Saad Tasleem – Shaadi Season – Episode 04 – My Bollywood Wedding

			Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. If you want to know how a Muslim should be when it
comes to putting on a wedding party or spending towards a wedding party, all you have to do is take
a look at what law has said and sort of turn on when he describes the a bad man are the servants of
the Merciful.
		

			There are those who alladhina either unfuckable Lemieux sifu that when they spend, they don't do a
soft or they're not excessive. What am ye potato? And nor neither? Neither are they miserly or
stingy? What can I baina daddy got a llama. And they are moderate in between those two extremes,
neither neither excessive nor miserly. They find that balance between those two extremes. And in
this ayah we see that ISAF is indeed something which is blameworthy something which is wrong, but it
sort of really differs from person to person. And this depends on their means islamically sawed off
is actually two things, either number one is the office to spend your money on something, which is
		

			how long or to spend beyond your capabilities. And I'll say that again, either to spend on something
which is how long or to spend beyond your capability. Now when it comes to weddings, if you're
spending on your wedding, on something, which is how long then you fall into this off, or if you're
spending on your wedding beyond your limits. Then once again, you have fallen into a sauce, and
you've heard a lot there's a lot of wisdom. last panel tiada has forbidden his stuff are forbidden
this excessiveness for example excessiveness very easily leads to arrogance as something which is a
terrible trait for a Muslim to have. And as a practice that I'm told us about that a person who has
		

			even a tiny amount of his butt off, or sorry, tiny amount of arrogance will not enter Paradise. And
somehow law for some people, the wedding actually becomes a competition. They start competing, this
person spent so much on their wedding, can I spend more this person divided 200 people can I invite
400, these people had that type of decoration Can I have better types of declaration, they had this
type of food can I have better food, and so on and so forth, you see what this is going, and some
how to love, if you're not careful, it's very easy to fall into this type of stuff. And for the
groom, or whoever is paying for the wedding party, this wedding can easily become a burden. And just
		

			like when it comes to the Maha, when spending on the wedding becomes a burden, it leads to problems
in the future. And this is why the presses send them similar to the mahato. With the nicaea. He said
as well that the best type of kneecap is the one which is the easiest, easiest being the least
burdensome or being affordable. Now we've talked about this before, but just like with resentment
can become an issue. Let me explain. Let's say someone ends up spending on their wedding more than
what they're capable of spending. And that causes them to have financial difficulty when the
marriage starts or during their during their wedding or during their marriage. And then because they
		

			spent so much on a single day or days if you're they see, then they may end up resenting their wife
or their parents or their in laws or whoever encouraged them to spend this much on their wedding.
You see the problem here. When it comes to our finances, Pamela we should be very, very careful. And
finances can quickly become an unanticipated problem in weddings and panel even though it's one of
the leading causes of divorce. And by the way, the resentment is not specific to the groom. It can
be felt by whoever is paying for the wedding, whether it be the parents, or anyone else they may
resent their children or they may resent you know their their son in law or their daughter or
		

			whoever encourage them to spend this type of money on the wedding. Now, the point here is, think
beyond this one day. Think about how having this extravagant type of wedding may affect your heart,
how it may affect your character, how it may affect your relationships, how it may affect your
future, and how it may affect the Buttercup or blessings in your marriage and loss how doTERRA knows
best until next time insha Allah, Allah Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh