Sadullah Khan – Developing a Qur’anic Personality To be and What not be. #26

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The speaker discusses the importance of prioritizing one's values and doing things consistently, rather than just measuring them against others. They also mention the need for more privacy and social media usage, as well as the importance of prioritizing one's own values and doing things consistently. The speaker also provides a Hadith about small and good things being far better than lotion.

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			Developing a Quranic personality
		
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			to be and what not to be.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			said,
		
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			the best of these are those deeds which
		
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			are done consistently
		
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			realize from such prophetic advice
		
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			that more
		
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			is not always better.
		
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			More is not always better.
		
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			Numbers are not the only measure of things.
		
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			Quality is indeed
		
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			far more important
		
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			than quantity.
		
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			We live in a world
		
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			driven by consumerism,
		
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			where the message is always needing more and
		
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			never having enough.
		
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			Remember
		
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			that the world has enough to meet everyone's
		
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			need,
		
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			but the world will never have enough
		
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			to meet anyone's greed.
		
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			The world has enough to meet everyone's need,
		
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			but the world will never have enough to
		
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			meet anyone's greed.
		
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			You see, everything seems quicker.
		
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			Everything seems grander.
		
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			But is everything
		
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			necessarily better?
		
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			We look at ourselves, our minds are filled
		
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			with information,
		
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			but are our hearts filled with empathy?
		
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			We spend so much time on social media,
		
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			but do we have any time for social
		
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			justice?
		
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			We have so much potential
		
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			to express our love and to manifest peace,
		
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			yet we have so much hatred,
		
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			so much prejudice, and so many wars.
		
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			So we must be careful.
		
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			Careful about the contemporary culture.
		
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			The prevailing culture that assumes
		
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			the more you have, the better off you
		
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			are, the happier you will be you will
		
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			feel, and the more secure you will be.
		
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			However,
		
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			the reality of the world around us
		
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			illustrates
		
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			otherwise.
		
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			We find
		
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			that more
		
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			may sometimes
		
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			be less than what we thought.
		
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			More
		
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			may be less
		
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			sometimes than what we thought.
		
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			We may have more information,
		
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			but does not mean we have better judgment.
		
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			Is it not ironic that we have much
		
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			more experts
		
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			but not less problems?
		
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			We have far more medication
		
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			but not necessarily more wellness.
		
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			We have more opportunities,
		
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			but are we more appreciative?
		
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			We have many leaders,
		
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			but do we have better leadership?
		
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			In fact,
		
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			we now have so many beautiful homes, masha'Allah.
		
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			But how many loving homes do we have?
		
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			So far more beautiful and bigger homes,
		
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			but far less loving homes.
		
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			We have more means of communication with anyone
		
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			anywhere,
		
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			yet we seem to have less attachment with
		
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			people who are around us. We have more
		
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			access to knowledge,
		
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			but do we have greater wisdom?
		
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			We have far more information at our fingertips,
		
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			but are we better informed?
		
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			We are swimming, it seems, in the ocean
		
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			of information,
		
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			yet sometimes drowning in the seas of ignorance.
		
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			As a matter of fact,
		
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			if we look at ourselves,
		
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			from our parents and our grandparents,
		
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			we have higher incomes for sure, but we
		
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			also have more debts.
		
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			We have more conveniences
		
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			but yet no peace of mind or happiness.
		
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			Numerous time saving devices.
		
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			Where is the free time?
		
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			We have more religious centers, churches, synagogues and
		
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			mosques.
		
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			We have far more religious
		
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			institutions and centers
		
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			but have we produced better human beings?
		
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			We have far higher pay,
		
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			but do we have higher morals?
		
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			We have more fame, but it seems less
		
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			dignity.
		
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			We have more guards and guns,
		
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			yet less safety and security.
		
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			We have far more human beings,
		
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			we have less humanity, it seems. We have
		
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			more anger, less empathy,
		
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			less love, more hate. We are quick to
		
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			judge
		
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			and slow to forgive.
		
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			People seem more depressed,
		
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			more lonely,
		
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			more overwhelmed,
		
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			more burnt out, more stressed out, more hooked
		
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			on legal pills and illegal drugs than ever
		
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			before.
		
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			So yes, we have multiplied our possessions,
		
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			but we have reduced our values.
		
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			We condemn too much,
		
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			love to love to sell them, and hate
		
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			too often. We condemn too much, critical, you
		
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			see. Love to sell them and hate too
		
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			often. We've learned to make a living, but
		
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			how many of us
		
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			have learned how to live
		
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			a full life?
		
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			You see, if we really want more from
		
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			our lives,
		
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			we must prioritize.
		
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			We must prioritize
		
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			in the spirit
		
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			of purification and moral rejuvenation.
		
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			Let's complain less and appreciate more.
		
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			Let's frown less and smile a bit more.
		
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			Criticize less and give credit and praise a
		
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			bit more.
		
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			Fear less,
		
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			and instill less fear, and hope more.
		
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			Judge less, and care more.
		
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			Take less,
		
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			and give more, talk less and do more,
		
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			hate less and love more.
		
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			I leave you with a hadith of Rasulullah.
		
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			Rasulullah
		
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			What is little and good and sufficient
		
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			is far better than the lot,
		
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			for it's little but good and sufficient.
		
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			Is far better than a lot which may
		
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			be destructively
		
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			distracting.