Sadullah Khan – Parables and Wisdom from the Quran (Invitation not Argumtentation) Night 13

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The Bible uses the phrase "ocean's guidance" to emphasize the importance of seeking out guidance in the faith. Elders with criticized actions and speakers' routes are highlighted. The importance of truthful advice is emphasized, along with the need for caution in discussing political arguments and being a message taker. It is emphasized that avoiding abusive behavior and being a message taker is crucial to avoiding political arguments.

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			for annual Kareem, Knights of
empowerment, parables and wisdom
		
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			from the Glorious Quran,
		
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			we reflect on an instructive,
increasing and destructive
		
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			religious arguments are
unfortunately the norm in the
		
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			order of the day.
		
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			We tend to argue about our
religion. So the verse at hand,
		
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			provides the basis for engaging
those who we invite into the
		
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			faith, but also a means whereby we
can engage those with whom we
		
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			differ on matters of religion. The
verse reads Oduro Illa Sebelius,
		
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			Rebecca Bill Hekmati will know
about elhassan Bucha dill who've
		
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			been naughty hear us and invite
all to the way of your Lord with
		
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			wisdom and beautiful preaching,
and argue with them only in the
		
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			best possible manner.
		
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			Now, the first word in this verse
is odo. Odo means invite.
		
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			An invitation is an act of
friendship.
		
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			And therefore, the very nature of
invitation, the very nature of
		
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			Dawa the very nature denies the
possibility of hostility. You
		
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			don't invite someone in a hostile
manner. Invitation is warm, it's
		
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			embracing, it is welcoming is
gentle. And therefore insult,
		
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			offensiveness can never appeal to
anyone, neither to the hearts nor
		
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			to the minds, and certainly not to
the souls. So it could never be a
		
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			basis for invitation.
		
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			The invitation is superior of back
to the way of Allah
		
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			not to a destination. Remember,
when you invite someone, you
		
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			invite them to a venue. Allah
doesn't give a venue yet, He gives
		
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			Sebelius topic
		
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			because people are at different
stages in the journey towards
		
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			Allah. Some are more advanced in
some things, some are more back in
		
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			some things, some character is
better, some behaviors weaker,
		
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			some are closer to Allah in the
prayer, some do more charity,
		
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			but we are different places. But
it's the path the call is you the
		
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			path. And though we may be in
different stages on the way, as
		
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			long as you're on the path, you
are on the track, this is
		
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			something we tend to forget do not
expect everyone to be at the same
		
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			destination or the same place. And
therefore do not be judgmental,
		
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			about whether where people are on
the journey or the vendor
		
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			invitation is in the DUA, eat
dinner, sit all films the chemo
		
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			Allah guide us to the world more
evil till Hassan
		
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			Hikmah implies realizing what is
good, and doing what is best in
		
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			any given situation. Wisdom
implies
		
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			knowing what is good to be able to
analyze what is the good thing
		
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			here, and to do what is best in
that situation, saying the right
		
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			thing at the right time in the
right manner. And of course, with
		
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			the right intention Hikmah one
more that elhassan Beautiful
		
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			preaching or excellent admonition.
And this means offering truthful
		
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			advice in a way that the receiver
to whom it is addressed, we'll
		
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			find it a plea appealing
appealing, as well as is done in
		
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			an most appropriate manner.
		
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			So Hikmah with wisdom, an
excellent admonition more than
		
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			hasna and if there is a debate and
the ease in argument due to
		
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			difference of perspectives, then
what God looks at us and an argue
		
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			not in a good way the Quran
doesn't say what God did on bility
		
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			he has an ohana or Jad Illuminati
as an argue in the way that's the
		
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			best only the best possible way.
Good is not good enough.
		
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			This
		
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			and people have excused say the
truth. You know I must be the
		
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			truth. It doesn't mean you will be
vulgar just be the truth. I know
		
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			the law school said Coolock when
Carla Maura speak the truth, even
		
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			with butter. It is not a license
for you to lose your temper,
		
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			becoming angry and abusive,
because we should never be vulgar.
		
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			In the content of our message.
Never be abusive in the manner of
		
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			our speech. They also said Allah
Allah wa salam in the Hadith
		
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			documented in a similar manner to
me the vessel said lay cell
		
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			movement with Tara and while I've
been learned while she was already
		
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			a believer is never one who turns
in Jesus people. He's never one
		
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			who curses people. He's never
indecent, no easy, abusive. In
		
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			fact, such behavior could be a
mark of hypocrisy. When you're
		
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			abusive towards people we differ
with. It could be a sign of
		
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			hypocrisy, a very well known
tradition of Rasulullah in Sahih,
		
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			Bukhari and Sahih Muslim that are
socialized to limb said in the
		
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			Hadith, whoever possesses four
characteristics
		
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			He is truly a hypocrite. And if he
possesses any one of this, then he
		
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			is still partially a hypocrite
until he gives that thing up. What
		
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			are the four things is that to me
the Han what either had desert
		
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			caliber whether I had a father
with a costume or fragile when
		
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			he's entrusted with something, he
betrays the trust. He is
		
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			dishonest. When he speaks, he
tends to lie. When he makes an
		
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			agreement. He does not fulfill the
agreement. And when he argues with
		
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			someone, he tends to be
irresponsible and rude.
		
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			Imam Malik warned us through the
words of libido, with Allison ma
		
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			at Cheyenne as Hubballi Dini Walla
		
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			Walla,
		
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			Walla, middle, Maha Sangha. He
says, I've not seen him Malik says
		
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			teach everyone Shafi minute I have
not seen anything more harmful to
		
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			religion, more undermining of one
sense of honor and more
		
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			unnecessary in preoccupying our
emotions than disputation and
		
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			argumentation in religion. Imam
Shafi himself, student of Malik
		
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			teach of humble Imam Shafi said,
		
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			O'Meara Ophidian in your castle
called will you refer to her in?
		
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			He said, arguing about religion
hardens the heart, and it causes
		
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			grudges and resentment.
		
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			Let us consider the arch type of
oppression. The worst person you
		
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			can think of in the Quran is
filled out.
		
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			Allah describes him in the most
negative way for the kind of
		
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			oppression and injustice that he
caused. He is the archetype of
		
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			oppresses when Allah subhanho wa
Taala asked Musa alayhis, Salam to
		
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			the worst, oppressive you can get.
		
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			How does Allah say for kulula? Who
call Allah you know, that Allahu
		
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			Allah Karim? Oh, ye shall speak to
the Quran mildly, gently,
		
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			certainly. Perhaps he may accept
the admonition or perchance he may
		
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			fear Allah. So if you do end up in
a debate, or differences in
		
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			perspective, then the Quran
advises us to argue if Islam there
		
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			was, Prophets lost limb came in,
they saw you as key people
		
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			becoming Muslim and so on. They
were concerned. So the Quraysh
		
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			wanted to send someone to
seriously speak to the Rasool to
		
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			engage the Prophet regarding his
message, and the impact the
		
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			political there was a wealthy man,
politically influential, well
		
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			traveled, was known to be the
coach of the kings of Roman in
		
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			Persia. And they chose him to be
the leader of Bob into Rasulullah.
		
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			And he said his case very clearly
to the Prophet firmly, clearly,
		
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			and historians document let me you
call Dr. Mohammed Atiba. McGrattan
		
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			worried. What Katara Cohutta
ferrata Mamma Mia Hadith, there
		
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			are so listen to him, did not
interrupt him once, until he
		
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			completed and then when he paused
the Rasul said to him, Acharya
		
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			ferrata ya Abilene, are you now
done a father of a leader you have
		
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			you said would you say he said
none. Now, Muhammad, yes, Ahmed, I
		
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			have done then there are so so
first of all, I mean, now you
		
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			listen to me. And then there are
solid Jaime, Tanzeem in the
		
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			Rahmani Raheem, Kitab and
facilita. To who Quran and Arabic
		
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			and the economy or the moon, the
opening verses of Surah of
		
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			the Prophet it is here you mushrik
who are you? You know you? I am
		
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			the messenger of Allah you listen
to him. The Prophet showed to us,
		
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			the speck begets respect. This is
the foundation, the fundamental
		
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			foundation. If you don't have the
decency to listen to others, how
		
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			can you demand the right to be
heard? Three points for us to
		
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			ponder upon. One. When engaging
people and talking about religion.
		
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			Be communicative without being
abusive.
		
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			Verbalize, don't vulgar eyes, and
if you do argue, take care of your
		
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			temper. Inshallah, your logic if
we have any will take care of
		
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			itself. Listen carefully to what
is being said before responding.
		
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			Otherwise, you may not know
exactly what you're responding to.
		
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			And you may argue, and not really
know what the argument is all
		
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			about, as very often happen in
religious discussions very often,
		
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			to in all discussions, in any
conversation, avoid the aggressive
		
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			Battle Mode. Some people speak as
they're going to walk.
		
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			Let your style be a style of
communication that is gentle
		
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			and appealing.
		
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			No one has appointed any one of us
to be Allah's primary
		
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			spokesperson, you can be movi, or
Mufti or whoever you may be
		
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			wondering appoint you as the
spokesperson.
		
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			And it is not my job or your job
to state in every aspect of the
		
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			real world. Do the best you can.
It's not
		
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			it our job to correct and respond
to every silly comment. No to
		
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			engage in every theological
argument, to respond to every
		
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			political view, or to challenge
every perspective, some people
		
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			think this is their job to do. So
it's not your job to do so. Talk
		
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			to people don't talk at people
don't pontificate, just
		
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			communicate. Third point, it is
our responsibility to convey the
		
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			message to make Dawa
		
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			the message of our faith and the
best way is by example of by our
		
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			words, but nonetheless, do realize
that even if you're debating about
		
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			religion, even if you're inviting
others to religion, just because
		
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			you're doing something which you
deem religious, doesn't mean your
		
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			method is correct. Just by adding
some type B or Bismillah in front
		
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			of something doesn't make it
Islamic. People are killing
		
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			Muslims in the name of Islam
Smilla Allahu Akbar, where the
		
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			shahada on the flag, it doesn't
make it Islamic.
		
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			So just because something is done,
or needs to be done, doesn't mean
		
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			anything that is done in the name
of Islam is correct. We are
		
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			commanded with their son, whatever
we do, in Allah, Allah, Allah has
		
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			prescribed excellence in
everything you do. And therefore
		
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			this was who do row Elizabeth
Rebecca, Bill Hekmati was more
		
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			either to Lhasa, invite others to
the way of Allah with wisdom and
		
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			excellent admonition, what Jordan
whom and if you have to debate and
		
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			argue or judge in humility as an
argue with them only in the best
		
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			possible manner Akula kolyada was
tougher Allah wa salam aleikum wa
		
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			rahmatullah