Said Rageah – Flee To Allah Lecture Part 1

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The transcript describes a woman who lost everything and found herself completely paralyzed, leading her to get married to her son. She eventually found herself completely paralyzed again and eventually found herself completely paralyzed again. She eventually found herself completely paralyzed again and eventually found herself completely paralyzed again. She eventually found herself completely paralyzed again and eventually found herself completely paralyzed again. She eventually found herself completely paralyzed again and eventually found herself completely paralyzed again. She eventually found herself completely paralyzed again and eventually found herself completely paralyzed again.

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			What's going on?
		
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			Please welcome
		
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			and Sharma
		
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			glad tidings that we will have two amazing shifts in Sharma
		
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			they too good to me.
		
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			So that's why I'm sitting here. Good, very good shade of a walker is so
		
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			happy to have him here with us.
		
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			And the shout out, people shout out for everybody. So have that timing, they will be complete
maturity shall not. And after that maybe we'll have some refreshments? I don't know. I think so. I
hope so
		
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			far
		
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			and after that inshallah
		
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			when we finish them How about because the shot starts at 30. And we can pray until midnight. So we
finish them how God and the US after that great shot, he was the longest running.
		
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			Please welcome I am the chairman of MCC Muslim concert of Calgary, the umbrella that created all
those mazagon I will work as one of them. So please welcome
		
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			without me.
		
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			I'm Sarah Marie.
		
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			So I'd like to welcome you all here tonight to Sean bar, we have a good turnout. And this is
		
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			a very good indicator especially for the Muslim council that people Muslims are always seeking
knowledge and are always thirsty for knowledge and, and so this makes me very happy
		
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			to welcome you all tonight. Thank you all for coming out tonight.
		
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			I also want to thank our guest demands, Chef happy many should say specifically I would like to say
chef who was
		
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			who worked very hard on putting this event together. Brother Hopper was apparently the president of
working with some and the Management Committee report that we saw a lot. Obviously, this
		
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			this cannot happen without your support and your ongoing support. So inshallah I want to encourage
all of you to continue to support this muslima and continue to frequent this was a shocker. So just
		
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			enjoy your evening to me.
		
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			How do we learn tanara Jean smilla rahmanir rahim
		
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			in Alhamdulillah in a meadow monastery in ohana study
		
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			on our other Billahi min shallowly and fusina woman say RTR Melina, Mei de la hufa mobila woman you
will follow her de Allah. Portia de
		
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			la la hora de hula Sheree Kala wash Adana Mohammed Abu hora solo yeah you're Latina man oh taco la
haka. tokachi. Wala tomo tuna in LA one to musli Moon. Yeah yohanna su taco de como la de la la
communists in LA Haider. wahala come in has o jaha. Or betheme in humeri. Jalan Cafiero one is
		
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			what are called La la de
		
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			Luna v one or ham in La kanani Kumara peba Yeah, yo Holla
		
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			Holla Holla Holla Colin sadita useless Sheila Kumar man come
		
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			back home. Woman you parilla how are sola hufa codfather phones and Ravi man my bad my brothers and
sisters and it's in Islam.
		
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			salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		
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			This naseeha is entitled,
		
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			The amazing story.
		
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			And it is an amazing story because it is a real life story. It is a real life event that took place.
		
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			It is a story that has inspired people in the past, anyone who came in touch with this story was
inspired by this story. And anyone who gets to know it likewise, becomes inspired by this story. So
it is my sincere
		
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			Hope tonight in sha Allah, that all the brothers and sisters who are present will relate to this
story and will benefit inshallah, to Allah. And then we'll pass on this information to others who
are not with us here tonight. So without any further introduction, I will begin the story.
		
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			One night, the Merciful loving mother went to sleep,
		
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			only for her sleep to be interrupted by a scary dream. In her dream, she saw a woman who came to her
and say to her, when your son turns 18, he will die.
		
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			She woke up terrified from this dream that she had just seen.
		
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			She decided to keep this dream, a secret, buried deep inside her conscience, and never told anyone
about it until her son turned 18. And he went beyond 18. And he became 19 years of age. She then
breathed a sigh of relief, and then decided that she should share this dream with one of our close
relatives. She told her that she had seen such and such a dream, and that 18 years had gone by, and
that nothing had happened to her son.
		
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			Around this time, the father of this youth, this young man, whose name was oma, he called out to his
son,
		
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			Abdullah. So this is the real life story of one. Abdullah bin Omar benina.
		
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			He He is from an array from a hacker army family. He is of Yemeni descent,
		
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			but lives in more than de mcgillicutty, Serbia, Saudi Arabia. He was born into a religious and a
respectful family. This young brother, he lived just like any
		
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			any one of his age group, moving to and forth between his home and school.
		
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			When he became a youth
		
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			he befriended a group of friends that introduced him to smoking.
		
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			Now, this news, this information that he used to smoke, it got to his father, it reached his father.
And he became very upset. He called out to his son,
		
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			Yama, * to the Finn or Abdullah. Is it true that he smoke? Abdullah says,
		
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			I don't smoke. And so the father says to him, axiom swear by Allah, that you don't smoke. And the
young man without any hesitation, he swears by Almighty Allah that He doesn't smoke.
		
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			But deep in his heart, he knew that he was lying. So his father say to him, Tyler Lockwood,
		
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			his father say to him Kesava la hora betech, in contact to the when May Allah break your neck if it
is true that he smoke
		
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			and this curse, it went by just like many other courses that are pronounced by parents, against
their children wahaca alone. And this is a grave mistake that is committed by parents, when they
cause their children.
		
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			Whenever you sallallahu alayhi wa sallam know her and he had to do and why did Allah whether the for
the Messenger of Allah, he has forbidden that a parent should invoke Allah scars or should make a
supplication or a curse against the children. I love her and to see the outward
		
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			agenda for when a parent pronounces a curse. It is a prayer. It is a supplication and sometimes the
parent doesn't know. it coincides with the time when Allah answers the prayers, and it goes directly
to Allah subhanho wa Taala.
		
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			So this father aroma, he made this curse on his son.
		
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			But he did not know that this curse is tougher at Elijah with sama that it went all the way to the
heavens will foot the hekla bourbon aegir back to our Sangha and the doors of the heavens were open
for this cars.
		
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			lol lm well an lm one n o mozzarella, not defy the new, nor the Son nor the mother. The display this
case had gone and had been accepted.
		
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			The scene in which Abdullah declared his innocence was over. And so that night, Abdullah went to
sleep,
		
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			only to be woken up by his father for selection fudger Abdullah says, today I have to be listed. I
pretended that I was waking up. So malaman sort of unguided in a Masjid, or to the Anam. When I was
sure that my father had left the door and he had gone to the masjid, I decided to go back to sleep
was taken to bear their hair, Lily, hackable madrasa and I only woke up at the time when I have to
get get ready and go to school.
		
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			Abdullah, however, he never used to go to school. He and his friend had come up with tricks. And so
he would lie to his parents that he was going to school. But together with his friends, they would
go to different places in the city, and they would hang out together. But to school, he never went.
And so this day was no different from the other days. on that particular day, they decided to go for
swimming. And so they went to one of the city's pools, the city of Rio, and they decided to go for
swimming.
		
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			Abdullah says that when he was ready to swim, he went up the diving board, three meters up from the
swimming pool, and then he decided to take a plunge. He decided to dive into the, into the pool. He
says
		
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			as soon as I entered the water, and my buddy came into touch with the pool. He said
		
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			inherit Halla.
		
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			Just me kulu Allah Kabati, I felt the whole weight of my body, piling the pressure on my neck.
		
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			He says, submit to for karate for karate Raka batty title man.
		
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			I could hear the breaking sound of my neck. As I took a plant inside the water filter that came to
him or her that whatever led at that moment of time I remembered the cars that was pronounced by my
father. Allahu Allah. The life of Abdullah venema is about to change by Allah decree. underneath the
water. He says his whole body was piling pressure on his neck. And consequently he broke three bones
from his vertebra. Abdullah says that underneath the water, he was struggling to hold his breath.
		
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			And for five minutes that he was holding his breath underneath the water. His whole life started
playing in his mind like a movie. Everything that he used to do, he says
		
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			15 minute mount
		
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			Leanna Neelam aka Tim Shea and he says that I fear to die in the state. For I was unrestrained. As a
young person, I used to do everything that I wanted.
		
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			At the same time, I took an oath by Allah and lie to my father. And I used to smoke. And I used to
do all kinds of things, he says is all the events were playing in my mind. I remember that unique
event. When I was a little kid. I would pass by an old woman who would be sitting on the street and
bag and then I would give her some money. Anything that I could spare from my pocket money, I used
to give it to her. And she used to raise up her hand and make a dog for me. And then he says, what
are the cat two females that occurred? And then the Vienna sallallahu alayhi wasallam upon mankind
pseudocolor Amina dunia La ilaha illAllah, the halal Jenna and then I remember the Hadith of the
		
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			Messenger of Allah, Whosoever whose final words in this life is La ilaha illa Allah He will go to
Jenna for Berkeley to tempt him ob shefa de la ilaha illa Allah, He said I was trying to whisper to
myself that you know in the law, and the need there was water all this time, and none of his friends
knows what is happening underneath there. In fact, one of his friends says that he left the pool he
		
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			went outside, and he smoked a whole cigarette. And he came back and Abdullah was still underneath
the water. At this time they realize that their friend was in great danger. And so they quickly
dived into the water, and they took him out.
		
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			As they were trying to save him. Abdullah was like a lifeless body.
		
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			This young brother that was tall, with a strong built athletic, he used to practice different
sports.
		
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			Abdullah found himself
		
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			confined to a hospital bed,
		
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			and the doctors tried
		
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			to save his life.
		
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			And he would move between the hospital bed and the theater, and the doctors would cut him up and
stitch him up again, and he goes back to his bed.
		
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			Eventually, after four years of spending his time confined to a hospital bed, and when they realized
there was nothing they could do for him, they decided to take him home.
		
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			After four years, Abdullah found himself at home,
		
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			completely paralyzed from his neck downwards, up until his feet.
		
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			This brother, this young brother, who had so many dreams in life, and he had endless ambitions,
		
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			he became motionless in bed. Nothing moves from his body, except his tongue, his eyes and his heart,
and the rest of his body is lifeless.
		
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			Abdullah found himself with no friends.
		
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			And as he was lying in bed in the state,
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			woke up to find himself alone with no friends. Those who instead would incite him against his
parents, and make him not to go to school. Those who instead introduced him to smoking, those ones
that told him that he should lie to his parents. They were nowhere to be seen. Abdullah was all
alone.
		
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			Abdullah was asked about his wishes.
		
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			When he found himself completely helpless. What are your wishes
		
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			and Abdullah by Nima? He made three amazing wishes. And that is the first clip of the story that I
want to share with you tonight. The story of Abdullah venema and the first clip, which is the three
wishes of the Lavanya ama, please pay attention.
		
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			Hey,
		
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			finish soon
		
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			naturali was anticorrosion
		
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			Latina celtica de Lyonne militia
		
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			The three wishes that he had wished for was that he could prostrate before Allah subhanho wa Taala
something that he couldn't do when he was in that state. And he remembers when he was young and
healthy and full of life. He never used to praise Allah, just like so many young Muslims today who
don't have time for Salah. But when something bad happens to them, that is when they will wish that
they had given some time for Allah, and that they would have prayed for Allah.
		
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			So his first wish was to make sujood and never be able to lift his head from that sujood and that he
would die in that state. His second wish was that he if he could open the must have the Koran and
recite it. And many times when people would visit him, he used to ask them kafer Allah Campbell
Quran, how is your relationship with the Quran, he says I still he and only by our cattle must have.
He says how much I wish I could turn a page of the must have you people can do what I cannot.
		
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			And the third wish, he says is their own read. Or an on any other day. He could walk into his
mother's room and give her a hug or kiss her appreciating his mother. This amazing mother
		
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			to our brother Abdullah venema when Abdullah talks about his relationship with his mother, it is a
special relationship between a mother and her son. I've done let's say that I wake up so I wake up
so many times at night.
		
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			She effectively became my hands with which I eat. She became my eyes with which I see she became a
feet with which I walk she became practically everything for me in life.
		
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			His mother
		
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			is a very special human being to Abdullah
		
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			and so Abdullah in the second clip that I will show you relates his special relationship with his
mother. So brothers and sisters pay attention to the second clip as well.
		
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			Good
		
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			luck
		
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			Did you made them
		
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			into Leah mommy.
		
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			My second thought
		
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			Gonna
		
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			cold
		
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			call it material
		
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			Minnesota law
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			Abdullah Manhattan
		
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			remember Money
		
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			Mafia
		
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			como como
		
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			Hi my
		
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			name is Mika
		
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			nothing
		
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			was
		
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			lacking the home the purpose of it
		
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			whether they have a dlsr camera
		
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			we have a semi alfetta
		
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			festal Avenger only apana caliber
		
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			eliminate
		
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			coal fired in
		
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			Japan for rd
		
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			ma ma,
		
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			ma,
		
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			ma, ma, ma
		
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			ma ma bernama television.
		
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			And even when Abdullah was asked about his relationship with his father,
		
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			his father who cursed him
		
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			and what happened to him was as a result of his father's cars, he say that I will not permit anyone
to criticize my father.
		
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			Whoever it is, if my father curse me, it is because of me and what I did, not because of my father,
		
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			and when Abdullah
		
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			found himself
		
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			completely paralyzed
		
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			In bed, unable to do anything
		
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			forsaken by his friends, and the only people who came to him, while the people who used to pray in
the local Masjid. And so they would come to him and visit him in order to learn something from him,
and to see for themselves, this young brother, who was so full of life, and then he ended up in that
state, and he to Abdullah, he also benefited from those people who would come to him in the message
from the messenger, and his whole life transformed. And he became a dairy a person in that state. He
became a person inviting other people to Allah, and how many a young brother who came to visit him
who used to smoke, anything that they smoke.
		
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			And after seeing him, they went back and they repented to Allah subhanho wa Taala. How many a person
who used to disrespect his parents, when they saw our Dhamma they went back and they changed their
lives. How many a person who had no time to open the door and they went back and decided to renew
their relationship with the Quran, before a time comes when they would wish to open the Koran, and
they would not get the chance to open the book of Allah subhana wa Taala. And so Abdullah used to
give naseeha to people. And eventually Abdullah became a famous person.
		
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			And he used to be invited to give live talk shows on TVs, just like the one that he sold. And on one
occasion, when Abdullah was doing a live TV show,
		
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			and there was an audience in the studio, and back home, millions of people were watching. And
amongst the audience's that were watching from home, was a young sister.
		
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			And this sister, she became touched by the story of Abdullah.
		
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			And so in the talk show was over. She said to her father, and her mother, that I want to get married
Abdullah.
		
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			Perhaps a person might think this was a decision that was taken in haste. She made a hasty decision.
Or perhaps something was wrong with her. Maybe she was also handicapped, disabled, just like
Abdullah. But no, this wasn't a decision that she had taken in haste. And no, she wasn't
handicapped, or disabled like Abdullah. This was a young, beautiful sister, who had dreams just like
any young person, her age.
		
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			And she had so much hopes in life.
		
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			But when she saw the story of Abdullah, and she became touched, she decided that she should get
married to this young brother. And her parents try to discourage her that she shouldn't get married
to this man. But she made up her mind. And through her mother, she convinced her father to accept
this. And so they decided to go and visit Abdullah and see this person with their own eyes. And
there are ups they say, lay seminara command center. Seeing is not the same as hearing.
		
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			When they saw I've done law, and there are the law is incapable of doing anything. He couldn't do a
thing for himself.
		
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			She could have changed her mind.
		
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			But she became even stronger. And she decided that this was the person she wanted for the rest of
her life.
		
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			And even her cousin brother.
		
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			He tried to
		
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			talk her father out of it and say that if you cancel this engagement to this young man, I will pay a
million reals, which is the equivalent of more than 300,000 US dollars, if you cancel the
engagement, and I get to marry the sister.
		
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			But this young sister, she had already made up her mind that she was going to get married to
Abdullah Abdullah say to her on this occasion. She said to him, that if I get married to you,
		
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			my mother will come first. She will come second, she will come third. You will only be the fourth
person or the fifth person in my life.
		
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			She could have changed her mind. But she decided to go ahead
		
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			and many attempts you would say to Abdullah
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			And who the biotic Lena three ryla Jonathan Alba sama. Oh Abdullah, I wish to hold you by your hand
and be able to fly with you in general.
		
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			And so the two families agreed that Abdullah should get married to the sister. However, there was
one obstacle.
		
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			This sister is a Cerruti national.
		
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			Abdullah is a Yemeni who lives in in Sarah dia with apartment with a residence permit. And the laws
of that country it states that if you are an answer, Rudy, you cannot marry Rudy.
		
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			And so the scholars are in Manhattan and the scholars, they had to make sure they had to intercede
with the authorities. And finally the authorities gave permission and permission was given to
Abdullah to get married to the system.
		
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			And the wedding of Abdullah Bananarama took place.
		
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			And people came from all corners to witness this amazing wedding. People came from as far as Egypt,
from Qatar, from Bahrain, from Kuwait, and others yet they watch this wedding as it was streaming
live on the TV. And so the final clip which will conclude the story of Abdullah banana is Abdullah
bananas wedding
		
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			This is minus C
		
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			to all the brothers who are here tonight and all the sisters Likewise
		
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			I know nobody's perfect.
		
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			But the truth is,
		
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			we will never be able to repay back the kindness of our mothers.
		
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			I know so many young brothers,
		
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			they have brought nothing to their parents lives, and in particular to their mothers lives except
misery.
		
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			How many times they make them cry tears, and they make them feel helpless.
		
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			But I promise you one thing young brother,
		
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			that if you make your mother's life * on this earth, then I give you this promise of Allah,
		
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			that Allah will make your life * on this earth.
		
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			If you don't do your parents good and justice, then Allah He will deal with you. This is a promise
of Allah subhanho wa Taala how many parents are in a state of despair and helplessness because of
what their children do to them. Picture this. They brought you to this country because they wanted
to give you the best in life.
		
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			They sacrifice the place that they were born in, that they grew up in, that they were used to. And
they migrated here just because they wanted to give you the best opportunity in life. But when you
came here, what did you do to them?
		
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			You tortured them tormented them.
		
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			turn their lives into misery. But Allah subhana wa Tada.
		
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			He was watching all along what you're doing to them.
		
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			And he had his ways of taking his revenge on people who disrespect their parents.
		
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			Try and picture the anguish of a mother,
		
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			a brother when I was in the city of Ottawa,
		
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			this is a brother who runs a travel agency. He told me that a Muslim mother migrated to this country
with four of her children. She used to live in Serbia, which is a Muslim country, and their husband
used to make good money. So when she decided to come here, her husband tried to discourage her. He
told her, we don't need to go there. We have a good life here. We earn good money. Why do you want
to go there? But you know what? her picture the picture she had of this place was, this must be
Jenna, this must be paradise on this earth. And so she badly wanted to come here. She was stoned,
all the mothers and the sisters, they're driving big cars. And at the end of the month, they make
		
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			money. And so she wanted to live this kind of life. In the back of her mind, this was freedom.
		
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			And so when their husband tried to discourage her and then work, she decided to make a dinner and
she migrated here.
		
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			The brother, the young men, three boys and one girl.
		
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			The boys grew up so fast. They already teenagers when they came to this country. And then they
decided to move to Edmonton.
		
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			They went to Edmonton.
		
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			And three of the boys got involved in drugs.
		
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			Two of them, they got killed in the same year.
		
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			The third one, he committed murder, and he's now serving a lifetime in prison.
		
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			As for the girl,
		
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			she became a prostitute.
		
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			What is this mother left with?
		
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			She goes to the nursery, the brother who owns the travel agency, and she gives him some money. She
says brother, I just need a one way ticket. I came here with my children. I came here with my Dean,
I have lost everything. I have no hope for life anymore. I just need to leave.
		
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			I remember I was in one of the massage it in the city of Minneapolis on the 27th night of Ramadan.
		
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			And people were praying to her Jude, and Amanda sends a written request. She says I want people to
remember me in my door.
		
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			I came with seven of my children to this country. And today I do not have a single of my children
with me all have scattered and gone.
		
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			Go to any Muslim home. It is a challenge in men regime or a book except except the ones that Allah
has exempted with his mercy. And you will see and you will hear parents talking about the difficulty
that they have in raising their children in this environment. When I was in Ottawa in Ramadan, a
father inside the masjid in Ramadan, he was cursing his own children.
		
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			He had given up on them. And so all he could do was just curse them and call them all kinds of
names.
		
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			Do you know one thing my brothers, I wouldn't blame the children entirely. The parents do. They have
a big role to play. They have a great responsibility that they have shoulder. But they have not
fulfilled that responsibility.
		
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			When they came here,
		
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			with this, with the mindset that this is the place to make money. We all have to accept one thing
that people migrated and they came here simply because of dunya nothing else. That is a reason why
people came here in order to make money. But in the process of making money, they lost everything.
They lost their Dean, and consequently they lost their families.
		
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			So why blame the children only
		
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			you go to the masjid.
		
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			I prayed in the same message that I gave hope by your mama and MSG, this massive, amazing huge your
messages. The message was completely full.
		
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			So that's all for today.
		
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			As I took a plant inside the water, filter the character Hina her that whatever led at that moment
of time I remembered the curse that was pronounced by my father. Allah Allah, the life of Abdullah
venema is about to change by Allah decree. underneath the water. He says his whole body was piling
pressure on his neck. And consequently he broke three bonds from his vertebra. Abdullah says they're
underneath the water. He was struggling to hold his breath.
		
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			And for five minutes that he was holding his breath underneath the water. His whole life started
playing in his mind like a movie. Everything that he used to do, he says
		
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			15 minute mount
		
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			Leanna Neelam aka dem Shea and he says that I fear to die in the state. For I was unrestrained. As a
young person, I used to do everything that I wanted.
		
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			At the same time, I took an oath by Allah and lie to my father. And I used to smoke. And I used to
do all kinds of things, he says is all the events were playing in my mind? I remember the unique
event. When I was a little kid, I will pass by an old woman who would be sitting on the street and
bag and then I would give her some money, anything that I could spare from my pocket money, I used
to give it to her. And she used to raise up her hand and make $1 for me. And then he says, what are
the cat two females that occurred? And then ebina sallallahu alayhi wa sallam upon mankind
pseudoscalar Amina Daniela Illa Illa Allah, the halogen. And then I remember the Hadith of the
		
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			Messenger of Allah, Whosoever whose final words in this life is La ilaha illa Allah, He will go to
Jenna Ferber Quito, Tim Tim ob shefa de la ilaha illAllah. He said, I was trying to whisper to
myself La Ilaha Illa underneath the water all this time, and none of his friends knows what is
happening underneath there. In fact, one of his friends says that he left the pool, he went outside,
and he smoked a whole cigarette, and he came back and Abdullah was still underneath the water. At
this time, they realize that their friend was in great danger. And so they quickly dived into the
water, and they took him out.
		
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			As they were trying to save him. Abdullah was like a lifeless body.
		
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			This young brother that was tall, with a strong built athletic, he used to practice different
sports.
		
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			Abdullah found himself
		
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			confined to a hospital bed,
		
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			and the doctors tried
		
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			to save his life.
		
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			And he would move between the hospital bed and the theater. And the doctors would carry him up and
stitch him up again. And he goes back to his bed.
		
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			Eventually, after four years of spending his time confined to a hospital bed, and when they realized
there was nothing they could do for him, they decided to take him home.
		
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			After four years, Abdullah found himself at home
		
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			completely paralyzed from his neck downwards up until his feet.
		
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			This brother, this young brother, who had so many dreams in life, and he had endless ambitions.
		
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			He became motionless in bed. Nothing moves from his body, except his tongue, his eyes and his heart,
and the rest of his body is lifeless.
		
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			Abdullah found himself with no friends.
		
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			And as he was lying in bed in the state,
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			woke up to find himself alone with no friends. Those who instead would incite him against his
parents and make him not to go to school. Those who instead introduced him to smoking. Those ones
that told him that he should lie to his parents. They were nowhere to be seen. Abdullah was all
alone.
		
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			Abdullah was asked about his wishes
		
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			when he found himself completely helpless. What are your wishes
		
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			and Abdullah venema he made three amazing wishes. And that is the first clip of the story that I
want to share with you tonight. The story of Abdullah by Nima and the first clip, which is the three
wishes of Abdullah van Yama, please pay attention.
		
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			Hello, can you
		
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			hear
		
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			me?
		
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			Otherwise, the lateral Dolly was anticorrosion
		
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			Latinos eltek Abdullah and Han militia
		
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			Masada
		
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			Michelle,
		
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			the three wishes that he had wished for was that he could prostrate before Allah subhanho wa Taala
something that he couldn't do when he was in that state. And he remembers when he was young and
healthy and full of life. He never used to praise Allah, just like so many young Muslims today who
don't have time for Salah. But when something bad happens to them, that is when they will wish that
they had given some time for Allah and that they would have prayed Salah
		
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			so his first wish was to make sujood and never be able to lift his head from that sujood and that he
would die in that state. His second wish was that if he could open the Muslim the Koran and recite
it and many times when people would visit him, he used to ask them kafer Allah to combine Quran? How
is your relationship with the Quran? He says I shall he and oh can leave our cattle must have. He
says how much I wish I could turn a page of the must have you people can do what I cannot.
		
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			And the third wish he says is that on read or an on any other day. He could walk into his mother's
room and give her a hug or kiss her appreciating his mother. This amazing mother
		
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			to our brother Abdullah venema when I've done a lot of talks about his relationship with his mother,
it is a special relationship between
		
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			My mother and her son. I've done let's say that I wake up so I wake up so many times at night.
		
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			She effectively became my hands with which I eat. She became my eyes with which I see she became a
feat with which I walk. She became practically everything for me in life.
		
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			His mother
		
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			is a very special human being to Abdullah.
		
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			And so Abdullah in the second clip that I will show you relates his special relationship with his
mother. So brothers and sisters, pay attention to the second clip as well.
		
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			You need them
		
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			into the Amami.
		
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			Gentlemen,
		
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			my second thought,
		
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			duty
		
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			collect material.
		
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			Give it to me.
		
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			Minnesota.
		
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			Winter for the Zodiac.
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			Abdullah
		
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			remember Money
		
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			Mafia
		
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			Hi my
		
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			name is Mika
		
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			lacking the home the purpose
		
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			for data
		
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			quality Habibi, hasakah. Member
		
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			we have a semi alpha, our festal Avenger only apana caliber
		
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			eliminate
		
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			nada
		
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			cofilin,
		
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			Japan for rd
		
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			cafe
		
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			in
		
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			Milan,
		
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			hello
		
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			to my grandma, my
		
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			grandma my television.
		
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			And even when Abdullah was asked about his relationship with his father,
		
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			his father who cursed him.
		
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			And what happened to him was as a result of his father's cars, he say that I will not permit anyone
to criticize my father,
		
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			whoever it is, if my father curse me, it is because of me and what I did, not because of my father.
		
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			And when I've done love,
		
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			found himself
		
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			completely paralyzed, in bed, unable to do anything
		
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			forsaken by his friends. And the only people who came to him were the people who used to pray in the
local Masjid. And so they would come to him and visit him in order to learn something from him, and
to see for themselves, this young brother, who was so full of life, and then he ended up in that
state, and he to Abdullah, he also benefited from those people who would come to him in the message
from the ministry, and his whole life transformed. And he became a dairy a person in that state. He
became a person inviting other people to Allah, and how many a young brother who came to visit him
who used to smoke, anything that they smoke.
		
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			And after seeing him, they went back and they repented to Allah subhanho wa Taala how many a person
who used to disrespect his parents, when they saw Abdullah, they went back and they changed their
lives. How many person who had no time to open the Koran, they went back and decided to renew their
relationship with the Quran. Before a time comes when they would wish to open the Quran, and they
would not get the chance to open the book of Allah subhanho wa Taala. And so Abdullah used to give
an A c hat to people. And eventually Abdullah became a famous person.
		
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			And he used to be invited to give live talk shows on TVs just like the one that he sold. And on one
occasion, when Abdullah was doing a live TV show,
		
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			and there was an audience in the studio, and back home millions of people were watching. And amongst
the audience's that were watching from home, was the young sister
		
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			and the sister she became touched by the story of Abdullah
		
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			and so when the talk show was over, she said to her father and her mother, that I want to get
married.
		
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			Perhaps a person might think this was a decision that was taken in haste. She made a hasty decision.
		
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			Or perhaps something was wrong with her. Maybe she was also handicap disabled just like Abdullah.
But no, this wasn't a decision that she had taken in haste. And no, she wasn't handicapped, or
disabled like at Dunbar. This was a young, beautiful sister, who had dreams just like any young
person, her age.
		
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			And she had so much hopes in life.
		
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			But when she saw the story of Abdullah, and she became touched, she decided that she should get
married to this young brother. And her parents try to discourage her that she shouldn't get married
to this man. But she made up her mind. And through her mother, she convinced her father to accept
this. And so they decided to go and visit Abdullah and see this person with their own eyes. And
there are ups they say, lay seminara command center. Seeing is not the same as hearing.
		
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			When they saw I've done law, and there are Delos incapable of doing anything. He couldn't do a thing
for himself.
		
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			She could have changed her mind.
		
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			But she became even stronger. And she decided that this was the person she wanted for the rest of
her life.
		
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			And even her cousin brother.
		
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			He tried to
		
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			talk her father out of it and say that if you cancel this engagement to this young man, I will pay a
million reals, which is the equivalent of more than 300,000 US dollars, if you cancel the
engagement, and I get to marry the sister.
		
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			But this young sister, she had already made up her mind that she was going to get married to
Abdullah Abdullah say to her on this occasion. She said to him, that if I get married to you,
		
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			my mother will come first. She will come second, she will come third. You will only be the fourth
person or the fifth person in my life.
		
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			She could have changed her mind. But she decided to go ahead
		
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			and many attempts you would say to Abdullah Abdullah and erhu the biotic Lena Tierra de la gente
navassa ma. Oh Abdullah, I wish to hold you by your hand and be able to fly with you in general.
		
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			And so the two families agreed that Abdullah should get married to the sister. However, there was
one obstacle.
		
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			This sister is a Cerruti national.
		
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			Abdullah is a Yemeni who lives in in Serbia, with apartment with a residence apartment and the laws
of that country. It states that if you are an answer, Rudy, you cannot marry sir Rudy.
		
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			And so the scholars in metal harem and the scholars, they had to make sure they had to intercede
with the authorities. And finally the authorities gave permission and permission was given to
Abdullah to get married to the sister
		
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			and the wedding of Abdullah Bananarama took place.
		
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			And people came from all corners to witness this amazing wedding. People came from as far as Egypt,
from Qatar, from Bahrain, from Kuwait, and others yet they watch this wedding as it was streaming
live on the TV. And so the final clip which will conclude the story of Abdullah bin Yama is Abdullah
Diana's wedding.
		
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			This is minus
		
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			two all the brothers who are here tonight and all the sisters likewise.
		
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			I know nobody's perfect.
		
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			But the truth is,
		
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			we will never be able to repay back the kindness of our mothers.
		
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			I know so many young brothers,
		
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			they have brought nothing to their parents lives, and in particular to their mothers nice except
misery.
		
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			How many times they make them cry tears, and they make them feel helpless.
		
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			But I promise you one thing, young brother,
		
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			that if you make your mother's life, * on this earth, then I give you this promise of Allah,
		
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			that Allah will make your life * on this earth.
		
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			If you don't do your parents good and justice, then Allah He will deal with you. This is a promise
of Allah subhanho wa Taala. How many parents are in a state of despair and helplessness because of
what their children do to them. Picture this. They brought you to this country, because they wanted
to give you the best in life. They sacrifice the place that they were born in, that they grew up in,
that they were used to. And they migrated here, just because they wanted to give you the best
opportunity in life. But when you came here, what did you do to them?
		
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			You tortured them, tormented them, turn their lives into misery. But Allah subhana wa Tada.
		
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			He was watching all along what you're doing to them.
		
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			And he had his ways of taking his revenge on people who disrespect their parents.
		
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			Try and picture the anguish of a mother,
		
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			a brother when I was in the city of Ottawa.
		
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			This is a brother who runs a travel agency. He told me that a Muslim mother migrated to this country
with four of her children. She used to live in Serbia, which is a Muslim country. And it has been
used to make good money. So when she decided to come here, her husband tried to discourage her. He
told her we don't need to go there. We have a good life here. We earn good money. Why do you want to
go there? But you know what? her picture the picture she had of this place was, this must be Jenna,
this must be paradise on this earth. And so she badly wanted to come here. She was stoled. All the
mothers and the sisters, they're driving big cars. And at the end of the month, they make money. And
		
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			so she wanted to live this kind of life. In the back of her mind. This was freedom.
		
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			And so when the husband tried to discourage handed then work, she decided to make a dinner and she
migrated here.
		
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			The brother the young men, three boys and one girl.
		
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			The boys grew up so fast. They already teenagers when they came to this country. And then they
decided to move to Edmonton.
		
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			They went to Edmonton.
		
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			And three of the boys got involved in drugs.
		
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			Two of them. They got killed in the same year.
		
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			The third one, he committed murder and his now serving a lifetime in prison.
		
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			As for the girl, she became a prostitute.
		
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			What is this mother left with?
		
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			She goes to the nursery the brother who owns the travel agency, and she gives him some money. She
says brother, I just need a one way ticket. I came here with my children. I came here with my Dean
		
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			I have lost everything. I have no hope for life anymore. I just need to leave.
		
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			I remember I was in one of the massage it in the city of Minneapolis on the 27th night of Ramadan.
		
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			And people were praying to her Jude, and Amanda sends a written request. She says, I want people to
remember me in my day.
		
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			I came with seven of my children to this country. And today I do not have a single of my children
with me, all have scattered and gone.
		
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			Go to any Muslim home. It is a challenge a man regime or a book, except except the ones that Allah
has exempted with his mercy. And you will see and you will hear parents talking about the difficulty
that they have in raising their children in this environment. When I was in Ottawa in Ramadan, a
father inside the masjid in Ramadan, he was cursing his own children.
		
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			He had given up on them. And so all he could do was just curse them and call them all kinds of
names.
		
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			Do you know one thing my brothers, I wouldn't blame the children entirely. The parents do. They have
a big role to play. They have a great responsibility that they have shoulder but they have not
fulfilled that responsibility.
		
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			When they came here,
		
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			with this, with the mindset, that this is the place to make money. We all have to accept one thing
that people migrated and they came here simply because of dunya nothing else. That is a reason why
people came here in order to make money. But in the process of making money, they lost everything.
They lost their Deen and consequently they lost their families.
		
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			So why blame the children only
		
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			you go to the masjid.
		
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			I prayed in the same message that I gave hope by your mama. And they messaged you this massive
amazing huge Yama Juma The message was completely full.
		
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			So natural fudger today