Salem Al Amry – Lesson 5 Weekly Class Virtues of Islam

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The importance of protecting women from evil behavior in Islam is emphasized, along with the need for individuals to act as a means of control and not force anyone to marry them. The importance of Islam's protection for women is also emphasized, along with the need for men to be empowered to take their own lives and to be informed of consequences of not wanting to travel with it. The importance of Islam's protection for women is emphasized, along with the need for men to be empowered to take their own lives and be informed of consequences of not wanting to travel with it.

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			Brothers and sisters.
		
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			Welcome to our weekly dose of virtues of
		
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			Islam. This is lesson number 5,
		
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			the 5th lesson
		
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			with our honorable Sheikh Sheikh Salim Al Amri.
		
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			And I will pass the mic and the
		
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			screen to the Sheikh, and the Sheikh can
		
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			begin.
		
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			And sisters in Islam.
		
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			In last session, we talked about
		
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			what was the status of women before Islam,
		
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			And in that session, we discussed
		
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			that
		
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			women, they have no issue in Islam.
		
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			Islam has given
		
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			women their rights from day 1,
		
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			so there's nothing there to complain about.
		
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			As a matter of fact, a Muslim should
		
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			be
		
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			grateful
		
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			to Allah
		
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			because what Islam has given her,
		
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			women today
		
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			in the west,
		
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			they haven't
		
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			got
		
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			the lies that Allah and
		
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			Islam has granted and given to women.
		
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			So my dear sisters,
		
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			study your Islam,
		
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			know your deal,
		
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			and know your enemies as well.
		
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			And you're not to be
		
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			fall a prey and victim,
		
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			and you should not be fooled
		
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			by
		
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			the propaganda
		
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			and the media.
		
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			Because what they are after
		
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			and what they want from you
		
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			is to take you out
		
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			of your castle,
		
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			out of your home,
		
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			out of
		
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			modesty.
		
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			They want you to kiss goodbye to modesty
		
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			and chastity.
		
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			They want you to throw away your hijab,
		
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			and that's what they call it women emancipation
		
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			or liberation.
		
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			They want you to wear the miniskirt.
		
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			They want you to display your body.
		
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			They want to
		
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			use this body as
		
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			* object. That's how they view you. That's
		
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			how they they look at you
		
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			because that's what they did in their countries.
		
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			They fooled the
		
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			women
		
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			and the different
		
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			slogans.
		
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			K. You will be a star. You'll be
		
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			a model. You will be this and that.
		
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			And the bull girls, they don't know.
		
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			They had an agenda.
		
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			And what those
		
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			have in mind
		
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			is to use them
		
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			to generate money for them, and later on,
		
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			they throw her away.
		
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			When she becomes old
		
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			or she starts to have wrinkles on her
		
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			face,
		
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			but that figure is not there anymore,
		
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			goodbye.
		
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			Don't you know
		
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			some of those who are models for
		
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			displaying,
		
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			their bodies,
		
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			they insure their bodies.
		
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			She has nice flesh. They she ensures that.
		
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			Nice Lexi
		
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			ensures that through the,
		
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			insurance company
		
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			so that later on,
		
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			she will get some money.
		
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			So Islam, my dear sisters, has given you
		
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			everything.
		
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			And now listen
		
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			attentively
		
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			and open your heart and
		
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			see what Islam
		
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			talks about and
		
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			your status in Islam.
		
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			Imam Bukhari reported in
		
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			Aisha
		
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			reported, a lady
		
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			along with her 2 daughters
		
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			came to
		
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			me asking me for some charity,
		
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			for some arms,
		
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			but she found nothing with me except one
		
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			date,
		
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			which I gave to her,
		
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			and she divided
		
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			it between her 2 daughters.
		
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			And this shows
		
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			the motherly love.
		
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			Parents,
		
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			children, you cannot
		
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			pay your debt towards your
		
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			your parents.
		
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			You cannot be dutiful enough towards your parents
		
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			no matter what you did
		
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			and what you do.
		
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			Remember the man who carried his mother from
		
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			Yemen on his back
		
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			and started making the waf around the Kaaba?
		
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			And then he asked
		
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			one of the companions,
		
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			do you think
		
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			I have
		
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			paid her
		
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			her rights?
		
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			We break even.
		
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			He told him,
		
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			can't you walk?
		
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			He said, yes. He said, let her walk.
		
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			All this,
		
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			what you did is not
		
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			equal
		
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			to one of the contractions
		
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			of labor. Women, they know what I'm talking
		
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			about. 1 of the contractions.
		
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			So the mother divided this date
		
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			between her daughters,
		
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			and then she got up and went away.
		
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			Then the papa
		
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			came in, and I informed him about this
		
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			story.
		
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			He said,
		
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			so, whoever is in charge
		
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			of
		
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			these 2 daughters
		
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			are put to test
		
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			by these daughters. That means Allah blessed you
		
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			with daughters,
		
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			and it is a test children are a
		
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			test because you are
		
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			accountable before Allah. So you have to take
		
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			care of them. You have to bring them
		
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			up Islamically. You have to discipline them. It
		
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			is a test whether they are boys or
		
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			girls.
		
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			So whoever is is in charge
		
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			of these daughters
		
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			and teach them
		
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			generously,
		
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			kindly.
		
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			Then they will act as a shield to
		
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			him from the hellfire.
		
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			Shield.
		
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			He didn't mention boys. He mentioned the girls.
		
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			The girls.
		
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			So if you have 2 daughters
		
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			or if you have 3 daughters,
		
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			okay, as mentioned in another hadith,
		
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			Take care of
		
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			them. Treat them nicely,
		
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			generously,
		
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			kindly.
		
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			Bring them up Islamically.
		
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			Protect them from all evil,
		
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			protect them
		
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			from
		
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			the media,
		
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			Protect them from going astray.
		
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			Protect them
		
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			from being
		
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			immoral.
		
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			It is your duty
		
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			as a father and mother,
		
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			as parents.
		
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			You have to protect your daughters.
		
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			You don't provide Internet
		
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			to everyone
		
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			in every room
		
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			where they can watch dirty stuff.
		
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			You can keep the Internet in the sitting
		
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			room.
		
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			Anyone wants to have a research or something,
		
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			he can go
		
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			there.
		
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			But to have connectivity in every room?
		
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			No.
		
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			Because this is your duty
		
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			to protect your children.
		
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			And of course,
		
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			you have to build their imam because you
		
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			will not be always there.
		
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			So they should have so you're still in
		
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			their hearts the fear of Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala. Allah sees you wherever you are.
		
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			But you give every child
		
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			his own mobile phone
		
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			with Internet
		
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			connection,
		
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			and this child keeps browsing and seeing all
		
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			this
		
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			dirty stuff.
		
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			You are responsible before Allah.
		
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			Before Allah, after we tell you.
		
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			Because Allah says,
		
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			or you will believe.
		
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			Save yourself and your family
		
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			from the fire
		
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			whose fuel men are rocks.
		
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			So my dear parents,
		
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			play your role
		
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			and take care of your children.
		
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			A child,
		
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			if you
		
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			take care of him or her from the
		
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			beginning,
		
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			you can mold the child the way you
		
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			like,
		
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			And you are responsible
		
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			before Allah
		
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			Allah will question every caretaker
		
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			because every one of us is a shepherd,
		
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			and Allah is going to question him.
		
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			Did you protect your subjects?
		
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			Did you protect
		
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			your family members or you lost them?
		
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			So a woman is
		
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			caretaker
		
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			and the shepherd in
		
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			her
		
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			house,
		
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			and the same thing with the husband.
		
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			So whoever is in charge
		
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			of these daughters
		
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			sees them generously,
		
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			educate them Islamically,
		
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			getting them madder
		
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			when they reach the age
		
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			of madder.
		
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			So fulfill your obligations towards them.
		
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			Then they will act as a shield
		
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			for him from the hellfire.
		
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			Shield.
		
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			So those whom Allah blessed with 2 daughters
		
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			or 3,
		
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			hamdullah, they are lucky.
		
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			So they need to take care
		
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			of their daughters.
		
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			Also,
		
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			Imam Muslim reported that the this the Hadith
		
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			I mentioned previous, this one is in Bukhary,
		
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			and the coming hadith of Sahih Muslim.
		
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			The meaning.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			is saying,
		
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			a woman without a husband,
		
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			that means
		
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			either she's a divorcee
		
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			or
		
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			a widow.
		
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			A woman without a husband has more life
		
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			to her person,
		
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			that means her life,
		
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			than her guardian
		
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			than her
		
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			guardian.
		
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			And the virgin's
		
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			permission must be asked about herself.
		
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			Her permission being
		
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			her silence
		
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			her silence.
		
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			So
		
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			a woman who has been married before
		
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			and now she's not married
		
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			and someone proposed,
		
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			then she has to express
		
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			and she has
		
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			to verbalize
		
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			her willingness
		
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			and her consent.
		
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			Whereas the one who's
		
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			virgin,
		
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			Mikhail,
		
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			she didn't have experience,
		
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			so naturally, she will feel shy,
		
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			and she will blush.
		
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			So she will keep quiet.
		
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			So that is her consent. That's
		
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			her approval.
		
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			Nowadays, the girls,
		
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			they don't keep quiet. They talk. Yes. I
		
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			want him. I love him.
		
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			What happened to the Muslim girls? Where is
		
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			the? Where is it?
		
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			Gone, flown through the window.
		
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			Because of the media, because of what they
		
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			watch, because of what they hear,
		
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			The Haya has gone.
		
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			When
		
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			they describe him, they say
		
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			he has
		
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			he's more,
		
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			I
		
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			mean, passful
		
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			than a virgin girl
		
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			than
		
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			a
		
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			virgin.
		
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			The passfulness
		
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			and the shyness and the of
		
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			the is more than the
		
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			of a girl who's and
		
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			who is staying at home.
		
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			In another narration, he said,
		
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			a woman
		
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			has been previously married,
		
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			has more light
		
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			to her person.
		
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			No one can boast her. No one can
		
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			say anything.
		
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			This is her life.
		
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			Has more light to her person
		
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			than her guardian,
		
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			and the virgin
		
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			must be consulted.
		
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			Her permission
		
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			consisting
		
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			in her saying nothing.
		
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			That means she keeps quiet. In another narration,
		
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			he said,
		
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			a woman who has been previously married has
		
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			more light
		
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			to her person
		
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			than her guardian,
		
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			and the virgin's father must ask her permission
		
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			about herself,
		
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			her permission being her silence.
		
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			So all these narrations,
		
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			authentic,
		
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			they give the woman her life.
		
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			There is no forced marriage in Islam.
		
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			It's it's practice of some communities.
		
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			That is wrong,
		
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			and that's not Islamic.
		
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			The problem,
		
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			we mix things.
		
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			We mix the culture with what Islam teaches,
		
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			and then we accuse Islam.
		
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			When in the first place,
		
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			those Muslim,
		
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			what they practice is not Islamic at all
		
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			and has no connection with Islam.
		
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			No connection.
		
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			So there's no forced marriage in Islam.
		
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			If a father
		
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			forced his daughter
		
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			to marry her cousin as it's practiced in
		
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			many
		
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			communities,
		
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			not the communities that are tribal,
		
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			you have to marry your cousin,
		
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			and the poor girl cannot
		
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			do anything.
		
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			That matter can be canceled,
		
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			Islamically,
		
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			because no one has the right
		
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			to force his daughter.
		
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			Because at the time of the prophet, a
		
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			woman came and she said, oh, prophet Shabalala,
		
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			my father
		
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			forced me
		
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			to marry a man. I don't like.
		
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			So the prophet
		
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			gave her 2 options,
		
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			either to continue
		
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			living with this man or to
		
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			nullify
		
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			and cancel
		
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			it, the marriage.
		
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			She said,
		
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			I have accepted
		
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			this marriage,
		
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			but I want
		
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			fathers and
		
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			the parents
		
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			to know
		
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			that they have no right to force their
		
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			own daughters,
		
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			to marry
		
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			someone they don't they don't want to marry.
		
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			So Islam has given women their rights.
		
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			No one can force you. There's nothing called
		
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			forced marriage in Islam.
		
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			Nothing like that.
		
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			So here I can see 3 narrations.
		
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			If a woman was married before,
		
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			she has to express
		
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			her consent verbally. We have to hear it.
		
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			Yes. I want this man. No. I don't
		
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			want.
		
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			But if she's a virgin,
		
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			her silence will be a a concept.
		
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			If she doesn't want
		
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			the virgin,
		
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			she doesn't want this man, it's easy to
		
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			say no.
		
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			Very simple. No.
		
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			But to say yes, it is a bit
		
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			she feels a bit reluctant
		
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			because of her hire.
		
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			So
		
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			nothing nothing there.
		
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			You can say
		
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			Islam
		
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			is unfair to women.
		
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			Islam has given women everything,
		
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			but because of their ignorance
		
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			and they don't know their Islam,
		
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			they want
		
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			to have all
		
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			liberation.
		
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			We don't know what they mean by that.
		
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			Women liberation. What do you mean?
		
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			You want them to go to night clubs,
		
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			bars,
		
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			boyfriend, girlfriend,
		
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			dating,
		
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			to go out
		
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			freely,
		
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			no protection,
		
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			travel without a mahlam,
		
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			exposing herself to danger.
		
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			What do you mean by liberation?
		
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			Islam has given women their rights,
		
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			protected them,
		
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			and if you study Islam
		
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			deeply, you'll appreciate.
		
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			When Islam tells you to cover your hair,
		
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			does he limit your freedom?
		
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			Actually, he protects you
		
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			from the lustful lustful
		
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			looks of men.
		
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			Wow.
		
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			That's what
		
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			men, they want to watch.
		
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			But if you are covered,
		
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			dressed decently,
		
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			they don't see anything.
		
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			So you deprive them of enjoying
		
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			themselves.
		
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			And
		
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			you show that beauty only
		
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			to your husband.
		
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			So when Islam tells you cover yourself
		
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			and with the hijab of the niqab,
		
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			he protects you,
		
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			and he protects your husband.
		
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			Because there are many women outside
		
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			there, more beautiful than you.
		
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			So if they are not
		
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			wearing hijab,
		
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			your husband will look at them,
		
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			and he will have the contrast and the
		
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			comparison
		
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			between what he has at home,
		
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			his wife, and what he sees on the
		
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			street.
		
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			So
		
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			the marital life will be affected.
		
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			When he's you are in front of him,
		
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			sitting with him,
		
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			chatting with him,
		
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			He's comparing you with the woman he has
		
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			seen,
		
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			and he feels pity for himself.
		
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			Why I married this? Why I married her?
		
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			The same thing a woman.
		
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			If he looks at the men outside.
		
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			Oh, he's more handsome than my husband.
		
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			And that's why
		
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			Allah told both men and women, lower your
		
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			gaze. Don't look at the opposite *
		
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			so that you will have peace of mind.
		
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			So all the Islamic teachings, my dear brothers
		
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			and sisters,
		
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			are for for our own benefits, our own.
		
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			Allah has not in need of us.
		
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			These things, we are the ones who's going
		
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			to reap
		
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			the pen the benefit.
		
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			So wake up
		
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			and say, Alhamdulillah, I am a Muslim now.
		
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			And thank Allah for what he has given
		
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			you.
		
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			And all this protection for you.
		
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			So when Islam tells you don't travel without
		
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			the,
		
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			it is for your own sake
		
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			to protect you
		
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			from the hungry wolves
		
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			that are roaming around.
		
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			Because if you have,
		
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			you have a lion
		
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			that stands next to you.
		
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			No man will dare to look at you
		
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			because this makran,
		
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			he's ready to die
		
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			to die
		
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			to defend you.
		
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			He's your bodyguard.
		
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			Don't you see those celebrities?
		
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			They have bodyguards
		
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			bodyguards
		
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			to protect them.
		
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			Your is your bodyguard.
		
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			He's ready there to die
		
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			to protect you.
		
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			And you don't want this protection?
		
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			You want to be attacked?
		
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			To be harassed?
		
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			Just today,
		
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			I I should have studied.
		
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			I will not mention the country in Europe,
		
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			European country.
		
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			Every 10 women, 5 of them are
		
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			sexually harassed.
		
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			Out of 10,
		
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			it's 5
		
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			are harassed.
		
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			And then those
		
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			who they don't feel,
		
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			okay,
		
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			shame of themselves.
		
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			They want to teach us how to treat
		
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			our women.
		
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			Come on, guys.
		
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			Charity begins at home.
		
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			Fix your homes
		
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			and mend your community.
		
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			See your problems.
		
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			How come you dare to talk
		
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			and to teach the Muslim
		
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			how to treat the women?
		
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			Don't you see what is happening in your
		
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			country?
		
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			So Islam
		
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			protected you, my dear sister.
		
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			From cradle filled the grave throughout your life.
		
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			You are protected.
		
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			So when Islam tells you don't travel with
		
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			Islam,
		
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			it's a
		
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			protection for you.
		
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			It's unlawful. It's totally prohibited
		
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			for a woman to travel without a.
		
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			If someone just say, you know what?
		
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			In the past years, but today airplanes,
		
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			everything is safe.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			She is
		
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			delivered to the airport,
		
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			and then she will be received by her
		
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			family on the other side.
		
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			And what is happening
		
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			in the air? You don't know.
		
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			You don't know.
		
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			You don't know the moment you sit and
		
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			there's a woman next to you,
		
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			and you look at her, hi,
		
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			and you smile.
		
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			Hi.
		
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			Why hi?
		
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			Why don't you mind your own business?
		
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			What do you want?
		
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			You want to start a conversation
		
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			with her? Why?
		
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			Why?
		
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			What do you
		
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			want? And they said, you know, this is
		
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			a story
		
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			that our sheikh al Bani mentioned
		
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			happened in Syria, and it was domestic flight.
		
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			Not international
		
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			one, domestic within the country.
		
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			A woman,
		
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			of course, she was not
		
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			wearing hijab and things,
		
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			traveling,
		
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			okay,
		
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			without a maha.
		
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			So the air hostage,
		
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			Shoha, and the air hostage is a wicked
		
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			woman,
		
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			a moral one.
		
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			She informed the pilot
		
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			because they
		
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			had a work together.
		
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			That's the stuff.
		
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			She told him there's a woman.
		
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			Wow.
		
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			So beautiful.
		
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			So the pilot say, talk to her.
		
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			K?
		
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			Chat with her.
		
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			Soften her up,
		
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			and she did.
		
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			And that woman happened to be also
		
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			not decent.
		
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			So what to do?
		
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			Domestic flight.
		
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			Ladies and gentlemen,
		
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			the pilot is announcing, we have a technical
		
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			fault technical problem.
		
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			Unfortunately,
		
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			we have to change the course of the
		
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			flight,
		
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			and we have to land in this city,
		
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			and he did.
		
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			So in order to take that woman and
		
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			commit the haram with her.
		
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			If this woman had her husband or a
		
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			makram with her,
		
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			even if she is dirty woman,
		
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			no chance.
		
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			There's a god standing there.
		
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			So this is what we see. You see
		
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			when you are traveling.
		
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			The moment just
		
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			okay?
		
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			You buckle your seat,
		
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			you look to your right or your left,
		
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			and you smile, and you want to start
		
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			chatting. And if she has her she's married
		
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			and has a child,
		
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			what does debate
		
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			debate
		
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			what is the way to soften the mother?
		
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			Is to talk to the child.
		
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			Oh, cute baby.
		
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			You talk to the child,
		
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			and you want the mother.
		
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			Oh, your child is so cute. He looks
		
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			like his mother. He's so handsome.
		
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			Wow. And women, they like these things, and
		
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			they just
		
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			sow like butter.
		
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			They melt.
		
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			So
		
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			the is teaching us,
		
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			this beautiful hadith,
		
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			that
		
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			a woman
		
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			has the right
		
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			to accept
		
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			her husband to be.
		
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			No one can force her.
		
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			And if she's
		
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			was married before,
		
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			she has to
		
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			express it
		
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			explicitly.
		
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			She has to
		
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			verbalize
		
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			and say yes or no. Whereas if he's
		
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			a virgin,
		
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			she can just keep quiet, and that is
		
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			her concept.
		
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			In the hadith,
		
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			so this is for your own benefit, those
		
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			who are interested to build the
		
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			vocabularies,
		
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			al in Arabic
		
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			is a bachelor or Spencer. Anyone whose bachelor
		
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			or Spencer is called
		
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			Also, it can it can mean a widow
		
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			or widower.
		
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			Another beautiful hadith,
		
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			the prophet
		
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			said,
		
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			Hadith
		
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			1,963.
		
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			This hadith is reported by Imam Ahmad and
		
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			his musnad
		
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			and authenticated by Sheikh Shu'aib al-'Abna'ut
		
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			who checked the Muslim of the Imam Ahmad
		
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			and printed now the Muslim of the Imam
		
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			Ahmad in a massive encyclopedia.
		
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			Also, Sheikh al Bani authenticated
		
00:37:08 --> 00:37:09
			it in
		
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			the authentic series
		
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			of a hadith in Sahihi Tabri Tabri Tabri,
		
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			hadith number
		
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			1,963.
		
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			The meaning of the hadith
		
00:37:21 --> 00:37:22
			in
		
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			verily,
		
00:37:29 --> 00:37:30
			when a man
		
00:37:30 --> 00:37:31
			fetches
		
00:37:35 --> 00:37:35
			water
		
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			and give it to his wife or hand
		
00:37:38 --> 00:37:41
			over the glass of water for his wife
		
00:37:41 --> 00:37:42
			will be rewarded.
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:46
			K. Your wife is dirty
		
00:37:47 --> 00:37:48
			sorry, thirsty.
		
00:37:49 --> 00:37:50
			She's thirsty,
		
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			so you
		
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			went to the fridge
		
00:37:55 --> 00:37:57
			and brought the water for her.
		
00:37:58 --> 00:38:00
			Oh, the water is next to you
		
00:38:01 --> 00:38:03
			and she wants water, so you took the
		
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			jug and you poured in the glass
		
00:38:07 --> 00:38:09
			for her and handed it over to her.
		
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			You will be rewarded.
		
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			See how Islam teach women?
		
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			You give her the water.
		
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			She's
		
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			thirsty.
		
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			Go and bring the water for her.
		
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			You do that, you will be rewarded.
		
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			As you know, in the other hadith,
		
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			Even giving a morsel of food and put
		
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			it in the place, in the mouth of
		
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			your wife,
		
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			you will be rewarded
		
00:38:46 --> 00:38:46
			for that.
		
00:38:47 --> 00:38:48
			You are eating together.
		
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			You say sweetheart, open your mouth, and you
		
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			gave you give her morsel of
		
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			food. You feed her with your own hand
		
00:39:01 --> 00:39:04
			to express and show your love for her.
		
00:39:08 --> 00:39:10
			This what Islam teaches us.
		
00:39:12 --> 00:39:13
			I shall
		
00:39:15 --> 00:39:16
			He said,
		
00:39:17 --> 00:39:17
			I
		
00:39:18 --> 00:39:20
			was eating with the So
		
00:39:22 --> 00:39:23
			when we eat together,
		
00:39:23 --> 00:39:25
			if I eat
		
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			piece
		
00:39:27 --> 00:39:27
			of meat
		
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			on the bone,
		
00:39:30 --> 00:39:32
			He takes that piece of meat,
		
00:39:34 --> 00:39:37
			the and he eats from the same place
		
00:39:37 --> 00:39:39
			I place my mouth.
		
00:39:39 --> 00:39:42
			Where my lips were, he eats from that
		
00:39:42 --> 00:39:44
			place to teach us what?
		
00:39:45 --> 00:39:47
			To teach husbands and wives
		
00:39:47 --> 00:39:49
			how they should
		
00:39:49 --> 00:39:50
			treat each other.
		
00:39:51 --> 00:39:53
			That mutual love and respect
		
00:39:54 --> 00:39:55
			is what Islam
		
00:39:55 --> 00:39:56
			teaches us.
		
00:40:01 --> 00:40:02
			So you
		
00:40:02 --> 00:40:05
			give water to your wife. You fetch water
		
00:40:05 --> 00:40:05
			for her.
		
00:40:07 --> 00:40:08
			You help her.
		
00:40:09 --> 00:40:10
			You'll be rewarded.
		
00:40:12 --> 00:40:14
			You put that morsel of food in her
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:15
			mouth.
		
00:40:16 --> 00:40:17
			It is Hasana.
		
00:40:17 --> 00:40:18
			Shabiaqah,
		
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			charity for you. Charity.
		
00:40:24 --> 00:40:25
			You fulfill
		
00:40:26 --> 00:40:27
			your biological
		
00:40:28 --> 00:40:28
			needs.
		
00:40:30 --> 00:40:31
			It is charity.
		
00:40:32 --> 00:40:33
			You satisfy
		
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			during
		
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			in Tennessee,
		
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			and you have no life to live out
		
00:40:41 --> 00:40:42
			until she is satisfied.
		
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			That is alright.
		
00:40:45 --> 00:40:47
			Islam has to deal with
		
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			everything,
		
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			my dear brothers and sisters.
		
00:41:32 --> 00:41:33
			May Allah
		
00:41:34 --> 00:41:35
			keep us to remain
		
00:41:36 --> 00:41:37
			on this beautiful deen
		
00:41:38 --> 00:41:40
			till we meet him and he is pleased
		
00:41:40 --> 00:41:41
			with.
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:44
			See what the prophet
		
00:41:46 --> 00:41:47
			say.
		
00:42:10 --> 00:42:11
			The prophet
		
00:42:11 --> 00:42:11
			said,
		
00:42:12 --> 00:42:13
			oh, Allah,
		
00:42:14 --> 00:42:15
			I declare
		
00:42:18 --> 00:42:18
			inviolable
		
00:42:19 --> 00:42:20
			inviolable
		
00:42:23 --> 00:42:25
			The rights of 2 weak ones,
		
00:42:25 --> 00:42:26
			the orphans and women.
		
00:42:28 --> 00:42:29
			Oh, Allah.
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:31
			I declare
		
00:42:32 --> 00:42:33
			inviolable
		
00:42:34 --> 00:42:35
			something
		
00:42:35 --> 00:42:36
			as if it is sacred.
		
00:42:41 --> 00:42:42
			The rights of women,
		
00:42:44 --> 00:42:45
			the rights of the 2,
		
00:42:46 --> 00:42:48
			of the 2 weak ones,
		
00:42:49 --> 00:42:51
			the orphans and women.
		
00:42:53 --> 00:42:54
			Have to die.
		
00:42:56 --> 00:42:56
			Yes.
		
00:42:57 --> 00:42:58
			Described as weak.
		
00:42:59 --> 00:43:01
			The orphans, they are weak.
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:05
			So
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:07
			the one who is in charge
		
00:43:08 --> 00:43:10
			of looking after them has to fear Allah,
		
00:43:12 --> 00:43:13
			and you should not
		
00:43:14 --> 00:43:14
			devour
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:17
			and eat up their property,
		
00:43:18 --> 00:43:19
			The guardian,
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:21
			the one who's in charge.
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:26
			And women, they are weak.
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:34
			So
		
00:43:35 --> 00:43:36
			that's why Allah
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:39
			has given them
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:40
			multiple
		
00:43:41 --> 00:43:42
			layers of protection.
		
00:43:45 --> 00:43:46
			So here,
		
00:43:47 --> 00:43:47
			the is
		
00:43:48 --> 00:43:49
			saying,
		
00:43:50 --> 00:43:51
			oh, Allah.
		
00:43:58 --> 00:43:58
			Oh, Muslims,
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:00
			be aware.
		
00:44:02 --> 00:44:03
			Do not
		
00:44:06 --> 00:44:07
			deprive
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:09
			those two their lights,
		
00:44:10 --> 00:44:12
			the orphans and women.
		
00:44:13 --> 00:44:15
			Give them their lights.
		
00:44:16 --> 00:44:17
			Otherwise,
		
00:44:19 --> 00:44:20
			a day will come,
		
00:44:22 --> 00:44:25
			and you will be standing before Allah.
		
00:44:29 --> 00:44:30
			And there
		
00:44:33 --> 00:44:34
			you'll be held accountable
		
00:44:37 --> 00:44:38
			because
		
00:44:39 --> 00:44:40
			you wronged
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:42
			your woman.
		
00:44:43 --> 00:44:44
			You oppressed them
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:48
			of the orphans or did not give the
		
00:44:48 --> 00:44:51
			oven their rights or women their rights.
		
00:44:59 --> 00:45:01
			And listen what to the to the last
		
00:45:01 --> 00:45:02
			minute
		
00:45:02 --> 00:45:04
			to the last minute,
		
00:45:05 --> 00:45:06
			the prophet
		
00:45:06 --> 00:45:08
			was reminding the Muslims
		
00:45:10 --> 00:45:11
			about the rights of women.
		
00:45:14 --> 00:45:15
			Last minute.
		
00:45:17 --> 00:45:18
			Derated,
		
00:45:18 --> 00:45:19
			Sayidna Ali.
		
00:45:20 --> 00:45:22
			May Allah be pleased with that.
		
00:45:23 --> 00:45:24
			He said,
		
00:45:25 --> 00:45:27
			the last words
		
00:45:29 --> 00:45:31
			which the messenger of Allah spoke
		
00:45:32 --> 00:45:32
			where?
		
00:45:33 --> 00:45:35
			These words, they were.
		
00:45:49 --> 00:45:50
			Reminding the Muslims
		
00:45:53 --> 00:45:54
			before his soul
		
00:45:58 --> 00:45:58
			joined
		
00:45:58 --> 00:45:59
			the upper assembly,
		
00:46:02 --> 00:46:04
			before he breathed his last.
		
00:46:13 --> 00:46:15
			Your payers your payers
		
00:46:18 --> 00:46:19
			Payer payers. Which
		
00:46:21 --> 00:46:21
			means
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:24
			take care of your payers.
		
00:46:26 --> 00:46:28
			And fear a lot about those whom your
		
00:46:28 --> 00:46:30
			right hand possess,
		
00:46:31 --> 00:46:32
			whether
		
00:46:32 --> 00:46:33
			your wives
		
00:46:33 --> 00:46:34
			or your
		
00:46:35 --> 00:46:36
			slave girls.
		
00:46:40 --> 00:46:42
			Give them their rights.
		
00:46:43 --> 00:46:44
			Fear Allah.
		
00:46:50 --> 00:46:50
			Allah
		
00:46:51 --> 00:46:52
			regarding them.
		
00:46:55 --> 00:46:58
			Your prayers, maintain your prayers, never miss your
		
00:46:58 --> 00:46:58
			salah.
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:03
			And then your woman.
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:09
			Take care of them.
		
00:47:11 --> 00:47:12
			Give them their rights.
		
00:47:21 --> 00:47:22
			Another hadith,
		
00:47:24 --> 00:47:25
			which
		
00:47:28 --> 00:47:29
			shows us
		
00:47:29 --> 00:47:30
			the role model,
		
00:47:31 --> 00:47:33
			the best husband in the world.
		
00:47:36 --> 00:47:38
			The best husband in the world is prophet
		
00:47:38 --> 00:47:38
			Muhammad.
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:43
			You never find a husband
		
00:47:45 --> 00:47:46
			who can
		
00:47:47 --> 00:47:47
			come near
		
00:47:48 --> 00:47:50
			to the standard set by the prophet.
		
00:47:51 --> 00:47:51
			No one.
		
00:47:53 --> 00:47:54
			No one.
		
00:47:59 --> 00:48:01
			The way he sees his wife.
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:09
			Listen to this hadith
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:12
			reported
		
00:48:12 --> 00:48:14
			by Aisha of the in
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:16
			Bukhari.
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:21
			So the our role model, my dear brothers
		
00:48:21 --> 00:48:22
			and sisters,
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:25
			is our beloved prophet Muhammad
		
00:48:27 --> 00:48:28
			He's the role model.
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:31
			Anyone else?
		
00:48:38 --> 00:48:40
			No. Our role model is the,
		
00:48:41 --> 00:48:44
			and we should try to imitate and emulate
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:45
			and follow him
		
00:48:49 --> 00:48:51
			because he is the best one.
		
00:48:52 --> 00:48:55
			He is the one who understood the Quran
		
00:48:55 --> 00:48:55
			correctly
		
00:48:57 --> 00:48:58
			for the Quran came
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:02
			down upon him.
		
00:49:04 --> 00:49:05
			And then as
		
00:49:14 --> 00:49:15
			call it.
		
00:49:24 --> 00:49:25
			Narrated that as well.
		
00:49:27 --> 00:49:28
			I asked Aisha
		
00:49:28 --> 00:49:30
			what did the prophet
		
00:49:30 --> 00:49:31
			used to do at home?
		
00:49:32 --> 00:49:35
			At home. Outside, you said, at home. What
		
00:49:35 --> 00:49:37
			did what he used to do? He replied,
		
00:49:38 --> 00:49:41
			he used to keep himself busy serving his
		
00:49:41 --> 00:49:41
			family,
		
00:49:44 --> 00:49:45
			serving his family,
		
00:49:47 --> 00:49:49
			helping them in the kitchen,
		
00:49:53 --> 00:49:55
			with the daily chores of the house.
		
00:49:56 --> 00:49:57
			This is the prophet.
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:02
			And when it was time for the prayer,
		
00:50:02 --> 00:50:04
			he would get up for prayer.
		
00:50:06 --> 00:50:07
			Listen to this, my dear brothers.
		
00:50:10 --> 00:50:12
			This is your role model.
		
00:50:15 --> 00:50:18
			He used to help his family, his wives.
		
00:50:21 --> 00:50:22
			And you,
		
00:50:23 --> 00:50:25
			when you enter, you are sitting on the
		
00:50:25 --> 00:50:25
			couch,
		
00:50:26 --> 00:50:27
			crossing your legs,
		
00:50:29 --> 00:50:31
			moving from one channel to another,
		
00:50:32 --> 00:50:33
			and you are shouting
		
00:50:35 --> 00:50:35
			the food.
		
00:50:38 --> 00:50:39
			I'm starving.
		
00:50:41 --> 00:50:44
			And the poor girl is running around,
		
00:50:44 --> 00:50:47
			carrying her baby. The baby is crying,
		
00:50:50 --> 00:50:51
			and you are selfish,
		
00:50:52 --> 00:50:54
			and you see what she's going through.
		
00:50:54 --> 00:50:56
			And you don't want and to to even
		
00:50:56 --> 00:50:58
			to say to take the baby.
		
00:50:59 --> 00:51:00
			And you want her to do everything
		
00:51:02 --> 00:51:04
			when she has only a pair of hands.
		
00:51:07 --> 00:51:08
			This is our problem,
		
00:51:10 --> 00:51:12
			not the swan, the problem with the Muslims.
		
00:51:15 --> 00:51:16
			We are far away
		
00:51:19 --> 00:51:20
			from the Islamic tradition
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:25
			instead of
		
00:51:26 --> 00:51:27
			telling her,
		
00:51:28 --> 00:51:29
			I'll take the baby.
		
00:51:32 --> 00:51:34
			You take care of the
		
00:51:34 --> 00:51:35
			the rest.
		
00:51:35 --> 00:51:37
			Do whatever you are doing.
		
00:51:37 --> 00:51:39
			She's cooking and the baby is crying.
		
00:51:40 --> 00:51:41
			Take the child.
		
00:51:41 --> 00:51:42
			Do you do that?
		
00:51:48 --> 00:51:50
			Or you think you are king?
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:53
			You just dictate,
		
00:51:57 --> 00:51:58
			and you want everything.
		
00:51:59 --> 00:52:01
			And if there's a small thing, a small
		
00:52:01 --> 00:52:02
			mistake happen,
		
00:52:03 --> 00:52:05
			you flare up.
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:13
			Allah, my dear brothers.
		
00:52:14 --> 00:52:14
			Allah.
		
00:52:22 --> 00:52:24
			I ask each one of you, my dear
		
00:52:24 --> 00:52:24
			brothers,
		
00:52:25 --> 00:52:28
			to go and read and download the book.
		
00:52:28 --> 00:52:29
			It is free.
		
00:52:33 --> 00:52:34
			By Imam Nasai.
		
00:52:36 --> 00:52:38
			Way you treat your women.
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:43
			Oh, the Hadith of the prophet.
		
00:52:47 --> 00:52:49
			Learn. Learn from your prophet,
		
00:52:51 --> 00:52:54
			and you will have successful marital life.
		
00:52:57 --> 00:52:59
			So here, the is helping his wives,
		
00:53:00 --> 00:53:01
			helping them
		
00:53:03 --> 00:53:05
			with the daily chores, what they do at
		
00:53:05 --> 00:53:06
			home.
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:08
			Okay. I will do the washing.
		
00:53:09 --> 00:53:11
			I will wash the dishes.
		
00:53:12 --> 00:53:13
			I'll do the hoovering.
		
00:53:14 --> 00:53:16
			That will not affect your manhood
		
00:53:16 --> 00:53:18
			if you understand the meaning of manhood.
		
00:53:21 --> 00:53:23
			Life is like that. Life is give and
		
00:53:23 --> 00:53:24
			take.
		
00:53:30 --> 00:53:32
			So here, this is the prophet of Allah
		
00:53:33 --> 00:53:34
			This is our role model.
		
00:53:38 --> 00:53:38
			This is
		
00:53:40 --> 00:53:41
			our
		
00:53:43 --> 00:53:43
			role
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:45
			model.
		
00:53:47 --> 00:53:49
			And when you read
		
00:53:52 --> 00:53:55
			his life and how he treated his wives,
		
00:53:56 --> 00:53:57
			unbelievable.
		
00:54:01 --> 00:54:03
			Even when you got upset with them.
		
00:54:07 --> 00:54:09
			One day, he got upset with one of
		
00:54:09 --> 00:54:09
			them,
		
00:54:15 --> 00:54:18
			But he would not be unfair to them.
		
00:54:21 --> 00:54:22
			And it was
		
00:54:23 --> 00:54:23
			*
		
00:54:24 --> 00:54:26
			that wife of the prophet,
		
00:54:26 --> 00:54:28
			and the prophet was upset.
		
00:54:30 --> 00:54:30
			So
		
00:54:32 --> 00:54:33
			he this
		
00:54:34 --> 00:54:35
			wife of the
		
00:54:40 --> 00:54:42
			one of them, I forgot the name now,
		
00:54:44 --> 00:54:45
			she went to Aisha.
		
00:54:48 --> 00:54:48
			Said, Aisha,
		
00:54:49 --> 00:54:50
			the is
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:51
			angry with me.
		
00:54:52 --> 00:54:54
			If you make him
		
00:54:54 --> 00:54:56
			pleased with me,
		
00:54:57 --> 00:54:57
			happy,
		
00:54:59 --> 00:55:00
			I will reward you, said what you are
		
00:55:00 --> 00:55:02
			going to do. What you'll get me?
		
00:55:03 --> 00:55:05
			I will reward you. I will give you
		
00:55:05 --> 00:55:07
			my day. Today, it is my day. I'll
		
00:55:07 --> 00:55:08
			give it to you.
		
00:55:09 --> 00:55:11
			I will give it to you, but make
		
00:55:11 --> 00:55:12
			him happy,
		
00:55:13 --> 00:55:14
			not angry with me.
		
00:55:16 --> 00:55:17
			Aisha,
		
00:55:17 --> 00:55:19
			she said, I went.
		
00:55:20 --> 00:55:21
			I put on
		
00:55:22 --> 00:55:23
			new dress,
		
00:55:24 --> 00:55:25
			wear perfume,
		
00:55:26 --> 00:55:27
			and they went to the You
		
00:55:30 --> 00:55:33
			know what the prophet did? Said, Aisha,
		
00:55:33 --> 00:55:34
			stay away.
		
00:55:35 --> 00:55:36
			Don't come to me.
		
00:55:37 --> 00:55:38
			This is not your day.
		
00:55:40 --> 00:55:41
			Aisha smiled.
		
00:55:43 --> 00:55:45
			He said, this is this is from Allah.
		
00:55:47 --> 00:55:49
			Allah has given it to me.
		
00:55:50 --> 00:55:52
			This is religion from Allah
		
00:55:54 --> 00:55:56
			that I'll have extra day.
		
00:55:56 --> 00:55:59
			And she explained to him, and he smiled,
		
00:56:00 --> 00:56:02
			and he forgot his wife.
		
00:56:04 --> 00:56:05
			So
		
00:56:06 --> 00:56:07
			he told her,
		
00:56:07 --> 00:56:08
			though he was upset,
		
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			don't come.
		
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			This is not your ride. This is not
		
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			your day.
		
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			See, the prophet
		
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			he got upset with his wife, angry with
		
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			them.
		
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			And he told them because all of them,
		
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			they wanted food. They want maintenance, and they
		
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			does he didn't have.
		
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			He didn't have.
		
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			So he told them,
		
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			I will leave you for 1 month.
		
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			1 month, the prophet
		
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			stayed in the masjid.
		
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			There is a room. He's sleeping there.
		
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			And the rumors went all over Medina.
		
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			The prophet divorced his wife. The prophet divorced
		
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			his wife.
		
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			Doesn't
		
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			live
		
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			next to the Masjid.
		
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			He's somewhere
		
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			in the Awali
		
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			in Medina.
		
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			So when he heard about the mummah, he
		
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			came,
		
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			and he went to the room of his
		
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			daughter, Hasfah,
		
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			found her crying.
		
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			He told her,
		
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			the prophet divorced you?
		
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			She said, I don't know.
		
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			He told her, how many times
		
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			how many times I warned you
		
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			not to listen to Aisha?
		
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			And don't
		
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			think that you are equal to Aisha
		
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			because Absa and Aisha, they were always together,
		
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			thinking together,
		
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			planning together.
		
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			How many times they wound you?
		
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			You're not like Aisha. Aisha is the most
		
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			beloved woman
		
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			to the prophet,
		
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			and your father is not like our father
		
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			because Abu Bakr is the most beloved one
		
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			man to the prophet.
		
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			Then he left her,
		
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			and he went,
		
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			said Nur Umar,
		
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			to see the prophet.
		
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			Bilal was at the door. He didn't allow
		
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			her.
		
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			He told him, seek permission.
		
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			Tell the prophet,
		
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			I want to see him.
		
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			Came.
		
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			Go again
		
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			till he got the permission.
		
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			See the smartness of Sayidna Umar. Now
		
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			he wants to talk to the prophet,
		
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			but he has
		
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			because the atmosphere is so tense,
		
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			so he has to break the ice.
		
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			And this shows the intelligence of.
		
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			So when he entered,
		
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			he said,
		
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			oh, prophet of Allah,
		
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			women
		
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			okay.
		
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			Our women, when we were in Mecca,
		
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			they would not become rebellious.
		
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			K?
		
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			They would be obedient, and they were obedient.
		
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			But when they came to Medina,
		
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			they became different
		
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			because
		
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			they learned from the women of the Ansar.
		
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			The Ansar are soft hearted people.
		
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			Yemenites.
		
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			Remember the Yemenites?
		
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			Their hearts are so soft.
		
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			So they're women. They argue with them, and
		
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			they
		
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			sometimes they become
		
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			wild,
		
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			angry.
		
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			So I say, we know they're on Mecca.
		
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			Women, they would not argue with us.
		
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			But when we came to Medina,
		
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			they learned from the women of the Al
		
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			Star, and they are now arguing with us.
		
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			The prophet Rasalem smiled.
		
01:00:26 --> 01:00:27
			He smiled,
		
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			smiled about what said.
		
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			So said, then he sat down.
		
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			Remember, he came for one thing only to
		
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			find out whether the prophet
		
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			divorced his wife or not.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			Oh, Allah's messenger. Did you divorce your woman?
		
01:00:50 --> 01:00:51
			He said, no.
		
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			No.
		
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			Said, Nur Ahmed decided to verify
		
01:00:56 --> 01:00:59
			the news, the rumor, whether it is true
		
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			or not.
		
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			Said, no. I didn't
		
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			divorce my wife.
		
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			So the Omar came of the law, Anhu
		
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			said, Nur Umar,
		
01:01:09 --> 01:01:10
			tell him, shouting,
		
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			the prophet did not divorce his wife.
		
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			He didn't divorce his wife.
		
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			After
		
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			29 days
		
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			after 29 days,
		
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			the papa
		
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			came out of his room and went
		
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			to his house.
		
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			And the first one, he decided to visit
		
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			Aisha.
		
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			Aisha said, listen to this.
		
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			I you I was counting the days and
		
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			the nights on my fingers.
		
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			And now the prophet
		
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			wanted to enter,
		
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			see how she received him.
		
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			Allah is teaching us, my dear brothers and
		
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			sisters,
		
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			through the life of the prophet.
		
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			She told our prophet of Allah, you said
		
01:01:59 --> 01:02:00
			1 month
		
01:02:01 --> 01:02:03
			and today only 29th.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			smiled,
		
01:02:07 --> 01:02:08
			said, Aisha,
		
01:02:08 --> 01:02:11
			the month can be 29 days and can
		
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			be 30 days.
		
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			Let us have peace.
		
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			This is how the prophet
		
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			replied.
		
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			So he's teaching us.
		
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			Imagine now you got upset with your wife,
		
01:02:26 --> 01:02:29
			and you say you will never see my
		
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			face for 1 month. And came after 29
		
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			days,
		
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			and she told you exactly what Aisha said
		
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			to the prophet.
		
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			Tell me.
		
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			What will happen?
		
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			What will be your reaction?
		
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			What will be your reaction?
		
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			One day,
		
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			the
		
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			one of the wives of the, maybe Sophia,
		
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			she knows how to cook.
		
01:03:07 --> 01:03:07
			She
		
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			sent a dish
		
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			to the on
		
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			the day of Asia.
		
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			On the day of Asia.
		
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			Because the day of Asia is known.
		
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			Oh,
		
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			the Sahaba, if anyone wants to give a
		
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			gift to the prophet,
		
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			he gives it on the day of Aisha.
		
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			When Aisha the prophet
		
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			with Aisha.
		
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			So the life of the prophet
		
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			is still open,
		
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			transparent.
		
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			They know.
		
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			Oh, today, he's with Aisha.
		
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			Guess what happened?
		
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			Say, Aisha say, did Aisha, our mother Aisha
		
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			felt jealous.
		
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			You sent food to him on my day.
		
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			She took a stone
		
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			and hit the dish,
		
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			the bowl,
		
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			and broke it, and the food
		
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			fell on the ground.
		
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			On the floor. On the floor.
		
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			The prophet, what did he do?
		
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			He collected the food and put it in
		
01:04:21 --> 01:04:21
			a plate.
		
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			Right? Collected the food
		
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			and gave it to the sahaba.
		
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			And he said,
		
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			Your mother became jealous. That's it.
		
01:04:35 --> 01:04:37
			Your mother felt jealous.
		
01:04:38 --> 01:04:39
			And he told Aisha,
		
01:04:40 --> 01:04:41
			you broke the
		
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			utensil
		
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			of your sister.
		
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			Send her
		
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			one, which is,
		
01:04:50 --> 01:04:50
			intact
		
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			instead of this one that you broke. That
		
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			said nothing else.
		
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			Imagine this happens to you.
		
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			How would you react?
		
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			So this is our Islam, my dear
		
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			brothers
		
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			and sisters.
		
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			And we'll pause at this point, and we'll
		
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			continue
		
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			in the coming sessions.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			forgive us our false mistakes and ignorance.
		
01:05:32 --> 01:05:33
			May Allah
		
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			increase our knowledge in the deen Amin.
		
01:05:37 --> 01:05:39
			May Allah grant us the beneficial knowledge
		
01:05:40 --> 01:05:42
			and the righteous Hamal Amin.
		
01:05:43 --> 01:05:45
			May Allah keep us remain steadfast
		
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			in this beautiful deed
		
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			till we meet Allah,
		
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			and he's pleased with all of us.
		
01:05:53 --> 01:05:54
			May Allah guide
		
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			our May Allah unite our hearts on the.
		
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			And may Allah reward all of you, my
		
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			dear brothers and sisters,
		
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			immensely
		
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			for your patience,
		
01:06:05 --> 01:06:06
			for your dedication,
		
01:06:06 --> 01:06:07
			and for your attendance.
		
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			Brothers and sisters,
		
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			we will now start the question and answers
		
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			time. Please send in your questions fast so
		
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			we address them in this session.
		
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			We will start with the first question.
		
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			What is the difference between Ikhlas and Niyyah?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Niyyah is the intention,
		
01:06:46 --> 01:06:47
			which is
		
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			something mental.
		
01:06:50 --> 01:06:52
			You intend to do something.
		
01:06:52 --> 01:06:56
			That is the meaning of nia. So it's
		
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			meant the mental,
		
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			willingness and the mental preparation for something to
		
01:07:02 --> 01:07:03
			do something.
		
01:07:03 --> 01:07:05
			That's the meaning of nia.
		
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			If last
		
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			is that thing that I intend to do,
		
01:07:09 --> 01:07:10
			I do it
		
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			purely and exclusively
		
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			for the sake of Allah. So the intention
		
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			is connected to the action itself.
		
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			Is this action, this app, is it pure
		
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			for Allah's sake or not?
		
01:07:25 --> 01:07:26
			The motive.
		
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			What is the motive? Why am I doing
		
01:07:29 --> 01:07:30
			this thing?
		
01:07:31 --> 01:07:33
			Is it I'm doing it for the sake
		
01:07:33 --> 01:07:34
			of Allah?
		
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			So that is my
		
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			If I this purely for the sake of
		
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			Allah, that is
		
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			And the intention
		
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			is that you want to do something.
		
01:07:47 --> 01:07:50
			You decided to do something, so you intend
		
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			to do something. That is the intention, and
		
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			this intention has to be pure.
		
01:07:54 --> 01:07:57
			The motive has to be pure that you
		
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			are going to do something for the sake
		
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			of Allah
		
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			and Allah only.
		
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			Is this clear to the questioner?
		
01:08:08 --> 01:08:08
			Yes.
		
01:08:09 --> 01:08:10
			That is clear.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, if you have any more
		
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			questions, please send them in
		
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			fast Otherwise, we will
		
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			end this session.
		
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			I think,
		
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			the lesson was clear today. There's not many
		
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			questions coming in. We had that one question.
		
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			If you'd like to conclude,
		
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			May Allah
		
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			bless you. May Allah protect you, preserve
		
01:08:51 --> 01:08:53
			you, and protect your family.
		
01:08:54 --> 01:08:54
			And may Allah
		
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			elevate your status
		
01:08:58 --> 01:09:00
			in this world and the one to come.
		
01:09:00 --> 01:09:01
			May Allah
		
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			grant to
		
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			all those who are sick, amen,
		
01:09:05 --> 01:09:08
			and may Allah keep us remain steadfast in
		
01:09:08 --> 01:09:09
			this beautiful deed
		
01:09:09 --> 01:09:11
			till we meet him, and he is pleased
		
01:09:11 --> 01:09:13
			with all of us. I mean,
		
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			and until,
		
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			we meet in the coming session, I leave
		
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			you in Allah's
		
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			company
		
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			and Allah's protection.