The importance of avoiding "branded form" during the weekly class of MAChaem is emphasized, along with the need to practice privacy and avoid harms. The speakers also address the decline of Islam's values and the importance of seeking permission before entering someone's home. The sharia is used in Islam, and attention is given to studying and learning from a husband's personality to improve their character and overcome bad tendencies. The importance of reading the announcement of her marriage and her sister is also emphasized.
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Sheikh, ready when you are? Ready.
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Okay.
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Brothers and sisters.
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Welcome to our weekly class
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of virtues of Islam. This is lesson number
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15,
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and delivered by our honorable Sheikh Sheikh Salem
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Al Amri. I'll pass the mic and the
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screen to the Sheikh, and the Sheikh
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can begin Insha'Allah.
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My dear brothers and sisters in Islam,
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today is our weekly class.
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Islam,
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the virtues
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of Islam.
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In the last session, we talked about the
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virtue of,
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the virtue of lowering
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one's
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gaze.
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Because the
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mother
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or the gaze
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looking
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at what Allah prohibited
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harms
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and kills indeed
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the heart.
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So we should not treat this issue lightly.
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If we
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keep our
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gaze and our
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looks and our sight lose without controlling it,
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we'll be suffering
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we'll be suffering.
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So when Allah tells us to lower it
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because he knows what this sight
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and what this
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look
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will cost to you.
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Just take this example.
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2 brothers are going to the masjid.
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1 of them, he's minding his steps and
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he's looking down.
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Many
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naked women passed by.
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He didn't see them.
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The other brother
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is scanning the horizon,
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looking right, left, up, down.
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So he captured all these
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scenes,
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indecent scenes,
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all these
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pictures of those women.
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And both of them, they entered the masjid
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now,
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and they started the salah.
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The imam started the salah, and they said,
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The one who was lowering his gaze,
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he is focusing
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and concentrating
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in his salah.
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The other one,
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all these pictures are flashing in his mind.
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So throughout his salah,
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he was not able to focus and concentrate.
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So when Allah tells us to lower our
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gaze because he knows
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what that's going to cause
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to us.
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And the hardness of the heart, which many
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of us complain about
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because of the
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sight,
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we don't control it.
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We don't lower this gaze.
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We watch movies. We when we are outside,
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we don't lower our gaze, and we are
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looking.
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So all these
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scenes, they harm,
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and they harden the heart.
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So my advice for myself I'm talking to
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myself
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is that we need
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to start practicing lowering the gaze.
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If we want this heart to soften
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and to
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connect with Allah
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and has some connection with him, with Allah
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May Allah purify our hearts and yours.
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Ameen.
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So that's why Allah, he
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commanded the believing men and women to lower
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their case.
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That's what we taffered in the last session.
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Today, we'll continue
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among the virtues
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of Islam
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and the precautionary
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measures
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the Sharia
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provides
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in order to maintain
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the moral standard
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and keep it up
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and raise the bar
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is that it prohibited
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the free mixing,
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free mingling
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with the opposite *,
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and having
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privacy
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or privacy
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between a man and a woman
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who are not a Mahram.
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This is very, very important thing.
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Man and a woman who are not mahram,
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that means they can marry each other.
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They shall not be together.
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They shall not be together and
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have this khalwa,
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this privacy.
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Because this is very important thing
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because the one who created us, he knows.
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There's privacy or privacy.
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Something evil is going to result
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and come.
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That meeting
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and that sitting
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will yield and produce
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evil fruit.
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Allah
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subhanahu wa ta'ala
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in
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Surat Al Ahrab, ayah 53.
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He addresses
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the purest generation
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ever
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walked on this earth.
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The purest
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generation
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ever walked on this earth
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apart from the messengers and prophets of Allah,
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the companions of the prophet, the
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sahab.
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Allah is addressing them.
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And he is also addressing
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the most chaste women ever
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walked on this earth,
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the wives of the prophet.
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So see
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the the
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companions
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and the mothers.
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Their mothers, the wives of the.
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All
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And when you believe this,
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ask his wife,
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when you
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companions,
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ask his wife for something,
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ask them from behind
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a veil, a barrier.
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This is pure for your hearts and theirs.
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He's my mother.
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I'm talking to my mother, Aisha,
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Sauda,
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Hafsa,
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from behind the barrier.
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He's my mother.
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He's the most chaste
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woman
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on this planet.
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Yes.
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On top of that,
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ask your mother from behind a curtain.
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Then Allah
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give the hikmah.
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Why?
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Because
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all
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the commands of Allah,
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all the prohibitions,
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there is
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behind every instruction,
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a divine
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wisdom,
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whether
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we
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discover that and realize it,
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the wisdom, and know it or not.
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But there is a wisdom behind it
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and great benefit
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and great benefit.
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So Allah says,
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the reason
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that you have to
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ask them and talk to them from behind
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their barrier like curtain,
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separation,
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partition,
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This is pure.
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You are pure.
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You are
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decent. You are chaste.
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Must chase
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women.
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And must god fearing men.
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But this is better also for you.
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This is
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pure.
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This is
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the comparative
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form.
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If I have 2,
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k, he's pure.
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If I want to make comparison,
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pure He has pure heart.
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If I want to compare him to another
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one, I say,
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he has his heart is purer than
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this one's heart,
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for the comparison.
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So this is the com for the comparison.
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This
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is pure
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purer
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for your hearts
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and theirs, their hearts.
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When you talk to them from behind,
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So my dear brothers and sisters,
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this is
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addressed to
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the Sahara
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and the their mothers. How about us?
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Are our hearts purer than the hearts of
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the Sahara?
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Absolutely not.
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Everyone knows.
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We have sick hearts.
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So
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when we talk to the opposite *,
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follow the same technique.
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If you want to have pure heart,
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this is purer for you and for them.
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You don't mix with women, and you don't
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look at them.
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The same thing, women.
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Develop this habit to lower your gaze.
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Don't look at men.
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Because remember the hadith in the
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last session,
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The eye commits zina, and the zina of
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the eye is to look.
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And then the private part,
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the act,
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whether to approve of it or disapprove of
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it.
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So
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lower your gaze.
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Muhammad, a sheikhan or a terminated.
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Sibna Umar reported
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that the prophet
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said,
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whenever a man is alone with a woman,
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the devil makes a third. So the third
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person will be the devil.
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Clear cut evidence.
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Man and woman together,
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finish.
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3rd person is the shaitan.
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And what do you think my dear brothers
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and sisters, the shaitan
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will do?
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Will he remind them
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to fear Allah?
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Will he remind them to lower the case?
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The shaitan, will will he do that?
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The answer is obvious.
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He will do the opposite.
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K. She's looking at him.
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He's not bad.
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He's good looking.
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He's handsome.
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That good body.
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That's what's going in the back
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ground
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in her mind.
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It's cute.
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Same thing in his mind.
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He's beautiful,
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but nice figure.
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So who's putting these ideas
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in their minds?
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The the one who is next setting next
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to them.
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That's what he dictates. That's what he whispers.
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K?
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Colleagues. We are colleagues.
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K?
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He's
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having
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new
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blouse and new skirt. Oh,
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he has to place her.
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Oh, you look gorgeous.
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Nice fit.
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Amazing. You have good taste.
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When he says, thank you,
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she feels happy
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because
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he has something else in his mind.
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So my dear brothers and sisters, let us
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face the reality.
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Let's call a spade, a spade.
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Right? No need to beat around the above
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the bush or around the bush.
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A man and a woman together finish.
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3rd person is the shaitan.
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Even if she's not that beautiful,
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the shaitan will make her appear and look
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in your eyes.
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Beauty is
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in, is in the eye of the beholder.
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So in the eye of the beholder,
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she's beautiful.
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Don't you see?
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People, they fall in love
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when you see
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that woman. See?
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How come
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he he fell in love with this woman?
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To him,
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he's miss World.
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He's older than him.
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He looks like his mother
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is a love.
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To him, she is
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beautiful.
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So the shaitan can
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make
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her look so beautiful.
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So the one who created
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us, my dear brothers and sisters,
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he knows this.
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So he warned us
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to save us
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from falling into this trap
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of the shaitan.
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So he said,
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Never ever
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have
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privacy or privacy
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with a woman.
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Never.
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Because the third person
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will be the shaytawan,
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the devil.
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Allah's
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messenger
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avoid going in where women are.
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A man said,
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messenger of Allah, tell me about the relatives
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of a woman's husband,
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the brother-in-law.
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To which he replied,
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the relatives of a woman's husband are death.
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So the word death
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here used to indicate
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a strong form of the harim,
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00:24:02
because
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that they are a cause of temptation
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to a man's wife.
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That's why he said the in laws,
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the brother-in-law,
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Al Hamel,
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is death
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very
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dangerous
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that your brother,
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you go to work,
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and he stays in your home
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with your
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wife.
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Very dangerous.
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He's my brother. I trust him. Forget it.
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There are
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many cases.
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The brother-in-law
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committed
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with the wife of his
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brother.
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You cannot leave your brother
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with your wife.
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Cannot. The one who created
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00:25:15
you and your brother,
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00:25:17
Allah,
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through his prophet
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tells you your brother is deaf.
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He is the most dangerous
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guy.
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He should not leave him in your home.
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He should not
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enter your home, your house, and your absence
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because,
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first of all,
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no one will suspect him.
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Oh, he is the uncle of the children.
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He is seeing his
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00:26:00
brother's children.
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He's a kind uncle
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00:26:08
because his brother is away, so he takes
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00:26:09
care of them.
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So he's visiting them.
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00:26:19
So how do people think about him?
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So no one will ever suspect him.
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And now when he is with
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the wife of his father,
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that person is the.
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And maybe the kids are very young. They
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don't know what's going on.
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00:26:52
K. So Allah knows that.
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00:26:56
That this
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devil
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00:27:00
is very dangerous
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00:27:04
because no one will suspect him.
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00:27:08
It is safe. He can come anytime.
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00:27:16
So that's why
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00:27:19
but prophet said, oh, no.
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Is deaf.
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He is the one who will cause the
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the severest
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damage.
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00:27:42
So that's why he say,
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avoid going in
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A place where women are.
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I warn you.
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This is what the prophet said. I'm saying
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my dear brothers and sisters.
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00:28:00
I warn you.
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00:28:11
Woman? Say, no.
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00:28:14
I will not go there.
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I will not go
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there. Talk to them.
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Give them
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more Eva
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and remind them.
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I can't.
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I have.
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I should not.
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If
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they want to be reminded,
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would
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that be it?
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Between
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00:28:58
me and them.
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00:29:02
That is pure for me
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00:29:03
and for them.
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00:29:07
They don't see me. I don't see them.
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00:29:13
I don't want to have problems at home
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00:29:14
when I go.
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00:29:15
All these
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00:29:19
flashes are there.
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I am
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00:29:24
having this beautiful marital
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00:29:25
life.
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00:29:28
K? My wife,
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00:29:29
she's
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00:29:31
everything in my life.
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00:29:34
I'm content.
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00:29:37
I don't see other women.
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00:29:40
But now if
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00:29:44
I start seeing other women,
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00:29:46
Now the contrast
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00:29:48
will start happening,
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00:29:52
the comparison.
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00:29:54
So that's why
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00:29:56
Islam telling us
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00:29:58
lower the
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00:30:03
gaze so that you have this serenity,
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00:30:05
peace of mind,
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00:30:07
and you'll have this contentment.
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00:30:12
And believe me, my dear brothers and sister,
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00:30:14
every woman is beautiful.
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00:30:16
Every woman.
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00:30:24
So Allah bless you with this wife.
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00:30:25
Be happy.
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00:30:27
She's beautiful.
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00:30:32
K.
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00:30:37
Because the real beauty is the beauty of
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00:30:37
the substance,
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00:30:41
the beauty of the heart.
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00:30:45
Maybe the looking are not that,
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00:30:47
but there are other
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00:30:49
qualities they cover up,
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00:30:51
which you do not find
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00:30:54
in one who has good looking.
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00:30:56
He has bad manners.
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He
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00:30:58
doesn't have a.
00:31:04 -->
00:31:05
He can't even
00:31:06 -->
00:31:08
make you fix you a cup of tea
00:31:10 -->
00:31:12
or make an omelette for you.
00:31:13 -->
00:31:16
He's only busy with her nail polish
00:31:16 -->
00:31:17
and her
00:31:18 -->
00:31:20
makeup. That's what she knows.
00:31:20 -->
00:31:22
All the way all the time in front
00:31:22 -->
00:31:24
of the dressing table.
00:31:27 -->
00:31:28
The other one,
00:31:30 -->
00:31:32
he's doing everything.
00:31:33 -->
00:31:35
He's the dynamo
00:31:35 -->
00:31:36
of the house,
00:31:38 -->
00:31:41
Takes care of the children, takes care of
00:31:41 -->
00:31:41
you.
00:31:42 -->
00:31:43
Everything.
00:31:46 -->
00:31:48
So you cannot compare them.
00:31:50 -->
00:31:50
So
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00:31:52
be happy
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00:31:55
and have discontentment.
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00:31:58
As the said,
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00:31:59
dunya matah,
00:32:00 -->
00:32:01
this dunya.
00:32:02 -->
00:32:02
This is
00:32:04 -->
00:32:05
enjoyment, entertainment.
00:32:10 -->
00:32:11
The best thing,
00:32:11 -->
00:32:12
enjoyment of this
00:32:22 -->
00:32:23
pious wife, spouse.
00:32:25 -->
00:32:26
Allah bless you
00:32:28 -->
00:32:29
with a wife
00:32:30 -->
00:32:31
who fears Allah
00:32:36 -->
00:32:37
Be grateful.
00:32:39 -->
00:32:40
Be grateful to Allah.
00:32:42 -->
00:32:45
Imam Ahmed Rahim Allah, when his wife passed
00:32:45 -->
00:32:46
away,
00:32:48 -->
00:32:49
and he wanted to
00:32:50 -->
00:32:50
get married,
00:32:52 -->
00:32:55
they told him there are 2 sisters. 1
00:32:55 -->
00:32:56
of them is good looking,
00:32:57 -->
00:33:00
and the other, he lost one of her
00:33:00 -->
00:33:01
eyes, his
00:33:02 -->
00:33:03
one eyed.
00:33:05 -->
00:33:07
Said, which one is more pious?
00:33:08 -->
00:33:10
They said, the one who lost her eye.
00:33:10 -->
00:33:11
He said, I want that one,
00:33:12 -->
00:33:13
and he married
00:33:14 -->
00:33:14
her
00:33:16 -->
00:33:16
because
00:33:17 -->
00:33:18
the looks will go.
00:33:21 -->
00:33:22
What will remain?
00:33:24 -->
00:33:24
The
00:33:25 -->
00:33:27
beauty of the substance,
00:33:29 -->
00:33:31
the beauty of the heart. That's what will
00:33:31 -->
00:33:31
remain.
00:33:35 -->
00:33:36
So in
00:33:37 -->
00:33:39
here, the is telling
00:33:40 -->
00:33:41
us
00:33:42 -->
00:33:44
never ever go to a place where there
00:33:44 -->
00:33:45
are women.
00:33:46 -->
00:33:47
Avoid going
00:33:49 -->
00:33:51
in where women are
00:33:52 -->
00:33:55
because you will be harmed. You'll be affected.
00:33:59 -->
00:34:00
You'll be affected.
00:34:02 -->
00:34:03
So ask that people,
00:34:04 -->
00:34:06
and this what is what we need to
00:34:06 -->
00:34:09
work on. If we really want to
00:34:11 -->
00:34:12
have,
00:34:14 -->
00:34:16
I mean, good community
00:34:20 -->
00:34:23
and maintain the and the and
00:34:23 -->
00:34:24
and the.
00:34:27 -->
00:34:29
You have to make the provisions.
00:34:30 -->
00:34:32
It's only piece of cloth. You pull it,
00:34:32 -->
00:34:33
and that's it.
00:34:39 -->
00:34:40
So
00:34:41 -->
00:34:43
they don't see you? You don't see them?
00:34:57 -->
00:34:59
So now the Sahara,
00:35:00 -->
00:35:02
they understood this warning.
00:35:05 -->
00:35:06
That means
00:35:07 -->
00:35:09
where there are women, and they know, of
00:35:09 -->
00:35:12
course, by default that the women here,
00:35:14 -->
00:35:14
the prophet
00:35:14 -->
00:35:16
is talking about, are the women who are
00:35:16 -->
00:35:17
not Mahal.
00:35:19 -->
00:35:21
He's not telling us that I cannot go
00:35:21 -->
00:35:24
with my mother or my sister. No. He's
00:35:24 -->
00:35:27
talking about the women who are not.
00:35:27 -->
00:35:29
That woman that I can marry.
00:35:32 -->
00:35:35
So that's why this man, he asked, is
00:35:35 -->
00:35:36
there an exception
00:35:38 -->
00:35:40
of the in law, the brother-in-law?
00:35:42 -->
00:35:44
Is there an exception for him?
00:35:50 -->
00:35:53
Tell us, how about the Hamu, the brother-in-law?
00:35:57 -->
00:35:57
How about
00:36:03 -->
00:36:04
him? Can he
00:36:05 -->
00:36:06
go
00:36:06 -->
00:36:07
and enter
00:36:09 -->
00:36:11
my home and visit my home.
00:36:20 -->
00:36:22
This is in Bukhari and Muswell.
00:36:24 -->
00:36:25
See the expression,
00:36:26 -->
00:36:28
al hamu al maut,
00:36:30 -->
00:36:32
which means this is very
00:36:33 -->
00:36:34
the strongest form of.
00:36:37 -->
00:36:38
As
00:36:39 -->
00:36:41
if if this brother-in-law
00:36:43 -->
00:36:44
enters your home,
00:36:45 -->
00:36:47
death will take place.
00:36:50 -->
00:36:50
Okay?
00:36:51 -->
00:36:52
Chastity,
00:36:53 -->
00:36:53
modesty
00:36:54 -->
00:36:55
will be slain,
00:36:56 -->
00:36:57
will be
00:36:57 -->
00:36:59
will become dead,
00:36:59 -->
00:37:00
will die
00:37:01 -->
00:37:01
because
00:37:02 -->
00:37:04
Cheban is there.
00:37:05 -->
00:37:07
And once a woman loses
00:37:12 -->
00:37:12
her honor,
00:37:17 -->
00:37:18
and betrays her husband.
00:37:22 -->
00:37:22
The morality
00:37:23 -->
00:37:25
flowing through the window.
00:37:25 -->
00:37:26
Gone.
00:37:26 -->
00:37:27
So
00:37:35 -->
00:37:36
now wonder here,
00:37:37 -->
00:37:39
the use this form.
00:37:45 -->
00:37:47
We have to give in mind, my dear
00:37:47 -->
00:37:48
brothers and sisters,
00:37:49 -->
00:37:50
that women's hearts
00:37:51 -->
00:37:52
are weak.
00:37:54 -->
00:37:55
They are
00:37:59 -->
00:37:59
weak.
00:38:03 -->
00:38:06
That's why the called them what?
00:38:08 -->
00:38:09
Fragile
00:38:16 -->
00:38:16
vessels.
00:38:18 -->
00:38:18
Fragile
00:38:21 -->
00:38:21
Blessings.
00:38:29 -->
00:38:29
So
00:38:31 -->
00:38:34
Allah who created us, he is commanding both
00:38:34 -->
00:38:35
of us,
00:38:37 -->
00:38:37
k,
00:38:38 -->
00:38:41
to be far away from each other so
00:38:41 -->
00:38:43
that we do not cause damage
00:38:44 -->
00:38:45
and harm to each other.
00:38:52 -->
00:38:53
Some brothers,
00:39:00 -->
00:39:01
Practicing brothers.
00:39:06 -->
00:39:07
And they show
00:39:09 -->
00:39:11
their biceps, their muscles.
00:39:17 -->
00:39:17
And
00:39:18 -->
00:39:19
the machinists,
00:39:20 -->
00:39:21
they are machinemen.
00:39:30 -->
00:39:31
I bet
00:39:31 -->
00:39:33
my brothers don't do that.
00:39:36 -->
00:39:37
Don't do that.
00:39:39 -->
00:39:40
Because women,
00:39:40 -->
00:39:41
they watch,
00:39:43 -->
00:39:45
and you cause friction after them,
00:39:46 -->
00:39:46
and you
00:39:47 -->
00:39:48
affect them.
00:39:50 -->
00:39:51
You affect them.
00:39:54 -->
00:39:56
Maybe that's not your intention,
00:39:58 -->
00:39:59
so don't do that.
00:40:08 -->
00:40:10
Because women's hearts are weak.
00:41:04 -->
00:41:04
Narrated
00:41:07 -->
00:41:09
of the allahu anhu,
00:41:10 -->
00:41:12
the prophet came to some of his wives
00:41:12 -->
00:41:14
among whom there was
00:41:14 -->
00:41:15
and
00:41:18 -->
00:41:21
said, may Allah be merciful to you, oh
00:41:21 -->
00:41:22
Anja Shah.
00:41:23 -->
00:41:24
Drive the camel slowly
00:41:26 -->
00:41:28
as they are carrying glass vessels.
00:41:31 -->
00:41:31
Anjusha,
00:41:33 -->
00:41:33
they were traveling,
00:41:36 -->
00:41:37
and
00:41:37 -->
00:41:38
has beautiful
00:41:39 -->
00:41:39
voice
00:41:39 -->
00:41:40
sound,
00:41:41 -->
00:41:42
nice voice,
00:41:43 -->
00:41:45
and he was doing the Hida.
00:41:46 -->
00:41:46
Hida
00:41:49 -->
00:41:50
is to sing,
00:41:57 -->
00:41:58
and this song
00:41:59 -->
00:42:00
becomes like.
00:42:01 -->
00:42:03
So when you start
00:42:03 -->
00:42:04
singing,
00:42:04 -->
00:42:05
and this is
00:42:06 -->
00:42:08
the the bad ones always
00:42:08 -->
00:42:09
do
00:42:09 -->
00:42:10
when they're traveling,
00:42:11 -->
00:42:13
and especially if they are at night or
00:42:13 -->
00:42:15
during the day, but most of the nights
00:42:15 -->
00:42:16
at nights,
00:42:17 -->
00:42:18
when they are
00:42:19 -->
00:42:19
chanting,
00:42:21 -->
00:42:24
the camels just start to move very fast.
00:42:26 -->
00:42:29
It affects even the camels.
00:42:31 -->
00:42:33
So the camels, they will
00:42:35 -->
00:42:35
walk
00:42:36 -->
00:42:37
very fast.
00:42:40 -->
00:42:41
And now the women
00:42:41 -->
00:42:43
are on top of the camels.
00:42:46 -->
00:42:49
And imagine the camel is moving very fast,
00:42:49 -->
00:42:51
so that is also harming them,
00:42:52 -->
00:42:53
affecting them
00:42:57 -->
00:42:59
because they are fragile
00:42:59 -->
00:43:00
vessels,
00:43:00 -->
00:43:01
glass vessels.
00:43:07 -->
00:43:08
So here, the prophet
00:43:08 -->
00:43:09
told An Yesha,
00:43:10 -->
00:43:11
Ang
00:43:13 -->
00:43:14
Yasha,
00:43:19 -->
00:43:20
slow down.
00:43:23 -->
00:43:25
Don't you know who are on the top
00:43:25 -->
00:43:26
of the camels
00:43:27 -->
00:43:28
are glass vessels.
00:43:29 -->
00:43:30
You see the prophet
00:43:31 -->
00:43:32
the expression,
00:43:33 -->
00:43:35
how he referred to the women.
00:43:37 -->
00:43:38
That's something tender
00:43:39 -->
00:43:40
for a child.
00:43:43 -->
00:43:43
So the
00:43:44 -->
00:43:45
commentators
00:43:46 -->
00:43:47
on the hadith, they said,
00:43:49 -->
00:43:51
because the camel started to move fast.
00:43:53 -->
00:43:55
So he asked him to
00:43:55 -->
00:43:56
stop singing
00:43:57 -->
00:43:59
so that the camel would slow down,
00:44:00 -->
00:44:02
so the woman will not be harmed.
00:44:03 -->
00:44:04
That's one explanation.
00:44:06 -->
00:44:07
The other explanation
00:44:08 -->
00:44:11
that your voice will affect the woman.
00:44:14 -->
00:44:15
K.
00:44:19 -->
00:44:20
Slow down.
00:44:24 -->
00:44:24
K.
00:44:29 -->
00:44:29
Allah.
00:44:30 -->
00:44:31
There are women with us,
00:44:40 -->
00:44:42
And your voice will
00:44:42 -->
00:44:43
affect them.
00:44:51 -->
00:44:53
So he said, oh, and Gisha died, they
00:44:53 -->
00:44:54
come as slowly
00:44:56 -->
00:44:59
as they are carrying glass vessels.
00:45:02 -->
00:45:03
So the prophet
00:45:07 -->
00:45:09
he takes all precautions
00:45:10 -->
00:45:10
precautions
00:45:13 -->
00:45:14
to protect
00:45:16 -->
00:45:17
the Muslims.
00:45:19 -->
00:45:21
So he feared
00:45:25 -->
00:45:27
that the songs and the singing
00:45:27 -->
00:45:28
of Anjusha
00:45:29 -->
00:45:31
might affect the heart.
00:45:32 -->
00:45:33
So he told him,
00:45:35 -->
00:45:35
fear Allah.
00:45:38 -->
00:45:39
Woe to you, he told him.
00:45:42 -->
00:45:42
Said,
00:45:44 -->
00:45:45
Woe to you, oh.
00:45:47 -->
00:45:48
Slow
00:45:48 -->
00:45:49
down.
00:45:53 -->
00:45:54
There are
00:45:55 -->
00:45:56
glass vessels with us.
00:45:58 -->
00:45:59
The cameras are
00:46:00 -->
00:46:00
carrying
00:46:01 -->
00:46:02
glass vessels.
00:46:07 -->
00:46:08
So here, the is
00:46:11 -->
00:46:12
he stepped in
00:46:14 -->
00:46:15
to protect
00:46:18 -->
00:46:18
the women
00:46:19 -->
00:46:20
from being
00:46:20 -->
00:46:21
influenced
00:46:21 -->
00:46:22
and
00:46:22 -->
00:46:23
moved
00:46:24 -->
00:46:25
by
00:46:29 -->
00:46:31
the singing and the songs of Anjusha.
00:46:38 -->
00:46:40
So this what the Sharia
00:46:42 -->
00:46:45
teaches us. This what Islam teaches
00:46:48 -->
00:46:50
to protect us,
00:46:51 -->
00:46:53
to protect the Muslim community,
00:46:54 -->
00:46:55
to have healthy
00:46:58 -->
00:46:58
society,
00:47:03 -->
00:47:04
to maintain morality.
00:47:09 -->
00:47:10
Because
00:47:11 -->
00:47:12
if a nations lose
00:47:16 -->
00:47:17
morality,
00:47:18 -->
00:47:21
that's the beginning of the decline and destruction.
00:47:24 -->
00:47:25
K?
00:47:26 -->
00:47:28
K. Today, you see
00:47:29 -->
00:47:32
some communities, they are. The civilization
00:47:32 -->
00:47:33
now declining
00:47:35 -->
00:47:36
because they lost everything.
00:47:38 -->
00:47:39
They lost
00:47:41 -->
00:47:41
the,
00:47:43 -->
00:47:44
the moral
00:47:44 -->
00:47:45
values.
00:47:50 -->
00:47:51
They
00:47:51 -->
00:47:51
started
00:47:54 -->
00:47:54
accepting
00:47:56 -->
00:47:56
something
00:47:57 -->
00:47:59
that can never be accepted.
00:48:03 -->
00:48:06
And they are pushing it down in the
00:48:06 -->
00:48:07
throats of the people.
00:48:10 -->
00:48:13
Those moral people who are trying to
00:48:13 -->
00:48:14
follow
00:48:15 -->
00:48:16
the
00:48:16 -->
00:48:19
ethical values and moral values,
00:48:20 -->
00:48:22
they're facing difficulty.
00:48:24 -->
00:48:26
You have to conform.
00:48:26 -->
00:48:27
You have to accept
00:48:29 -->
00:48:32
accept the lesbians, accept the homosexuals.
00:48:32 -->
00:48:33
You accept everything.
00:48:40 -->
00:48:42
You cannot talk about anything.
00:48:43 -->
00:48:45
You cannot call these things.
00:48:50 -->
00:48:51
No. It's no
00:48:52 -->
00:48:53
talk. It's a community.
00:48:55 -->
00:48:55
Their
00:48:57 -->
00:48:59
their moral values and
00:49:00 -->
00:49:01
ethics are
00:49:03 -->
00:49:04
declining,
00:49:05 -->
00:49:05
decaying.
00:49:05 -->
00:49:06
That's the
00:49:09 -->
00:49:12
the collapse, the decline of
00:49:12 -->
00:49:13
their civilization.
00:49:18 -->
00:49:20
Families, what happened to the families?
00:49:23 -->
00:49:24
Disintegrated.
00:49:25 -->
00:49:27
Families are falling apart.
00:49:35 -->
00:49:35
So
00:49:37 -->
00:49:38
in Islam,
00:49:43 -->
00:49:44
though we are
00:49:44 -->
00:49:46
under constant attack
00:49:49 -->
00:49:50
that they want us to
00:49:51 -->
00:49:53
drink from the same cup
00:49:54 -->
00:49:55
to follow them.
00:50:00 -->
00:50:03
They want us to leave our deed, to
00:50:03 -->
00:50:03
leave
00:50:04 -->
00:50:05
our ethical
00:50:06 -->
00:50:06
values,
00:50:07 -->
00:50:10
moral values. That's what they are working around
00:50:10 -->
00:50:10
the clock.
00:50:15 -->
00:50:17
But Allah is our protector.
00:50:20 -->
00:50:21
Allah is the protector.
00:50:23 -->
00:50:24
And Muslim,
00:50:24 -->
00:50:26
they have to wake up,
00:50:27 -->
00:50:28
and they should not
00:50:28 -->
00:50:30
swallow the bait
00:50:31 -->
00:50:31
because
00:50:33 -->
00:50:34
once
00:50:38 -->
00:50:39
the
00:50:39 -->
00:50:40
immorality
00:50:40 -->
00:50:41
takes place
00:50:44 -->
00:50:45
and moral values
00:50:47 -->
00:50:48
are gone,
00:50:48 -->
00:50:48
Allah's
00:50:50 -->
00:50:51
wrath and anger
00:50:51 -->
00:50:52
is
00:50:55 -->
00:50:56
about to
00:50:59 -->
00:51:00
fall
00:51:00 -->
00:51:02
upon those who
00:51:06 -->
00:51:07
practice
00:51:09 -->
00:51:10
the abominations,
00:51:12 -->
00:51:13
those who practice
00:51:14 -->
00:51:15
bad deeds.
00:51:21 -->
00:51:24
Allah destroyed this town of Sodom,
00:51:26 -->
00:51:29
the people of Ruth because they were practicing
00:51:31 -->
00:51:32
*
00:51:33 -->
00:51:34
of homosexuality.
00:51:34 -->
00:51:37
They were homosexuals. So Allah destroyed the whole
00:51:37 -->
00:51:38
town
00:51:40 -->
00:51:41
whole town.
00:51:42 -->
00:51:42
Our
00:51:43 -->
00:51:43
mother,
00:51:49 -->
00:51:49
Aisha
00:51:54 -->
00:51:55
the
00:52:02 -->
00:52:03
prophet He said,
00:52:03 -->
00:52:06
will Allah destroy us and ruin us
00:52:07 -->
00:52:08
while we have pious
00:52:09 -->
00:52:12
and righteous ones among us? I said, yes.
00:52:13 -->
00:52:15
Allah will do that.
00:52:16 -->
00:52:17
When
00:52:19 -->
00:52:19
immorality
00:52:24 -->
00:52:25
becomes rampant.
00:52:27 -->
00:52:28
Moral decay
00:52:30 -->
00:52:31
becomes rampant.
00:52:36 -->
00:52:36
When
00:52:38 -->
00:52:39
it is rampant,
00:52:41 -->
00:52:42
then, yes,
00:52:44 -->
00:52:46
Allah gets angry,
00:52:47 -->
00:52:49
and he showers his wrath and
00:52:50 -->
00:52:51
anger on all,
00:52:52 -->
00:52:54
and he destroys all.
00:53:05 -->
00:53:07
May Allah save us.
00:53:12 -->
00:53:14
Because the Muslim Ummah is targeted.
00:53:16 -->
00:53:18
And the enemies of Islam,
00:53:19 -->
00:53:21
they are working around the clock.
00:53:22 -->
00:53:23
How to
00:53:25 -->
00:53:26
make the Muslim
00:53:27 -->
00:53:27
leave
00:53:27 -->
00:53:28
the deen
00:53:30 -->
00:53:33
and stop practicing it and holding to the
00:53:33 -->
00:53:34
robe of Allah.
00:53:41 -->
00:53:42
So Islam
00:53:43 -->
00:53:43
the Sharia
00:53:44 -->
00:53:45
provides all these safeguards
00:53:47 -->
00:53:48
and these mechanisms
00:53:48 -->
00:53:49
of protection
00:53:51 -->
00:53:52
embedded in the deen
00:53:54 -->
00:53:56
keep men and women separate.
00:54:00 -->
00:54:01
So this
00:54:02 -->
00:54:03
moral
00:54:03 -->
00:54:04
corruption
00:54:04 -->
00:54:05
will not
00:54:06 -->
00:54:08
happen, will not take
00:54:09 -->
00:54:12
place. Even in the mosques in the Mas'akid,
00:54:13 -->
00:54:13
the prophet,
00:54:14 -->
00:54:16
he separated them.
00:54:17 -->
00:54:20
Women are at the back of the masjid,
00:54:20 -->
00:54:21
and they are
00:54:21 -->
00:54:23
far away from the Sahara.
00:54:24 -->
00:54:24
Far away.
00:54:26 -->
00:54:28
And he made a special door for them.
00:54:29 -->
00:54:30
Special door.
00:54:34 -->
00:54:35
They come.
00:54:37 -->
00:54:38
They pray.
00:54:39 -->
00:54:40
They leave.
00:54:47 -->
00:54:48
He told the woman,
00:54:48 -->
00:54:50
you should not raise immediately
00:54:50 -->
00:54:51
from your
00:54:54 -->
00:54:56
because so however they had choked soaps.
00:54:58 -->
00:54:59
They were very poor,
00:55:00 -->
00:55:01
especially those of.
00:55:04 -->
00:55:05
So if a woman
00:55:08 -->
00:55:09
rises quickly,
00:55:09 -->
00:55:12
she might see the aura of the companion.
00:55:14 -->
00:55:15
So they have to
00:55:17 -->
00:55:19
make sure that they when they stand from
00:55:19 -->
00:55:22
the ruku, the Sahaba already stood up.
00:55:24 -->
00:55:27
And the moment he would finish
00:55:28 -->
00:55:31
conclude the he would tell the remain seated,
00:55:31 -->
00:55:33
and the woman would leave.
00:55:35 -->
00:55:36
Till
00:55:41 -->
00:55:43
felt that now a few women had reached
00:55:43 -->
00:55:44
her home,
00:55:44 -->
00:55:47
then the Sahaba can move. So there was
00:55:47 -->
00:55:48
no free mixing.
00:55:48 -->
00:55:50
Those who say,
00:55:50 -->
00:55:52
but the women, they used to attend the
00:55:52 -->
00:55:55
masjid and pray in the masjid. Yes.
00:55:58 -->
00:55:59
But where does it say
00:56:00 -->
00:56:02
that they were chatting and,
00:56:03 -->
00:56:04
and mixing
00:56:05 -->
00:56:06
like what we see today? Where is it
00:56:06 -->
00:56:07
mentioned?
00:56:09 -->
00:56:10
To us.
00:56:25 -->
00:56:27
Also, there should not be
00:56:28 -->
00:56:28
Sharia,
00:56:29 -->
00:56:30
perhaps free mixing
00:56:32 -->
00:56:32
in schools
00:56:34 -->
00:56:35
called education.
00:56:37 -->
00:56:38
It's not allowed
00:56:40 -->
00:56:40
in Islam.
00:56:43 -->
00:56:44
Schools should be separate,
00:56:45 -->
00:56:46
boys and girls.
00:56:48 -->
00:56:50
And guess what? They found out.
00:56:52 -->
00:56:54
Those schools that they are separate,
00:56:56 -->
00:56:57
pupils
00:56:57 -->
00:56:58
and students'
00:56:59 -->
00:56:59
marks
00:57:00 -->
00:57:01
are higher
00:57:02 -->
00:57:02
than
00:57:03 -->
00:57:04
the coed
00:57:06 -->
00:57:08
boys and girls together, especially with the teenagers,
00:57:09 -->
00:57:09
high school.
00:57:10 -->
00:57:10
They
00:57:11 -->
00:57:12
cannot focus
00:57:13 -->
00:57:15
because they are putting them together,
00:57:17 -->
00:57:19
and they are teenagers.
00:57:26 -->
00:57:26
Sharia
00:57:26 -->
00:57:27
also.
00:57:30 -->
00:57:33
The beauty of this the virtues of this
00:57:33 -->
00:57:33
deal,
00:57:37 -->
00:57:37
it facilitates
00:57:38 -->
00:57:39
the marriage for the youth.
00:57:42 -->
00:57:42
It facilitates
00:57:43 -->
00:57:44
the marriage for the youth
00:57:46 -->
00:57:46
because
00:57:47 -->
00:57:50
this sexual drive is natural. It's there.
00:57:52 -->
00:57:52
So how
00:57:53 -->
00:57:53
to
00:57:54 -->
00:57:55
fulfill
00:57:57 -->
00:57:57
your biological
00:57:58 -->
00:58:01
needs through the marriage. So the Sharia
00:58:01 -->
00:58:02
in Islam
00:58:04 -->
00:58:04
facilitates
00:58:05 -->
00:58:06
and
00:58:06 -->
00:58:07
encourages
00:58:07 -->
00:58:07
the
00:58:08 -->
00:58:11
the the parents and the families to
00:58:13 -->
00:58:16
get the children married as early as possible
00:58:16 -->
00:58:19
and to facilitate it and to make it
00:58:19 -->
00:58:20
easy for them.
00:58:25 -->
00:58:26
Also, the Sharia
00:58:27 -->
00:58:28
teaches us,
00:58:31 -->
00:58:32
and these
00:58:33 -->
00:58:35
are virtues. These are the teachings of Islam
00:58:38 -->
00:58:39
that we seek permission,
00:58:40 -->
00:58:41
seeking permission
00:58:42 -->
00:58:42
before
00:58:43 -->
00:58:44
entering one's home.
00:58:46 -->
00:58:47
Before you enter someone's house,
00:58:49 -->
00:58:51
you ask for permission.
00:58:56 -->
00:58:57
You ask for permission.
00:59:01 -->
00:59:03
You ring 3 times and you leave if
00:59:03 -->
00:59:04
no one
00:59:04 -->
00:59:05
answered.
00:59:07 -->
00:59:09
And when you enter someone's home,
00:59:10 -->
00:59:11
you don't sit
00:59:13 -->
00:59:16
wherever you want. No. You ask the host,
00:59:17 -->
00:59:18
where do you want me to sit?
00:59:19 -->
00:59:21
K. So he will make you to sit
00:59:21 -->
00:59:22
in a place
00:59:22 -->
00:59:25
where you'll not be able to see
00:59:26 -->
00:59:28
the people of who are walking
00:59:28 -->
00:59:29
in the house.
00:59:30 -->
00:59:31
K.
00:59:32 -->
00:59:34
So he will make you sit in a
00:59:34 -->
00:59:35
place
00:59:35 -->
00:59:36
where you'll not be able.
00:59:37 -->
00:59:39
Not that you sit and hear the corridor,
00:59:40 -->
00:59:42
and the women are going to the kitchen
00:59:42 -->
00:59:45
and passing, and you are staring at them.
00:59:45 -->
00:59:46
No.
00:59:46 -->
00:59:50
So you are you will you enter someone's
00:59:50 -->
00:59:53
house. Before you sit, ask the host,
00:59:53 -->
00:59:55
where do you want me to sit.
00:59:58 -->
01:00:01
These are etiquettes. These are manner
01:00:02 -->
01:00:04
we are taught in Islam.
01:00:15 -->
01:00:15
Also,
01:00:18 -->
01:00:20
Islam prohibits
01:00:22 -->
01:00:23
using
01:00:23 -->
01:00:24
vulgar language,
01:00:28 -->
01:00:29
impolite
01:00:29 -->
01:00:30
words, expressions.
01:00:40 -->
01:00:42
The prophet said, a Muslim,
01:00:43 -->
01:00:43
they
01:00:44 -->
01:00:44
said.
01:00:45 -->
01:00:48
Muslim is not the one who swears
01:00:48 -->
01:00:49
or insults
01:00:52 -->
01:00:53
or the one who curses.
01:00:55 -->
01:00:58
Alisa Bilbedi who uses vulgar
01:00:59 -->
01:00:59
language.
01:01:04 -->
01:01:05
K?
01:01:06 -->
01:01:08
So the 4 letter word, don't use it.
01:01:08 -->
01:01:10
A Muslim cannot use it.
01:01:20 -->
01:01:21
Right? Among the precautionary
01:01:22 -->
01:01:24
measures which will help
01:01:25 -->
01:01:26
to
01:01:27 -->
01:01:27
maintain
01:01:28 -->
01:01:30
the moral values is to have
01:01:31 -->
01:01:31
righteous
01:01:32 -->
01:01:32
friends
01:01:33 -->
01:01:35
good friends, not bad friends.
01:01:38 -->
01:01:39
Not bad friends.
01:01:41 -->
01:01:42
So
01:01:43 -->
01:01:45
this what our deen is about, my dear
01:01:45 -->
01:01:46
brothers and sisters.
01:01:48 -->
01:01:50
These are the virtues of our deen, this
01:01:50 -->
01:01:51
beautiful deen.
01:01:53 -->
01:01:54
If we follow it,
01:01:55 -->
01:01:56
we'll be successful
01:01:57 -->
01:01:58
in this world
01:01:58 -->
01:01:59
and in the next.
01:02:01 -->
01:02:02
May Allah
01:02:03 -->
01:02:05
keep us to remain steadfast
01:02:05 -->
01:02:06
in this beautiful deen
01:02:10 -->
01:02:11
to and find him pleased with all of
01:02:11 -->
01:02:12
us. Amen.
01:02:16 -->
01:02:18
May Allah forgive us our faults and mistakes
01:02:18 -->
01:02:19
and ignorance.
01:02:20 -->
01:02:20
May
01:02:21 -->
01:02:22
Allah
01:02:22 -->
01:02:23
unite our
01:02:25 -->
01:02:27
and save us from going straight. And
01:02:28 -->
01:02:30
may Allah unite our hearts.
01:02:31 -->
01:02:34
And may Allah elevate your status, my dear
01:02:34 -->
01:02:36
brothers and sisters, in this world and in
01:02:36 -->
01:02:37
the
01:02:37 -->
01:02:38
hereafter.
01:02:39 -->
01:02:42
May Allah reward you all immensely for your
01:02:42 -->
01:02:43
patience and attendance.
01:03:00 -->
01:03:01
Brothers and sisters, we will start the question
01:03:01 -->
01:03:02
and answers time now.
01:03:03 -->
01:03:04
Please send in your questions fast
01:03:05 -->
01:03:06
so that,
01:03:07 -->
01:03:08
we can respond to them as soon as
01:03:08 -->
01:03:09
possible.
01:03:11 -->
01:03:12
We will begin
01:03:12 -->
01:03:13
with the
01:03:14 -->
01:03:15
questions that we have received already.
01:03:17 -->
01:03:18
And
01:03:18 -->
01:03:20
if anyone would like to ask a verbal
01:03:20 -->
01:03:21
question, you can raise your hand
01:03:22 -->
01:03:25
on the Zoom platform, and we will take
01:03:25 -->
01:03:26
direct questions.
01:03:27 -->
01:03:28
Okay. The first question,
01:03:31 -->
01:03:33
is it permissible for women to get lip
01:03:33 -->
01:03:34
fillers?
01:03:36 -->
01:03:36
To get what?
01:03:37 -->
01:03:38
Lip fillers.
01:03:39 -->
01:03:41
Lip fillers. Filling the lips?
01:03:42 -->
01:03:42
Yes.
01:03:43 -->
01:03:45
With what? With silicone or what?
01:03:48 -->
01:03:49
Yes, Sheikh. That's correct.
01:03:52 -->
01:03:53
That's the question?
01:03:56 -->
01:03:57
Yes, Sheikh. That's the question.
01:03:58 -->
01:04:01
So she wants to have a big,
01:04:01 -->
01:04:02
thick lips.
01:04:06 -->
01:04:08
The answer, no.
01:04:08 -->
01:04:09
You cannot
01:04:10 -->
01:04:12
play with Allah's creation.
01:04:13 -->
01:04:14
This is what
01:04:15 -->
01:04:15
here.
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01:04:18
Slavery.
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01:04:20
They have been
01:04:21 -->
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Muslim woman been enslaved
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01:04:23
intellectually.
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01:04:27
This what the media does to
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01:04:30
them. K?
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01:04:32
So go
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01:04:34
and have thick lips.
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01:04:36
Do surgery.
01:04:37 -->
01:04:39
Oh, my nose, I think,
01:04:39 -->
01:04:40
needs to become
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01:04:42
thinner.
01:04:43 -->
01:04:44
I do surgery.
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01:04:47
K.
01:04:50 -->
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The same thing for the breast
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01:04:53
silicone
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01:04:54
inject
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buttocks.
01:04:56 -->
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What is going on?
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01:05:04
This body is not yours.
01:05:06 -->
01:05:09
This body is given to you by the
01:05:09 -->
01:05:09
creator.
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01:05:12
Take care of it.
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01:05:15
Cannot fiddle and play with it the way
01:05:15 -->
01:05:16
you like,
01:05:19 -->
01:05:22
And leave alone the side effects and the
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01:05:22
consequences
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01:05:24
and how many women
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01:05:28
they got breast cancer because such things.
01:05:30 -->
01:05:31
So the answer to the questioner,
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01:05:33
fear Allah
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01:05:36
and be content with what Allah
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01:05:38
has given you.
01:05:41 -->
01:05:43
K? This is my advice for you. Fear
01:05:43 -->
01:05:43
Allah
01:05:46 -->
01:05:48
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
01:05:50 -->
01:05:53
That's why today, my dear brothers and sisters,
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01:05:54
there's no natural beauty.
01:05:55 -->
01:05:56
Everything is artificial.
01:05:59 -->
01:06:01
And many women, they believe what they see
01:06:01 -->
01:06:03
in the media. They don't like this photo
01:06:03 -->
01:06:03
show.
01:06:05 -->
01:06:07
Those characters you see on the screens are
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01:06:08
not true.
01:06:10 -->
01:06:10
Wake
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01:06:14
up. It's not true.
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01:06:18
So you want to look like this one,
01:06:18 -->
01:06:20
and you want to look like that one.
01:06:28 -->
01:06:30
Allah has created us
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in the best fashion, in the best form.
01:06:36 -->
01:06:37
This is Allah's creation,
01:06:39 -->
01:06:40
but this is what the shaitan promised.
01:06:42 -->
01:06:44
The shaitan promised, I will command them
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01:06:46
to change
01:06:47 -->
01:06:48
Allah's creation
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01:06:51
to change Allah's creation.
01:06:57 -->
01:06:59
So they start playing with your body,
01:07:00 -->
01:07:01
and it is business,
01:07:02 -->
01:07:02
business,
01:07:03 -->
01:07:04
money.
01:07:08 -->
01:07:10
Come. Come. And you see the ads all
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01:07:11
the time.
01:07:11 -->
01:07:12
Come.
01:07:12 -->
01:07:13
Discount.
01:07:17 -->
01:07:18
It is business for them.
01:07:24 -->
01:07:25
So
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01:07:27
my dear brother, sisters,
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01:07:32
have this contentment
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01:07:35
and what Allah has given you.
01:07:37 -->
01:07:39
Be happy with that,
01:07:41 -->
01:07:44
And be grateful and thankful, and don't play
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01:07:45
with this body.
01:07:46 -->
01:07:48
Don't do anything to it.
01:07:49 -->
01:07:51
Just take care and maintain it. That's it.
01:07:52 -->
01:07:53
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:07:57 -->
01:07:57
Yes.
01:08:00 -->
01:08:02
We go to the next question.
01:08:07 -->
01:08:10
There is a Muslim who has OCD with
01:08:10 -->
01:08:12
fearing other than Allah.
01:08:12 -->
01:08:13
As a result,
01:08:14 -->
01:08:17
they excessively seeking refuge in Allah, but believe
01:08:17 -->
01:08:19
that the fear has reached their hearts. Is
01:08:19 -->
01:08:21
such a person deemed
01:08:22 -->
01:08:23
as a?
01:08:25 -->
01:08:28
No. No. If he has OCD and severe
01:08:28 -->
01:08:30
case, advanced case,
01:08:31 -->
01:08:33
so he or she needs to seek medication
01:08:35 -->
01:08:37
at the same time.
01:08:37 -->
01:08:39
That's the material medication
01:08:40 -->
01:08:43
and the spiritual medication, which is the
01:08:43 -->
01:08:44
and
01:08:45 -->
01:08:48
the and the and reading the Quran
01:08:48 -->
01:08:49
and the dua.
01:08:50 -->
01:08:50
And
01:08:51 -->
01:08:53
he or she will be able to overcome
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01:08:54
this. But
01:08:55 -->
01:08:56
the head is not
01:08:58 -->
01:09:00
doesn't take him out of the fold of
01:09:00 -->
01:09:03
Islam or and stuff like that. No. No.
01:09:04 -->
01:09:06
You need to seek both the medical
01:09:06 -->
01:09:07
treatment
01:09:08 -->
01:09:10
and also the spiritual
01:09:11 -->
01:09:13
that your connection with Allah
01:09:14 -->
01:09:17
your salawat. You always maintain the wudu, the
01:09:17 -->
01:09:18
dikr, the istraphar,
01:09:18 -->
01:09:19
the
01:09:20 -->
01:09:22
of the Quran, and the dua always.
01:09:23 -->
01:09:25
And Allah is the healer, and
01:09:26 -->
01:09:27
you will be able to
01:09:28 -->
01:09:29
get rid of this
01:09:29 -->
01:09:30
sickness.
01:09:32 -->
01:09:33
May Allah grant you
01:09:33 -->
01:09:36
quick recovery from it, Ameen.
01:09:38 -->
01:09:40
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
01:09:43 -->
01:09:43
Next question.
01:09:45 -->
01:09:48
In my country, men touch their chests after
01:09:48 -->
01:09:50
shaking hands as respect or love.
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01:09:53
I also starting doing this, but not after
01:09:53 -->
01:09:56
shaking hands. Am I imitating men? This is
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01:09:57
from a sister.
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01:10:00
Oh, they do like this, you mean? Yeah.
01:10:01 -->
01:10:04
No. This is, yes, custom. No.
01:10:04 -->
01:10:06
So instead of shaking hands
01:10:07 -->
01:10:08
okay.
01:10:09 -->
01:10:12
Which is good to avoid shaking hands. So
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01:10:13
but okay.
01:10:21 -->
01:10:22
The next question,
01:10:25 -->
01:10:25
pray
01:10:28 -->
01:10:32
that Allah safeguards you Sheikh for these wonderful
01:10:32 -->
01:10:32
lectures.
01:10:34 -->
01:10:35
What
01:10:35 -->
01:10:37
would be your advice on
01:10:38 -->
01:10:39
gyms which are mixed?
01:10:41 -->
01:10:43
Going to the gym, which is mixed.
01:10:44 -->
01:10:45
So what do you expect?
01:10:47 -->
01:10:47
Hello?
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01:10:50
Come on,
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01:10:51
brothers and sisters.
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01:10:55
By now, you should know the answers.
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01:10:57
Of course,
01:10:58 -->
01:11:00
the is saying, just had it now.
01:11:02 -->
01:11:04
Never go where there are women.
01:11:05 -->
01:11:07
The same thing for women. Never go where
01:11:07 -->
01:11:08
there are men.
01:11:10 -->
01:11:10
No.
01:11:11 -->
01:11:12
If it is not for
01:11:13 -->
01:11:15
private for the women, don't go.
01:11:16 -->
01:11:19
K. You can do your work out at
01:11:19 -->
01:11:20
home
01:11:20 -->
01:11:22
and do your exercise at home.
01:11:23 -->
01:11:24
Is
01:11:25 -->
01:11:26
this clear to the questioner?
01:11:33 -->
01:11:34
Next question.
01:11:37 -->
01:11:40
We will take Mohammed Salman. Please unmute your
01:11:40 -->
01:11:40
mic.
01:11:51 -->
01:11:51
For
01:11:52 -->
01:11:53
always making yourself available,
01:11:54 -->
01:11:56
by sharing your knowledge with us. May Allah
01:11:56 -->
01:11:58
continue to raise your hands in. So,
01:12:02 -->
01:12:03
in the
01:12:04 -->
01:12:08
developing countries, especially in Africa, you know, poverty
01:12:08 -->
01:12:09
is a big issue.
01:12:10 -->
01:12:11
And,
01:12:12 -->
01:12:13
the
01:12:13 -->
01:12:14
salary structure
01:12:15 -->
01:12:16
does not really,
01:12:16 -->
01:12:20
is not really encouraging for the people. So
01:12:20 -->
01:12:23
in order for people to achieve their financial
01:12:23 -->
01:12:24
goals,
01:12:24 -->
01:12:25
they usually
01:12:25 -->
01:12:28
engage cooperative societies whereby people come together,
01:12:30 -->
01:12:32
contribute money into a pause with the aim
01:12:32 -->
01:12:34
of giving themselves goodly loans,
01:12:35 -->
01:12:37
and, there will be a plan of repayment
01:12:37 -->
01:12:38
over months.
01:12:39 -->
01:12:40
So as a matter of policy,
01:12:42 -->
01:12:45
and to know the maximum amount in which
01:12:45 -->
01:12:47
each person can have access to.
01:12:48 -->
01:12:49
They said
01:12:50 -->
01:12:52
each person can have access to twice the
01:12:52 -->
01:12:55
amount of the service that person have in
01:12:55 -->
01:12:58
the post at the particular time in which,
01:12:58 -->
01:13:00
he wants to have access to that loan.
01:13:01 -->
01:13:02
So,
01:13:03 -->
01:13:04
my question is,
01:13:06 -->
01:13:08
the fact that that person is having is
01:13:08 -->
01:13:08
having twice,
01:13:09 -->
01:13:12
access to twice twice the number of, savings
01:13:12 -->
01:13:14
he has at at that particular time, Does
01:13:14 -->
01:13:16
this have anything to do with rebar?
01:13:17 -->
01:13:19
Because the savings that person have is just,
01:13:20 -->
01:13:22
a means of, collateral
01:13:22 -->
01:13:23
in case the person
01:13:24 -->
01:13:24
defaults
01:13:26 -->
01:13:28
by not repaying that loan. And, also, the
01:13:28 -->
01:13:29
person will have guarantors
01:13:30 -->
01:13:30
just in
01:13:31 -->
01:13:33
case he does not repay that loan. The
01:13:33 -->
01:13:34
guarantors will
01:13:34 -->
01:13:36
have to pay the loan on behalf of
01:13:36 -->
01:13:37
the person.
01:13:38 -->
01:13:40
I mean, half of the loan. And the
01:13:40 -->
01:13:42
service the person have
01:13:42 -->
01:13:44
is also intact in the post.
01:13:45 -->
01:13:47
So the goodly loan does not have,
01:13:48 -->
01:13:51
any direct impact or direct relationship with the
01:13:51 -->
01:13:54
service the person have in the post.
01:13:56 -->
01:13:57
Aki,
01:13:58 -->
01:14:00
to be honest with you,
01:14:03 -->
01:14:04
in order to,
01:14:05 -->
01:14:06
I mean,
01:14:06 -->
01:14:07
answer you correctly
01:14:08 -->
01:14:10
and to because I haven't
01:14:11 -->
01:14:12
I didn't,
01:14:12 -->
01:14:13
I mean,
01:14:14 -->
01:14:15
get the gist of your question.
01:14:16 -->
01:14:17
K? Totally.
01:14:18 -->
01:14:21
So if you don't mind, send your question,
01:14:21 -->
01:14:22
and they will answer it.
01:14:23 -->
01:14:24
Okay.
01:14:25 -->
01:14:26
Yeah.
01:14:27 -->
01:14:28
Next.
01:14:29 -->
01:14:31
Oh, yeah. Okay. Next question, sir. Anyway anyway,
01:14:31 -->
01:14:33
the goodly loan and as you see, the
01:14:34 -->
01:14:35
as a rule of thumb,
01:14:36 -->
01:14:39
annual loan that will brings you with that
01:14:39 -->
01:14:41
will bring a benefit is rebal.
01:14:42 -->
01:14:43
This is
01:14:43 -->
01:14:45
one of the rules in the sharia.
01:14:46 -->
01:14:49
Annual loan that will least to benefit to
01:14:49 -->
01:14:49
to the
01:14:51 -->
01:14:52
to the one who
01:14:53 -->
01:14:55
who who gives this loan,
01:14:56 -->
01:14:58
okay, then it is rebar.
01:14:58 -->
01:14:59
The goodly loan,
01:15:00 -->
01:15:00
the that
01:15:02 -->
01:15:03
you give,
01:15:04 -->
01:15:05
and
01:15:06 -->
01:15:08
when you get it back, it is the
01:15:08 -->
01:15:09
same.
01:15:10 -->
01:15:12
So there is no additional amount, etcetera.
01:15:13 -->
01:15:13
This is.
01:15:15 -->
01:15:15
And when
01:15:16 -->
01:15:17
the borrower
01:15:20 -->
01:15:20
fails
01:15:21 -->
01:15:23
to pay on time
01:15:24 -->
01:15:25
due to some financial
01:15:26 -->
01:15:27
problems,
01:15:27 -->
01:15:30
then the lender has to be patient,
01:15:31 -->
01:15:32
and
01:15:32 -->
01:15:35
it will be considered for him as if
01:15:35 -->
01:15:37
he has given it out as sadaqa, though
01:15:37 -->
01:15:38
he's going to get it back.
01:15:39 -->
01:15:42
So this is the part Hasan in Islam.
01:15:44 -->
01:15:45
But
01:15:47 -->
01:15:48
to have
01:15:49 -->
01:15:51
give a loan and then you get benefit
01:15:53 -->
01:15:55
because of that loan, then it falls under
01:15:55 -->
01:15:56
the.
01:15:57 -->
01:15:59
And forward your question, please, with all the
01:15:59 -->
01:16:01
details, and I will
01:16:02 -->
01:16:03
answer you,
01:16:04 -->
01:16:05
quickly.
01:16:06 -->
01:16:07
Next question, please.
01:16:09 -->
01:16:10
Next question, Sheikh.
01:16:15 -->
01:16:15
If
01:16:16 -->
01:16:18
husband has a strong head,
01:16:19 -->
01:16:21
meaning he doesn't listen to anyone,
01:16:22 -->
01:16:22
Can one,
01:16:23 -->
01:16:26
yeah, can one escalate issues with his mother?
01:16:26 -->
01:16:26
Please advise.
01:16:27 -->
01:16:27
No.
01:16:30 -->
01:16:32
You see, my dear brothers and sisters,
01:16:33 -->
01:16:34
the moment
01:16:35 -->
01:16:37
a problem comes out,
01:16:38 -->
01:16:41
leaves, it's not between husband and wife anymore.
01:16:42 -->
01:16:43
It's outside.
01:16:44 -->
01:16:46
It will be get it will become bigger
01:16:46 -->
01:16:47
and bigger.
01:16:49 -->
01:16:52
So my advice for all brothers and sisters
01:16:52 -->
01:16:54
who are married, husband and wife,
01:16:54 -->
01:16:56
contain your problems
01:16:57 -->
01:16:59
and solve your problems by yourselves.
01:17:01 -->
01:17:03
Your issues should not leave your bedroom.
01:17:04 -->
01:17:07
Even your children should not know about what
01:17:07 -->
01:17:08
is going to come.
01:17:09 -->
01:17:10
This is my advice.
01:17:12 -->
01:17:14
Okay? If he is
01:17:15 -->
01:17:16
stubborn,
01:17:16 -->
01:17:17
okay,
01:17:17 -->
01:17:19
and he doesn't listen,
01:17:21 -->
01:17:21
find a way.
01:17:23 -->
01:17:24
See, my dear sisters,
01:17:25 -->
01:17:27
a smart woman
01:17:27 -->
01:17:27
really
01:17:30 -->
01:17:30
can.
01:17:31 -->
01:17:33
They should know, and they have k
01:17:34 -->
01:17:34
ways,
01:17:36 -->
01:17:37
and she will
01:17:37 -->
01:17:38
manage to
01:17:39 -->
01:17:41
improve the character of her husband.
01:17:43 -->
01:17:45
K. For example, some men they are
01:17:47 -->
01:17:47
have this
01:17:48 -->
01:17:48
ego.
01:17:53 -->
01:17:53
K?
01:17:58 -->
01:17:59
And he doesn't know how to read the
01:17:59 -->
01:18:00
Quran.
01:18:00 -->
01:18:01
His wife,
01:18:01 -->
01:18:02
she knows.
01:18:08 -->
01:18:11
He's not ready to listen to her and
01:18:11 -->
01:18:12
learn from her.
01:18:18 -->
01:18:20
But what she can do to him, she
01:18:20 -->
01:18:21
said.
01:18:21 -->
01:18:22
My dear husband,
01:18:23 -->
01:18:24
we just
01:18:27 -->
01:18:27
have
01:18:28 -->
01:18:30
every day, 10 minutes,
01:18:30 -->
01:18:32
we read the Quran together
01:18:33 -->
01:18:34
for the barakah.
01:18:35 -->
01:18:36
I read
01:18:37 -->
01:18:38
and you read,
01:18:40 -->
01:18:42
and you read the same aya.
01:18:48 -->
01:18:50
Or if he's doing something wrong and he's
01:18:50 -->
01:18:52
not going to listen to you,
01:18:55 -->
01:18:55
met him.
01:18:58 -->
01:19:02
See the order book that talks about this
01:19:02 -->
01:19:03
and leave it there.
01:19:04 -->
01:19:06
And when you are not there, he will
01:19:06 -->
01:19:07
pick it up and read.
01:19:09 -->
01:19:11
What I'm trying to say, a woman should
01:19:11 -->
01:19:13
study her husband
01:19:17 -->
01:19:18
and see his personality
01:19:19 -->
01:19:20
and analyze his personality
01:19:23 -->
01:19:25
and see what is the best way to
01:19:25 -->
01:19:26
approach him
01:19:26 -->
01:19:29
and what is the best way to improve
01:19:31 -->
01:19:31
his character
01:19:33 -->
01:19:35
and what is the best way to help
01:19:35 -->
01:19:36
him to overcome
01:19:38 -->
01:19:40
and get rid of these bad habits.
01:19:45 -->
01:19:47
Because if you go and
01:19:48 -->
01:19:49
talk to his mother,
01:19:51 -->
01:19:53
that will not solve the problem.
01:19:55 -->
01:19:56
That's why,
01:19:59 -->
01:20:01
Wynn, I'm talking to the sisters. If you
01:20:01 -->
01:20:03
have a problem with the the husband, don't
01:20:03 -->
01:20:04
go and complain to your mother
01:20:05 -->
01:20:08
because your mother will react with you emotionally
01:20:09 -->
01:20:10
with her heart.
01:20:14 -->
01:20:14
K?
01:20:16 -->
01:20:17
And I always
01:20:18 -->
01:20:19
tell
01:20:20 -->
01:20:22
those who are newly married or those who
01:20:22 -->
01:20:24
are going to get married to write read
01:20:24 -->
01:20:25
the book
01:20:26 -->
01:20:27
women are
01:20:27 -->
01:20:30
from Venus and men are from Mars.
01:20:31 -->
01:20:33
Beautiful book. Read it.
01:20:36 -->
01:20:38
Yes. We are from different planets,
01:20:41 -->
01:20:43
so we should know how the other one
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01:20:44
thinks.
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01:20:46
So we study each other
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01:20:50
and not on each other.
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01:20:53
That's why
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01:20:55
in
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01:20:58
the year 1 or 2 of the marital
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01:21:01
life, you see ups, downs, ups. If you
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01:21:02
draw the graph
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01:21:03
the graph
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01:21:07
of the marital life, it's like this. Ups,
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01:21:08
downs, ups, down.
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01:21:11
Why this like this. Why?
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01:21:16
Because we are discovering each other, knowing about
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01:21:16
each other.
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01:21:19
K?
01:21:20 -->
01:21:21
Everyone now,
01:21:22 -->
01:21:25
he doesn't pretend anymore. He is himself. He
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01:21:27
is herself. He is he is himself.
01:21:27 -->
01:21:30
So we are now and and this is
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01:21:31
the human
01:21:31 -->
01:21:32
behavior.
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01:21:36
You see this this like this. And then
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01:21:39
the marital life started to become stable
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01:21:42
because we started to know each other now.
01:21:44 -->
01:21:44
K?
01:21:45 -->
01:21:45
So
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01:21:48
a woman should know her husband.
01:21:50 -->
01:21:51
She should know him
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01:21:54
when he wants to be alone.
01:21:54 -->
01:21:56
So she gives him that
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01:22:01
room to be alone, to think.
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01:22:04
Especially men, when they have problems, they want
01:22:04 -->
01:22:06
to be by themselves.
01:22:08 -->
01:22:10
So when you see your husband is thinking
01:22:10 -->
01:22:10
at this,
01:22:11 -->
01:22:11
listen.
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01:22:14
Don't
01:22:15 -->
01:22:16
come and say, darling,
01:22:17 -->
01:22:20
what's wrong with you? Can I help you?
01:22:21 -->
01:22:24
And he is inside telling you, for god's
01:22:24 -->
01:22:25
sake, leave me alone.
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01:22:29
So give him that.
01:22:30 -->
01:22:32
So my advice for this
01:22:33 -->
01:22:33
question,
01:22:34 -->
01:22:34
sister,
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01:22:36
take care of your husband,
01:22:38 -->
01:22:39
study him,
01:22:39 -->
01:22:42
and try to help him to improve him.
01:22:43 -->
01:22:43
May Allah
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01:22:48
soften his heart. May Allah
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01:22:53
grant him the success to improve his character,
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01:22:56
and may Allah make you a cause to
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01:22:57
improve his character,
01:22:58 -->
01:23:00
Is this clear to the question now?
01:23:06 -->
01:23:09
If not, they can message back. Next, question.
01:23:13 -->
01:23:15
What should a woman who has missed 2
01:23:15 -->
01:23:16
Ramadans
01:23:16 -->
01:23:18
and now she's pregnant,
01:23:19 -->
01:23:20
the
01:23:20 -->
01:23:23
she might miss the next Ramadan also. What
01:23:23 -->
01:23:25
can she do? Can she give?
01:23:29 -->
01:23:30
So why she didn't,
01:23:31 -->
01:23:32
make up the days?
01:23:33 -->
01:23:34
Because she was breastfeeding?
01:23:39 -->
01:23:39
Anyway,
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01:23:44
a woman, when she misses her fast,
01:23:45 -->
01:23:46
k,
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01:23:50
because of her
01:23:50 -->
01:23:51
her menstrual cycle.
01:23:52 -->
01:23:54
She has to make them up
01:23:54 -->
01:23:58
if he her health permits that he's okay.
01:24:00 -->
01:24:03
But to what what women do, they keep
01:24:03 -->
01:24:03
procrastinating
01:24:05 -->
01:24:06
till the next Ramadan.
01:24:06 -->
01:24:09
Tomorrow is Ramadan. And then they pick up
01:24:09 -->
01:24:11
the phone. Here's what should I do.
01:24:12 -->
01:24:13
That's your problem.
01:24:14 -->
01:24:16
What do you want the Sheikh to do
01:24:16 -->
01:24:16
for you?
01:24:17 -->
01:24:19
Allah's giving you
01:24:21 -->
01:24:22
11 months
01:24:23 -->
01:24:25
to make up your days,
01:24:27 -->
01:24:29
and you kept procrastinating.
01:24:29 -->
01:24:31
And now you are asking what should I
01:24:31 -->
01:24:32
do? That's why
01:24:33 -->
01:24:34
some
01:24:36 -->
01:24:36
schools
01:24:37 -->
01:24:37
of
01:24:38 -->
01:24:38
thought
01:24:39 -->
01:24:41
saying that she has to and has to
01:24:41 -->
01:24:42
be
01:24:42 -->
01:24:43
be the the
01:24:46 -->
01:24:52
as punishment for her. But the Tsonga's opinion
01:24:52 -->
01:24:54
only, she has to
01:24:54 -->
01:24:56
make the days that she she missed.
01:24:59 -->
01:25:01
K. And she, of course, she is simple.
01:25:01 -->
01:25:02
She has to make.
01:25:06 -->
01:25:09
But now what if a woman is always
01:25:09 -->
01:25:11
either pregnant or breastfeeding?
01:25:11 -->
01:25:12
Pregnant, breastfeeding.
01:25:15 -->
01:25:17
And so if she's breastfeeding, if she fast,
01:25:18 -->
01:25:19
that affects her
01:25:20 -->
01:25:23
and maybe affects her child, and the milk
01:25:23 -->
01:25:23
will
01:25:24 -->
01:25:24
be reduced.
01:25:26 -->
01:25:28
So in this case, it's the of
01:25:29 -->
01:25:29
the
01:25:30 -->
01:25:31
who
01:25:31 -->
01:25:32
who said
01:25:34 -->
01:25:35
that she can
01:25:35 -->
01:25:38
give the the pay the
01:25:39 -->
01:25:41
for the days he he missed.
01:25:43 -->
01:25:46
Just like an old man and and old
01:25:46 -->
01:25:46
woman,
01:25:46 -->
01:25:48
and Allah knows best.
01:25:49 -->
01:25:50
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:25:57 -->
01:25:58
Is clear. If not, they can send the
01:25:58 -->
01:25:59
question back.
01:26:00 -->
01:26:01
Next question.
01:26:01 -->
01:26:04
What should a woman no. That's done. Okay.
01:26:04 -->
01:26:05
The next question.
01:26:06 -->
01:26:07
A person married a woman,
01:26:08 -->
01:26:11
and after consummating the marriage, the person divorced
01:26:11 -->
01:26:12
the woman
01:26:12 -->
01:26:14
and later married his stepdaughter,
01:26:15 -->
01:26:18
the daughter of his ex wife from another
01:26:18 -->
01:26:18
man.
01:26:20 -->
01:26:22
Is their marriage valid?
01:26:23 -->
01:26:23
No.
01:26:24 -->
01:26:25
Of course not.
01:26:27 -->
01:26:30
Of course not. You cannot marry your stepdaughter.
01:26:31 -->
01:26:33
Your stepfather for her.
01:26:40 -->
01:26:41
This is called Raviva.
01:26:44 -->
01:26:46
So if the consummation took place,
01:26:48 -->
01:26:49
then
01:26:49 -->
01:26:50
it's Haba.
01:26:51 -->
01:26:52
He cannot
01:26:53 -->
01:26:55
is this clear to the questioner?
01:27:01 -->
01:27:04
Charlotte is clear. Sheikh, if not, they can,
01:27:04 -->
01:27:06
send a message back.
01:27:06 -->
01:27:07
He
01:27:07 -->
01:27:09
he he divorced her mother
01:27:10 -->
01:27:11
after the consummation,
01:27:11 -->
01:27:14
and now he he married the his stepdaughter,
01:27:15 -->
01:27:17
the daughter of this of the of his
01:27:17 -->
01:27:18
wife. Right?
01:27:19 -->
01:27:21
The the daughter of his ex wife.
01:27:22 -->
01:27:24
Yeah. Ex wife. Yeah. The one who is
01:27:24 -->
01:27:26
From another man. Yeah. Okay. Yeah.
01:27:28 -->
01:27:31
Okay. Next question, sir. Can you please tell
01:27:31 -->
01:27:34
us about the obligations of a man towards
01:27:34 -->
01:27:34
his stepsister?
01:27:36 -->
01:27:37
Same father, but different mother.
01:27:39 -->
01:27:41
She's still his sister, so he has to
01:27:41 -->
01:27:42
take care of his sister.
01:27:43 -->
01:27:46
K. She's not full sister. She's a sister
01:27:46 -->
01:27:49
from his mother's side. Right?
01:27:53 -->
01:27:54
Sir,
01:27:57 -->
01:27:59
you are saying the stepsister?
01:28:03 -->
01:28:04
Yes, Sheikh. Stepsister.
01:28:08 -->
01:28:10
From the same father, but a different mother.
01:28:11 -->
01:28:12
Okay.
01:28:14 -->
01:28:15
So here's his sister,
01:28:15 -->
01:28:16
no doubt,
01:28:18 -->
01:28:19
from the father's side.
01:28:21 -->
01:28:22
So he's responsible
01:28:22 -->
01:28:23
to take care of his sister.
01:28:24 -->
01:28:24
He's her.
01:28:26 -->
01:28:26
So
01:28:28 -->
01:28:29
he has to,
01:28:30 -->
01:28:32
help her when she is in need.
01:28:33 -->
01:28:36
So the the the rights of, whether,
01:28:38 -->
01:28:41
like, a full sister from both sides, mother
01:28:41 -->
01:28:43
and and father. She is your sister.
01:28:45 -->
01:28:47
So the rights for the sister
01:28:47 -->
01:28:48
was
01:28:48 -->
01:28:49
for
01:28:49 -->
01:28:52
from father and mother and or and sister
01:28:52 -->
01:28:55
from father's side only or from the mother's
01:28:55 -->
01:28:56
side only.
01:28:56 -->
01:28:58
You have to give them the rights and
01:28:58 -->
01:28:59
take care of them
01:29:02 -->
01:29:03
Take care of them.
01:29:06 -->
01:29:08
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:29:14 -->
01:29:15
We go to the next question.
01:29:24 -->
01:29:26
Today, in the prayer for rain, when the
01:29:26 -->
01:29:28
imam was turning his
01:29:29 -->
01:29:30
inside out,
01:29:30 -->
01:29:32
I did nothing because I don't know the
01:29:32 -->
01:29:34
ruling for the woman. So I want to
01:29:34 -->
01:29:37
know what I did. Was that correct or
01:29:37 -->
01:29:38
not?
01:29:39 -->
01:29:40
No. It's okay.
01:29:43 -->
01:29:44
K? Because this is the
01:29:45 -->
01:29:48
the the imam. He removed the cloak and
01:29:48 -->
01:29:48
the,
01:29:50 -->
01:29:50
and he
01:29:51 -->
01:29:52
changed it. That is.
01:29:54 -->
01:29:55
That's it. That's only
01:29:56 -->
01:29:59
it's a it's not something mandatory of
01:30:00 -->
01:30:02
if you don't do it, you are sinful.
01:30:02 -->
01:30:03
No?
01:30:04 -->
01:30:05
Next question.
01:30:09 -->
01:30:09
The next
01:30:15 -->
01:30:16
question. What can you tell us about the
01:30:16 -->
01:30:19
dua which shall be read at
01:30:20 -->
01:30:20
and starts
01:30:21 -->
01:30:25
Allahu Akbar Kabira, Allahu Akbar Kabira, Allahu Akbar
01:30:25 -->
01:30:26
Kabira, and
01:30:27 -->
01:30:27
for
01:30:36 -->
01:30:37
3 times times
01:30:39 -->
01:30:40
3.
01:30:41 -->
01:30:42
The, the dua,
01:30:43 -->
01:30:45
it is there in the sunnah,
01:30:46 -->
01:30:49
but, whether to repeat it this as you
01:30:49 -->
01:30:49
mentioned,
01:30:50 -->
01:30:51
I need to,
01:30:52 -->
01:30:52
cross check.
01:30:53 -->
01:30:55
But what the the
01:30:56 -->
01:30:56
the the prophet
01:30:57 -->
01:30:58
taught us in the
01:31:00 -->
01:31:02
that we start the
01:31:02 -->
01:31:04
with the famous dua
01:31:05 -->
01:31:07
with 2 rakat light, short ones,
01:31:08 -->
01:31:10
and that is where you start
01:31:27 -->
01:31:29
This is how we you start your
01:31:31 -->
01:31:31
at night.
01:31:34 -->
01:31:35
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:31:41 -->
01:31:42
If not,
01:31:43 -->
01:31:44
they can
01:31:45 -->
01:31:47
send another question
01:31:47 -->
01:31:48
back.
01:31:54 -->
01:31:56
Sheikh, that was our final question. If you'd
01:31:56 -->
01:31:56
like to conclude.
01:32:00 -->
01:32:01
May Allah
01:32:01 -->
01:32:03
bless you. May Allah
01:32:04 -->
01:32:06
bless your family, protect you, protect your family.
01:32:06 -->
01:32:07
May Allah
01:32:08 -->
01:32:11
grant us the beneficial knowledge and righteous deeds.
01:32:13 -->
01:32:14
And may Allah
01:32:15 -->
01:32:17
remain steadfast with this beautiful
01:32:18 -->
01:32:18
deen
01:32:19 -->
01:32:19
till
01:32:20 -->
01:32:22
we meet him and find him pleased with
01:32:22 -->
01:32:23
all of us.
01:32:24 -->
01:32:25
Until we meet
01:32:26 -->
01:32:28
in the coming session, I leave you in
01:32:28 -->
01:32:29
Allah's company
01:32:30 -->
01:32:30
and protection.
