Sadullah Khan – Let not your religiosity be inconsiderate of others

Sadullah Khan
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The speaker discusses the importance of praying in a way that is not negatively impacting your personal life and may not be as impactful as one might think. They give examples of people who have experienced misery and explain that it is a reflection of one's dedication to pray. The importance of not comparing one with the other is emphasized.
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As we journey through the life of the

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prophet

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obtaining

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invaluable

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inspirations

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through

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from profound lessons,

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from his noble example.

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We know that sometime

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we, as followers of the prophet, in good

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faith,

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may consider

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an expression of religiosity,

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which may not be exactly

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as we think it to be.

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Sometimes

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we know a part of the puzzle,

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but not necessarily the whole picture.

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And we may sincerely insist or argue about

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something

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from a religious perspective

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without understanding the larger picture.

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An example of this is this fear of

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lengthening the prayer, for example, in in congregation

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like Faruk Salah. I don't mean or

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because you understand an entire Jews is recited

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or the Hajj would come specifically for Lenten

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prayer. But I'm talking about the,

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like Jumah or Maghrib or so.

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It is good to pray,

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of course, and always good to pray long

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and to read longer if you wish.

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But don't think it is a better expression

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of your religiosity

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if you lead the prayer

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and impose that lens

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on people who are behind

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you. If you pray your own prayer, you

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pray how long you want to. You read

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the whole of Yahseen in the first raka,

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rakman in the second rakah, by all means

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do so.

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I have known people who have read the

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entire Quran in 2 rakats.

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Good luck to them. May Allah bless them.

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But you can't do that in JAMA.

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Because you may think it's religious and say,

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'Bashallah, my iman is strong.' Then your iman

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is strong. My legs are weak.

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So you need to be very clear about

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this. And it may sound funny, it may

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sound irreligious, but it's not. And I'll give

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you an example.

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You see, it's not uncommon in some parts,

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and may Allah bless all of us.

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Where for example, an imam

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may lengthen the Khutbah.

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And they lengthen the Khutbah well beyond the

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hours,

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which is lunch hour.

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And people work. Some of us imams don't

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go back to work. Maybe that's the the

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work we have.

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Some people have to go back to work,

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and they have a stringent time between 1

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o'clock, a quarter to 1, and 2 o'clock.

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So though people may have to go to

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back to work, some people just lengthened. It

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doesn't matter. And they feel the imam says,

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well, Jumuah is more important than your work.

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No. It's not. Jumuah is important.

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And

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to earn your living is also forb.

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Don't compare one with the other.

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That's forb and that's forb. You have a

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time for Jum'ah, and you know the time.

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It's different that you don't know the time.

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You know the time, so keep to the

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time. Rasul salallahu alaihi wa sallam's

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longest lecture,

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according to calculation,

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according to how he spoke, his speed, and

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so on. And the length of the text,

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11 minutes. The longest lecture for Rasulullah.

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So it can't be sooner to give a

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2 hour lecture.

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So a imam may say, look, prolong the

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jummah.

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It is as if you're putting the imam

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on trial.

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No. Is it more important to go back

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to work or more important to make Jummah?

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Tell your boss, you can wait. Jummah is

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more important.

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Your speech could be shorter, by the way.

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And this is what you call misplaced religiosity.

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Misplaced

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religiosity.

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This is not necessarily piety.

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In fact, it's a reflection of your inconsiderateness.

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And I'll give you reasons.

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One is that let's take a snapshot and

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example in the life of

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Rasulullah

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In Kitabul Adab of Sahih al Bukhari.

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In the section

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of Kitabul Adab in Salah for Imam Imam

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al Bukhari.

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Jabir ibn Abdullah reported

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that Mu'adh ibn Jabal. Remember Mu'adh? The one

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Rasul sent to Yemen? He was very stringent

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after he cooled off a bit, but he

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was very stringent initially. And Mu'adh ibn Jabal

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would pray with the prophet. And then some

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prayers, he'd go to his people, whichever the

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area was, and he would pray.

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So once

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he was leading the prayer in Reh Surat

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Al Baqarah.

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Much of it.

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So this person said no prayers too long.

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Too long. So he broke off the prayer,

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and he went on his own, and he

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prayed and he went because he had to

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do some work.

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So Mu'adh ibn Jabal heard about this. He

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said, the man has become a monafiq.

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How can he break the prayer and pray

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on his own? Which by itself is not

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recommended,

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but it's your inconsiderateness

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that may have led to that.

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So this man left the prayer, offered his

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prayers separately.

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He said, Rasulullah, you Rasulullah, the man came

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to Rasulullah.

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And he said, you Rasulullah,

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I didn't tell you. I prayed behind Mu'adh

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yesterday. And he prayed whole of Baqarah there.

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So I cut it short, and I went

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and I prayed by myself. And he said,

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I'm a munafiq.

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So Rasulullah

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called

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Are you trying to test the people or

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make a trial of their faith through your

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prayer?

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Are you trying to make a trial of

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them? And the hadith in Bukhali said,

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he

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asked him thrice, are you trying to make

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a trial? This prayer, a trial of their

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faith.

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The soul said, read something

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like 8 to 10 verses or something like

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that. Don't have to read the 2

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180 verses.

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So now,

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what we need to reflect upon this is,

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Sahih Muslim

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as to this,

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that

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somebody

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was complaining about the lengthening of a prayer

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of somebody.

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And

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he said, this is a consistent thing. Not

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someone else.

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So and

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the the the the narrator says,

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I've never seen the prophet more angrier in

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his speech than I saw him on that

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day. And no, the prophet very rarely showed

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anger. He said, I've never seen the prophet

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as angry as I saw him when he

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said this. And what did he say?

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You are causing the people to run away

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from the religion.

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You are causing people to run away.

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So when you are leading the prayer, on

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your own you pray, how long you want?

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When you're leading the prayer, make it short,

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make it light.

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Because behind you are people. Some are weak.

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Some are sick. Some are poor. Some are

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in need. They may have to go and

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do something. And the Rasul salallahu alayhi wa

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sallam himself in a hadith documented the Sahih

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al Bukhaal. He said,

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when I enter the prayer sometimes,

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I want to read the wrong piece.

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I want to read the wrong piece. I

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still want to read the wrong piece.

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Then I hear a child crying in the

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Jama'ah.

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Then,

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Then I shortened my prayer just there because

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I know the difficulty and the stress the

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mother goes through when the child cries.

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