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Sheikh, ready when you are? Ready.
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Okay.
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Brothers and sisters.
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Welcome to our weekly class
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of virtues of Islam. This is lesson number
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15,
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and delivered by our honorable Sheikh Sheikh Salem
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Al Amri. I'll pass the mic and the
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screen to the Sheikh, and the Sheikh
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can begin Insha'Allah.
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My dear brothers and sisters in Islam,
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today is our weekly class.
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Islam,
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the virtues
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of Islam.
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In the last session, we talked about the
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virtue of,
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the virtue of lowering
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one's
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gaze.
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Because the
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mother
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or the gaze
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looking
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at what Allah prohibited
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harms
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and kills indeed
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the heart.
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So we should not treat this issue lightly.
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If we
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keep our
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gaze and our
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looks and our sight lose without controlling it,
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we'll be suffering
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we'll be suffering.
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So when Allah tells us to lower it
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because he knows what this sight
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and what this
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look
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will cost to you.
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Just take this example.
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2 brothers are going to the masjid.
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1 of them, he's minding his steps and
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he's looking down.
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Many
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naked women passed by.
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He didn't see them.
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The other brother
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is scanning the horizon,
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looking right, left, up, down.
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So he captured all these
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scenes,
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indecent scenes,
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all these
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pictures of those women.
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And both of them, they entered the masjid
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now,
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and they started the salah.
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The imam started the salah, and they said,
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The one who was lowering his gaze,
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he is focusing
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and concentrating
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in his salah.
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The other one,
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all these pictures are flashing in his mind.
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So throughout his salah,
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he was not able to focus and concentrate.
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So when Allah tells us to lower our
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gaze because he knows
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what that's going to cause
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to us.
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And the hardness of the heart, which many
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of us complain about
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because of the
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sight,
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we don't control it.
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We don't lower this gaze.
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We watch movies. We when we are outside,
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we don't lower our gaze, and we are
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looking.
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So all these
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scenes, they harm,
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and they harden the heart.
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So my advice for myself I'm talking to
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myself
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is that we need
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to start practicing lowering the gaze.
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If we want this heart to soften
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and to
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connect with Allah
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and has some connection with him, with Allah
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May Allah purify our hearts and yours.
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Ameen.
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So that's why Allah, he
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commanded the believing men and women to lower
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their case.
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That's what we taffered in the last session.
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Today, we'll continue
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among the virtues
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of Islam
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and the precautionary
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measures
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the Sharia
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provides
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in order to maintain
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the moral standard
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and keep it up
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and raise the bar
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is that it prohibited
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the free mixing,
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free mingling
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with the opposite *,
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and having
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privacy
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or privacy
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between a man and a woman
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who are not a Mahram.
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This is very, very important thing.
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Man and a woman who are not mahram,
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that means they can marry each other.
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They shall not be together.
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They shall not be together and
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have this khalwa,
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this privacy.
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Because this is very important thing
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because the one who created us, he knows.
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There's privacy or privacy.
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Something evil is going to result
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and come.
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That meeting
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and that sitting
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will yield and produce
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evil fruit.
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Allah
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subhanahu wa ta'ala
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in
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Surat Al Ahrab, ayah 53.
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He addresses
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the purest generation
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ever
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walked on this earth.
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The purest
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generation
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ever walked on this earth
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apart from the messengers and prophets of Allah,
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the companions of the prophet, the
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sahab.
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Allah is addressing them.
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And he is also addressing
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the most chaste women ever
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walked on this earth,
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the wives of the prophet.
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So see
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the the
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companions
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and the mothers.
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Their mothers, the wives of the.
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All
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And when you believe this,
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ask his wife,
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when you
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companions,
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ask his wife for something,
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ask them from behind
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a veil, a barrier.
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This is pure for your hearts and theirs.
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He's my mother.
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I'm talking to my mother, Aisha,
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Sauda,
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Hafsa,
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from behind the barrier.
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He's my mother.
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He's the most chaste
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woman
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on this planet.
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Yes.
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On top of that,
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ask your mother from behind a curtain.
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Then Allah
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give the hikmah.
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Why?
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Because
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all
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the commands of Allah,
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all the prohibitions,
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there is
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behind every instruction,
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a divine
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wisdom,
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whether
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we
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discover that and realize it,
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the wisdom, and know it or not.
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But there is a wisdom behind it
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and great benefit
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and great benefit.
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So Allah says,
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the reason
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that you have to
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ask them and talk to them from behind
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their barrier like curtain,
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separation,
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partition,
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This is pure.
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You are pure.
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You are
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decent. You are chaste.
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Must chase
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women.
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And must god fearing men.
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But this is better also for you.
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This is
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pure.
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This is
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the comparative
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form.
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If I have 2,
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k, he's pure.
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If I want to make comparison,
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pure He has pure heart.
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If I want to compare him to another
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one, I say,
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he has his heart is purer than
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this one's heart,
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for the comparison.
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So this is the com for the comparison.
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This
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is pure
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purer
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for your hearts
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and theirs, their hearts.
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When you talk to them from behind,
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So my dear brothers and sisters,
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this is
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addressed to
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the Sahara
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and the their mothers. How about us?
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Are our hearts purer than the hearts of
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the Sahara?
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Absolutely not.
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Everyone knows.
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We have sick hearts.
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So
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when we talk to the opposite *,
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follow the same technique.
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If you want to have pure heart,
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this is purer for you and for them.
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You don't mix with women, and you don't
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look at them.
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The same thing, women.
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Develop this habit to lower your gaze.
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Don't look at men.
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Because remember the hadith in the
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last session,
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The eye commits zina, and the zina of
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the eye is to look.
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And then the private part,
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the act,
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whether to approve of it or disapprove of
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it.
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So
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lower your gaze.
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Muhammad, a sheikhan or a terminated.
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Sibna Umar reported
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that the prophet
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said,
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whenever a man is alone with a woman,
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the devil makes a third. So the third
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person will be the devil.
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Clear cut evidence.
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Man and woman together,
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finish.
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3rd person is the shaitan.
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And what do you think my dear brothers
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and sisters, the shaitan
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will do?
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Will he remind them
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to fear Allah?
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Will he remind them to lower the case?
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The shaitan, will will he do that?
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The answer is obvious.
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He will do the opposite.
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K. She's looking at him.
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He's not bad.
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He's good looking.
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He's handsome.
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That good body.
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That's what's going in the back
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ground
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in her mind.
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It's cute.
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Same thing in his mind.
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He's beautiful,
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but nice figure.
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So who's putting these ideas
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in their minds?
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The the one who is next setting next
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to them.
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That's what he dictates. That's what he whispers.
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K?
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Colleagues. We are colleagues.
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K?
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He's
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having
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new
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blouse and new skirt. Oh,
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he has to place her.
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Oh, you look gorgeous.
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Nice fit.
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Amazing. You have good taste.
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When he says, thank you,
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she feels happy
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because
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he has something else in his mind.
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So my dear brothers and sisters, let us
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face the reality.
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Let's call a spade, a spade.
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Right? No need to beat around the above
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the bush or around the bush.
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A man and a woman together finish.
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3rd person is the shaitan.
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Even if she's not that beautiful,
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the shaitan will make her appear and look
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in your eyes.
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Beauty is
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in, is in the eye of the beholder.
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So in the eye of the beholder,
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she's beautiful.
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Don't you see?
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People, they fall in love
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when you see
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that woman. See?
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How come
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he he fell in love with this woman?
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To him,
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he's miss World.
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He's older than him.
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He looks like his mother
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is a love.
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To him, she is
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beautiful.
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So the shaitan can
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make
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her look so beautiful.
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So the one who created
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us, my dear brothers and sisters,
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he knows this.
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So he warned us
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to save us
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from falling into this trap
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of the shaitan.
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So he said,
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Never ever
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have
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privacy or privacy
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with a woman.
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Never.
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Because the third person
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will be the shaytawan,
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the devil.
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Allah's
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messenger
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avoid going in where women are.
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A man said,
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messenger of Allah, tell me about the relatives
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of a woman's husband,
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the brother-in-law.
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To which he replied,
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the relatives of a woman's husband are death.
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So the word death
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here used to indicate
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a strong form of the harim,
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because
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that they are a cause of temptation
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to a man's wife.
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That's why he said the in laws,
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the brother-in-law,
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Al Hamel,
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is death
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very
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dangerous
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that your brother,
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you go to work,
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and he stays in your home
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with your
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wife.
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Very dangerous.
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He's my brother. I trust him. Forget it.
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There are
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many cases.
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The brother-in-law
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committed
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with the wife of his
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brother.
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You cannot leave your brother
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with your wife.
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Cannot. The one who created
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00:25:15
you and your brother,
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00:25:17
Allah,
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through his prophet
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tells you your brother is deaf.
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00:25:26
He is the most dangerous
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00:25:27
guy.
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He should not leave him in your home.
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He should not
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enter your home, your house, and your absence
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because,
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first of all,
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no one will suspect him.
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Oh, he is the uncle of the children.
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He is seeing his
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00:26:00
brother's children.
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He's a kind uncle
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00:26:08
because his brother is away, so he takes
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00:26:09
care of them.
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So he's visiting them.
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00:26:19
So how do people think about him?
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So no one will ever suspect him.
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And now when he is with
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the wife of his father,
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that person is the.
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And maybe the kids are very young. They
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don't know what's going on.
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K. So Allah knows that.
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00:26:56
That this
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devil
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00:27:00
is very dangerous
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00:27:04
because no one will suspect him.
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00:27:08
It is safe. He can come anytime.
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00:27:16
So that's why
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00:27:19
but prophet said, oh, no.
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00:27:25
Is deaf.
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He is the one who will cause the
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00:27:34
the severest
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damage.
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00:27:42
So that's why he say,
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avoid going in
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A place where women are.
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I warn you.
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This is what the prophet said. I'm saying
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my dear brothers and sisters.
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00:28:00
I warn you.
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00:28:11
Woman? Say, no.
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00:28:14
I will not go there.
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I will not go
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there. Talk to them.
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Give them
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more Eva
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and remind them.
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I can't.
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I have.
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00:28:40
I should not.
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If
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they want to be reminded,
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would
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that be it?
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Between
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00:28:58
me and them.
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00:29:02
That is pure for me
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00:29:03
and for them.
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00:29:07
They don't see me. I don't see them.
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00:29:13
I don't want to have problems at home
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00:29:14
when I go.
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00:29:15
All these
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00:29:19
flashes are there.
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I am
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00:29:24
having this beautiful marital
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00:29:25
life.
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00:29:28
K? My wife,
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00:29:29
she's
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00:29:31
everything in my life.
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00:29:34
I'm content.
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00:29:37
I don't see other women.
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00:29:40
But now if
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00:29:44
I start seeing other women,
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00:29:46
Now the contrast
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00:29:48
will start happening,
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00:29:52
the comparison.
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00:29:54
So that's why
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00:29:56
Islam telling us
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00:29:58
lower the
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00:30:03
gaze so that you have this serenity,
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00:30:05
peace of mind,
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00:30:07
and you'll have this contentment.
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00:30:12
And believe me, my dear brothers and sister,
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00:30:14
every woman is beautiful.
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00:30:16
Every woman.
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00:30:24
So Allah bless you with this wife.
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00:30:25
Be happy.
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00:30:27
She's beautiful.
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00:30:32
K.
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00:30:37
Because the real beauty is the beauty of
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00:30:37
the substance,
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00:30:41
the beauty of the heart.
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00:30:45
Maybe the looking are not that,
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00:30:47
but there are other
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00:30:49
qualities they cover up,
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00:30:51
which you do not find
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00:30:54
in one who has good looking.
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00:30:56
He has bad manners.
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He
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00:30:58
doesn't have a.
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00:31:05
He can't even
00:31:06 -->
00:31:08
make you fix you a cup of tea
00:31:10 -->
00:31:12
or make an omelette for you.
00:31:13 -->
00:31:16
He's only busy with her nail polish
00:31:16 -->
00:31:17
and her
00:31:18 -->
00:31:20
makeup. That's what she knows.
00:31:20 -->
00:31:22
All the way all the time in front
00:31:22 -->
00:31:24
of the dressing table.
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00:31:28
The other one,
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00:31:32
he's doing everything.
00:31:33 -->
00:31:35
He's the dynamo
00:31:35 -->
00:31:36
of the house,
00:31:38 -->
00:31:41
Takes care of the children, takes care of
00:31:41 -->
00:31:41
you.
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00:31:43
Everything.
00:31:46 -->
00:31:48
So you cannot compare them.
00:31:50 -->
00:31:50
So
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00:31:52
be happy
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00:31:55
and have discontentment.
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00:31:58
As the said,
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00:31:59
dunya matah,
00:32:00 -->
00:32:01
this dunya.
00:32:02 -->
00:32:02
This is
00:32:04 -->
00:32:05
enjoyment, entertainment.
00:32:10 -->
00:32:11
The best thing,
00:32:11 -->
00:32:12
enjoyment of this
00:32:22 -->
00:32:23
pious wife, spouse.
00:32:25 -->
00:32:26
Allah bless you
00:32:28 -->
00:32:29
with a wife
00:32:30 -->
00:32:31
who fears Allah
00:32:36 -->
00:32:37
Be grateful.
00:32:39 -->
00:32:40
Be grateful to Allah.
00:32:42 -->
00:32:45
Imam Ahmed Rahim Allah, when his wife passed
00:32:45 -->
00:32:46
away,
00:32:48 -->
00:32:49
and he wanted to
00:32:50 -->
00:32:50
get married,
00:32:52 -->
00:32:55
they told him there are 2 sisters. 1
00:32:55 -->
00:32:56
of them is good looking,
00:32:57 -->
00:33:00
and the other, he lost one of her
00:33:00 -->
00:33:01
eyes, his
00:33:02 -->
00:33:03
one eyed.
00:33:05 -->
00:33:07
Said, which one is more pious?
00:33:08 -->
00:33:10
They said, the one who lost her eye.
00:33:10 -->
00:33:11
He said, I want that one,
00:33:12 -->
00:33:13
and he married
00:33:14 -->
00:33:14
her
00:33:16 -->
00:33:16
because
00:33:17 -->
00:33:18
the looks will go.
00:33:21 -->
00:33:22
What will remain?
00:33:24 -->
00:33:24
The
00:33:25 -->
00:33:27
beauty of the substance,
00:33:29 -->
00:33:31
the beauty of the heart. That's what will
00:33:31 -->
00:33:31
remain.
00:33:35 -->
00:33:36
So in
00:33:37 -->
00:33:39
here, the is telling
00:33:40 -->
00:33:41
us
00:33:42 -->
00:33:44
never ever go to a place where there
00:33:44 -->
00:33:45
are women.
00:33:46 -->
00:33:47
Avoid going
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00:33:51
in where women are
00:33:52 -->
00:33:55
because you will be harmed. You'll be affected.
00:33:59 -->
00:34:00
You'll be affected.
00:34:02 -->
00:34:03
So ask that people,
00:34:04 -->
00:34:06
and this what is what we need to
00:34:06 -->
00:34:09
work on. If we really want to
00:34:11 -->
00:34:12
have,
00:34:14 -->
00:34:16
I mean, good community
00:34:20 -->
00:34:23
and maintain the and the and
00:34:23 -->
00:34:24
and the.
00:34:27 -->
00:34:29
You have to make the provisions.
00:34:30 -->
00:34:32
It's only piece of cloth. You pull it,
00:34:32 -->
00:34:33
and that's it.
00:34:39 -->
00:34:40
So
00:34:41 -->
00:34:43
they don't see you? You don't see them?
00:34:57 -->
00:34:59
So now the Sahara,
00:35:00 -->
00:35:02
they understood this warning.
00:35:05 -->
00:35:06
That means
00:35:07 -->
00:35:09
where there are women, and they know, of
00:35:09 -->
00:35:12
course, by default that the women here,
00:35:14 -->
00:35:14
the prophet
00:35:14 -->
00:35:16
is talking about, are the women who are
00:35:16 -->
00:35:17
not Mahal.
00:35:19 -->
00:35:21
He's not telling us that I cannot go
00:35:21 -->
00:35:24
with my mother or my sister. No. He's
00:35:24 -->
00:35:27
talking about the women who are not.
00:35:27 -->
00:35:29
That woman that I can marry.
00:35:32 -->
00:35:35
So that's why this man, he asked, is
00:35:35 -->
00:35:36
there an exception
00:35:38 -->
00:35:40
of the in law, the brother-in-law?
00:35:42 -->
00:35:44
Is there an exception for him?
00:35:50 -->
00:35:53
Tell us, how about the Hamu, the brother-in-law?
00:35:57 -->
00:35:57
How about
00:36:03 -->
00:36:04
him? Can he
00:36:05 -->
00:36:06
go
00:36:06 -->
00:36:07
and enter
00:36:09 -->
00:36:11
my home and visit my home.
00:36:20 -->
00:36:22
This is in Bukhari and Muswell.
00:36:24 -->
00:36:25
See the expression,
00:36:26 -->
00:36:28
al hamu al maut,
00:36:30 -->
00:36:32
which means this is very
00:36:33 -->
00:36:34
the strongest form of.
00:36:37 -->
00:36:38
As
00:36:39 -->
00:36:41
if if this brother-in-law
00:36:43 -->
00:36:44
enters your home,
00:36:45 -->
00:36:47
death will take place.
00:36:50 -->
00:36:50
Okay?
00:36:51 -->
00:36:52
Chastity,
00:36:53 -->
00:36:53
modesty
00:36:54 -->
00:36:55
will be slain,
00:36:56 -->
00:36:57
will be
00:36:57 -->
00:36:59
will become dead,
00:36:59 -->
00:37:00
will die
00:37:01 -->
00:37:01
because
00:37:02 -->
00:37:04
Cheban is there.
00:37:05 -->
00:37:07
And once a woman loses
00:37:12 -->
00:37:12
her honor,
00:37:17 -->
00:37:18
and betrays her husband.
00:37:22 -->
00:37:22
The morality
00:37:23 -->
00:37:25
flowing through the window.
00:37:25 -->
00:37:26
Gone.
00:37:26 -->
00:37:27
So
00:37:35 -->
00:37:36
now wonder here,
00:37:37 -->
00:37:39
the use this form.
00:37:45 -->
00:37:47
We have to give in mind, my dear
00:37:47 -->
00:37:48
brothers and sisters,
00:37:49 -->
00:37:50
that women's hearts
00:37:51 -->
00:37:52
are weak.
00:37:54 -->
00:37:55
They are
00:37:59 -->
00:37:59
weak.
00:38:03 -->
00:38:06
That's why the called them what?
00:38:08 -->
00:38:09
Fragile
00:38:16 -->
00:38:16
vessels.
00:38:18 -->
00:38:18
Fragile
00:38:21 -->
00:38:21
Blessings.
00:38:29 -->
00:38:29
So
00:38:31 -->
00:38:34
Allah who created us, he is commanding both
00:38:34 -->
00:38:35
of us,
00:38:37 -->
00:38:37
k,
00:38:38 -->
00:38:41
to be far away from each other so
00:38:41 -->
00:38:43
that we do not cause damage
00:38:44 -->
00:38:45
and harm to each other.
00:38:52 -->
00:38:53
Some brothers,
00:39:00 -->
00:39:01
Practicing brothers.
00:39:06 -->
00:39:07
And they show
00:39:09 -->
00:39:11
their biceps, their muscles.
00:39:17 -->
00:39:17
And
00:39:18 -->
00:39:19
the machinists,
00:39:20 -->
00:39:21
they are machinemen.
00:39:30 -->
00:39:31
I bet
00:39:31 -->
00:39:33
my brothers don't do that.
00:39:36 -->
00:39:37
Don't do that.
00:39:39 -->
00:39:40
Because women,
00:39:40 -->
00:39:41
they watch,
00:39:43 -->
00:39:45
and you cause friction after them,
00:39:46 -->
00:39:46
and you
00:39:47 -->
00:39:48
affect them.
00:39:50 -->
00:39:51
You affect them.
00:39:54 -->
00:39:56
Maybe that's not your intention,
00:39:58 -->
00:39:59
so don't do that.
00:40:08 -->
00:40:10
Because women's hearts are weak.
00:41:04 -->
00:41:04
Narrated
00:41:07 -->
00:41:09
of the allahu anhu,
00:41:10 -->
00:41:12
the prophet came to some of his wives
00:41:12 -->
00:41:14
among whom there was
00:41:14 -->
00:41:15
and
00:41:18 -->
00:41:21
said, may Allah be merciful to you, oh
00:41:21 -->
00:41:22
Anja Shah.
00:41:23 -->
00:41:24
Drive the camel slowly
00:41:26 -->
00:41:28
as they are carrying glass vessels.
00:41:31 -->
00:41:31
Anjusha,
00:41:33 -->
00:41:33
they were traveling,
00:41:36 -->
00:41:37
and
00:41:37 -->
00:41:38
has beautiful
00:41:39 -->
00:41:39
voice
00:41:39 -->
00:41:40
sound,
00:41:41 -->
00:41:42
nice voice,
00:41:43 -->
00:41:45
and he was doing the Hida.
00:41:46 -->
00:41:46
Hida
00:41:49 -->
00:41:50
is to sing,
00:41:57 -->
00:41:58
and this song
00:41:59 -->
00:42:00
becomes like.
00:42:01 -->
00:42:03
So when you start
00:42:03 -->
00:42:04
singing,
00:42:04 -->
00:42:05
and this is
00:42:06 -->
00:42:08
the the bad ones always
00:42:08 -->
00:42:09
do
00:42:09 -->
00:42:10
when they're traveling,
00:42:11 -->
00:42:13
and especially if they are at night or
00:42:13 -->
00:42:15
during the day, but most of the nights
00:42:15 -->
00:42:16
at nights,
00:42:17 -->
00:42:18
when they are
00:42:19 -->
00:42:19
chanting,
00:42:21 -->
00:42:24
the camels just start to move very fast.
00:42:26 -->
00:42:29
It affects even the camels.
00:42:31 -->
00:42:33
So the camels, they will
00:42:35 -->
00:42:35
walk
00:42:36 -->
00:42:37
very fast.
00:42:40 -->
00:42:41
And now the women
00:42:41 -->
00:42:43
are on top of the camels.
00:42:46 -->
00:42:49
And imagine the camel is moving very fast,
00:42:49 -->
00:42:51
so that is also harming them,
00:42:52 -->
00:42:53
affecting them
00:42:57 -->
00:42:59
because they are fragile
00:42:59 -->
00:43:00
vessels,
00:43:00 -->
00:43:01
glass vessels.
00:43:07 -->
00:43:08
So here, the prophet
00:43:08 -->
00:43:09
told An Yesha,
00:43:10 -->
00:43:11
Ang
00:43:13 -->
00:43:14
Yasha,
00:43:19 -->
00:43:20
slow down.
00:43:23 -->
00:43:25
Don't you know who are on the top
00:43:25 -->
00:43:26
of the camels
00:43:27 -->
00:43:28
are glass vessels.
00:43:29 -->
00:43:30
You see the prophet
00:43:31 -->
00:43:32
the expression,
00:43:33 -->
00:43:35
how he referred to the women.
00:43:37 -->
00:43:38
That's something tender
00:43:39 -->
00:43:40
for a child.
00:43:43 -->
00:43:43
So the
00:43:44 -->
00:43:45
commentators
00:43:46 -->
00:43:47
on the hadith, they said,
00:43:49 -->
00:43:51
because the camel started to move fast.
00:43:53 -->
00:43:55
So he asked him to
00:43:55 -->
00:43:56
stop singing
00:43:57 -->
00:43:59
so that the camel would slow down,
00:44:00 -->
00:44:02
so the woman will not be harmed.
00:44:03 -->
00:44:04
That's one explanation.
00:44:06 -->
00:44:07
The other explanation
00:44:08 -->
00:44:11
that your voice will affect the woman.
00:44:14 -->
00:44:15
K.
00:44:19 -->
00:44:20
Slow down.
00:44:24 -->
00:44:24
K.
00:44:29 -->
00:44:29
Allah.
00:44:30 -->
00:44:31
There are women with us,
00:44:40 -->
00:44:42
And your voice will
00:44:42 -->
00:44:43
affect them.
00:44:51 -->
00:44:53
So he said, oh, and Gisha died, they
00:44:53 -->
00:44:54
come as slowly
00:44:56 -->
00:44:59
as they are carrying glass vessels.
00:45:02 -->
00:45:03
So the prophet
00:45:07 -->
00:45:09
he takes all precautions
00:45:10 -->
00:45:10
precautions
00:45:13 -->
00:45:14
to protect
00:45:16 -->
00:45:17
the Muslims.
00:45:19 -->
00:45:21
So he feared
00:45:25 -->
00:45:27
that the songs and the singing
00:45:27 -->
00:45:28
of Anjusha
00:45:29 -->
00:45:31
might affect the heart.
00:45:32 -->
00:45:33
So he told him,
00:45:35 -->
00:45:35
fear Allah.
00:45:38 -->
00:45:39
Woe to you, he told him.
00:45:42 -->
00:45:42
Said,
00:45:44 -->
00:45:45
Woe to you, oh.
00:45:47 -->
00:45:48
Slow
00:45:48 -->
00:45:49
down.
00:45:53 -->
00:45:54
There are
00:45:55 -->
00:45:56
glass vessels with us.
00:45:58 -->
00:45:59
The cameras are
00:46:00 -->
00:46:00
carrying
00:46:01 -->
00:46:02
glass vessels.
00:46:07 -->
00:46:08
So here, the is
00:46:11 -->
00:46:12
he stepped in
00:46:14 -->
00:46:15
to protect
00:46:18 -->
00:46:18
the women
00:46:19 -->
00:46:20
from being
00:46:20 -->
00:46:21
influenced
00:46:21 -->
00:46:22
and
00:46:22 -->
00:46:23
moved
00:46:24 -->
00:46:25
by
00:46:29 -->
00:46:31
the singing and the songs of Anjusha.
00:46:38 -->
00:46:40
So this what the Sharia
00:46:42 -->
00:46:45
teaches us. This what Islam teaches
00:46:48 -->
00:46:50
to protect us,
00:46:51 -->
00:46:53
to protect the Muslim community,
00:46:54 -->
00:46:55
to have healthy
00:46:58 -->
00:46:58
society,
00:47:03 -->
00:47:04
to maintain morality.
00:47:09 -->
00:47:10
Because
00:47:11 -->
00:47:12
if a nations lose
00:47:16 -->
00:47:17
morality,
00:47:18 -->
00:47:21
that's the beginning of the decline and destruction.
00:47:24 -->
00:47:25
K?
00:47:26 -->
00:47:28
K. Today, you see
00:47:29 -->
00:47:32
some communities, they are. The civilization
00:47:32 -->
00:47:33
now declining
00:47:35 -->
00:47:36
because they lost everything.
00:47:38 -->
00:47:39
They lost
00:47:41 -->
00:47:41
the,
00:47:43 -->
00:47:44
the moral
00:47:44 -->
00:47:45
values.
00:47:50 -->
00:47:51
They
00:47:51 -->
00:47:51
started
00:47:54 -->
00:47:54
accepting
00:47:56 -->
00:47:56
something
00:47:57 -->
00:47:59
that can never be accepted.
00:48:03 -->
00:48:06
And they are pushing it down in the
00:48:06 -->
00:48:07
throats of the people.
00:48:10 -->
00:48:13
Those moral people who are trying to
00:48:13 -->
00:48:14
follow
00:48:15 -->
00:48:16
the
00:48:16 -->
00:48:19
ethical values and moral values,
00:48:20 -->
00:48:22
they're facing difficulty.
00:48:24 -->
00:48:26
You have to conform.
00:48:26 -->
00:48:27
You have to accept
00:48:29 -->
00:48:32
accept the lesbians, accept the homosexuals.
00:48:32 -->
00:48:33
You accept everything.
00:48:40 -->
00:48:42
You cannot talk about anything.
00:48:43 -->
00:48:45
You cannot call these things.
00:48:50 -->
00:48:51
No. It's no
00:48:52 -->
00:48:53
talk. It's a community.
00:48:55 -->
00:48:55
Their
00:48:57 -->
00:48:59
their moral values and
00:49:00 -->
00:49:01
ethics are
00:49:03 -->
00:49:04
declining,
00:49:05 -->
00:49:05
decaying.
00:49:05 -->
00:49:06
That's the
00:49:09 -->
00:49:12
the collapse, the decline of
00:49:12 -->
00:49:13
their civilization.
00:49:18 -->
00:49:20
Families, what happened to the families?
00:49:23 -->
00:49:24
Disintegrated.
00:49:25 -->
00:49:27
Families are falling apart.
00:49:35 -->
00:49:35
So
00:49:37 -->
00:49:38
in Islam,
00:49:43 -->
00:49:44
though we are
00:49:44 -->
00:49:46
under constant attack
00:49:49 -->
00:49:50
that they want us to
00:49:51 -->
00:49:53
drink from the same cup
00:49:54 -->
00:49:55
to follow them.
00:50:00 -->
00:50:03
They want us to leave our deed, to
00:50:03 -->
00:50:03
leave
00:50:04 -->
00:50:05
our ethical
00:50:06 -->
00:50:06
values,
00:50:07 -->
00:50:10
moral values. That's what they are working around
00:50:10 -->
00:50:10
the clock.
00:50:15 -->
00:50:17
But Allah is our protector.
00:50:20 -->
00:50:21
Allah is the protector.
00:50:23 -->
00:50:24
And Muslim,
00:50:24 -->
00:50:26
they have to wake up,
00:50:27 -->
00:50:28
and they should not
00:50:28 -->
00:50:30
swallow the bait
00:50:31 -->
00:50:31
because
00:50:33 -->
00:50:34
once
00:50:38 -->
00:50:39
the
00:50:39 -->
00:50:40
immorality
00:50:40 -->
00:50:41
takes place
00:50:44 -->
00:50:45
and moral values
00:50:47 -->
00:50:48
are gone,
00:50:48 -->
00:50:48
Allah's
00:50:50 -->
00:50:51
wrath and anger
00:50:51 -->
00:50:52
is
00:50:55 -->
00:50:56
about to
00:50:59 -->
00:51:00
fall
00:51:00 -->
00:51:02
upon those who
00:51:06 -->
00:51:07
practice
00:51:09 -->
00:51:10
the abominations,
00:51:12 -->
00:51:13
those who practice
00:51:14 -->
00:51:15
bad deeds.
00:51:21 -->
00:51:24
Allah destroyed this town of Sodom,
00:51:26 -->
00:51:29
the people of Ruth because they were practicing
00:51:31 -->
00:51:32
*
00:51:33 -->
00:51:34
of homosexuality.
00:51:34 -->
00:51:37
They were homosexuals. So Allah destroyed the whole
00:51:37 -->
00:51:38
town
00:51:40 -->
00:51:41
whole town.
00:51:42 -->
00:51:42
Our
00:51:43 -->
00:51:43
mother,
00:51:49 -->
00:51:49
Aisha
00:51:54 -->
00:51:55
the
00:52:02 -->
00:52:03
prophet He said,
00:52:03 -->
00:52:06
will Allah destroy us and ruin us
00:52:07 -->
00:52:08
while we have pious
00:52:09 -->
00:52:12
and righteous ones among us? I said, yes.
00:52:13 -->
00:52:15
Allah will do that.
00:52:16 -->
00:52:17
When
00:52:19 -->
00:52:19
immorality
00:52:24 -->
00:52:25
becomes rampant.
00:52:27 -->
00:52:28
Moral decay
00:52:30 -->
00:52:31
becomes rampant.
00:52:36 -->
00:52:36
When
00:52:38 -->
00:52:39
it is rampant,
00:52:41 -->
00:52:42
then, yes,
00:52:44 -->
00:52:46
Allah gets angry,
00:52:47 -->
00:52:49
and he showers his wrath and
00:52:50 -->
00:52:51
anger on all,
00:52:52 -->
00:52:54
and he destroys all.
00:53:05 -->
00:53:07
May Allah save us.
00:53:12 -->
00:53:14
Because the Muslim Ummah is targeted.
00:53:16 -->
00:53:18
And the enemies of Islam,
00:53:19 -->
00:53:21
they are working around the clock.
00:53:22 -->
00:53:23
How to
00:53:25 -->
00:53:26
make the Muslim
00:53:27 -->
00:53:27
leave
00:53:27 -->
00:53:28
the deen
00:53:30 -->
00:53:33
and stop practicing it and holding to the
00:53:33 -->
00:53:34
robe of Allah.
00:53:41 -->
00:53:42
So Islam
00:53:43 -->
00:53:43
the Sharia
00:53:44 -->
00:53:45
provides all these safeguards
00:53:47 -->
00:53:48
and these mechanisms
00:53:48 -->
00:53:49
of protection
00:53:51 -->
00:53:52
embedded in the deen
00:53:54 -->
00:53:56
keep men and women separate.
00:54:00 -->
00:54:01
So this
00:54:02 -->
00:54:03
moral
00:54:03 -->
00:54:04
corruption
00:54:04 -->
00:54:05
will not
00:54:06 -->
00:54:08
happen, will not take
00:54:09 -->
00:54:12
place. Even in the mosques in the Mas'akid,
00:54:13 -->
00:54:13
the prophet,
00:54:14 -->
00:54:16
he separated them.
00:54:17 -->
00:54:20
Women are at the back of the masjid,
00:54:20 -->
00:54:21
and they are
00:54:21 -->
00:54:23
far away from the Sahara.
00:54:24 -->
00:54:24
Far away.
00:54:26 -->
00:54:28
And he made a special door for them.
00:54:29 -->
00:54:30
Special door.
00:54:34 -->
00:54:35
They come.
00:54:37 -->
00:54:38
They pray.
00:54:39 -->
00:54:40
They leave.
00:54:47 -->
00:54:48
He told the woman,
00:54:48 -->
00:54:50
you should not raise immediately
00:54:50 -->
00:54:51
from your
00:54:54 -->
00:54:56
because so however they had choked soaps.
00:54:58 -->
00:54:59
They were very poor,
00:55:00 -->
00:55:01
especially those of.
00:55:04 -->
00:55:05
So if a woman
00:55:08 -->
00:55:09
rises quickly,
00:55:09 -->
00:55:12
she might see the aura of the companion.
00:55:14 -->
00:55:15
So they have to
00:55:17 -->
00:55:19
make sure that they when they stand from
00:55:19 -->
00:55:22
the ruku, the Sahaba already stood up.
00:55:24 -->
00:55:27
And the moment he would finish
00:55:28 -->
00:55:31
conclude the he would tell the remain seated,
00:55:31 -->
00:55:33
and the woman would leave.
00:55:35 -->
00:55:36
Till
00:55:41 -->
00:55:43
felt that now a few women had reached
00:55:43 -->
00:55:44
her home,
00:55:44 -->
00:55:47
then the Sahaba can move. So there was
00:55:47 -->
00:55:48
no free mixing.
00:55:48 -->
00:55:50
Those who say,
00:55:50 -->
00:55:52
but the women, they used to attend the
00:55:52 -->
00:55:55
masjid and pray in the masjid. Yes.
00:55:58 -->
00:55:59
But where does it say
00:56:00 -->
00:56:02
that they were chatting and,
00:56:03 -->
00:56:04
and mixing
00:56:05 -->
00:56:06
like what we see today? Where is it
00:56:06 -->
00:56:07
mentioned?
00:56:09 -->
00:56:10
To us.
00:56:25 -->
00:56:27
Also, there should not be
00:56:28 -->
00:56:28
Sharia,
00:56:29 -->
00:56:30
perhaps free mixing
00:56:32 -->
00:56:32
in schools
00:56:34 -->
00:56:35
called education.
00:56:37 -->
00:56:38
It's not allowed
00:56:40 -->
00:56:40
in Islam.
00:56:43 -->
00:56:44
Schools should be separate,
00:56:45 -->
00:56:46
boys and girls.
00:56:48 -->
00:56:50
And guess what? They found out.
00:56:52 -->
00:56:54
Those schools that they are separate,
00:56:56 -->
00:56:57
pupils
00:56:57 -->
00:56:58
and students'
00:56:59 -->
00:56:59
marks
00:57:00 -->
00:57:01
are higher
00:57:02 -->
00:57:02
than
00:57:03 -->
00:57:04
the coed
00:57:06 -->
00:57:08
boys and girls together, especially with the teenagers,
00:57:09 -->
00:57:09
high school.
00:57:10 -->
00:57:10
They
00:57:11 -->
00:57:12
cannot focus
00:57:13 -->
00:57:15
because they are putting them together,
00:57:17 -->
00:57:19
and they are teenagers.
00:57:26 -->
00:57:26
Sharia
00:57:26 -->
00:57:27
also.
00:57:30 -->
00:57:33
The beauty of this the virtues of this
00:57:33 -->
00:57:33
deal,
00:57:37 -->
00:57:37
it facilitates
00:57:38 -->
00:57:39
the marriage for the youth.
00:57:42 -->
00:57:42
It facilitates
00:57:43 -->
00:57:44
the marriage for the youth
00:57:46 -->
00:57:46
because
00:57:47 -->
00:57:50
this sexual drive is natural. It's there.
00:57:52 -->
00:57:52
So how
00:57:53 -->
00:57:53
to
00:57:54 -->
00:57:55
fulfill
00:57:57 -->
00:57:57
your biological
00:57:58 -->
00:58:01
needs through the marriage. So the Sharia
00:58:01 -->
00:58:02
in Islam
00:58:04 -->
00:58:04
facilitates
00:58:05 -->
00:58:06
and
00:58:06 -->
00:58:07
encourages
00:58:07 -->
00:58:07
the
00:58:08 -->
00:58:11
the the parents and the families to
00:58:13 -->
00:58:16
get the children married as early as possible
00:58:16 -->
00:58:19
and to facilitate it and to make it
00:58:19 -->
00:58:20
easy for them.
00:58:25 -->
00:58:26
Also, the Sharia
00:58:27 -->
00:58:28
teaches us,
00:58:31 -->
00:58:32
and these
00:58:33 -->
00:58:35
are virtues. These are the teachings of Islam
00:58:38 -->
00:58:39
that we seek permission,
00:58:40 -->
00:58:41
seeking permission
00:58:42 -->
00:58:42
before
00:58:43 -->
00:58:44
entering one's home.
00:58:46 -->
00:58:47
Before you enter someone's house,
00:58:49 -->
00:58:51
you ask for permission.
00:58:56 -->
00:58:57
You ask for permission.
00:59:01 -->
00:59:03
You ring 3 times and you leave if
00:59:03 -->
00:59:04
no one
00:59:04 -->
00:59:05
answered.
00:59:07 -->
00:59:09
And when you enter someone's home,
00:59:10 -->
00:59:11
you don't sit
00:59:13 -->
00:59:16
wherever you want. No. You ask the host,
00:59:17 -->
00:59:18
where do you want me to sit?
00:59:19 -->
00:59:21
K. So he will make you to sit
00:59:21 -->
00:59:22
in a place
00:59:22 -->
00:59:25
where you'll not be able to see
00:59:26 -->
00:59:28
the people of who are walking
00:59:28 -->
00:59:29
in the house.
00:59:30 -->
00:59:31
K.
00:59:32 -->
00:59:34
So he will make you sit in a
00:59:34 -->
00:59:35
place
00:59:35 -->
00:59:36
where you'll not be able.
00:59:37 -->
00:59:39
Not that you sit and hear the corridor,
00:59:40 -->
00:59:42
and the women are going to the kitchen
00:59:42 -->
00:59:45
and passing, and you are staring at them.
00:59:45 -->
00:59:46
No.
00:59:46 -->
00:59:50
So you are you will you enter someone's
00:59:50 -->
00:59:53
house. Before you sit, ask the host,
00:59:53 -->
00:59:55
where do you want me to sit.
00:59:58 -->
01:00:01
These are etiquettes. These are manner
01:00:02 -->
01:00:04
we are taught in Islam.
01:00:15 -->
01:00:15
Also,
01:00:18 -->
01:00:20
Islam prohibits
01:00:22 -->
01:00:23
using
01:00:23 -->
01:00:24
vulgar language,
01:00:28 -->
01:00:29
impolite
01:00:29 -->
01:00:30
words, expressions.
01:00:40 -->
01:00:42
The prophet said, a Muslim,
01:00:43 -->
01:00:43
they
01:00:44 -->
01:00:44
said.
01:00:45 -->
01:00:48
Muslim is not the one who swears
01:00:48 -->
01:00:49
or insults
01:00:52 -->
01:00:53
or the one who curses.
01:00:55 -->
01:00:58
Alisa Bilbedi who uses vulgar
01:00:59 -->
01:00:59
language.
01:01:04 -->
01:01:05
K?
01:01:06 -->
01:01:08
So the 4 letter word, don't use it.
01:01:08 -->
01:01:10
A Muslim cannot use it.
01:01:20 -->
01:01:21
Right? Among the precautionary
01:01:22 -->
01:01:24
measures which will help
01:01:25 -->
01:01:26
to
01:01:27 -->
01:01:27
maintain
01:01:28 -->
01:01:30
the moral values is to have
01:01:31 -->
01:01:31
righteous
01:01:32 -->
01:01:32
friends
01:01:33 -->
01:01:35
good friends, not bad friends.
01:01:38 -->
01:01:39
Not bad friends.
01:01:41 -->
01:01:42
So
01:01:43 -->
01:01:45
this what our deen is about, my dear
01:01:45 -->
01:01:46
brothers and sisters.
01:01:48 -->
01:01:50
These are the virtues of our deen, this
01:01:50 -->
01:01:51
beautiful deen.
01:01:53 -->
01:01:54
If we follow it,
01:01:55 -->
01:01:56
we'll be successful
01:01:57 -->
01:01:58
in this world
01:01:58 -->
01:01:59
and in the next.
01:02:01 -->
01:02:02
May Allah
01:02:03 -->
01:02:05
keep us to remain steadfast
01:02:05 -->
01:02:06
in this beautiful deen
01:02:10 -->
01:02:11
to and find him pleased with all of
01:02:11 -->
01:02:12
us. Amen.
01:02:16 -->
01:02:18
May Allah forgive us our faults and mistakes
01:02:18 -->
01:02:19
and ignorance.
01:02:20 -->
01:02:20
May
01:02:21 -->
01:02:22
Allah
01:02:22 -->
01:02:23
unite our
01:02:25 -->
01:02:27
and save us from going straight. And
01:02:28 -->
01:02:30
may Allah unite our hearts.
01:02:31 -->
01:02:34
And may Allah elevate your status, my dear
01:02:34 -->
01:02:36
brothers and sisters, in this world and in
01:02:36 -->
01:02:37
the
01:02:37 -->
01:02:38
hereafter.
01:02:39 -->
01:02:42
May Allah reward you all immensely for your
01:02:42 -->
01:02:43
patience and attendance.
01:03:00 -->
01:03:01
Brothers and sisters, we will start the question
01:03:01 -->
01:03:02
and answers time now.
01:03:03 -->
01:03:04
Please send in your questions fast
01:03:05 -->
01:03:06
so that,
01:03:07 -->
01:03:08
we can respond to them as soon as
01:03:08 -->
01:03:09
possible.
01:03:11 -->
01:03:12
We will begin
01:03:12 -->
01:03:13
with the
01:03:14 -->
01:03:15
questions that we have received already.
01:03:17 -->
01:03:18
And
01:03:18 -->
01:03:20
if anyone would like to ask a verbal
01:03:20 -->
01:03:21
question, you can raise your hand
01:03:22 -->
01:03:25
on the Zoom platform, and we will take
01:03:25 -->
01:03:26
direct questions.
01:03:27 -->
01:03:28
Okay. The first question,
01:03:31 -->
01:03:33
is it permissible for women to get lip
01:03:33 -->
01:03:34
fillers?
01:03:36 -->
01:03:36
To get what?
01:03:37 -->
01:03:38
Lip fillers.
01:03:39 -->
01:03:41
Lip fillers. Filling the lips?
01:03:42 -->
01:03:42
Yes.
01:03:43 -->
01:03:45
With what? With silicone or what?
01:03:48 -->
01:03:49
Yes, Sheikh. That's correct.
01:03:52 -->
01:03:53
That's the question?
01:03:56 -->
01:03:57
Yes, Sheikh. That's the question.
01:03:58 -->
01:04:01
So she wants to have a big,
01:04:01 -->
01:04:02
thick lips.
01:04:06 -->
01:04:08
The answer, no.
01:04:08 -->
01:04:09
You cannot
01:04:10 -->
01:04:12
play with Allah's creation.
01:04:13 -->
01:04:14
This is what
01:04:15 -->
01:04:15
here.
01:04:18 -->
01:04:18
Slavery.
01:04:19 -->
01:04:20
They have been
01:04:21 -->
01:04:23
Muslim woman been enslaved
01:04:23 -->
01:04:23
intellectually.
01:04:25 -->
01:04:27
This what the media does to
01:04:29 -->
01:04:30
them. K?
01:04:31 -->
01:04:32
So go
01:04:32 -->
01:04:34
and have thick lips.
01:04:35 -->
01:04:36
Do surgery.
01:04:37 -->
01:04:39
Oh, my nose, I think,
01:04:39 -->
01:04:40
needs to become
01:04:42 -->
01:04:42
thinner.
01:04:43 -->
01:04:44
I do surgery.
01:04:46 -->
01:04:47
K.
01:04:50 -->
01:04:52
The same thing for the breast
01:04:53 -->
01:04:53
silicone
01:04:53 -->
01:04:54
inject
01:04:55 -->
01:04:56
buttocks.
01:04:56 -->
01:04:58
What is going on?
01:05:02 -->
01:05:04
This body is not yours.
01:05:06 -->
01:05:09
This body is given to you by the
01:05:09 -->
01:05:09
creator.
01:05:11 -->
01:05:12
Take care of it.
01:05:13 -->
01:05:15
Cannot fiddle and play with it the way
01:05:15 -->
01:05:16
you like,
01:05:19 -->
01:05:22
And leave alone the side effects and the
01:05:22 -->
01:05:22
consequences
01:05:23 -->
01:05:24
and how many women
01:05:25 -->
01:05:28
they got breast cancer because such things.
01:05:30 -->
01:05:31
So the answer to the questioner,
01:05:32 -->
01:05:33
fear Allah
01:05:34 -->
01:05:36
and be content with what Allah
01:05:37 -->
01:05:38
has given you.
01:05:41 -->
01:05:43
K? This is my advice for you. Fear
01:05:43 -->
01:05:43
Allah
01:05:46 -->
01:05:48
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
01:05:50 -->
01:05:53
That's why today, my dear brothers and sisters,
01:05:53 -->
01:05:54
there's no natural beauty.
01:05:55 -->
01:05:56
Everything is artificial.
01:05:59 -->
01:06:01
And many women, they believe what they see
01:06:01 -->
01:06:03
in the media. They don't like this photo
01:06:03 -->
01:06:03
show.
01:06:05 -->
01:06:07
Those characters you see on the screens are
01:06:07 -->
01:06:08
not true.
01:06:10 -->
01:06:10
Wake
01:06:13 -->
01:06:14
up. It's not true.
01:06:17 -->
01:06:18
So you want to look like this one,
01:06:18 -->
01:06:20
and you want to look like that one.
01:06:28 -->
01:06:30
Allah has created us
01:06:30 -->
01:06:33
in the best fashion, in the best form.
01:06:36 -->
01:06:37
This is Allah's creation,
01:06:39 -->
01:06:40
but this is what the shaitan promised.
01:06:42 -->
01:06:44
The shaitan promised, I will command them
01:06:46 -->
01:06:46
to change
01:06:47 -->
01:06:48
Allah's creation
01:06:50 -->
01:06:51
to change Allah's creation.
01:06:57 -->
01:06:59
So they start playing with your body,
01:07:00 -->
01:07:01
and it is business,
01:07:02 -->
01:07:02
business,
01:07:03 -->
01:07:04
money.
01:07:08 -->
01:07:10
Come. Come. And you see the ads all
01:07:10 -->
01:07:11
the time.
01:07:11 -->
01:07:12
Come.
01:07:12 -->
01:07:13
Discount.
01:07:17 -->
01:07:18
It is business for them.
01:07:24 -->
01:07:25
So
01:07:26 -->
01:07:27
my dear brother, sisters,
01:07:30 -->
01:07:32
have this contentment
01:07:33 -->
01:07:35
and what Allah has given you.
01:07:37 -->
01:07:39
Be happy with that,
01:07:41 -->
01:07:44
And be grateful and thankful, and don't play
01:07:44 -->
01:07:45
with this body.
01:07:46 -->
01:07:48
Don't do anything to it.
01:07:49 -->
01:07:51
Just take care and maintain it. That's it.
01:07:52 -->
01:07:53
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:07:57 -->
01:07:57
Yes.
01:08:00 -->
01:08:02
We go to the next question.
01:08:07 -->
01:08:10
There is a Muslim who has OCD with
01:08:10 -->
01:08:12
fearing other than Allah.
01:08:12 -->
01:08:13
As a result,
01:08:14 -->
01:08:17
they excessively seeking refuge in Allah, but believe
01:08:17 -->
01:08:19
that the fear has reached their hearts. Is
01:08:19 -->
01:08:21
such a person deemed
01:08:22 -->
01:08:23
as a?
01:08:25 -->
01:08:28
No. No. If he has OCD and severe
01:08:28 -->
01:08:30
case, advanced case,
01:08:31 -->
01:08:33
so he or she needs to seek medication
01:08:35 -->
01:08:37
at the same time.
01:08:37 -->
01:08:39
That's the material medication
01:08:40 -->
01:08:43
and the spiritual medication, which is the
01:08:43 -->
01:08:44
and
01:08:45 -->
01:08:48
the and the and reading the Quran
01:08:48 -->
01:08:49
and the dua.
01:08:50 -->
01:08:50
And
01:08:51 -->
01:08:53
he or she will be able to overcome
01:08:53 -->
01:08:54
this. But
01:08:55 -->
01:08:56
the head is not
01:08:58 -->
01:09:00
doesn't take him out of the fold of
01:09:00 -->
01:09:03
Islam or and stuff like that. No. No.
01:09:04 -->
01:09:06
You need to seek both the medical
01:09:06 -->
01:09:07
treatment
01:09:08 -->
01:09:10
and also the spiritual
01:09:11 -->
01:09:13
that your connection with Allah
01:09:14 -->
01:09:17
your salawat. You always maintain the wudu, the
01:09:17 -->
01:09:18
dikr, the istraphar,
01:09:18 -->
01:09:19
the
01:09:20 -->
01:09:22
of the Quran, and the dua always.
01:09:23 -->
01:09:25
And Allah is the healer, and
01:09:26 -->
01:09:27
you will be able to
01:09:28 -->
01:09:29
get rid of this
01:09:29 -->
01:09:30
sickness.
01:09:32 -->
01:09:33
May Allah grant you
01:09:33 -->
01:09:36
quick recovery from it, Ameen.
01:09:38 -->
01:09:40
I hope this is clear to the questioner.
01:09:43 -->
01:09:43
Next question.
01:09:45 -->
01:09:48
In my country, men touch their chests after
01:09:48 -->
01:09:50
shaking hands as respect or love.
01:09:51 -->
01:09:53
I also starting doing this, but not after
01:09:53 -->
01:09:56
shaking hands. Am I imitating men? This is
01:09:56 -->
01:09:57
from a sister.
01:09:58 -->
01:10:00
Oh, they do like this, you mean? Yeah.
01:10:01 -->
01:10:04
No. This is, yes, custom. No.
01:10:04 -->
01:10:06
So instead of shaking hands
01:10:07 -->
01:10:08
okay.
01:10:09 -->
01:10:12
Which is good to avoid shaking hands. So
01:10:12 -->
01:10:13
but okay.
01:10:21 -->
01:10:22
The next question,
01:10:25 -->
01:10:25
pray
01:10:28 -->
01:10:32
that Allah safeguards you Sheikh for these wonderful
01:10:32 -->
01:10:32
lectures.
01:10:34 -->
01:10:35
What
01:10:35 -->
01:10:37
would be your advice on
01:10:38 -->
01:10:39
gyms which are mixed?
01:10:41 -->
01:10:43
Going to the gym, which is mixed.
01:10:44 -->
01:10:45
So what do you expect?
01:10:47 -->
01:10:47
Hello?
01:10:49 -->
01:10:50
Come on,
01:10:50 -->
01:10:51
brothers and sisters.
01:10:53 -->
01:10:55
By now, you should know the answers.
01:10:56 -->
01:10:57
Of course,
01:10:58 -->
01:11:00
the is saying, just had it now.
01:11:02 -->
01:11:04
Never go where there are women.
01:11:05 -->
01:11:07
The same thing for women. Never go where
01:11:07 -->
01:11:08
there are men.
01:11:10 -->
01:11:10
No.
01:11:11 -->
01:11:12
If it is not for
01:11:13 -->
01:11:15
private for the women, don't go.
01:11:16 -->
01:11:19
K. You can do your work out at
01:11:19 -->
01:11:20
home
01:11:20 -->
01:11:22
and do your exercise at home.
01:11:23 -->
01:11:24
Is
01:11:25 -->
01:11:26
this clear to the questioner?
01:11:33 -->
01:11:34
Next question.
01:11:37 -->
01:11:40
We will take Mohammed Salman. Please unmute your
01:11:40 -->
01:11:40
mic.
01:11:51 -->
01:11:51
For
01:11:52 -->
01:11:53
always making yourself available,
01:11:54 -->
01:11:56
by sharing your knowledge with us. May Allah
01:11:56 -->
01:11:58
continue to raise your hands in. So,
01:12:02 -->
01:12:03
in the
01:12:04 -->
01:12:08
developing countries, especially in Africa, you know, poverty
01:12:08 -->
01:12:09
is a big issue.
01:12:10 -->
01:12:11
And,
01:12:12 -->
01:12:13
the
01:12:13 -->
01:12:14
salary structure
01:12:15 -->
01:12:16
does not really,
01:12:16 -->
01:12:20
is not really encouraging for the people. So
01:12:20 -->
01:12:23
in order for people to achieve their financial
01:12:23 -->
01:12:24
goals,
01:12:24 -->
01:12:25
they usually
01:12:25 -->
01:12:28
engage cooperative societies whereby people come together,
01:12:30 -->
01:12:32
contribute money into a pause with the aim
01:12:32 -->
01:12:34
of giving themselves goodly loans,
01:12:35 -->
01:12:37
and, there will be a plan of repayment
01:12:37 -->
01:12:38
over months.
01:12:39 -->
01:12:40
So as a matter of policy,
01:12:42 -->
01:12:45
and to know the maximum amount in which
01:12:45 -->
01:12:47
each person can have access to.
01:12:48 -->
01:12:49
They said
01:12:50 -->
01:12:52
each person can have access to twice the
01:12:52 -->
01:12:55
amount of the service that person have in
01:12:55 -->
01:12:58
the post at the particular time in which,
01:12:58 -->
01:13:00
he wants to have access to that loan.
01:13:01 -->
01:13:02
So,
01:13:03 -->
01:13:04
my question is,
01:13:06 -->
01:13:08
the fact that that person is having is
01:13:08 -->
01:13:08
having twice,
01:13:09 -->
01:13:12
access to twice twice the number of, savings
01:13:12 -->
01:13:14
he has at at that particular time, Does
01:13:14 -->
01:13:16
this have anything to do with rebar?
01:13:17 -->
01:13:19
Because the savings that person have is just,
01:13:20 -->
01:13:22
a means of, collateral
01:13:22 -->
01:13:23
in case the person
01:13:24 -->
01:13:24
defaults
01:13:26 -->
01:13:28
by not repaying that loan. And, also, the
01:13:28 -->
01:13:29
person will have guarantors
01:13:30 -->
01:13:30
just in
01:13:31 -->
01:13:33
case he does not repay that loan. The
01:13:33 -->
01:13:34
guarantors will
01:13:34 -->
01:13:36
have to pay the loan on behalf of
01:13:36 -->
01:13:37
the person.
01:13:38 -->
01:13:40
I mean, half of the loan. And the
01:13:40 -->
01:13:42
service the person have
01:13:42 -->
01:13:44
is also intact in the post.
01:13:45 -->
01:13:47
So the goodly loan does not have,
01:13:48 -->
01:13:51
any direct impact or direct relationship with the
01:13:51 -->
01:13:54
service the person have in the post.
01:13:56 -->
01:13:57
Aki,
01:13:58 -->
01:14:00
to be honest with you,
01:14:03 -->
01:14:04
in order to,
01:14:05 -->
01:14:06
I mean,
01:14:06 -->
01:14:07
answer you correctly
01:14:08 -->
01:14:10
and to because I haven't
01:14:11 -->
01:14:12
I didn't,
01:14:12 -->
01:14:13
I mean,
01:14:14 -->
01:14:15
get the gist of your question.
01:14:16 -->
01:14:17
K? Totally.
01:14:18 -->
01:14:21
So if you don't mind, send your question,
01:14:21 -->
01:14:22
and they will answer it.
01:14:23 -->
01:14:24
Okay.
01:14:25 -->
01:14:26
Yeah.
01:14:27 -->
01:14:28
Next.
01:14:29 -->
01:14:31
Oh, yeah. Okay. Next question, sir. Anyway anyway,
01:14:31 -->
01:14:33
the goodly loan and as you see, the
01:14:34 -->
01:14:35
as a rule of thumb,
01:14:36 -->
01:14:39
annual loan that will brings you with that
01:14:39 -->
01:14:41
will bring a benefit is rebal.
01:14:42 -->
01:14:43
This is
01:14:43 -->
01:14:45
one of the rules in the sharia.
01:14:46 -->
01:14:49
Annual loan that will least to benefit to
01:14:49 -->
01:14:49
to the
01:14:51 -->
01:14:52
to the one who
01:14:53 -->
01:14:55
who who gives this loan,
01:14:56 -->
01:14:58
okay, then it is rebar.
01:14:58 -->
01:14:59
The goodly loan,
01:15:00 -->
01:15:00
the that
01:15:02 -->
01:15:03
you give,
01:15:04 -->
01:15:05
and
01:15:06 -->
01:15:08
when you get it back, it is the
01:15:08 -->
01:15:09
same.
01:15:10 -->
01:15:12
So there is no additional amount, etcetera.
01:15:13 -->
01:15:13
This is.
01:15:15 -->
01:15:15
And when
01:15:16 -->
01:15:17
the borrower
01:15:20 -->
01:15:20
fails
01:15:21 -->
01:15:23
to pay on time
01:15:24 -->
01:15:25
due to some financial
01:15:26 -->
01:15:27
problems,
01:15:27 -->
01:15:30
then the lender has to be patient,
01:15:31 -->
01:15:32
and
01:15:32 -->
01:15:35
it will be considered for him as if
01:15:35 -->
01:15:37
he has given it out as sadaqa, though
01:15:37 -->
01:15:38
he's going to get it back.
01:15:39 -->
01:15:42
So this is the part Hasan in Islam.
01:15:44 -->
01:15:45
But
01:15:47 -->
01:15:48
to have
01:15:49 -->
01:15:51
give a loan and then you get benefit
01:15:53 -->
01:15:55
because of that loan, then it falls under
01:15:55 -->
01:15:56
the.
01:15:57 -->
01:15:59
And forward your question, please, with all the
01:15:59 -->
01:16:01
details, and I will
01:16:02 -->
01:16:03
answer you,
01:16:04 -->
01:16:05
quickly.
01:16:06 -->
01:16:07
Next question, please.
01:16:09 -->
01:16:10
Next question, Sheikh.
01:16:15 -->
01:16:15
If
01:16:16 -->
01:16:18
husband has a strong head,
01:16:19 -->
01:16:21
meaning he doesn't listen to anyone,
01:16:22 -->
01:16:22
Can one,
01:16:23 -->
01:16:26
yeah, can one escalate issues with his mother?
01:16:26 -->
01:16:26
Please advise.
01:16:27 -->
01:16:27
No.
01:16:30 -->
01:16:32
You see, my dear brothers and sisters,
01:16:33 -->
01:16:34
the moment
01:16:35 -->
01:16:37
a problem comes out,
01:16:38 -->
01:16:41
leaves, it's not between husband and wife anymore.
01:16:42 -->
01:16:43
It's outside.
01:16:44 -->
01:16:46
It will be get it will become bigger
01:16:46 -->
01:16:47
and bigger.
01:16:49 -->
01:16:52
So my advice for all brothers and sisters
01:16:52 -->
01:16:54
who are married, husband and wife,
01:16:54 -->
01:16:56
contain your problems
01:16:57 -->
01:16:59
and solve your problems by yourselves.
01:17:01 -->
01:17:03
Your issues should not leave your bedroom.
01:17:04 -->
01:17:07
Even your children should not know about what
01:17:07 -->
01:17:08
is going to come.
01:17:09 -->
01:17:10
This is my advice.
01:17:12 -->
01:17:14
Okay? If he is
01:17:15 -->
01:17:16
stubborn,
01:17:16 -->
01:17:17
okay,
01:17:17 -->
01:17:19
and he doesn't listen,
01:17:21 -->
01:17:21
find a way.
01:17:23 -->
01:17:24
See, my dear sisters,
01:17:25 -->
01:17:27
a smart woman
01:17:27 -->
01:17:27
really
01:17:30 -->
01:17:30
can.
01:17:31 -->
01:17:33
They should know, and they have k
01:17:34 -->
01:17:34
ways,
01:17:36 -->
01:17:37
and she will
01:17:37 -->
01:17:38
manage to
01:17:39 -->
01:17:41
improve the character of her husband.
01:17:43 -->
01:17:45
K. For example, some men they are
01:17:47 -->
01:17:47
have this
01:17:48 -->
01:17:48
ego.
01:17:53 -->
01:17:53
K?
01:17:58 -->
01:17:59
And he doesn't know how to read the
01:17:59 -->
01:18:00
Quran.
01:18:00 -->
01:18:01
His wife,
01:18:01 -->
01:18:02
she knows.
01:18:08 -->
01:18:11
He's not ready to listen to her and
01:18:11 -->
01:18:12
learn from her.
01:18:18 -->
01:18:20
But what she can do to him, she
01:18:20 -->
01:18:21
said.
01:18:21 -->
01:18:22
My dear husband,
01:18:23 -->
01:18:24
we just
01:18:27 -->
01:18:27
have
01:18:28 -->
01:18:30
every day, 10 minutes,
01:18:30 -->
01:18:32
we read the Quran together
01:18:33 -->
01:18:34
for the barakah.
01:18:35 -->
01:18:36
I read
01:18:37 -->
01:18:38
and you read,
01:18:40 -->
01:18:42
and you read the same aya.
01:18:48 -->
01:18:50
Or if he's doing something wrong and he's
01:18:50 -->
01:18:52
not going to listen to you,
01:18:55 -->
01:18:55
met him.
01:18:58 -->
01:19:02
See the order book that talks about this
01:19:02 -->
01:19:03
and leave it there.
01:19:04 -->
01:19:06
And when you are not there, he will
01:19:06 -->
01:19:07
pick it up and read.
01:19:09 -->
01:19:11
What I'm trying to say, a woman should
01:19:11 -->
01:19:13
study her husband
01:19:17 -->
01:19:18
and see his personality
01:19:19 -->
01:19:20
and analyze his personality
01:19:23 -->
01:19:25
and see what is the best way to
01:19:25 -->
01:19:26
approach him
01:19:26 -->
01:19:29
and what is the best way to improve
01:19:31 -->
01:19:31
his character
01:19:33 -->
01:19:35
and what is the best way to help
01:19:35 -->
01:19:36
him to overcome
01:19:38 -->
01:19:40
and get rid of these bad habits.
01:19:45 -->
01:19:47
Because if you go and
01:19:48 -->
01:19:49
talk to his mother,
01:19:51 -->
01:19:53
that will not solve the problem.
01:19:55 -->
01:19:56
That's why,
01:19:59 -->
01:20:01
Wynn, I'm talking to the sisters. If you
01:20:01 -->
01:20:03
have a problem with the the husband, don't
01:20:03 -->
01:20:04
go and complain to your mother
01:20:05 -->
01:20:08
because your mother will react with you emotionally
01:20:09 -->
01:20:10
with her heart.
01:20:14 -->
01:20:14
K?
01:20:16 -->
01:20:17
And I always
01:20:18 -->
01:20:19
tell
01:20:20 -->
01:20:22
those who are newly married or those who
01:20:22 -->
01:20:24
are going to get married to write read
01:20:24 -->
01:20:25
the book
01:20:26 -->
01:20:27
women are
01:20:27 -->
01:20:30
from Venus and men are from Mars.
01:20:31 -->
01:20:33
Beautiful book. Read it.
01:20:36 -->
01:20:38
Yes. We are from different planets,
01:20:41 -->
01:20:43
so we should know how the other one
01:20:43 -->
01:20:44
thinks.
01:20:45 -->
01:20:46
So we study each other
01:20:48 -->
01:20:50
and not on each other.
01:20:52 -->
01:20:53
That's why
01:20:54 -->
01:20:55
in
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the year 1 or 2 of the marital
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01:21:01
life, you see ups, downs, ups. If you
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draw the graph
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the graph
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01:21:07
of the marital life, it's like this. Ups,
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01:21:08
downs, ups, down.
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01:21:11
Why this like this. Why?
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01:21:16
Because we are discovering each other, knowing about
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01:21:16
each other.
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01:21:19
K?
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01:21:21
Everyone now,
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01:21:25
he doesn't pretend anymore. He is himself. He
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01:21:27
is herself. He is he is himself.
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01:21:30
So we are now and and this is
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01:21:31
the human
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01:21:32
behavior.
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01:21:36
You see this this like this. And then
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01:21:39
the marital life started to become stable
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01:21:42
because we started to know each other now.
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01:21:44
K?
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01:21:45
So
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01:21:48
a woman should know her husband.
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01:21:51
She should know him
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01:21:54
when he wants to be alone.
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01:21:56
So she gives him that
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01:22:01
room to be alone, to think.
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01:22:04
Especially men, when they have problems, they want
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01:22:06
to be by themselves.
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01:22:10
So when you see your husband is thinking
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at this,
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listen.
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01:22:14
Don't
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01:22:16
come and say, darling,
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01:22:20
what's wrong with you? Can I help you?
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01:22:24
And he is inside telling you, for god's
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01:22:25
sake, leave me alone.
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01:22:29
So give him that.
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01:22:32
So my advice for this
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01:22:33
question,
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01:22:34
sister,
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take care of your husband,
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study him,
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01:22:42
and try to help him to improve him.
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01:22:43
May Allah
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01:22:48
soften his heart. May Allah
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01:22:53
grant him the success to improve his character,
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01:22:56
and may Allah make you a cause to
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01:22:57
improve his character,
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01:23:00
Is this clear to the question now?
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01:23:09
If not, they can message back. Next, question.
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01:23:15
What should a woman who has missed 2
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01:23:16
Ramadans
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01:23:18
and now she's pregnant,
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01:23:20
the
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01:23:23
she might miss the next Ramadan also. What
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01:23:25
can she do? Can she give?
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01:23:30
So why she didn't,
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01:23:32
make up the days?
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01:23:34
Because she was breastfeeding?
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01:23:39
Anyway,
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01:23:44
a woman, when she misses her fast,
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01:23:46
k,
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01:23:50
because of her
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01:23:51
her menstrual cycle.
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01:23:54
She has to make them up
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01:23:58
if he her health permits that he's okay.
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01:24:03
But to what what women do, they keep
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01:24:03
procrastinating
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01:24:06
till the next Ramadan.
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01:24:09
Tomorrow is Ramadan. And then they pick up
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01:24:11
the phone. Here's what should I do.
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01:24:13
That's your problem.
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01:24:16
What do you want the Sheikh to do
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01:24:16
for you?
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01:24:19
Allah's giving you
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01:24:22
11 months
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01:24:25
to make up your days,
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01:24:29
and you kept procrastinating.
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01:24:31
And now you are asking what should I
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01:24:32
do? That's why
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01:24:34
some
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01:24:36
schools
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01:24:37
of
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01:24:38
thought
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01:24:41
saying that she has to and has to
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01:24:42
be
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01:24:43
be the the
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01:24:52
as punishment for her. But the Tsonga's opinion
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01:24:54
only, she has to
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01:24:56
make the days that she she missed.
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01:25:01
K. And she, of course, she is simple.
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01:25:02
She has to make.
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01:25:09
But now what if a woman is always
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01:25:11
either pregnant or breastfeeding?
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01:25:12
Pregnant, breastfeeding.
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01:25:17
And so if she's breastfeeding, if she fast,
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01:25:19
that affects her
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01:25:23
and maybe affects her child, and the milk
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01:25:23
will
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01:25:24
be reduced.
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01:25:28
So in this case, it's the of
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01:25:29
the
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01:25:31
who
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01:25:32
who said
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01:25:35
that she can
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01:25:38
give the the pay the
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01:25:41
for the days he he missed.
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01:25:46
Just like an old man and and old
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01:25:46
woman,
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01:25:48
and Allah knows best.
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01:25:50
Is this clear to the questioner?
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01:25:58
Is clear. If not, they can send the
01:25:58 -->
01:25:59
question back.
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01:26:01
Next question.
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01:26:04
What should a woman no. That's done. Okay.
01:26:04 -->
01:26:05
The next question.
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01:26:07
A person married a woman,
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01:26:11
and after consummating the marriage, the person divorced
01:26:11 -->
01:26:12
the woman
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01:26:14
and later married his stepdaughter,
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01:26:18
the daughter of his ex wife from another
01:26:18 -->
01:26:18
man.
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01:26:22
Is their marriage valid?
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01:26:23
No.
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01:26:25
Of course not.
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01:26:30
Of course not. You cannot marry your stepdaughter.
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01:26:33
Your stepfather for her.
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01:26:41
This is called Raviva.
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01:26:46
So if the consummation took place,
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01:26:49
then
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01:26:50
it's Haba.
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01:26:52
He cannot
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01:26:55
is this clear to the questioner?
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01:27:04
Charlotte is clear. Sheikh, if not, they can,
01:27:04 -->
01:27:06
send a message back.
01:27:06 -->
01:27:07
He
01:27:07 -->
01:27:09
he he divorced her mother
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01:27:11
after the consummation,
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01:27:14
and now he he married the his stepdaughter,
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01:27:17
the daughter of this of the of his
01:27:17 -->
01:27:18
wife. Right?
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01:27:21
The the daughter of his ex wife.
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01:27:24
Yeah. Ex wife. Yeah. The one who is
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01:27:26
From another man. Yeah. Okay. Yeah.
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01:27:31
Okay. Next question, sir. Can you please tell
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01:27:34
us about the obligations of a man towards
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01:27:34
his stepsister?
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01:27:37
Same father, but different mother.
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01:27:41
She's still his sister, so he has to
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01:27:42
take care of his sister.
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01:27:46
K. She's not full sister. She's a sister
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01:27:49
from his mother's side. Right?
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01:27:54
Sir,
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01:27:59
you are saying the stepsister?
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01:28:04
Yes, Sheikh. Stepsister.
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01:28:10
From the same father, but a different mother.
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01:28:12
Okay.
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01:28:15
So here's his sister,
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01:28:16
no doubt,
01:28:18 -->
01:28:19
from the father's side.
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01:28:22
So he's responsible
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01:28:23
to take care of his sister.
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01:28:24
He's her.
01:28:26 -->
01:28:26
So
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01:28:29
he has to,
01:28:30 -->
01:28:32
help her when she is in need.
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01:28:36
So the the the rights of, whether,
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01:28:41
like, a full sister from both sides, mother
01:28:41 -->
01:28:43
and and father. She is your sister.
01:28:45 -->
01:28:47
So the rights for the sister
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01:28:48
was
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01:28:49
for
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01:28:52
from father and mother and or and sister
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01:28:55
from father's side only or from the mother's
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01:28:56
side only.
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01:28:58
You have to give them the rights and
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01:28:59
take care of them
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01:29:03
Take care of them.
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01:29:08
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:29:14 -->
01:29:15
We go to the next question.
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01:29:26
Today, in the prayer for rain, when the
01:29:26 -->
01:29:28
imam was turning his
01:29:29 -->
01:29:30
inside out,
01:29:30 -->
01:29:32
I did nothing because I don't know the
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01:29:34
ruling for the woman. So I want to
01:29:34 -->
01:29:37
know what I did. Was that correct or
01:29:37 -->
01:29:38
not?
01:29:39 -->
01:29:40
No. It's okay.
01:29:43 -->
01:29:44
K? Because this is the
01:29:45 -->
01:29:48
the the imam. He removed the cloak and
01:29:48 -->
01:29:48
the,
01:29:50 -->
01:29:50
and he
01:29:51 -->
01:29:52
changed it. That is.
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01:29:55
That's it. That's only
01:29:56 -->
01:29:59
it's a it's not something mandatory of
01:30:00 -->
01:30:02
if you don't do it, you are sinful.
01:30:02 -->
01:30:03
No?
01:30:04 -->
01:30:05
Next question.
01:30:09 -->
01:30:09
The next
01:30:15 -->
01:30:16
question. What can you tell us about the
01:30:16 -->
01:30:19
dua which shall be read at
01:30:20 -->
01:30:20
and starts
01:30:21 -->
01:30:25
Allahu Akbar Kabira, Allahu Akbar Kabira, Allahu Akbar
01:30:25 -->
01:30:26
Kabira, and
01:30:27 -->
01:30:27
for
01:30:36 -->
01:30:37
3 times times
01:30:39 -->
01:30:40
3.
01:30:41 -->
01:30:42
The, the dua,
01:30:43 -->
01:30:45
it is there in the sunnah,
01:30:46 -->
01:30:49
but, whether to repeat it this as you
01:30:49 -->
01:30:49
mentioned,
01:30:50 -->
01:30:51
I need to,
01:30:52 -->
01:30:52
cross check.
01:30:53 -->
01:30:55
But what the the
01:30:56 -->
01:30:56
the the prophet
01:30:57 -->
01:30:58
taught us in the
01:31:00 -->
01:31:02
that we start the
01:31:02 -->
01:31:04
with the famous dua
01:31:05 -->
01:31:07
with 2 rakat light, short ones,
01:31:08 -->
01:31:10
and that is where you start
01:31:27 -->
01:31:29
This is how we you start your
01:31:31 -->
01:31:31
at night.
01:31:34 -->
01:31:35
Is this clear to the questioner?
01:31:41 -->
01:31:42
If not,
01:31:43 -->
01:31:44
they can
01:31:45 -->
01:31:47
send another question
01:31:47 -->
01:31:48
back.
01:31:54 -->
01:31:56
Sheikh, that was our final question. If you'd
01:31:56 -->
01:31:56
like to conclude.
01:32:00 -->
01:32:01
May Allah
01:32:01 -->
01:32:03
bless you. May Allah
01:32:04 -->
01:32:06
bless your family, protect you, protect your family.
01:32:06 -->
01:32:07
May Allah
01:32:08 -->
01:32:11
grant us the beneficial knowledge and righteous deeds.
01:32:13 -->
01:32:14
And may Allah
01:32:15 -->
01:32:17
remain steadfast with this beautiful
01:32:18 -->
01:32:18
deen
01:32:19 -->
01:32:19
till
01:32:20 -->
01:32:22
we meet him and find him pleased with
01:32:22 -->
01:32:23
all of us.
01:32:24 -->
01:32:25
Until we meet
01:32:26 -->
01:32:28
in the coming session, I leave you in
01:32:28 -->
01:32:29
Allah's company
01:32:30 -->
01:32:30
and protection.
