out on any of it. We're headed to
		
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			what is bigger and better and more
permanent. And with no work. The
		
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			pleasures of life only come with
work here. And this life, you have
		
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			to work to earn it and then it
goes away from you. It's not a
		
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			good deal at all. You have to work
so hard to get there. When you
		
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			finally get to where like some of
these people say when you go so
		
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			rich that the world is free. The
world is free. Anything that you
		
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			want is free. Anything possibly
that you want to get you want FC
		
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			and Ireland you get that. Okay,
whatever people want is free.
		
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			Right?
		
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			That's what that's what he lured
people with
		
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			Right, that was his trap. He Lord
people, I personally think he's a
		
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			Mossad agent. But in any event,
whatever you want, is free, that's
		
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			how rich they get. But this is
their, that's their paradise.
		
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			Right? And once they finally get
there, what happens? It
		
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			disappears. Even the pleasure of
every single pleasure immediately
		
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			disappears. It has a climax and it
disappears. And whether it's food
		
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			or * or anything else, but the
pleasures of Africa, they never
		
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			disappear. You only move from one
to the next to the next to the
		
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			next.
		
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			Yeah, he says, Now
		
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			this is followed. Youth is
followed by the stage of old age.
		
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			With its darknesses its
weaknesses, its misery, yet the
		
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			question then dominates and
conquers the mind. And in this
		
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			Allah to Allah is giving mercy to
the elderly. Okay? The mercy of
		
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			the elderly is that all the
sources of your distraction, we're
		
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			going to take them away. So you're
distracted by your beauty will
		
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			take it away, you're distracted by
your need to cover
		
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			responsibilities. Alright, your
kids are all grown up and gotten
		
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			no, you have no more
responsibilities or you're used to
		
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			be distracted by competition with
your peers are lost. Every one of
		
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			you is retired. Right? You moved
on from the competition. You're
		
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			distracted by your health. And
your health allows you to travel
		
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			and to do all these things and go
out and about and get busy. All
		
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			right, your health starts to wheat
to wane. Now, this is a mercy for
		
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			the elderly, because now all you
do is tackle these ideas, purpose
		
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			of life, what am I doing all these
things, and that's where a lot of
		
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			the Muslims in the Islamic world a
lot of people didn't just make
		
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			Toba in their 50s
		
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			all the distractions are gone.
		
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			Now that Simes of desires are
over, there is no escape. From
		
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			these questions, he sets the
questions on the purpose of life.
		
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			So you might notice that
depression dominates the middle
		
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			aged and the elderly in secular
materialistic societies in a
		
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			persistent and dangerous manner.
Because of the time of resorting
		
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			to heedless distraction and
Entertainment has passed. One of
		
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			the things that prophesy centum
said who was cursed by Allah
		
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			Sheikh was Zanni the sheikh who
still chases pleasure che doesn't
		
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			mean scholar here, it means here,
the elderly who still is chasing
		
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			desires
		
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			and from this when you look at
		
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			what the elderly do, and playing
checkers and bingo, that's how
		
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			that's not how most of them would
end their life. The last year from
		
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			what I saw that he didn't say, is
that this is the time where we put
		
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			out the rug and we never fold it
up again. Now they're preparing
		
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			for their effort but you can't do
that unless you did it as a as a
		
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			youth that's why learning a bad as
a youth moja had it enough's as a
		
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			youth is a prerequisite to doing
it while while older.
		
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			You can't teach someone something
new by the way here these are
		
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			usually good with
		
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			with T but we don't have to so you
don't have that much on that
		
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			speak. This is Micah
		
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			So when the I don't know I've
always heard this I guess grown up
		
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			or I guess when the solid thing or
people that they don't technically
		
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			have to be like from the audio or
whatnot but just people that you
		
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			know price in worship Allah
subhanaw taala usually when they
		
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			have about a year so this is like
talking about the side person like
		
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			not the shit they like they
usually about exactly a year till
		
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			their departure, they kind of have
a sign or they have an inclination
		
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			to know like, this is our last
year. That's true. Yeah, we talked
		
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			about that the other day that the
meaning of Tara did it didn't we
		
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			talk about this the other day, the
meaning of Tara did
		
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			in the Hadith, pudsey
		
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			of woman Tara debt to fee che in
Tara doody
		
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			is Allah says I there is no
hesitation that I have as much as
		
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			the hesitation of taking the soul
of my righteous believer.
		
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			So the ALMA then asked the
question, how does Allah hesitate?
		
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			Because hesitation implies fear
and uncertainty and uncertainty
		
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			implies knowledge a lack of
knowledge, right? So while the
		
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			what happened were frozen
		
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			audio and video no. Okay, the
video is frozen, but we'll keep
		
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			going. We'll keep talking. Yeah,
we'll keep talking. It's probably
		
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			there will be.
		
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			To sync or so the main audio is
working so
		
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			this is audio gone. Now the audio
		
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			back orders should be there.
		
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			So the Torah dude here cannot be
hesitation because hesitation is
		
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			based upon fear and uncertainty,
uncertainty is based upon lack of
		
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			knowledge. And fear is based on
lack of power. Right? So we can't
		
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			believe that.
		
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			So what is the torah did of ALLAH
SubhanA wa Tada the Torah did is
		
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			the literal
		
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			bringing something and then
pulling it back bringing it and
		
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			pulling it back until that person
adjusts
		
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			adjusts to this new reality and
what he brings him, he brings
		
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			them, maybe just unplug it and
replug it, I think one of these
		
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			Yeah, one of these cords probably
loose or some. So he brings death
		
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			to the person
		
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			through sickness,
		
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			what appears to be death,
		
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			and then the person who pulls it
back, then the person becomes
		
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			healthy again. But during that
sickness, a little seed comes in
		
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			his mind, whoa, am I ready to die?
Am I prepared for death.
		
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			And then sometime later, he may
attend the funeral of his front.
		
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			So he thinks about death again.
And sometime later,
		
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			he he gets sick again, or almost
as a car. So constantly Allah to
		
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			Allah sends him these signals that
soon he will die. Right? And he
		
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			starts to become acquainted with
the concepts not so nervous about
		
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			it, he starts preparing, maybe
paying off debt, so his family
		
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			don't get stuck with debts, maybe
making some investments, so his
		
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			family have something to
		
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			to inherit, moving on his
responsibilities in the community.
		
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			And so that is the meaning of Tara
did the literally going back and
		
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			forth, back and forth, back and
forth. So it's not out of
		
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			hesitation, but it's out of mercy
for his abdomen. We like
		
00:32:02 --> 00:32:05
			hesitation of picking up a cat for
example, I don't know if it's
		
00:32:05 --> 00:32:09
			going to scratch me and you
hesitate. Okay, out of fear and
		
00:32:09 --> 00:32:12
			uncertainty. Whereas the
hesitation of Allah Tada, the
		
00:32:12 --> 00:32:15
			terracotta of Allah is not
hesitation. It's going back and
		
00:32:15 --> 00:32:19
			forth to acclimate the willie to
the new reality. Now this is for
		
00:32:19 --> 00:32:24
			death. And for everything else,
everything that is a that is big.
		
00:32:24 --> 00:32:28
			Everything that's a big massive
change in the life of a righteous
		
00:32:28 --> 00:32:31
			person. And Allah Tala does tell
us,
		
00:32:32 --> 00:32:35
			he brings us the seed of the idea
into his mind.
		
00:32:36 --> 00:32:39
			Then it goes away. It goes back to
life as normal, but now there's a
		
00:32:39 --> 00:32:43
			seed in his mind. And it grows
little by little by little, then
		
00:32:43 --> 00:32:48
			there's another crossing of paths.
And many Towba of people is based
		
00:32:48 --> 00:32:52
			on this right person gives them a
tape back in the old days cassette
		
00:32:52 --> 00:32:57
			tape. Right? He puts it on the
shelf. Then he crosses paths with
		
00:32:57 --> 00:33:00
			that person in the masjid again
and sees that speaker who's on the
		
00:33:00 --> 00:33:02
			cassette tape, that is oh, let me
just give that a shot and listen
		
00:33:02 --> 00:33:06
			to it one time, though, all that
took two months right? To get him
		
00:33:06 --> 00:33:09
			to put it in the cassette player
and listen to it took two months,
		
00:33:09 --> 00:33:15
			right. Sometime later, you waits,
it puts it on again. And then he
		
00:33:15 --> 00:33:18
			starts listening. So by fourth 234
months, but then there's things
		
00:33:18 --> 00:33:22
			that have to happen before that,
right. I had a fallout with my
		
00:33:22 --> 00:33:27
			best friend. This happened that
happened. So to clear the his
		
00:33:27 --> 00:33:32
			mind. So this is how a lot to add.
Makes major changes in the life of
		
00:33:32 --> 00:33:33
			a person
		
00:33:35 --> 00:33:40
			without shocking them, and that's
the key. Right? So that turns out
		
00:33:40 --> 00:33:44
			dude, that is a tragedy of Allah
subhanho wa Taala to the point
		
00:33:44 --> 00:33:48
			that these Olia they don't know
the future in the same way that
		
00:33:48 --> 00:33:52
			you keep that one may imagine. But
Allah to Allah gives them signs,
		
00:33:52 --> 00:33:55
			they know the signs, they know
this is happening, right? And
		
00:33:55 --> 00:33:57
			that's exactly what
		
00:33:58 --> 00:34:04
			the companion how to inevitable.
Even Evie belta he saw all the
		
00:34:04 --> 00:34:08
			shot all the signs that the
conquest of Mecca was imminent.
		
00:34:09 --> 00:34:13
			And as a result of that, he went
and he told his family goto I will
		
00:34:13 --> 00:34:16
			Sophia and the prophets coming.
Right? And that was sinful,
		
00:34:17 --> 00:34:21
			because you can't spill the
secrets of the leader. Right? So
		
00:34:21 --> 00:34:24
			saying that God came and he
commanded the prophets I send them
		
00:34:25 --> 00:34:30
			to send Sahaba to get the letter
from the girl that he sent it
		
00:34:30 --> 00:34:32
			with. He sent the letter with a
girl
		
00:34:33 --> 00:34:35
			and say naughty and send the
Zubair one.
		
00:34:37 --> 00:34:41
			And send as she's, they said, We
know that you have the letter,
		
00:34:41 --> 00:34:46
			give it back. And she said, No, I
don't have anything. And Zubair
		
00:34:46 --> 00:34:49
			says, okay, she doesn't have
anything. So let's go say 90 said
		
00:34:49 --> 00:34:53
			the Prophet said she has a letter,
therefore she has a letter. So he
		
00:34:53 --> 00:34:55
			said, bring it forth before I
strip you.
		
00:34:56 --> 00:34:59
			Right and take it out of you by
force. So she brought it out.
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:04
			to her hair, it was tucked into
her hair. And they went back,
		
00:35:04 --> 00:35:08
			arrived at the masjid. And the
whole Gemma was there after the
		
00:35:08 --> 00:35:11
			prayer. He put it he gave it
straight to the prophets of Allah
		
00:35:11 --> 00:35:14
			who said that the Prophet read it.
And it was from halted whose
		
00:35:14 --> 00:35:20
			family was poor. And they were not
Quraysh there were immigrants in
		
00:35:20 --> 00:35:25
			Mecca, and they were poor. So the
Prophet read it, and he threw it.
		
00:35:27 --> 00:35:30
			And he said, What is this hot to
then hardship said, let me explain
		
00:35:30 --> 00:35:34
			myself. All my hot dogs said, Let
me cut the neck of this one
		
00:35:34 --> 00:35:34
			effort.
		
00:35:35 --> 00:35:37
			But the prophesy sentences let him
speak first.
		
00:35:39 --> 00:35:44
			And how it's absurd, my family's
poor, they're immigrants. And we
		
00:35:44 --> 00:35:48
			don't have any, and we have no
favor over these Mexicans. But if
		
00:35:48 --> 00:35:52
			my family is the first to spill
the news and to give the news
		
00:35:53 --> 00:35:58
			to the people to Abu Sufian, who
will always owe them a favor. And
		
00:35:58 --> 00:36:00
			they'll have a special spot my
family be taken care of.
		
00:36:01 --> 00:36:04
			So all my jobs said, Let me cut
his neck off. And the prophesy
		
00:36:04 --> 00:36:07
			said them said, leave him all
about how do you know that Allah
		
00:36:07 --> 00:36:11
			has not declared to the people of
better to do what you wish for I
		
00:36:11 --> 00:36:15
			forgiven all of you know, in other
words, that because of their
		
00:36:15 --> 00:36:18
			commitment on the battle of
budget, that they basically gave
		
00:36:18 --> 00:36:21
			their life away, because they were
300 who are not ready for war
		
00:36:22 --> 00:36:27
			versus 1000 soldiers who were
ready for war. And as a result of
		
00:36:27 --> 00:36:30
			that, nothing that comes from them
will have ill will. Alright,
		
00:36:30 --> 00:36:33
			there's another Hadith similar to
that, where the messenger
		
00:36:33 --> 00:36:35
			sallallahu alayhi wa salam
		
00:36:36 --> 00:36:39
			said about Satan with the man
after he gave such an amount of
		
00:36:39 --> 00:36:43
			gold that was considered to be
absurd, right? The amount of gold
		
00:36:43 --> 00:36:46
			that he gave, no one had ever seen
anyone donate that much gold, so
		
00:36:46 --> 00:36:49
			much so that it was in the lap of
the Prophet peace be upon him and
		
00:36:49 --> 00:36:53
			he would turn the gold like this
for people to see, like amounts of
		
00:36:53 --> 00:36:57
			gold, no one, no one parts with
this amount of gold. Except that
		
00:36:57 --> 00:37:00
			they they literally have no ego
anymore. They've sold their whole
		
00:37:00 --> 00:37:04
			heart to Allah subhana wa Tada. So
he said, Mel daughter, oh, man, my
		
00:37:04 --> 00:37:08
			fat about nothing off man does
will harm him after this day. It
		
00:37:08 --> 00:37:11
			doesn't mean everything he does is
correct. And he doesn't have to
		
00:37:11 --> 00:37:15
			follow the Sharia. No. But it
means even when he makes a mistake
		
00:37:15 --> 00:37:19
			in a judgment call, it will not
harm him, Allah will protect him
		
00:37:19 --> 00:37:22
			from his own mistakes, he will
forgive that mistake. And the
		
00:37:22 --> 00:37:24
			harms that come Allah protect him
from it
		
00:37:26 --> 00:37:27
			ever happened?
		
00:37:29 --> 00:37:31
			Sure, it could happen however.
		
00:37:35 --> 00:37:39
			It could happen. But we will never
know. It could happen that Allah
		
00:37:39 --> 00:37:43
			says because of this act that you
just did. Angels, everything,
		
00:37:43 --> 00:37:47
			don't write his sins anymore. But
it's a moot point. Because we will
		
00:37:47 --> 00:37:50
			never know that. And anyone who
claims to know that will be
		
00:37:52 --> 00:37:55
			will be unaccepted from him, like
how do you know the vibe in that
		
00:37:55 --> 00:37:58
			manner? And even if Allah told you
that, it doesn't make its use,
		
00:37:58 --> 00:38:02
			you're bound by the shittier.
Right. So you've seen other Digi
		
00:38:02 --> 00:38:06
			nanny, which one when he was
someone like the Shavonne came to
		
00:38:06 --> 00:38:09
			him and gave him the impression
that Oh, you're totally gonna have
		
00:38:09 --> 00:38:15
			to pay for. And I guess he knew it
was kind of like fluff. Yeah, due
		
00:38:15 --> 00:38:15
			to
		
00:38:17 --> 00:38:21
			him getting I get something that's
obligatory. There's a story that,
		
00:38:21 --> 00:38:22
			that
		
00:38:23 --> 00:38:27
			a man came to Abdulkadir J. Lani,
and said, The Tickity for the
		
00:38:27 --> 00:38:27
			Sharia
		
00:38:28 --> 00:38:29
			is lifted from you.
		
00:38:31 --> 00:38:32
			Alright, says Allah.
		
00:38:34 --> 00:38:38
			And he said, You're a liar.
Technical shit is not lifted from
		
00:38:38 --> 00:38:41
			anyone another version of that
story. A man came to him said, I'm
		
00:38:41 --> 00:38:47
			Allah. And the tech leaf, or I'm
an angel. I'm an angel, and the
		
00:38:47 --> 00:38:52
			tech leaf of the city does not
apply to you anymore. And he said,
		
00:38:52 --> 00:38:55
			You're a liar, because I saw you
walk in this way. And if an angel
		
00:38:55 --> 00:38:58
			comes, he comes straight down,
right? That's one of the versions
		
00:38:58 --> 00:39:03
			of that story. Right? And even
there's another story that on his
		
00:39:03 --> 00:39:07
			deathbed IBLEES a rose up. And he
said,
		
00:39:09 --> 00:39:12
			You You fell out, you came out of
my grasp, because of your
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:18
			knowledge. Right? And so that was
a two port trick one to make him
		
00:39:18 --> 00:39:22
			like, let his guard down, but the
other to give credit to himself.
		
00:39:23 --> 00:39:28
			And then he shouted out, he said,
by a lot, not by my knowledge.
		
00:39:28 --> 00:39:30
			Because if he if he said
		
00:39:31 --> 00:39:34
			if he accepted that in his heart,
he's basically praising himself,
		
00:39:35 --> 00:39:36
			right by my knowledge.
		
00:39:38 --> 00:39:41
			So now what does he say the
elderly then what do they do? They
		
00:39:41 --> 00:39:46
			resort to intoxication, they
resort to busying themselves with
		
00:39:46 --> 00:39:52
			more and more and more work and
busyness to avoid asking this
		
00:39:52 --> 00:39:52
			question.
		
00:39:55 --> 00:39:56
			And what are these major questions
Who Am I?
		
00:39:58 --> 00:39:59
			Why was I created and put in
		
00:40:00 --> 00:40:03
			This life, well, where am I
heading? What is my final
		
00:40:03 --> 00:40:06
			destination? What is that?
Ultimately? Where did I come from?
		
00:40:06 --> 00:40:07
			Where am I going?
		
00:40:09 --> 00:40:11
			And what happens in between?
That's the that's the only
		
00:40:11 --> 00:40:14
			question you have to worry about,
Where am I headed? Where do I come
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:15
			from? Where am I going?
		
00:40:17 --> 00:40:20
			And what's going on in what
happens in between?
		
00:40:21 --> 00:40:24
			The more a person thinks about
these questions, and I was talking
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:28
			recently to somebody about all the
plastic surgery that's going on,
		
00:40:29 --> 00:40:32
			right? And all of these some of
these plastic surgeries and we
		
00:40:32 --> 00:40:38
			actually are debating about the
upturn notes. And I said, I think
		
00:40:38 --> 00:40:42
			that happens when the plastic
surgery goes wrong. The nose turns
		
00:40:42 --> 00:40:45
			up, because they haven't figured
out how to make a nose inclined
		
00:40:45 --> 00:40:50
			down what they call the aquiline.
Nose. So the classic sign of
		
00:40:50 --> 00:40:53
			plastic surgery is the nose points
up Michael Jackson, like Michael
		
00:40:53 --> 00:40:56
			Jackson, for example. And that's
usually sign that I think it
		
00:40:56 --> 00:40:59
			didn't work. That's usually what
they said what I've heard at
		
00:40:59 --> 00:41:02
			least. And people do these plastic
surgeon that again, another one to
		
00:41:02 --> 00:41:05
			fix that. And other ones fix that.
And then it looks terrible. But
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:07
			they were telling me now that that
upturned nose is becoming
		
00:41:07 --> 00:41:09
			fashionable. People liked it
because they see it so much,
		
00:41:09 --> 00:41:10
			right.
		
00:41:12 --> 00:41:15
			But I said no, no, no, it's not
nice. It's not fashionable, the
		
00:41:15 --> 00:41:19
			upturned nose is not good. And
it's all about this plastic
		
00:41:19 --> 00:41:21
			surgery. And I said
		
00:41:22 --> 00:41:26
			this plastic surgery is nothing
other than the lack of any belief
		
00:41:27 --> 00:41:30
			about your origins and your
destinations. Your if you know
		
00:41:30 --> 00:41:34
			exactly that you're passing
through this world so quickly. And
		
00:41:34 --> 00:41:36
			that you have a creator he's
watching over you, you're gonna go
		
00:41:37 --> 00:41:42
			and live another existence. Good,
then you'd never do this, you'd
		
00:41:42 --> 00:41:45
			never go this route, because it's
becoming so cheap and so popular
		
00:41:45 --> 00:41:48
			right now. If for 5000 bucks and
good stuff and plastic surgery
		
00:41:48 --> 00:41:53
			used to cost $50,000. And it was
like more unpredictable back in
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:54
			the day.
		
00:41:55 --> 00:41:57
			And only the superstars in
Hollywood used to get plastic
		
00:41:57 --> 00:42:00
			surgery, but now everyone's
getting it and I'm telling you.
		
00:42:01 --> 00:42:04
			It's not that I'm happy that it's
not looking good. But I'm happy
		
00:42:04 --> 00:42:09
			that the Haram changing Allah's
creation is failing. Plastic
		
00:42:09 --> 00:42:13
			Surgery always makes the person
look the same. All these people,
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:16
			they all look the same, like
goldfish. They look like human
		
00:42:16 --> 00:42:21
			goldfish, right? And all the lip
jobs. They all look the same. You
		
00:42:21 --> 00:42:25
			could tell right away and it's not
pretty. Like you're not even
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:27
			achieving the goal. I'm happy
about that. Because when the Haram
		
00:42:27 --> 00:42:31
			is a failure, people won't do it.
Right, it will be a big problem.
		
00:42:31 --> 00:42:34
			If they ever get better, which
they could. They may perfect it
		
00:42:34 --> 00:42:39
			one day or two, it'll be perfect.
Number one, you can't tell. And
		
00:42:39 --> 00:42:43
			number two, it looks excellent.
It's very possible. But right now,
		
00:42:43 --> 00:42:45
			they all look like goldfish. I
told the story many times I was in
		
00:42:45 --> 00:42:50
			Turkey one time, and I was in
line. I was in line and there was
		
00:42:50 --> 00:42:56
			a woman ahead of me. Then I got to
after the ticketing, I went
		
00:42:56 --> 00:42:58
			through the luggage.
		
00:42:59 --> 00:43:02
			And there was the same woman ahead
of me. You know, you put your bags
		
00:43:02 --> 00:43:05
			in and take the shoes off.
Alright, the security check. Then
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:06
			I got
		
00:43:07 --> 00:43:11
			to the gate. The same woman was
next to me again. I was like what
		
00:43:11 --> 00:43:14
			has changed is a huge airport.
Right? Then it was it's not the
		
00:43:14 --> 00:43:18
			same woman, they all look the
same, right? It's not the same
		
00:43:18 --> 00:43:22
			woman at all. They all have the
same features. Now, if you've done
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:25
			three, four of these plastic
surgeries on your lips and on your
		
00:43:26 --> 00:43:29
			they do it on their lips, they do
it on what else do they do it
		
00:43:29 --> 00:43:34
			mainly it's the lips, right? He's
cheeks, nose, cheeks, nose, you
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:39
			start to look exactly identical to
the person next to you. And
		
00:43:39 --> 00:43:44
			unfortunately, many many people
start to get it's really I believe
		
00:43:44 --> 00:43:47
			a disease of the heart. They get
addicted to plastic surgery. They
		
00:43:47 --> 00:43:50
			can't stop tattoos almost. It's
almost like getting a tattoo. It's
		
00:43:50 --> 00:43:53
			they cannot stop. Right? They keep
going and keep going to keep
		
00:43:53 --> 00:43:58
			going. And when you see 34568
plastic surgeries in sometimes.
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:03
			It's so scary the result. It's
really scary. I mean, what
		
00:44:03 --> 00:44:06
			Madonna, for example, has done
what is Sylvester Stallone doing?
		
00:44:07 --> 00:44:10
			Right? This guy used to be one of
the biggest movie stars in the
		
00:44:10 --> 00:44:14
			80s. Rambo and that generation,
right? And then rocky after that,
		
00:44:14 --> 00:44:17
			like what is he doing? It looks
terrible. He's got his lips done,
		
00:44:17 --> 00:44:21
			his forehead face doesn't move
because of how much Botox is in
		
00:44:21 --> 00:44:25
			his face. So we have a concept
that we are leaving this head to
		
00:44:25 --> 00:44:29
			dunya we have Zoid we have to
fight against this stuff in
		
00:44:29 --> 00:44:33
			ourselves because it's very
reasonable to understand. A person
		
00:44:33 --> 00:44:37
			may not have the Imen to restrain
this stuff, but you have to when
		
00:44:37 --> 00:44:41
			are you allowed to do this stuff
you are allowed to do plastic
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:45
			surgeries when you lost something
that in general humans are created
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:51
			with such that you your nose burnt
off. Go do plastic surgery. Now
		
00:44:51 --> 00:44:55
			what if the plastic surgeon says I
can't build your old notes? What
		
00:44:55 --> 00:44:58
			I'm going to build is a perfect
nose. You say yes build the
		
00:44:58 --> 00:44:59
			perfect notes that's permissible
for him.
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:04
			A Gift Allah gave you, right? Or a
person, for example, is born and
		
00:45:04 --> 00:45:08
			they have a birth defect on their
cheek. Are humans generally born
		
00:45:08 --> 00:45:10
			with that? No, it's not like a
body part that humans are born
		
00:45:10 --> 00:45:12
			with. You're allowed to remove
that.
		
00:45:13 --> 00:45:18
			Human gets their teeth broken. Now
that's obvious when everyone gets
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:22
			braces, that's not changing the
creation of Allah. It's correcting
		
00:45:23 --> 00:45:26
			what humans have done to
ourselves. Why do we get bad
		
00:45:26 --> 00:45:30
			teeth? It's because of bad food,
the sugars. That's why people have
		
00:45:30 --> 00:45:33
			bad teeth. People don't have bad
teeth for no reason you're not
		
00:45:33 --> 00:45:36
			born with bad teeth. Go to look at
the picture of the Aboriginal.
		
00:45:37 --> 00:45:40
			They got perfect eyesight, perfect
teeth and their hairs is perfect.
		
00:45:40 --> 00:45:44
			The Aboriginals who live in
nature, rarely do they have these
		
00:45:44 --> 00:45:48
			things happen. It's when we import
things into our, into our
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:52
			ecosystems into our bodies. We
bring these things that don't
		
00:45:52 --> 00:45:55
			belong. They start ruining our
teeth. You go for example, Moto
		
00:45:55 --> 00:45:59
			tenya, everyone's teeth are messed
up. Because sugar came but dental
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:05
			work didn't. Right. Colgate never
made it big over there. Right? So
		
00:46:05 --> 00:46:08
			if you go to Mauritania, they
drink ridiculous amounts of white,
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:12
			unrefined sugar in their green tea
from birth. And that's the only
		
00:46:12 --> 00:46:15
			pleasure of life that they have.
Or it used to be, at least in the
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:18
			old days. And so you look at the
the teeth of an older, more
		
00:46:18 --> 00:46:19
			genuine men.
		
00:46:20 --> 00:46:24
			And they're all usually they're
all, you know, yellow and out of
		
00:46:24 --> 00:46:26
			place and everything. That's
because the unrefined sugars.
		
00:46:27 --> 00:46:29
			Alright, how about eyesight? Well,
we're correcting that all the
		
00:46:29 --> 00:46:33
			time. And no one forbade LASIK.
It's a correction of what was
		
00:46:33 --> 00:46:37
			normally there. So when you make
that correction, if you were to
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:42
			improve it, that's acceptable. So
how do you feel about like men
		
00:46:42 --> 00:46:47
			getting like hair tattoos, not the
tattoo, but the the Zara, or
		
00:46:47 --> 00:46:51
			implanting their old hairs or
their original hairs from a
		
00:46:51 --> 00:46:55
			different body part is accepted.
It's permitted by shut in by the
		
00:46:55 --> 00:46:59
			show. The high nebula definitely
permitted it, the Medicare don't
		
00:46:59 --> 00:47:03
			permit it, but that's on its upon
FTF. So they basically pluck a
		
00:47:03 --> 00:47:06
			piece of hair and put it somewhere
else in your head. They the owner
		
00:47:06 --> 00:47:07
			might have allowed that.
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:11
			Right. But they didn't allow the
tattoos. By the way, I've seen
		
00:47:11 --> 00:47:13
			someone who do the tattoos, it
doesn't look like what the
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:16
			commercial looks like. It's just
like a green blob. That's very
		
00:47:16 --> 00:47:19
			clearly distinct from the rest of
his head. Yeah, I've seen it, it
		
00:47:19 --> 00:47:23
			doesn't work. Right? It doesn't
look, the same day does look, it
		
00:47:23 --> 00:47:25
			doesn't mean they're not gonna get
it in the future. You know that
		
00:47:25 --> 00:47:30
			green is the reason tattoos turn
green is that's the body trying to
		
00:47:31 --> 00:47:35
			fight this ink. It's trying to
push the ink out. And then there's
		
00:47:35 --> 00:47:39
			red, therefore the green rises to
the top. Okay. So
		
00:47:40 --> 00:47:46
			if they had 1%, of contemplation
about this head to dunya and
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:48
			akhira, it should give us the
suburb and I'm not saying it's
		
00:47:48 --> 00:47:51
			easy. It'd be very difficult in
the beginning for someone to
		
00:47:51 --> 00:47:55
			resist these temptations, I bet
you there's going to be plastic
		
00:47:55 --> 00:48:00
			surgery now clinics. In every
strip, every town will have one
		
00:48:00 --> 00:48:04
			like just walking up probably
already is the case. But it'll
		
00:48:04 --> 00:48:07
			become more and more and more
affordable as time goes on.
		
00:48:09 --> 00:48:14
			But we have to resist and
sometimes the pain of avoiding a
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:16
			prohibition.
		
00:48:17 --> 00:48:21
			That's part of the package. Right?
The pain of avoiding prohibition.
		
00:48:21 --> 00:48:26
			That's the subject that's
necessary. And the but that pain
		
00:48:26 --> 00:48:29
			will go away once your Eman
overrides it. And also the pain
		
00:48:29 --> 00:48:34
			goes away. When you stop hanging
out with such people, don't hang
		
00:48:34 --> 00:48:36
			out with them. Don't look at their
Instagram pages don't look at
		
00:48:36 --> 00:48:40
			celebrities and their perfect
lives. Because Allah subhanaw
		
00:48:40 --> 00:48:46
			taala tells us to learn and would
deny naked lmm Madonna be as a
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:50
			minimum of hydrogenic don't extend
your eye to the dunya that we're
		
00:48:50 --> 00:48:54
			pleasing them with. He even said
his pleasure for them. Madonna be
		
00:48:54 --> 00:48:58
			there are in complete happiness
and enjoyment. But don't look at
		
00:48:58 --> 00:49:01
			it. It's a mirage. It's gonna go
away soon. Right? It's gonna go
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:06
			away very quickly, just what you
should look at. And, and it's not
		
00:49:06 --> 00:49:08
			relevant to you guys right now.
Because most of you are in your
		
00:49:08 --> 00:49:13
			20s you should look at when you
get a little older, the superstars
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:16
			and the celebrities of your youth
when you're 40 Look at them.
		
00:49:18 --> 00:49:19
			Right? It's not impressive.
		
00:49:21 --> 00:49:23
			The comparison isn't good.
		
00:49:24 --> 00:49:29
			The comparison is not good. Right?
You get to see that, you know,
		
00:49:29 --> 00:49:32
			their lives or me some of them
their lives are terrible. If they
		
00:49:32 --> 00:49:35
			mismanaged their money and they
mismanaged their emotions and all
		
00:49:35 --> 00:49:37
			that they're living in misery.
		
00:49:38 --> 00:49:42
			Even there was a superstar from
the 80s he mismanaged his money.
		
00:49:42 --> 00:49:47
			He had a show some very successful
show in the 80s and he's now a
		
00:49:47 --> 00:49:47
			Mall Cop.
		
00:49:50 --> 00:49:51
			You know how I mean, like,
		
00:49:53 --> 00:49:56
			from growing a Hollywood star to a
mock up.
		
00:49:57 --> 00:50:00
			That's rough man. That's really
rough. Lawrence Taylor.
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:04
			is basically broke. Lives in crack
houses. Yeah. Lawrence Taylor
		
00:50:05 --> 00:50:10
			dimestore LT look up Lt. This guy
was like they had to rescue his
		
00:50:10 --> 00:50:12
			friends out to rescue him from
living in crack houses.
		
00:50:14 --> 00:50:17
			MC Hammer, of course, we know he's
broke. He lost all his money on
		
00:50:17 --> 00:50:19
			one party. Right?
		
00:50:21 --> 00:50:24
			One song, one party, one
bankruptcy.
		
00:50:25 --> 00:50:27
			I don't know what he's doing these
days.
		
00:50:28 --> 00:50:32
			Okay, a lot of the, you know,
female celebrities too.
		
00:50:34 --> 00:50:37
			They have to go, they're in
denial. And they keep going into
		
00:50:37 --> 00:50:40
			plastic surgery. So may Allah
protects us from these temptations
		
00:50:40 --> 00:50:43
			because we have to recognize they
are temptations. Not everyone is
		
00:50:43 --> 00:50:47
			of such strong Imen that they
could wave this stuff away. And
		
00:50:47 --> 00:50:49
			Allah contest any one of our
hearts at any given moment, you
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:52
			have to keep that in mind. He can
test your heart if you belittle
		
00:50:52 --> 00:50:56
			another Muslim. And you belittle
the tribulations that Allah put on
		
00:50:56 --> 00:50:58
			the earth, you never know what's
going to happen to you.
		
00:51:00 --> 00:51:04
			Mike Tyson is basically appearing
in everything, because he's got
		
00:51:04 --> 00:51:07
			bills to pay because he got
scammed by Don King.
		
00:51:08 --> 00:51:13
			I Don King made him sign pieces
contracts can't sign all these
		
00:51:13 --> 00:51:17
			contracts. And there'll be like
two or three words left over on
		
00:51:17 --> 00:51:22
			the final page. So he'd signed
that. As if the document just
		
00:51:22 --> 00:51:27
			didn't fit on, let's say 12 pages
be 12 pages and two lines, right
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:30
			of text. Then all the way at the
bottom of the page will be the
		
00:51:30 --> 00:51:34
			signature Don can go feed that
back into the printer and put more
		
00:51:34 --> 00:51:38
			text more clauses and the
signatures there. How do you prove
		
00:51:38 --> 00:51:42
			that right? They know he did it
but you can't prove it. Don King
		
00:51:42 --> 00:51:44
			That's why they say he why he
wears his hair up like that to
		
00:51:44 --> 00:51:49
			hide his horns. You guys know who
Don King is? He's basically the
		
00:51:49 --> 00:51:51
			first like epic promoter
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:56
			in boxing, and he used to wear his
hair really high up, right?
		
00:51:57 --> 00:52:01
			And they say that he wore his hair
up there like that to hide his
		
00:52:01 --> 00:52:05
			horns, because he was so devilish
in his scheming and Mike Tyson is
		
00:52:05 --> 00:52:09
			bankrupt because of him. That's
why he's got to do podcasts comedy
		
00:52:09 --> 00:52:11
			shows. He's got to appear in
everything got
		
00:52:14 --> 00:52:17
			recently you saw him is just part
of
		
00:52:20 --> 00:52:25
			he's gonna be in a movie soon. I
don't know what movie was. But the
		
00:52:25 --> 00:52:26
			director.
		
00:52:29 --> 00:52:30
			The director was some Jewish guy.
		
00:52:31 --> 00:52:36
			And Mike Tyson movies got to punch
somebody. Right? Obviously, right.
		
00:52:36 --> 00:52:40
			So the director says cut and then
he say
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:46
			I want you to punch like this.
Mike Tyson says, look at this
		
00:52:46 --> 00:52:48
			Jewish chess club champion told me
how to punch
		
00:52:55 --> 00:52:57
			I guess it was funnier when he
said it.
		
00:52:59 --> 00:53:03
			Alright, he continues he says you
must be certain in Allah's words,
		
00:53:03 --> 00:53:07
			you have to have absolute
certainty and Allah's words. Yeah,
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:12
			you will insane Oh human being you
are you are in hardship. Until you
		
00:53:12 --> 00:53:16
			meet Allah. Everything is
hardship. Even seeking pleasure is
		
00:53:16 --> 00:53:18
			difficult. And then that pleasure
goes away right away.
		
00:53:21 --> 00:53:24
			Whoever is given his hand, his
book on his right and his right
		
00:53:24 --> 00:53:28
			hand, they will find himself with
an easy Reckoning
		
00:53:29 --> 00:53:33
			and return to his family full of
happiness. And whoever is given
		
00:53:33 --> 00:53:37
			his book in the left hand, right
he will be calling out what a
		
00:53:37 --> 00:53:39
			calamity what misery and then he
will burn.
		
00:53:43 --> 00:53:45
			Well lay sullen insanity in lemma
SAP
		
00:53:46 --> 00:53:52
			risk is in Allah's hands, but we
only got it we will get it if we
		
00:53:52 --> 00:53:53
			put in the effort.
		
00:53:54 --> 00:53:57
			Okay, so when you're young it's
all theory but then it becomes
		
00:53:57 --> 00:53:59
			time to practice it to act upon
it.
		
00:54:03 --> 00:54:08
			Can you find someone who truly
believes who was then subjected to
		
00:54:08 --> 00:54:12
			the anxiety and psychological
unrest and the depression that you
		
00:54:12 --> 00:54:16
			find amongst the sake secular
atheists? He says it's impossible
		
00:54:16 --> 00:54:17
			not happen.
		
00:54:20 --> 00:54:24
			Poor Alma is working his tail off,
puts in a new camera and it's not
		
00:54:24 --> 00:54:25
			the cameras OBS
		
00:54:27 --> 00:54:31
			was the computer was frozen
shadier,
		
00:54:32 --> 00:54:33
			shadier
		
00:54:34 --> 00:54:35
			okay
		
00:54:40 --> 00:54:44
			the other reason for people
feeling anxiety is because when
		
00:54:44 --> 00:54:47
			they're their youth and their
happiness goes away. They believe
		
00:54:48 --> 00:54:51
			that the pleasures of youth the
pleasures of
		
00:54:53 --> 00:54:56
			what they were experiencing is the
only time they could ever be
		
00:54:56 --> 00:54:56
			happy.
		
00:54:57 --> 00:55:00
			They don't have any not believe
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:04
			If that actual true happiness
comes after death, therefore what
		
00:55:04 --> 00:55:08
			is prerequisite of all that is
belief in life after death. And
		
00:55:08 --> 00:55:12
			Allah tells us if I inevitable,
oh, well, we did we find it
		
00:55:12 --> 00:55:17
			difficult to do the creation the
first time. Right? We see the
		
00:55:17 --> 00:55:21
			creation here. If, if Allah did
that, why is it so difficult to
		
00:55:21 --> 00:55:24
			believe he did it again, he can do
it again. Alright, if a guy if a
		
00:55:24 --> 00:55:29
			businessman comes up to you says I
have a investment for you, you
		
00:55:29 --> 00:55:35
			give me 50 bucks, I'll come back.
And I'll make 200 bucks out of
		
00:55:35 --> 00:55:38
			that, you get 100 bucks, I get 100
bucks.
		
00:55:39 --> 00:55:42
			And then he comes out and he pulls
the money out. And he shows you
		
00:55:42 --> 00:55:44
			this is the money I earned.
		
00:55:45 --> 00:55:48
			So if he did it once, why not
believe he could do it again?
		
00:55:49 --> 00:55:52
			Simple logic. And that's the logic
of why I should believe in the
		
00:55:52 --> 00:55:56
			ACA. If Allah did it once Whoa,
why can we believe he do it again.
		
00:55:57 --> 00:56:01
			So belief in Africa is so
critical, so important, such an
		
00:56:02 --> 00:56:06
			essential element and that's why
the last portion of the Quran
		
00:56:06 --> 00:56:10
			every single sutra matches the
Accra almost you can say again,
		
00:56:10 --> 00:56:13
			imagine maybe suited to the class
as I mentioned Africa,
		
00:56:14 --> 00:56:17
			but suited to Viet SUTA Taha
		
00:56:18 --> 00:56:26
			sorry Sudha to cough Aloka
ellenson LTM Alamo Cal Hadid,
		
00:56:26 --> 00:56:29
			everything. It's all Africa,
Africa, Africa, Africa.
		
00:56:31 --> 00:56:34
			Everything is about Accra yet
		
00:56:40 --> 00:56:43
			nothing is a source a better
source of relief than the
		
00:56:43 --> 00:56:44
			contemplation of Africa
		
00:56:57 --> 00:57:01
			Alright, that's good enough for
this. Do we have another segment
		
00:57:01 --> 00:57:03
			we have to do our dot for for us?
		
00:57:05 --> 00:57:08
			grt what do we have from GRT?
Segment Number
		
00:57:10 --> 00:57:11
			Three of our program
		
00:57:15 --> 00:57:18
			we do the job first. Okay, let's
do the job for segment number
		
00:57:18 --> 00:57:21
			three. A Chaudry says it's blurry
and laggy
		
00:57:23 --> 00:57:25
			because there's a new camera
		
00:57:28 --> 00:57:29
			Yep.
		
00:57:32 --> 00:57:35
			Sometimes we have to we have to
have some
		
00:57:36 --> 00:57:40
			some lapses like this, some
imperfections just so that the
		
00:57:40 --> 00:57:44
			audience knows that this is an
authentic Muslim operation is not
		
00:57:44 --> 00:57:49
			funded by the feds, right? Not
funded by some government. Right?
		
00:57:50 --> 00:57:52
			They gotta know. Otherwise, people
get nervous when they see it's too
		
00:57:52 --> 00:57:55
			clean too perfect. They get
nervous. Good.
		
00:57:58 --> 00:58:02
			Ryan Kibeho. Now both lines are
here, whereas the other line
		
00:58:03 --> 00:58:04
			is here.
		
00:58:06 --> 00:58:10
			Are the children of Israel
promised paradise if they fulfill
		
00:58:10 --> 00:58:13
			their covenant? Yes, they are. The
Covenant means believing in IUCN
		
00:58:13 --> 00:58:16
			believing in Muhammad Sallallahu
it was said no. That's part of the
		
00:58:16 --> 00:58:17
			covenant.
		
00:58:18 --> 00:58:24
			Right? fulfill the covenant, full
belief in the Prophet ASA. Full
		
00:58:24 --> 00:58:27
			belief in the Prophet Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then
		
00:58:27 --> 00:58:31
			you have fulfilled you fulfilled
your covenant. But you reject
		
00:58:31 --> 00:58:36
			those messengers, let alone say
wicked things about them, then
		
00:58:36 --> 00:58:36
			call us
		
00:58:49 --> 00:58:50
			who
		
00:58:52 --> 00:58:58
			are we barely we just made it to
$90,000 on British pounds. So
		
00:58:58 --> 00:59:02
			today we gotta get to 91 That's
easy. That's only going to take 40
		
00:59:02 --> 00:59:08
			to 42 pounds to 91 show up for the
end of the episode we surpassed
		
00:59:08 --> 00:59:12
			that bit in the show law as you
guys know, we partner with Dr. T.
		
00:59:12 --> 00:59:13
			He doesn't know the drill.
		
00:59:14 --> 00:59:18
			So far, I think yeah, 90,009 50
pounds. That's like 120k dollars I
		
00:59:18 --> 00:59:22
			think which is very good. I did a
good job. Very good. We got to hit
		
00:59:22 --> 00:59:26
			that 100k pounds. So I'll send the
link in the chat inshallah.
		
00:59:27 --> 00:59:29
			Donate Empty your pockets.
		
00:59:30 --> 00:59:32
			And all the good stuff. We need at
least.
		
00:59:33 --> 00:59:38
			What's the math on that? 42
British pounds to pass to get to
		
00:59:38 --> 00:59:44
			91,041 41 because of that 80 cents
was donated pennies.
		
00:59:47 --> 00:59:50
			Not so good. You know that the
pennies could be anything you if
		
00:59:50 --> 00:59:54
			they translated dollars if they
donated dollars and it translates.
		
00:59:54 --> 00:59:57
			Anytime you go on a British
bookstore website like that. And
		
00:59:57 --> 01:00:00
			you see the numbers are odd. It's
because of the trends
		
01:00:00 --> 01:00:01
			isolation of the
		
01:00:03 --> 01:00:06
			windows are there any pictures?
Unfortunately no we don't have any
		
01:00:06 --> 01:00:07
			new pictures but
		
01:00:09 --> 01:00:12
			next time I'll see if we have an
update from our brothers and it
		
01:00:12 --> 01:00:14
			was from Dr. T. Charla
		
01:00:15 --> 01:00:17
			all right let's do that
		
01:00:19 --> 01:00:20
			let's do that Wednesday da right
		
01:00:23 --> 01:00:25
			all the cameras are messed up now
		
01:00:26 --> 01:00:26
			let's
		
01:00:27 --> 01:00:29
			see if we can get this fixed
		
01:00:30 --> 01:00:34
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01:00:34 --> 01:00:37
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01:01:20 --> 01:01:25
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			Lin or hamara Haiming
		
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			we suffered dog for a few Minutes?
		
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			Hola Hola Erica see Mohamed and
voila. He was soft me you
		
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			alright segment numero, whatever
it is three or four.
		
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			Segment Number four.
		
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			Let's now go to the q&a section of
our program today.
		
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			All right.
		
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			What's the Hanafi ruling on
drawing?
		
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			Living beings
		
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			who is the Hanafi here? I love
drawing living beings
		
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			shouldn't do it.
		
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			My crew mcru are haraam full or
total
		
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			there's probably some dispute you
Ryan if you're going to speak Ryan
		
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			a there Sue Ryan's know if you're
going to speak you speak with a
		
01:09:07 --> 01:09:12
			quote. Not your opinion. Not your
opinion or what you remember a
		
01:09:12 --> 01:09:16
			quote. You have a quote what I've
observed.
		
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			I have what I have observed is not
going to cut it. You go
		
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			[email protected] secrets guidance
and you get the quote Good. Go
		
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			secrets guidance on your phone.
		
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			What I can say is I've seen 100
Thieves do it for $1
		
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			Yes, that's true. I've seen that
too. But we need we need the quote
		
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			go look it up in secret. Is this
shake reliable? I hope so.
		
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			max maximum hex editor says the
one in the video. Is he reliable?
		
01:09:55 --> 01:09:59
			Well, I can tell you what our
policy is, is we only quote
		
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			In FIP, from the mature, what is
the stray from the mature of the
		
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			metal hubs? Okay, we quote
		
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			no opinions here. Nothing but
facts, quotes, and we don't also
		
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			go with solitary opinions here and
there. Right? Why don't we like
		
01:10:18 --> 01:10:22
			those that didn't reach us with to
watch? They weren't agreed upon by
		
01:10:22 --> 01:10:29
			the mother. Right? Even if someone
went and got for example, I would
		
01:10:29 --> 01:10:33
			say, even if you remember the
heavy, reliable source, mmm and
		
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			know even harder, they know how to
track a quote, right? If they were
		
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			to cite and Oza you said this on
will do.
		
01:10:43 --> 01:10:45
			Okay, or on fasting or whatever.
		
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			It didn't reach us with Toto. It
didn't reach us through mass
		
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			transmission and only reaches
through one source. Okay, so with
		
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			all due respect to all those
trustworthy people, right, but
		
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			when something that reaches you
from one person is susceptible to
		
01:11:03 --> 01:11:05
			error. Okay.
		
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			Speak. So like, what about how
would that align with all the
		
01:11:10 --> 01:11:12
			misinformation today that
register?
		
01:11:14 --> 01:11:16
			Like, online? Like this big
		
01:11:17 --> 01:11:20
			movement is a bunch of
misinformation out there,
		
01:11:20 --> 01:11:23
			especially on like Instagram,
seeing a bunch of clips coming up
		
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			even random?
		
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			All of them like, just because
something is more to add to that,
		
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			that it happens. It's much awaited
that it happens. We can confirm it
		
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			happens. That doesn't make it
true.
		
01:11:37 --> 01:11:40
			Right? So that's where the tomato
does, right? Doesn't make it
		
01:11:40 --> 01:11:44
			correct doesn't make it true. So
it's more towards that Christian
		
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			say Jesus died on the cross. So
it's more to it that they said it.
		
01:11:48 --> 01:11:52
			Right. What is motility? That is
the truth is that which is more to
		
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			add to from the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam because he's he's
		
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			already been deemed to be true. So
now we need to know what did he
		
01:12:01 --> 01:12:05
			say? i We're going to have a layer
of claims different layers. A
		
01:12:05 --> 01:12:09
			solitary claimed three people said
two people said four people said
		
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			that what's in whatsoever is
absolutely true. Okay, and we do
		
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			sit we do accept the hat, by the
way, had Hadith we accept them.
		
01:12:21 --> 01:12:27
			But it when there's a much awaited
across from it than the Moto X or
		
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			takes precedent and the head will
either be suspended? We don't know
		
01:12:32 --> 01:12:35
			we don't have enough information
on how to practice it. Or it will
		
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			be it will fit in in a way that it
does not contradict them
		
01:12:39 --> 01:12:39
			whatsoever.
		
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			Okay, so no one should say we
don't accept that ahead. We 100%
		
01:12:43 --> 01:12:47
			accept that. If there's an airhead
Hadith and no other source and
		
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			it's the only source we accept it.
		
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			Ryan, what was your question that
you put in?
		
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			That's a great example.
		
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			No, it's a reliable Hadith there
is a Hadith from prophets, I send
		
01:13:03 --> 01:13:06
			them that non believers will be
tested on the Day of Judgment. But
		
01:13:06 --> 01:13:10
			we also have that's an ahead
Hadith. We also have the Quran
		
01:13:10 --> 01:13:16
			which says that no one who does
not receive a messenger will be
		
01:13:16 --> 01:13:20
			punished. Well, that couldn't be
in Hatena bathala SUTA. And the US
		
01:13:20 --> 01:13:25
			the reseller and the tech leaf
testing the abode of testing is
		
01:13:25 --> 01:13:29
			this life, not the next life. So
we have these multilateral Quranic
		
01:13:29 --> 01:13:33
			verses and we have one Hadith. So
in that case, we have to make a
		
01:13:33 --> 01:13:38
			decision if you accept the Hadith
or not accepted Quranic verse,
		
01:13:38 --> 01:13:39
			right?
		
01:13:41 --> 01:13:45
			Clearly, so it will be wouldn't be
correct, we are punishing you even
		
01:13:45 --> 01:13:48
			if you didn't get a message in
this life by testing you in the
		
01:13:48 --> 01:13:52
			next life. So the Allamah then
they went with what is heavier
		
01:13:52 --> 01:13:55
			evidence without saying the hadith
is false. But we're going to
		
01:13:55 --> 01:13:58
			believe and preach and speak about
what is the stronger of the two
		
01:13:58 --> 01:13:59
			evidences.
		
01:14:01 --> 01:14:05
			That's what we're gonna do. That's
how we that's how we interact with
		
01:14:05 --> 01:14:09
			evidences of different weights.
And if someone doesn't know that
		
01:14:09 --> 01:14:12
			they exist, some people imagine
they can exist that what they do
		
01:14:12 --> 01:14:16
			exist, right. There are
contradictory apparently
		
01:14:16 --> 01:14:20
			contradictory evidences. And
another way out of those.
		
01:14:21 --> 01:14:25
			And other way out of those is to
realize that they didn't happen at
		
01:14:25 --> 01:14:29
			the same time. So one may be the
abrogation of the other
		
01:14:30 --> 01:14:34
			Okay, or the Cydia doesn't did not
all descend at one time.
		
01:14:35 --> 01:14:38
			So something may have been Khaled
at one point later on, it's mcru.
		
01:14:39 --> 01:14:42
			Right or haram completely. The
Prophet wore gold The Prophet said
		
01:14:42 --> 01:14:45
			don't wear gold, so which one
obviously he wore gold before he
		
01:14:45 --> 01:14:50
			said was he's not gonna say It's
haram then wear gold, right? So
		
01:14:50 --> 01:14:54
			this shitty ads did not come down,
like two dimensionally one lump
		
01:14:54 --> 01:14:59
			sum that comes down. No, nor did
the Sahaba witness everything all
		
01:14:59 --> 01:14:59
			at once.
		
01:15:00 --> 01:15:03
			Some Sahaba witnessed portions and
other Sabo in his other portions
		
01:15:03 --> 01:15:08
			of the Sierra. And they went back
to their nations, and transmitted
		
01:15:08 --> 01:15:11
			a hadith. And things that they
saw, which may have been abrogated
		
01:15:11 --> 01:15:15
			without them knowing. It's not
like, there's so many layers of
		
01:15:15 --> 01:15:17
			Sahaba. There are Sahaba, who
spent the whole time with the
		
01:15:17 --> 01:15:20
			prophet is the haba, who spent
some small time and then they
		
01:15:20 --> 01:15:22
			left, and they want to teach their
people to religion. So they were
		
01:15:22 --> 01:15:26
			teaching them something, it became
abrogated. Right? And they didn't
		
01:15:26 --> 01:15:29
			know there wasn't communication
the way it is today. So therefore,
		
01:15:29 --> 01:15:33
			that's how you have such apparent
contradictions, not a
		
01:15:33 --> 01:15:35
			contradiction when you actually
understand
		
01:15:37 --> 01:15:40
			the order of what happened in the
history. Chief.
		
01:15:42 --> 01:15:48
			Can you talk about how, like the
medic key and also like how the
		
01:15:48 --> 01:15:51
			amount of people Medina is
considered, or like, how that
		
01:15:51 --> 01:15:54
			factors in with the Tijuana, as
opposed to like that we know, we
		
01:15:54 --> 01:15:59
			take that over? Like I had Hadith,
okay, Ahmed, Al Medina is of two
		
01:15:59 --> 01:15:59
			types.
		
01:16:01 --> 01:16:03
			One of one of which is whatsoever.
		
01:16:05 --> 01:16:06
			And one of which is not.
		
01:16:09 --> 01:16:14
			So the Amala in Medina is,
essentially it's the actions of
		
01:16:14 --> 01:16:14
			the people in Medina.
		
01:16:16 --> 01:16:20
			But it's also the judgments of the
early Medina and scholars. So
		
01:16:20 --> 01:16:24
			that's the part that is a
judgment. The other part is what
		
01:16:24 --> 01:16:27
			to watch, no one can dispute it.
And what's an example of that how
		
01:16:27 --> 01:16:31
			the then was called, how the women
dressed, how the tearaway was
		
01:16:31 --> 01:16:37
			performed, how the the size of the
saw or the mood of the prophesy
		
01:16:37 --> 01:16:41
			set size, right, the weights and
measures, the how many grams of
		
01:16:41 --> 01:16:42
			was the goldcoin
		
01:16:43 --> 01:16:48
			those things are the their motto,
that's it, no one can dispute
		
01:16:48 --> 01:16:52
			them. Nobody tries to dispute that
aspect of the OML of El Medina.
		
01:16:53 --> 01:16:57
			Right. And that public element of
Islam there that is coming second,
		
01:16:57 --> 01:17:01
			there's literally kids and
grandkids of the companions. And
		
01:17:01 --> 01:17:03
			this is something public,
everyone's doing it, you're not
		
01:17:03 --> 01:17:06
			changing that over one course of a
generation. Right?
		
01:17:07 --> 01:17:10
			So that part of it's what to watch
or there's no discussion on it.
		
01:17:10 --> 01:17:14
			The other part of Ahmed Medina is
that if these scholars are the
		
01:17:14 --> 01:17:19
			kids and grandkids of the sahaba.
Their scholarship will be the best
		
01:17:19 --> 01:17:20
			understanding of Islam.
		
01:17:21 --> 01:17:25
			And so from them, what their
scholars agree upon,
		
01:17:26 --> 01:17:30
			is also considered Ahmed Abdullah
Medina, fatwah Halima al Medina.
		
01:17:31 --> 01:17:34
			But that is not much awaited, and
it's not binding on the home.
		
01:17:35 --> 01:17:39
			Right? But we hold it to be the
best of knowledge. The people may
		
01:17:39 --> 01:17:41
			or may consider that to be the
best of knowledge who's going to
		
01:17:41 --> 01:17:46
			know better, but it's an opinion
it's not binding. And another
		
01:17:46 --> 01:17:52
			example for for that is that Alma
bin Abdulaziz, he, he had a
		
01:17:52 --> 01:17:55
			council of 12 scholars, seven main
ones, and then five were added
		
01:17:55 --> 01:18:01
			later. So they are deemed to be
the best of the scholars of Medina
		
01:18:01 --> 01:18:04
			at that time. And when they agree
upon something, it's the religion.
		
01:18:05 --> 01:18:09
			According to medic, of course,
we're talking about different upon
		
01:18:09 --> 01:18:14
			matters or matters in which there
needs to be judgment. That's what
		
01:18:14 --> 01:18:18
			fatwah and fic applies to federal
and fifth doesn't apply to matters
		
01:18:18 --> 01:18:22
			that are cut and dry in the
religion that have no discussion
		
01:18:22 --> 01:18:27
			about them and do not need FIP
nobody needs Philip to know that
		
01:18:27 --> 01:18:31
			Ramadan is an obligatory fast but
you do need Fick to know how do I
		
01:18:31 --> 01:18:35
			make up? When do I take a photo?
When do I take a photo? When do I
		
01:18:35 --> 01:18:39
			Oh called up kuffaar is a penalty
for those just to make up? That
		
01:18:39 --> 01:18:42
			requires fifth but we all know we
have to fast Ramadan so some
		
01:18:42 --> 01:18:45
			certain things that cause a vs
have no FIP in them. There's no
		
01:18:45 --> 01:18:46
			FIP
		
01:18:47 --> 01:18:48
			yet
		
01:18:50 --> 01:18:53
			so there's two Sahibs and two
Ryan's in the room.
		
01:18:57 --> 01:18:58
			To Omar's, your Alma
		
01:19:00 --> 01:19:04
			who's on Oh, you're Omar, another
Omar Shala. And your name is
		
01:19:04 --> 01:19:04
			brother
		
01:19:06 --> 01:19:08
			Tim Shala. Jersey, we have a Tim
and array
		
01:19:10 --> 01:19:11
			and hams up
		
01:19:17 --> 01:19:18
			are you lower
		
01:19:20 --> 01:19:25
			first and then missed? ever missed
a guess?
		
01:19:27 --> 01:19:29
			No, no, all yawns
		
01:19:32 --> 01:19:34
			Okay, continue. Okay.
		
01:19:35 --> 01:19:39
			So he is having a hold on income
risk is so.
		
01:19:40 --> 01:19:43
			Okay, I'm trying to understand the
question. He says having a haram
		
01:19:44 --> 01:19:47
			income slash risk is one of the
sins that blocks do often been
		
01:19:47 --> 01:19:52
			answered. And are there any signs
that we can look to or know
		
01:19:52 --> 01:19:55
			whether or not our risk is haram
in it? Or how can we ensure that
		
01:19:55 --> 01:19:56
			our risk has had
		
01:19:58 --> 01:19:59
			the insurance
		
01:20:00 --> 01:20:05
			Other risk being halal, it has to
be that the where you work the
		
01:20:05 --> 01:20:08
			institution or the industry that
they're working is permissible.
		
01:20:09 --> 01:20:12
			Even if they do a couple of haram
things you try to avoid those but
		
01:20:12 --> 01:20:14
			the industry at large is
permissible hence working at
		
01:20:14 --> 01:20:19
			ShopRite is permissible for you
right but working at a liquor
		
01:20:19 --> 01:20:22
			store is not even if you say I'm
not touching the liquor I'm only
		
01:20:22 --> 01:20:26
			working on the electricity how the
whole industry is forbidden
		
01:20:28 --> 01:20:31
			now there could be something down
the middle like bank part of what
		
01:20:31 --> 01:20:35
			they do is how that part of what
they do is haram maybe it's pretty
		
01:20:35 --> 01:20:42
			close, right? So most likely they
say as long as it's like 50 They
		
01:20:42 --> 01:20:46
			do have in their industry hold
your money you get access to what
		
01:20:46 --> 01:20:50
			that parts how that maybe other
parts are haram. So if you're
		
01:20:50 --> 01:20:52
			serving the highlighted part
that's maybe that will be
		
01:20:52 --> 01:20:56
			acceptable too. So that's
basically essentially how you make
		
01:20:56 --> 01:21:00
			these decisions. And you don't
have to ask beyond one step. So if
		
01:21:00 --> 01:21:05
			my if my father died and I
received Inheritance Inheritance
		
01:21:05 --> 01:21:08
			is Hallett I don't know have to
ask
		
01:21:09 --> 01:21:11
			about every single one of his
transactions.
		
01:21:13 --> 01:21:16
			Inheritance just came to me Sure
yeah. does not require you to go
		
01:21:16 --> 01:21:19
			more than one step. Okay.
		
01:21:23 --> 01:21:27
			Yeah, but even know that Hanafi
madhhab goes even further and says
		
01:21:27 --> 01:21:29
			you may take part in what is
forbidden
		
01:21:30 --> 01:21:37
			right? Yeah, I love haraam out and
Marcia actually found out recently
		
01:21:37 --> 01:21:42
			though, that she said that it's a
misunderstanding that it only
		
01:21:42 --> 01:21:43
			applies
		
01:21:49 --> 01:21:49
			so
		
01:21:51 --> 01:21:51
			you
		
01:22:01 --> 01:22:07
			know, when we had Sheikh Abdullah
Misra here, he confirmed the
		
01:22:07 --> 01:22:11
			position of an anon and Maaseiah
that the Hanafi is they allow have
		
01:22:11 --> 01:22:15
			some tayseer some ease in this
mess Ella of helping people commit
		
01:22:15 --> 01:22:21
			sins, where it's a minor, small
part of your job to ring up pork,
		
01:22:21 --> 01:22:25
			for example, to ring up wine. Like
I don't recommend people do this,
		
01:22:25 --> 01:22:28
			obviously, but there is some talk
about it. And you could ask your
		
01:22:28 --> 01:22:29
			local Hanafi scholar about that.
		
01:22:33 --> 01:22:36
			They're from early on. Yeah. Yeah.
SubhanAllah.
		
01:22:39 --> 01:22:40
			Yeah.
		
01:22:42 --> 01:22:43
			Was your mic on when you said
that?
		
01:22:49 --> 01:22:53
			All right, let's move on to now
sola on the Prophet sallallahu
		
01:22:53 --> 01:22:56
			alayhi wa salam, do we benefit
from saying it or from him
		
01:22:56 --> 01:22:59
			returning to the Salaam? And the
answer is both? Of course. What's
		
01:22:59 --> 01:23:02
			the proof of that? Because when
you say it, you're obeying what
		
01:23:02 --> 01:23:08
			Allah commanded. Right? And on top
of that, he is responding and
		
01:23:08 --> 01:23:10
			you're benefiting from that too.
So that's a dua of the Prophet.
		
01:23:10 --> 01:23:14
			And that's why how can somebody
have remained to have anxiety in
		
01:23:14 --> 01:23:19
			his heart when the Prophet himself
is sending you Salaam and we know
		
01:23:19 --> 01:23:22
			that the salam of the prophet is
not like arsenal? We say it as if
		
01:23:22 --> 01:23:26
			we're saying hi. But we should say
it knowing you're making a dua for
		
01:23:26 --> 01:23:30
			somebody, right? And the prophesy
set him knocked on the door of a
		
01:23:30 --> 01:23:31
			Sahabi.
		
01:23:33 --> 01:23:36
			And said as salaam alaikum, and
the sahabi answered very quietly
		
01:23:36 --> 01:23:40
			wait from sunup, then you knock to
get set up. So I've answered and
		
01:23:40 --> 01:23:44
			very quiet Shut up. They said a
tsunami that's sort of the three
		
01:23:44 --> 01:23:47
			times so he said, why he can sit
up quietly. So when the Prophet
		
01:23:47 --> 01:23:50
			saw that no one was home, he
didn't get any answers he left.
		
01:23:51 --> 01:23:54
			Then the sahabi opened the door.
And he said, I must have Allah I'm
		
01:23:54 --> 01:23:58
			here I just didn't answer your
Salam loudly three times so that
		
01:23:58 --> 01:24:02
			you can repeat keep repeating the
salam upon our households is a dua
		
01:24:02 --> 01:24:07
			of Salaam. How can the salam of
the Prophet coexist with anxiety
		
01:24:07 --> 01:24:10
			in the heart doesn't coexist
anybody who has issues, who has
		
01:24:10 --> 01:24:15
			anxieties who has these Misaki
then you have to pile on the Salam
		
01:24:15 --> 01:24:19
			on the Prophet with heavy dosages.
You can't just take one milligram
		
01:24:19 --> 01:24:23
			of something and expect a result.
You have to take sometimes 300
		
01:24:23 --> 01:24:26
			milligrams, 500 milligrams, 300
milligrams in the morning. 300
		
01:24:26 --> 01:24:29
			milligrams at night. 1000
satellites in the morning, 1000s
		
01:24:29 --> 01:24:33
			at night. Good. So you have to do
that you have to do a lot of
		
01:24:33 --> 01:24:35
			silhouettes to get that result.
		
01:24:36 --> 01:24:41
			Who has more rights over a woman,
her husband or her elderly father?
		
01:24:41 --> 01:24:45
			It depends what the Miss Ella is.
For example, if you have money,
		
01:24:46 --> 01:24:49
			and your father's sick, he has
100% right that you take care of
		
01:24:49 --> 01:24:53
			them. The right the responsibility
falls on the sons first.
		
01:24:54 --> 01:24:57
			Then the sons in law than the
daughters.
		
01:24:58 --> 01:25:00
			So let's say grandfather's very
		
01:25:00 --> 01:25:03
			Sick the responsibility goes on
his son first. Let's say he
		
01:25:03 --> 01:25:07
			doesn't have a son. He has a
daughter, the son in law, son in
		
01:25:07 --> 01:25:10
			law says I can't afford it. Then
it goes to the daughter, she's got
		
01:25:10 --> 01:25:14
			disposable income. She takes care
of, let's say she doesn't have
		
01:25:14 --> 01:25:17
			money, but there the grandson has
now has money falls on the
		
01:25:17 --> 01:25:22
			grandson. Good. This is like the
structure that of responsibilities
		
01:25:22 --> 01:25:26
			that Allah put so that nobody is
really left, you know, without
		
01:25:26 --> 01:25:28
			somebody and of course,
unfortunately, society has been
		
01:25:28 --> 01:25:31
			broken up. So there are plenty of
people all alone or they have one
		
01:25:31 --> 01:25:33
			or two people to rely upon they
can take care of them.
		
01:25:35 --> 01:25:39
			Okay, so what do you owe for your
father you owe for him his food,
		
01:25:40 --> 01:25:45
			his care, you don't owe paying his
debts that you don't owe for him.
		
01:25:45 --> 01:25:48
			But to have a roof over his head?
Yes. To have food in his stomach.
		
01:25:48 --> 01:25:53
			Yes, to have medical attention.
medical attention overall is
		
01:25:53 --> 01:26:00
			considered sunnah. Min Dube or
MOBA? It's never afforded to give
		
01:26:00 --> 01:26:04
			someone medical attention, you
know, that is never afforded when
		
01:26:04 --> 01:26:07
			the prophets I send them said
things like take medicine, the
		
01:26:07 --> 01:26:12
			Allah, they said either this is
permissibility or recommendation,
		
01:26:12 --> 01:26:17
			there is no punishment levied to
somebody who does not provide
		
01:26:17 --> 01:26:22
			medical attention to somebody
else. Right. And so therefore,
		
01:26:23 --> 01:26:28
			helping someone with their medical
conditions would likely to be min
		
01:26:28 --> 01:26:28
			doop
		
01:26:30 --> 01:26:34
			at one now if someone's going to
die from a sickness. So for
		
01:26:34 --> 01:26:37
			example, if someone's got the flu
at home, you're not obligated to
		
01:26:37 --> 01:26:41
			go and give them it's recommended
for you to do that. Give them flu
		
01:26:41 --> 01:26:45
			medicine and, and soup. Now the
question comes if What if
		
01:26:45 --> 01:26:49
			someone's gonna lose a limb or a
life? And they're the ultimate
		
01:26:49 --> 01:26:53
			said, Now at that point, you are
obligated? Right?
		
01:26:54 --> 01:26:59
			CPR, so losing a life or limb but
just the flu? Now no one's
		
01:26:59 --> 01:27:03
			obligated to take care of you.
Right, but losing life and limb
		
01:27:03 --> 01:27:07
			now at that point. It's a problem.
And the ultimate some of the
		
01:27:07 --> 01:27:08
			ultimate that did say this
		
01:27:15 --> 01:27:19
			that med Selim says please have
Sheikh Osama cell here. We need
		
01:27:19 --> 01:27:21
			shear failure on here. Yeah.
		
01:27:22 --> 01:27:25
			Do you have to commit to one
method you can use? It says more.
		
01:27:25 --> 01:27:29
			He's Bashir, you should go look at
the video series we met on methods
		
01:27:29 --> 01:27:32
			and the answer to that if you're a
regular common Muslim, no. But if
		
01:27:32 --> 01:27:33
			you
		
01:27:37 --> 01:27:40
			if you if you write your common
Muslim, now you just follow the
		
01:27:40 --> 01:27:42
			trusted source and religion once
you become a student of knowledge,
		
01:27:42 --> 01:27:43
			you need that?
		
01:27:48 --> 01:27:53
			Okay, what about the issue of
obedience your father tells you to
		
01:27:53 --> 01:27:56
			do something your husband tells
you to do something? It's your
		
01:27:56 --> 01:27:58
			husband, of course, right? It's
your husband,
		
01:27:59 --> 01:28:00
			your husband?
		
01:28:03 --> 01:28:05
			Man has to cover everything. Look,
		
01:28:06 --> 01:28:10
			husband does not have to cover
every expense of the wife. This is
		
01:28:10 --> 01:28:15
			a miss misconception he has to
cover. What is her norm of life?
		
01:28:16 --> 01:28:19
			What is the norm when you married
this girl and you and you said
		
01:28:19 --> 01:28:19
			nothing.
		
01:28:20 --> 01:28:25
			You didn't say get ready now you
have to agree to marry me upon the
		
01:28:25 --> 01:28:26
			life of for example,
		
01:28:28 --> 01:28:29
			a school teacher
		
01:28:30 --> 01:28:32
			very different than let's say her
parents were.
		
01:28:34 --> 01:28:39
			Let's say surgeons, mom and dad
are a surgeon. You know what that
		
01:28:39 --> 01:28:44
			life is like, right? That life is,
is a very good life. Now, what am
		
01:28:44 --> 01:28:44
			I?
		
01:28:46 --> 01:28:50
			Let's say I just teach in a
school. So now, that's a that's a
		
01:28:50 --> 01:28:56
			step down in terms of finances. So
if you say, upon this life, that
		
01:28:56 --> 01:29:00
			I'm gonna live that class, that's
all you owe, right up and she's
		
01:29:00 --> 01:29:03
			like the wives of the other
teachers. But if you said nothing
		
01:29:04 --> 01:29:07
			than the expectation is that you
keep her on the same life that
		
01:29:07 --> 01:29:10
			she's used to living and anything
if she forgives, it is from her.
		
01:29:11 --> 01:29:14
			So that's what you would owe. And
		
01:29:16 --> 01:29:20
			if she wants anything beyond that,
that's then that's from her. And
		
01:29:20 --> 01:29:24
			there's no I even that the you
didn't, you didn't your manhood
		
01:29:24 --> 01:29:27
			isn't attacked. When you do that.
When a person does say this is
		
01:29:27 --> 01:29:30
			this is what I have. And she goes
and spends her own money. Now a
		
01:29:30 --> 01:29:35
			lot of guys they would love from
themselves to cover everything. So
		
01:29:35 --> 01:29:38
			it's, it's a big difference in
when we talk about marriage. What
		
01:29:38 --> 01:29:41
			if your responsibilities here you
should be aiming here. And if your
		
01:29:41 --> 01:29:42
			rights are here,
		
01:29:43 --> 01:29:48
			you should be accepting of this
less. Right if you're if your
		
01:29:48 --> 01:29:52
			obligations are x, that you should
try to offer 3x
		
01:29:53 --> 01:29:58
			If your rights are why you should
accept why over three, right? Less
		
01:29:58 --> 01:30:00
			than they'd be forgiving. So
		
01:30:00 --> 01:30:05
			That's what the marriage contract
is. It is a womb is a
		
01:30:07 --> 01:30:12
			OKT Mevani Allah al mukarram it's
a contract based upon forgiveness
		
01:30:12 --> 01:30:16
			back and forth and over giving and
forgiving. Okay.
		
01:30:18 --> 01:30:21
			Is secrets guidance are reliable
website yesterday, they quote
		
01:30:21 --> 01:30:23
			directly from sources. Yes.
		
01:30:24 --> 01:30:29
			So this principle is this also
applied to the conversation,
		
01:30:29 --> 01:30:33
			because some will some will say,
alright, charge the guy the
		
01:30:33 --> 01:30:37
			highest possible because you're
gonna pay for a house that's
		
01:30:37 --> 01:30:37
			probably
		
01:30:39 --> 01:30:43
			gonna pay for a nice car. So this
woman's gonna hold your house
		
01:30:43 --> 01:30:43
			together
		
01:30:47 --> 01:30:49
			that's the reasoning of some
people. Well, he
		
01:30:52 --> 01:30:56
			he's the one who should have those
talks. Firstly, not the woman, the
		
01:30:56 --> 01:30:59
			prophesy centum said the most
blessed woman is the one who is
		
01:30:59 --> 01:31:03
			easy with money and has a lot of
children
		
01:31:06 --> 01:31:08
			as blessed, so she shouldn't have
those talks.
		
01:31:10 --> 01:31:13
			If the well he wants to do that,
and he finds that there's a wisdom
		
01:31:13 --> 01:31:17
			behind this, and there's a reason
for it, then he could do that. But
		
01:31:17 --> 01:31:20
			if he's doing it in a way that
makes marriage difficult, then
		
01:31:20 --> 01:31:22
			there's cut off other this
discouragement so much so say
		
01:31:22 --> 01:31:28
			normally wanted to put a limit. A
li for example. The his guidance
		
01:31:28 --> 01:31:32
			from the prophets I said is if a
man comes to you and you are
		
01:31:32 --> 01:31:39
			accepting of his Dean and his
character, so Dean involves, isn't
		
01:31:39 --> 01:31:42
			it? It's a religious obligation
that you cover her expenses.
		
01:31:42 --> 01:31:45
			Right. So that is part of your the
Dean had this discussion with
		
01:31:45 --> 01:31:51
			shikigami while back. So, mental
Dona Dena Hua Hueco his deen is
		
01:31:51 --> 01:31:58
			not his attic F and his salah. His
deen is also that he can pay for
		
01:31:58 --> 01:32:02
			his wife, because that's a
religious obligation. So he tests
		
01:32:02 --> 01:32:06
			his o'clock by asking around and
meeting the person and he looks at
		
01:32:06 --> 01:32:09
			his deen and he says, Alright,
your deen is good. You don't do
		
01:32:09 --> 01:32:13
			any major sins, your reputation is
good, you pray and you fast and
		
01:32:13 --> 01:32:17
			you pay for your expenses, your
obligations, this is an
		
01:32:17 --> 01:32:21
			obligation, so for him to ensure
that it's permitted. But for him
		
01:32:21 --> 01:32:26
			to elevate the Mahara to such an
absurd degree that you would turn
		
01:32:26 --> 01:32:30
			such a man away, you enter into
discouragement right now, you're
		
01:32:30 --> 01:32:33
			turning away man for no reason. On
top of that, these things can be
		
01:32:33 --> 01:32:37
			done over time, doesn't have to be
paid all at once. However, the
		
01:32:37 --> 01:32:41
			difference is that the moment that
a man is due, the mod is the dowry
		
01:32:42 --> 01:32:46
			from husband to wife, the moment
it's due, and you can't pay it.
		
01:32:47 --> 01:32:49
			She can she can tell you Don't
touch me.
		
01:32:51 --> 01:32:55
			So let's say you paid for it's a
10 year deal. Every year you pay,
		
01:32:55 --> 01:33:00
			you pay 10 upfront, and you're
gonna pay 1000 for the next 10
		
01:33:00 --> 01:33:03
			years. So the first year passes,
you pay 1000. Next year passes you
		
01:33:03 --> 01:33:07
			pay 1000. Next year passes you pay
1000. Let's say on the third or
		
01:33:07 --> 01:33:11
			fourth year, you're like, I'll get
one I get it. No one's gonna ask
		
01:33:11 --> 01:33:13
			me on the third year class. We've
been married three years, we have
		
01:33:13 --> 01:33:14
			two kids, right?
		
01:33:16 --> 01:33:21
			On January 1, the check doesn't
show up on her on her dresser. And
		
01:33:21 --> 01:33:22
			she says,
		
01:33:23 --> 01:33:25
			Alright, I'm gonna sleep in
another room.
		
01:33:26 --> 01:33:28
			She has the right to do that.
Don't touch me.
		
01:33:29 --> 01:33:33
			It's gonna be weird. But she tech.
Technically she has the right to
		
01:33:33 --> 01:33:37
			say Don't touch me. And plus the
mod is paid. Right? Technically.
		
01:33:38 --> 01:33:40
			Of course, anyone who lives like
that they're not going to have a
		
01:33:40 --> 01:33:41
			happy marriage. Yes.
		
01:33:46 --> 01:33:49
			Yes, you can you can find that
somebody? Yep. Yeah, you can find
		
01:33:49 --> 01:33:53
			them. Yeah, you pay a little bit
upfront, maybe, or overtime, or
		
01:33:53 --> 01:33:57
			all of it later, or all of it
overtime, whatever you agree on.
		
01:33:57 --> 01:34:00
			And if you get married and say,
let's talk about the model later,
		
01:34:00 --> 01:34:04
			or you totally forget about the
dowry completely, then you agree
		
01:34:04 --> 01:34:08
			on it afterwards. And if you can
agree now you're already married
		
01:34:08 --> 01:34:10
			right? Now she's stuck with you.
		
01:34:12 --> 01:34:15
			And now you're like, Well, I got
married. So why would I pay big
		
01:34:15 --> 01:34:20
			money? I already got what I
wanted, right? So she says 20,000
		
01:34:20 --> 01:34:24
			The dad says 20,000 We're already
married. Right? I got the balls in
		
01:34:24 --> 01:34:30
			my court. No. Right. And you see
you say no, not more than five.
		
01:34:30 --> 01:34:33
			Okay, so now what do you do?
		
01:34:34 --> 01:34:40
			The city says that you get her
friends. You say who are the five
		
01:34:40 --> 01:34:43
			girls that she hangs out with?
Alright, three of them are
		
01:34:43 --> 01:34:46
			married. This one paid off. Got
him out of 15 This one got 20 This
		
01:34:46 --> 01:34:52
			one got 10 add them all up and
divide by three. Okay. That's the
		
01:34:52 --> 01:34:58
			that's called the the modern myth.
So Darkwood myth, which is the
		
01:34:58 --> 01:34:59
			dowry that's like arbitration.
		
01:35:00 --> 01:35:04
			Right. So like arbitration,
basically, basketball player says
		
01:35:04 --> 01:35:07
			I want this much money. The team
says no, I'm only going to give
		
01:35:07 --> 01:35:11
			you this much. He says
arbitration. Okay? And the league
		
01:35:11 --> 01:35:14
			comes in and says how many points
are game you average? How old are
		
01:35:14 --> 01:35:18
			you? How many assists you average?
How many steals you average? And
		
01:35:18 --> 01:35:23
			they find your likeness, the five
players who are like you, okay?
		
01:35:23 --> 01:35:26
			All these players are getting 4
million a year on average, you get
		
01:35:26 --> 01:35:31
			4 million a year. Right? So that's
it. That's arbitration. And it's a
		
01:35:31 --> 01:35:36
			risk. Right and the agent should
know better. He should have done
		
01:35:36 --> 01:35:39
			the math first before sending you
to arbit says guide to
		
01:35:39 --> 01:35:42
			arbitration. But the seduction
myth is is the exact same thing
		
01:35:42 --> 01:35:43
			it's arbitration
		
01:35:46 --> 01:35:46
			Yes,
		
01:35:48 --> 01:35:50
			yeah. conversation regarding
discussion all the way here about
		
01:35:51 --> 01:35:55
			come Bucha come Bucha we in the
Maliki school we don't allow
		
01:35:55 --> 01:35:58
			drinking it but others said it's
allowed to drink RYAN What are the
		
01:35:58 --> 01:35:58
			chef as
		
01:36:06 --> 01:36:11
			the medic he had when I when I
recently talked to Sheikh Arun
		
01:36:11 --> 01:36:15
			about it he he said is haram
because it's the alcohol in it is
		
01:36:16 --> 01:36:21
			there is a trace amounts of
alcohol in it so he said the
		
01:36:21 --> 01:36:22
			ultimate set is forbidden
		
01:36:23 --> 01:36:23
			Yeah.
		
01:36:25 --> 01:36:26
			If it's
		
01:36:29 --> 01:36:29
			out of
		
01:36:30 --> 01:36:31
			conditions
		
01:36:36 --> 01:36:38
			whether the the rules.
		
01:36:41 --> 01:36:44
			Quotes I want to see do you have
the quote on you?
		
01:36:45 --> 01:36:48
			Okay, good. No, no, no, pull it
up. Pull it up. Pull it up.
		
01:36:50 --> 01:36:52
			Pull it up. Yes. Pull it up.
		
01:36:53 --> 01:36:56
			I'm teaching this brother right
here who's talked he likes to talk
		
01:36:56 --> 01:37:00
			FIP I don't want to but you're
like on your first year studying
		
01:37:00 --> 01:37:03
			FIP so nothing that comes from you
is going to be relied upon I need
		
01:37:03 --> 01:37:06
			the quote. Okay. And I need at the
bottom
		
01:37:07 --> 01:37:09
			the name of the book, the volume
number and the page
		
01:37:11 --> 01:37:14
			and that's how what we're doing
with medically fit Qi Maliki fifth
		
01:37:14 --> 01:37:16
			QA we're revamping the whole
thing.
		
01:37:17 --> 01:37:20
			Okay, medically fit QA we're
revamping the whole thing and
		
01:37:20 --> 01:37:22
			there will be not be a single
answered question unless the
		
01:37:22 --> 01:37:25
			source is there from the matura
texts
		
01:37:27 --> 01:37:33
			with the Arabic with the citation,
full citation, okay. Not Most of
		
01:37:33 --> 01:37:38
			us have studied know what is that?
Were in motorcycle right where
		
01:37:38 --> 01:37:42
			what chapter whose print every
page every print the pages are
		
01:37:42 --> 01:37:45
			going to be different right? This
is not like a most office city
		
01:37:46 --> 01:37:48
			where the medina currents are all
the same.
		
01:37:49 --> 01:37:52
			Non while wine alcohol,
		
01:37:53 --> 01:37:59
			non wine alcohol, so, alcohol that
is not coming from grapes, or
		
01:37:59 --> 01:37:59
			dates
		
01:38:00 --> 01:38:06
			is strictly forbidden unless they
meet five criterion, not drunk
		
01:38:06 --> 01:38:10
			with the intention of intoxication
not drunk to the extent that it
		
01:38:10 --> 01:38:14
			would intoxicated, not drunk in
the manner which alcohol is drunk
		
01:38:14 --> 01:38:18
			like from a nice fancy cup or a
shot glass like that. Its presence
		
01:38:18 --> 01:38:23
			must not be in vain. Not drinking
it for amusement, for relaxation.
		
01:38:24 --> 01:38:27
			It's not the direct point of
pleasure. So you're not drinking
		
01:38:27 --> 01:38:32
			it even because you enjoy it.
Okay, where's this from? And Nila
		
01:38:32 --> 01:38:38
			always adore el MOBA. Okay. Tierra
Mizzou which contains rum is
		
01:38:38 --> 01:38:40
			permissible if the above
conditions are met because you're
		
01:38:40 --> 01:38:43
			not drinking. However, if the rum
is the flavor then it's forbidden.
		
01:38:45 --> 01:38:49
			Any food that is alcohol flavored
is also prohibited due to the
		
01:38:49 --> 01:38:52
			fourth condition you're taking it
for the pleasure of it. Okay, soy
		
01:38:52 --> 01:38:57
			sauce, kombucha kefir yogurt are
permissible because the nine one
		
01:38:57 --> 01:39:01
			alcohol does not does meet the
above standard you're not drinking
		
01:39:01 --> 01:39:04
			it for the alcohol like alcohol
nor enjoying the taste of the
		
01:39:04 --> 01:39:09
			alcohol. However, beer battered
fish or rum flavored cake
		
01:39:09 --> 01:39:13
			prohibited you're taking it for
the enjoyment of it. This is all
		
01:39:13 --> 01:39:15
			the Hanafi madhhab gut
		
01:39:17 --> 01:39:20
			anyway no one should be upset
about because kombucha tastes
		
01:39:20 --> 01:39:20
			terrible
		
01:39:21 --> 01:39:25
			No, no one likes it. It is so
good. There's another no
		
01:39:27 --> 01:39:28
			no bead
		
01:39:31 --> 01:39:31
			show
		
01:39:33 --> 01:39:35
			you did good. You did good.
		
01:39:37 --> 01:39:42
			Here you go. This is I'll tell you
who wrote it and approved it. This
		
01:39:43 --> 01:39:49
			this Arthur. This was written by
use of Welsh Sheikh Yusuf Welsh
		
01:39:49 --> 01:39:52
			and approved by Sheikh Faraz
Rabbani. Okay
		
01:39:55 --> 01:39:56
			well done
		
01:40:00 --> 01:40:00
			Are
		
01:40:03 --> 01:40:04
			the conditions
		
01:40:06 --> 01:40:09
			of what is permissible?
		
01:40:15 --> 01:40:21
			Yeah, either in our meth lab, in
the medical school, you must, you
		
01:40:21 --> 01:40:26
			can only take a medicine that has
alcohol in it with conditions and
		
01:40:26 --> 01:40:30
			from those conditions is that
there's no alternative and that
		
01:40:30 --> 01:40:34
			it's certain to work. It must be
certain to work and that the
		
01:40:34 --> 01:40:39
			sickness is to the point of dire
need, or death, not just a general
		
01:40:39 --> 01:40:43
			cough or something or a pneumonia
or something like that, unless you
		
01:40:43 --> 01:40:43
			could die from it.
		
01:40:46 --> 01:40:49
			All right. Now let's look at this
question. If Salawat is the best
		
01:40:49 --> 01:40:54
			they could, why do anything else I
have one time saw, read about a
		
01:40:54 --> 01:40:54
			youth
		
01:40:56 --> 01:40:57
			who saw the Prophet in a dream
		
01:40:58 --> 01:41:02
			sallallahu alayhi wa salam and he
said O Messenger of Allah, I ask
		
01:41:02 --> 01:41:06
			your forgiveness, for I have
decreased in my salah lots upon
		
01:41:06 --> 01:41:07
			you because I memorize the Quran.
		
01:41:08 --> 01:41:11
			And he said and do you think the
prophesy Sam said that not
		
01:41:11 --> 01:41:15
			anything pleases me more than my
OMA memorizing the Quran did not
		
01:41:15 --> 01:41:19
			Allah to how to put in the Quran,
his own complaint in Nicole
		
01:41:19 --> 01:41:23
			Mitaka, the weather Khurana
Mandurah my comb meaning the kufr
		
01:41:23 --> 01:41:27
			of Quran they have abandoned this
Quran and Allah only put it there
		
01:41:27 --> 01:41:32
			to show that the Prophet it he was
hurt by this. So the Prophet loves
		
01:41:32 --> 01:41:37
			for his OMA to memorize Quran and
reread it and be busy with it. So
		
01:41:38 --> 01:41:41
			and what is better recitation of
Quran or have of course rested
		
01:41:41 --> 01:41:45
			heft because heft allows you to
recite it without need of the most
		
01:41:45 --> 01:41:48
			half and know without need of will
do and without need of the hate
		
01:41:49 --> 01:41:50
			the position to be read
		
01:41:51 --> 01:41:56
			or to recite. And so have the
Quran is very easily done by a
		
01:41:56 --> 01:42:00
			philosophy of etching the Martini
is called Barber, you take a
		
01:42:00 --> 01:42:03
			portion you outline you put it you
could put a line in the most of
		
01:42:03 --> 01:42:08
			this is my portion and you recited
either by minutes or by times they
		
01:42:08 --> 01:42:11
			do it 300 times here is that half
a page 300 times how are you going
		
01:42:11 --> 01:42:15
			to forget it? Right. Or by
minutes, you could put yourself a
		
01:42:15 --> 01:42:17
			certain number of minutes, 15
minutes, I'm gonna read this over
		
01:42:17 --> 01:42:20
			and over and over and over and
over by the end of the 15 minutes,
		
01:42:20 --> 01:42:22
			you should know if that doesn't
cut it, then 20 minutes or
		
01:42:22 --> 01:42:27
			decrease the number of areas. Once
you figure it out, then halves of
		
01:42:27 --> 01:42:31
			Quran just is a matter of time.
Once you figure that you are
		
01:42:31 --> 01:42:35
			literally etching it into your
brain, then you're gonna go back
		
01:42:35 --> 01:42:39
			to it sometime later, for a second
etching, then you're gonna go back
		
01:42:39 --> 01:42:43
			to it for a third etching, right.
And in Morocco, they do four times
		
01:42:43 --> 01:42:45
			they memorize the Quran four
times.
		
01:42:46 --> 01:42:51
			For the first year, they'll
memorize the whole Quran. The
		
01:42:51 --> 01:42:56
			second year, he will do exactly
the same thing. Okay, of course
		
01:42:56 --> 01:42:59
			now it'll be faster. So we will
finish probably in eight months,
		
01:42:59 --> 01:43:02
			the third year will do exactly the
same thing. This time it takes six
		
01:43:02 --> 01:43:05
			months. By the fourth year, he
doesn't make a single mistake.
		
01:43:05 --> 01:43:08
			I've written them off, because
it's so etched deeply in his
		
01:43:08 --> 01:43:09
			brain.
		
01:43:13 --> 01:43:16
			If you didn't know that
intentionally vomiting made you
		
01:43:16 --> 01:43:21
			break fast do you have to do
cafardo Farah? And the answer to
		
01:43:21 --> 01:43:27
			that is no. Because that is that
we'll carry that is a fair
		
01:43:27 --> 01:43:32
			misunderstanding. But you may not
even need to know called up if
		
01:43:32 --> 01:43:37
			it's not called an Okada and
another method, for example, if
		
01:43:37 --> 01:43:40
			you did a certain behavior, and
then realized years later that in
		
01:43:40 --> 01:43:44
			your mouth of this is forbidden,
or breaks your salah or breaks
		
01:43:44 --> 01:43:48
			your fast and now the result of
that is I owe 50 fasts or I owe
		
01:43:48 --> 01:43:53
			five years of fasting. Okay. This
is considered hardship. You're
		
01:43:53 --> 01:43:56
			allowed to now go Do I have a way
out in any other school? Because I
		
01:43:57 --> 01:44:00
			did it innocently thinking it's
allowed. And the answer said yeah,
		
01:44:00 --> 01:44:04
			you have a well, what's an example
this ematic he comes in, he
		
01:44:04 --> 01:44:08
			realizes his whole life. He's been
praying McGlynn a shot and Fajr
		
01:44:08 --> 01:44:13
			silently when he prays alone. He
doesn't know he thought that I can
		
01:44:13 --> 01:44:16
			pray Salah if I'm alone, I pray
silently.
		
01:44:17 --> 01:44:20
			Then he realizes no you oh so
good. So for that. It's a
		
01:44:20 --> 01:44:23
			pseudonym aka you MP you purposely
prayed silently. Yes, I purposely
		
01:44:23 --> 01:44:26
			prayed silently, so that you
didn't even forget therefore
		
01:44:26 --> 01:44:29
			there's no so Salas button if you
leave off one of the eight
		
01:44:29 --> 01:44:32
			pseudonym Akkad in the medical
school on purpose, your solos
		
01:44:32 --> 01:44:33
			button.
		
01:44:34 --> 01:44:39
			So it's called forgetfulness. Not
purposely leaving it off. So we
		
01:44:39 --> 01:44:43
			say to us tell us about it in the
medical school. So but I
		
01:44:43 --> 01:44:48
			innocently did this thinking it's
okay. For 20 years of my life was
		
01:44:48 --> 01:44:52
			okay no worries, the chef a school
it's not a pseudonym aka saying
		
01:44:52 --> 01:44:56
			out loud or silently is not a
cinema does not negate your salon
		
01:44:56 --> 01:44:59
			you're good to go because the
heart the called up is
		
01:45:00 --> 01:45:03
			Heavy, it's too heavy. It's too
much. So another we go to another
		
01:45:03 --> 01:45:06
			method and find your way up. And
I've seen many of the folks do
		
01:45:06 --> 01:45:06
			this.
		
01:45:07 --> 01:45:08
			Yes.
		
01:45:09 --> 01:45:11
			I know the second minority.
		
01:45:12 --> 01:45:14
			Yeah, that's that's one of them.
Yeah.
		
01:45:16 --> 01:45:21
			Weapon over the socks. He said.
There is a minority of
		
01:45:22 --> 01:45:26
			that do this. Humbly scholars that
allowed this I don't know if I
		
01:45:26 --> 01:45:31
			can't say minority or majority.
You quoted a minority. But but
		
01:45:31 --> 01:45:34
			I've heard from them different
things. I've heard that the more
		
01:45:34 --> 01:45:38
			tentative their school, anything
that we that is a sock, even if
		
01:45:38 --> 01:45:40
			it's a stalking that you could see
the fingernails with the toenails
		
01:45:40 --> 01:45:43
			right through it, you can wipe
over it. That's what I heard and
		
01:45:43 --> 01:45:47
			other heard others said, no, no,
no, there's conditions for the
		
01:45:47 --> 01:45:52
			sock and stuff like that. And it's
not what you think. So I can't we
		
01:45:52 --> 01:45:55
			have to ask somebody for that. Why
don't we somebody look up sick use
		
01:45:55 --> 01:45:59
			have been sad what he says about
it. You find a reliable, humbly.
		
01:45:59 --> 01:46:00
			Hanafy humbly source.
		
01:46:01 --> 01:46:02
			Okay.
		
01:46:03 --> 01:46:06
			All right. Here's a question for
you. Can I afford a baby at five
		
01:46:06 --> 01:46:10
			months says juice? Well, the
question is not specific enough.
		
01:46:10 --> 01:46:13
			So I'm going to give you all the
specifics about it. Number one, if
		
01:46:13 --> 01:46:16
			the mother's life is at risk, then
you can afford it even at nine
		
01:46:16 --> 01:46:16
			months.
		
01:46:17 --> 01:46:22
			Number two, five times 30 is what?
150. So he passed 120 days.
		
01:46:23 --> 01:46:28
			Therefore the only excuse is that
the mom's going to die. If they
		
01:46:28 --> 01:46:30
			tell you your baby is going to
have multiple deformities, that's
		
01:46:30 --> 01:46:34
			still you still not allowed to
abort for that reason. Okay.
		
01:46:36 --> 01:46:42
			So five months is 150 days, right?
So the maximum in the shaft a
		
01:46:42 --> 01:46:46
			school is 120 days, Medicare put
out 40 days. They say there's
		
01:46:46 --> 01:46:49
			another Hadith that says 40 days
they go by that hadith number one,
		
01:46:49 --> 01:46:56
			not the one in that's we often
read 40 4040. So they all also say
		
01:46:56 --> 01:46:58
			that 40 4040 is the same 40.
		
01:46:59 --> 01:47:03
			Okay, which is I would say bide.
The language of the Hadith doesn't
		
01:47:03 --> 01:47:07
			indicate that it does indicate 40
Then another 40 Then another 40.
		
01:47:07 --> 01:47:11
			Okay, but they don't go by that
hadith they go, why? Why would
		
01:47:11 --> 01:47:14
			they go with the 40 over the 120
they go with what is safer
		
01:47:15 --> 01:47:20
			for taking a life of a baby. And
they're the strictest on matters
		
01:47:20 --> 01:47:23
			of abortion. They say the only
thing ever
		
01:47:24 --> 01:47:29
			is the life of the mum. And they
say though they do separate
		
01:47:29 --> 01:47:33
			though, before 40 It's a major
sin. After 40 days, it's killing.
		
01:47:34 --> 01:47:37
			And you're going to owe a
financial penalty for that.
		
01:47:39 --> 01:47:43
			What is the ruling on being
borderline area of traveler where
		
01:47:43 --> 01:47:48
			there's some routes that go beyond
47 and below 47 with the same time
		
01:47:52 --> 01:47:55
			you can you would be considered a
traveler I believe because
		
01:47:57 --> 01:48:01
			the traveling distances is
disputed in the first place. And
		
01:48:01 --> 01:48:05
			48 Miles is not the only saying 36
Miles is the other saying and
		
01:48:05 --> 01:48:10
			that's what we go by. We go by 36
miles, the mile, the Buddha would
		
01:48:11 --> 01:48:15
			have the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa salam it was it was what is it?
		
01:48:17 --> 01:48:20
			The Buddha would have the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa salam, some
		
01:48:20 --> 01:48:23
			have deemed it to be 12
		
01:48:24 --> 01:48:30
			English miles. They calculated the
Buddha to be 12 English miles, and
		
01:48:30 --> 01:48:34
			others calculated as nine English
miles. So four times nine is 36.
		
01:48:34 --> 01:48:38
			Four times 12 is 48. That's why
you get that difference. They both
		
01:48:38 --> 01:48:41
			agree that it's forebodes. But
they differ Buddha does a Roman
		
01:48:41 --> 01:48:45
			mill post, but we differed on what
they different upon what the
		
01:48:45 --> 01:48:50
			Buddha entails. does it entail 12
Miles 12 English miles or nine
		
01:48:50 --> 01:48:52
			English miles that's what the
different upon
		
01:48:55 --> 01:48:55
			councils for?
		
01:48:57 --> 01:49:02
			Show Hanafi school 14 days or less
Maliki school and Shafi school.
		
01:49:03 --> 01:49:05
			It's 20 prayers or four days. Yeah
		
01:49:13 --> 01:49:17
			I don't know. I don't know if
anyone says more than 14 days.
		
01:49:17 --> 01:49:22
			However, if you move within the
journey, like a backpacker every
		
01:49:22 --> 01:49:24
			night he moves to a different
place. That's the new he renews
		
01:49:24 --> 01:49:27
			his travelers. His position as a
traveler
		
01:49:28 --> 01:49:29
			Yep.
		
01:49:32 --> 01:49:35
			You have you have a quote? No, no,
nothing yet.
		
01:49:39 --> 01:49:41
			Seneca says
		
01:49:42 --> 01:49:44
			how do I differentiate between
intuition and West WESA?
		
01:49:46 --> 01:49:50
			By the Sharia and by the earth.
You separate the two by Cydia and
		
01:49:50 --> 01:49:55
			hey, hubby bring those pizzas here
so they don't get colds here we go
		
01:49:55 --> 01:49:57
			clear the table. You
		
01:49:58 --> 01:49:59
			clear the table
		
01:50:00 --> 01:50:02
			Chabad move your arms that Allah
gave you
		
01:50:03 --> 01:50:07
			here chief could hear your mind
with my right hand
		
01:50:08 --> 01:50:12
			yes use the Make space up there
use that those spaces behind you
		
01:50:12 --> 01:50:12
			there
		
01:50:14 --> 01:50:14
			stick
		
01:50:24 --> 01:50:25
			Miss Mala because
		
01:50:27 --> 01:50:31
			what's that manuka honey? Yeah
some serious stuff
		
01:50:42 --> 01:50:42
			we'll
		
01:50:49 --> 01:50:50
			try
		
01:50:51 --> 01:50:56
			this is some the i You got shy I
got talking about this right. I
		
01:50:56 --> 01:50:59
			got sugar with some giant, but it
was really good Have you made this
		
01:51:00 --> 01:51:00
			have you?
		
01:51:01 --> 01:51:03
			Is that honey Michelle? No
wonderful
		
01:51:06 --> 01:51:09
			All right hats. Let's see what we
got. Who's the pizzeria from
		
01:51:14 --> 01:51:15
			Whoa,
		
01:51:16 --> 01:51:21
			gentlemen, comments and eat it. Or
you guys take the vegetable piece?
		
01:51:23 --> 01:51:24
			Take that away, get it off the
table.
		
01:51:26 --> 01:51:30
			Get off the table. Let's see. What
do you got here? cheesesteak on
		
01:51:30 --> 01:51:33
			the pizza? My goodness all right,
pass it around
		
01:51:40 --> 01:51:45
			buffalo chicken pizza goodness.
Pass the box around
		
01:51:48 --> 01:51:51
			ask about the scenario take them
pass it around. Take this pass it
		
01:51:51 --> 01:51:52
			around what's in there?
		
01:51:53 --> 01:51:57
			Let's say somebody goes to jail.
And then they're
		
01:51:58 --> 01:52:01
			three meals a day that specific
time that's me. And they're not
		
01:52:01 --> 01:52:01
			allowed
		
01:52:05 --> 01:52:07
			no, they're not excused from
fasting because they could take
		
01:52:07 --> 01:52:08
			that food and put it aside
		
01:52:12 --> 01:52:13
			he still has to fast
		
01:52:15 --> 01:52:19
			in the jail if they only give you
meals at certain times a day you
		
01:52:19 --> 01:52:19
			still have to fast
		
01:52:22 --> 01:52:22
			Yeah
		
01:52:23 --> 01:52:25
			mobian Rafi Oh Dean says
		
01:52:27 --> 01:52:33
			why are graves of the pious built
up? At some point they all said
		
01:52:33 --> 01:52:35
			they wanted to distinct too much
this one
		
01:52:37 --> 01:52:42
			they wanted to distinguish the
ultimate and so they they built
		
01:52:42 --> 01:52:42
			something on the
		
01:52:46 --> 01:52:46
			internet it was like
		
01:52:50 --> 01:52:53
			at the school yeah there's like
somebody's your
		
01:52:57 --> 01:52:58
			teacher yeah
		
01:53:05 --> 01:53:06
			pictures of the prophets
		
01:53:07 --> 01:53:10
			sinful and like since even out of
		
01:53:12 --> 01:53:16
			places where he is born and places
Yeah, that's fine. But not
		
01:53:16 --> 01:53:18
			pictures the paintings of the
prophets of Allah what He was
		
01:53:18 --> 01:53:18
			sending them in
		
01:53:19 --> 01:53:22
			a legit company like the ones that
she had to fit and whatnot Yeah,
		
01:53:22 --> 01:53:27
			like even sometimes Sonny's made
those and he was saying basically
		
01:53:28 --> 01:53:31
			a lot of stuff was going on in
prison back in those days yeah
		
01:53:31 --> 01:53:31
			these are all personally
		
01:53:33 --> 01:53:34
			yeah the prisons were
		
01:53:35 --> 01:53:41
			sinful you don't you don't show it
No, maybe maybe I don't know what
		
01:53:41 --> 01:53:42
			is the there's no need to show it
		
01:53:43 --> 01:53:48
			like sometimes talking about
something sinful showing you
		
01:53:48 --> 01:53:52
			something sinful may have like
teaching you what an interest
		
01:53:52 --> 01:53:56
			contract looks like. So he can
avoid it. But you know those
		
01:53:56 --> 01:53:57
			pictures are not really
		
01:53:58 --> 01:54:02
			there's no need for it. So if he's
not promoting it and he says this
		
01:54:02 --> 01:54:05
			is haram but I'm gonna just show
you this is what they did showing
		
01:54:05 --> 01:54:09
			you there's no real need for it so
better to avoid that
		
01:54:15 --> 01:54:17
			will have your cut your head off?
We will do
		
01:54:22 --> 01:54:26
			it's not our heavy thing to not to
pick the profit on all the methods
		
01:54:26 --> 01:54:27
			no allow this
		
01:54:30 --> 01:54:31
			good
		
01:54:37 --> 01:54:40
			so you guys don't have the same
kind of this. This, by the way
		
01:54:40 --> 01:54:45
			isn't even classic Jersey pizza.
This is acceptable. But yeah, I
		
01:54:45 --> 01:54:46
			mean, it's good but
		
01:55:00 --> 01:55:01
			Of course there is no wiping and
		
01:55:07 --> 01:55:11
			is it wrong if a husband forces
his wife to do his job at the
		
01:55:11 --> 01:55:13
			threat of divorce Tobon
		
01:55:15 --> 01:55:20
			that means for example, let's say
he has a job on the computer. And
		
01:55:20 --> 01:55:21
			he says do this job.
		
01:55:22 --> 01:55:26
			Right? Because for some reason, he
can't force her to do that.
		
01:55:29 --> 01:55:33
			Can I do a do over socks in the
medical school up? Feet? Oracle
		
01:55:33 --> 01:55:33
			leather?
		
01:55:36 --> 01:55:41
			What's the delille? About getting
a second wife? And is it haram?
		
01:55:41 --> 01:55:45
			Firstly, to delete the Quran
allows for it? Is it haram to keep
		
01:55:45 --> 01:55:46
			the first wife in the dark? No.
		
01:55:47 --> 01:55:52
			Me her per being informed has
nothing to do with the validity of
		
01:55:52 --> 01:55:54
			the second marriage or the third
or the fourth.
		
01:55:56 --> 01:55:56
			You have to get
		
01:55:58 --> 01:55:58
			permission.
		
01:56:04 --> 01:56:05
			Once you get that
		
01:56:09 --> 01:56:12
			you don't even have to get your
mom and dad's approval to get to
		
01:56:12 --> 01:56:17
			get the first wife, you know that
you inform your mom and dad. But
		
01:56:17 --> 01:56:19
			technically by sitting that's not
how people live though, of course,
		
01:56:19 --> 01:56:19
			right.
		
01:56:22 --> 01:56:25
			The woman of course needs
permission from her wedding, when
		
01:56:25 --> 01:56:29
			it's her first marriage. She needs
a Willie but not his permission
		
01:56:29 --> 01:56:31
			for the for for her second
marriage, let's say death or
		
01:56:31 --> 01:56:34
			divorce. Now you're gonna marry
her again.
		
01:56:35 --> 01:56:37
			She needs the willie to be
present,
		
01:56:39 --> 01:56:43
			but doesn't need his permission.
He says this is a terrible idea. I
		
01:56:43 --> 01:56:46
			don't approve. That doesn't change
anything. She's permitted to go
		
01:56:46 --> 01:56:48
			forth. Now. On the second
marriage, he needs to be there,
		
01:56:48 --> 01:56:49
			but he cannot stop it.
		
01:56:51 --> 01:56:54
			Now remember, law is not how life
is lived, though.
		
01:56:56 --> 01:56:59
			So just separate the two things
law has nothing to do with how
		
01:56:59 --> 01:57:01
			real life is lived.
		
01:57:03 --> 01:57:03
			Yep.
		
01:57:06 --> 01:57:07
			Yeah.
		
01:57:14 --> 01:57:17
			There's no such thing as a secret
marriage in Islam.
		
01:57:18 --> 01:57:19
			Even if you don't
		
01:57:22 --> 01:57:26
			know Yeah, even if you don't tell
her but it's not it wasn't
		
01:57:26 --> 01:57:30
			performed in secret. It was
performed and out in the open. So
		
01:57:30 --> 01:57:34
			much. So the scholars in the old
days used to say, the new couple.
		
01:57:35 --> 01:57:39
			So much had beat a drum and
announce it. Beat the drum. That's
		
01:57:39 --> 01:57:41
			a sign someone got married and
announced so and so was married
		
01:57:41 --> 01:57:45
			now so and so's married. Right?
This is called the Ishihara
		
01:57:46 --> 01:57:48
			marriage is a public thing. What
happens if a baby comes out of
		
01:57:48 --> 01:57:51
			this marriage? So now you're
living with the first wife.
		
01:57:53 --> 01:57:57
			And then you die. And they're
dividing up the inheritance and
		
01:57:57 --> 01:58:00
			then a woman and a beat and a boy
come in? Is this like because one
		
01:58:00 --> 01:58:02
			of these movies and say well,
we're also deserved for the
		
01:58:02 --> 01:58:08
			inheritance. So it's hard is
necessary. You don't play games
		
01:58:08 --> 01:58:11
			with this stuff, right? There's no
games at this everything's out in
		
01:58:11 --> 01:58:12
			the open. Okay.
		
01:58:17 --> 01:58:20
			Somebody was a distant family
member
		
01:58:22 --> 01:58:26
			passed away. And during the past
year, ladies came with her sons
		
01:58:27 --> 01:58:31
			and loved by them like the
scenarios like for cut out or not.
		
01:58:32 --> 01:58:35
			But you know, asking and people
assume like the worst
		
01:58:35 --> 01:58:38
			automatically. She must have been
		
01:58:39 --> 01:58:41
			potential mistress or whatnot.
They want to inherit
		
01:58:43 --> 01:58:46
			a mistress and a son of a
mistress. No, they don't inherit.
		
01:58:47 --> 01:58:50
			That's not a valid child for the
dead. But they're saying that
		
01:58:50 --> 01:58:52
			basically like they didn't know
the people that because I mean,
		
01:58:52 --> 01:58:55
			the person that would the answer
is just unfortunate passed away.
		
01:58:55 --> 01:58:59
			Where is the witness to this
marriage? What did she have to
		
01:58:59 --> 01:59:00
			bring to
		
01:59:02 --> 01:59:03
			the witnesses?
		
01:59:07 --> 01:59:08
			Now listen to this.
		
01:59:10 --> 01:59:14
			One can I hold the most half
insula? In no effort that you're
		
01:59:14 --> 01:59:14
			either leading
		
01:59:16 --> 01:59:20
			or praying by yourself? Can I open
the most Huff while the Imam was
		
01:59:20 --> 01:59:25
			reciting? The answer's no. It's an
unnecessary movement. So you don't
		
01:59:25 --> 01:59:27
			hold the most half while the Imam
		
01:59:28 --> 01:59:33
			is reciting? Right. Where's Ryan?
G. You're there.
		
01:59:34 --> 01:59:37
			No, that's a mannequin Chaffee. I
just wanted I didn't see you
		
01:59:37 --> 01:59:39
			eating. So I was wondering where
you were. Okay, good.
		
01:59:42 --> 01:59:45
			Any nephila any nephila? In any
non obligatory Salah you can hold
		
01:59:45 --> 01:59:46
			the most half
		
01:59:47 --> 01:59:50
			in the in the Vatican Chaffee
schools and I believe that
		
01:59:50 --> 01:59:54
			somebody schools you can hold the
massage and read from it in any
		
01:59:54 --> 01:59:57
			non obligatory Salah as long as
you're praying alone or the leader
		
01:59:57 --> 01:59:59
			of the Salah, not as a follower of
the follower.
		
02:00:00 --> 02:00:03
			There's no excuse to do that. Even
Yeah,
		
02:00:04 --> 02:00:05
			even in toto we
		
02:00:06 --> 02:00:12
			Sheffy allow that Holding, holding
the most have while following the
		
02:00:12 --> 02:00:15
			mm shaggi evidence,
		
02:00:16 --> 02:00:17
			evidence
		
02:00:19 --> 02:00:23
			I've seen evidence they're
checking like the man they're
		
02:00:23 --> 02:00:25
			looking for any mistakes
		
02:00:27 --> 02:00:29
			he's doing to bring us evidence
right. No fairness
		
02:00:32 --> 02:00:36
			is his word a lot of like this
week too, except from check them
		
02:00:36 --> 02:00:36
			out?
		
02:00:43 --> 02:00:47
			Using pirated software, what's the
ruling on using pirated software?
		
02:00:48 --> 02:00:50
			I believe that would be a minor
sin.
		
02:00:51 --> 02:00:52
			Right.
		
02:00:54 --> 02:00:58
			pirating. Taking something that's
not yours. Yes. Okay.
		
02:01:00 --> 02:01:01
			Sorry. Somebody asked
		
02:01:03 --> 02:01:06
			was a shepherd position on
boarding and most of during salah.
		
02:01:06 --> 02:01:10
			He said, is permissible and silica
totally not appointed
		
02:01:12 --> 02:01:13
			as the email
		
02:01:15 --> 02:01:19
			for questions like while leading,
whether they are falling behind
		
02:01:19 --> 02:01:22
			the number, the amount that you
said it's permissible to all the
		
02:01:22 --> 02:01:23
			questions he asked
		
02:01:27 --> 02:01:29
			he said that explicitly. Yeah.
		
02:01:30 --> 02:01:35
			That the Sheffy allow for some for
the moon to hold the most have 10
		
02:01:35 --> 02:01:38
			questions you gave enter according
to everything.
		
02:01:40 --> 02:01:41
			He says
		
02:01:43 --> 02:01:46
			must have there's a law holding a
phone on and there is a law
		
02:01:47 --> 02:01:49
			doesn't matter whether they are
falling behind the man or the man
		
02:01:49 --> 02:01:52
			himself because other methods
allow it irrelevant.
		
02:01:53 --> 02:01:56
			Jeff D says
		
02:01:57 --> 02:01:58
			right here
		
02:02:01 --> 02:02:03
			it was known that person should
sorry.
		
02:02:06 --> 02:02:07
			Is it
		
02:02:09 --> 02:02:11
			while he finds out let me answer
this question.
		
02:02:15 --> 02:02:18
			Can a man disown their
illegitimate child? You don't have
		
02:02:18 --> 02:02:21
			it in the first place? He's not
attributed to you in the first
		
02:02:21 --> 02:02:22
			place.
		
02:02:23 --> 02:02:25
			A child is attributed to the woman
		
02:02:26 --> 02:02:27
			every time
		
02:02:28 --> 02:02:30
			and the men if he married that
woman
		
02:02:32 --> 02:02:36
			got the father in Cydia is the
husband
		
02:02:38 --> 02:02:41
			of the woman who gives birth if
that woman goes and cheats on him,
		
02:02:41 --> 02:02:43
			has a man has a baby from another
men.
		
02:02:45 --> 02:02:49
			The shittier the court will deem
that that baby is to the husband.
		
02:02:50 --> 02:02:50
			Jet.
		
02:02:53 --> 02:02:55
			How would the Muharram work for
that child?
		
02:02:56 --> 02:03:00
			You committed Zina with a woman,
you and you and her fornicated.
		
02:03:01 --> 02:03:06
			Now, none of your testimony is
accepted your fornicator. Right.
		
02:03:06 --> 02:03:10
			She says Wallah. He's the only guy
slept with here a fornicator. We
		
02:03:10 --> 02:03:14
			don't believe anything you say,
right. Okay, why would we believe
		
02:03:14 --> 02:03:17
			it you committed fornication. So
your testimony is out.
		
02:03:18 --> 02:03:21
			The DNA test says, All right, you
can believe that all you want. But
		
02:03:21 --> 02:03:26
			DNA testing is a some kind of
speculation in it. And it's not
		
02:03:26 --> 02:03:28
			something that's right in front of
our own two eyes, right.
		
02:03:29 --> 02:03:34
			So by shitty I won't be accepted,
will not be accepted. specialized
		
02:03:34 --> 02:03:36
			knowledge is not accepted in
certain things.
		
02:03:38 --> 02:03:41
			And certain things that need to be
public, like the identity, so you
		
02:03:41 --> 02:03:42
			that child
		
02:03:43 --> 02:03:44
			is to the woman,
		
02:03:45 --> 02:03:48
			that child is the son of that
woman, and her dad has to take
		
02:03:48 --> 02:03:50
			care of that child, whether he
likes it or not.
		
02:03:51 --> 02:03:54
			Her dad, the grandfather, the
maternal grandfather is
		
02:03:54 --> 02:03:57
			responsible for that baby, whether
you like it when he he's he hates
		
02:03:57 --> 02:04:00
			his daughter or not. Whether he
considers her to be, you know, she
		
02:04:00 --> 02:04:03
			disobeyed me, she's sinful, etc.
That doesn't make a difference.
		
02:04:03 --> 02:04:05
			You have to take care of that.
Don't talk to your daughter. If
		
02:04:05 --> 02:04:07
			you don't if you're disapprove of
this, but the child's innocent,
		
02:04:07 --> 02:04:10
			you have to take care of them. Now
the dad says will lie. I'm the
		
02:04:10 --> 02:04:14
			dad. I'm the father and he looks
like me. You can give sadaqa you
		
02:04:14 --> 02:04:18
			can marry the woman right? Now
once he marries that woman.
		
02:04:19 --> 02:04:21
			That dot that son or child.
		
02:04:23 --> 02:04:28
			Now if it's a girl, she is
forbidden for him forever. And she
		
02:04:28 --> 02:04:31
			could take her hijab off in front
of him. That's the solution. Okay.
		
02:04:31 --> 02:04:32
			That's a solution.
		
02:04:34 --> 02:04:38
			And the Hanafis they do have
leniency on this again, right?
		
02:04:38 --> 02:04:41
			They do say that. Yes. If it's
pretty much we can assume they're
		
02:04:41 --> 02:04:44
			the only couple and they were
like, let's say living together.
		
02:04:44 --> 02:04:47
			And there are many reasons to
believe then yes, he marries her
		
02:04:47 --> 02:04:52
			and then that child becomes his
legitimate son or daughter. So the
		
02:04:52 --> 02:04:56
			Hanafis have some leniency where
they applied common sense. Like
		
02:04:56 --> 02:04:59
			yeah, okay, she's a fornicator.
That's true. We know that he's a
		
02:04:59 --> 02:04:59
			fornicator too.
		
02:05:00 --> 02:05:03
			But still, nonetheless, they're
coming in a culture where nobody
		
02:05:03 --> 02:05:07
			marries. Right? And it's
reasonable that they're generally
		
02:05:08 --> 02:05:09
			truthful people.
		
02:05:10 --> 02:05:14
			And therefore, we can accept their
testimony on this, that he's the
		
02:05:14 --> 02:05:17
			dead, and then they marry
afterwards, then we can say you're
		
02:05:17 --> 02:05:18
			legitimate, it's a legitimate
		
02:05:19 --> 02:05:24
			your now that the lawful caretaker
of that child. So the Hanafi is
		
02:05:24 --> 02:05:28
			applied some some of that common
sense, which was, I think, useful
		
02:05:28 --> 02:05:32
			in our times. Yes, good. So, he
did continue on it. He said it is
		
02:05:32 --> 02:05:33
			permissible.
		
02:05:34 --> 02:05:36
			But then he said more.
		
02:05:38 --> 02:05:41
			He doesn't make the distinction
between folding. In other words,
		
02:05:41 --> 02:05:44
			it is permissible to read from
almost often prayer in the general
		
02:05:44 --> 02:05:49
			sense as the Imam read, because
the follower doesn't read
		
02:05:53 --> 02:05:54
			all in one guy.
		
02:05:56 --> 02:05:59
			If it's a chat, why don't you send
him right now? Send him a question
		
02:06:04 --> 02:06:09
			over there with England Yeah, I
did ask him a question was and I
		
02:06:09 --> 02:06:11
			never got an answer. So I'm gonna
ask you
		
02:06:14 --> 02:06:18
			to people are wearing helmets to
people are wearing padded helmets
		
02:06:19 --> 02:06:20
			and boxing gloves? Yeah.
		
02:06:21 --> 02:06:25
			Between the two no different
deformations caused? No there
		
02:06:25 --> 02:06:27
			shouldn't strike the face because
		
02:06:28 --> 02:06:30
			they still want to strike the face
because of the honor that Allah
		
02:06:30 --> 02:06:33
			gave the face. Yeah, they
shouldn't strike the head even if
		
02:06:33 --> 02:06:34
			they're wearing helmets.
		
02:06:40 --> 02:06:40
			Yes,
		
02:06:42 --> 02:06:44
			haram strike in the face. Yeah,
it's forbidden
		
02:06:50 --> 02:06:52
			if a person states accused
		
02:06:54 --> 02:06:57
			of Zina get put on the spot, no
doubt
		
02:06:59 --> 02:07:02
			doesn't really need discussion
because Allah made her innocent in
		
02:07:02 --> 02:07:06
			the Quran. Right? Allah made her
innocent in the Quran, right?
		
02:07:09 --> 02:07:10
			Yeah.
		
02:07:13 --> 02:07:13
			Go ahead.
		
02:07:17 --> 02:07:19
			I guess when slash how should
		
02:07:20 --> 02:07:21
			we perform?
		
02:07:27 --> 02:07:32
			Salam Chikara it goes like this.
You have made a decision with your
		
02:07:32 --> 02:07:37
			mind. And with asking advice from
people, you made a decision now
		
02:07:37 --> 02:07:39
			you ask Allah to Allah did I make
the right decision?
		
02:07:40 --> 02:07:44
			And you do two rockets you were
said to drop then if the matter
		
02:07:44 --> 02:07:47
			becomes easy, then you made the
right decision. If the matter
		
02:07:47 --> 02:07:49
			becomes hard, then you made the
wrong choices.
		
02:07:51 --> 02:07:53
			None read us though the Instagram
question please.
		
02:07:54 --> 02:07:55
			Stay patient.
		
02:07:58 --> 02:08:02
			How do you remain patient? During
a prolonged you ask Allah for
		
02:08:02 --> 02:08:05
			patience because essentially you
have no choice, right? matters
		
02:08:05 --> 02:08:07
			that are out of your control, you
have no choice. So just ask Allah
		
02:08:07 --> 02:08:08
			for help.
		
02:08:10 --> 02:08:13
			And patience is by force in the
most subtle bit to somebody by
		
02:08:13 --> 02:08:16
			force making yourself patient,
busy yourself, distract your mind,
		
02:08:17 --> 02:08:20
			things like that. Ask Allah for
help. So again, if a man and a
		
02:08:20 --> 02:08:24
			woman they have an illegitimate
child out of marriage, it's not
		
02:08:24 --> 02:08:29
			that child is not attributed to
the men. Because what we saw what
		
02:08:29 --> 02:08:32
			the whole society saw is that
child came out of that woman, that
		
02:08:32 --> 02:08:33
			woman does not have a husband.
		
02:08:34 --> 02:08:37
			The child does for the woman and
her dad has to take care of the
		
02:08:37 --> 02:08:37
			child.
		
02:08:38 --> 02:08:39
			Okay.
		
02:08:42 --> 02:08:42
			That's how it works.
		
02:08:44 --> 02:08:49
			If a man cheats and disowns his
child, they still answer to Allah
		
02:08:49 --> 02:08:52
			of course all that is you're still
answerable to Allah subhanaw taala
		
02:08:52 --> 02:08:55
			no doubt about that. So he said
it's not like you got away with
		
02:08:55 --> 02:08:55
			it.
		
02:08:57 --> 02:08:57
			Right.
		
02:09:10 --> 02:09:14
			Ah, Adrienne Ateeq Romain have an
epic battle battle here. Listen to
		
02:09:14 --> 02:09:15
			this.
		
02:09:17 --> 02:09:21
			So Ateeq says to Chaudry this is
like, I don't think that's
		
02:09:21 --> 02:09:25
			acceptable form of evidence. HRG
says I'm not claiming it as
		
02:09:25 --> 02:09:26
			artique says then doughnuts are
		
02:09:28 --> 02:09:30
			then charged. He says Do we need
your permission to have an
		
02:09:30 --> 02:09:35
			opinion? A teak says nobody's
asking for your opinion. Charger
		
02:09:35 --> 02:09:38
			says you're rude. A teak says you
don't need to satisfy your ego by
		
02:09:38 --> 02:09:41
			answering every question you get
charged. You said no one asked
		
02:09:41 --> 02:09:42
			your opinion either.
		
02:09:43 --> 02:09:47
			I mean, maybe if they hear it out
loud, they'll realize we shouldn't
		
02:09:47 --> 02:09:50
			be talking like this. Charge you
then says you're the one who's one
		
02:09:50 --> 02:09:51
			with your ego.
		
02:09:53 --> 02:09:57
			Epic little bow here and battle
here. Dramatic. He's have a
		
02:09:57 --> 02:09:59
			concept mcru tansy. Hinta hurry
Mila. This is cool.
		
02:10:00 --> 02:10:03
			discouragement, discouragement,
when there's not really the proof
		
02:10:03 --> 02:10:07
			to make something forbidden. The
Hanafi is if the proof is based on
		
02:10:07 --> 02:10:12
			HG head, then it's mcru. If it's
proof of prohibition, based on
		
02:10:12 --> 02:10:15
			HDL, then it's what they call
mcru. Ptolemy
		
02:10:20 --> 02:10:21
			speak
		
02:10:23 --> 02:10:27
			versus saying what is the stance
taken on a given contemporary
		
02:10:27 --> 02:10:29
			scholar in America as followers
taking
		
02:10:31 --> 02:10:32
			as long as
		
02:10:35 --> 02:10:35
			if someone
		
02:10:37 --> 02:10:41
			is claiming to be a much to hit,
first of all, the correct practice
		
02:10:41 --> 02:10:43
			is that another much
		
02:10:44 --> 02:10:45
			Mufti
		
02:10:46 --> 02:10:47
			another Mufti
		
02:10:48 --> 02:10:53
			signed you off as a Mufti. And in
our day and age, the Mufti of
		
02:10:53 --> 02:10:56
			today is only in New matters. I
think you all Muslims agree
		
02:10:56 --> 02:10:59
			there's no no more in which
stadiums, right? But there is much
		
02:10:59 --> 02:11:05
			to hit and Mufti in no as in in
New matters. So it should be that
		
02:11:05 --> 02:11:07
			someone signed you off as that
got.
		
02:11:09 --> 02:11:10
			Someone said,
		
02:11:11 --> 02:11:11
			You're a Mufti.
		
02:11:13 --> 02:11:16
			You have the qualifications. And
usually that happens that the
		
02:11:16 --> 02:11:20
			sheikh has an assistant and you we
all see the ship with that
		
02:11:20 --> 02:11:22
			assistant and that assistant keeps
growing and growing ship starts
		
02:11:22 --> 02:11:25
			giving him more responsibilities.
And then eventually ship says
		
02:11:25 --> 02:11:25
			What's your opinion?
		
02:11:26 --> 02:11:30
			So becomes clear to us that the
Sheikh is now approving of his
		
02:11:30 --> 02:11:34
			rich dad in new matters. Right?
		
02:11:35 --> 02:11:36
			This is the message
		
02:11:37 --> 02:11:39
			Oh, the most up we have an answer
to the most aren't we? Let's
		
02:11:39 --> 02:11:41
			answer the most up and then we'll
get back to this one go ahead.
		
02:11:57 --> 02:12:01
			So that's what we set, we set the
Imam and then when fed it's not
		
02:12:01 --> 02:12:02
			them at home.
		
02:12:03 --> 02:12:07
			So the difference in the Shafi
school and the Maliki school is
		
02:12:07 --> 02:12:10
			that it doesn't matter footed or
Nestle. So you can pray Maghrib or
		
02:12:10 --> 02:12:13
			Aisha from the most half, whether
you're leading Are you praying by
		
02:12:13 --> 02:12:15
			yourself? But right It didn't say
the moon
		
02:12:19 --> 02:12:25
			the heat is rising on Ferris. The
heat is rising. Okay. Is it there?
		
02:12:25 --> 02:12:29
			No answer. So the moon does not
have the permission to recite from
		
02:12:29 --> 02:12:33
			the Masaf. According to that he
just didn't he didn't explicitly
		
02:12:33 --> 02:12:33
			say
		
02:12:38 --> 02:12:39
			ask
		
02:12:41 --> 02:12:41
			as technology
		
02:12:43 --> 02:12:46
			or asks your co summersault Hey,
let me ask you right now.
		
02:12:48 --> 02:12:51
			Chico sama. Let me ask you a
question because it's it's only
		
02:12:51 --> 02:12:54
			four o'clock Jersey time. So who?
Here we go? Bismillah R Rahman
		
02:12:54 --> 02:12:54
			him.
		
02:12:56 --> 02:12:59
			Sara Maria camicia can give her
while we have a question in the
		
02:12:59 --> 02:13:02
			chef a school. The moon the one
who's
		
02:13:03 --> 02:13:07
			following in the Salah. macdaddy.
Can he open the most half and
		
02:13:07 --> 02:13:09
			follow along the Imam as he's
reciting?
		
02:13:13 --> 02:13:17
			Yeah, I just sent him a message.
voice message. Okay, so back to
		
02:13:17 --> 02:13:18
			what we were saying what we were
saying earlier.
		
02:13:21 --> 02:13:22
			Okay, so then
		
02:13:23 --> 02:13:29
			let's say hypothetically, someone
sat down or put himself up and
		
02:13:29 --> 02:13:34
			said I'm giving photo. So for
this, we would the column the
		
02:13:34 --> 02:13:35
			existing
		
02:13:36 --> 02:13:42
			which the heads in Zilla Mufti is,
would assess his photo as right as
		
02:13:42 --> 02:13:45
			agreeable to them or disagreeable
to them. And then the people who
		
02:13:45 --> 02:13:49
			want to follow him, he takes the
responsibility of their religion
		
02:13:49 --> 02:13:52
			on that in that case, so that's
how we would treat you can't stop
		
02:13:52 --> 02:13:55
			someone say Okay, I'm gonna Mufti
now. But let's see what the
		
02:13:55 --> 02:13:58
			community says. We'll see what the
scholars say about them. Right.
		
02:13:59 --> 02:14:00
			And let the let all the
		
02:14:02 --> 02:14:04
			evidence the cards fall where they
where they fall, because you can't
		
02:14:04 --> 02:14:06
			stop someone from talking. Right?
		
02:14:08 --> 02:14:12
			Yeah, I know. It's like more
popular now to have like six to 10
		
02:14:12 --> 02:14:13
			year programs or like
		
02:14:17 --> 02:14:20
			so okay, let me tell you, the
Mufti programs when someone says a
		
02:14:20 --> 02:14:24
			mufti, they may refer to a Mufti
that can answer questions in
		
02:14:24 --> 02:14:31
			matters that are already exist.
Right? Not in new matters. Usually
		
02:14:31 --> 02:14:35
			someone who has a Mufti in new
matters. The term Mufti refers to
		
02:14:35 --> 02:14:40
			that someone who gives the federal
on new matters like Bitcoin. How
		
02:14:40 --> 02:14:44
			do I pay his account on is it even
permitted? For me to purchase that
		
02:14:44 --> 02:14:48
			or not? Because the Shafia said,
No, you can purchase this. It's
		
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			nothing. Right? It's essentially
nothing. Neither is it a good that
		
02:14:51 --> 02:14:55
			you can touch nor does it a
surface. Okay. So the chef I Yeah,
		
02:14:55 --> 02:14:59
			the sugary drama has fatawa on
that. He says these Americans are
		
02:14:59 --> 02:14:59
			just gambling.
		
02:15:00 --> 02:15:02
			and they buy and sell things that
don't exist.
		
02:15:03 --> 02:15:06
			So he forbade it completely. He's
a Mufti of the Shafi school, the
		
02:15:06 --> 02:15:12
			Medicare permitted it and they
said, we treat it as a stock until
		
02:15:12 --> 02:15:14
			the day comes that you can buy
soda and gas and pizza and homes
		
02:15:14 --> 02:15:18
			with with Bitcoin that everyone
doesn't it's not newsworthy,
		
02:15:18 --> 02:15:22
			right? That everyone does it
Shafia also said this is something
		
02:15:22 --> 02:15:25
			that doesn't exist in a country
and you can't get your rights.
		
02:15:27 --> 02:15:31
			If Bitcoin itself the actual
Bitcoin, not any cryptocurrency
		
02:15:31 --> 02:15:35
			actual Bitcoin, Bitcoin, nobody
knows who founded it. Nobody knows
		
02:15:35 --> 02:15:36
			who's in charge of it.
		
02:15:37 --> 02:15:40
			If someday the owner came down,
and I don't know if he can even do
		
02:15:40 --> 02:15:43
			this, but the founder came and
shut it all down. You lose all
		
02:15:43 --> 02:15:47
			their money, right? How do we
where do we sue him? Right.
		
02:15:49 --> 02:15:52
			So it's so that part of it was a
chef and took that into account.
		
02:15:55 --> 02:15:58
			Mm hmm. See, assumes he was
lenient on speaking out and
		
02:15:58 --> 02:16:02
			teaching fifth he says if a person
reads and truly understands, and
		
02:16:02 --> 02:16:04
			they could teach what's really
truly needs a
		
02:16:08 --> 02:16:13
			little bit more tight rope on it
is Fetzer on new matters and the
		
02:16:13 --> 02:16:16
			crypto assets of Quran gara ads of
Quran
		
02:16:20 --> 02:16:24
			is it for permitted or haram to
get a degree in finance? And you
		
02:16:24 --> 02:16:26
			never work? Where there is
Ribault?
		
02:16:27 --> 02:16:31
			Yeah, that should be fine. Risk
Analysis, financial analysis, risk
		
02:16:31 --> 02:16:31
			management.
		
02:16:33 --> 02:16:37
			Question skipped more than six
times here it is. says what what
		
02:16:38 --> 02:16:41
			this question was skipped like
five times? What do those small
		
02:16:41 --> 02:16:44
			coincidences mean? When like
someone says something directly
		
02:16:44 --> 02:16:48
			related to you? Maybe sometimes
you can recognize that Allah is
		
02:16:48 --> 02:16:53
			answering a question that I that I
had in myself. Right. And
		
02:16:53 --> 02:16:58
			sometimes you you feel as if the
the aid of Allah is with you,
		
02:16:58 --> 02:16:58
			right?
		
02:17:00 --> 02:17:03
			Sometimes you feel that? And if
it's in something that's good,
		
02:17:03 --> 02:17:06
			then it's more likely that
hopefully, you're correct about
		
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			that serendipitous coincidence?
That seems like there's no way
		
02:17:10 --> 02:17:12
			that's coincidence. I feel like
Allah is helping me.
		
02:17:14 --> 02:17:14
			Yes.
		
02:17:17 --> 02:17:22
			They, they permit it, if people
use it, buy it and sell it as
		
02:17:22 --> 02:17:27
			either a stock or as a currency
Medicus hold to be a currency that
		
02:17:27 --> 02:17:29
			which whatever people trade in
		
02:17:30 --> 02:17:33
			the shadow phase had that extra
layer, they said, Can this broken,
		
02:17:33 --> 02:17:36
			you get your rights in court. If
you can't get your rights in
		
02:17:36 --> 02:17:39
			court, then you can't buy and sell
this thing. That's what many men
		
02:17:39 --> 02:17:40
			SFA said.
		
02:17:43 --> 02:17:46
			So if it's used as a currency, you
pay as a cause of currency, if
		
02:17:46 --> 02:17:49
			it's treated as a stock, which I
think most people treat as a
		
02:17:49 --> 02:17:52
			stock, they go to whatever web
buyer wherever they bought it, and
		
02:17:52 --> 02:17:56
			they check his crypto up or down,
and then they
		
02:17:57 --> 02:18:02
			pay it as a stock. So stocks,
technically, the stock.
		
02:18:03 --> 02:18:08
			It's something that where when you
cash out, you pay zakat on it.
		
02:18:08 --> 02:18:12
			Others said, if you're a stock
trader every day you're trading
		
02:18:12 --> 02:18:15
			back and forth stock, then it's
inventory. The stock itself is
		
02:18:15 --> 02:18:18
			treated as a piece of inventory,
if you're someone who trades all
		
02:18:18 --> 02:18:21
			the time, but if you said let me
just throw this in there for a
		
02:18:21 --> 02:18:24
			rainy day, let it sit and
marinate. And in 10 years all my
		
02:18:24 --> 02:18:28
			cash out, then the day you cash
out, you pay us a cut on that same
		
02:18:28 --> 02:18:31
			thing with a home. If you're a guy
who has let's say a portfolio of
		
02:18:31 --> 02:18:35
			100 homes as a real estate guy.
And you're buying and selling
		
02:18:35 --> 02:18:38
			homes every day, it's like no
different than a by a guy who buys
		
02:18:38 --> 02:18:41
			and sells phones every day, then
your home is your inventory. And
		
02:18:41 --> 02:18:45
			you pay the cat on your inventory
minus debts. But if you're a guy
		
02:18:45 --> 02:18:48
			who just bought himself two condos
and you rent them out,
		
02:18:49 --> 02:18:52
			when I sell them when I need the
money, I'll sell them, then the
		
02:18:52 --> 02:18:56
			day you sell them because you're
somebody who's holding it. You're
		
02:18:56 --> 02:18:58
			not everyday buying and selling
and something so there's the cat
		
02:18:58 --> 02:19:01
			on money. There's the get on
inventory, and then there's a cut
		
02:19:01 --> 02:19:04
			on holdings. Things are just
holding to sit there that's called
		
02:19:04 --> 02:19:09
			a more Decker, the one who buys
something and just sits on it. The
		
02:19:09 --> 02:19:12
			one who buys something and just
sits on it and doesn't plan to
		
02:19:12 --> 02:19:15
			sell it and he doesn't trade with
it every day. He pays a cut the
		
02:19:15 --> 02:19:17
			day he sells it on the money he
makes
		
02:19:18 --> 02:19:22
			minus all the expenses and the
debts. Yeah.
		
02:19:23 --> 02:19:25
			Go ahead. Ryan has Joe up let's
hear it
		
02:19:32 --> 02:19:32
			yes
		
02:19:38 --> 02:19:39
			by now
		
02:19:42 --> 02:19:43
			you're lucky
		
02:19:51 --> 02:19:51
			sorry.
		
02:19:55 --> 02:19:59
			There is the answer. Ryan brought
it from shafee.com Because he's
		
02:19:59 --> 02:20:00
			now a
		
02:20:00 --> 02:20:04
			Shafi and Ferris is off the hook
he was about to do these chords
		
02:20:04 --> 02:20:08
			fit nice and neat around your neck
forgiving the wrong foot to up.
		
02:20:08 --> 02:20:09
			But
		
02:20:10 --> 02:20:16
			he's off the hook. The shaft phase
can hold the most of behind the
		
02:20:16 --> 02:20:21
			emem to help read in Tada, we go
ahead.
		
02:20:24 --> 02:20:25
			Yeah, we're not gonna say the
phone.
		
02:20:27 --> 02:20:28
			So he may hold the most have
		
02:20:31 --> 02:20:33
			someone in chat said
		
02:20:35 --> 02:20:37
			someone's going on, I'm gonna in a
few days.
		
02:20:39 --> 02:20:40
			You want to try to decrease your
		
02:20:41 --> 02:20:45
			distractions you only have doing
something you're only doing it for
		
02:20:45 --> 02:20:46
			a week or so.
		
02:20:47 --> 02:20:51
			Decrease your distractions and
increase your bed. And especially
		
02:20:51 --> 02:20:55
			they may be Ramadan, as well. So
		
02:20:56 --> 02:21:01
			really tell everybody make some
sacrifice. And do what?
		
02:21:03 --> 02:21:06
			Our guy from Australia says.
What's his name? Muhammad Oswald
		
02:21:06 --> 02:21:11
			to name. Don't call me. Don't text
me. Don't invite me. That's what
		
02:21:11 --> 02:21:15
			he said for Ramadan. When Ramadan
comes what's his name? Muhammad?
		
02:21:15 --> 02:21:19
			Abalos. Yeah, don't call me. Hey,
can we get that I want that
		
02:21:19 --> 02:21:24
			recorded. Don't call me. Don't
text me. Don't invite me. Okay,
		
02:21:24 --> 02:21:27
			leave me alone. That's what you
got to tell your friends.
		
02:21:29 --> 02:21:32
			When I go, No, because I think
he's an opposite side of
		
02:21:32 --> 02:21:36
			Australia. He's in Sydney. I think
I'm going to Melbourne.
		
02:21:37 --> 02:21:38
			Charla June 24.
		
02:21:40 --> 02:21:41
			He's a great preacher for sure.
		
02:21:43 --> 02:21:43
			Okay.
		
02:21:46 --> 02:21:50
			selling stocks before the
settlement day. Is it haram?
		
02:21:51 --> 02:21:53
			I can't tell you. I don't know if
that's a technique that people do.
		
02:21:53 --> 02:21:56
			I don't really know much about it
to be quite honest with you.
		
02:22:00 --> 02:22:03
			I can't tell you the answer to
that. But if it's something a
		
02:22:03 --> 02:22:07
			practice like you're legally
swindling someone then no, that's
		
02:22:07 --> 02:22:07
			not right.
		
02:22:13 --> 02:22:14
			I lend someone money.
		
02:22:16 --> 02:22:16
			And
		
02:22:17 --> 02:22:19
			is this gentleman's Mica?
		
02:22:20 --> 02:22:25
			Yeah, go. Alright. So let's say I
lend somebody money on top of the
		
02:22:25 --> 02:22:29
			money I've, I guess, have and are
the properties I have.
		
02:22:30 --> 02:22:34
			But then let's say like that, that
money. It's technically equivalent
		
02:22:34 --> 02:22:35
			to the like, the nisab amount.
		
02:22:37 --> 02:22:38
			Once you lend someone money,
		
02:22:40 --> 02:22:44
			it's off your books. Perfect.
You're not this is accountable for
		
02:22:44 --> 02:22:47
			you anymore. It's off your books.
Good.
		
02:22:48 --> 02:22:52
			Is playing arcade games gambling?
No, it's not.
		
02:22:53 --> 02:22:57
			So you put in two bucks, so that
you could play a racecar game or
		
02:22:57 --> 02:23:01
			something? No, that's not
gambling. That's
		
02:23:02 --> 02:23:07
			by laws. harlot. It's a waste of
time. But It's haram, if you put
		
02:23:07 --> 02:23:11
			in money for the crane to get a
doll for you, for example. And you
		
02:23:11 --> 02:23:15
			can get it or not get it that's
forbidden for you. It's not, it's
		
02:23:15 --> 02:23:18
			sort of like gambling, it's more
like Bay,
		
02:23:19 --> 02:23:24
			or pay money, and then shoot a
basket. Great Adventures are one
		
02:23:24 --> 02:23:28
			of these theme parks. And the
baskets are very small, for
		
02:23:28 --> 02:23:32
			example, it's rigged, and you end
up wasting your money forbidden.
		
02:23:32 --> 02:23:36
			Anytime you pay money, I either
get a good or a service, right?
		
02:23:39 --> 02:23:39
			And then
		
02:23:43 --> 02:23:47
			if you pay money and you get
tickets, then you use the tickets
		
02:23:47 --> 02:23:50
			to ride rides. Or do those things
that's how that because you're
		
02:23:50 --> 02:23:53
			getting the service which is
riding the rides, right? That's
		
02:23:53 --> 02:23:56
			level basically it's highlighted
for you. Those are those aren't
		
02:23:56 --> 02:23:57
			forbid deals.
		
02:23:58 --> 02:23:59
			Yeah, right.
		
02:24:02 --> 02:24:03
			Yeah.
		
02:24:08 --> 02:24:13
			No, it's a loan, or it's a gift.
You may say it's alone. And in the
		
02:24:13 --> 02:24:16
			back of my head, I may forgive it
or I may not get there's a big
		
02:24:16 --> 02:24:17
			difference in the loan and a gift.
		
02:24:18 --> 02:24:22
			Because a gift, you can ask for it
back alone. You can. You could
		
02:24:22 --> 02:24:26
			say, hey, just a reminder, you got
one month to pay up.
		
02:24:27 --> 02:24:30
			You can choose to forgive or not
in a loan.
		
02:24:32 --> 02:24:35
			Whereas a gift. All right, now
let's talk about this. What's the
		
02:24:35 --> 02:24:37
			difference in a gift and sadaqa?
		
02:24:38 --> 02:24:42
			When I give you a gift, I expect
to cement a bond in a
		
02:24:42 --> 02:24:43
			relationship.
		
02:24:44 --> 02:24:46
			And that one day, you're going to
help me
		
02:24:47 --> 02:24:52
			in any capacity, just hanging out
inviting me over. Maybe one day
		
02:24:52 --> 02:24:57
			you give me a gift. So a gift
there is an expectation of a
		
02:24:57 --> 02:25:00
			return from the other person
doesn't have to be
		
02:25:00 --> 02:25:04
			material return, but I expect now
we should be better friends. No
		
02:25:04 --> 02:25:07
			one gives sadaqa with any
expectation from the other person.
		
02:25:09 --> 02:25:13
			You expect the reward from Allah,
I give you sadaqa we should not
		
02:25:13 --> 02:25:16
			even have to see each other again,
you owe me nothing. That's sadaqa.
		
02:25:18 --> 02:25:22
			And a gift I could take back if I
see you misusing it, so I never
		
02:25:22 --> 02:25:27
			take it back. So I give you let's
say, a car as a gift.
		
02:25:28 --> 02:25:34
			And I see you misusing it, driving
all to unlawful places. And then I
		
02:25:34 --> 02:25:37
			could say I didn't give you a gift
to use it for the Haram give it
		
02:25:37 --> 02:25:37
			back.
		
02:25:39 --> 02:25:41
			Gifts, you can take back
investments, I can pull out the
		
02:25:41 --> 02:25:45
			company. If I don't like the
directions, but sadaqa you give it
		
02:25:45 --> 02:25:46
			you don't ask questions.
		
02:25:48 --> 02:25:49
			not permissible.
		
02:25:54 --> 02:25:58
			Yes, once you just now you don't
like the person or you need the
		
02:25:58 --> 02:26:02
			money, then it's highly
discouraged. For you to say I need
		
02:26:02 --> 02:26:05
			to give back. It's disgusting
behavior. For no reason. If
		
02:26:05 --> 02:26:07
			there's a reason that is how to
		
02:26:08 --> 02:26:13
			speak. How does I feel like I've
seen you answer this little bait
		
02:26:13 --> 02:26:18
			is everybody who descends from
optimal toilet. So the grandfather
		
02:26:18 --> 02:26:23
			of the prophesy son through men,
He descends to them through men.
		
02:26:24 --> 02:26:28
			Okay, yeah. No, because I just
someone asked in regards to the
		
02:26:28 --> 02:26:34
			gifting apart sadaqa l Bates is
mcru only on one condition
		
02:26:35 --> 02:26:39
			suddha Kozma crew Zeca is haram
for a little bit on one condition
		
02:26:40 --> 02:26:45
			that the state is taking care of
their poor. If there is no dolla,
		
02:26:45 --> 02:26:49
			there's no curricula for no king.
No anybody who recognizes and
		
02:26:49 --> 02:26:52
			debates as a category and actively
takes care of their poor people
		
02:26:53 --> 02:26:59
			from added bait. Then sadaqa NZQA
is halal for them. And on top of
		
02:26:59 --> 02:27:02
			that, it's prioritized for them
and it's treated as a gift.
		
02:27:03 --> 02:27:06
			Okay, so in America today,
someone's poor from edit Bates. Is
		
02:27:06 --> 02:27:10
			there a Dola? Taking care of them?
No. So therefore we can give them
		
02:27:10 --> 02:27:12
			Zika but we don't call it like I
will call it a gift
		
02:27:14 --> 02:27:14
			they can receive Zika
		
02:27:16 --> 02:27:19
			All right, couple more questions.
Then we wrap up is smoking
		
02:27:19 --> 02:27:23
			marijuana. Haram my kids are
asking yes. 110% is forbidden.
		
02:27:24 --> 02:27:25
			Yep, that's true, but it
		
02:27:28 --> 02:27:31
			No, alcohol is worse than
marijuana. Alcohol is worse than
		
02:27:31 --> 02:27:33
			all drugs. Yep.
		
02:27:34 --> 02:27:40
			Yep. Alcohol is worse than all
drugs. But it's forbidden 100%
		
02:27:40 --> 02:27:42
			anything that causes you to lose
your
		
02:27:44 --> 02:27:50
			your mental faculties your mind is
altered. It's forbidden anything
		
02:27:50 --> 02:27:53
			that is mood altering is hella
		
02:27:55 --> 02:27:59
			and it could be mcru If there's
harm to it. Okay. Mood alter
		
02:27:59 --> 02:28:01
			coffees. mood altering, right.
Makes me a little bit happier.
		
02:28:01 --> 02:28:05
			Right? Melatonin gummy bears mood
altering because now I feel like
		
02:28:05 --> 02:28:09
			sleepy or not even mood altering,
completely sleeping but I'm fully
		
02:28:09 --> 02:28:12
			with it. Alright, so
		
02:28:13 --> 02:28:17
			you can be even sugar a lot of
high doses of sugar kids are
		
02:28:17 --> 02:28:22
			bouncing around the walls off the
walls is Hello mood altering
		
02:28:22 --> 02:28:26
			unless the effect is not good not
healthy then the substance is
		
02:28:26 --> 02:28:32
			never haram but how you use it may
be discouraged or encouraged for
		
02:28:32 --> 02:28:35
			HANA Patel rapid fire before we
wrap up what happens to elderly
		
02:28:35 --> 02:28:38
			parents whose son doesn't pick up
responsibility he's sinful and
		
02:28:38 --> 02:28:42
			doesn't emotionally or mentally
grow up. Does it fall on the son
		
02:28:42 --> 02:28:46
			in law? Yes. falls on the son in
law then it falls on the daughter
		
02:28:47 --> 02:28:47
			Yep.
		
02:28:49 --> 02:28:52
			Quick question regarding his
Takata we answered this what if we
		
02:28:52 --> 02:28:55
			see positive signs regarding a
matter in a dream? Forget dreams.
		
02:28:56 --> 02:29:01
			Forget dreams. Okay. The real the
prophets I sent him put the
		
02:29:01 --> 02:29:06
			conditions of a Sahara in the
prayer itself. And he says oh
		
02:29:06 --> 02:29:09
			Allah this is good for me make it
easy dreams could be you love her
		
02:29:09 --> 02:29:14
			so much that you dream about her.
So in marriage especially cruel
		
02:29:14 --> 02:29:17
			out dreams you can it could be
true and not true. Who knows
		
02:29:17 --> 02:29:20
			right? In marriage specifically
ruled out dreams
		
02:29:22 --> 02:29:26
			all right. In terms of making the
decision if after you made this
		
02:29:26 --> 02:29:30
			decision, then you see a wonderful
dream that has symbols and it's
		
02:29:30 --> 02:29:32
			looks like it's true and in the
true gem interpreters at all. It's
		
02:29:32 --> 02:29:35
			a true gem that you could believe
it you're already married you
		
02:29:35 --> 02:29:38
			already you know made the decision
and you already engaged or
		
02:29:38 --> 02:29:43
			whatever. So it just icing on top.
That's how you should perceive the
		
02:29:43 --> 02:29:46
			dream not a decision making
factor. We'd have a crazy OMA if
		
02:29:46 --> 02:29:49
			we did. We'd all be going crazy,
right? And then how do you explain
		
02:29:49 --> 02:29:52
			to this Oh, so why would you like
to come and propose to my
		
02:29:52 --> 02:29:56
			daughter? I saw a dream. You're
out. Get me somebody who's in
		
02:29:56 --> 02:29:57
			reality.
		
02:29:58 --> 02:29:59
			Someone else sees the dream like
		
02:30:00 --> 02:30:04
			Not for you anymore. Like, when
someone else sees a dream for you,
		
02:30:04 --> 02:30:08
			it's probably more more
trustworthy, because it's not
		
02:30:08 --> 02:30:11
			coming from your knifes. Right?
But you still don't make it as a
		
02:30:11 --> 02:30:12
			basis
		
02:30:14 --> 02:30:15
			of a decision
		
02:30:24 --> 02:30:29
			Why is marijuana forbidden? It is
forbidden because it alters the
		
02:30:29 --> 02:30:36
			mind. It alters the mind you will
not be in your Census. Okay, silly
		
02:30:36 --> 02:30:39
			question. But how to ask no, not
silly, nothing is assumed here.
		
02:30:40 --> 02:30:42
			Our assumption is that the
listener and the viewer knows
		
02:30:42 --> 02:30:43
			nothing about Islam.
		
02:30:44 --> 02:30:47
			And that's why I have no problem
repeating all these answers, which
		
02:30:47 --> 02:30:49
			some of these brothers have heard
more than 50 times? I'm not
		
02:30:49 --> 02:30:52
			kidding you 50 times I've heard
the same thing. That's okay. We're
		
02:30:52 --> 02:30:56
			here to etch it in our minds for
us. But for them, it's the first
		
02:30:56 --> 02:30:59
			time think about the listener not
about you. Many people do this,
		
02:30:59 --> 02:31:03
			oh, I answered this 50 times,
okay. But you're doing data for
		
02:31:03 --> 02:31:07
			the listener, not for the speaker.
Right? So why don't you read fats?
		
02:31:07 --> 02:31:10
			I'm more than that. Right? Why is
Allah make you read it more than
		
02:31:10 --> 02:31:12
			so many times, because you need to
watch it in your head.
		
02:31:13 --> 02:31:18
			Can men wear red, they can wear
red as any color as long as it's
		
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			not associated with pagans, the
opposite gender, some kind of
		
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			group of people who do Fisk,
		
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			Fisk, for example.
		
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			You cannot wear a color that is
that only a certain group of
		
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			people wear.
		
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			You can't go around wearing a
rainbow sweatshirt these days
		
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			anymore. Because it has a
connotation that will ruin your
		
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			reputation. If you were amongst
us, right? You get a good
		
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			reputation amongst other people.
So go and enjoy with them. Right?
		
02:31:50 --> 02:31:53
			So you're going to be stuck with
that. So
		
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			for example, in India, I believe
they're their Buddhist monks,
		
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			Hindus, they wear certain colors
there it would be unlawful for us
		
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			to wear you'd be confused as one
of them. Or it looks like you're
		
02:32:06 --> 02:32:10
			supporting one of them. Okay, so
there's a certain orangey yellow
		
02:32:10 --> 02:32:13
			that the Buddhist monks were we're
not allowed to wear it in that way
		
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			over there. If it's like a hoodie
Yeah, they don't wear it as a
		
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			hoodie they wear it as like
		
02:32:19 --> 02:32:23
			a cloth right? So you can't wear
that you can't wear something that
		
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			that's that's all the prohibition
is based upon. If now society
		
02:32:26 --> 02:32:29
			changes and that has no meaning
whatsoever, then you can wear it
		
02:32:29 --> 02:32:32
			the same thing. Right the same
exact thing is unlawful in one
		
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			society is lawful in the next
society.
		
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			How does that relate to like
things like jewelry like earrings
		
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			and bracelets? All jewelry is
haram for men. Okay, this guy's
		
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			got come Bucha is out. Jewelry is
out. This brother is regret this
		
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			trip. This brother is going to
regret the day. He's walked into
		
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			the studio. All jewelry is haram
for men. By the verse of Quran I
		
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			will make you an SL Fidelia to
Philippi Samia by Robin.
		
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			All right. Okay. All jewelry is
haram from and now what's not
		
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			jewelry or watches not jewelry?
		
02:33:06 --> 02:33:09
			Something you a tool that you put
around your neck is not jewelry
		
02:33:10 --> 02:33:12
			misbehaved that you throw on your
neck because it's easy to sit
		
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			throw it on is not jewelry.
		
02:33:16 --> 02:33:21
			The man is permitted only one
silver rink or one rink that's not
		
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			gold.
		
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			Not gold.
		
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			Stones. Yeah, you can have a watch
with diamonds on it. Right? But
		
02:33:29 --> 02:33:31
			you cannot have a watch with gold.
		
02:33:32 --> 02:33:33
			According to 100
		
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			I heard that if there's no no no
you're out. I heard
		
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			he just said according to one of
his I heard none and read it to
		
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			me. Read it to me. Hey guys, isn't
this a great habit to have no one
		
02:33:49 --> 02:33:51
			talks except
		
02:33:52 --> 02:33:56
			Carla SO and SO SO and SO book?
Not I heard this I heard that.
		
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			Yeah, it is titanium wedding ring
haram for a menswear. No, it's
		
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			Hallett is smoking cigars. Haram
Yes. It's haram by the way cigars.
		
02:34:04 --> 02:34:08
			Now it's shown to be more harmful.
First of all cigar you're not
		
02:34:08 --> 02:34:11
			ingesting anything. You just it's
in your mouth and you pull it out
		
02:34:11 --> 02:34:15
			of your push it out of your mouth,
unlike a cigarette, right. So, but
		
02:34:15 --> 02:34:18
			they did discover that it's very
harmful for you. Yeah, so It's
		
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			haram.
		
02:34:20 --> 02:34:25
			Gelatin in the Maliki school has
undergone is to Hala and therefore
		
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			they permit it. It's completely
different.
		
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			It's a completely different
material at this point. Like when
		
02:34:34 --> 02:34:38
			can you explain the tail bone
Hadith, the prophesy set him said
		
02:34:39 --> 02:34:43
			that all everything dissolves
except a small piece of the
		
02:34:43 --> 02:34:46
			tailbone. And from that you're
resurrected again. Through that
		
02:34:46 --> 02:34:47
			piece you're resurrected again.
		
02:34:48 --> 02:34:53
			Does numerology have a place in
Islam? I don't necessarily hold
		
02:34:53 --> 02:34:57
			numerology has a place in Islam.
However, there is something that
		
02:34:57 --> 02:35:00
			the automat did hold for
numerology and it's not new
		
02:35:00 --> 02:35:03
			numerology as such, for example,
anytime the prophets I send them
		
02:35:03 --> 02:35:08
			said say this an odd number of
times like 733, like a unique
		
02:35:08 --> 02:35:11
			number, we stick to that number.
So after Salah you don't say
		
02:35:11 --> 02:35:15
			subhanallah 34 times 33, not 32,
not 34. But if the prophesy seven
		
02:35:15 --> 02:35:21
			said Say it 100 times, then it
means as much as you can at least
		
02:35:21 --> 02:35:25
			100 times. And as for the
numerology that some she'll use to
		
02:35:25 --> 02:35:29
			try to discern how much of they
could we should say, we should say
		
02:35:29 --> 02:35:31
			that that number isn't he had a
number, it's just the niche you
		
02:35:31 --> 02:35:35
			had from them. That you should say
at this many times, okay, it's an
		
02:35:35 --> 02:35:39
			itch to hit. There's no specific
reward put there. As for the
		
02:35:39 --> 02:35:42
			numerology of telling the future,
we don't accept that.
		
02:35:43 --> 02:35:44
			Yep.
		
02:35:46 --> 02:35:49
			Is it shift to believe says
medium, I'm going to read I'm
		
02:35:49 --> 02:35:52
			going to come to you on is a
shitty to believe that crystals
		
02:35:52 --> 02:35:57
			and stone contain energies. It's
not shit. But it's pseudoscience
		
02:35:57 --> 02:36:02
			unless proven through
experimentation. And pseudoscience
		
02:36:02 --> 02:36:04
			is discouraged for us. Because
it's its chance it's a game of
		
02:36:04 --> 02:36:09
			chance. It's just changing your
life, wearing bracelets, putting
		
02:36:09 --> 02:36:13
			stones over your house on a non
fact.
		
02:36:14 --> 02:36:18
			A very flimsy speculation. And I
guarantee you no professionals,
		
02:36:18 --> 02:36:21
			there's not offense to you,
Miriam, no professionals, no one
		
02:36:21 --> 02:36:25
			who's into epistemology, no one
who's into discerning facts does
		
02:36:25 --> 02:36:29
			crystals. No one who's into
reality. And knowing what's
		
02:36:29 --> 02:36:32
			actually true about something
isn't a crystals. I'll tell you
		
02:36:32 --> 02:36:35
			who's into crystals, people who
are involved in non objective
		
02:36:35 --> 02:36:42
			fields. Photography are no right.
No wrong. Right? No right and no
		
02:36:42 --> 02:36:47
			wrong. Beliefs. This is just a
belief, right? It's a belief. If
		
02:36:47 --> 02:36:50
			it makes you comfortable. That's
the max. It just makes me
		
02:36:50 --> 02:36:54
			comfortable to own these stones.
Right? That's fine. But don't say
		
02:36:54 --> 02:36:56
			that there are special powers. And
if you believe it, keep that
		
02:36:56 --> 02:36:59
			belief to yourself, because it's
not a fact. You have to prove it.
		
02:37:00 --> 02:37:00
			Right?
		
02:37:01 --> 02:37:04
			Like medicines there. You have
experiments on this. They they do
		
02:37:04 --> 02:37:08
			it on 50 people, and they do a
placebo on 50 people, right? And
		
02:37:08 --> 02:37:11
			it works, right? You try it and it
works. So
		
02:37:13 --> 02:37:17
			it's not minor shift given. Now
it's not doing much. It wouldn't
		
02:37:17 --> 02:37:19
			even be a minor show. If you
believe that a stone has a
		
02:37:19 --> 02:37:23
			medicinal impact on your joints or
something like that. And you wear
		
02:37:23 --> 02:37:28
			the bracelet. We just would say
it's a flimsy science. But we
		
02:37:28 --> 02:37:31
			won't go to the point of Shiek.
Anything can be static, if you
		
02:37:31 --> 02:37:38
			believe itself has power. Right?
Mind it's shook itself. But if you
		
02:37:38 --> 02:37:41
			ask a person, why does the
medicine work? Because Allah made
		
02:37:41 --> 02:37:45
			it work, right? Allah bought the
cure through this. She's saying
		
02:37:45 --> 02:37:48
			Allah brings the cure through
these stones. We say there isn't
		
02:37:48 --> 02:37:53
			really much study to back that up.
So it's not science. It's a flimsy
		
02:37:53 --> 02:37:58
			pseudoscience. It's just a belief,
right? Therefore, your charge,
		
02:37:59 --> 02:38:01
			just on the fact of buying stuff.
		
02:38:03 --> 02:38:06
			On whimsical beliefs, you're
wasting your money. You're wasting
		
02:38:06 --> 02:38:06
			your energy
		
02:38:07 --> 02:38:10
			and the sign of pseudoscience. It
has a cult following. Is there a
		
02:38:10 --> 02:38:14
			cult following behind Excedrin?
No, that works. We don't need to
		
02:38:14 --> 02:38:18
			have a cult following bind water
bind Excedrin bind coffee, this
		
02:38:18 --> 02:38:22
			stuff works, right? It's proven
this thing because it's not
		
02:38:22 --> 02:38:24
			proven. It's a belief. There's
cults around it.
		
02:38:26 --> 02:38:28
			And the people who are into
crystals are like you're into
		
02:38:28 --> 02:38:31
			crystals, you're one of these
people, right? And so
		
02:38:33 --> 02:38:38
			it'd be better off to invest your
time into something that actually
		
02:38:38 --> 02:38:40
			has a proof now if you just like
the way they look, you can buy
		
02:38:40 --> 02:38:44
			them. I just like the vibe that it
has having these rocks all around,
		
02:38:45 --> 02:38:46
			but who's going to become your
friend now?
		
02:38:48 --> 02:38:48
			Right?
		
02:38:51 --> 02:38:51
			Rhea
		
02:38:53 --> 02:38:57
			Rhea is called miners who was to
worship Allah for the sake of the
		
02:38:57 --> 02:38:58
			pleasure of other people.
		
02:39:00 --> 02:39:01
			Question the back. Go ahead. Last
question.
		
02:39:04 --> 02:39:10
			Woman Yes, the Quran forbid
jewelry for men, because it is
		
02:39:12 --> 02:39:15
			intended to be one of the
demarcations between men and women
		
02:39:16 --> 02:39:20
			and for a man who makes him vain.
And when he is vain, when a man is
		
02:39:20 --> 02:39:25
			vain, it clouds his intellect.
When he becomes vain and emotional
		
02:39:25 --> 02:39:27
			and he loves himself it clouds
into like What did Allah say?
		
02:39:28 --> 02:39:33
			The one who was raised on jewelry,
and then his argumentation makes
		
02:39:33 --> 02:39:34
			no sense.
		
02:39:35 --> 02:39:43
			So his mind is clouded. clouded
with emotion and vanity. Now, dogs
		
02:39:43 --> 02:39:45
			it makes no sense okay.
		
02:39:59 --> 02:39:59
			So there must have been
		
02:40:00 --> 02:40:02
			An inside joke here that I just
stepped on
		
02:40:08 --> 02:40:11
			Lana says Can I wear a bracelet
with an ice symbol if I don't
		
02:40:11 --> 02:40:14
			believe in it, and I just liked
the brace that I got as a gift.
		
02:40:15 --> 02:40:22
			You do can from that aspect, but
you may fall into Maduro Maduro is
		
02:40:22 --> 02:40:27
			something that may be warned
against if now you people think
		
02:40:27 --> 02:40:30
			that you're superstitious or
ignorant. So
		
02:40:32 --> 02:40:36
			you can wear it and cover your
sleeve. Right or, but he's people
		
02:40:36 --> 02:40:41
			may see you and say, she's one of
those superstitious Sufis. Right.
		
02:40:41 --> 02:40:44
			She's superstitious, she's
ignorant, she believes in that has
		
02:40:44 --> 02:40:48
			said I, alright, if she comes to
if we were not going to marry her.
		
02:40:49 --> 02:40:51
			We're not going to let our kids
play with her kids. All that
		
02:40:51 --> 02:40:54
			stuff. Of course, I'm going to
extremes here. But I'm just
		
02:40:54 --> 02:40:57
			telling you, why should you
worries for your reputation.
		
02:40:57 --> 02:41:03
			Because people are not expected to
make excuses for you. They're not
		
02:41:03 --> 02:41:06
			expected to be jurists who said
well, maybe could be this, maybe
		
02:41:07 --> 02:41:10
			she knows. And she just likes
that. We don't expect the people
		
02:41:10 --> 02:41:13
			to do that. We expect them to make
flash judgments about us.
		
02:41:13 --> 02:41:16
			Therefore, Sharia makes sure that
we and that we
		
02:41:17 --> 02:41:18
			observe these things.
		
02:41:20 --> 02:41:23
			I've been getting medically pilled
lately, and have some questions
		
02:41:23 --> 02:41:27
			about the minutiae of prayer. Is
there a good holistic source?
		
02:41:28 --> 02:41:31
			Yeah, ArcView dot O R G, take the
course and you can get asked
		
02:41:31 --> 02:41:32
			questions.
		
02:41:34 --> 02:41:36
			Alright, last question Trumps him
		
02:41:46 --> 02:41:47
			if your friend is a che,
		
02:41:48 --> 02:41:52
			if your friend is, if your friends
is a scholar, if he's a relied
		
02:41:52 --> 02:41:58
			upon scholar, like for example, I
know that Chemin de lock will not
		
02:41:58 --> 02:42:00
			speak without checking his
sources, because he's very
		
02:42:00 --> 02:42:05
			academic about his FIP. So if he
says something, I'm going to
		
02:42:05 --> 02:42:09
			accept it. But I won't even say it
to the public unless I know what
		
02:42:09 --> 02:42:12
			his sources because the public is
doesn't know Matthew luck, right?
		
02:42:12 --> 02:42:15
			I know Matthew luck. I trust him.
I'll act upon it.
		
02:42:19 --> 02:42:23
			Yeah, when I tell the Bible, I
cite the source. And the big
		
02:42:23 --> 02:42:26
			scholars who are well known in
this in the method like mmm,
		
02:42:26 --> 02:42:28
			unknown, unknown in the Shafi
school,
		
02:42:29 --> 02:42:33
			ladies and gentlemen, does it fall
into my hands if I fall into the
		
02:42:33 --> 02:42:36
			same category as the I? Yes, I
would. I would think so. Yeah.
		
02:42:36 --> 02:42:39
			Because people may think that you
are now into these superstitions,
		
02:42:39 --> 02:42:40
			blah, blah, blah.
		
02:42:41 --> 02:42:45
			Even though you know, you may be
free from that and it's just
		
02:42:47 --> 02:42:49
			harmless in that respect.
		
02:42:51 --> 02:42:55
			A great stream brought to you by
all these brothers from Atlanta.
		
02:42:57 --> 02:42:58
			And particularly
		
02:43:00 --> 02:43:05
			O'Reilly, who lost his kombucha he
lost his jewelry What else did he
		
02:43:05 --> 02:43:06
			lose?
		
02:43:07 --> 02:43:08
			Oh my goodness
		
02:43:10 --> 02:43:12
			Subotica long movie I'm
		
02:43:16 --> 02:43:20
			going to be like well acid in in
Santa Fe, Latina mo I'm gonna say
		
02:43:20 --> 02:43:23
			that once a while so we'll talk
about so somebody was said
		
02:43:24 --> 02:43:26
			they said I didn't even attend
that.
		
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