Saad Tasleem – Intimacy in Ramadan

			Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh welcome to episode number six of preparing for Ramadan.
Today we're going to be talking about intimacy during this month now I know this topic makes some
people a little bit uneasy. Some people may not want their kids to watch and all that. So I'm just
letting you know ahead of time that we're gonna be discussing some sensitive materials or some
sensitive topics here. And if I were to rate this episode, I'd rated PG or pG 13. Somewhere around
that. Alright, getting right into it. In the previous episode, we talked about those things that
would break a person's fast and we mentioned one of them was sexual * and the like. Now,
		

			this is taken from the Hadith of the person who sent him in which a man comes to the parser send
them and he says, oh, messenger of Allah, I am doomed. The rest of them said, Why? He said, because
I had * with my wife. During the day during Ramadan, the process they sent him said to
him, Are you able to free a slave? He said, No. And the President said, Are you able to fast for two
months consecutively? He said, No. Then I said, I said, Are you able to feed 60 poor people? And he
said, No, at that point, they waited for some time until someone brought the precious item a pail of
dates, the first time took that payload, he gave it to this man, he said, go feed the poor, the man
		

			replied and said O Messenger of Allah, there is not a single household in Medina that is poor than
my own household. And I said, I'm smiled with this and then told this man, go feed your family. Now
a couple things we learn from attendees, first of all, is that sexual * would break a
person's fast. Second of all, is the expiation for having * while fasting during Ramadan.
So what is the explanation First of all, bring a slave that doesn't apply to us. So we move right on
to number two, which is fasting for two months consecutively. However, if a person is unable to do
that, then it is permissible for the person to feed 60 poor people and even in that case, that
		

			person is not able to they can afford to feed 60 poor people, then in this case, this explanation
would drop upon the person, the person that simply makes up that fast now this explanation only
applies to a person who has certain conditions fulfilled number one has to be during the month of
Ramadan. So if a person is making up a fast from Ramadan, outside of the month of Ramadan, and they
happen to have * with their spouse, this expiation would not apply to them, they simply
make up that fast. Second of all, it has to be a person who fasting is obligatory upon and also the
person must be someone who doesn't have a reason for not fasting. So if the person for example, was
		

			sick, and they decided to fast anyway, or they were traveling, and they decided to fast anyway, and
then this happened, then this expiation would not apply to them. Lastly, actual * has to
take place. So it can't be things like foreplay or things like that it has to be actual *.
It is only in that case that this exploration would apply to this person. Now let's talk about some
of the other thing, common interaction or intimacy between spouses, touching, kissing, caressing,
all of that is permissible, it's allowed and actually has been narrated to us a person and would
actually kiss his wives during the day during the month of Ramadan while he was fasting. So there's
		

			nothing wrong with that kind of stuff. As long as a person doesn't fear that * or a
release of seminal fluid may occur. So a release of * or seminal fluid, if it happens
intentionally, then it does indeed break a person's fast something like *, for example,
that's an intentional case. So * does break the person's past the person has to make up
that fast. However, if it happens unintentionally, then a person is not responsible for that that
doesn't break their fast they simply continue in there fast. An example of that would be something
like nocturnal emission or a * that release of * or seminal fluid didn't happen
		

			intentionally that was out of a person's control. So in that case, they would not make up their fast
and they continue in there fast and it is not broken. last issue I'm gonna discuss is pre seminal
fluid or the release of pre seminal fluid, does that break a person's fast or not? The answer is no,
it does not but a person should be careful that that doesn't lead to a release of actual * or
seminal fluid. So that's a quick overview of intimacy during the month of Ramadan and what is
permissible and what is not permissible and what breaks it fast and what doesn't and as always was
kind of touted knows best I'll see you all in the next episode inshallah. Giada take care we'll set
		

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