Shadee Elmasry – 10 Praying In A Group

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The speaker discusses the benefits of praying in a group setting, including socialization, friends, and companionship. They also mention the importance of praying in the mosque for a better understanding of the universe and experiencing benefits of praying in groups. The speaker emphasizes the importance of praying in a group setting for personal and professional reasons.

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			One of the best things regarding the prayer
		
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			is to pray in a group. This is
		
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			one of the secrets of Islam. It's one
		
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			of the hallmarks of Islam and the prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him, established this for many
		
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			reasons. First of all,
		
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			if you're learning if you're new to how
		
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			to pray, the best way to learn is
		
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			to watch other people pray. Right? You see
		
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			how they're praying and you're gonna go to
		
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			different mosques and different see so many different
		
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			Muslims praying. You'll see what's the uniformity
		
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			and what's different upon. So when you see
		
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			so many examples of prayer, it allows you
		
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			to see, you know, what is
		
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			there present in everyone's prayer and what is
		
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			present in some people's prayer in terms of
		
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			movements and what's not. So you know there
		
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			you start to separate between what's
		
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			required
		
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			and what's different upon, what's agreed upon and
		
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			what is difference of opinion. So that's one
		
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			thing. Second thing is that when you see
		
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			people pray, sometimes you see their piety. Sometimes
		
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			you see someone
		
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			during the prayer or after the prayer closing
		
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			their eyes and filled well, closed not we
		
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			should really close our eyes in the prayer,
		
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			but maybe after the prayer, but you see
		
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			their faces filled with piety.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And maybe if they're the imam, you hear
		
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			sounding in the recitation.
		
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			We benefit from that because we start asking
		
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			ourselves, where where is that in me?
		
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			Right? And one of the reasons the prophet
		
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			peace be upon him wanted us to pray
		
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			in a group is so that we can
		
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			see the pious and say, I wanna be
		
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			like that. I wanna
		
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			have that.
		
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			We call that the word is which is
		
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			awe and love combined,
		
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			in a person when they pray. So that's
		
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			one of the benefits.
		
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			Another benefit is completely separate from the prayer,
		
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			which is that it's socialization.
		
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			You see people. Many Muslims,
		
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			okay, where do they get their friends? But
		
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			Allah told them to pray in the mosque.
		
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			It's recommended to pray in the mosque. They
		
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			pray in the mosque. Alright. So they start
		
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			making friends because you don't just pray and
		
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			leave. You usually say salaam to the person.
		
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			Now you pray repeatedly in the same local
		
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			mosque, you're not gonna always just say salaam
		
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			to someone and walk away. Eventually, one day,
		
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			you're gonna say, oh, I didn't see you
		
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			yesterday. Oh, what's your name? What do you
		
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			do? Etcetera. So what's called manafah or benefits
		
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			happen. People make friends, people may
		
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			get worldly benefits
		
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			that occur accrue over time
		
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			from,
		
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			the context that you make in the prayer.
		
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			So that's another benefit that we have. Now,
		
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			what about who is recommended and what's the
		
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			ruling about praying in the mosque? It's recommended,
		
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			highly recommended for Muslims to pray together anywhere.
		
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			So if 5 Muslims need to pray, it
		
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			is best for them to pray together.
		
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			What about for, in the mosque? Well, it's
		
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			highly recommended even more to pray in the
		
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			mosque when the mosque establishes the prayer. So
		
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			not just any
		
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			time, but we should look at when does
		
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			that masjid pray at that time and we
		
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			should pray behind them with their imam and
		
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			with their group. It's highly recommended. The prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him, said, it's 27 times
		
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			greater
		
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			to pray in the mosque with the group
		
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			than outside,
		
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			right, by yourself.
		
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			Now some people may be wondering, why did
		
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			the prophet say 27 times?
		
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			Well, think about it, right? It got in
		
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			your head, right? It's it's If he said
		
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			a round number, you can forget.
		
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			But when you say an odd number like
		
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			that, 27, it's one of those almost like
		
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			a trick where it sticks in your you'll
		
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			never forget that it's 27 times greater to
		
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			pray in a group in the mosque behind
		
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			the imam,
		
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			than to pray by herself.
		
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			Now regarding the women, the
		
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			scholars have differed upon whether or not the
		
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			women's
		
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			prayer can happen in a group. So the
		
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			first two schools, the earlier schools of thought
		
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			said, no, it never existed in the time
		
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			of the prophet peace be upon him, so
		
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			women do not pray together in a group,
		
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			they pray by themselves. The other two schools
		
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			of thought told us, no, they can pray
		
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			in a group.
		
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			Mosque? To lead the prayer.
		
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			Secondly, the question of what about praying in
		
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			the mosques?
		
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			The prophet, peace be upon him, did say
		
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			that the women's prayer at home is superior
		
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			to her prayer in the mosque and that's
		
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			what the 4 schools rule by. It is
		
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			also noted that the wives of the prophet,
		
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			peace be upon him, used to pray in
		
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			the mosque and then they stopped later on
		
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			when the mosque became filled with strangers.
		
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			And the,
		
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			likewise, wives of the companions used to pray
		
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			in the mosque and eventually they stopped praying
		
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			in the mosque when it became when the
		
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			city of Medina
		
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			became filled with people.
		
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			So there is some discussion on it and
		
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			the overall,
		
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			is stay statement is that it is better
		
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			for women to stay home and pray in
		
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			their house. However, scholars have also said that
		
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			nowadays, the mosque entails many other things. It
		
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			entails a place for her to meet other
		
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			Muslims and that's very important because you need
		
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			companionship. The mosque is a place for the
		
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			classes.
		
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			So for going for those purposes,
		
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			then, yes, then going to the Masjid has
		
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			so many benefits. We don't even need to
		
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			list the benefits. There's so many benefits
		
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			of learning,
		
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			of making friends, and it's sort of commonsensical
		
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			for her that she has to benefit for,
		
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			she has to go to the mosque to
		
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			attain to those benefits.