Sadullah Khan – 27th Post Witr Talk Ramadaan 1444 2023

Sadullah Khan
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The importance of graduation and humility in achieving better deeds is emphasized in the Christian community. The speaker stresses the importance of not misusing words and not reacting to angry situations, as it is difficult to notice one's own faults. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of graduation and humility in achieving better deeds, even as one may not know their own rights.
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In the name of Allah most gracious most

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merciful all praise is due to our Creator,

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Cherisher, Nourish, and Sustainer.

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Prophet

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in this hadith,

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he says, they comes to you the blessed

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month of Ramadan.

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Indeed,

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we are in the last days of that

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month.

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Farooqullahu alaykum

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siyamah,

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Allah has prescribed fasting, made obligatory fasting for

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those who are able

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to fast during this month,

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and that is almost coming

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to conclusion.

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This month contains

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a night

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greater in value than a 1000 months,

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and that night

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the Prophet

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said,

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of Ramadan,

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and tonight

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is one of those nights.

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A month mentioned in the Quran in relation

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to the Quran,

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a night mentioned in the Quran

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in relation to the Quran.

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Both

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the month is the only month mentioned by

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name in the Quran,

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mentioned in relation to the Quran

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and of course the sacred night.

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It has a night. It contains a night

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greater in value, in spiritual value

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than 83 years, which is more than a

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ordinary an ordinary human life.

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And perchance,

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we connect to the power

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of that night of power, which is the

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Quran is a conduit

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of which Allah is the ultimate source of

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that power.

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It's hoped

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that we on this night and these nights

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repent for our past,

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the sins we may have committed, the wrongs

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we have done,

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and positively

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focus

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on our future.

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And we do so with

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revived

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commitment

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and a heightened degree

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of spirituality,

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insha'Allah.

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We are now

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coming to conclusion of our series.

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Moral guidance

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from everyday experiences.

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There's an incident that I want us to

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reflect upon.

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There was a lecture

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advertised in London of a prominent Muslim speaker.

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And, of course, many people

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queued up to attend, and

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a group of young guys were waiting to

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enter the hall

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when one of them noticed

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a young lady that was not so well

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dressed.

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Not, I mean,

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dressed,

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appropriately what he felt. She had a tight

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jeans on and nose scarf and short sleeve.

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And he wanted to go tell her that

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she should have dressed properly and that his

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friend said, Don't. It's not your business. Leave

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her. You know, she came. He says, No,

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but she's coming to an Islamic lecture. It's

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not like she's going to a movie or

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to the mall. She's going to an Islamic

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lecture. She should know. She should best appropriately

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just not on.

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And they somehow eventually convinced him, please just

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don't belittle her, you know, just don't say

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anything. Nonetheless,

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he was very angry.

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And they went into the hall and the

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speaker spoke, alhamdulillah,

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took some questions,

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answered as best as he could.

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And then the guys noticed that the young

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lady was also standing in line to ask

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a question.

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When her turn came to ask the question,

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she said,

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I don't have a question.

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I just want to become a Muslim.

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And she took the shahada,

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and we know the prophet

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said,

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Embracing Islam

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removes the sin of the past, hadith documented

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in the Sahih of Imam Muslims.

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As they came out,

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the friends told this angry guy, the angry

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friend of theirs,

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imagine you spoke to her and belittled her

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before the lecture.

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She may have gone home,

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but now

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she goes home better than all of us,

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having embraced Islam and free from sin.

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With regard to this, it doesn't mean if

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somebody is not doing something right, you shouldn't

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tell them.

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Don't get me wrong because don't misuse this

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what I'm saying now. I'm just saying, the

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question is about how sometimes we are judgmental

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about things, and we get angry about some

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things.

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And very often, we see the faults of

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other people, and we should rectify where we

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can in an amicable manner. But sometimes we

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become so upset about the faults of other

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people,

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but very rarely do we notice our own

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faults. Or

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we are quick to reprimand other people,

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but get upset when other people

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regard to this kind of situation that I

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want us to reflect on the words

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documented by Imam Abu Hamid al Ghazali Rahimahullah,

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a saying which some attribute

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to Sayyid Abu Qadir al Jilaniqaddasallahu

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Sira,

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words that offer advice

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embodying the highest standard

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of social humility.

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So here, the wording is,

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Anyone who considers himself

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superior to others,

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he is arrogant.

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The arrogant person, the sign of an arrogant

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person, when he gives advice,

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he embarrasses, humiliates. He take pleasure in belittling

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the other person, to mortify the other person.

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But when he is advised,

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he gets upset.

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It becomes rude sometimes.

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On the other hand,

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The humble person is that person. When he

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meets anyone, he assumes in his mind, there

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must be some way this man is better

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than me or this person is better than

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If he sees a child, he says the

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child is so small, innocent, he has not

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had much time for sin, he has not

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sinned, so because of that, he is better

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than

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me. When he meets someone

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when he meets someone

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who's elder or bigger,

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he says he must be better than me

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because he's been worshiping Allah and serving a

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lot long before me, so he must be

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better than me.

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When he meets a person who's knowledgeable,

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he says, Allah has given him what I

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don't have. He has reached a station which

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I haven't reached. He knows what I don't

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know. How could I be better than him?

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Then he meets someone

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who's ignorant.

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This person who is ignorant, he may have

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sinned against Allah, but he sins out of

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ignorance.

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I know what is wrong and right, and

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I still sin. So Allah's case is stronger

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against me than against him, so he must

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be better than me.

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If he's a person who's not a believer,

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he'll say, I do not know. Perhaps he'll

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become a Muslim, and his life will change.

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And he'll end up in life doing better

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good deeds, and better deeds than me.

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And perchance,

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Allah will remove all his sins.

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And then at the end of life he

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may be closer to Allah

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than I am, so he

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could be better than me.

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You see, besides listening to the

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absolutely beautiful melodious attestation

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with passive attention,

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Passive attention.

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May we be inspired

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to the implementation of Qur'anic values,

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leading to our personal transformation.

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This is what Ramadan is all about. Asa'i'on,

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spiritual journey, individually.

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We need to reflect the prophetic righteousness

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which was manifested in his personal engagement

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and in his dealings with society.

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His etiquette of social interaction

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was empowering

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rather than controlling,

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inspiring

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rather than dictating,

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uplifting

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rather than judging,

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seeking commitment

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rather than dominance.

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He ignited the moral imagination

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and the spiritual consciousness

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of those people who were around him. Therefore,

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he could take a shepherd boy like Abdullah

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ibn Mas'ud,

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a noble woman like Khadija,

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a slave like Bilal,

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a nurse like Umaiman, a foreigner like Salman

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al Faleesi, a wealthy man like Abu Bakr,

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a Jew like Abdullah bin Salam, an outcast

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like Juleibib, and embrace them equally in his

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companionship

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with respect,

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with dignity, and with compassion.

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The prophet taught us

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righteousness

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by his example.

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That to be good,

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you don't have to be judgmental.

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To be good, you don't have to be

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judgmental.

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To be equal, you don't all have to

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be the same.

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To be firm, you don't have to be

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inconsiderate.

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To be in charge, you don't have to

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be oppressive.

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To be right, you don't have to be

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rude.

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To rectify,

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you don't have to be demeaning.

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To be religious,

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you don't have to be self righteous.

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I leave you

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in conclusion of the series.

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I leave you with the dua of the

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person most beloved to the prophet

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his daughter Fatima, who often made this du'a.

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Well, Allah,

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humble in me my estimation of myself.

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Humble in me my estimation of myself.

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And magnify in me

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magnify in me the consciousness of your grandeur.

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Humble in me my opinion of myself

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and magnify in me the consciousness

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of your grandeur.

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Allahumma

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innaqahafuwun,

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tuhibulaaafua'afuwana.

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Oh Allah,

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expunge our sins.

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You are the one who loves to pardon,

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so pardon us.

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